Hi. I'm 23, and my best friend was 22. Let's call her Rhianna. Rhianna had been my best friend since I was 5. We met in a club called Rainbows. We had been through everything together, breakups, depression, anorexia, anxiety, graduating college, suicide attempts and much more. It wasn't until a few weeks ago that I realised something. We had always been extremely close. She came around my house every day after school, after we graduated college we moved into a flat together in London. Until a few weeks ago, everything was going smoothly, we loved living together. She had been in hospital for 2 weeks and then I realised something that I never realised before then..... I had feelings for her. Major feelings. I built up the courage after 2 weeks to tell her. When I did I saw her eyes light up and smile that beautiful smile of hers for the first time in 2 weeks. She told me something I will never forget: I may be dying, but that doesn't mean I can't have happiness or be able to love. I have been wanting to tell you this since I was 13. I love you with all my heart and I honestly have never loved someone more. We then hugged and as we did this, I felt her chest stop moving and her breaths stop blowing my hair on my shoulder. This isn't a question, I know, but I just want to tell you all one thing: Whether you have been friends for 1 week, 1 month, 1 year or 1 decade, treasure your friendship for as long as you can.

I was invited to a birthday party a while ago and somehow forgot about it. I haven't even gotten the guy a gift yet. I'll probably give him an amazon gift card or something. The thing is I haven't talked to this guy face to have in a looooooong time. We meet in simmer school when I was a sophomore and I'm a senior now. I don't think I saw him at all last year, I was really surprised when I got the invite. We were really close friends. I now two maybe three other people that's going. It's supposed to be a scavenger hunt around the city. I love the idea but sounds tiring. Especially after a long day of testing. I took the ACT today. In trying to excise if I should go. Do you think I should?

Ok so I was closing up at work last night. I opened the west door to shake out the rugs and heard an old woman calling for help. So I dropped everything and ran to her. She was on her hands and knees in tears because her right knee shattered and was bleeding EVERYWHERE. And she hit her forehead bad, like she had a dark bruise already. So she probably got a concussion too. I got 2 of my coworkers to help me help her up and sat her on the bench. I called 911, told them the problem, and had her call her friend and I talked to her friend and explained what happened (so her friend could pick up her truck), waited outside, the woman was taken to UMC, and her friend arrived later and I explained everything again. They said thank you allot...and they took her truck and left. My mom said the police will want to talk to me about it. What can I expect? Like a questioning? Am I gonna be taken in or are they going to find me and ask me there? And when can I expect them? (I am still in high school so if possible would they come in my school?)

My guy friend told me that i should stop harassing him by saying that im not interested in speaking to him anymore? What does that mean and what do i do? Thanks.

My friend sleeping over at my dorm in a few weeks and she's a very needy person. I keep telling her to bring a sleeping bag but she keeps insisting on sleeping on my roommate's bed (roommate will be gone for the week) or my bed *and mind you, the beds are smaller than the standard twin size... She keeps telling me I'm stingy for not letting her sleep on either of our bed's and it's really annoying. What do I say?

My friend and I were friends for a while but ever since she went to a technical high school she seems less interested in me. When I send her texts she opens them and doesn't reply and only sends me "streaks" on snapchat. She only speaks to me when she feels like it. I want to cut her off and ignore her if she sends me stuff but is that petty????

So in January I moved to the US and left my friends and family behind and started my first semester in college. I did Spring, Summer and I m currently doing Fall semester but I don t have any friends yet? Like nobody really asks for my number to hang out and I don t want to ask for theirs because I feel like it seems clingy of me... Is it normal to be alone for the first year of college? I always hear about people like going to these parties and stuff but none of that has happened to me yet....

so last night I went with a group to a haunted house and my ex bestfriend went. we were so close but stupid drama and jealous people ruined that. I realized last night I miss her a lot. I thought she hated me but she obviously didn't but I wouldn't say she'd want to be my friend again cause I just don't know. She's friends with my bestfriend. I'm going to a basketball game with my bestfriend and I want her to come so badly. should I just let go of my pride and ask her ? we're not friends so I think that would be weird to ask her. I just want to hang out.

