Friends: Question: Should I toss my good friend to the curb? |
- Question: Should I toss my good friend to the curb?
- Question: I have a friend who doesn t have the best hygiene. She came to a sleepover at mine but now the whole room smells like she wet the bed!! Help?
- Question: Whats up with this girl?
- Question: Do you hate being lonely?
- Question: How to get someone to tell me their locker number?
- Question: Where should I go from here?
- Question: Did a CSR rep ever talk rude to u n say wasnt he clear and say when will the retard shut up?
- Question: My best friend knows im suicidal and told me to kill myself?
- Question: My friend's parents won't let her vote?
- Question: How to let go of people?
- Question: What did he mean by this?
- Question: How to make friends?
- Question: Whats up with my friend?
- Question: Why can't I smoke a lot of weed?
- Question: Is this a nasty thing to say to my friend?
- Question: Do I try again with this friend?
- Question: My friend has a really strong obsession with Dan and Phil - should I be worried?
- Question: HOW CAN I GET REAL FOLLOWERS ON INSTAGRAM?
- Question: Need help finding a christmas present... anyone know where I can find this?
- Question: Is my friend ignoring me?
- Question: I have no friends?
- Question: Should I ever speak to my best friend again after what she did?
- Question: Peer Pressure?
- Question: What are your hobbies/things you like to do?
- Question: Was the girl in this video (link below) right to slap my face? I bullied her online, but I never hit anyone. How can she hit me? :(?
- Question: What should i do?
- Question: How can I get my friends back?
- Question: What to say back to a friend who constantly puts me down?
- Question: Should I say something to my friends or let it go?
- Question: Um,Can I get like a friend that I can talk to?
- Question: A good way to kill yourself?
- Question: I have friends but i don t like socialising?
- Question: Is what this girl said to me bitchy?
- Question: How do I handle having a fried who makes choices I don't respect?
- Question: I can't understand myself, help please ?
- Question: I can't understand myself, help please ?
- Question: Is it the right thing to cut my best friend out of my life ?
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- Question: Isn't it a great thing, to have bumped into someone who takes the time from their busy day to make sense of yours?
- Question: Is it the right thing to cut my best friend out of my life ?
- Question: Am I promiscious, normal or basically celibate for my age?
- Question: Is it the right thing to cut my best friend out of my life ?
- Question: I m in somewhat large group of friends in college and my friends keep teasing me and my guy friend about being romantically engaged.?
- Question: (Guys)Have you told your best friend that they are your "best friend" and you get the same in return?
- Question: Do best friends have to be our childhood friends?
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- Question: Hey people, so I was trying to have pizza delivered to my best friend (as a surprise)?
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Question: Should I toss my good friend to the curb? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 05:39 PM PDT I have a friend that I thought was good for me. He invited me to his home on several occasions and I would often stay to 3 or 4am in the morning talking, drinking, and playing games. Often, his mutual friends would be there and they all seemed to get along with me. I would say that they are actually friends with me now. I recently got engaged so I invited him along with those same mutual friends to my house to eat and meet my fiancee. They all came but only stayed for about 2 hours at most. At around 930pm, everybody was leaving because they had some place to be or something to do. I was surprised because when we are at my friends house, we often stay up until the wee hours of the morning. I later found out that all the friends ended up going back to my friends house to spend some more time drinking and staying up. I don't know why but it's bothering me. He said that he had to go home to put his kids to bed and everyone else had their own excuse to leave. All the excuses were lies since they ended up meeting up and drinking later without me. My fiancee says it's no big deal but this is bothering me because I'm feeling like my house isn't good enough for them. I feel disrespected. Am I reading too hard into this or is it correct to distance myself from him (and them)? I hate fake people and I'm trying to get rid of all the negativity in my life. |
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Question: Whats up with this girl? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 05:36 PM PDT My girl friend told me shes blocking me and i shouldnt contact her shes just going to ignore me. And she isnt coming online now. Whats up with her? What does all this mean? We had a fight and i tried making it up to her and she said this? Thanks! |
Question: Do you hate being lonely? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 05:32 PM PDT im very lonely. i dont have friends, i dont have a girlfriend, i live with my parents, im fat and ugly. i am very lonely. my gaming computer is my best friend |
Question: How to get someone to tell me their locker number? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 05:26 PM PDT I'm planning a surprise for a friend and I want to put a note in their locker for part of it but they are stubborn and wont tell me the number so is there a way i could trick them into telling me or something? |
Question: Where should I go from here? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 05:23 PM PDT I m in 9th grade and I have had the same close knit group of friends for about 4 years. Then this summer, I was away and the rest of them all hung out without me. They got closer to each other and I did not. When school started, they keep doing little things that push me further away. They made a group chat without me, dont really invite me places, and kind of give each other looks. I have done nothing to ever make them mad at me and I have never engaged in any real conflict with them. Then today I confronted them about it. They said in a pretty rude way that we have gone back to being just school friends. I told them that I wanted to be closer with them and I would make the effort and they said that they have given up on me and I m the odd one out because I don t do the same sport they do, which makes no sense. They said that they are all similar and I stick out and that they cannot be blamed for this. I dont know what I m supposed to do because I still want to be good friends with them, am I just supposed to forget the last 4 years and move on? |
