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- Question: How to become comfortable with talking to someone?
- Question: How to be open with someone and not be afraid of being judged?
- Question: How to start a conversation with someone you want to be friends with? HELP im a 9th grader (freshman in hs) and don't have many friends.?
- Question: I just don't know what to do anymore?
- Question: I lied to my parents about hanging out... please answer!!!?
- Question: I have a problem absorbing other peoples' personalities?
- Question: Moving friendship groups?
- Question: One of my best friends is moving. How do i cope with it? I don t like thinking about happy memories we had together. That makes me sad.?
- Question: I m getting tired of my best friend!!?
- Question: I cant play proam in 2k17 with my friends.?
- Question: Why do I refuse to let bad friendships go?
- Question: Should I confront my "friend"?
- Question: I feel awkward tension between my best friend and I?
- Question: How are people okay with other people walking out of their lives? How do you be ok with it?
- Question: My friends go out and wasted all the time. What do I do?
- Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?
- Question: Do people hate me because I'm annoying?
- Question: What's a good finsta username? My name is Avery and all my friends have a good username but I need a clever one. Any ideas?
- Question: Going to mall with opposite gender friends?
- Question: Roommate is upset about dirty dishes, but I seem to be the only one cleaning anything?
- Question: I started at weighing 300 pounds, since August, I have lost 100 pounds, so why do people at my job/my students think I a sick?
- Question: My parents think i have no friends but i do help?
- Question: How can I deal with this hell at my high school?
- Question: I broke my friends phone, what do I do?
- Question: OMG SO MANY RUMORS?
- Question: I hate my life?
- Question: I've lied to my friend so many times and now he wont trust me? someone write an appoglogy letter?
- Question: Did I do wrong?
- Question: How to feel comfortable in a new friend group?
- Question: My best friend is dating my cousin?
- Question: How to get mom happy and to change her mind?
- Question: Should I get my best friend back?
- Question: Toxic friendship, please help..?
- Question: How can I forget the past?
- Question: I'm going to a sweet sixteen and I wanted to know how much money should you put in their card? It's a friends daughter. All suggestion count?
- Question: In program that states no overnight guests but would that mean no guests at all for my circumstances?
- Question: What should I do to find closure or is this friendship over?
- Question: How to let go of regret?
- Question: Is it weird that me and my guy friend get changed in front of each other?
- Question: Is it okay to get changed in front of my guy best friend?
- Question: I've lied to my friend so many times and now he wont trust me?
- Question: Why do people think that is all I need is their company?
- Question: I messed up my best friends plans! What do i do!?
- Question: Why am I weird sometimes?
- Question: How could my friend not notice this?
- Question: Are these abs?
- Question: My mom won't trust me?
- Question: Rebecca, you're the greatest troll, I love you.?
- Question: Why am I always the forgotten friend?
- Question: I said something really rude?
- Question: I m not sure what to so I d like your opinion on how to make friends.?
- Question: Why is my friend Dennis mad at me after telling him to eat a d1kc?
- Question: Losing my friends?
- Question: So lonely?
- Question: Airbnb host cancelled, tricked my friend who booked for us?
- Question: It's seems like my friend enjoys it a lot when I say sorry to her. Why do you think that might be?
- Question: A "friend" is lying to his parents that he is hanging out with me when he is not. How should I handle this?
- Question: TALK TO ME?
- Question: Is it wrong not to invite a friend for Halloween?
- Question: Should I keep dating him?
