My step mom said she was going through my dads computer history and found that he watched a video of dad doing his daughter. I am completely grossed out and confused. He said it was just an ad but idk how to feel. Please give me advice.

My dad can never talk in an inside voice. It's almost as if he's yelling. If someone calls him or is right next to him, he talks really loud. He also mispronounces a lot of words and I politely correct him once in a while but he just gets mad. He also picks his nose while driving and laughs really loud at things that aren't even funny. When he eats, he eats with his mouth open loudly. After eating, he sucks the food out of his teeth really loudly. I'm sensitive to a lot of sounds and when I tell him to stop because it bothers me, he tells me I'm lying and says my reasoning is stupid. Lastly, he is rude sometimes. He almost ran over a college student earlier and didn't care. He also yelled at my dentist because they made a small mistake. I'm sorry this was long but I really don't know what to do anymore. What should I do?

I have found in my 9 year old boy's search history "sexual fantasies between siblings?" He has an older sister. Should I confront him about it? Should I let it go?

My son was failing in Math so the high school recommended a tutor. They gave me a list of tutors. I started calling and most of them had all the tutoring they could do. I called Lisa and she said she was available for 1 hour 2 days a week. From day 1 of her tutoring my son's grades starting improving. She was only getting paid for 1 hour as that was all I could afford but she often spent much more time with my son. After a month of tutoring my son came to me and ask me to please get another tutor. When I ask him why, he said Lisa was so beautiful, hot, and sexy he could not concentrate on math when she was with him. The next time she was here I looked closely at her and she was gorgeous. She had a figure to die for. She told me she is a college student and also has a part time job as a swim suit model. It just does not seem right to tell her she can not tutor my son anymore as she has done wonders for his grades. She is also a VERY NICE person and it is not her fault she is so beautiful. It is my son's fault he can not keep his mind on math with her but I can understand how teenage boys would be distracted by such a beautiful girl. I also do not want to waste my money for a tutor when my son will not learn anything because his mind is on something else. How should I teach him he is going to have to deal with beautiful women all his life and he has to get used to it. Can somebody please give me some advice on what I should do?

my 6 yr old sister asked what a hurricane is like cuz she been reading newspapers. and i never been in one but i imagine it would be bad. so i just showed her how bad, like with just a silly game involving tossing her around and stuff. just educational really. well she got knocked unconscious for like i would say 2 minutes. then she woke up and was acting weird, like she couldnt remember what we were doing and her face was weird and she was just being weird. so i toad my parents. for which i should be praised, cuz for a minute or 2 i was considering pretending nothing happened. and my dad took her to hosiptal and made me come too to explain to the doctor what i did (doctors shouldnt be allowed to insult patients brothers). and they said concussion. it wasnt serious cuz she was fine by the time we even pulled into the hospital parking lot. she was talking properly by that time. but she still cant remember like 5 minutes before the unconsciousness. they said its retrogade amnesia. But shes fine!!! who hasnt been knocked out a couple times? Ive been unconcious due to fits and unrelated head injuries at least like 20 times and im fine!! but my dad is acting like i done something terrible. he said im a bad brother, irresponsible, idiotic. all these long words. it was just a game. now im a pariah in this house. my mom keeps shaking her head at me. went to get some juice and shes there, shaking her head. its not like i did it on porpoise. i want them arrested its unfair and i went to pick up my 14 month old sister and my mom said no. wtf does she think im gonna do to her? and my dad hit me as i walked passed him on the stairs. it wasnt like serious hitting, more a warning thing but i was carrying juice. and i said im carrying juice and he said shut my face and go do my bio homowork. no!! i have one week left til its due. hes not a teacher

My aunt is not much older than me she's 27. She acts like she's 17. She and my brother are dating. They've been together for 10 years. They have 2 kids she's having another one. She given her kids names with the same letter as they're dads first name. One of them has a really weird name. She's also nothing but drama. She was mad because one of her friends punished her son he didn't even do anything he just took a piece of wood and broke it on him after spanking him with it. He just did it for no reason. Now she's all pissed off about that. Even though she's an awful person to be around I still love her I don't get why she wanted to be with my brother and have kids with him. What's wrong with her ?

we just got a kitten about 3 weeks ago and my baby is 7 months tomorrow and for 2 weeks she has been eating cat food. my son said he was feeding it to her and I asked him why and he said because they all eat it when im at worked. I laughed so hard lmao kids are so stupid but special but the question is do you think it will harm the baby? not really concerned about my son because hes strange anyway

My brother (23) has been living with my family (husband, 3 kids & I) for a little over 2 months. He has a job (we helped him get hired, otherwise he would probably still be looking) I'm trying to help him get his life together but he doesn't contribute to our household (cleaning or money wise) he's barley able to keep his space clean. He's been sleeping in my living room which is why I've been a little unsure about charging him. Every paycheck he has, he blows, he just got paid a few days ago, and has $40 left. Which is why I'm starting to think its a little unfair for us. Considering he really has no bills of his own. Should I start charging him some type of rent?

