My hubby went to court today and the judge gave him a o.r release so I go to the jail to pick him up and I end up waiting almost 3 hours then I call them and they tell me they havent gotten his release papers from court and he Wil probably get out tomorrow. My question is why wouldnt they have gotten the papers from court? I'm hoping its just cause he went to court and got sentenced about 2:30 and they just ran out of time but woukld there be anything else I just worry alot so please put my racing thoughts to rest

I mean like good looking wife, does the man have a very happy marriage?

For a woman to know how much a man has, she has to ask him. And, if he knows that he's very interested/really likes her, he can lie.

So my ex got shipped out for job training and he had to give up his phone. His friend told me that he's going to be gone for two weeks and asked if my ex could contact me during those two weeks (he wants to get back together but i don't) How do i tell him its innapropriate? and I don't wish to be in communication?

I am 24 years old... my father had a previous wife, split up with her and met my mother. They had me and after years (8years) went by my parents split up and my father moved back home with his previous wife. I believe to be the love child. It is very rare my dad will make contact with me first and I have to be the one who makes the effort all the time - he says he loves me and misses me but he goes months and months without seeing me or speaking to me. I haven't seen or heard from him since this Christmas! (2017) I feel he should make some effort and I am done with always being the one to make it. I am always very loving and polite to my dad so I have no idea why he doesn't care about me! What do you think?

My husband and I use two separate showers because he is afraid of waking my up when he gets home from work. He expects me to clean both showers, and he never cleans them up. He says that since I work part time and he works full time, I should clean up both showers every time it needs to be cleaned. Does he have a point?

I've been in a relationship with someone for many years. We went to the same high school (back in 2006) and well we grew to love one another very quickly. As you age, people make mistakes. I understand that some of those mistakes are unforgiveable even if your partner decides to stay with you, despite all the up's and down's. It shouldn't be of any surprise to me that after all these years of actually fighting for a better life, he'd still not want me in his life as I ever so want to be a part of his (still talking about marriage). We're reaching our late 20s. I'll be 30 this July. I've stopped asking him when we will tie the knot, it's been 12 years (plus he told me to stop). We currently live in his "childhood home". It's a definite fixer upper. I want to live in a place that I too could call home, OUR home not a home we share with anyone of his family (unless its because they need nursing care). There are so many beautiful ways the home could be remodeled but we just can't see eye-to-eye on any of it. There will be times that he tries to compromise but he mostly shuts down my ideas (it's really his way or the highway and I've been taking it). We don't bring up old news, we fight about the small things now. Is it that terrible that I contemplate finding my own dream home and hoping he'll come with? I don't know how much more fight I have in me. Help? 2018 will be our 13th year as a "dating bf/gf couple". We have probably been living together for the past 5-6 years. I honestly do not know, how long it's been. His Grandfather recently passed and so his mother left our home to stay with her mom. So, it's only been a few months that we are slowly trying to work together and make it "ours". I don't know why I never ventured out and still got my own place. Just as I am reaching my 30's I do want more for myself and us as a couple.

Is everyone building for a long term relationship like marriage, or do you think not everyone is made for that kind of commitment? What makes the difference between the ones who make it possible and the ones that just cant.

My family ( mum, brother,sister) have come to visit me For the 1st time in Europe where I live with my husband. They are from Africa and I can do years without seeing them. They are here for a week. Stayed at our home for two days and decided I'll take them visiting other places for the rest of the week while i was off work. My husband couldn't come because he is at work. He was ok with the idea but soon as we left he sends me a text saying this "Don't think you can come crawling back in here when your family leaves. You made your bed now lie in it. You can stay with them forever don't come back running in here this house isn't a hotel. Hope you have enough clothes" Why would he say this when we had a convo about it all and he was ok with me going with them for 5 days to show them around ? I'm I wrong for wanting to spend time with them ? And mind we split all the bills in equal halves in our home and he speaks like I was living off his money and thinks he can kick me out when he wants. I'm so upset what did I do wrong