Family: Question: What do I do if my parents die in a plane crash? I worry about this?

Question: What do I do if my parents die in a plane crash? I worry about this?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 02:05 PM PDT

They are travelling somewhere come November and what if they die in a plane crash. They usually dont fly but will be flying so that is why I am scared. I never fly on planes except once. So what do I do, how do I cope? I am 22 but it still scares me. They are going to see my brother because he was selfish to the family and moved to the other side of the country for his wife's job.

Question: I have an evil and narcissistic mother, how do I break free of her when I turn 18 and finish high school?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 02:03 PM PDT

I have three more years but how do I break free of this women when I reach that age. My Dad left when I was 8 and my mother has been emotionally abusive ever since punishing us randomly for no reason (maybe because we look like our Dad). She uses us to inflict punishment onto others like not letting us see our Dad because he is an alcoholic or using us against our aunt (Mom's sister). She is paranoid I speak about her behind her back like I am on here right now but to real people in real life and she loves us but her hate and resentment comes first. So how do I go about breaking free of her when I finish high school? When I ask this I mean money wise so that I never have to see her again accept when I choose to. She will use the "after all I have done for you" verse when all she has done is ruin my life for her own bitterness. I will still occasionally see her but very little (maybe once or twice a year). So I am just dreaming right now as I have several more years with this witch but when I can break free how do I go about it so I can actually live on my own without being on the street?

Question: Is it bad to not have a job or be in college yet if you're 20 years old? I'm not lazy or anything I plan to soon though just not right now.?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 02:02 PM PDT

I help my mom out alot because she can't really see or do most things on her own. So she's really dependent on me and I always want to help her whenever I can. I don't really have time to do anything else. She always tell me that I need to wait to go to college or get a job I think its because I won't really be at home with her foreal.

Question: Should I tell him I'm pregnant?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:58 PM PDT

Ok, I really need someone's advice as I can't discuss this with my family or friends. Basically I was dating a guy and two months after we had broken up, I discovered I'm pregnant... What complicates things even more is that guy is like 4 years younger than me (I'm turning 25 in 4 months and he's only 21- biggest mistake of my life) and still a college medical student I've decided not to have an abortion, raise the child alone and keep it a secret forever. Besides a child can grow up without a father in his life, there are many women who are successful single mothers (it would be pretty embarassing for the kid to have an much older mother than a father. I don't need financial aid to raise my kid from anyone, I'm independent. What shall I do? What's your opinion?

Question: My sister is expecting a baby, how can I be supportive without getting caught up in all the drama?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:56 PM PDT

She is a drama queen and making these big scenes about how now one, not even her husband, support her. She and her husband are now separated and she is due in a month. He now wants nothing to do with the child (I don't blame him for leaving her, I would to, but it is not the child's fault but he had no Dad either). The couple have twin 2 year olds he no longer plans to see. That said my sister lies chronically so she might be making up all this though I know she is pregnant. How do I support her without being caught up in her drama ****.

Question: Pearl L will answer this question?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:56 PM PDT

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Question: Why shouldn't I kill myself?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:53 PM PDT

In the past two years (I'm 18, senior) I've been stuck in a deep depression. I had always been sad but the only time I was truly happy was when I was watching the Dallas Cowboys with my dad and when I was with my girlfriend (10/10 girl most beautiful person I've ever seen). Two years ago was when everything took a turn for the worst. My dad died of a heart attack while I was at school, and I didn't even get to say goodbye to him. My mom turned to drinking heavily and we had to move to a smaller house as my dad was the primary provider for my family. In the past six months she has turned to verbally and physically abusing me and my brother while drunk and doesn't support me whatsoever. A month ago, my mom launched a beer bottle at my brother, and he fell down our stairs into the basement, which put him into a coma, and the doctor said he doesn't know if he will wake up and likely won't be competent at all ever again. I needed my girlfriend most during this time, and she broke up with me about a week ago. She started dating my best friend about 5 days ago and he doesn't talk to me anymore. Don't try me with that "it'll get better" bullshit, I've heard it since my dad died and it's only gotten worse. I have no money. I have no friends. I have no means of happiness. I have no family. It's football season again and I can't stop thinking about my dad. Why shouldn't I kill myself?