So i have this friend we talk like almost evry day on skype and so on we are really good friends. I always tell him of my day and i think he gets sórta jelous. He think i have like no friends and sit in my room all day proboly. So the other day he snapchat me when he is hanging out with his friends and they all singing togheter and just laughing their *** out. He send me like three videos. And i told him dude u tryna make me jeous cus i have friends too u know in like a joking way, He hangs out with the same group of friends i know 80 procent of them and belive me i have many friends too i just dont brag about them or post about them. Whats ur idea?

I am a young man and having a lot of life issues right now. At my job my boss....the one in charge of everything is an woman about the age of my mother. I have talked to her at work and some on the phone about my issues and she has said call me anytime you need to talk. How do i know if she means that? I dont want to overwhelm her. thanks. I do consider her a friend more than a boss.

It is a gloomy Wednesday afternoon in California. I just got back from school and I hear my father yelling "Honey I got the promotion". This can't be happening I think in my head. My father recently got a new promotion which requires us to move into a different state! I rush down stairs as fast as a lightning bolt. "Dad this can't be happening I refuse to leave my friends!" I protest. "Son, this is for the better I'm sorry but you can make friends in North Carolina". "Your father is right Donnie you can make friends at North Carolina, Kenneth has to take the opportunity I suggest you start packing because we are leaving in two weeks." ~ "Wait you're actually moving?" My friend Jared says at lunch. "Yea we leave in two weeks" I say. "Wow that sucks" Jared says. "I know". When I get home I give my parents a lot of reasons as to why we shouldn't move but it never works. How will I be able to cope with losing all my friends and the state I had been living in for thirteen years? How will I be able to adapt to a state where they do things entirely different than they do here in California?

I've just heard that from someone trustuble, that one classmate said that people in class don't like me really. It's true I don't hang out with most of them, just a few people. But I don't remember doing anything wrong, it could seem I'm cold sometimes but I'm really not. I don't remember doing anything wrong. It is possible that just the girl who said that doesn't like me...but then she wouldn't have said that about the whole class, would she?

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I called his sister a retard and a weeboo . Now he beaten me up

I've had this crush for about a year now. At first she was really nice and I was so happy but because I'd said some really sexual stuff to my friends about her (I'm kinky, choking and stuff came up) and she found out so she hates me and for the past six months or so has been really mean to me. For example, more than once she has told me not to even look at her and that I make her feel physically sick. Anyway, I though she called me fat (she didn't) so I'm anorexic now and I lost about 45 pounds in 4 months and had to go to the hospital, where I'm being force fed and when she found out from a friend of mine, she started crying her eyes out and said she felt so guilty and had to go home from school for the day and her parents went to see the school about it and she was even gonna come see me in hospital (she chose not too because my parents hate her). I don't think this was really a normal reaction but I feel so bad that I've made her so upset I never even thought she cared about me enough that if I killed myself she'd just be like 'Wow, glad he's gone' and now she was crying! It's been about 5 days since she was crying and I don't know if I should message her and comfort her or if she'd just ignore me or what. Keep in mind everything that's happened (self harm, she told police what I'd said I wanted to do to her, etc.) do you think I should message her?

hi, I am 15, a guy. in my Computer Applications class (elective), there is this really sweet freshmen (I am a sophomore). I've started chatting with her two weeks ago and exactly this day last week, I had the guts to ask her for her ph number off Instagram. we have a lot in common too. I love her as a friend (since I already have a girlfriend) and I was wondering if it would be weird if I told her I love her as a friend. would it be weird? I always tell her how nice, and what a great friend she is.

