I'm known as a whore by people in myneighborhood, my best friend stop talking to me because I couldn't pay her money I owed her, I don't have a support system at home, ive never talked with my mom about my love life, ive been with24 different guys, I have tried to work in several different jobs and failed because I lack social skills, I don't have enough money to live independently I'm forced to live with my parents who are hard on me, I never make friends anywhere I go, I am nice and people say I'm pretty but I'm starting to get wrinkles, i cant keeps boyfriend, therefore i cant move in with one because i don't have one. i have one friend that that always makes me listen to her but never listens to what i have to say, i have no reason to leave my bed ive tried to improve where i am in life but for some reason i always end up back where i am. i am calm patient nice diligent and yet i still have no job no friends no one to confide in no one who listens to me nothing i have parents who yell and shout and scream all the time. growing up i was never allowed to speak so over time i just stopped speaking and stopped having any confidence, no one likes me i really don't see any reason i should live on any more, ive already made my mark on the world as someone who has tried her hardest most honest effort and is in a constant state of not winning despite many efforts to improve i fail a lot and everytime i am a loser and i don't see how or why i should continue this misery

He doesn't know your name but you often patronise the cafe he work as and ordered food and go home, he is around your age, you often wear casual wear to buy food and he still greets you until one day, you dressed up and made up, he starts to call you by the name pretty lady, every time he see me, he always greet me hey pretty lady, so am I really pretty to him or he just trying to make me happy so I patronise the cafe ( he works there) , there is no commission involved btw. So my questions is - if a guy call a woman pretty lady , does it mean she is really pretty or it is just a term

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So 1 for the first time didn't t bring me a gift for another party I had and said she would later but never did. The other has already done the same thing 3 other times and never brought me a gift. Am I being stingy for wanting a gift this time? I have always invited them because we have known each other for years. TIA to all who answer

My mom seems to be acting strange lately. And I don't want it to seem like I hate her. I really don't. I just want her to be happy and my family to be happy. I got a pretty bad grade in one of my classes earlier this year (I'm in high school) and I got my phone taken away for that. It was fine after that but now she has started putting passwords on the computers so that I can't use certain apps, and changing our browsers to weird ones. They took away the TV downstairs, and have started putting passwords on certain shows on netflix, like pg-13 ones, and I've always been allowed to watch them. I feel like she has been annoyed with me lately and doesn't want to talk to me. Sometimes she'll start acting weird, like off, and will be mad at all of us it seems. I have 3 dogs, two little ones and a big one, and it seems like she only likes the little ones, which doesn't seem like a big deal but my big dog has been really hungry lately and so I've been sneaking her extra food because I'm worried she's not being fed. And she could be being fed and just extra hungry and I don't want to accuse her of anything. My older sisters had been feeling like she hated them and so they came and talked to her and they got in this huge fight with a lot of yelling but I feel bad because I told one of them that my mom had said some mean things behind their back which had happened a while ago and now I feel like a snitch. I'm worried that my parents aren't getting along and I just want them to be happy

I m your average 15 year old girl, always trying to do things with her friends. But it s gotten to the point to where if I m not doing anything, I get extremely upset. For example, last night I went to the mall with some of my friends to hang, and once it was over I went to my friends house to spend the night. But this morning I went home and I asked my mom if we could do something today and she replied with "I m sorry but we are a bit to busy today." I immediantly started crying and I don t know why. It upsets me if i can t do anything. It doesn t even have to be with my friends, just anything at all, as long as it is away from my house. It s gotten so bad recently I ve started getting frustrated with it easily. I just want to know why I feel this way and what I can do to help it.

Put yourself in the perspective of the manager. My friend recently got a job working at the movie theater. On his first day of working there, supposedly, he had been doing all of the work while his co-worker supposedly slacked off. Immediately after, my friend goes home and tells his mother that he was doing all of the work while the other employee just sat around. The next day, as his mother was driving him to work, she went into the company and spoke with the manager personally, telling him that her son was not hired to do all of the work while another one lazes around. Her son, my friend, didn't know she spoke to the manager and he ended up getting sent home early that day. What are some possible reasons he was sent home and what the manager likely thinks of him now?

So my friend bought something off of me, and I told them that they can pay me back anytime, in installments if they like. They paid one installment almost right away. Several months pass and I'm not sure that they remember that they owe me money. I'm on good terms with this friend but haven't known them for very long. I don't want to sound like a jerk. How do I remind them that they still owe me money without sounding like I'm trying to shake them down?