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Question: My best friend knows im suicidal and told me to kill myself? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 04:39 PM PDT Long story short, shes my best friend, weve been through everything together and shes part of my family. I've been suicidal lately, even ended up in the ER for it. Yesterday during a day drink (we both are in college) we got in an arguement..she told me to go cut myself, i told her shes dead to me, she replied "or your the one whos gonna be dead"... i told her that her wish is my command, and she said "nice do it now" "i get a 4.0 if you do". then told me no guy would ever love me because im psycho and ****** up...she texted me at 4am begging for my forgiveness and that shes gonna seek help for her anger issues. She meant the world to me and I meant the world to her. everyone sees us as inseperable and shes going to counseling to get help for her issues. It hurts so bad to lose the person i do everything with, but is what she said even forgiveable? |
Question: My friend's parents won't let her vote? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 04:38 PM PDT My friend's parents are big Trump supporters. My friend hates his guts and refuses to vote for him, so she was going to vote third party. Her parents are bullying her and making her feel unsafe in her own house just because she doesn't agree with their opinions. What should I do to try to help her? |
Question: How to let go of people? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 04:22 PM PDT I recently lost two of my closest friends in the span of the past year. And not just drifting away, it was a full-blown feud that essentially destroyed the friendships. A while later and they seem to both have moved on, having fun with their other new friends and enjoying life, while I m still stuck here with bottled-up rage every time I think of my former friends and what happened. I want to move on so badly but I m a person that finds it impossible to let go of things that have had a huge impact on my life, this being one of them. I know that I m only doing myself more harm than good, but I can t seem to let go. I ve tried what seems like every tactic that I ve read online and I can t get my former friends and what they did out of my head. Does anyone else feel like this? What do you do? |
Question: What did he mean by this? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 04:07 PM PDT I told this guy I would be coming to see him in November or the beginning of December. I asked him if he was ok with that he told me to let him know a week in advance. |
Question: How to make friends? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 04:03 PM PDT I need to make friends in real life with common interests. How to do it? I would like friends in my school but I am often lone. |
Question: Whats up with my friend? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 04:02 PM PDT Okay this girl im best friends with her and she messaged me saying shes going to block me and i shouldnt just ignore her. Why did she say that? After that she blocked my old number and unblocked my new number. Shes ignoring me she isnt even coming online. She is a girl and im a girl and she said she wants sex. What do i do? Thanks |
Question: Why can't I smoke a lot of weed? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 03:53 PM PDT So I've noticed this ever since I've started smoking about a year ago. I'm 16 now, and every time I smoke with some of my friends, I always get high super fast and then I have to stop. My friends say they have no limit and just keep smoking as much as they can before they run out of weed or have to do something else. I could never do this. I always reach my limit super fast and start panicking a little and I am able to tell myself I can't smoke anymore. This isn't the case for all my friends, but a lot of them are like this where they just don't have a limit, while I reach a limit extremely fast maybe like half a joint. It's not that my lungs hurt or I'm in pain, it's just that i feel like I can't get any higher or it will be bad because I am already going a little crazy. I am smaller and lighter than all of my friends if that is a factor. Is genetics also a factor? Why is this the case? |
Question: Is this a nasty thing to say to my friend? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 03:53 PM PDT My friend is mad at me after i said something mean and nasty. I got mad that he studied with his other friend and that he never asked me. So out of bitterness when he said that they were studying so and so i said "If you wanna to call studying sucking each others D***s" |
Question: Do I try again with this friend? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 03:40 PM PDT To make a long story short, I met up with a girl I went to high school with. (we're both 22) I ran into her at a store and she said that we should hang out. So I took her up on that offer and we went out and had drinks a few weeks ago. I had a great time, so about two weeks later a I texted her and asked if she wanted to hang out again, but I never heard back. I just take that as her not being interested in continuing a friendship with me. I thought about trying to reach out to her again but I'm not sure if I should just leave her alone, given that she basically ignored me last time. |
Question: My friend has a really strong obsession with Dan and Phil - should I be worried? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 03:27 PM PDT Earlier this year I showed my friend the youtubers Dan and Phil because I d seen some of their videos and thought they were pretty funny. She instantly fell in love with them, which I thought was great at first because we had more to talk about. We went to one of their shows together when they were touring in America, and we both bought their book. But after a while, my interest in their videos gradually faded and I kind of just stopped caring. I figured the same would happen with my friend because it s only natural for love and obsession to fade, but it didn t. In fact, if anything it got worse. Her tumblr is absolutely filled with gif sets of them, things they ve said and tweeted, their videos, references to them and their videos, everything to do with them. And they re all she ever talks about, too. She spends all her money on their merchandise. It s been months of the same behavior and honestly I m starting to worry. What should I do? |
