My wife and I are child free by choice. No kids now or ever. The only people that don't care are single or do not want kids of their own. Parents are the opposite. They get offended or they give me a long speech about how I'm missing out on enjoying a gift from God that will change my life. Is it really that hard to understand that some people just don't want kids?

My in laws have always hated me despite lying to my husband and saying they like me. Recently, he got arrested for a domestic disturbance and they blamed me for it and said that I am a worthless mother and wife and am not to be trusted. They got their entire family up north to call him and harass him about divorcing me. He told them it was a misunderstanding and that I would not be pursuing the charges and want them dropped. They forced him to stay @ their house whilst they tried to brainwash him into believing he was in an abusive marriage and needed to divorce me and take the kids. Of course, he declined, as we are truly in love and it was a stupid incident. They told him that they want nothing more to do with him, told him to delete their internet password from his devices, delete their garage door code from his vehicle, and screamed and cried because he told them its his life his marriage and he wont listen to them. Is this normal? They are rich/self centered narcissist who have taught their children that when they get into trouble it is the other person's fault 100%. My father in law is a CFO of a company and went crazy googling me and trying to find dirt to black mail me with and tried to tell my husband he needed to talk to him about what he found. They claim they keep screenshots as ammo against my family and I and that they know I am a pathological liar -his mother also accused me of sending a text on his phone that he 100% sent!

Virgo father of my child refuses to work, he s lazy, sits around drinking beer, playing video games, is online listening to music or is asleep all day while I m 5 months pregnant with his child I have to work a full time job where I m on my feet all day to keep a roof over mine and my child s head. He says it s my job to support our child bc I m a woman that it s not his responsibility bc men leave that anyone who says otherwise is f ed up in the head. When I see him he s drunk and all he wants to do is have sex which I m not interested in at all. I read online how successful they are that is a lie he s the most lazy person I know nor will he stand up for me and protect me when his friend tried to fight me pregnant he told me he wanted nothing to do with it. He s told me on multiple occasions he wished I get an abortion so he wouldn t have to deal with the baby but he still wants to be with me.

My husband told me that he never intended to get married with me, but due to some circumstances that were between us he got married (distance). It hurts me so much because I have given everythig to this guy and to find out I was never a thought for marriage.

My wife is very attractive, she has bigger boobs and I have fun watching them shake when we both have sex. She argues that I am obsessed and that I should get myself checked, am I really having serious problem because I ask her to repeat sex in one day ..

I'm in my late 30's / she is in her late 20's. We have traveled quite a bit, and had great times. About 6 mos into us, her parents & grandparents moved to town, and "took over" her life: asked her for help getting settled in, find work, and invited themselves along with us many times. I find them to be irresponsible people who once stated "He's not like us" because I am educated, rarely drink, and honestly earn more than her parents. They immediately began working their stuff on her head: "He's older so he needs to WAIT FOR YOU to grow more." I could tell the females were kind of jealous. We visited NYC last year and decided to elope at City Hall, but the next day, she called it off because her grandma told her, "Don't you want your dad (stepdad) to walk you down the isle?" I also refused to allow her to move into my place, because we were not married. She didn't like that, but accepted it. Also, we have not had any sex in months. Last year, in 2017, we had sex a total of 3 times. Literally 3 times in 12 months. In 2016, maybe 5 times. She told me she just has no drive, and after our latest trip - our 5th - we again had no sex, so I exploded. I am not a fiend, but am a man. Between her parent's interference and lack of intimacy, I am just done. I felt we've developed a father/daughter relationship that I can't stand! And my eyes have begun to wander. Big time. Are my reasons valid for breaking up with the most wonderful gal I've ever befriended?

