I was wanting to elope and get married in Mexico, but I wanted to get the marriage license in my home state and bring it with to have a civil ceremony in Mexico. Is this allowed? I know there are a lot of regulations to get a marriage license in Mexico, but I would already have the license, I would just need it officiated. Will this work?

Meaning did you really do memorable things like partying with friends and traveling before you got married, or did you not feel like it was necessary? And how young is to young to get married in your opinion?

Im about to get married and have sunk alot of money in this wedding and all related costs. Now im realizing how obnoxious and despicable her father is; and why he never showed up into the picture until the last few weeks. My second worry is that my future spouse is somewhat like her dad and has been really good at hiding her true nature; i always suspected something fake about her. All in all i regret proposing to her and i actually despise her family after getting to know them better. The other day i went over to her house and i brought a basket of fresh strawberries from a friends farm; her dad said ''i dont even wanna touch that..just leave it over there or i'll have one of the kids pick it..'' i tried discussing ending things with her and that its not gonna work etc but she always start crying and begs me to stay. im considering divorce few months after marriage in case living with her turns out to be obnoxious too; i dont want her dad to be my kids grand dad or be related to me. Tomorrow im telling her dad that the prenup agreement is that in case of divorce she walks out the same way she walked in; penniless. If they dont like it then thats their problem; its my house, my commitment and my rules. Suggestions ?

My husband and I are driving to see some friends of ours. It's a long drive and we've hit snow and very heavy rain. It says our arrival time is 11PM. I feel bad showing up at their house that late. Is this rude?

I want to know how much cost a contested (when one of spouses does NOT wants the divorce) but the other part DOES. I was told that with an initial fee it cost 5000 plus other paperwork, etc. Around 7 or 8 thousand dollars. In New York State. It is right or I'm getting a wrong information?

that should read "married." sometimes the edits don't work.

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Ok so my boyfriend and his ex wife got a divorce and the judge ordered him to pay like $11,125.00 credit card ( but like the exact number) and if he calles the credit card company and manage to pay like 7-8,000$ but closes the card. Will he be held in contempt because he didn't paid off the certain amount of money? But he is ordered to pay off the card is the way I see it.

My bf and I have been together 10 months. We rarely have sex I'm talking once every 6 weeks or so and he doesn't seem bothered by it. He only comes over at night generally around 8/9PM we have a late dinner then often times he will fall asleep in the recliner downstairs and come to bed around 3/4AM. He works every other Saturday and I expressed interest in going out and doing things on the weekend this summer. He told me he can only do things once a month on Saturdays because he has work every other Saturday and yard work to do too. On weekends we NEVER spend the day together. He will come over Friday nights but be gone by 10AM the next morning. Sunday's are his days for church and his family so we can't do anything on Sundays. He rarely EVER tells me he loves me. He's 32 and sometimes I feel as though he's "settling" for me because he's not married yet and wants to show his family he has a girlfriend. Thoughts? What would you do?

Her name is on the lease and I pay 800 dollars of it and she pays 200. After we broke up I explained to her we are not together anymore and she should pay her half. She refuses to pay. We really had no agreement in writing. I agreed a couple and since she had a son I would provide for her. But matters took a turn for the worse and she lost her son cause she went against my wishes and drove down 4 hours away to drop her son off with her. Went out drinking, saw her ex then for some reason went back to his house. And he threw her out she punched him. She got hauled away on domestic assault Which I still can't understand cause most mothers don't take those risk even young and dumb ones protect their children at all cost and she was going through a divorce so the chips were in her favor. Anyway now I just want her out, and she knows it cause she isn't paying her way and I'm really asking what can I do from a civil stand point to help her realize we aren't dating and she should clean up after her self, pay her own side of the rent and so on? I'm just looking for solutions now not what I could have done in the past. I still am going to pay the rent either way, and she knows it. I cant' get out of the lease either. She doesn't have custody of her son at the moment and hasn't since the incident the ex husband put a retraining order on her and she has to fight for custody which now she doesn't have. She hasn't seen her son since February and to be honest shes just not a good person let alone a good mother after her life fell apart.