Question: HOW CAN I GET REAL FOLLOWERS ON INSTAGRAM? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:57 PM PDT I have 43 followers (they're all close friends of mine) and I follow 85 people(majority are celebs except for my friends) .. all my friends have like 500+ and follow the same amount of people and they claim to know all of them?? Like how?? I'm pretty sure they're joking but still.. Who can I follow to get more followers?? |
Question: Need help finding a christmas present... anyone know where I can find this? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:52 PM PDT A really good friend of mine and I took German classes all through High School together. Our teacher gave us German names, and it was how we were referred to in class. My friend Kaitlynn was given the name Viola, like the instrument. I met her for the first time during my first day of German 1, in my freshman year, and she was a sophomore so I didn't know her by her real name. I ended up calling her Viola even when I saw her in the halls, well after we had become great friends, and eventually I did learn her real name but Viola just always kind of stuck - it seemed to fit her better. I want to buy her something that resembles this story.. Like a small plastic viola in a display case? I mean like the size of a bobblehead. I don't know what the hell to enter into the search terms for this so if anyone could find something like this for me it would be greatly appreciated :) Thanks! |
Question: Is my friend ignoring me? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:50 PM PDT I've known John for two years now, and he even posted on Facebook that I was one of his best friends in the city. However, John always does things like... ignore some of my texts. I know that sounds trivial, but texts are today's messages! For example: last week, he texts me cuz he's annoyed with another person for criticizing his behavior at a dinner. Like a good friend, I texted John back right away and discussed it w/ him. The following day, John texted me again the next day with another comment about it. So I return w/ more elaboration on my part. Then I wrote about a theory that I heard of on the radio, that could be applied to his situation. No response. It's like: I know it wasn't a "question", but why didn't John just acknowledge my message? Why does he come to me, then just stop texting, COLD like that? Gawd! |
Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:46 PM PDT I have no friends in high school or church most of the time I just sit at the benches not in the lunchroom in school and just sit and use my phone and eat my lunch and at church I only have like 5 friends I barley have anyone to talk to especially bc it's Halloween tmmrw I'm not going with anyone I asked my friends but they had plans :( |
Question: Should I ever speak to my best friend again after what she did? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:43 PM PDT I decided to take acid for the first time with group of people at a rave and one of my close friend but they hadnt take the acid yet and it wasn't going to be there first time and my other friend was just drunk. So I left my ID at the hotel and I couldn't go back because I didn't have any money even if I did it was impossible to get an uber back. They all went right in leaving me myself. So there is two check out lines one for ID and the other for tickets and once you they scan your ticket you can't go back out so before they go in the ticket line I called and asked my best friend to bring my other friends ID it was my only option. No of them wanted to come out to give me her ID for no reason, not even to help me get back to the hotel. I tried asking for her lyft account but she would ignore my call or text. Knowing I had no money and no way to get back to the hotel meanwhile being left alone on acid for the the first time. I was crying badly for two hours on the sidewalk. I almost got hit by a car because I didn't know what the **** I was doing due to the drugs . It is my fault for forgetting my idea but it was horrible what she did to me. Leaving your best friend by themself on acid with no help . I was so scared luckily my sister picked me up from 3 hour drive. I basically wasted 400 dollars on the ticket too. I did love her and it's hard for to cut her out but what she really did hurt me really bad I would never do that to a friend. What do you guys think? Thank you |
Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:42 PM PDT What is simething you've done do to peer pressure and was it worth it? |
Question: What are your hobbies/things you like to do? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:40 PM PDT |
Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:35 PM PDT This video: http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=f31_1431510821 So here's what happened. The first girl who slapped is a year younger than me (16). She slept with a lot of guys and is a sl*t, and so I used to call her that online. Never did I call her that to her face. I figured it was true, so it wasn't that big a deal. Many of my friends have slept with her, and she's younger than us. The day of this video, she sent me a message to meet her outside of school for a 'special treat'. So I went, and then she had these friends, and as you can see, she and her friend slapped my face over 40 times and videod it. The humiliation of getting your face slapped even once, by a younger girl, is so intense, and to have it happen so many times was terrible. My friends all laugh at me and say 'you called her stuff online, but look how polite you were in front of her. Hands behind your back, face outwards while she and her friend bi'tch slapped you!' The slaps really hurt and humiliated me, but she has never apologised, Do you think she should? Now I get scared when even my girlfriend touches my face with her hands, thinking I'm about to have my face slapped :( |
Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:26 PM PDT high school sucks for me im unpopular, have no friends, sit alone at lunch, im in special education and in the lowest classes possible, people make fun of me and no one seems to care about me. i feel like people just take advantage of me. |