So at my school people draw penises all over this one wall and so one of my friends did it and so I thought that to win my friends over and seem cool I could draw one. So I drew a small one on the bottom of the wall. It's been guilting me ever since and I've become really paranoid about it. I don't want to get caught but I also want to tell someone. What should I do? What if the school found out? HELP. (Best answer gets 10 points)

I just got a new adorable boyfriend who is three years younger than me, I am 15, his fingers are so small and won't be good at pleasuring me, and I am sure his penis is small as well, but he is so pretty, and I wish he give me an oral, but I am I don't know if he even aware of such a thing

What to do whenever your friends want to club every weekend? I despise the long lines to get in, the drunk people falling all over you. It's like everyone is possessed. We're all mid twenties, and whenever I suggest doing something other than the club, they just say its boring, or they "forgot about a prior event" at the last minute. I've suggested things like: dinner, coffee, fitness or art classes, wine tasting, movies. I don't know what else to do. Should I drop them as friends?

Ya I got beat up, but nothing hurts i got a black eye and a swollen lip my pride feels about the same even tho my friends were there. I just feel exhausted so that s first idk why I am cuz I slept and even took a nap but still so tired. Second what should I do about the kid do I **** with him for a rematch or just leave it alone and see what happens? Btw this is my first real fight ,last fight I got into was 6th grade just cuz I know this all sounds kinda weird

i'm 14 years old boy i'm so depressed because no one of my family have connection with me! i'm so feel sad when i see my friends go out with their family or siblings and i have a friend his father help him to do workouts but me no one of my family is friend with me... no one of them tell me do you have any sadness or problems? please help me im so so so depressed i feel i suffer in a ocean that no one come to help me

I've missed so many opportunities in the past because I was afraid. I missed my chance to make friends in middle school and high school. I missed my chance to take AP classes. I missed my chance to join clubs. I missed my chance to tell a great guy that I liked him. I missed the chance to apply to colleges farther away because I was afraid of leaving home. It makes me sick to my stomach when I think of all the things I would do differently if I could go back in time. My life would be so different today if I could go back and take chances and step out of my comfort zone. Does anyone ever feel like this? Any advice because I feel kinda terrible right now.

I try to be really nice to everyone and say hi to everyone. However, I'm still really insecure. I have such bad anxiety that my presence bothers people and that everyone secretly really hates me (I know to an extent that this is not entirely true but still). I walked by this manager the other day and said I had to clock in and she said "shut up (my name), nobody really likes you you know." it was entirely uncalled for and it really stung because it spoke directly to my insecurity. I can't tell if she was kidding or not. one time I was talking to my friend and she joined in and when I spoke she said "don't interrupt me." she always denies me things too, like granting other people opportunities for overtime but telling me that i'm ineligible (i'm a star employee by all of the other managers' standards, may I add). I won't go into too much detail but things like that. she doesn't know me that well, and that is why I can't tell if she is kidding or not when she says such mean things. I don't understand. Everyone is nice to me, but could they really secretly hate me? Was she speaking some truth when said that? I don't know if this is relevant but I am of the opposite sex.

I ve been with my group of friends ever since middle school started. I ve noticed for those 3 years how much they ve changed for the worst- one of them now basically has sex with guys and cheats on them (we re 14 btw, some of us entered school early) I know this sounds silly, but I usually stay away from these type of people. She s very obnoxious and whenever the other girls ditch her she hangs out with me, which feels like she s forced to do that, because y know i ve always been that one friend replacement, sadly. As for the other one, she smokes, does everything she can to have peoples attention, I d say this one doesn t even give two shi*s about me, and honestly I finally stopped trying to change myself for her to like me. For the last one, she s probably the only one I could consider as a friend, she s the only reason i m still in this group and I did talk to her about this issue but it seems like she s selling me out for them. I seriously lost hope, I always feel like I want to change myself around them, I always feel like the fourth wheel and I feel as if I would be better off living without friends instead of faking relationships. Is it really the right choice for me to leave them? Thank you for taking your time and reading this. :)

I'm a 13 year old Girl and I dont feel like I fit with my friends. I wear the same style like Them, and sort of the same personality. But I'm still really awkward. And I also Think my face doesn't look at good as theres. I dont feel like I fit in. What should I do ?