I ve thought about this and I was wondering why we call grandparents and parents by their titles and not their names and my conclusion was it s out of respect but sons are referred to son all the time but the only time daughters are called daughter is if they are getting introduced like this is my daughter but beyond that they just get called their names

would anyone know that it would be my uncle if no one told? im just tired of being alone and I need to be married and have a baby before next year and if my uncle is game then that's who ill do it to. mmmm

i'm only 15 and she's like 58 or so... all i do is listen to loud music so i won't have to hear her damn voice it's irritating ahh gosh she's finally leaving.. i used to think about killing her but i dont wanna go to jail or juvy idk... sometimes i think about committing matricide and suicide it would feel so good..instead of always feeling like s hit all the time . luckily i have a brother and a loving father but i don't see him often because i choose to( probably because i'm being manipulated again im so stupid). she's so ******* narcissistic i mean i dont have to live in her head . she lives in her head and we're her ''supply''. i'm so glad i'm still alive . like i could have been killed.when i was a little girl we went for a walk and there was this pedophile and he was trying to get us to his car. luckily he didn't succeed because it was ******* daytime and someone would've seen us i remember that my mom did pretty much nothing.. like she wasn't even close to me... and today i'm so TIRED of blaming myself for everything.. i feel like i have to ignore my own feelings all the time and i have to take care of others....to be happy. but it doesn't makeme happy, i resent those people in fact... i hate them i dont want ''hope'' it's not even a good thing. i want freedom. i won't see a psychologist for something so stupid. i mean it's not even affecting me anymorelike it used to before i might be ''burrying my emotions'' and i'm probably denying everything but that's it. i just feel like i can't trust myself anymore. i can't trust my thoughts i can't trust my feelings and it's annoying.

I'm in college living in a dorm. My mom is in her late 40's. She lost her part time job over a year ago that was helping her live paycheck to paycheck and got evicted from her apartment. She found some people to bunk with until they kicked her out. Now she's living with a cousin who is giving her a deadline to get a plan together and job and income before the end of the year. Apparently she refuses to go back to working a part time job and instead has been spending all of her time trying to become a famous actress by contacting agencies, "practicing" acting in the guest room, and participating in a few public plays. She expects to get back on her feet by becoming big and rich. I tried telling her it's not that simple and that she should have a back up plan or part time job on the side to financially assist her but she argues with me that she knows what she's doing and isn't going to "revert" back to working a regular job. She also refuses government assistance because of her pride. And she says she's too old to go back and finish school (she dropped out when she was around my age). Additionally she keeps complaining about being single despite refusing to date men her age and only going after guys in their 20's (who constantly reject her). Lastly, she refuses counseling. What to do about this?

there's a cousin in my family who i had beef with a few years ago. What he did was he turned people in my family against me. He started rumors about me and everything and ever since then i decided to never talk to him ever again This went on for a year. So i was struggling for a while because people in my family were against me. And i fear that if i see them today they will do the same to me. I haven't seen my cousin who started this drama in a few years. But sooner or later i will have to see him for the holidays this year since i am attending this year. What should i do? this only happens when i see my extended family. so do you believe things will be the same as before?

I am a teenage boy. My mother WILL NOT let me use my laptop in my room. This is frustrating for a few reasons: 1) I am a literary arts major. Writing is very hard when you live in a small house with three siblings and loud parents. I have to go sit outside to write, but I live in the city! 2) If i m watching a movie that isn t appropriate for my younger siblings, I constantly have to be moving around so that they don;t look over my shoulder. 3) If i m writing something (like this post) or doing something (like shopping for a b - day present) that I don t want people to see, I have to sit in the corner so no one will see me. My mother has a phobia of the internet because of stuff she reads (online, incidentally) She s convince I want nothing more in life than to watch porn. I don;t know where she gets this idea, as iv e never done anything of the sort, nor have I had any inclination to. Whenever I point this out to her, she says something like: It s not you I don t trust, it s the internet. Which I know is not true, because of a few conversations on the matter with my dad. I explain to her that: a ) Pornography does not just appear on the screen. b ) Even if it did, I have multiple ad-blockers installed on the computer. She still won t let me use my computer in my bedroom, but it is annoying and making the quality of my writing less than it could be. How do I convince my parents to let me use my computer in my room?

