just graduated and want to buy a home in a different state than I already am. But my mom wants me to help her get a place and pay the bills or buy a home here and pay for it. Thing is I'm frustrated with my mom because she doesn't try to help herself. Every time I go around her I'm financing everything, buying something to eat, phones off, clothes and shoes and gas and sometimes bills. She's married. But her husband can't keep a job. And she hasn't worked in over 15 years. I'm at the point where I'm tired of dishing money out to her. She only calls me when she needs things, expects for me to buy her iPhones and pay her bills. If I was rich I can but I can't. I feel sad because everyone doesn't have their mom. She wasn't the best mom growing up either. Every time I see her she looks sad and go on and on about money. Any advice? She says it's my job to take care of her

5 months ago I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. Since then I've been able to continue at college & am a few semesters away from graduating. My fiancé works an ok job for now but it isn't enough to support all 3 of us & rent. Currently I live with my mom who helps watch my daughter while I'm in class. From the start of my relationship I have told my fiancé how important it is for me to have a partner that has earned a degree so that we both can have a better secure income. He has gone to college before started off well then failed twice got kicked out & had to transfer to another school. However, a lot of the time he does not even get himself up to go. It makes me feel as if he doesn't care about what's important to me & doesn't consider the well being of our daughter . I'm afraid that in the future I'll be the one who's only financially stable & taking care of most of the work. I'm not ok with living like that & would prefer to have a partner who works 50/50 with me on the expenses. I would like him to earn a respectable income where if something happened where I couldn't work we'd be ok still & not on the street & vice versa. I have explained this to him but nothing changes. I don't know what to do anymore but I want my daughter to have a happy stable life. What do I do???

We had a fling before he married his wife. He knew her for a year before they married. A month after the wedding she was pregnant. He still calls me. We still hook up...its been a year now. Apart from him being horny and an idiot. Why would he cheat with one person for over a year while being a newly wed? Is there emotional attachment with me?

I bought my favourite bike from a yard sale a few years ago, and since have moved away for university and then to a different country. But the <1 hour interaction I had with the seller and his family completely shifted the path of my life. He is honestly one of the biggest inspirations I have ever met and I really want to reach out and let him know that the small time I shared with him and his family as life-changing for me. I don't remember this man's name, and I don't think it's important to stay in touch with him - but in my head it seems important to show gratitude for the chance meeting we had. I remember the approximate address and I have a friend back in N. America that could deliver it for me, but I don't want to do something overwhelmingly creepy. What should I do?

I was snooping through my mom's search history and say that she searched "black lesbian dating" and "bi-curious dating". I'm okay with my mom being any sexuality that she wants to be, but she never told me. I'm not supposed to know, so what do I do?

An old friend of mine who is in the army just texted me saying he was fantasizing about me. I said that I'm flattered and tried to start a conversation. He went on by saying he was jacking off thinking about me. Is it normal for me to still feel violated even though I was not touched?

has their backs turned on ya when you need help? And what makes it kind of funny is that these same people have the "GALL" to complain to you about STUFF you've done in the past. Even though their the ones who look out for themselves first, funny how that works eh?

We broke up a few days ago. We met on a dating site and we both were back on that site the next day. I knew he was on again because I saw that he viewed my profile. He blocked me after that. I get a message from someone a few hours later with a clearly fake picture. I reverse searched his pictures and saw that all of them were fake. He had also made that account just a few minutes before messaging me. He gave an obviously fake name so I looked up his full name everywhere with 0 sign of him existing. He conveniently had NO social media, claimed he didnt even have a phone, and refused to send a picture of himself. He said he worked somewhere near me, but I found out he doesnt. I said we should go to a certain place (that my ex always took me to), which is actually right across the street from where this guy "works". Yet, he was like, "What is that place??" After a while of playing along, I said, "Im pretty sure this is ___." He goes, "What are you talking about? Who are you talking about??" He brought up my ex's name 3 other times after that, after we had already changed the subject. "Im curious who ___ is??" "Why are you so stuck on ____??" "Im really concerned who ____ is?? Why did you call me ____??" He also texted exactly how my ex would. I had known a few days ago that my ex was working until 3 yesterday. This guy was messaging me at 2:30, talking about how he cant wait to get off work in a half hour. After me continuing to call him out last night, he logged off of that account and hasnt been online since. Does it sound like it could be my ex? I know this sounds silly, but Im looking for other peoples opinions. I want to make sure Im not just going crazy lol.

Please don't judge. This question is just out of curiousity, because it came up during causal conversation and we've always wanted to know. We asked an agent, but due to how creepy she was being (she was taking too long), we had to leave due to how uncomfortable we were about the situation. Since y'all probably need more details to understand the situation, right now we're boyfriend and girlfriend planning to get married one day. But if something bad happened and I had to take custody of her legally, that would make me her step father, and what we wanted to know was, is it legal for us to get married in that sort of situation?

I'm going to make it really short. Her and I. relationship 2.75 years. Toxcitiy, issues, insecurities, manipulation, games. Me, I try to find myself, but can't while living with her. We move apart (I had never lived alone before) (makes the process of finding myself easy) I still can't change, she is still in my life. Break up. I have to find myself and be a better man. I broke her heart. Says she is moving on, wants to live life. I'm a on a quest and I learn how to love. I am ready for her. I have a taken an "intense course" I learned about my past, healed a lot of emotions and I am aware of why I do things I used to do things. I understand the role, the purpose of everyone in my life. Now... I am ready. I have fulfilled my promise and she doesn't know. I am ready to love someone. I have so much potential. HOW DO I LET HER NOW THIS IN A GOOD/LOVING WAY? I WANT TO KNOW HER PLANS BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO GET IN A RELATIONSHIP AND REGRET IT. I STILL LOVE HER. Everything I did, I did in the name of love. I believe I only have good intentions. I just needed to learn what real love is.