I have a terrible habit of when I see a fight brewing and the two parties involve operating on a misunderstanding. I try to mediate and get them on the same page so that a conflict/fight isn t nessecary. Thing is no one listens to me and things just end up worse. I always end up getting yelled at by both sides like I am the one they are really mad at and I end up getting cussed out because I wanted them to see the other persons side and be on the same page so they wouldn t have to fight. But they fight anyways and nothing is any better. I just get the brunt of it first. But if I don t do anything and a fight happens I feel like there was something I could have done. Sometimes it feels like the only way to not be in the line of fire is to separate myself from everyone I know and love. But I don t know if that is any better because I don t want to be lonely. But everyone ends up hating me eventually. I just hate myself for not staying out of it when I see people misunderstanding each other. Why do I have to feel like I need to smooth things over between people?

I'm a guy, 21. Don't normally get along with kids, usually hang with friends at college. But I met this girl. (I'll call her Jen) who does yoga at the studio where I work as a receptionist. We ended up talking one day when she was waiting for a ride home and really connected. Long story short, her Mom asked if I was interested in a babysitting, I said sure. Jen and I share interests and inside jokes and she always seems to brighten up when I'm around - which I really notice because she has depression. She gets bullied at school because she looks closer to sixteen. "You try being 5'4 with D cups in seventh grade." Yeah, she doesn't really mind talking to me about stuff like that. I always try to sympathize even if I can't related. Sometimes she falls asleep on my shoulder or sits in my lap or snap-chats me into early hours. I don't think she has a crush on me, but I know I'm one of her closest guy-friends now. Sometimes she'll come downstairs in her towel, or ask me what I think of certain outfits. But is it weird or creepy to have a friend or close friend who's younger? Like, twelve years old? It's pretty much the exception not the rule for me, most of my friends are early twenties. What's the deal with Jen anyway? Any advice?

My childhood best friend and I are having a sleepover tonight. We're 17 and I live in a small town, so there isn't a ton to do and we haven't had a sleepover in ages. Does anyone have any suggestions about what we could do? Thank you :)

My girlfriend is an anti style person. If the style is short hair, she wears her hair long. If the style is long hair, she wears her hair short. If the style is colored hair she wears in natural. If the style is natural hair, she has it colored. If the style is long dresses, she wears her dresses short. If the style is short dresses, she wears hers long. If the style is dresses, she wears pants. If the style is pants, she wears dresses. If the style is skinny pants, she wears fat pants. She works very hard to NOT BE IN STYLE. Do you think what she is doing will cause her a problem in the future

My sister is a popular annoying one at my school. Recently I've became friends with a person older than me named.....Matt. (not his real name) We've hanged out many times a day and we'd always like to snapchat each lother. But in the morning I got up to get on my bus.I got on the bus and sat next to him like always. We showed pictures of random memes in our snapchat memories. I saw he had a "MY EYES ONLY" On his snapchat. I told him to tell me what's in their. He said random nudes, and the creep I am I said show me. He did and he slowly swiped. I laughed at a few of them until it came to my sister. She was butt f*cking naked. I saw every detail of it. But here's the thing. He didn't know that was my sister, Andi didn't tell him it was. But I'm really worried out by the fact he has pictures of my sister. I don't care about the other nudes he had. Only that one

When I'm out, I always get dirty looks from females. I don't bother anyone. People tell me it's because their jealous of me, but I don't think I have anything to be jealous of. Why is this?

we were best friends for 7 years but she didn't talk to me for 2 years after I came out of the closet (I'm transgender) but now she's back and acting like nothing ever happened. she's at my house all the time and I'm starting to het really tried of her, I think the main reason she's back is because she doesnt have any other friends.

Okay. So I'm gonna try to make this the least complicated I can, without omitting too many parts. So, my best friend of 6 years and i, had a pretty big argument about a month and a half ago. It was basically just about me being upset that she never says bye to me, when she leaves from church, and I told her that it bothers me, because our friend suddenly passed away about a year ago, and I didn't get to say goodbye to him. But she didn't really have any sympathy or understanding. And said we need time to ourselves., because I'm apparently too clingy. And so we have. I'm just wondering how to not feel super awkward or anxious when I'm around her, because we do see each other at least once a week at church. Plus we are going to a social event today, and we are going to have to ride in the same car together. I know feeling awkward is a choice, I just need a way to know how. Thank you!!! I know this was long and complicated