Question: My mother is ignoring me? sorry if long, but please read and help. P.S I dont want stupid answers, simply wont read, only real advice plz?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:44 PM PDT

So about two weeks ago, I was in a soccer tournament and recently I had gotten really tired of it. I know I am a good soccer player but I already received my college acceptance letter from one of my top choice schools. She wants me to play college soccer for extra scholarship money but I do not. We worked out a deal where I would still play soccer but not in tournaments. But by that time, I had already signed up for a soccer tournament that weekend. I was playing horrible and ended up just standing around while my team ran around the field. I was one of, if not the best players on my team and I gave up that day. As soon as we lost, she drove me home and started yelling as soon as I got into the car. She said a lot of mean things like how embarrassing and shameful it was to watch me play and how worthless of a son I was. She also said how she enjoyed watching me play well and that I wanted to make her unhappy so I played bad that day to do so.We had driven there in my car and as soon as we got home,I waited for her to get out and I immediately drove off to a park to cool off. I drove back home a couple hours later and shes been ignoring me ever since. She still folds my clothes but other than that, its total disregard of my existence. She has ignored me in the past but always crumbles and apologizes. I have chosen to ignore her as well because im going through the worst stages of depression and i dont have time to deal with her. Going on for two weeks and counting.Help plz :'( Did I mention I didn't want stupid answers? Oh I'm sorry, let me reiterate. NO STUPID ANSWERS. There. It's in big, pretty, capital letters. You people can read that, right? I'm sure.

Question: So I am 13 years old and i try very hard to get good grades.?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:43 PM PDT

I have all As and when I have a test i study really hard and the lowest ill get is a B. I work really hard to please my parents and I do all my chores. I vacuum clean the bathrooms and sometimes i cook. Meanwhile my mom keeps crying and talking about how she wants to kill herself. she says that my dad scolds her that she buys stuff we dont need and that the entire family ridicules her about working. I feel bad for her and i want to help but i dont know how. I have a lot of stress on me to do good and get a good job and i need help. i want to ask my dad but im afraid that he will scold her or hurt her feelings even more. HELP ME PLEASE!

Question: Is it bad not to go to a funeral?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:42 PM PDT

Today it was one of my family members funeral and I didn't go even though the rest of my family did. Mainly due to the reason I was scared since I've never faced a family death, also I was really upset and knew I wouldn't be able to handle it. Now I feel really guilty and don't know what to do...

Question: This is the fourth time my school contacted social services!?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:42 PM PDT

I have come to school a few times with bruises or a blue eye. I have had experience with social workers and in my opinion, they make everything worse! I go back home and get yelled at or get told that I m breaking the family apart. It really hurts to see your family splitting apart and hearing them tell you its your fault. This hurts so much because I can t do anything to prevent it. A teacher noticed my blue eye last week Friday and I asked him not to report it and he told me that he had no choice. So then I got called into the principals office and was told that another social worker would be coming in and that they will have to take drastic measures this time, seeing as the previous visits didn t stop my father. I was told they might just take me out of the house and I don t want that. End of year exams are coming up as well and I m stressing so much. I have so much to think about and I can t see my family or myself hurt like that again. I don t know what to do! Help?

Question: My little sister is my parents' favorite?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:33 PM PDT

Hey. My name's Henry J. Acevedo and I'm fourteen years old. When I was born, I was my parents' everything. Until my little sister, Amelia, who is twelve years old, came along. Then she was the center of attention. She always gets here way and is the obvious favorite. Today, my parents were making a digital photo album and they put Amelia's picture on the cover. What should I do?

Question: Help me! My family is dying?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:30 PM PDT

MY MOTHER IS SCREAMING AND MY FATHER IS DRINKING BLEACH HELP ME

Question: Cutting them out right choice? I'll try to make this short.My fiancé and I are crazy in love. I have no doubt that he is my soul mate.?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:29 PM PDT

That's not the problem. His family is dreadful. It has gotten to the point where he has had to completely cut them out. They have physically and verbally abused him. They destroy him but then pull a guilt trip on him to make him feel like he's doing them wrong. It started with his old high school friend calling him at least 10 times a day for about a month. He blocked her but she than started making it so No caller ID would show up. This isn't some crazy ex either, she was just a family friend. She then had her parents calling him telling him to call this nut back. Anyways, than the gang started calling and he just had enough as all these people want to do is control him and/or yell at him. We live far away by the way. His moms favorite hobby is telling everyone I'm a whore and I just want to get pregnant to trap him. My fiancé is the only man I have ever even dated. She then goes on Facebook and tries to rally up groups of people to come to our doorstep and tells them I am psychotic and they need to do a wellness check on him. His sister than sends me vulgar text messages threatening me with violence so I had to change my phone number and his. We also moved so they wouldn't know our address. In case she thought something was wrong with my fiancé, my mom messaged her and told her we are happy and safe which she got a vulgar message also, so his care is not her concern. My fiancé does not believe in fighting so he called them and told them "leave us alone". What would you do?