| Question: How to become comfortable with talking to someone? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 05:48 PM PDT |
| Question: How to be open with someone and not be afraid of being judged? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 05:48 PM PDT |
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| Question: I just don't know what to do anymore? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 05:47 PM PDT My boyfriends so called best friend called and said that they're going to some stupid haunted house well this friend hasn't picked him for anything. He claims that he has a child to take care of we'll he's gone from job to job he had a felon and he smokes majiuanna which I hate. I just don't trust this friend of his and I'm sick and tired of it. |
| Question: I lied to my parents about hanging out... please answer!!!? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 05:31 PM PDT (Just before i get into this my name is sara) So me and my best friend (lets call her Hanna) wanted to go to a meet and greet tomorrow. (We have to go to the meetup secretly because her dad wont let her) My mom and hanna's mom have been friends forever and still are but her dad hates my mom for no apparent reason... so we can only secretly hangout (without her dad being home.) So my friend lied to her parents and said "mom, dad, can i please go to the library tomorrow with my friend nina, we have a huge project." (My name isn't nina, it's a fake name she only did it so that her dad doesn't findout that she's hanging out with me and where we're going) and so my mom was gonna pick her up tomorrow and we could have gone but her dad has doubts and says "i'll just drop you off to the library and u can study with nina there" the thing is... THERE IS NO NINA AND WE ARENT SUPPOSED TO BE GOING TO THE LIBRARY, WE WERE PLANNING ON GOING TO THE MEETUP!! Please help us think of ideas to tell him that "nina's mom will just pick us up" without directly saying that. We're freaking out because we have been waiting for the meetup forever! Plssss help !!!! |
| Question: I have a problem absorbing other peoples' personalities? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 05:16 PM PDT This all kinda started in elementary school. I had a friend that would make chuckle-laughs when our group of friends would make witty jokes, and after a while, I started making the same laugh. A mix between a mhmm and a chuckle. I've been copying my friends' facial expressions unconciously and the weird noises they make as well, for example, farting noises with the mouth. I've even been copying what they say like, "that's a negative ghost rider" "saaauuuu dude?" "Ho yeah!" "fight me" "I'll cut your neck" "I hope you get mugged" "no balls" to just name a few. |
| Question: Moving friendship groups? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 05:15 PM PDT I'm currently in a friendship group of 7 - me, my bestie "Katie", and 5 others. There's one 'Anna' who is rude, racist and judgmental and I have to constantly apologise for having my own opinion... it makes me uncomfortable eating with her and I am miserable. We just had school camp and another girl 'Lia' just told me that she felt the same way. I normally just put up with Anna since I thought that I was the only one who got offended but knowing that Lia felt similarly made me really mad and for once I decided not to apologise for calling her out on being racist. Anna was really pissed and got extremely emotional over this and decided to complain about me to Katie and 'Olivia' during dinner and thinks that I don't know. After she calmed down, she decided to talk things through with me and apologised and I came to terms with her not wanting to make problems, but she denied that she ****-talked about me, but from now on I have a deep dislike for her and I no longer trust her. Now there are these three girls who I have grown close to and I can easily eat lunch with them, but should I do it gradually or just go ahead and risk losing Katie and making Anna turn against me? Katie means a lot to me but the fact that she was the one Anna talked to and how she didn't tell me but instead took Anna's side really bothered me and I have lost my trust in her as well. |
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| Question: I m getting tired of my best friend!!? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 05:13 PM PDT I m getting tired of her to the point I question if it s even worth being friends with her. It s like out of nowhere I m noticing every little thing that bothers me about her. For instance, her greed. I d have food and there s never a moment where I can have something of my own. Plus, she s rude. She yells and gets angry quickly for no reason, but when I do it I m the wrong person. There s plenty more but I just want to know what to do! I don t want to lose our friendship but jeez I m kind of over it. |
| Question: I cant play proam in 2k17 with my friends.? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 05:09 PM PDT I have always been able to play proam on 2k17 with my friends as walkons. We always got to one of our courts then play as walkons but for some reason everytime we do it im the only one being left in the court and dont load into the proam arena. Please help |
