I only know one couple that does this and they always argue. The guy is easy going but the girl is constantly miserable. But their Facebook posts (namely hers) are all smiles and a fake painted picture of perfection. It has me really curious about others, as I don't know other couples that do this, but there's many articles online discussing this. I'm curious if it may actually be true beyond this only case I know of.

It was so embarrassing I hid in the toilet stall. Of course they never see thank god. So this how it started. We went to the toilets to change because we never had actual changing rooms. So we all started talking while we change. The fat kid was in front of me and he was changing as well. All the other fat kids like me had t shirts under their school shirts. But this one was confident. He didn't care what anyone said abt him. So while I talk with my friends I look over and I see him take his shirt off. And i see everything. His round boobs his big belly his rolls. Before I knew it I got a *****. It didn't help that I had already taken my pants off and my brief didn't hide the ***** but somehow nobody saw. I waited for him to change so I could get out. It was one of the the nearly most embarrassing moment in my life. I still get a ***** till this day for other fat kids changing during p.e but I make sure to take my shirt off first now. And not my pants So what is wrong with me and what would you have done I'm just curious

I am the stepgirlfriend, and their mom is a piece of crap and I am a better mom. She has like three bf and dresses slutty.I don't really like them,but I am being nice to them to gain their trust so we can have them all the time to save money.She doesn't like when our time cuts into them doing stuff with their friends.She also doesn't like when they are supposed to go their grandparents and I make them stay on the couch all day and not play and lie.If their grandparents want to see them they should have to pay to see them and visits be heavily monitored and they not to be allowed to have gifts. They hate being over here.Also their mother sucks and I want to be their mother and teach them about extreme discipline and how hard and miserable life is and how everyone in their life is gonna die but me and not to trust anyone but me.Because my bf pays so much custody. So if we had them more we could ignore them and we wouldn't have to pay child support/She would have to pay us child support and I wouldn't have to work and could have lots of babies and have her kids take care of them. But no one likes them over here because they get sick over here all the time and they got their asses kicked really really hard because I thought they were playing dr. and smoking cigarettes but they weren't and they had to go to a shrink because of their anxiety. I want more custodial rights of stepkids so we don't have to pay child support. I don't wanna go to court thought cuz judges hate me.Because I have been in and out of jail since I was 13.

Can a 18 year old move in together with a 17 year old relative who's dad is abusive but doesn't agree that she moves away from him? Is it legal for the 17 year old to do that if she has a job and can pay her half of the rent and so on? Thanks! And if she reports the abuse, will she be able to move out without going to court to get permission or anything? Sorry, I don't live in the states or whatever and I only know the laws of my country. Would be helpful if someone would explain how everything works in situations like this. I'm talking about the laws in the USA

He always tries to compete with me and make himself seem better by pushing me down and insulting things I care about. I've tried to communicate with him and all he does is tell me to shut up and that I'm annoying. He's lied so much that my parents believe all I do is the same stuff he does, when its honestly not the case. I tried to ignore him and when I didnt give him a reaction he threatened to commit suicide, and wrapped a belt around his neck and smiled at me. Then he told his friends that I actually caught him trying to commit. suicide and that he's been struggling with it. Other times I've tried to ignore him he threaten to tell my parents he caught me sleeping with my boyfriend, even though we have never done anything like that. I told my parents about the suicide thing and my brother said "oh we were joking around about suicide and she freaked out" and the when I told my parents about the one with my boyfriend he said "that was a really long time ago and she knew I wasnt serious." My parents brushed all of this stuff off because of what he said and because it's "in the past". My parents legitimately believe he's suicidal because anytime he gets in trouble at school he says he wants to kill himself and that he's bullied so my parents don't punish him. My sister even says he's a jerk to a lot of kids at school. I am not saying that I am perfect in anyway, I am not nice to him all of the time, but I am at a loss of what to do. He's almost 15 and I'm 16