He says hi to everyone else but this one particular person he will look straight if she passes by. Wonder why maybe loyalty

We had an affair before he married. It ended. We never spoke. We work together. A few months later his wife was pregnant. He kissed me a spent the night with me. A few months later we looked up again. We have a good relationship now. We talk, sometimes flirt and he makes stupid reasons to call me. He told me he almost kissed me the other day. We chat now and then. His baby is due. A bunch of us from work are getting gifts. I asked what was needed and his wife said they need a breast pump or bottle sterilizer. Is this normal? How would a man feel about this? Im really not sure if this is ok. I still hold a flame for him and am happy and sad about the baby. Has anyone been thru this? I assume his wife doesnt know any thing.

My wife and I were planning on validating our marriage last year on our annivsary. Then we found she was pregnant right before, so we put it on hold. We've been invited to a friend's wedding, and have to send in the response card soon. My wife has said from the day we received the save the date that she doesn't want to go. I'm sure it has to do with putting our validation ceremony on hold, which she's hinted at more than once. Should I just respond yes, and ask for forgiveness later? What if she changes her mind at the last minute--as women often do? I do realize that could backfire and we'll be stuck. I don't know what to do.Any thought?

So he got up this morning ready for work and I was half sleep. He was headed out the door and I said, "so you're not going to kiss me goodbye." He then said ,"oh." And he kissed me. He went outside to wait on his ride and i went to the bathroom. When I went into the bathroom I saw shaved hair all over the sink. And I thought to myself why is he grooming for work all of a sudden. I went outside and asked him if he was grooming to impress the ladies at his job and I rolled my eyes and went back in. He followed me and we argued and he started hitting the door with his hand . Then he pushed me in the tub. After that he cried and apologized and told me he went too far. I was also crying. He asked me was I hurt and i said no. I told him that we need help. He got on the phone and called our local mental health center and scheduled us an appointment to see a therapist. Should I leave ?

I'm really annoyed and I'm starting to think my wife might even be cheating (she's a nanny, one of her bosses is an attractive/tall who works from home.) She makes $750 a week only, and wakes up at the crack of dawn, slaving from 7am-5pm. She always complains she's tired, she knows full well we as a couple would make more money if she handles our secretarial needs, yet she won't quit! My company is really popular in the area, and is making crazy money. We do remodeling and paint projects, at good costs. It's as simple as selling and sending it to our subs (who do great work) and I'll make like $1000-$2000 in an hour just from selling an appointment. Then very minimal management (just phone calls) until the customer pays. We currently have like $4000 profit we could be making a week on small jobs that she could gather info from the customers via phone, then check prices with our crews, then sell them and we make a profit. She could make our company like $4000 a week just from this, and she'd get to sleep in, have time to exercise (she enjoys it), and have more freedom. She doesn't even enjoy her nanny job anymore. Yet... she won't quit. The only logical explanation at this point, way I can see it, is that she's banging her boss. But if I even suggest that, she flies into a rage and threatens divorce etc etc. help me out here?

When my father comes in the car I want him to sit in the front seat with me. My wife always complains to me later about this. She doesn't seem to have respect and reverence for elders and family that I have. Rarely we go out to dinner with a couple. I ask my wife to sit in the back with the other wife. What can I do about her attitude

I'm a stay at home mom and my friends were talking our sex lives and how much sex we had a week. I told them for the last 7 or 8 months that my husband and I average what comes out to be 2-3 times a day. They were surprised that we had sex that much. I have a take it or leave it opinion on sex. My husband and I came up with an agreement that he would give me more money in my allowance. As the frequency of sex increases the amount of my allowance increases. I get to use the extra money as I want and don't have to feel like a kid when I ask for extra money. My husband gets want he wants.

My husband's family hate me. They told him that since he spent a night in jail for a domestic squabble it's my fault and they tried to get him to divorce me and take the kids. They said he has to let them run his life and leave me and move in with them and use their lawyers and let them go with him. He wisened up and realized theyre nuts And chose me. They cried threw a fit and harassed and threatened to call the police if they couldn't reach him and they disowned him. They even tried to say I wrote a text to him on his phone that he wrote. Can they do this?

And if he says it's no longer socially acceptable for women and men to be seen differently...?