Question: How can I get my friends back? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:16 PM PDT When I was young I often went next door but after 5th grade it has been limited to me just watching one of them on the computer and in 6th grade I stopped hanging out. I am in 9th grade and I REALLY regret it. As far as I know the only way I would normally go there is by their New Years Eve party. Once I'm there what do I do? |
Question: What to say back to a friend who constantly puts me down? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 02:00 PM PDT I have this "friend" who I've been around for the past few years, and I cannot stand to be around her sometimes. She isn't a good friend to say the least. She constantly talks to down to me, belittles me, and puts me down whenever she has the chance. Every fight or argument we have is always my fault and never hers. She seems to so entitled to an apology, and seems to find every little weakness I have and degrades me for it. It's so constant and I never know the right things to say back to her to make her stop. I'm tired of letting her get away with her rudeness and letting her walk all over me. I need to stand up for myself without looking like a ***** and shutting her up in the process. I think it may have to do with our differences: she's a heavier, shorter, not as great as other girls in the sport we play, she's not very pretty and likes to cover herself in makeup. The things she likes to insult me are how I'm "rich, white, my dad's a doctor.." on and on. I don't know if she's jealous, insecure, unhappy.. whatever it is, she takes it out on me and I'm sick and tired of it. Something like, "Why would you say that if you're supposed to be my friend?" "Are you really that insecure that you have to constantly put me down to feel better about yourself?" "Does it make you less unhappy to make others feel bad?" I need some good responses so I can stop feeling like this. Please help! |
Question: Should I say something to my friends or let it go? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:55 PM PDT In the weekend my partner and I had some friends over for a small party, I ended up having to leave very early to go to the emergency room because my 1yr old fell down the stairs and hit her head. Long story short, I missed the whole party and got home as the last people were leaving. I was nursing my very tired, frightened & sore baby when two of my friends asked if I could drive them home. I suggested that they got a taxi as it was already midnight and I needed to stay with my little one, I even offered to pay for their taxi. After about a 10 min argument I ended up giving in and driving them home. They gave me the wrong directions about 5 times and the entire journey took over an hour. I got home to a very upset, unsettled little girl, still awake at 1am! They haven't even text to say thank you. I'm fuming. I can't just delete these people from my life because they are in our circle of friends but I feel like I need to say something to them? They really do have no respect! I told another friend about it (a childless friend) and she said I should chill and let it go... What do you think? |
Question: Um,Can I get like a friend that I can talk to? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:53 PM PDT I honestly feel so lonely,I actually had friends but then I shifted to dubai and I just feel like I m all by myself,No one that I can talk to and all that stuff,I have alot of interest in playing games online on my pc,Like roblox and all that those online Games,Well In my point of view I feel like a kid my age is 14,It s not that I have no friends at all,I got a couple of friends too actually...And most of the time,They are just busy,Like in school work home chores and alot of other stuff I don t really relate to,I m more of a lazy kind of person,I stay in home all day playing games and sleep,I m really used to it,But I feel like I should be going outside to make new friends,It is a great idea though,Anyways ill drop my kick down below,Message me if you feel bored and feel like doing some cool stuff, Kik: JustinBeanerHatesU. |
Question: A good way to kill yourself? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:38 PM PDT I'm missing my friend. Well I say friend. to cut a long story short I kind of got obsessed with her. and people were horrible to us and she ended being forced to leave me alone by her parents. its been 8 months. I recently got expelled from school because I collapsed when I saw her. now I just really miss her so badly and want to die |
Question: I have friends but i don t like socialising? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:30 PM PDT i have a group of friends at school, but it takes a lot of effort to socialize with them. I can only talk to them as a group, if i try to talk to one of them individually it s just awkward. It took me a while to make these friends and I don t think I can make any more. The only reason i really bother trying to socialize with them is that i hate looking like a loner. Honestly, if I had the choice (if it looked normal), I would just not socialize at school and instead just sit down and think about life I just don t get why I am so different |
Question: Is what this girl said to me bitchy? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:23 PM PDT Every Wednesday after school I go to this dance company rehearsal thingy at my school and it's really cool, I enjoy it. But the other day my phone got converscated and so I had to collect it after school. But it took like 15 minutes to collect it because of the stupid teachers. Me and one of my friends both had to wait outside this office to collect our phones. We waited for quite a while. Then finally when I got in one of the teachers say that she hasn't got my phone, so I tell her that her colleague who worked in the same office had it. Blah blah blah. It took a while to get it. - And then a day later she says 'Why were you late to dance?' And I say that I can't rebothered to explain bc it's probably frustrate me. Then she says ''Coz you know you don't have to come right?' i feel like she hates me being there and this other girl does too. I go to an all girls school and another girl said that I didn't even want to go to the dance club, which isn't true at all!! I seriously don't know what their problem is, but people know that they're bitches. Is it because I have natural talent in dance? What their problem? |