| Question: Why do I refuse to let bad friendships go? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:58 PM PDT So, it is often the case that I become friends with a person. At first, it is all fine and we get along great and then, after we hang out a few times they start to avoid me. Regardless, I continue trying to be friends and can t bring myself to let it go. I still see the potential and how things could have been if only they felt the same way. In the end, it ends up making me very sad and disappointed How can I let it go after all? |
| Question: Should I confront my "friend"? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:53 PM PDT Ok so I have a really good friend, she invited me to sit with her at lunch I met this really nice girl named Caroline and we seem to be friends so I got an Instagram yesterday so I was asking my friends if they had one, I asked her and she said no I was looking through my other friends( The one who invited me) following list and I saw that they lied and that they do have one 1. Why did they lie? 2. Should I confront them? |
| Question: I feel awkward tension between my best friend and I? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:45 PM PDT We have been best friends for 5 years now but 4 years ago we had a stupid fight over nothing. But we worked it out. I haven't noticed this awkwardness until this year. I don't know why it's there or how to fix it. We both don't have any feelings towards each other besides platonic, friendly love. A few months ago, she indirectly told me I have no sense of humour, but she didn't mean it to hurt me even though it did, but I just laughed it off. I'm always laughing at her jokes (even though they're not really funny), but she rarely laughs at mine. I honestly think I'm kind of funny, like it's not awkward between me and any of my other friends and we laugh with each other.. so does anyone know what might be the problem, or how to fix it? |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:41 PM PDT I notice that the people that are quick to leave have ample amount of support and a great support network. Im not one of those people so I over value people and invest only for them to take it all and leave. This isnt just in intimate relationships but my closest friendships too. there aren't any fights prior to them leaving...they just get stop having interest This destroys me and makes me INSANE(seriously). I dont know how people deal with it because Ive honestly just lost it after so many times. How can i be ok with not having a support system? I doubt that i can build another relationship with anyone but how do i deal with it and not let it kill me....literally? I envy people who do this It seems that my exes and former friend didnt appreciate me because the had people they were close with since grade school. I was in a military family so i never got to grow up with people and develope life time relationships. At this pooint in my life, i really need that and keep coming in contact with this painful reminder. any tips are greatly appreciated |
| Question: My friends go out and wasted all the time. What do I do? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:40 PM PDT I never knew my friends would be the ones to go out and get wasted occasionally at parties. They drink underage and a few days later they tell me what happened. When my one friend would finish her story she looks at me and says "I know you don't like to hear it". It annoys my how she says this AFTER she tells me all the stupid decisions she makes while drunk. Both my friends are smart and good people, but I feel like they only go out to drink to look cool. I never knew they would become like this and it just frustrates me because... can't they learn to control their intake? I feel that they only go to get wasted, not for the fun. I just don't know what to do. These girls are my closest friends since High School (we're in first year of college) and it's hard to make new friends in my class because it seems like everyone s already talking to each other. Have you ever been in a situation like this? What did you do? Thanks. |
| Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:31 PM PDT http://imgur.com/a/UrdmV |
| Question: Do people hate me because I'm annoying? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:24 PM PDT I'm nearly 13, and in Middle School. I'm usually a talkative person and can be really mean if your mean to me. I'm also the "funny one" I suppose you could say. I always try to be funny for attention.. Recently my friend moved across the country, so I've been trying to make another best friend. It isn't working. It looks like everyone already has their groups of friends. I've thought it was the way I looked and expanded my hairstyles. I started off with a simple ponytail (Which I usually put my hair up in a bun) It looked fine at first, until someone said I had rat hair. Now I just feel embarassed. Then I thought it was how I try to be funny and talk alot. I was curious to know if people thought me as weird, or even annoying. I just want to make a new best friend. Thats all I wanted. |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:23 PM PDT So me and this girl have been friends for ten year so I think it s safe to say we are best friends but I think she thinks otherwise. She always calls this other girl that doesn t go to our school her bestfriend in every pic she posts with her and my friend has never once in her life called me her best friend. My friend also always puts the other girl on her snap story and rarely puts me on hers. This makes me very upset because I have always been a good friend and it just upsets me a lot that my best friend may not be my best friend. Any advice on what to do? |