My father remarried and had another baby to replace me, so we no longer talk. It's been 2 years. Yet, he's still playing the victim and acting like I did him wrong. I warned him about having more kids, but he had another girl anyway. I had to go visit him every weekend before I turned 18. He kept trying to smooth it over and mend the relationship but there's nothing to mend. He wanted a new family, so he got it. I clearly wasn't good enough so stay away from me. But he won't. He insisted on coming to see me when I was at my grandparents, and sitting in the audience at my school events knowing I didn't want him there. He's SO disrespectful. All I want is for him to leave me alone. You wanted new kids and you got them. So leave the "other one" alone. Now my grandparents are insisting we work it out, so I stopped talking to them too. Why should I have to love him? He decided he no longer loved my mother. I decided I know longer love my father. What's the issue? I hate that he can just start a new family like nothing ever happened. If I have to feel pain because of my parents divorce so does he. If I have to suffer then he will too. He shouldn't get to get away unscathed. I hate him. I hope his life is nothing but misery until the day he dies. And he's so ungrateful and so are my grandparents. I was their best grandchild. I came over and cleaned, bathed the dogs and helped my grandfather around the yard. None of the other grandkids. When my grandparents both got surprise parties, I PLANNED THEM. I was always the one that picked the best gift for each of them because I carefully watched over the year to see what they really wanted. ME. How dare they pick him over me. I don't care if he is their son.

My nose was bleeding and my head was pounding, she says OK I have to go to work, your fine right? I couldn't believe it, felt like she didn't love me and not give me support.

I m 17 and from Ireland and I m currently living with my grandmother because Im going to a private school near her but I go home to my mothers on weekends and I hate it. My mother and father are not together , I don t get on with my mother at all for various reasons and it s getting to a point where I feel emotionally drained and detached from her and I can t do it anymore, is there anyway possible that I could make my grandmother my legal guardian or anyway I could stop my mother from seeing me? I told my dad about the situation and he is understanding about it all and so is my grandmother but I just don t want my mother to have a say in my life anymore and I don t know what to do about it , is there any way My dad could have full custody of me but I could still live in my grandmother ? If that makes any sense

My grandma was diagnosed was liver cancer and given 2-3 weeks or 2-3 months depending on if the low does of chemo make her sick. I'm in college and was already stressed before this. I'm struggling just getting my work done with family coming in town and helping my mom and grandma. I finally told my part time job that I needed to take the rest of October off because all I did was rearrange my schedule and stress even more on school work (I'm going to a community college and live at home). I even told my boss I may need to take November off. I have enough money right now. My dad acted like it was a stupid thing for me to do. Is it? I can always work a lot of hours during winter break. It's just that we don't know how my grandma will do. She is pretty weak now.

This morning when I was using the bathroom, I looked in the corner of the bathtub and my sisters husbands phone was pointing at the toilet (my sister and her husband live with my mom and I). What should I do? I'm kind of scared because I'm home alone with him a lot. (I'm 14 and he's 22)

My mother has a tremendous fear of displeasing her mother. She walks through fire to please her mother and puts her mother before her husband no matter what. Now that I am an adult and out on my own I am beginning to fear my Mom's Mom (my maternal grandmother) also. Yet, she is a perfectly nice lady who only rolls her eyes if annoyed and unrealistic holiday expectations, otherwise she is fine. My mother fears her like she is some deranged lunatic. So how can I avoid my mother's fears of her mother rubbing off onto me now that I am an adult out on my own?

Since my mother and step-father will be away at Thanksgiving I might, if an invitation comes up from my great-aunt on my Dad's side, I am going to accept as I will be doing Christmas with my maternal Grandmother. However, my maternal grandmother gets annoyed with anyone who says no to any holiday no matter what and thus my mother will be angry with me also. My Dad doesn't live local so he wont be there. So it is more then a month away but I am already thinking about it as my maternal grandmother is already setting her calendar for Thanksgiving and Christmas and making sure we will all be there. If I say "maybe" I will be lectured by my mother the next 8 weeks". So what do I do? I am in a tough spot. I plan to accept if my Dad's aunt asks me over as we will be with Mom's family for Christmas. But, I don't want to get the wrath of my Mom and maternal grandmother for turning them down as they feel they are the only true family. My Mom won't be in town anyway. I should add I am the same person who noted my mother fears her mother though she got her mother's permission to travel with my step-Dad but that is because they are traveling to see my sister in Europe. Me seeing the other side of the family will not be considered acceptable based on past experience when my Dad lived nearby.