Question: Why does it bother me my brother could be making more money than me?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:17 PM PDT

Question: My grandma keeps calling me names. calling me a whore?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:16 PM PDT

She does this a lot when shes angry and i already have a lot going on emotionally and i can t take it anymore. I want to die. She is all i have though my parents left me and shes my step grandma and ,my real grandma is even worse and she hits me. and calls me ugly and i tell my boyfriend and obviously he cant do anything. I just dont know what to do.

Question: My daughter is walking around the pool with her boobs out. should she pull her bikini up or should her boyfriend look?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:04 PM PDT

Question: I'm having trouble adjusting to my sister's new service dog, and I was wondering if y'all can offer some advice?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 01:02 PM PDT

Some background: My sister has been struggling with a chronic illness for 6 years now and still lives with my parents. I live several states away. A few years ago, she decided it would be a good idea to apply for a service dog. During my last visit home, my sister couldn't stop talking about the dog. It's great to see her so excited about something. However, she was simultaneously insisting that we accept her dog (whom I've never met) as a new family member just as much as they accept my fiance, and at the same time, for the first 6 months we must not acknowledge/look at the dog. I told my sister that I was a little uncomfortable with accepting a new family member I'm supposed to ignore, and that the way she was talking about it made me uncomfortable. My family talks about it the same way--their words can be harsh and their tones as well--but I don't have enough space for specifics here. I know it's a little weird, but I feel attacked by their phrasing and tone especially. I would never pet a service dog without permission, and I don't intend to distract my sister's dog from her duties in any way, but I would like to introduce myself, in a manner of speaking--say "hi" to the new family member, at least once. I'm hurt. This is my sister's new companion, and they're going to have a tight bond, and I can't even say hello. Do you have any suggestions for a different way I can think about this or approach this situation? Is this normal?

Question: Dad being really unfair to my mom?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 12:46 PM PDT

Okay so for a while my dad didn t want to fix our wifi because my mom would blast her godly music she is extremely religious and I m okay with that at times but now my dad says he s gonna fix the internet and to not connect my mom to it because it s quite now. I don t know what to do because they use to fight physical and me my mom and my sister lived in a apartment And a center before. Should I tell my mom? My dad has been really moody and usually I would I guess "sass" him or talk back but what do I do in this situation

Question: Are these shorts green or yellow?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 12:32 PM PDT

Question: Family issues?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 12:22 PM PDT

So my mom has a BF and he said we could move in with him. Right now I live with my grandma and mom and brother. I have to share room with my brother. We're both 18 :-(. I'm a girl btw. Too old for this. I've never had my own room. So when he said this to her my mom told us we should start packing and HIW nice it would be. She made me so excited. The thing about why I hate it here is because my grandma hates me. She talks bad about me, won't let me brings friends over without complaining, she treats me so bad. She treats my brother opposite tho; she treats him like a king while he has gotten into so much trouble. My brother and I fight a lot due to us wanting to have privacy in the room. We fight for who gets the room at which times. So basically why I'm upset is because I called my mom while her BF was beside her telling her my brother and I just fought and he locked me out of the house. Her BF hears and calls the whole thing off. I feel so sad and depressed because I feel hated here. We never get our own place to live we're always stuck with grandma. I just wish she did t get my hopes up. I can't get a job because IM terrible at multi tasking with school and work. I usually end up not doing my school work due to coming home late. So idk what to do. Please help I'm having bad thoughts

Question: My dad suspects my mom has learning disabilities. How can I get her diagnosed?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 12:10 PM PDT

I'm a teenager and I have a lot of arguments with my mom. My dad was lecturing me about it. He said I should respect her, however he understands my frustration because hes very certain my mom has some kind of special needs/learning disability. He said he didn't realize at the beginning of their relationship. He thought she was just immature, but she was pretty so he stayed with her. Then several years and a baby later he realized she'd never grow up and became certain she had some disability due to her complete stupidity at times. Examples he gave me were her believing they shouldn't have to pay rent if they didn't want to, thinking she could chose what days she wanted to work and so she was fired for not showing up for shifts etc. There were many more but I don't want this to go on forever. He divorced her. I always thought my mom was stupid and he's confirmed it. I'm kind to her mostly, he's kind to her, but she needs a diagnoses. She denies she's stupid but she clearly is. I think a diagnosis would help her face up to it. How do I do it? She's not dumb enough to be fooled into seeing a doctor.

