I watched this video on youtube about kids reacting to gay marriage and was wondering about the stats of straight marriage of how long they're married and what not. (It got me thinking because straight people get married all the time and get divorced within a couple months and then there's gay couples who have been together for 60, 70,80 years and they were never a loud to marry)

Today I saw a family of four where I work. When I saw the man's wife I was lusting over her. Now I just masturbated to the thought of her. What do you think what her husband would think if he knew I masturbated to the thought of his wife?

The hunted house closes today and he told me 2 weeks ago we will go because i don't go out much and never been to it my whole life.. so i was excited today but he went to the bar instead... also, he never asked me on dates or holds my hands which is understandable.. his excuse is "I have a son to show my full attention too" also everyday I tend to be the driver, I drive everywhere he never insist to drive .. but i shut up about it lol .... maybe he's not affectionate and that's ok right?

True or false - and why?

Socially and religiously: What's the best thing to do if your wife/husband has kept his/her health status from you for nearly two years. Only to realize (by persuasive effort) that she/he's been HIV positive for many years without treatment before you met. and luckily you've not contracted the virus yet?

For now. You see I have an extreme situation. I have debts and I'm going into extra saving mode. Which means I will be starving myself. And I will be working day and night, I just thought It will be more comfortable for her to stay with her parents for now. Did I do wrong?

we are 2nd cuzinz wich is okay cause we aint related but i think he is cheating on me with my brothr who i also admit i am carrin his baby aslo how do i know if it my baby

My ex left me for a woman 12 years younger and who is a whore and marriage wrecker. Only other time I saw her was when the affair was discovered and I confronted her at her work to the point police were called (no charges were filed). That was ten years ago. They married five years ago and I am having to see the slut at something tomorrow of my son's. It will be only the second time I have seen my ex-husband since he left me. How do I treat these evil people when I see them? Both are people I hate beyond words and make no secret of it but I don't want to make a scene like I did ten years ago. The ex won't say anything to me so I just plan to flip my finger and that's it like the other time I saw him but his whore wife apparently greets everyone in the room so I am worried she might. ANY ADVISE?

I feel it is my calling to get them back together. I am 14. How do I get them back together before they divorce and ruin the family forever? Right now my mother just bad mouths my Dad whenever I bring it up and my Dad has no comment. Would it help if I got ill or something? If I get people to sign a petition for them to get back together maybe on my Facebook page? Any ideas? They seperated because my Dad works too much and my Mom is always in a bad mood with him. Also both like someone else (my Mom is dating already though my Dad is not yet). Lastly, my Dad lied about how much money he made at work.

I fell madly in love with this girl. We had plans for our life. I was going to move out to live with her. We were going to get marrried and I was going to support her career. I found out she cheated on me so I ended it. But it's so hard. Your lover basically just died and is gone forever. How do you get over it, it seems like you can't ever right now. It's making me want to take her back but I know that's wrong and weak. Please any advice would be great. If it's a soul mate should I give her another chance ?

It only gives the options "single, married, divorced".. Well I've been separated and living apart from the 'husband' for 5 years. What should I put?

This question is for men and women. Would you choose to be a step-parent for a second time? Why or why not? There is no right or wrong answer, I'm looking for opinion based answers.

My husband found a 3-6 month old pitbull locked in a kennel in the middle of the street trying to chew her way out. She actually lost a few teeth. He brought the pup home and I told him repeatedly that we could not keep the dog and that we would have to find a home for her. We live in an apartment with carpeting and have 3 very small children. But now he is demanding that we keep the dog. It is another responsibility that we cannot afford. I am home all day and it is already enough having to take care of my kids, husband and house but now adding a dog into the mix is too much. He is working all day so I am the one who has to deal with cleaning up the balcony when she does her business and feeding her and walking her. At night he walks her but he has prioritized taking care of the dog over helping me with our kids. He wants to get a kennel to keep her in. What is the point then of having a dog if you are going to keep her locked up the whole time? I feel very disrespected because it is OUR home after all. And I feel he is not taking my feelings into consideration. Should I just find a home for the dog while he works or give him an ultimatum?

All my relationships have failed. Is true love that LASTS FOREVER possible?

For instance Birthday passed, and I received some money for it. He wants me to buy a game where I can participate with him in, but I can't find interest in it and I have already put 10+ hours into it. I want to go to a concert that's a group that will never be together afterwards, and it's a once in a lifetime chance especially with how tight money is. He knows it's hard for me to play this game but 'because I'm your husband, don't you want to play this with me' guilt. closed

My husband and I separated 3 weeks ago.We've been talking about mending our marriage and he tells me today to call him so of course I did. He goes on to tell me that he loves me but he doesn't love some things about me for example; I drink about 2-3 beers every other night to relax and take the edge off and I vape. He also tells me that it's been very pleasant not having my birds there. Please no negativity. I just want a outside opinion. Thank you very much for your time. I want to work out my marriage.