Okay, I am new at this **** so sorry if I suck at it. Recently it was called to my attention by my cousin that I apparently keep my guard up and I'm too cold. I am a 17 year old male, I'll be 18 in 5 days. My birthday is actually what we were talking about when she mentioned that I should try to let my guard down and let people in. I don't see what's wrong with being alone. My cousin told me "You are afraid of getting hurt. That's your problem. Your whole life you were treated horrible and now you don't just have a wall build up but a thick one. You spend all of your time alone and isolated from people and when people try to get close to you, you push them away. You won't even let me celebrate your birthday! You might not see a point in it but I do. You are way too cold to be sometimes. You use to be the most nicest, sweetest, guy I knew. You went from letting people walk all over you to this. When I said to grow a pair I didn't mean this way." she continued to keep going. Basically she gave me this whole 3 paragraph speak on how I need to change, I need to let people in, I need to be not so cold, and all of this other ****. My question is, should I? Is she right. Yeah, I will unfortunately admit that I use to be some weakly who let people say and do whatever they wanted but she was the one who told me to stand up for myself and not let people treat me like ****. So what's the problem? What is the be deal from not wanting to celebrate something so pointless like my birthday?

I don't think they're bad people but other people seem to and think they're missing out on something big which I think is overrated and romanticized in society too much.

So I've been playing MMORPG's and roleplaying things from different fandoms for a long time now. I have an assortment of different characters who have killed other characters, fought other characters, befriended other characters, and gotten into relationships, and whatnot. When I roleplay these characters I don't personally put myself in their shoes. I understand that they are characters and I don't get emotionally attached to the people roleplaying with me. When I roleplay it's always in third person because I like the aspect of writing a story with someone else. My characters all have different ethnic backgrounds and sexualities because I like making them diverse. I'm a lesbian but I have characters who are in straight relationships. I recently got into a relationship with a girl, so I was wondering if roleplaying sex scenes would be considered cheating? I've done straight sex scenes, gay sex scenes, lesbian sex scenes, and I truthfully don't get off on it. It's just a way to progress the story but I know some people don't think the same. What are your thoughts? Thanks for reading! :)

Does it make sense to write "thanks for always looking out for me" to a coworker? I'm new at work and she helps me out a lot. (Not just at work, but kinda also like a friend)

Does it make sense to write "thanks for always looking out for me" to a coworker who kind of like a friend? I'm new at work place and she sits next to me/helps me out a lot. "Looking out" here doesn't mean to take care of, right? who is kind of* & at this work place* lol Ah, is there another way of saying something more like "Thanks for looking out for me" (instead of just thanks for your help at work)? Cos once she offered to drive me to company dinner when I didn't have my car with me that day

Ok First Ima Start By Saying I'm Not Crazy, Seriously. A Month After I Turned 18 I Was In My Apartment , w/ My Finace & She Was Going To The Bathroom & I'm In Bed Looking For a Movie On Netflix .. I See My Finace Come Out The Bathroom & Next Thing I Know EVERYTHING LOOKED LIKE A CARTOON NO JOKE ( Like The Environment Was Sketchy As If Somebody Drew It ) Again, I'm Not Crazy Because She Asked Me Wtf Was Going On & I Realized She Could See It To ( Btw I DO NOT USE DRUGS ) I Jumped Up In a Panic & Something Grabbed My Throat LITERALLY & It Felt Like Something Or Someone Had They Hand On My Throat . I Rushed To The Living Room & My Finace Was Yelling Calm Down, I'm Now In The Living Room & The "Air" Felt HEAVY As If Something Was Pulling The Oxygen From The Room . She's telling Me She Cant Breathe I'm Telling Her I Feel The Same Way ( This Is NO GAS LEAK ) The Air Is Getting Thinner & Thinner Like As If In Finna Die , She Falls To The Floor as Do i , Right As My Eyes Start to Close The Air Lifts Up . & I Can Feel Oxygen Flowing .. My Finace Looks At Me In a Panic, I open the door & go outside , kids still playing basketball , Nobody is Looking panic & I Go Back Inside Because Apartenly It ONLY HAPPENED TO US . I'm Still Confused As To What Happened .. My Finace Said Its Ghost I DO NOT BELIEVE IN THAT TYPE OF FOOLISHNESS But I Cant Explain What I Was Feeling Or I Couldn't Believe It Actually Happened .. Please Tell me Your Opinions, & Again I DO NOT DO DRUGS