-want to divorce my alcoholic husband

My bf and I have been together 10 months. We rarely have sex I'm talking once every 6 weeks or so and he doesn't seem bothered by it. He only comes over at night generally around 8/9PM we have a late dinner then often times he will fall asleep in the recliner downstairs and come to bed around 3/4AM. He works every other Saturday and I expressed interest in going out and doing things on the weekend this summer. He told me he can only do things once a month on Saturdays because he has work every other Saturday and yard work to do too. On weekends we NEVER spend the day together. He will come over Friday nights but be gone by 10AM the next morning. Sunday's are his days for church and his family so we can't do anything on Sundays. He rarely EVER tells me he loves me. He's 32 and sometimes I feel as though he's "settling" for me because he's not married yet and wants to show his family he has a girlfriend. Thoughts? What would you do?

I was 27yrs old with 2 kids. A good husband, father and provider. Hes the father of both kids. Our marriage was now boring, no excitement, no hobbies together..etc. He was always working or outside having a beer wth his brothers. I started to feel very alone as I was always doing EVERYTHING alone. Going to the kids soccer games, the grocery store, birthdays parties, pretty much everything. It was rare if anyone ever saw me out on the street with him. The only thing we did was go eat on Sundays. I worked full time as well. I talked to him several times up until now that I'm 32. I told him we needed to do more things as a couple because something was changing in me and if we didn't do anything about it i didn't know what would happen. Nothing changed and fast forward to now. I moved out as he wouldn't and my kids decided they wanted to stay there because that home has more things for them and our dogs. My place is boring and simple. I found out last wk I am 6 wks pregnant by my new bf who also happens to be my daughter's friends brother. Hes 6 yrs younger than me. That will be very awkward for my daughter who is now 12. I don't know if I should end this pregnancy for the sake of everyone on my end or go thru with it as my bf is very excited. Yes I have been seeing this guy for more than a yr now. Im still living alone but he stays with me when im alone which is most days. My daughter stays 1 or 2 nights. I know I f**ked up big time but I need some advice not judgement.

So I noticed this has been going for quite some time maybe 2 years this is a married friend but the calls mainly come from the other guy it's startig to cause so many problems because I'm not okay with this, I feel disrespected since I brought this up 6 months ago and nothing has changed. I didn't ask for him to not talk to him just to not do it so often, it causes suspicions in me as if he is more than a friend to me I'm going crazy and it's causing so many issues and fights because he is not willing to stop it and get super angry and calls me names when I bring up the subject. Why would you do as a wife? Guys... is this even okay or normal? I just need advice not criticism his is about to cost him his family because I can not deal with this and the doubts I have. I even noticed he deletes the calls and msgs. I don't know how they talk to each other as the calls take place when I'm not around.

They don't help with chores, they don't want to get good jobs, they don't want to spend time with their wife or children, they don't want to be a good leader, they don't want to be a MAN. yet women CHOOSE these men. I don't get it.

Last April I moved for my fiancé's job. I'm so miserable here!! I had a job but 4 months ago the company went bankrupt. I'm now unemployed. I have no friends here at all. It's a resort town in Florida so almost all the jobs here are seasonal type jobs. We have a beautiful home here on the beach and my husband makes decent money however, it is becoming challenging without a 2nd income. I'm trying to make the best out of this situation but I've been so miserable that it's putting a strain on my relationship with my fiancé. I'm not sure I want to be with him anymore. My entire family lives in Chicago so I have nobody else here. I'm starting to think maybe I should end things and move back to Chicago. I don't know if it's just the depression talking or what. I've tried to get an appointment with a psychiatrist but I can't get anything until May and have to travel 2 hours to even see a psychiatrist. Any advice? How do I make the best out of this situation?

In the beginning of our relationship, we were so expressive, passionate, and spontaneous. He went out of his way for me all the time and we hardly went an hour without checking in on each other. Mind you, we are both in our 30s and have our own homes, careers, etc. He used to tell me he was amazed by the connection we share; how natural and effortless it feels; how raw and expressive we are together. He said he never felt this way in his previous marriage even though he did love his ex wife very much. They just didn't communicate the way we do. Over the past 2 years, my expressiveness, love, and genuineness has not changed. Even he's acknowledged this ("You've never skipped a beat and I love you for that.") He, on the other hand- cannot be bothered. He tells me he's not as "free" as I am (he has assets with his ex and needs to support his children- I have neither). He has this whole life outside of me and I have nothing outside of him. Still, this was the case when we first met and yet he showed me undeniable love and affection then. Now, not so much. I know people get comfortable, but it doesn't seem fair to change so drastically. I'm the one paying for everything, making the trip to see him when he tells me he's free. It's me reaching out most of the time. Now he tells me he loves me but can't love me the way I love him. He tells me I deserve more than he can ever offer me. How can I talk to him about this so we can strengthen the relationship-not walk away from it?