| Question: Going to mall with opposite gender friends? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:15 PM PDT I'm going with my girl best friend, my sister maybe?, my brother and my guy best friend. My first thought was a movie but what else could we do? |
| Question: Roommate is upset about dirty dishes, but I seem to be the only one cleaning anything? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:11 PM PDT I live in a house of 4 guys (plus the gf of one). And there is always dirty dishes in the kitchen. Honestly, it's frustrating. But still, every day I go in and clean the pots and pans I need to make my supper (I usually leave them sit overnight till I need them the next day). Today one of my room mates sent an angry text blast out about how he's sick of cleaning up after everybody and that we need to grow up. But I don't honestly know what cleaning he's talking about. If he's cleaning up after people, it's certainly not in any kitchen I cook in. The guy is entitled to an opinion, but I feel like he's strongly over estimating his contribution to the house. How can I gracefully handle this situation? |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 04:10 PM PDT I am a middle school teacher, and most of the students there, and all the adults there think I am sick. |
| Question: My parents think i have no friends but i do help? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 03:48 PM PDT i have friends we just don t really hangout outside of school so my parents assume i have no friends. i also don t talk about them because my mom is really annoying about that stuff and she would probably keep asking me about them. what should i do? help! I didn't go to my dinner dance because i had to go somewhere and because my dad works pretty much all the time he assumed i didn't go because i have no friends. BUT I DO :( |
| Question: How can I deal with this hell at my high school? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 03:41 PM PDT I have gynecomastia, aka man boobs. I also attend a small private high school. All the students know about this and as a result everyone has harassed me over this. I have people that will grab at it even when I tell them to leave me alone and to stop. In my view, this should be considered sexual assault. Also, there are staff, mostly coaches that make fun of me over this and have singled me out over this. I hate this school. I want to tell my parents about this so I can get out of this school, but I am too ashamed to. What should I do about this? |
| Question: I broke my friends phone, what do I do? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 03:31 PM PDT I was at a party at my friend's place and he left his phone on the table, I was drunk and accidentally spilled alcohol on the table, his screen seemed damaged and today I think it's dead. Am I responsible for the full price of the phone? |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 03:31 PM PDT Sssooo there's this boy called N. and another boy we will call J. So I have a school group project. N walks over and says like omg how do you make that?! And J walked over and was like yeah how? And we're like nope. And N says omg J is so fat and obese. Then J heard and said WHO SAID THAT?! and N is like That group(my group) and he told the teacher. Then we didn't talk but N is making rumors about us and telling everyone! Then I just wanted to burst into tears:'( I don't know what to do?! How should I deal with these types of rumors? Plz no silly or mean answers |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 03:27 PM PDT I'm too ugly. My eyes are small and one of them is smaller than the other on top of that. I have crazy frizzy hair. Terrible, oily, skin. I keep wanting to post a picture on the amiugly Reddit, but realize how bad it would be for me. I have one friend. She keeps on trying to get me to meet her other friends, but I always get too scared to say anything so I don't and they end up hating me. Even my teachers hate me. My English teacher is one of the 'cool' teachers and he's always taking indirect hits at me. He always says 'I bet everyone can bet who my least favorite person in this class is.' I feel like the entire school talks **** about me. My mom always calls me ugly, she beats and chokes me. My dad used to throw bowls at me. My brother has autism. My sister makes fun of me because my mom says she's the pretty one. Help. |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 03:26 PM PDT he blocked me for spamming for the 4th time bc i spammed and now he wont trust me bc i spammed so many times before after appologizing and begging for an unblock when i text him with fake numbers that im sorry |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 03:01 PM PDT My class had a celebration and there was food and drink. I wanted to bring a little something to my mom, but there was nothing much left but some chicken chunks so I brought her some in a sandwich bag. She made me wish the party had never happened, saying that I had fairly treated her like a dog, bringing scraps. I never intended that at all, there just wasn't anything much left and I wanted to bring her SOMETHING. She said I should've taken something for her when I took for me, but my thoughts are, is that fair to the class who should've had first dibs? I mean, if everyone thought "Let me take some to my kids, spouse, etc., there wouldn't be enough for the class who even contributed home-prepped foodstuffs and $. So, did I do wrong? Does my mom have a legitimate cause to be offended? Am I wrong in feeling that the class had priority, and that it would've been wrong to take food to bring home when the rest of the class was still eating from it? I meant no insult; I really meant well, and now I just feel sick and sad. And I threw the chicken out to the stray cats. I don't want it after that. It's a matter of principle for me to know. Thanks. |