Question: Trying to help daughter with temper so have extreme grounded her kids are so hard to deal with nowadays?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 12:05 PM PDT

She is 17 and annoying beyond words. a pastor friend of mine told me we should try extreme grounding. she has been grounded for the past year and a half because she has a bad temper and she whines too much and our relationship is terrible.I like the man of the house again but she hates me cries a lot and her attitude towards me has not improved. These are the rules he came up with She may only have use of the kitchen certain times of the day and must hurry making her food as fast as possible no friends no family outings including holidays phone calls are frowned upon and must be monitored by me she can only leave her room to babysit clean or talk about what she did wrong today no use of the car for reason except for emergencies 5 minutes showers 7 minutes showers for good behavior bathroom visits much be signed off on two therapists told us this would be a good idea

Question: Should I lie to someone about how much money I make so they won t take it all?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 12:00 PM PDT

I live with and take care of my mother while going to school. I get finical aid and, of course, give my mom a good amount of it while leaving the rest for myself. My sister, who has a stable job, also give our mom a certain amount each pay check. Our problem is she tries to guilt trip is into giving her WAAAY more than we do now, even though we re trying to save up and move out. Her boyfriend also give her the entirety of his pay every week so it s not like mom is struggling. I feel bad that since I don t have a re-newable income I have to lie about the some I do get in order to save it away and let it build. Should I be lying to my mother to save money for later or just let her take it all because she s my mother?

Question: What should i do?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 11:58 AM PDT

so every time i tell my mom something, she thinks im lying and she yells at me. One time, when i was going to tae kwon do and i didnt know where my belt was, she yelled at me, hit my ear, a told my i was worthless and should have been aborted. Another time, when i didnt clean my desk, she said she hated me and she doesnt love me. Then, she expects me not to shed a tear, but when i cried she called it an autistic tantrum even though i dont have autism and dont show any signs of autism. Today, she sent a letter to my teacher and asked me if i talked to my teacher about it, and i said yes. Then she said "what did your teacher say?" I said "she got your letter", and she said, "what else?" I said thats basically all. Then she gets all mad and thinks im lying to her, screams and yells at me really loud, and got so angry. Long story short, i got home, and she said "i am only your mother until you finish school. Then you will be out of this house!" then she says "because you lie to me and treat me with no respect, you will not get anything from me, you will not get respect" and i was wondering why because i dont even lie to her and she thinks every little thing i say is disrespect even though i dont say it in a disrespectful tone. Then she yelled at me and left. What should i do? If i tell her to stop shell think its disrespectful, and if i cry, shell say im stupid and weak because "boys arent supposed to cry". She gets mad at every little thing, what should i say?

Question: 15 and pregnant, help please. Advise. No judgement.?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 11:44 AM PDT

NO JUDGEMENT So I'm 15 and pregnant with my 18 year old boyfriends child. My step-mom just went to jail r like 50 years I have 7 sisters and 2 brothers I don't know my real mom I just got oiut the hospital for mental health problems I live with my dad, who lives with his parents. Were poor bc my step-mom stole from my dads parents, and is noiw locked. I doint know what to do. Ik mostly people will say my boyfriend should go to jail for statory rape, however he is my world. Like with all thee drama going on, I go to him to talk. He's my best friend. And we only had sex one time and that was before we knew the law. Bc in my state which is Virginia. The age of consent is 15 so I thought its okay but at the hospital they told me that bc I'm 15 its not statutory rapoe and only contributing to the delinquency of minor. So now I don't know what to do bc if he goes to jail no one will support my child bc I'm to young for a job and my family is poor. ABORTIONA AND ADOPTION ARE OUT THE PICTURE, I won't kill someone apart of me. And I can't give my child away. Please I need advise from anyone who is willing to give some. (PS. Iknow I'm young)

Question: What cant i stop doing bad things?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 11:18 AM PDT

I'm a 17 year old girl. Ever since I turned 14 I changed, I was very kind always helping people well I still am but I do things that don't make sense. I've gotten in trouble with the law so many times. Because of me my dad was arrested. We have moved so many times because I always ruin everything. About a month ago we had to move because a man almost killed my dad after a big problem I was in. After that I promised I was going to change. About 2 days ago something happend again involved in bad things consumption of drugs and a whole lot. I live with my mom and dad I have 2 brothers and a sister but I don't live with any of them or know of them, my moms family don't want anything to do with me. I keep trying to figure my self out but I can't. Things keep happening and I still won't stop. I sneak out stay 2 days in the streets I don't sleep I don't eat. Every time someone calls me to do something I'm always there. I have a boyfriend who's been here the whole time after everything I've done he is still here and that's the only thing that helps me... I think I might be crazy or have some really big problems. My parents have lost everything because of me. What do I do? I feel that even with help I'm still going to keep doing the things I do. I want to change but I don't understand myself. I think I'm better off in jail or somewhere far. What's going on with me?