Brothers 12 and I'm 17 I don't walk around the house naked or anything like that I'm always fully clothed but my brother doesn't care if I see him naked and I always tell him shut the door when your getting dressed but not like I'm looking but I noticed that he's got a Binet a few times over me I think how do I stop it help please I feel weird

My little sister is really upset she still feels bad because our parents died a few years ago. She's been really worried that I might leave her. She asked me to marry her. She's been having nightmares this week because her boyfriend made her watch a scary movie last weekend. Now she's not sure she can trust him anymore. She said I'm the only guy she can. Her boyfriend is also my best friend he's really nice he probably didn't mean to scare her she said she wants to take a break from him for a while. They've only been together 4 months. I don't know what the movie was or what it was about but the way she's been acting this week it sounds really scary. All she said was it was based on a true story and it happened in Ohio which is where we are. Usually she likes scary movies but she didn't like this one. She had a bad dream last night that she was in mom and dads car with them when they wreck it only her dream was different then what actually happened. I had to go in her room and stay with her. How can I help her feel better ? She wants to know that why can't brothers and sisters get married ?

ok she complains EVeRYDAY about my brother yet she lets him stay with us, but when I complain about him she pretty much shuts me down like she says that you are stuck with him weather you like it or not I said tell I move, she got mad. I don't know about her but I try to keep negative people away from me. she complains a bunch of other stuff to but I only do it once in awhile, or I bring something up when she complains just to shut her up because I know it bothers her. One day she said she was tired of hearing me complaining but it's ok for her to do it I thought about doing the same thing to her but I'm not that kind of person maybe she just likes me miserable? I hope her attitude changes when I move out because then I won't have to kick her out of my life.

Ok I am in a wheelchair and don't like to go to many places that I don't know whether I can get in and out of the rooms mainly the restrooms. Well, my family wanted me to go to Cruisin the coast but I was not sure about it. My mom wanted to go but didn't because, I didn't go and I am feeling bad for her. My question is should I be kicking myself for not going? Please serious answers.

My biological grandma and I lost contact when I was little after I was put up for adoption after my bio. mom died (her daughter). We found each other again when I became an adult and developed a relationship. Over the course of 10+ years, she has gotten upset over something trivial (thought I was saying her nose was big, I accidentally ran over a cat she gave me, etc) and would stop talking to me for years on end. The cat incident happened last month and I have not heard from her. My husband told me he feels that I should not allow her back into my life, as she keeps playing these games (ignore, take me back games). Should I stop contact her after she tries to crawl back into my life?

Hey...I am a 17 year old girl. Recently, my parents decided to get a divorce. I am moving into an apartment with my dad. My sisters are living with my mom in a new house. We have to sell a current one because we can't afford to live there anymore. I have lived in that house my whole life and couldn't possibly imagine living anywhere. Just like I can't imagine life now that my parents will be divorced. No more family dinners. Holidays won't be the same. No more family vacations...etc. I understand that there is always the opportunity to still be happy and make new memories and traditions, but I kind of have a thing for holding onto the past even if the past is bad or good. I don't exactly take easily to change. So, my question is: How can I feel okay again and let go of the past? Serious answers only. Thank you in advance.

Also if I use a condom and she is on birth control?

She said that I can't go to my boyfriends house unless I say sorry for cursing her out. Like, i'm ******* 15 i'm not a baby anymore! Why is she doing this to me?

Hey I m a 22 year old guy, and I live with my 15 year old sister. When she was younger she always wore skirts and dresses and let her Hair grow long and had our mom do her makeup. A few years ago she cut her Hair short and she now refuses to wear female clothing. A few months ago my parents asked if she could move in with me, they were embarrassed to take her in public because people mistook her for a boy. She doesn t care what pronoun people use for her though. She came home from school bruised and scratched, she told me that some girls hit and scratched her and she refused to fight back, because she couldn t hit a girl. Our parents keep asking me everyday to try to get her to be more girly but I cant get myself to do it, she has told me that she Hates our step-dad because he doesn t like the way she looks. I don t know what do to, should I do what my parents ask of me, or help my little sister?