| Question: How to feel comfortable in a new friend group? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 03:00 PM PDT Recently, I joined a new group of friends. They're great and all, but the thing is, I'm shy. I'm not new to the school or anything, but last year I gave myself a rep of being really sad and depressed all the time. I'm scared that's preventing me from making new friends. I have 3 friends in the group, but I feel really clingy and ignored at the same time, and it's lead to this resentment of them having other friends. There's this "sub-group" in the group that I want to be friends with more. They're not as popular as the other half and they're pretty nice. I feel like a bother everytime I join in on a conversation and I hate it. They're friendly but I'm too scared of being rejected by them. Help? Thank you!! haha yeah the resentment part is a bit silly I'll admit that, I have no reason to do so I'm being a bit too childish, but I feel a bit more comfortable now. |
| Question: My best friend is dating my cousin? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 02:57 PM PDT My best friend of the past 2 years is now suddenly dating my cousin whom I've become quite close to in recent years as well and now its all very weird. We used to hang out all the time, as just friends and it was always the best times of my life, but now my best friend(He) gets mad and tells me I'm crossing a line when I try to talk to them about how I feel about this. I know if I talk to my cousin(her) then she'll only get mad and not talk to me about anything for a few weeks and I don't want that. All I'm trying to do is warn them that if they go through with this there is no going back, we can't be friends again and again he just keeps saying I'm crossing a line when I don't think I am. They wouldn't be where they are now if I hadn't been the one to bring them together as friends but they don't seem to care about how I feel and it hurts. What do I do? |
| Question: How to get mom happy and to change her mind? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 02:32 PM PDT I just made my mom pissed off by forgetting my phone on the bus and she had to drive me to get it from a friend and I need a way to make her happy and get her to let me go to my friends house tomorrow super bad |
| Question: Should I get my best friend back? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 02:25 PM PDT Well, We were best friends, We loved each other like daughters of the same mother, but last year She started ignoring me and I asked the reason, but She said I was wrong and things were okay with us, but I don't feel it. She doesn't love me anymore, She's being bad with me but She says things are okay with us. She prefers her other friends than me, her ex best friend :/ what should I do? (I'm girl and We're 18 years old) |
| Question: Toxic friendship, please help..? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 02:21 PM PDT A friend of mine often treats me horribly. One day she's my best friend and the next, she hates me and tries to ruin my life. I can't just tell her to stop though. The only friends she hangs out with are the same group of people that I only hang out with so we're always together. Whenever she goes on one of her hatred streaks, she "takes" all my friends away and stops them from talking to me. This happens with my friends as well. Again, I can't just tell her to stop bullying me. I can't just ignore her either because that'll spark her off again. Bear in mind that I literally do nothing to offend her -- she just decides that she hates me, then comes back to me without apologizing and as if nothing happened. She acts the victim as if she did nothing wrong, even fake crying at times. I'm a very shy person so confronting people has never been something I'm good at. She knows this and she knows I won't complain about it to anyone because I'm so shy. I really don't know what to do. I'm always nervous around her as I know it could happen at any moment. I feel like I'm just trapped in this and I'd really appreciate some help or advice. I feel like anything I try to do will make her hate me forever and she'll just ruin my life. |