Question: Going thru a divorce my adult children have been thrown in to bully me what should I do?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 10:35 AM PDT

Question: My sister found out about my secret Instagram and SC. I'm not sure if she'll tell my parents. What should I do?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 10:18 AM PDT

Question: My Little Sister is My Parents' Favorite.?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 10:18 AM PDT

Hey, guys. My name is Henry J. Acevedo and I'm fourteen years old. When I was born, I was everything to my parents. Until my little sister, Amelia, who is twelve years old, came along. After that, she was the center of attention. After that, Amelia has been the obvious favorite, she gets whatever she wants and she is the queen of the house. She's always getting me into trouble. It's obvious that my parents would choose her over me any day. Today, I saw my parents making a digital photo album of us and they put her on the cover. What should I do?

Question: Parents cancel plans- last minute -what to do?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 10:14 AM PDT

For the last few years - whenever my parents decide to make plans with me- they will cancel the day of and make others plans to do something else. Even when we make plans a week ahead of time and have everything planned out - they will wait last minute and then say they dont want to do it. I havent seen them in awhile and it seems they are not too interested. Should i stop making plans and just tell them i am busy? What would you do?

Question: I ****** up really bad. What should I do? I need answers fast - Will award best answer?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 10:09 AM PDT

Basically I had a secret SC and Instagram. My sister found out, and I'm not sure if she'll tell my parents. Deleting them won't work, as she's seen them already. She's asking me (Over text, bc she's at school, I'm home sick) if they're really mine. In the past, she had a secret IG too, but my mom found out, so I don't think she'll rat me out, but I don't know. I can probably blackmail or bribe her, but that might not work.

Question: I miss my parents so bad! :( Please help?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:51 AM PDT

A few days ago, my parents went Morocco to enjoy themselves and they left me with my Nan. Now i'm not saying my Nan's bad or anything , but she doesn't have any daughters my age and she startes to get really boring at times. I am literally on my phone 24-7 as there is nothing to do. I don't think I can cope with this for another month. And I do tell her that i'm bored but she just says go read a book or something and most of the day it is just awkward silence which makes the atmosphere really awkward. PLZ GUYS HELP

Question: Why is my three year old baby half brother a psycho? *please read description*?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:47 AM PDT

My baby brother came in my room and said "obama phone" a couple of times when i was visiting my "dad". I told him to stop. He said it a few more times after he was asked to stop, but did it even more since it annoyed me so much. He started SCREAMING at the top of his lungs. He got behind me and kicked as hard as he could. He also smacked me in my face about 27 times and got about an inch away from my ear, and blew on a whistle as hard as he could. He did this for 3 AND A HALF HOURS. Honestly, i'm surprised i didn't go deaf. I can't tell him calmly not to do it, as that will make him think it's freakin' hilarious. I can't scream at him, though that's what i tried to do. You can't spank him, because he doesn't care. He gets angry and hits you and screams about how much he wants to kill you (yes he actually said that). i think it's because of my "dad" and his psychopathic girlfriends awful parenting (he is allowed to watch the walking dead and law+order SVU). Advice?

Question: My Dad tells me he hates me when he is drunk and he steals money of mine and even hit me once in the face, should I feel sorry for myself?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:45 AM PDT

My mother says I need to not talk about it but I am 19 and out of the house and now feel sorry for myself. Do I have the right to? Do I have the right to talk about it in private with others or is it a secret like my mother says? My Dad always calls her the C word, hit her twice, and makes her work (he hasn't worked in years). I only go home tow or three times a year because I can't be around the fear. I don't mind the drinking it is the cursing and raging I am scared of. I have started going to Al-Anon but I know my mother would be livid if she knew I were going.

Question: Should we listen to my parents regarding marriage?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:44 AM PDT

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and in all honesty I've never been happier. We're still yet to have our first fight or argument, which I find odd but we just treat each other exceedingly well and have nothing to fight about I guess. I genuinely love this man, and I'd still like to wait another year before marrying, but we're both planning on it at this point. The one and only issue is my parents. Since I was 15 years old, they've had an unhealthy level of control over me and every aspect in my life. My therapist tells me that their behavior towards me is borderline abuse, considering how limited I am in all decisions. Unfortunately, it's their house their rules. I still live at home since I'm in school, and I'm ready to die. They're making me and my boyfriend as well as his family crazy. His family is wonderful on every level, there's not a single member I don't get along with, and we all just love each other. They want us to get married soon, but don't know what to do about my parents. Just the other day my dad told me that I'd be a naive and stupid idiot to marry him, seeing as how he's my first serious relationship. My mom is just malicious towards him, telling us both that we'll never be happy, we'll be poor with his career choice, he'll be abusive, yadyadyada. I know things will never be absolutely perfect, but he treats me like a million bucks and I can't imagine life with anyone else. How do we deal with my over controlling parents? My boyfriend is very traditional/respectful and see's asking my parents for my hand in marriage to be a critical step. I am so worried as to what my parents will tell him when that time comes. They don't think I've dated enough, and think we're both still too young (21) and the list goes on. I'm to the point where I simply do not care what my folks say, if he and I feel ready and have a plan, I'm doing it with or without their approval. I just don't want their opinion to hinder my boyfriend.