So, I'm seeing this guy and we're kinda ready to take it to the next level. I want to make sure that the first time he sees my booty and stuff that it looks really good. I usually wear a thong but also thought lace maybe. Dunno? Guys?

I'm a girl and i'm in my last year of university, which means i'm going to work soon, and Yes i still don't have friends, And I feel like i'm too old to have them now, I used to have 2 best friends when i was in primary school, it's because we were innocent and stuff, And I actually changed, and It gets worse and worse every year, I can socialize with people, talk to them, Introduce myself to them etc... But there's something about me that just make them talk to me for the first time, and ignore me later... I'm not rude, I'm actually nice, I help people a lot, and I always expect that they will do the same for me, but most of the time they don't,Girls don't seem to be interested in me as a best friend, Cause i don't have a boyfriend and I don't like girly stuff like makeup etc... So it's boring to talk to me... And guys would just talk to me if i'm super super funny in a stupid way, That i laugh with no reason etc... Or they will just want something else besides friendship which i can't afford... Even if I have friends, none of them is as close as I want them to be... And I don't really think they should be close, cause i have trust issues, I can't tell them anything special about me, my secrets etc... Cause i don't trust people, and it's because of my past experiences, When i used to reveal a secret and suddenly the whole city knows of it... I feel like deep inside i can be really a good friend, but from the outside i look distant and cold but i'm NOT, i push people away hlp Maybe i'm not good enough ? not funny enough ? boring... but still, I can be a great friend, I would leave everything behind me and go help them if they need to, i won't stab them in their back, i won't talk behind their back or let anyone harm do or say something wrong about them... but nobody cares about me sadly

my friend is going on a date with my other friend and wants me to come because she doesn't want to be alone any ideas on where we could go or what we could do? by the way I'm a girl

i found that sometimes, sometimes it's really hard to talk to someone that you don't have the same interests in. and in our conversation it is just super awkward because there's no topic to talk about. is this normal? is it normal that i dont get along with everyone?

One of my good friends decided to be a hypocrite. She would include her cousin in all of our hangouts. My good friend would always make fun of her, and overall, has no respect for her cousin. When her cousin called my good friend about her boyfriend proposing to her, she immediately called me and told me how ridiculous her cousin was for getting engaged to some guy she barely was with. That's how hypocritical my good friend was. However, the 3 of us formed friendships even though her cousin never cared for anyone but her self and her relationships. Her cousin deleted me off of snapchat. Therefore, I took a stand and took her cousin off of all my other social media. However, my good friend back stabbed me in the back. She lied and didn't want to attend my birthday celebration because of that. She also became distant as well. She even created fake FaceTime accounts and tried to insult me. It was pathetic. I was so loyal to our friendship. I don't get why she would do this to me. What's wrong with standing up for my rights?

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I never had a girlfriend or dated before. I am 22 guy, i need some tips on how i can get to this process. I try talking to girls, but then i get intimidated, since i don't have experience, i don't wanna embarass myself. How do i get myself to talk to a girl i like? Also if i see a girl i like, but don't know her, what do i do? Should i just go straight up to her? I don't want her to be creeped out or anything. Ill appreciate your tips

