My Husband says he never or rarely ever feels anger or sadness, which is a little funny because he married me, i suffer from depression. So i was wondering if there a name for that? is it mental illness or chemical imbalance?

Me and this girl have chemistry. She was excited when I finally asked her out. Everything was going well until she fell ill. Then she dropped the 'lets be friends' Things were awkward for a little bit. But it's gone back to how it was originally where we flirted etc. I want to ask her out again, but I don't want to look like an idiot and get rejected. How should I approach it?

Me and this girl have chemistry. She was excited when I finally asked her out. Everything was going well until she fell ill. Then she dropped the 'lets be friends' Things were awkward for a little bit. But it's gone back to how it was originally where we flirted etc. I want to ask her out again, but I don't want to look like an idiot and get rejected. How should I approach it?

I found put my spoues has be cheating on me. There is no love or trust in my family. I feel like i am in jail while hes out in the world having fun. My spouse has 5 phones! I cant keep up with him. I have 2 boys, One is 2 years old the other one is 6 years old. My 6 year old is my child from a past divorce. He says he doesn't like his step dad. (My spouse). I only have my 6year old on the weekands. That was my decision. I feel like i am being used. My spouse tells me he loves me and buys me everything... But... I dont feel like hes is not the one... Clearly hes been cheating on me and even tells me he wants me gone... Then he tells me he didnt mean it? I have to go i feel. If i go i will be moving back home to my parent's for now until i can be stable. Its out of state thou. I have no trust for this guy... I live in a state that i have no one to help me in... Should i leave my boys for some time and strive to make it back to them? Or should i just wait till they are grown? I will be 38 when they will be old enough. Thats almost my Whole life...!.... I am very depressed how can i be a happy mother? I do not like drugs so not anti depressants.. Thanks for your input. Peace to the world.

My wife cries after we make love. Why does she do this ? How can I help her feel better ?

Do you feel overcome with guilt or no different at all? Do you end your affair with this other woman you've also grown to love or do you keep sleeping with both women? How does your anniversary make you feel knowing you've been unfaithful over and over again for 2 years?

I've been married 3 years. Together for 10. My husband has a medical condition which affects our sex life. We have sex maybe half a dozen times per year. I love him and he's an amazing person. He cooks, cleans, he's a hard worker, the only thing lacking is our sex life due to his medical condition. I thought about seeing other men but I just can't do it while I'm married to him so I told him I want a divorce. He's quite mad and said some hurtful things to me, he won't speak to me and is hardly home anymore. Am I wrong?

So I need some advice...my boyfriend doesn t work or do anything around the house. I work full time, cook, clean, take care of the kids, everything. He doesn t even clean up after himself and when I mention that I should not be doing all this stuff myself and he could at least clean his own messes, do his own laundry, he throw a fit and says I m bitching and nagging. Now he does watch the kids while I m at work but that s it and it s bare minimum. If I have the house all cleaned when I leave I come home to messes everywhere and the kids hungry. He says he can t watch them and do things at the same time. He refuses to even look for a job. The more I bring up these things the more irritated he gets and says he will just leave. My initial thought is good go but I work 3rd shift and won t have anyone to watch the kids if he leaves. I m at my wit s end feeling like I m being used and taken advantage of but stuck at the same time. I d also like to know if you think it s justifiable or Petty if I say I m not buying him things anymore and if I change the wifi password so he can t play video games every waking moment.

I need your opinions. Try take this personality/circumstances as if you are solely the person described. If you are a hot-headed person, blame yourself in everything, not aware of your surroundings (only thinking your side), A complete opposite of an optimistic person. Retired or jobless. On the good side, you want to help your family. So your really helping them with all you can and what you have, like daily choirs... taking your wife's half household choirs. As you finish, you feel like theirs no one in the family that appreciates you from what your doing. You think that you really are USELESS. You started to have an affair with somebody poor. And the mistress' family are always asking money from you. You found yourself useful to them. So you love them and gave them what they need. Soon, your family discovered and you fought. You blame the family for all of the things that you said they have never appreciated. The effort you put in helping your family out with what you can. After that you decided to move out to... to the family you have affair on. End of Story I really need your opinion so I decide to put words that will somehow make you feel like the person stated. I'm not a psychologist or anything so I would really want to know what will you be thinking after the you moved out the house. THE EXACT feeling or what come through your mind. Confused, blaming your true family so you would not think of your own mistake. Jst gvng u my thoughts. So u can conclude urs. rl stry tho

I found out while I was using her MacBook for some editing and her iMessage notification were going off. I feel bad for invading her privacy, but once I saw they were from a guy that I've never met nor even heard mention of, asking my wife to leave work early and meet him for drinks, I decided to read through the chat history. Again I feel guilty about doing this, but I was a little curious about what was going on. Her response to that was 'I totally wish that I could, but I'm stuck in meetings all afternoon' he says 'oh that sucks, but u can't back out next time :) ' to which my wife replies with a gif of a woman shaking her boobs with a drink in her hand. I think that is a very weird thing for a married woman to send another guy. Anyway the texting was off and on over a few days and mainly friendly to flirty banter. Fast forward a couple days and he asks her again to meet him after work for drinks. My wife replies 'bad timing, I have other plans already, but we will definitely get together soon' His response was 'alright, don't forget about me' and my wife replied 'I could never forget about you. If we don't get a chance to go out before I start my new job, I'll come into the city one night after work and we'll have drinks' What are your thoughts on this? I am I being insecure? One night she will tell me that she is going to happy hour with old friends, but it will really be to see this guy. She would ABSOLUTELY have an issue if I went out with another girl

Me and my wife have been married for a year she's scared to have sex. She doesn't like it because she's really tight I'm bigger than her she said it hurts. We do it maybe once or twice a month or when we feel like it since she's pregnant she wants us to stop. How can I help her feel more comfortable about it ?

15 years older than me....I do not need any smart azz responses, if I get them, I will report them...I need help....my husband is and yes I know, when you get older you get meaner, he is!!!! We do not have kids, THANK GOD FOR THAT...no family on either side....I cannot handle his aggressive mean behavior anymore...no physical abuse, mental......he follows me around the house, no matter what I do, he has to start an argument over what ever it is I am doing...any help, any would be greatly appreciated...we do not have a lot of resources where we live....most of us lives on 5 acres, neighbors are not close...please help....and THANK YOU!

So I'm driving upstate with my girlfriend to meet her parents on Sunday. Some of her extended family is going to be there and we're having dinner out just her parents, her, and I. I'm nervous because I'm meeting a lot of her family at once and because of the dinner out that follows. I feel like I'm going to have to talk about myself and there really isn't a lot of good things to say, pretty much all my background might scare them off. I come from a broken home, I grew up poor, my parents stayed together in a very messy marriage, my only brother is in prison, and I moved away for college and my contact with them all has been limited. I can go on and on about this, and I've actually told my girlfriend most all of it. I'm not refined or anything, and I feel like they're going to see through me. I'm not a bad person, but I'm as "other side of the tracks" as can be. Is it possible for me to just not talk a lot without seeming weird? And should I bring a gift when I go see them? Thanks in advance, I know it's a lot.