My cousin is a 19 year old boy and I'm 21 year old girl. I don't see him often, just twice a year. When I do see him he's often a bit strange and creepy. We are an affectionate family so hugging is not weird to me. However, when he hugs me hello or goodbye he squeezes really tight to the point where it's painful. He also is overly touchy, especially with my brothers (8 and 10 years old). Since they were born he has put them on his lap, picked them up, tickled them, held them tightly when they have made it clear he should let them go. He touches my puppy in very strange ways. He wrapped her tightly in a blanket so she could not get away from him. He said she was Just trying to play with her. He even takes photos of people when they aren't paying attention. I don't want to be around him ever and refuse to be alone in a room with him. I spoke with my parents, but I am just not sure how to tell him he makes me uncomfortable. I don't like when he touches me and I don't want to hug him anymore. It's like he is trying to show us he is strong and dominant over us (which again is super creepy to me).

I met this guy of an app ,and we talked for a few weeks before we decided to meet. we went to the movies and then after we made out and talked in the car. we kept in contact after that, then met again at my house and he spent the night, we watched movies, kissed and cuddled and had sex. the next day he stayed for the whole day with me watching movies ,then went home. texting is frustrating tho I will text instantly but he can take up to an hour to respond to a text. i ended up asking if he talked to anyone else he said he talked to another guy but he likes me not him. the other night we decided to plan to meet, i was going to pick up from work, but he ended up saying he had to stay late and couldn't make it. i waited a while for him to text me but he didn't, so i texted him, i didn't get a text until 2am,which is usual because we text every night until we say goodnight, do you think he really stayed late at work, or had made other plans ?

My boyfriend's love language is acts of service. For me, this ranked lowest. We are both seniors in high school and don't live together so nearly any example I read online is impossible for me to do. I don't have access to his room or car and we don't have a house together so there are no chores. Any ideas?

It shouldn't matter but somehow it does matter. So white women nowadays tend to be more and more exclusive to dating other races. Nothing wrong with that but does that mean white men should be more open and try dating mostly other races too? But if so, are other girls interested in white guys?

I was 19 when this happened. He was really drunk and kissed me... it felt like it lasted forever and I felt like I was going to throw up. When I was younger he told me he was going to take my virginity when I turned 18. Im now 20 and I still have nightmares about these incidents. My mom stuck up for him both times claiming "he was drunk honey, he doesn't even remember it." This is sexual assault right? Also, I feel the only reason he didn't cary though with taking my virginity was because when he said it I was 6 then abandoned me at 7.

From the past (from like a kid to teenager). Crazy parents messed up my head

I m going on my first date tomorrow and I m just really nervous? He already knows I like him but I m not sure how he feels. I just don t want to mess up and embarrass myself so any advice?

were friends until you got to know them better. The envious/jealous types who try to bring you down especially when something good happens to you. What is their motivation. I don't do that and just don't get why?

I am probably going to change high schools because of bullying (false rumors being spread, group of guys picking on me, almost getting punched in the face also a lot of embarressing things happend to me in which i looked crazy. I am just really pissed off at this popular guy who started all the bullying. I probably don't have any other way of communicating with him other than instagram messenger and i also feel like i should get this off my chest i don't know why. So i wanted to message him this " Thank you for all the times you made me feel like i was worthless, like their was something wrong with my appearance, for all those times you hurt my feelings and made me cry. Thank you because when i was having the hardest time i have ever had in my life you made it worse. You are so lucky that i'm not spiteful enough to have written down all the dates and recorded the evidence to have a record made for you for initiating group harassment that would follow you all your life. I didn't report you or certain friends you have because i care too much about everyone. Don't try to say you didn't do anything because i know you're lying, the truth always have a way of coming out. You are honestly the worst person i have ever met. I really hope I never see you again." May i add that this guy is constantly denying everything he does. So, should i send this? I feel that sending this would help stop my anxiety and worry. Thank you so much for your answers i really appreciate it

Hi Jane Doe, Hope you had a wonderful holiday season! Just wanted follow up on the last email I sent you a few weeks back. I'm still very much interested in ultimately going to medical school. Since we're now in the new year, I'm just getting ready to start another exciting semester of grad school. I was wondering if you would be able to meet with me sometime in the coming weeks to discuss the structure of my schedule, when I should take the MCAT, and other things as far as how to improve my overall package. I've done quite of few things since the last time we spoke, and was hoping to have something arranged so as to give you an update on those things. I look forward to hearing back for you, and I hope this email finds you well. Sincerely, John Doe