She's from South East Asia, and we met at work, which is her first job because she never had a need to work in her life. She's had a pretty easy life compared to most and compared to me. She got married when she moved to the U.S. and her husband is pretty wealthy. There is a lot of drama regarding their marriage, but to keep it short, they are working on a divorce, which may or may not actually happen. I don't know and I don't care. Right now, she's been having sex with LOTS of men regularly, and feels to need to share that with me, even though I told her I don't care. We've known each other for more than a year now, and we talk a lot. She confides in me by telling me everything that is bothering her. She often needs someone to talk to. I don't mind being an ear, we all need one at some point. Lately, though, I feel things are different. She posted two things on Facebook: 1) That she had a huge crush on a friend she has no chance with and 2) That she hates everyone at work except me. She gets all excited now every time I show up, like when I decided to go out with a group of friends, she was there, and grabbed my arm in excitement. She will smile at me and look at me a lot, and when she says something, it's usually under her breath but when I ask her what she said, she smiles and says nothing. She also gets all "protective" when she sees me flirting with a woman who is flirting with me.

i work 12 hours straight three days a week at my job. I started my job theee weeks ago so I'm still considered kind of new. There were ten other new people that started with me as well. My thing is that when it's time for break or lunch at my job I sit by myself and eat and use my phone... I don't have friends or buddies to sit with. It's making me sad a little because I'm at work a half a day and no one talks to me... there has been a few people who has talked to me but they go with their friends when it's time for break... even the new people I started with has friends that already worked there... I'm so lonely ther and don't have anyone to talk to , I know I go to work to mainly "work" and make money but to be at a job for half of a day and don't talk is crazy..

What do you do if you know a friend of yours is being physically, emotionally and sexually (I think, he's hinted at it) abused? He has been a good friend since we were 9 years old. I don't want to ruin our friendship, and I know he wouldn't talk to me again if I put him "through that" as in telling the police. We live in a somewhat small town, and things get around quickly. How would I go on reporting it, but not making it seem like I did it? Do I tell my mom? Teacher?

I'm a girl and i'm in my last year of university, which means i'm going to work soon, and Yes i still don't have friends, And I feel like i'm too old to have them now, I used to have 2 best friends when i was in primary school, it's because we were innocent and stuff, And I actually changed, and It gets worse and worse every year, I can socialize with people, talk to them, Introduce myself to them etc... But there's something about me that just make them talk to me for the first time, and ignore me later... I'm not rude, I'm actually nice, I help people a lot, and I always expect that they will do the same for me, but most of the time they don't,Girls don't seem to be interested in me as a best friend, Cause i don't have a boyfriend and I don't like girly stuff like makeup etc... So it's boring to talk to me... And guys would just talk to me if i'm super super funny in a stupid way, That i laugh with no reason etc... Or they will just want something else besides friendship which i can't afford... Even if I have friends, none of them is as close as I want them to be... And I don't really think they should be close, cause i have trust issues, I can't tell them anything special about me, my secrets etc... Cause i don't trust people, and it's because of my past experiences, When i used to reveal a secret and suddenly the whole city knows of it... I feel like deep inside i can be really a good friend, but from the outside i look distant and cold but i'm NOT, i push people away hlp Maybe i'm not good enough ? not funny enough ? boring... but still, I can be a great friend, I would leave everything behind me and go help them if they need to, i won't stab them in their back, i won't talk behind their back or let anyone harm do or say something wrong about them... but nobody cares about me sadly

I met this guy n class who's much older. He first approached me as I was getting off the elevator. We chatted as we walked to class & I mentioned that I started a business. A few days later the professor assigned us to groups for a project. She just so happens to place me with him (the much older man). We all exchanged email addresses to each other. After the group members left the man asked me about my business, & said that he wants to help. We had a long chat after class talking about business. He told me he know a lot of people, and can help me with whatever I need. Immediately after he left the school he emailed me asking if he could treat me to lunch to discuss more business and he left me his number. I texted him & told him I wouldn't be able to meet for lunch due to my work schedule. He then kept calling & trying to set up dates 2 meet. He then said we can discuss it over the phone or through lunch/dinner. I told him over the phone would be fine. We talked about 2 hrs on the phone & he basically said the reason why he want 2 help me because he build people up & he have a lot of connection, & lots of people owe him favors. He also owned a few businesses.The following week after class he showed me different parts of the school that I've never seen, and I also finally agreed to go to lunch with him. He brought out this big book of autographs and pictures of him and celebrities. He calls every single day and we talk about everything including suggestions for my business.

