so i left to my home. is this right? I told him I dont want to see his friernds. I told him when he wants to chill with them, let me know so I can stay at my house first. But dont bring them while your chilling with me. Isnt that rude? I want it like this because hes a very social person with lots of friends. Which is ok but I beern with him 3 years and sick of seeing his friends. I started resenting seeing them all the time. So I put this new rule now. That Im following because before I wasnt able to follow it. So now I told him pick the days you will chill with them and let me know ahead of time so I stay home and make other plans. But like today he told me to come over his house so I did but then his friends called and my boyfriend allowed him to come. So I got up and left. I think its enough already of this. Call me selfish, or anti social I dont care. is it?

Can you live in the same house if legally seperated in Tennessee due to finances and other issues? Both spouses live and stay in different rooms for past several years but can't afford separate houses quite yet. Thanks!

I get into fights with my wife and the only way to end the conflict is to get in her face. That is the only way she backs down is if I get in her face and scream do you want to fight? Then I pick up a chair and slam it and send her running. She then turns into the perfect homemaker for 6 months until she needs her dose. Sometimes I have to grab her by the face or act like I am about to hurt the dog. It's almost like we have to have an explosive fight to have peace. Why do women feel that they have to push a man to this face to be submissive?

10+ years Married couple with 2 year old son...we both need to find ourselves should we separate?.....My husband cheated on me 1 year ago. I didn't let him move back in until after 2 months it happened. we are currently post 1 year from when it happened and he says he needs to find himself....I feel like I somewhat need to find myself too. Since living together for the past year we've had a lot of lovey dovey moments and others were not so good....suggestions and advice (other than therapy) and i'd love to get advice from couples who have been in our situations......

He always wants me to sleep naked even though wears pjs. He also licks my breasts atleast once a day and sucks on them atleast 3x a day...it's worse on weekends

My husband is AD In the Army and he's currently deployed. Our marriage is basically hanging on thin thread and there has been a couple of " I'm done " from the both of us during this deployment. I have trust issues because of things he's done years ago while I was pregnant (prior to the military) and I Often fear that the past will repeat itself. Nonetheless it causes a lot of tension and arguments between us. Im always feeling like he's always doing something bad and when I express It to him he blows up because he's tired of having to suffer from a mistake he made years ago.. anyway. I've been looking into enlisting in the airforce. I've hired a tutor to refresh my memory since I've been out of high school for almost 5 years and haven't had to use any of what I learned there in the college courses I've taken. Basically I told him about it and he told me that if I enlist fine, but not to expect him to be there for me. We have a daughter together and that really hurts that he wouldn't support me since I've been there for him since day 1 in the army. What should I do? I feel like he will leave me at any time so why not secure a future for myself ?

He decided he would take me to a concert 4 1/2 hours away. He didn't consult me. He had no intentions of doing a little sightseeing while we were there. Now he has spent the money and we aren't going because now he doesn't want to go. He normally won't spend more than $50 for my presents but will spend hundreds to go to a concert. He always says he's broke but will gladly spend money on himself. I don't see getting much of anything for my birthday present now that he blew his money on himself (the concert). I know I should be grateful to get any present but he's done this before. He never asks me what I want and I usually only get junk. I've tried to tell him what to get me (under $50) but he ignores my requests. I'm tired of acting like I like his gifts. I didn't want to go to the concert, spend the night and not get to visit the city before we came home. Am I wrong to be upset?

I found out that she pocketed the cash, gave it to another girlfriend to have her buy her some high end yoga pants. I confronted my wife but she wouldn't admit it until cornered. This is an ongoing issue with covert shopping and everytime she tells me she's scared to ask because I might say no. Truth is I always buy her what she wants. ...and she has money from a part time job that she uses to pay down her 4K in credit card debt from shopping. I cannot trust her anymore even though I still love her. What should I do?

10+ years Married couple with 2 year old son...we both need to find ourselves should we separate?.....My husband cheated on me 1 year ago. I didn't let him move back in until after 2 months it happened. we are currently post 1 year from when it happened and he says he needs to find himself....I feel like I somewhat need to find myself too. Since living together for the past year we've had a lot of lovey dovey moments and others were not so good....suggestions and advice (other than therapy) and i'd love to get advice from couples who have been in our situations......