| Question: How can I forget the past? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 02:12 PM PDT I need to forget my past, but It's difficult. I need to live my present, not my past. My best friend doesn't love me anymore, my mother is bad with me and my rest of friends don't understand me. I need to change completely my life, help me please. I wanna be happy |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 02:04 PM PDT I am going tomorrow I need answers cause we are buying the card but we don't know how much money to put in the card and we have none her for a long time and we are ok friends. How much money? Please help! |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 02:04 PM PDT I have someone who is in my life (friend, family...) and I go to school seven days a week. On the weekend, I go to school until nine at night. The only time I can see this person is during the weekend because they work everyday during the week and for long hours and it's a physically straining job. I can only see them on weekends but i don't get out of school until nine pm. I live in a place that requires you to never have an overnight guest but if this person comes to my house at ten, and they leave at three am, would this be considered overnight? Some say yes and some say no. This person is not sleeping over and we are actually engaging in conversation and doing activities. This is at night and people should be sleeping but I do a lot of studying and this person helps me with homework and keeps me awake. Is thsi considered overnight? |
| Question: What should I do to find closure or is this friendship over? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 01:49 PM PDT Hey everyone. I am a guy 22. This year, from time to time, I have been having episodes where I have been missing someone. A close friend. We met in our sophomore year in high school back in fall of 2009. We had issues where I got involved in her relationship issues in 2014 after she and her longtime bf broke up and she got affected really bad and was rebounding first with one guy who went to the same high school and no one had seen since he transferred out in 2011. Then with my once childhood friend which made it worse for me. Legal actions happened and during that time she was in process of joining the military so she left. We never talked after all that past and never cleared anything out. We saw eachother and briefly interacted. All she said was "I don't know how I feel about you" "you scarred me." She changed in a good way in the military. She is back to her old self. I tried to send messages here and there but she never replied. Don't know if she and I aren't friends or she is busy in the military. |
| Question: How to let go of regret? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 01:43 PM PDT OK so I recently just graduated hs I obviously went to graduation and prom. But when I was at prom my friends didn't tell me they were taking a group picture and took one without me while I was with my date and at graduation I didn't know they were gonna take one either but I wanted to ask them to take one. But I didn't because they didn't seem like we were and we only saw each other once now everyone moved away and became different. Were were best friends from k-9 and kindv fell off 10-11 grade but started talking again in 12th. How do I get over this they all mostly went to the same college so I could go there but idk if that's to far or if I should just let it go and its not that important. Idk I just wish we couldv been closer and I got asked to be in the picture or at least seem like they cared that they weren't gonna see me again by asking for one with me |
| Question: Is it weird that me and my guy friend get changed in front of each other? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 01:29 PM PDT Everyone thinks we're more than friends, even my brothers and sisters and his sisters. I mean we do hug a lot and sometimes we even sit or stand there hugging for ages haha and well yeah we get changed in front of each other. It's just I don't see why just because we're the opposite gender that everyone must think like that. It's just the human body and the fact that everyone needs love and affection |
| Question: Is it okay to get changed in front of my guy best friend? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 01:24 PM PDT my best friend is a guy, We met about 3 years ago at a football game and instantly formed a bond. However everyone has always thought it was more than a friendship. When I was talking my sister I happened to explain how me and Hudson get changed in front of each other if we're going swimming or staying at each other's places or something like that and my sister said we can't possibly just be friends. I feel like we are but can people only remain friends with being that close and comfortable together. What's your opinion? |
| Question: I've lied to my friend so many times and now he wont trust me? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 01:08 PM PDT he blocked me for spamming for the 4th time bc i spammed and now he wont trust me bc i spammed so many times before after appologizing and begging for an unblock when i text him with fake numbers that im sorry |
| Question: Why do people think that is all I need is their company? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 12:41 PM PDT I am hearing impaired and I can't hear some of the things people say. I can't sit around and chat all day. I have to read your lips. I need them to speak loudly and slow... People tell me to make friends. but I don't want to. I like sitting at home and just be on the internet. When I do go out with people... I have to make sure I say everything correctly... such as... if she said... her mother died... I have to say... you have my condolence. But you get nervous... it is uncomfortable being around people. I like being by myself. And when I try to achieve something, they think I don't need awards, money or prizes for the work I have done... They think their friendship is enough for me. |