If your ex brokeup with you and broke your heart by telling you they don't love you would you actually stay friends with that person? Or would you walk out on there lives

Yesterday I noticed 3 cuts on my friends arm I asked her about it and she did them they are self harm she also has them on her leg. She told me she cuts herself because her dad raped her. I wanna tell somone but I don t know who and she s at his house right now she stays there weekends and weekdays with her mom should I tell somone and who? She's 15 I'm 13 were in 9th grade

Me and this guy have been bestfriends for a while like we met on this online educational/social website and became bestfriends bc we live so close. He's 1 year oldder than me and what was cute at first has become annoying. Like he gets mad and jealous so easy, he has crazy mood swings. And I tell myself it's just him and then I let him cool off and then he's all like "l love you, i'm sorry" I ignored him for 2 months but starting missing "us" so i texted him and he's all like "i've missed you, don't leave me again" like he is so toxic for me I know, but every time I try to ignore him or leave, he finds way to talk to me or asks his friends to text me for him or i just end up missing all of our great memories. Any advice?

I'm in college and for the last few weeks, my roommate and I haven't been getting along. At all. I talked to my best friend and his roommate. They said if I want to do this, (we already got the ok from our RA to do it) his roommate and I could swap rooms. My roommate is his roommate's girlfriend, so it may actually work out for them. Anyway, a few months ago, this particular friend and I slept together. We still talk about it once in a while, and as of now, there isn't any awkwardness between us. We're looking forward to switching rooms, but in the back of my head, I'm worried that something might get awkward at some point. We're switching our furniture around this afternoon. Is there anything I can do to make sure nothing gets awkward? I don't think it will, but I'd rather be sure, since he's doing me a huge favor letting me stay with him. What can I do, just in case?

I never even attended this high school, but I knew a lot of students who did attend from grades 1-8. This was a long, long time ago and all I remember was there being a lot of hostility between me and other kids and even between my parents and their families. I am tempted to attend because of a barrier that I feel that I have to overcome. Several years ago, I contacted a few of the people I knew then and even then was greeted with some dislike. One person initially said he remembered me and we would talk about old times. Then, he sent me an email saying he was sorry but did not remember me. One other person said that it was a good thing that I don't live in the area anymore because most people who I knew still do live there. I can't believe they would hold grudges from when we were 13 or 14 years old. Please tell me if you think I should attend this reunion. Thank you.

My only friend never talks to me or replies my text messages, I feel annoying, I have people who bully me a ton and make fun of me for my weight, I'm socially awkward and can't make any new friends and my parents always fight every single day and I'm so stressed out and I cry before sleeping, I have tried everything but nothing seems to make me happy, I'm always thinking about what bullies say to me and I just get sad.

I'm 17 and hate my life reasons being 1. I got bullied from age 5-17 (well it stopped around august this year) 2. My family hates me. 3. I only have 1 friend 4. I'm diabetic type 1 5. No one else likes me as I bullied people before they bullied me which I regret Not to mention that I sometimes bully people myself because I've feel like j ruined my life and could of done better in the past 😖

My mom tries to connect to me by being my friend. Which I'm not going to lie is nice sometimes. But when I was younger I needed some authority and someone to tell me the things I was doing was bad. She would get hammered with me starting at age 16. It was how we bonded. Now I am 21 and a heavy alcoholic. I can't do anything anymore but drink. All I spend my money on is alcohol. And I quit all my jobs just because I'm running my body ragged by treating it so badly with alcohol and other drugs. I'm not going to tell you my life story. But I will tell you my parents divorced when I was 18, and that was when I started getting depressed. I guess what I'm asking is.. Is it my fault completely or was I enabled? ***divorced at 16 not 18***