Question: How do I handle having a fried who makes choices I don't respect? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:17 PM PDT This girl is my best friend. However, she has always been the type to be in 1 or 2 year relationships, and as soon as one ends, the next one starts. She's shy and doesnt have a lot of friends other than me. She has sort of this 'helpless' vibe. I was never in relationships during my teen years so I am comfortable being on my own. What I've noticed is this side of her also means she doesnt know how to take care of herself, like it took her until her last year of college to apply for internships when she was talking about wanting one years ago. she just doesn't take initiative and assert herself. Anyway, now her relationship is long distance and she lives her life on the phone with him. I am in a long distance relationship too but we don't talk constantly. She even will say no to plans to Skype him. I dont want to criticize her, but it is really difficult for me to respect her. This is a big part of her personality but it is getting hard for me to be OK with it. I dont know what to do because it is making me become less nice...I get snappy and irritated with her because I just dont think this quality is attractive. Normally we are very honest with each other but this is a difficult topic, because it's basically an observation on her entire lifestyle. I dont know what to do because it's interfering with our dynamic and friendship and I need to learn how to handle it. |
Question: I can't understand myself, help please ? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:15 PM PDT I'm 20 years old and i'm girl, I have no friends, I had many chances to have really close friends, People used to come to me and ask me to hang out and stuff, But the thing is everytime I become friends with someone, i push them away for some reason that i don't understand "yet", When i'm with them, we're hanging out and everything, i feel really really happy, but once I come back home, and i'm alone... I start thinking, maybe they're taking me for a fool ? maybe they don't like me and they don't want to say so cause it's mean... maybe maybe... all night... then the next day i just talk less, push them away, and act weird, and totally different from the other time, They obviously understand that something's wrong and leave FOREVER, and never come back, And then i start to feel lonely and sad again and so on and on... I even block friends from my facebook friends' list with absolutely no reason... When i finished highschool i deleted all my friends even those who were so good to me... after finishing uni i did the same, and Now I can't meet new people and stuff, cause no one seems to be really interested, I don't understand why I do that to myself, I'm such a weird person, I don't know if i'm an introvert by choice or what exaclty do you call that ? I feel like i'm really happy when i'm with good people having fun, but at the same time i feel like i'm scared, So when i'm alone and lonely it feels sad and depressing but kinda comfortable ?? I don't know hlp ? btw it's the same problem with having a boyfriend or someone to love, I always stop and push that person away after the first date or something, there's something inside of me that tells me to not get into these kind of relationships... I'm so messed up, i don't know what's wrong with me :/ |
Question: I can't understand myself, help please ? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:15 PM PDT I'm 20 years old and i'm girl, I have no friends, I had many chances to have really close friends, People used to come to me and ask me to hang out and stuff, But the thing is everytime I become friends with someone, i push them away for some reason that i don't understand "yet", When i'm with them, we're hanging out and everything, i feel really really happy, but once I come back home, and i'm alone... I start thinking, maybe they're taking me for a fool ? maybe they don't like me and they don't want to say so cause it's mean... maybe maybe... all night... then the next day i just talk less, push them away, and act weird, and totally different from the other time, They obviously understand that something's wrong and leave FOREVER, and never come back, And then i start to feel lonely and sad again and so on and on... I even block friends from my facebook friends' list with absolutely no reason... When i finished highschool i deleted all my friends even those who were so good to me... after finishing uni i did the same, and Now I can't meet new people and stuff, cause no one seems to be really interested, I don't understand why I do that to myself, I'm such a weird person, I don't know if i'm an introvert by choice or what exaclty do you call that ? I feel like i'm really happy when i'm with good people having fun, but at the same time i feel like i'm scared, So when i'm alone and lonely it feels sad and depressing but kinda comfortable ?? I don't know hlp ? |
Question: Is it the right thing to cut my best friend out of my life ? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:08 PM PDT I decided to take acid for the first time with group of people at a rave and one of my close friend but they hadnt take the acid yet and it wasn't going to be there first time and my other friend was just drunk. So I left my ID at the hotel and I couldn't go back because I didn't have any money even if I did it was impossible to get an uber back. They all went right in leaving me myself. So there is two check out lines one for ID and the other for tickets and once you they scan your ticket you can't go back out so before they go in the ticket line I called and asked my best friend to bring my other friends ID it was my only option. No of them wanted to come out to give me her ID for no reason, not even to help me get back to the hotel. I tried asking for her lyft account but she would ignore my call or text. Knowing I had no money and no way to get back to the hotel meanwhile being left alone on acid for the the first time. I was crying badly for two hours on the sidewalk. I almost got hit by a car because I didn't know what the **** I was doing due to the drugs . It is my fault for forgetting my idea but it was horrible what she did to me. Leaving your best friend by themself on acid with no help . I was so scared luckily my sister picked me up from 3 hour drive. I basically wasted 400 dollars on the ticket too. I did love her and it's hard for to cut her out but what she really did hurt me really bad I would never do that to a friend. What do you guys think? Thank you |