| Question: I messed up my best friends plans! What do i do!? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 12:35 PM PDT Me and my friend made some plans for the class but i messed the whole thing up and now we can't go. Help me please. What do i do? An apology wont work. :( |
| Question: Why am I weird sometimes? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 12:20 PM PDT Okay so most of times I'm pretty calm, I talk a little and it makes me mysterious.But every now and then I feel like I'm super weird, like i start saying weird things and then start talking a lot, I feel like most of the times I notice that and keep talking to make it un weird and just start talking more weird or when I unconsciously try to me funny and it doesn't work out and people are just quiet , how can I stop this??? Mediating or something |
| Question: How could my friend not notice this? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 12:19 PM PDT I was having trouble in my high school math class. My classmate Jim told me his mom was a engineer and she could help me understand my math problems. He said "come home and let her help you". At his house he introduced me to his mom. OH MY GOD. She was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen in my life. Gorgeous face, figure to die for. She had on a sweater that showed her 36Gs (my guess). She was a great tutor. She really knew her math. However it took ALL of my will power to keep my mind on math and not to get a b0ner when she was tutoring me. That would have been a DISASTER and the most embarrassing thing EVER to happen to me and the end of my friendship with Jim. Lucky for me it did not happen. After tutoring me she gave me and Jim a piece of homemade pie and ice cream. Was she ever a nice person. If there ever was a trophy wife, she would be it. I told Jim he was very lucky to have such a beautiful mom. He said I never noticed his mom was beautiful. How do you think it is possible that a teenage guy like me would not know his mom is so beautiful? |
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| Question: My mom won't trust me? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 12:13 PM PDT My group of friends want to do a sleepover and they said that they are going to bring alcohol. I'm not that type of person to drink or do any of that. I'm not going to drink at all. I never go out on the weekends, I'm always home, and I have good grades. I have good friends but I can't control what decisions they make. How to do I convince my mom to let me go? |
| Question: Rebecca, you're the greatest troll, I love you.? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 12:00 PM PDT |
| Question: Why am I always the forgotten friend? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 11:34 AM PDT At my high school it has a lot of cliques. I would consider myself one of the nicest people at the school because everyone is stuck up and I'm nice to everyone no matter what. I would consider myself popular but I don't have many friends. People like me and like to be around me but they never include me in anything. I'll ask a few friends to go to lunch but they already made plans to go with their clique and for some reason that means I can't go. I never get invited to places even if I had the idea to go there. I do try to reach out and go to clubs and play sports but even then I still can't find a group of people to always hang out with. Does anyone feel like this or is it just me? Also does it get better after high school? Will I ever find a group of people that make efforts to be around me? |
| Question: I said something really rude? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 10:52 AM PDT So in class earlier today, we had a sub and I wanted to sit out of my normal seat next to my friends. He asked why I wanted to go over there so bad, and he asked if I loved them. I said "No I just dont like anyone" and then I stopped. Everyone is mad at me now and wont talk to me. I TRULY did not mean to say it that way, it just slipped out. I ment to say I just wanted to sit with my friends What do I do? |
| Question: I m not sure what to so I d like your opinion on how to make friends.? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 10:43 AM PDT Hello my name is Robert and I am 18 years old. I am a nice guy I m 6 1 and Im a little overweight at like 150 pounds. I have never had a friend before ( I ve known people and talked to people but I ve never had that one guy/girl I can call and talk or hang out with) it bothers me but I m not depressed. I m just bored and want others as friends. A true friend is someone who you can hangout with and bullshit with. Not someone who you pass on the street or store and just nod your head or say hi and go on. OK so this dumbass question has been asked and answered so many damn times it s ******* annoying..... But I don t care anymore :) there are no clubs/ activities in my town, my library doesn t hold events for my age group, can t go to bars (and why would i want to). There s no café that people go to. I don t do online thing like make friends.com or some **** because you can t hang out with thoes people and can you really call thoes guys/girls true friends? I don t think so. I have a nice life not depressed I have a wonderful family no sibling same age so can t share friends and they don t know friends for me. I have a beautiful smart girlfriend but I want other friends as well ( plus she tells me she doesn t count as a friend technically) but ya if there is an answer to this stupid question other than no or it OK your young, or don t be a *****, and what not then please help a guy out. Thanks. |