Question: Any girls sexually experimented with their brother?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:41 AM PDT

Question: I'd wish my family would die?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:39 AM PDT

Does this make me bad person? They've put me through all kinds of abuse their all selfish. All they do is yell at me they make up all kinds of lies so I get in trouble. So I'm always getting accused of things of like sucking dick when I don't even leave the house. Every couple months I get my phone taken away by dad because family member makes up lie and apparently has proof I talk to pedophile and send nudes to them when I don't. I've been call all kinds of name by my dad like whore slut dumb etc he has rage issues too so I'm always getting yell at by him over stupid things, I sometimes get beat by him when he's in rage. My mother won't let me grow up she doesn't let me out she barley let's me have friends she's claims all kinds of things are wrong with me she sent me to mental hospital too because all the things she made up,she also lies about everything even to the doctor so I get put on more medicine. She tell people like friends she bathes and dress me all kinds of things to me make me sound retarded. She made me where I always depend on here cause I've never experienced anything. She refused to let me do anything on my own either. The rest of my family hates me because I don't look white I look Asian like them so I get treated differently. My family is the reason why I have all these problems Serve depression angrier issues bipolar split personality rage social and regular anxiety. My parents are divorced so i have nowhere i could go to get away and I'm almost 16. And if you say to call police or child services I won't I've already tired and didn't work.

Question: Does my mom hate me because I'm disable?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:38 AM PDT

My mom made me get in a injury by accident and now I got walk crippled my whole life. I feel because I'm crippled she hates me and refuse to love me. Here some examples. - She calls me "useless" because I can't do outdoor chores for her. So I clean the entire house without being ask, so she will stop calling me useless. But she says "I don't care you clean, you can't do outdoor chores so you useless." I buy her gifts too, but she gives it away to people. - On my graducation day she said "your cripple legs and you will make it no were in life and your education noting." She didn't even felt happy I graduated. - She get angry if I ask to go out with my friends, want dorm, or move out. So she will say that I will end up a homeless girl who bang multiple guys, and be a single mom with bastard babies. All this because I said I wanted independence. I only ask ONCE. - I told her MANY times "mom treat me right, you hurting my feelings, please give me motherly love I want you kiss me,& hug me you NEVER did that." She will ignore what I say and how I feel hurt. And she even said "me kiss and hug you?!" she nod her head no and walk away. Does she hate me and refuse to love me because I'm disable?

Question: How do I get over the hurt of a mother who impedes on my relationship with my Dad and step-mother constantly?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:27 AM PDT

I am almost 15 and she has done this since the divorce almost 8 years ago and my Dad wont do anything about it

Question: How do I get over the hurt this Christmas that my mother wont let me see my father and my father wont fight to see me?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:25 AM PDT

My Dad won't fight to see me and my Mom won't let me go see him (I am 14 and will be 15 come Christmas). She cuts him down all the time (they are divorced since I was 7) and never lets me do holidays with him. Yet she tells people "his own father won't see him for Christmas" without revealing she is keeping me from him. It hurts me like you won't believe but my mother just says "your father made it this way because of how he treated me" referring to when they were married. On my Dad's end I have asked him to make her let me see him and he says "no you know her, it is not worth the fight, I'll see you at Spring Break and in August" as those are the only two times of the year I see him. So how do I have a good Christmas this year? How do I get my mother to let me see him or get him to fight for his right to see me? I saw him two years ago and for the first time in 5 years I had a good Christmas. The other years Christmas is just about speaking bad about my Dad all day. Speaking bad about him all day I mean my mother doing so. My Dad lives one hour away so I can't just go and not tell her.

Question: Helping a friend of mine “My grandfather was a player, ask for DNA test?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:24 AM PDT

Helping a friend of mine "My grandfather was a player, lady's man, not proud of this. Just can't believe women fell for him. He knocked up ex-wife as they were divorcing, the new wife and 2 other women around the same time. (4 women at the same time). The wives I believe, but at what point do you start asking for a DNA test. Grandfather died 20 years ago, gee, another uncle pops up yesterday but is refusing to give out his real name". random uncles coming forward, saying their mom had an affair with grandfather.

Question: Helping a friend of mine “My grandfather was a player, ask for DNA test?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:24 AM PDT

Helping a friend of mine "My grandfather was a player, lady's man, not proud of this. Just can't believe women fell for him. He knocked up ex-wife as they were divorcing, the new wife and 2 other women around the same time. (4 women at the same time). The wives I believe, but at what point do you start asking for a DNA test. Grandfather died 20 years ago, gee, another uncle pops up yesterday but is refusing to give out his real name". Starting asking these new uncles for DNA test?