So I want to go into the arts as a profession and my brother wants to go pro in sports, now both my dad and step mom are supportive since we both have back up plans, or more pratical job ideas if plan A fails or in my case take a while to take off, however my mom and step dad do not support the idea and my mom is even trying to change my mind of what I want to do, to what she wants to do. Not only that but when we tell others what we want to do, everyone has starry supportive eyes for my brother while not knowing he has a backup plan, and disapproving eyes when I tell them what I want to do and even after I tell them my backup or "realistic job" they still have that unpleasant look on their face. Why is his dream acceptable but not mine?

Hello,i need some help like badly,i share my room with my twin brother(im a female) and i like to masturbate and i only can do it when im in a shower and its getting really boring but me and my brother share the same room he does jack off in front of me and its disgusting but unfair at the same time,he always gets to but i dont feel comfortable doing it around him thats creepy he's my twin not my boyfriend, he never leaves the house unless i do. I love my brother alot and we are stuck like a glue and i dont mind the fact we are stuck like glue i really like how close we are and i can talk to him about stuff we could never tell our mother, but anyhow someone please help i really like to masturbate,Should i tell him i want privacy or just tell him i like to mastubate to and have him leave the room for a little someone please help!!!!!!!!! and i have a feeling someone is going to tell me to have sex with him, I love him but never in that way! -_- first of all,i dont want to hurt him or anything im his twin sister thats why we do share a room and no matter what i do i cant get my own room we have 4 bedrooms my 2 sisters in one,me and my brother,our mom and dad,our grandma and grandpa,and we all have a bathroom in our room and i dont want my own room really i mean i like to be with my brother i like to annoy him and get in his business cuz thats what twins are good at xD i think im going to just tell him i want to masturbate? and also i want an answer from someone who is not gonna be a jerk we are not disgusting at my age masturbating is completely normal and healthy ive done research so if you dont have anything good to say then just simply get off this question thank you. Like i said if i leave he leaves,if he leaves i leave we are always together i need a good answer, my mom wont separate us we are twins so we have to stay together,i dont want to tell my mom that he jacks off in front of me either thats his personal business and i guess only me and him know i mean he masturbates in front of me should i just tell him that i want to do it too but not in front of him?? I would do it under the blanket but what if i moan? i want to do it tonight but he is having a sleepover with his guy friends and they sleep in the room also what if i moan and they hear me??? SOMEONE HELP!!!!!!

My sister had a bad dream she's really upset. She's wanting to go back to sleep but she's scared she'll have the dream again. It's too early for her to be up she's really tired. How can I help her feel better ?

I'm tired of some people including my own relatives trying to take advantage, manipulate, use and control my life. I'm facing so much stress in life and it exceeds to the point I can slightly able to cope. They want me to fight with other relatives and do the dirt for them. My marriage almost ruin because of their abuse and jealousy towards me and my husband. Even I live independently, I've never forget helping my grandma's hospital bills and food. I'm being overly nice to them and as much as possible to avoid arguments. They thought I'm weak because I don't talk much to avoid conflict. My husband keep telling me to grow a backbone, we always fight because of this, till I realized it's time to grow a backbone against my abusive relatives, but it's not easy because my relatives are not used to it (I stand for myself.), if they can't get what they want, they will treat me like a useless doormat and the worst person in the world. They will judge me harshly like they are the cleanest people in the world. I don't want to tell my entire problems to my husband because I don't want to give him so much stress; he has just recovering from heart attack. It's not quite easy to grow a backbone, most especially if you are suffering from severe anxiety but I keep trying. @Blunt: You clearly did not understand what I've said. I did not say helping my grandma is an abuse. What I mean I continue helping my grandma despite of conflict among us. I'm happy to help my grandma but it doesn't mean I should say yes to everything, my other relatives wanted me to get the documents(burial) from my cousin, they had fight before so I need to talk to my cousin to get the said documents, I contacted my cousin many times just to convince her to give the documents @Blunt: continuation... but she did not reply to any of my messages even try to answer my calls, I don't know my cousin's whereabouts. I told my relatives about this but they keep pushing me to ask my cousin about the documents although I can't do something about it anymore and they don't have guts to talk to my cousin for some reason.

He does extremely well on medication and is honestly capable of so much more. Mother is EXTREMELY religious and thinks praying will cure brother. She doesn't understand the reality of what will happened to him when she's gone. He is 30 years old and she doesn't even let him on the metro even though he knows how to use them and where to go. She doesn't allow him to collect disability because she genuinely doesn't want him to do anything. I just don't think it's healthy and he needs guidance to be more independent or at least try. He can't be babied forever. What do you think?