Assuming when they were dating, both had good earning careers. They both did not discuss who would stay at home and tend the kids. Since men are OK with women staying at home, but what if the gender roles were reversed? Would a woman be happy if dad was a stay at home parent? I doubt women would even allow husbands to be a stay at home dad, knowing their nature and the gossiping behavior. It seems to be a risky move but I just wanted to hear from others. @Anonymous, BABEHART, you need to stop going anonymous because I know its you.

My ex wife and I share kids together. She has been with her new beau for over a year. Shouldn't I get to meet him already if he is around MY kids???? Why doesnt he want to meet me?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDDCKvCQ0RA This man needs to tell his wife to get off the tub, because she is frail and could fall by accident and harm herself. He is so self centered he just stares into the camera she is holding while she risks her life unnecessarily standing on the side of the tub. I am ashamed of this man. i am a woman and I would SEVERELY QUESTION my future husband if he did something like this to me. A MAN IS SUPPOSED TO PHYSICALLY PROTECT HIS WOMAN IN ALL TIMES.

Me and my husband sometimes have threesomes with my girlfriends but I caught him texting his ex girlfriend who I've never met asking her if she wanted to have a threesome with us. I told him to stop, but just a few days ago I saw he texted her again saying "Hey how are you?" This is a woman he was engaged to before we got married, apparently she broke up with him. Why is he doing this?

I see so many people say you should blindly put your spouse before your folks, siblings, etc, but I disagree. I think it needs to depend on the situation. After all, spouses can come and go. Granted, not all obliges.parents are good, but on average, they're more likely to stick with you through thick or thin than spouses are. Why do people who put their spouses first get used and abused?

If his wife went to her family/friends for companionship & help with her troubles a lot?

My wife has been starting to want to go out to bars because she says all we do is stay home but I think bars are trashy so I stopped going but she continues to go on her own. Is this a phase she will go through or do I need to be checking up on her? I refuse to waste my time in these bars. We are 33 yrs old and been married since 21. Advice please.

Last time, she brought me lunch! And she invited me to dinner in her place. Now, she might be a total *****, but she's a great cook. And she does one hell of a pasta. To be honest, i haven't had a home made dinner for months. Should I go?

I'm 40 years old and I've been with this guy for 11 years and I have one child with him and two other children that he takes care of and love but he doesn't love me because he doesn't tell me, he doesn't show me. what am I to do? I'm so confused I don't know what to do. I found out he has a son this year and I had to find out from the mother on Facebook. He lied about his last name he lied about his age. He also said he was from Jamaica but he's from Grenada. But I allow him to live in my house because of the child we have together and I do love him. What should I do? I bought our rings to get married but still not married. am I'm a dummy? He refuses to go his papers renewed to get a decent job.

I am a newlywed and my wife makes me choose between her and everything else. For example, I planned to go to my workshop while she is at work today, and she is demanding that I come to see her on her lunch break instead. I understand It would be nice if I did this sometimes, but I planned to see her this whole weekend. She also does this if I'm going to see my dad, or a friend, or my mom. It never ends. Is this normal?

My husband had an affair this whole summer and when i found out they lied then some how it turned out to us having a threesome.Which then turned into the woman telling a lot of info of what he told her some lies some no.I have asked for it to be ended cause theres to many feelings in it well really mine. But my husband seems to want the threesome to continue which yes it was hot but he thinks he should be able to contact her and go see her on the side to keep it going.I asking for comments cause i don't see that a normal not one part of it.

What is a fair share when this happens after almost seven years , when he thought that everything is fine and has a fair wife gave her all his pay checks , tax return other income he gets once a year but in total he makes half her pay check and she bought the house few months before they met and her dad kept saying no to putting on the title if the house when he showed her how to refinance and get half the rate . He was in shock when she said I don't trust you after and knowing him , I know that he is trust worthy and not after anything but now the story changed and he feels threatened if she decides to divorce ,he will be left with nothing . Any answers what is a fair settlement he should be asking for ? Thanks

I don't want to sound like a jerk. But at this point in our marriage. My wife and i are nothing more then room mates. She has a bad heart among other health issues and shes already said she has no love for me. I haven't cheated on her. But i do get lonely at times. I'd never kick her out or abandon her. But all i feel for her is compassion at this point, We already sleep in different rooms and i do support her. I tried emotional support also,

Is this good or bad?

