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Me and my wife have been married for a year we don't have any kids yet. We don't have sex as much as we should she doesn't really like it. She's tight I'm pretty big it kind of scares her. We have it maybe once or twice a month. How often should we do it ?

So we're getting married in 2 weeks always been truthful and faith to her I love her a lot I'm in school for 3 days for Toyota training which is in New Jersey I drive back and forth every time I got to school so we're sitting down eating dinner and she asks how was school I replied it was good I am a lil quiet I was tired 2 and half hours of traffic is no fun , so her question was do they take attendence like you don't have to show up when u go to school I replied u have to attend to get credit and about 5 mins later she asked your bay door had a car in it at work and do other ppl use your bay are u allowed to do that because she drives by once and awhile for here work, I've been with her for 6 years and idk why seems like she doesn't trust me I mean idk if I should ask her what was the meaning of these type of questions , I mean her work ends at 5 but she's not home till 7 I don't question her on that cause I trust her ,not sure if I should confront and talk about why she ask these question or just leave it alone I mean i truthful that I goto school but if she doesn't trust me for some reason why are we getting married

What do I do or what do I tell her?

I live alone, make great money, and I'm happily single. Why do people get married? It seems pointless for men. 3/4th of marriages fail. And everyone is on the woman's side in court. Men lose all their stuff because they signed the contract. So what is the point of it? It seems more beneficial for the woman to get married. What is the benefit in it for the man? Why can't two people just be in a relationship without the contract?

I just got married to my wife I do love her but her past of sex and drugs does bother me. She has and numberous sex partners men and women. it makes me really sad to think she did the stuff she did because she is such a good person. My question is there anything I can do to overcome it like will time heal it?

So to start i recorded an audio of wife having an affair. Listening was a bad idea though needed to be sure. I am still recording though nothing else has happened just talking to him on phone. Now my biggest issue is we have three kids. I love them to death and dont want to leave. Now the next issue is that im an illegal immigrant and in the process to get resident. My issue is if i leave i lose that opportunity to become a resident. I feel if i tell her i have proof and that she better stop this or im gone she will just say leave. So far she is still pro fixibg my papers we have a lawyer and the paperwork is in. Now we just need to wait for half a year. Should i just ignore whats happening and hope for the best. Or leave and leave everything like my kids and papers. Please help i feel desperate. I try to be the best father and husband. It hurts so much know what i know any help. God bless

He is sometimes really nice, but other times just laughs a little at me like I am a stupid child etc This didnt grate on me so much when I was younger, but I am now nearly fifty, and he talks about what HE wants in the future, and when I suggest what i want he either switches off, or just pushes me aside like my future doesnt matter. I am so sick of his attitude, My father died last year, and because I am nearing fifty, I want to make the most of my life, he doesnt seem interested, wants to go off travelling alone, and expects to come back to my nice dinners and cosy home, he was always a selfish twot, but I cant deal with this anymore, I have told him how I feel, i think I should go off alone myself and find a bit of totty ( that is british for a bit on the side) ha ha, except I am not laughing anymore wow , it seems like the answer person who does not give their name knows so much about me, yes, I have a family, and we have problems, but at least I HAVE a life unlike you, who has obviously been looking at my questions in detail, dont YOU have anything better to do? If we all ran away from people in our lives instead of seeking advice, I guess we would be like you, alone and just searching the internet for people to criticise, you dont just run in this life, you try and sort things...

I ran into my former mother in law at a mall and she told me her daughter, my ex, was getting married again. She told me who she was marrying and he was a casual acquaintance. I thought it was appropriate to send her a nice wedding gift and wish her and her new husband a long and happy married life. She thanked me for the gift but said not to contact her again as her husband did not want her in contact with other men especially me. I emailed her back and said I understood and I would not contact her again as I did not want to cause any problem with her marriage. About 4 months later I got a call from my ex's new husband wanting my help to get his computer back up running. He said "I know this is unusual but will you help me". Unusual, I thought it was weird. However I thought why make a enemy when you can make a friend so I agreed to help him and I told him how to fix his computer. He seemed happy. The last thing he said was "Please don't tell my wife I called you" and I said OK. He has called me a few more times asking for help with his computer and each time I helped him and each time he ask me not to tell his wife he had called. I am not sure how I should feel about this. He doesn't want his wife to talk to me but it is OK if he talks to me. Should I stop helping him with his problems until his wife knows about this. Advice please on what I should do.