I have a friend who is a senior in high school. (I'm a freshman in college). We met last year when I transferred schools. She's one of my closest friends. I didn't really consider her a best friend really, probably because I'm not really used to being all BFF with people, but we did hang out a lot, she was the friend I called up if I ever wanted to do something fun. Even though she has done or said **** to really piss me off in the past (and I never said anything, knowing I would fvck!ng go off, and she has gone off on me and has said some really dumb and hurtful things), I still remain loyal, nice, and respectful. I realize she's kind of insecure and she kind of gets mean. idk why I always get the insecure rude friends and why I stay friends with them... I forgive to easily to be honest. And she has said I was her best friend, and I realize she wouldn't have any one else as close as me, even though she has friends at school and such, she still considers me her best friend. I feel bad at times because I don't feel the same really, maybe because I'm an introvert or I miss my friend who moved 2 years ago, or she can be annoying...When we hung out recently she told me that she smoked weed with 2 friends, I didn't make a big deal out of it, I was just like oh okay, thought you said you wouldn't do drugs anymore. Then she makes the excuse of being stressed (which might be true considering the stuff that has happened) and (sorry need update...) I just left it at that, she basically talked about it and I was pretty nonchalant. But the next day she keeps talking about like its super cool and just being cringey and wanna be stoner, saying dumb things like "oh i need that weed,blah blah blah" and in no way am I jealous, I'm not for drugs. You can ridicule me all you want but I just dont like how she's acting like she's a certified stoner. I dont care if you do drugs or if someone one needs it for medical reasons, its none of my business and I almost dont want to hang out with her anymore because of that. I even told her I don't "fvckk with people like that" it was partly a joke and part true, but I was irritated. I feel like we might go separate ways if I feel like I don't wanna hang out with her anymore. I need like minded people... no one is perfect but still. And in college I talk to a few people here and there and if I have too (I have an anxiety disorder, I should be the one smoking lol, I just don't want to be a druggie or have worse panic attacks.) And now I just want a best friend.. sorry this is so complicated. I just want a close friend who isn't as irritating... who's house I dont wanna leave because she insulted me and then acts clingy! ugh!!!! I have a bf, but we don't see each other a lot. and I dont consider a bf and best friend the same really... maybe I should connect more with him...? I mean I should always connect with my bf but maybe get more best friend like? To Anonymous: yeah, that is how I'm starting to look at friends, if they help my personal growth or not. I have younger friends from my old high school, they are really nice people but I just feel like I can't really connect with them either. they are finishing their senior year of high school, while I'm just starting my freshman year college. So maybe that one person will come along and make my social life more interesting. So far now, I don't really care about keeping her at a distance. We have done a lot of stuff together, I've helped her a lot, but I just can't stand people like that. I hope that doesn't sound selfish. I just need to grow with other positive and cool people. And yes, thankfully I do have other hobbies. Stuff I like to do alone. I like doing solo sports like running, skateboarding, etc. I make art and music, I read, I watch a interesting videos. I also have a big family, so getting alone time and peace and quiet is rare, haha.

My friend has a birthday today and were like 16-17 what fun things can we do , shes in a relashionship but we also want to do super fun Things. what games we can play btw her birthday party is a suprise and it starts in a few hours some help?

It makes me feel bad when she doesn't acknowlage what I say and pretends she has it worse. Help?

One of my friends stopped cutting about two months ago but hey boy friend is really bad too get and one of the recent things he did made her day she wanted to go back to cutting. I have school in S couple days and was wondering if I should tell one of our teacher about it

Whenever someone opens their present I got them, I always have a near panic attack. My attacks have gotten worse recently, and this gift is a bit personal and I'm not sure if I want everyone to see it, seeing as I'm not great friends with everyone going to the party. But is it weird to request her to open my present later, especially when she'll most likely me opening everyone else's?

it have this boy he is 16 and he doesnt come to school on Mondays and Tuesdays what does that mean and he is not the delinquent type my country is Trinidad so what could he be doing?