My husband and I are newly married. We are both virgins and every time we try to have sex . I get so nervous and my legs won t relax and I start to push him away . It hurts When just its head enters and I get sooooooo nervous and I cry a lot because I can t do it and I can t relax . I m so scared . Help !!!! How to lose my virginity without pain ?!

We're going next week. He is going to be best man for his best friend in Brazil. They are getting married in 6 weeks. We are going there a month before to do some traveling in South America, mainly Brazil. After the wedding we are going to Japan for 2 weeks and then we are going to India. From there we are traveling south east towards Bangkok and finally down to Indonesia and Australia. We are flying home from Sydney. That is the plan anyways. I am really, really nervous. We have planned for year, especially this year. Or mostly him. He has done this sort of thing in the past. There is a lot of things to plan. I am worried that it will be really hard and that we are so different. I mean he can sleep on a park bench. I want at least a bed and a bathroom. That is my bottom line. It doesn't have to be the most comfortable bed but some form of standards. What if we argue all the time? What if I can't do it or miss home? This trip has been his dream for years and if I screw it up it could be the end of us. Or at least that's what I fear. Has anyone done anything like it?

where as his mother is staying with us and when his mother is sick he expects me to take care of his mother and says that he married me to take care of his mother. i just cant believe how people can be such mean and selfish. i am tired and sick of such people. And wonder why does God not punish such people. Please people i want your advice on such husbands and in laws behaviour who think wife is a slave and married to be a servant and prisoner in their house? i am really sad and depressed and cant believe the injustice done on women (me) by a man we women choose ourself. How does God even forgive such people. The husbands think that once a wife is married she is duty bound to her husband and in laws and her parents or siblings dont even matter. Such low standard and shallow minded people. I literally have no good wishes for my in laws and husband. If i do even be nice to my husband or in laws it is only because of God. Because i fear God. Because i believe that God teaches us to do good in this life and if we do bad for others then bad will happen to us also. But clearly my husband or in laws have no fear of God they do not think that after death they have to answer God. Please pray for me. I am really heart broken by such behaviour of my in laws and husband. I pray often for my husband to change but alas no change seems to come. on other hand my in laws and husband being so mean seem to be doing good in life. Looks like God does good for evil people and puts good people in even more trouble. Please pray for me. wish God would teach such people a lesson. But alas they seem to be getting stronger day by day. Looks like God will never teach them a lesson. And this is just how the world will go on an on until judgement day. Sometimes i feel goodness just does not exist. My question is that how and why do the bad people prosper where as the only thing they give to others is trouble with no thinking for other peoples problems.

My husband's best friend and his wife recently moved into the area. His friend is funny, interesting and so much fun. He's been a loyal friend to my husband since high school. But his wife. . . She is insufferable! She puts him down all the time. The woman never lets up. Her 'jokes' are so disrespectful! You'd think the fact that nobody laughs would be a hint to her to stop, but nah. I'm so uncomfortable around her. I feel so bad for him! Sometimes, I want to call her out, but my husband disagrees. He thinks it would humiliate his friend more to call attention to her behavior. And he says it wouldn't stop a woman like her. Is he right? Would it just make an awkward situation worse? I encourage my husband to see his buddy alone, but he doesn't go anywhere without his wife. Which means my husband wants me along, too. I want him to be able to spend time with his friend, but every moment with this woman is torture. It's hard for me to watch anyone being mistreated, but especially someone I like. What can I do? Any advice on how to handle this?

Being a Bengali wife and having to be 11 hours in the kitchen all the way to make breakfast-dinner. After finish making breakfast-dinner I must serve it then I eat last. The only break I get is bathroom breaks and sleep. I must do all the shopping too and make time to finish lunch-dinner ON TIME. When my husband comes I must serve him even his lazy command since that the WAY women were taught to do everything for there husband in my Bengali culture. I just gotten married by arranged. And I am already starting to fail my husband of not being able to do 11 hours of work, and becoming tired. He is becoming mad at me and sometimes yell at me. I am disable. I have super STIFF legs, with very low blood circulation, I can't feel my feet at times, and I walk cripple. Standing all day in the kitchen makes my legs WORST.My husband don't care I must get the work done anyways. My parents don't want help me either they say "culture is culture, you are a Bengali wife you MUST do everything by yourself and learn in order to please your husband. " What shall I do? I feel USELESS :(

I'm scared I don't know what to do. I'm depressed and feeling stuck and hopeless. He is always upset. He doesn't stay home he sleeps out every night but gets upset if I don't answer him they way he wants. I live in my family home and I still don't feel safe. I want to move far away but I have no money and can't drive. I work but I don't want to give up my job it's hard to get a decent paying job. I'm filling for divorce but he acts as if it doesn't mean anything.