| Question: Why is my friend Dennis mad at me after telling him to eat a d1kc? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 10:36 AM PDT Last night I was drunk in the train on the wrong line home. During this time my friend Dennis, my girlfriend and others attempted to find me. I told Dennis to suck a d1Kc and eat a d1Kc. Now he's mad at me and won't talk to me. What should I do? |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 10:19 AM PDT Am a 19 years old guy, It's been happening since 6 months, I've lost interest with all of my friends, and am becoming a really boring person, everytime we go out I feel excited at the beginning, then after 30 minutes I just feel the need to go home and i just don't say anything and I feel like there's something wrong, don't get me wrong am a normal guy, but idk what happened to me, please help me, give me some advices, I feel like am losing them, please help |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 09:51 AM PDT so am in high school and since the start of school its been 4 months and i have no friends because i dont know what to talk about with people i know their names and they always seem to sit in groups so i think its innapropriate to just butt into groups and when somone is alone my mind goes blank i just dont know what to say all people have nothing incommon with me please help |
| Question: Airbnb host cancelled, tricked my friend who booked for us? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 09:46 AM PDT We booked an airbnb a month or so ago. The guy had pretty good reviews and all. Two days ago the host messaged my friend (via text), who booked it, that he could no longer honor our reservation. He also added a slimey thing.. he told my friend that he needs to go hit "cancel reservation". Little did my friend know this was a trick by the host to be able to keep our money and also not have to pay a penalty so he did go "cancel" the reservation, basically agreeing to no refund.. Is there anything we can do about this? |
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| Posted: 28 Oct 2016 09:38 AM PDT This guy tells his parents he is with me when he is not. I don't know what he is trying to cover up but he does drink a lot and does drugs. Just last night he said he was with me and when he got home ha faced was beat up severely. I don't like being used as a cover up. Should I confront him? His parents know that when he says he is with me he is usually lying |
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| Question: Is it wrong not to invite a friend for Halloween? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 09:32 AM PDT I have a very small group of friends, where one of them has been kinda drifting away and hangs alot with other groups. So me and my friend decided that me, him and another guy would do a kinda prank on Halloween, matching costumes and all. We have a friend that doesn't get invited to much, so we decided to invite him too. And then we said we'd have no more people over, because we were already 1 more than planned. We assumed the rest of our friends would have plans somewhere else. Then one friend asks me what i'm doing for halloween, and says that he's not been invited to a halloween party which we thought he was. He wasn't invited because the person who's hosting is for some reason real passive aggressive with him or something... He found out that i was doing something with one of my friends (it was supposed to be secret) and is asking what. Truth is i don't WANT him to be invited. We've been planning for awhile, and it's too late to get him the same costume and we wanted to keep it small in the first place. I feel bad about this. Kind of sad. But then again he could just go to that party, all his other friends are going it's just one person who doesn't like him there. But he keeps saying he'd like to do something with us on Halloween... He's not invited me to do stuff many times before, but that's all water under the bridge now i'd say. What to do? Should we just invite him or what? |
| Question: Should I keep dating him? Posted: 28 Oct 2016 09:24 AM PDT He will not let me in his apartment. I've seen the outside of the building but in 6 months he's never invited me in. We can only stay at my place. He dates other women. I have seen him out on dates with other women. I've gone through his phone and seen messages to other women that he's dating. His car is a mess. It's old, damaged and he takes his plates off whenever he parks to keep it from getting booted. He sometimes ignores my calls and texts for days at a time. There are days when he's very attentive but then there are other days when he doesn't answer or call back. I've given him money. He got hurt on his job and his workman comp. wasn't enough to cover his expenses so I offered to do his laundry, and give me some pocket money. We have fought in public. I get mad whenever I see him with other women and I throw drinks at him and start fights. He often disrespects me by ignoring me in public and acting like he doesn't care. We still see each other behind closed doors occasionally but he doesn't invite me to hang out in public anymore |
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