Question: Will my height be a problem for girls?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:23 AM PDT

Its hard talking to girls at college. I try to talk to them to at least be friends yet I feel like I get treated like something easily disposable. I feel that just because of my physical height (5'4) that girls don't treat me as special as they would other guys and its been making me believe that some things like sexual assault is justified in some cases, or at least i'm not the one thats doing it but I have a lot less sympathy for people who are rape victims (excluding jail)....no wonder why sexual assault still exists in this world.... If a girl who doesn't like me for my height gets sexually assaulted, I won't help her because I don't owe her any thing more than she owes me, hows that for equality.... I usually go for girls that are my height or shorter, thats why I have an issue. Girls shouldn't have a problem with me because logically I"m still taller then them even by an inch or two

Question: The only thing I focus on is family relationships. How do I find other interests in life along with family time?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:21 AM PDT

Question: Is beating my little sister wrong?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 09:10 AM PDT

Question: My Dad likes to humiliate me because my social skills aren't that great. I am a teenager, what do I do?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 08:37 AM PDT

Like last night I talked about a fun weekend but my Dad didn't know the people I was referring to very well (my mother's side of the family) so he humilated me for talking nonsense. How do I get over the humiliation of this. He also tells my step-mother when he gets mad at me for my social skills and bad organization (only two things he ever has to correct me for). He has a hobby of this humiliation stuff.

Question: Does my mom hate me because I'm disabled?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 08:36 AM PDT

My mom caused me to get disabled (walk cripple & cause me have severely heavy legs). My mom will often call me useless because I can't do outdoor chores for her, she will get mad at me if I want independence and she say "this cripple girl prob want bang boys that why she want go out? A bad cripple girl I'm raising." & other nasty random stuff with the word cripple in it. And last she told me I'll make it no were in life with my cripple legs and my education noting on my graducation day. I told one day "mom please give me affection" she said "me give you affection?"she nod her head no and walk away.

Question: Is it rude to give $1000 cash gift to my sister if I think she might need it, even if I asked and she said she should be ok but thanks.?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 07:48 AM PDT

She has recently split from her boyfriend under bad circumstances. I'm not sure of her financial situation and don't want to offend her by sending the money but she might actually need and appreciate it but can't actually say that.

Question: I can t seem to get along with my girlfriends family?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 07:35 AM PDT

So my GF has always had a big tight family, I ve been the opposite small family, and more independent. I can go months without seeing or talking to my parents, she sees her whole family every weekend. It gets a bit tedious for me, since she always wants to be the first one there and the last to leave. I don t have a problem with her family, but the truth is we have little to nothing in common. I don t have kids nor like them, I m not too into sports (besides small talk), and all my funny stories are inappropriate (involving drugs and alcohol) which are not a part of my life anymore, they enjoy drinking and would want me to join too, but I can t I have liver damage and I would rather they not know, I am 23 with liver damage. It looks bad. So I would at most be comfortable being at her home for 4 hours, she wants 12 and considers it rude not to show up on time. I want to be a part of her family but I dont like interacting with large groups of people for a long time. I m reserved, I like playing on my phone, and I don t like to fake interest in something I have no connection to, that includes children. This hurts her, as she thinks I m not trying to connect to her family, I m essentially just there, bored, but that s just the way I am with everyone. I need advice what can I do to better this for her and me? She doesn t want to spend less time, but spending so much time is taxing on me, and not showing up is rude, and showing up and being reclusive is also rude.

Question: My parents are critical that family is important to me, is it unhealthy that family is important to me? Is this a bad trait?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 06:48 AM PDT

They seem to think it is a bad trait because it includes people they hold grudges against on my mother's side of the family. So is this unhealthy? Should I find another interest?

Question: My father is emotionally abusive, how do I handle it?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 06:43 AM PDT

He likes gossips about me to my Mom. He humiliates me and he resents how much time he has to spend with me compared to my siblings though at other times he seems to like me. Even though I am an adult he still criticizes me and not for serious stuff but for trivial things. How do I handle this as I don't believe in divorcing family members so I am stuck seeing him some. I am 26 and he is 61. I dont live with him or anything, I am living on my own

Question: My mother likes to insult people she is mad at, is this immature?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 06:41 AM PDT

Question: My brother has been a drug addict and my parents dont hear from him much, is this a sign he is using again?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 06:39 AM PDT

He had been sober for past 8 months He is 25 years old but my parents check in on him about once or twice a week. He lives in Chicago but my parents live in Florida.