Question: Ladies--how likely are you to use your long nails as weapons? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:06 PM PDT Have you describe in detail~ for the most points. |
Question: I just realized nobody likes me. What should I do? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 01:03 PM PDT I was thinking about life the other day when I realized something: Nobody really likes me. I'm not just talking about girls,I'm talking about the fact that I met a lot of people these past few years but they just stopped in my life for a while and then go,I mean. I've always tried to be kind to people,to be funny around them,but I just realized that everytime it's saturday night nobody calls me up and when I ask people to hang out they're always busy. I've spent the last 2 new years eves alone,sometimes I think that if I died tomorrow,the only ones to mourn my loss would be my parents. I tried so hard to get friends,both in high school and in college but nothing worked out,maybe I'm boring,maybe I'm just unable to get friends. The only people who I consider friends are 2 guys. One is in Europe for 6 months and the other basically is 24/7 with his girlfriend.I have hobbies like canoeing (I'm from Colorado) but after the initial basic training ended I was practically on my own. I don't know,I just don't seem to fit anywhere with anyone.It has always been like this. I wish I had got female friends too but everytime I tried making friends with a girl she called me freak behind my back so. What should I do? |
Question: Why did this friend do this to me? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 12:50 PM PDT I went in for an interview at a ford dealership in May of last year for sales position. Was not offered it because I hadn't worked as a car salesman before. Instead, this salesman said he was still going to get me a job. He offered to help me find a job. Told me a few places to apply to. His other idea was to walk around with me to a few places (he was wearning casual clothing, t-shirt and pants). When that clearly didn't work, which I didn't expect it to, he then decided to bring me into the dealership,. Dealer trade driver, supposedly everyone was so excited to have me come aboard. Only got to do 1 trade. The new vehicle inventory manager fired me three weeks later for no reason. My "friend" did not stick up for me. He said he would get me another job. He said he would talk to some guy named "Dana" who worked for a drug store that he knew because he used to work for him. I think this Dana person didn't exist because I couldn't find him on facebook even though that was supposedly how he was contacted. "Dana" never responded. The "friend" kept insisting he would get me a job. When I would call him for updates, oftentimes he was too busy and said he would call back at the end of his shift (he never did one single time). At some point, after confronting him about his promise to get me a job "I only said I would help you get a job". At some point, I just got tired and cut him out. Didn't even notice how I deleted him from facebook a second time. Didn't act like he cared. I listed every grievance I had against him. His response was "If you don't wanna be my friend, sorry, but that's on you. Sorry that life's not fair." We even had dinner a few times, once with his group of friends, and another with his girlfriend. He had 3 children out of wedlock, never married the mom. Broke up with her, went to Boston. decided to come back to be a dad. Now shacking up with his childhood sweetheart, who has 2 kids from another man, no plan for the future. |
Question: Made out with my best friend (both girls)? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 12:40 PM PDT Okay so, me and my best friend where at a sleepover with another friend and we were sleeping in the same bed and we were doing an all nighter. Everyone else was asleep and we started speaking about sex and kissing and about how we would like to kiss to find out what it feels like. And then we asked eachother if we should practice for our crushes so we started kissing and really enjoyed it and started snogging and making out. We are both straight and 15 but it felt nice so we did it more until our other friend started waking up so we stopped and went sleep and haven t spoken about it again. But I kind of want to kiss her but we go to different schools now and we are never alone to do it and it would be awkward if We spoke about it again. We just act like it never happened. Is this normal and your opinions and advice? |
Question: I am tired of this "friend"? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 12:36 PM PDT The difference between me and her is that when we have plans I keep that plan as my priority so if someone asks me to go somewhere at that day and time ill say no i have other plans.. whereas she would say okay and tell me "sorry im busy on that day".. Like today we planned going out tomorrow because she said ahe has nothing to do for halloween and neither did i and now she texted me and said "sorry im going out tomorrow".. wtf? wjat should i say to her to address this? |
Question: Struggling to make friends. How to make friends in college? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 12:29 PM PDT I have been here for a little over two months and have struggled to find a friend group. I moved across the country for college and have found myself feeling pretty lonely sometimes. I'm joining more clubs and trying to put myself out there more, but I still feel uninteresting and lonely. Any suggestions? |
Question: Do you think this is wrong for me to do after I had sex with my best friend? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 12:28 PM PDT My mom and I are really close and when I started having sex with my best friend I asked her if he had a nice size penis. She said Yes but don't send me anymore pictures of your best friend's penis. I haven't but I was just curious. Do you think this is wrong for me to do after I had sex with my best friend by sending my mom a picture of his penis? I was just a curious girl, but at the time I was a virgin and had never seen a penis ever in my life so I was just wondering if he had a nice size one or if he was too small. @Adam: I wanted to know if his penis was a good size or if he was on the smaller sized |