So my guy best friend, Paul, has had a crush on our mutual friend (and his best friend) Jones for about two years now, and recently I noticed how much it's been affecting his mental health. Paul has a lot of trouble with his sexuality due to some traumatic childhood events, but has confessed privately to be that he's gay and that he's in love with our friend. Last year, our other close friend tried to commit suicide, so it's really depressed Paul and I started to get worried that maybe he was sort of becoming depressed/suicidal as well, and that keeping this secret from his friends wasn't good for him because he wasn't expressing who he really was. Long story short, we went to a teen party last night and it was all fun and games until someone wanted to play truth or dare. By this time, I was really drunk and when my turn came I dared Paul to kiss Jones (like really kiss him). I'm not sure why I did it, I just was really drunk and worried about Paul and I guess I was just... I don't know, I wasn't thinking right. Anyway, they kissed and now Paul is incredibly upset and hurt and isn't sure if he wants to be friends anymore. Paul and I have been friends since elementary school and I would be so sad if I lost him as a friend. Can anyone tell me how to make it up to him? He said to give him space, but I'm worried that will just damage it more. Thank you all. I didn't use any real names in this, just wanting everyone to know. I'm also a girl, if that makes any sort of difference and I feel really bad for what I've done. I've apologized to Paul face to face and in text/call but he is incredibly hurt and upset and I don't know what else to do. I don't want to lose him as a friend he means the world to me. He told me "you're not the person I thought you were" and "drinking isn't an excuse to do something like that". I feel absolutely awful about the entire thing. I know I made a mistake, but I truly wasn't thinking straight and in my drunken brain I really thought I was doing the right thing. I know that what I did was wrong and I know that Paul has a right to feel upset, I just don't want to lose him.

Im not sure what to do. My friend has been really annoying me lately, but i realize its not just one thing: its a lot of things. I think in general what bothers me is the fact that she is so immature and naive in every aspect of life. Is there anyway you can tell someone this? Or should you? Because i dont know if i can continue to be her friend because its really pissing me off. However, she is my best friend and i dont want to lose her! I dont know what to do or if its even my place to point it out.

I know its not good to be jealous of your friends, but its nearly impossible with my best friend. We do nearly everythinf together, yet everyone always seems to like her more. Why? Looks. She is in fact "prettier" than me. Guys always go for her. Girls always want to be her friend. However people who are close to us seem to prefer me more because to put it frankly, i am a better friend and she can be very selfish. I think its the selfishness and the fact that she is so immature and naive that really frustrates me. And its starting to scare me because its starting to freak me out because it sounds like my best friend annoys me. And if you dont have your best friend then who do you have?! Is there any way to politely tell someone they need to grow up?

Im about to finish my first year of college and there is one girl who has become my "best friend." By this i mean we are always together, tell each other everythinf blah blah blah u get it. Anyway, im starting to think we maybe dont make sense as best friends, or that it is a one way beneficial relationship. She is very naive and immature, especially in terms of academics and boys. Her mom helps her with all her school work. In terms of boys, shes what one might say "thirsty" but it works for her since she is pretty and guys always go for her. This could all come from a place of inner jealousy because boys are always hitting on her and not me, but she also feeds into and demands the attention. Lately, ive just found her to be annoying in general and i dont know what to do about it since it feels too late and we are already attached to each other as best friends. I just feel like i constantly have to give her life lessons that she should already know at this point. In college, i was hoping to become close with more mature people because that is just what i need in my life right now. I dont know what to do.

Basically I pretty much just need some people who I can add who are cool with me sending them enough snaps to get them on my best friends list, because ive been trying to get quite a few people off for a while now, to the point where now I just want to clog it up with random people. Please help and reply with usernames xD

so prom is tomorrow. i'm acquainted with a lot of the "popular" people in my class but only friends with a few. I've yet to actually be invited to an after party for whatever reason. an invitation is something as little as knowing someone that's going and them giving you the adress. if nobody does this would it be weird to show up at an after party "uninvited" or would i be like some weird unwanted creep ?? help omg

My friend and I do a lot of volunteer work and this weekend we're making shoes for kids in Africa FOR 11 HOURS(6 on Saturday 5 on Sunday). I love helping kids but its probably gonna be really boring. How can we make it fun? keep in mind we need our hands free to cut shoes. (We're 17 I don't know if that is relevant).

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Is it bad if a guy is married, but giving a female friend a lift home from work and his gas light is on, yet he sits talking to her in the driveway for a good couple of minutes (with the car running)? Does this mean he enjoys chatting with her?

I'm not sure if he knows the Twitter meaning and I don't think he was trying to insult me. what else could he mean though?

Me and this girl have been talking a lot recently because we are going to prom together but I really started to develop feelings for her. We constantly snapchat each other and we often tease each other. Many times after I tease her, she sends a laughing emoji and says that she hates me or that I'm the worst. Is this another way of her flirting?