Hey guys! So for the past year (September made a year) I have been taking care of my mom whom had a stroke after having open heart surgery. She is 72 years old, and after the stroke she was left paralyzed on her right side and she needs full assistance with everything. I don't have a job or a source of income because I'm with her 24/7. Besides me (19y/o) she has a 20, 50, and 52 y/o daughter. The oldest daughters promised to help when she came home from the nursing home, but haven't been here since end of April 2016. The 20 y/o works 8-3 everyday, and pockets most of her money (doesn't want to help with bills, FOOD, and home necessities). My mom gets a SSI check that pays the bills and buys half of the groceries, and my girlfriend (who works) buys the other half and the home necessities. Recently I had to be put on medicine for depression and it's helped, but I'm starting to realize the seriousness of this situation. My life is put on hold (mind you right after I graduated HS last year I moved here to "help" with mom, but I am the full time caregiver). The 20y/o doesn't help unless asked, and always leaves at night after dinner to go to her boyfriends, and won't come home till 11/12 the next day to help.. I'm wanting to leave and get my life started (college, job, etc) but I'm stuck between a rock and a hard spot. I love my mom to death and couldn't imagine not taking care of her; but it's starting to take a toll on my body. She is 150lbs and I'm constantly lifting her by myself. The 20y/o has offered to take her to her boyfriends to live there with them, but I know mom will be neglected (she doesn't know the medicines she takes), and she will use her SSI check for ALL the groceries and continue to have her $5,000+ saved.. A little back story; before my mom came home my sister and her (ex)boyfriend were living in my moms house (where ALL the bills were paid), my sister makes $350 a week and her (ex)boyfriend made a little more. Instead of using their own money for bills and FOOD they would use my moms check to always get fast food or junk food at the store so when I came here to help mom had NO money what-so-ever saved up.. :( My only problem with all this is I know that IF I do leave the money I have already saved (over $1,000) will be gone, my sister will once again go back to strictly only using my moms money and I'm sure her current boyfriend will want to use it for most bills because they think it's "owed" to them.. It just sucks because whenever he use to come here the 20y/o would neglect mom and would leave her laying in her pee/poop for hours and she'd cry and scream because she was wet.. I don't want to leave her here but I'm sick of not getting any help and every one expecting me to forget about my life while they continue to live their life like this is nothing. BTW mom DOES NOT have a POA at all, I've tried but all the siblings would have to agree. The oldest sisters don't agree because when mom passes they want her stuff and left over money (they've already said). It's been Almost 6 months since they have even SEEN her.. And when they would come over they would constantly call me to change her, give her meds, etc. I don't ever get a break and she hasn't been accept for long term community care. I don't want to put her in a nursing home because she WILL be neglected because she is not in her right mind. She requires so much attention and assistance and I feel like no one can give her the attention she needs but me. (Not to sound selfish, but it's true.. None of the other siblings "have a heart") I cry every day because of this situation.. I never thought at 19 I wouldn't have my dad (passed away in 2013) and that mom would be in this situation.. I'm so hurt but so fed up at the same time.. Please, any advice would help. Thank you in advance.. <3

My mom said if I did my room and clean some of these other things I could go over to someone s house for the weekend. But moms being a ***** and a ******* Hitler about my room not being clean good enough . EVEN KNOW I SPENT A ******* HOUR ON IT and did all kinds of other cleaning. I think im just going run away, because if I don t I will snap and do something rash. Or ill kill myself. Its just so hard when you been working your butt off to bring up your grades and cleaned up **** till 8:00 and still get that s not good enough . Im just done with this ****. Im sooo tried of this all. My emotional mind that take this all.

Yes, I went through his phone and read his text messages. I got the other woman's number and text her from his phone. She did the same thing. She went through his phone and text me. She got my phone number from him and she has been calling and texting me since. She has embarrassed him public by throwing drinks on him and punching him in the face in front of his friends. She even cut up some of his clothes and left them outside of his apartment building. He told me that he doesn't trust me because I've gone through his phone and for all he knows I've been through his wallet and pockets. I was slightly insulted because all he's done is lie to me and tell me that he was no longer seeing this woman. I went through his phone just to verify that he was still in contact with her and still seeing her. He has stood me up with not calling. Now he's telling me that he is choosing not see me because he can't trust me, but why does he still trust her enough to still see her?