Question: Is my mom crazy?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 06:35 AM PDT

Lately she's been creeping out everyone with her Facebook statuses. It's really embarrassing. She talks about gross **** like wondering what human body tastes like and saying carcass smells "oddly satisfying"... this is only the public **** though. She's done things like buying a 1 year anniversary cake on the day her ex-husband died the year before and since I'm 17 she says she doesn't want me to move out at all and I can just live with her forever. She also says she needs someone to take care of her when she's old, and she says none of my other siblings are as sweet as me. I fear my future. Please help me out. She doesn't even want me to go to college. I'm turning 18 soon

Question: My moms friend touched me? Help??

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 06:29 AM PDT

I'm a 16 year old boy, and yesterday my moms friend came to our house, she sat with my mom they started talking about going out later, i was sitting in front of them, and my moms friend is hot, when my mom went to the bathroom, my moms friend came and sat next to me, she started asking me questions while rubbing my shoulder, i was confused but she turned me on, she said 'You should give me your number' then she touched my chest and moved her hand down slowly to my penis, it was awkward but i liked it, but when she heard my mom coming she stopped, i was really confused, i don't know what to do now, i feel really weird and i can't tell my mom what happened to me, anyone tell me what should i do?? should i talk to my moms friend and keep it a secret?? and what would happen if i tell my mom about it? Should i not tell my mom??

Question: Personal question. Should I move out of my mom's house?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 05:46 AM PDT

So I got married about a year and a half ago. My husband and I have been living with my 70 year old mother. Recently we came across a place that we would like to rent, but she is very reticent for us to leave. My father died 9 years ago, and she doesn't want to live by herself. I feel so guilty every time I bring it up, because she starts talking about how she's lived in that house for 41 years, and she doesn't want to live alone, and she doesn't trust anyone in the family to move in with her. The problem is, it's 'grandma's house' and everyone is always coming by. She's talking about selling the house and moving if we leave, and it makes me feel bad. My husband and I do not have much privacy, if any. The 'door' to our room is a folding type door. There's ALWAYS people there visiting 'grandma.' I don't have a space to myself. It's so frustrating. There's so many good reasons to leave, and so many reasons to stay, but most of the reasons to stay involve guilt. I don't want that to be an issue, but it is. Has anyone had an issue like this? What should I do? I know it's kinda risky to ask strangers on the internet, but I'm kinda stuck.

Question: My Parents won't buy me an Ipad? i have iphone,pc and many other things such as ps3 but what i need is an ipad, im 14 and im not spoiled?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 05:38 AM PDT

Question: Am I setting myself for failure?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 05:31 AM PDT

Hi everyone, I am in a very delicate situation... I've been with my boyfriend for more than 2 years now we love each other very much, he is a gentleman and supports me in college.We also ,always go out in weekends and have really good time but there is a problem -- my parents do not like him at all because he is 15 years older than I am. Their friends judged and criticized me very hard for this because I am 23 and he is 38 and he also had a daughter (who is 10 years old, but she is so sweet). My parents told me, and especially my mom, that she will not talk to me anymore because I am doing against her word and that I shall break up with him and return home which I don't really want to do because I really love him and they don't seem to understand this. Lately I've been very depressed because I just want to be happy, love and have a normal life yet. When I call my mom she rarely answer the phone. I love my mother too and I really don't want to disappoint her because she was a good mother to me, she put in all the effort and money to raise me but at the same time I love this man a lot and we get along each other so well, what do you think I am doing wrong? I know that what they are saying is totally true - he will get older before me..and that scares me a little bit to be honest. I am just so confused with my life right now...I know I may seem like and "adult child" to you reading this but before this my mother was also my best friend and I wish my life was different... My step-dad really bothers me when he laughs about my relationship asking me what "my other dad" is doing...:(

Question: Am i a bad daughter for telling my parents last min im getting married/movingout?

Posted: 17 Oct 2016 05:28 AM PDT

Im 28yrs old still living with my parents.Growing up I was always the goody good girl.I always did what my parents told me.We dont have a great communication bc when I have tried they always make me feel like I dont knw anything and Im dumb.Whenever I would cry I was told to suck it up so comments like that pushed me away from them.... I have been dating my boyfriend for 5yrs.I have a full time job and part time I go to college.He has his own small busniess which my mom dislikes him bc he doesnt have a degree.... We decided we couldnt afford a wedding so we decided to buy a house and go on a nice trip. We sat down with my parents to tell them our plan.All I got from the whole conversation was I was an idiot and I had no idea how hard life was and I was a bad daughter for not asking for their opionion.... I feel like I didnt have to ask for their approval for making this type of choice in my life. if i didnt tell them about the house was bc my mom is very negative and getting a house is very difficult bc how competitive it is in my area. i feel sad and confused why/how im a bad daughter....pls any advice...☹️