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Question: Is it the right thing to cut my best friend out of my life ? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 12:22 PM PDT So we went to a rave festival and I decide to take acid for the first time with my one of my close friend , my other close friend was sober and we went with group of people. So while in line I realized I forgot my ID at the hotel and I talked to the security, but they didn't let me in. It was completely my fault. So my friends still went in for the ID check but before they go in the last check in for the ticket I asked my close friend if she would bring my other friends ID because we look similar, it was my last option. But no one wanted to come out to help me to give me her ID for no reason. They knew I had no money to get an uber by the way it was impossible to get an uber at that time and place. They completely left me out there. And when I tried to call them to see if I can use their lyft account they wouldn't answer their phone or text. I was tripping all alone and basically crying badly for an hour on the side walk. I almost got hit by a car because I didn't know what I was doing. Luckily my sister had picked me up from a 3 hour drive. Knowing I had no money and I was tripping the first time they didn't bother to help me at all, it wasn't there first time tripping and it hadn't even got them yet because they hadn't took it. You don't leave your best friend all my herself out there while on drugs. I would never do that to a friend. I did love her and it's very hard to cut her out but I feel like I can never forgive her for what she did. What should I do? Thank you |
Question: Am I promiscious, normal or basically celibate for my age? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 12:03 PM PDT Hey. So I'm 17. This is all I've done At 10 someone started showing me sexual things. I thing this was wrong. When I was 14 I made out with a guy. We had a fling. At 14 I Got fingered by a guy I had a fling with at school. I didn't want to give him a hand job really but he kept leading my hand into his pants and I did it anyway. At 15 I got really drunk and high and led a stranger who was sober into a back room. I blew him. He ate me out. I can't remember if I had sex or not. At 15 this guy asked me out on a date but he ended up forcing me to blow him and got on top of me. Unfortunate I guess. At 16 I met a guy on the beach. He was 18. He fingered me. We made out. At 17 I made out with a guy at a concert. He was 19. |
Question: Is it the right thing to cut my best friend out of my life ? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 11:45 AM PDT |
Posted: 30 Oct 2016 11:42 AM PDT I even ask one of my close girl friends that sometimes I feel as though people at school perceive us as a couple and she responded with gasped, chuckled and responded with "omg thank god I wasn t the only one who thinks of that" what are my friends intentions? Are they hinting that my guy friend has taken interest in me? |
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Question: Do best friends have to be our childhood friends? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 11:36 AM PDT |
Question: I can't understand this girl, What does she want? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 11:14 AM PDT This may be a bit long so bare with me. I'm a college student 2nd year now. Last year, I met this girl who was kind of outgoing and childish, and we became sort of friends during that year. Here's what her behaviour is like. One time when i was passing an exam she passed close to the door and asked me if i was doing ok while smiling and stuff, so when i got out i wanted to ask her back how it went for her, but she completey ignored me, but i felt it bfore it happened, so i passed like nothing happened, like i didn't see her. Also, everytime we have a long convo or we walk together to the bus, she's super friendly then the next day she's totally ignoring me. I noticed it, so i decided to play her own game, but after a while , i noticed she was making exuces to talk sometimes. The thing is, this year i'm with her on the class, and i dont know if i'm overthinking it (i think i'm not). Last week, i got on the bus and i found her with her friend so when i got out we walked together with her by my side, then when we arrived to the stairs and i said something funny about her, her friend laughed and i see her starting to run with her head down and smiling, also the other day on the bus she passed very close to me did the same thing (smiling to the ground). i NOTICED that she has a pattern, always smiling and being nice then ignoring, but i don't like that and i'm ignoring her for long now. Can someone explain her behaviour please? |
Question: Friends left me. I feel like crap. Will time mend this friendship or my feelings? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 11:06 AM PDT I struggle with bipolar disorder. I went off my mess and I had a complete breakdown and did and said some super nasty things. I didn't mean it. I am now back on my meds. I start counciling on Monday. I am starting church tomorrow. I want to show them I can change. When I called her to chat she said she was completely over it and she needs time to think about being my friend again. She said she doesn't like a heart ache involved with it. I understand. Bipolar sucks. If I give her space will she forgive me? If I show her I am trying to better will she? True friends forgive right? |
Question: How do i deal with annoying people in my class? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 11:01 AM PDT so this year we have some new students im not gonna use their names so ill just call them 1 2 and 3 1 is my ex bff 2 is the main problem and 3 is just a backround problem but still related so for the first week me and 1 were hanging out just fine but soon she started hanging out more with 2 and even moved her locker to be closer to 2 which is against school rules and that made me feel lonely then like a month of me trying to ignore 1 and 2 1 asks me why ive been ignoring her when a few weeks before i tried to tell her that her brother had a message for her an di had to say her name 8 times for her to pay attention to half the sentence. then 3 started joining and now they all act like copies of 2 They are all sooo annoying they talk about celebs all the time like i had to sit with them in science because they sat with me when there were other seats but during science we had 15 minutes where we could talk and