My sisters just turned 16 and 18, and are both in high school. My dad wants them to homeschool suddenly, after they have been going to regular schools before. They are COMPLETELY against it and threatening to call CPS on him because they don't want to homeschool. He also has one specific private school he will let them attend, but they absolutely refuse to go there. They want to go to a large public school close to our house, that my 15 year old brother goes to, and my dad threatened that if my mom takes them there, he will leave and not support the family because he doesn't want them there. He thinks they will get involved with drugs and boys. He has no problem with my brothers going to this school/public schools though. I am the oldest (age 27) and want to help but Idk what to do. I want to do something before this situation spirals even more out of control. He supports the family financially so my mom can't really leave right now.

I hypothesize that fathers with daughters with large breasts are less intelligent than fathers with daughters with small breasts.

Since my mother and step-father will be away at Thanksgiving I might, if an invitation comes up from my great-aunt on my Dad's side, I am going to accept as I will be doing Christmas with my maternal Grandmother. However, my maternal grandmother gets annoyed with anyone who says no to any holiday no matter what and thus my mother will be angry with me also. My Dad doesn't live local so he wont be there. So it is more then a month away but I am already thinking about it as my maternal grandmother is already setting her calendar for Thanksgiving and Christmas and making sure we will all be there. If I say "maybe" I will be lectured by my mother the next 8 weeks". So what do I do? I am in a tough spot. I plan to accept if my Dad's aunt asks me over as we will be with Mom's family for Christmas. But, I don't want to get the wrath of my Mom and maternal grandmother for turning them down as they feel they are the only true family. My Mom won't be in town anyway. I should add I am the same person who noted my mother fears her mother though she got her mother's permission to travel with my step-Dad but that is because they are traveling to see my sister in Europe. Me seeing the other side of the family will not be considered acceptable based on past experience when my Dad lived nearby.

My mother has a tremendous fear of displeasing her mother. She walks through fire to please her mother and puts her mother before her husband no matter what. Now that I am an adult and out on my own I am beginning to fear my Mom's Mom (my maternal grandmother) also. Yet, she is a perfectly nice lady who only rolls her eyes if annoyed and unrealistic holiday expectations, otherwise she is fine. My mother fears her like she is some deranged lunatic. So how can I avoid my mother's fears of her mother rubbing off onto me now that I am an adult out on my own?

I'm 16 and I'm the oldest out of 3. My mom expects me to be the responsible one obviously. She also tells me to reach out to her whenever my siblings aren't following what I told them to do (doing chores, cleaning up etc.) and she tells me that she's going to handle them after she gets home from work but that never happens. Whenever I report my siblings to my mom, she says things like "I'm busy I'll handle it later" or "you guys need to get along" and then she never disciplines them until I ask her about it a week later and she says "ill handle them later".. Then she gets mad at me instead for asking her and then she tells me to "leave the house" because me and my siblings not "getting along". I swear its irrelevant because she tells me to report my siblings to her whenever they misbehave.. And she thinks I'm just reporting them to get them in trouble. Its so ******* ridiculous.. Sorry if this got long I tried my absolute best not to use profanity because I'm so angry rn..

So back in 6th grade I kinda like this guy. He stayed for a month and then he moved. I kinda like him and kinda miss him. Couple of months later like 2 months later I add him on fb he will ignore me. He's always been ignoring me. Idky but I always would hope to see him again. Because I like him. Funny it may seem like a connection my family was looking for house where he moved to but we settle somewhere else. Now beginning of 8 th grade he came back to my new school. Every type of connection just between me and him yeah I know it may be random but between two people so importantly or just back then I used to like him and how he came back. I mean anything can happen just thought If I was a different person. I ignore him. But just why does a person does this ? I would still see him a lot and got to talk with him at school so I thought I should say something. Freshmen year he was in one my class. If I was different I know l know I wouldn't be there and see him. Somphmore year like 1 week I saw him in front of me and pass by me. At school I was known to be quiet and shy that time. Then I moved far away my somphmore year. I'm now a Junior and last year over the internet I told him I like him he ignore and blocked me. I'm so confused. Is this a trap or if I was just a different person. I just want to get it straight what the hell does this mean ? Why did he even came back ? Has this ever happen to you ? Is this meant to be ? If we different planet can change to different person

I'm moving in with my boyfriend and his mom. I'm going to be paying rent and for my own food and won't be sleeping in the same room as him. I'm not moving in with them just to be closer to my boyfriend, I'm only doing it because it's closer to work and to my college. It's the economically smarter decision to make. I'm 19 so I'm not super young. I know it's going to be hard because I'm the baby of the family and also my parents don't believe moving in with your significant other until you are married. I honestly don't believe in that. I'm not trying to be rebellious I just believe it's the right decision to make for myself. How do I tell my dad without making him blow up? He gets mad super duper easily and yells and I'm super nervous to say anything. Please help. No need to be rude. I'm not an idiot, I know that some things can turn sour if not dealt with correctly. I am educated, which is why I know this would be something worth investing my time and money into. And it's not like he's a new boyfriend, we've been together for two years and aren't rushing anything. This is a "I want to save gas and money" thing, not a "oh yay I get to live with my boyfriend" thing.

