We had agreed we'd have grilled food (almost like BBQ) catered for our wedding. Today my fiance texts me saying: "Let's forget about the BBQ idea. I talked with my parents and they said they'll take care of the catering and we don't have to worry about it. They also think that grilled food won't be a classy idea for a wedding, so they will have a different kind of buffet served. They said we should focus on the other things for the wedding and they'll take care of the food" I was mad and was yelling at him for making a decision without consulting with me. Then he said "Babe, they're taking a burden off of us. They want to focus on the catering so we don't have to" I'm angry, and he says I shouldn't be. Who do you agree with?