they went on and on about celebs and buying the kylie jenner lipkit and other **** then when we had to light a bunsen burner 3 kept begging to light it so i gave her the matches and she kept whining how she was afraid of it and she couldnt even light a match like WTF then 2 takes it from her and takes like 3 tries to light a match then i give 3 tips on how to hold a match to light it better and 2 interrupts me and brags how she lit hers in one strike. i have more stories but theres a word limit in english we had a group project in class and i went down to the library to print when i see 2 looking through tumblr in the middle of a lesson in the library with no permission and 1 defended her by saying she can do what she wants and the earlier week we were asked to say where we saw ourselves in 5 years and 2 said yale so during the argument with 1 i said '' if she ever wants to go to yale shell get off tumblr and do her work'' at camp i was in a room with 1 and late night 2 cam infora comb so i got dresscoded for wearing a croptop but when 2 wore a croptop and took off her jacket at the same class i did it took twice as long for a teacher to talk to her about it even when i reported her and i never was reported and guess what the teacher told her they said her croptop was fine but mine was so bad that i missed 3 lessons and my croptop was over my bellybutton like WTFFFFF,i hate them so much and its hard to ignore people who talk while the teacher is talking and their in my class and during art class they ALWAYS sit on my table like why and their always drawing starbucks its unlikely theyve even had starbucks considering there are none in our region. one time they were 10 minutes late to class because they were talking and 3 had to get soemthing from her locker which would probably only take 2 minutes if she went alone but the teacher scolded them for taking so long and that she couldve went alone.plus i heard them shaming a girl they dont know IRL for wearing makeup so how can i deal with them cause i cant ignore them if their disrupting for being late , they sit with me for no reason and their in my class and talk while the teachers talking which can be very distracting |
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Question: Hey people, so I was trying to have pizza delivered to my best friend (as a surprise)? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 10:57 AM PDT So I was trying to have pizza delivered to my best friend (without them having a single clue about it) but it turns out I need to be there to show my credit card and ID. But that s why I was having it delivered to their house because I can t be there at the moment and it was just a kind gesture I wanted to do for my friend as an appreciation for always being there for me. Do any of you know of pizza companies or restaurants that are able to deliver even is the buyer isn t present to receive the delivery? Any suggestions on food places that do so is highly appreciated! Thank you!:) |
Posted: 30 Oct 2016 10:57 AM PDT Hi my name is Scott, first of all I am going to tell you a bit about myself. I am 6'1" weighing 11.1 stone and am 18 years old. I have Blue eyes and Blonde hair, I go to the gym everyday and am interested in bodybuilding. First of all I am going to start off by saying I have like no friends, I am very shy, very negative, and I would say I am possibly suffering with depression because of this. I am even too scared to go out because I am afraid that people will laugh at me it has gotten that bad. I never used to be like this, when I was 12-14 years old I had like 5 girlfriend with loads more fancying me but since then nothing. I tend to get bullied by loads of people and all, doesn't matter where I go I will always get one person picking on me, My personality sucks which doesn't help my cause. I Left school in 4th year with 4 national 5s (I am scottish by the way) and went to college to study the merchant navy for a year then fabrication and Welding for another year in doing so got my Maths and physics Nat5 so I could leave to train to become a deck officer. In college I had like no friends and would say I got bullied yet again. Then after I moved from the place I originally stayed I went down to Glasgow (this year) to study nautical science there, where these years are supposed to be the best years of your life and I have made maybe 1 or 2 friends but not much, some people will even take a snap chat of me which doesn't help. At the moment my Life sucks! |
Question: My friend won't accept my apology? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 10:45 AM PDT so I'll start off with I know what I did was wrong. so last night, me and 5 of my best friends were hanging out at one of our houses. we were very bored and had nothing to do. one of my friends texted her sister's boyfriend (whom she's friends with) and said "hey come pick me and some of my friends up and we'll go get something to eat" and he agreed. so my friend (who's house we were at) said "I'm kind of tired but you guys would still go, I promise I won't get mad" so I begged her to come cuz I told her I didnt want to leave her out and she swore she didn't care, and she sounded sincere. so she insisted we went, so as we (3 girls stayed at her house, 3 girls left) left, I apologized again and said "tell me if you're upset I swear I won't go" and she let me go. I apologized over text again that night. the next morning, she said what I did was childish, selfish, she's extremely mad at me, told me I only care about myself, I refuse to admit my wrongdoings and I hurt her feelings on purpose. obviously, I defending myself by saying she insisted we went, I said sorry like 4 times, and she won't accept my apology, but she still mad at me. what should I do? I'm not apologizing again, I apologized around 5 times (I stopped by her house last night after I went out to eat) to apologize again and she swore it was fine. am I in the wrong, or should she just accept my multiple apologies and realize she should've said something if she didn't want me to go?? |
Question: Did I just get friend zoned? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 10:41 AM PDT met her a couple days ago and when we were talking we never mentioned "friendship" or anything but now she was like I'm liking our newly sprouted friendship? |
Question: How to get rid of the fear of being judged and or being awkward? Posted: 30 Oct 2016 10:34 AM PDT |
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