My fiancé had a little girl with is ex wife. The baby's mother neglected her for all of her life. So my fiancé finally got her back, and took the mother to court, and got a protection order against the mother. The other night I asked the mother over fb if she wanted to talk to her daughter. The mother went and posted on fb trying to make me look like the bad guy and lieing about what I had asked her. What should I do? I've talked to my fiancé about it and all he said was don't let t bother you, it's hard not to when I was just being nice and trying to get her to contact her daughter because she hasn't even tried to contact her!

I am a 15 year old girl who is currently struggling with my Mom and Dad`s "parenting skills." I was not allowed to get an Instagram until I was 13, and I got my first phone at 14. I am not allowed to date or have a boyfriend. I can`t hang out with only a boy, (my mom has to be there or there has to be another girl) even if I`m at home and my sister is too, I get in trouble for saying fricken . My mom makes me power off my phone every night and leave it in her room. Oh, and regardless of whether the whole family is up or not, I can`t use my phone past 10pm... EVER. I am not allowed to walk around town (I live in a nice sized but controlled, crime-free area) by myself. I can`t have my own laptop. I can`t wear bikinis or crop tops. My mom constantly checks my phone and Instagram and reads my texts, which I find ridiculously invasive. Now don`t get me wrong, I don t have anything to hide, but still... I`ll tell my bestfriend things that maybe I don`t feel comfortable telling my mom yet and I don t like that she totally disregards my privacy. I wasn t even allowed to have Safari on my iPhone until last winter. She says she trusts me (and she has every reason too, because the worst thing I`ve ever done is text one of my guy friends during a sleepover at 1am, which I got my Instagram deleted and my phone taken away for 5 months for) but my mom sure isn t proving to me that she trusts me by never getting off my case. In your opinion, do you think my parents are too strict? And about the whole "texting a guy at 1am" thing, we were literally just talking about spring break...

I'm only thirteen, but I had sex thought about my father?! I'm NOT in love with my father (Even writing that makes me Sick to my stomach) So why did I have that thought? I've heard that in Dreams it's not really that you want to do it with your Parent, but what about a thought? Is it the same? Please dont bully me I just want Answers

So a few hours ago my Uncle came in the house acting completely fine, carrying out normal tasks, etc. About 30mins-1hour later he started acting weird (ex. He was saying that I said stuff that I ve never said, kept looking in the cabinets, moving super slow, and just overall acting really weird) I don t know what s wrong with him, I m thinking maybe he s intoxicated but I don t know, my parents never drink so I have no idea of what to look for. I just want to make sure that he s okay. I don t want to flat out ask if he s drunk because he is an ex alcoholic& I feel like maybe that will hurt his feelings. Does this sound like intoxication though? P.S. I was with him from the time that he came inside till he started acting weird and he wasn t drinking or anything.

There is this girl that I know. I don't know her that well but there was stories going around that she was being beat up by her boyfriend. They are both young, 22 and 23. Apparently her friends had reported it to the police but nothing had really happened and she had repeatedly gone back to him so at some point you can only say suit yourself. Her brother came home to visit. He lives abroad. He went to see his sister and he saw some bruises on her. It doesn't take a genius to figure out what was going on. He found her boyfriend and he beat the living $hit out of that guy. Of course no one is talking, including the boyfriend, but I just wonder what do the parents think of this? If someone calls from the hospital about your son being beat up and then you find out what actually happened with the girlfriend and her brother what would you say? I mean if you had a son and a daughter, wouldn't you want your son to do the same for his sister?

I'm 14 years old, and I'm a guy. To put it short of short, I'm the nerdy, antisocial kid in the family. my brother is the exact opposite. I'm into anime, and other cartoon shows, and fandoms, and I frequent tumblr and "fanboy" over stuff frequently. My dad is a tall, masculine guy who watches sports, and wants me to play sports, and wants me to be exactly like him. He wishes I was my older brother. My older brother is 3 years older than me, and he's the daddy's boy. He's the school football star, he gets all the girls, and he's my dad's favorite. I'm just not like my brother. I love my dad, but I don't consider myself girly at all. It's simply what I like. Do you side with my father or me?