Im 20 years old, 5'11", and I have a full figure with nice features. I guess my face is average. It is my profile photo. I wanna know why I never find a boyfriend easily. I use okcupid currently, and it's usually one of two things: either the guys look at my pics and never message back, or they start talking and after the first date they never talk to me again. Is something wrong with me? I'm an emotionally stable, goal-oriented, intelligent, and sophisticated young woman. I never showed them anything less than that. But here I am, alone every day, and my other friends are getting married. What can I do to be more attractive that doesn't include plastic surgery and making myself look cheap?

I like this girl and I gave her flowers as a house warming gift because she invited me to her party over the weekend. Do theyfeel flatterd? I heard flowers is the best gift you can give to a girl.

I'm 15 and my boobs are really small and it makes me feel unattractive my mom has really big boobs but I don't at all and I feel uncomfortable talking to her about it so I'd rather just have anonymous advice and no offensive advice please.

She's in a class of mine. She always sits at the same spot and I go and sit next to her. I noticed that she looks in my direction at times in class. Example, I wrote notes I see her look at my paper.I scrolling through my phone and she will look at it at times. I had this unique handset for my iPhone once in class and I noticed her looking at her iPhone to see where it plugs into. We got back an assignment in class today and I was looking through my assignment and from the corner of my eye saw her looking at my assignment. We had to do a reading from our book and when I took mine out I saw her looking at. Is she Bored or perhaps interested?

I'm in a happy relationship, but honestly fall in "lust" with strangers all the time. I have never cheated, and would never emotionally cheat. But why do I have the desire to hook up with strangers when I'm happy in my relationship?

I don't feel the same way about him but he loves me. He said he wants to feel inside me whatever that means?🤔

I only live with my dad so I feel uncomfortable talking to him about this and I'd rather any answers be private in my personal email skyfiore@yahoo.com but I've noticed that I have like a big "bubble" butt some people call them but my boobs are very small and I feel like they should be evened out or that I'm unattractive so if anyone has any advice please email me this is a personal topic for me so please no offensive comments:/

There is this guy who is Tommy Clark.😍When I saw him, I wanted to hug him but I had to stop myself. I didn't want to make things awkward.😳😳😳😳when he was talking out loud in the class and he was near me, I wanted to put my arms around him. I don't know what's wrong with me. Is there something wrong with me?😨 I'm freaking out!😱😱😱😱😱I want him near me, I want him close for some reason?😬😬😬 Why do I want this from him so bad?

Today at school my friend look at my penis while we were changing for gym and said I have a jock kock. What does that mean? He walked away after and when I asked later what it meant he pretended he didn't know what I was talking about. Is it bad?

i used to like this guy and he used to like me and uh we had very rough patches and a lot of talks here and there about what we wanted and well point being it was those type of "almost dated" kinda things and we never actually talked about moving on the right way. He'd say at times that he tried to but he never could and well that was that until recently i found out he lost his virginity to some random girl and i cant help but feel heartbroken? i mean he isnt mine or never was but it still hurts and idk what to do bc a small part of me still tells me he could still like me but idk how to stop that i want to stop hurting but i just dont know how

Long story short....technically this man is my "boss" I got into some trouble and I need to report to him every so often starting very soon. Anyway he makes me feel like we've met before. Just the way he looks and speaks to me. He'll be all stern and talk professionally to me then he'll switch to talking very sweet and kind like he'll joke around with me or ask me why I smiled a certain way for example which I found weird. He was like" why'd you laugh??" When all I did was look away and smile into the distance. Then hell have a causal convo with me then incorporate it into what we're are professionally talking about. Idk I've been thinking a lot of this....... when i saw him again the other week he sternly said hi how are you? then when i respond he ignored me and continued walking..what do you guys think? also... i forgot to mention our first class is at night for two hours. have you ever heard of anything like this?

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A guy sent me a dick pic on snapchat and the guy who likes me saw my best friends on snapchat and he probably talked to him and he told the guy who likes me that he sent me a dic pic and the guy who likes me added me on snapchat.. Why did he add me lol?

I'm EXTREMELY awkward when it comes to communicating with people face to face...but I really want to change that! The worst part is that my awkwardness comes off as rude. If I sense the moment will be awkward, I won't say anything and keep a straight face, even though we have to work together. Sigh, it's really preventing me to get to know this guy better. Help!

Im a virgin, i get elections when I'm sitting next to a girl at a party or if she's leaning on me, in gym class a girl sat on my foot idk if it was purposely and I started getting one, I'm sitting in class and use the same chair as a leg rest with a girl I like and start getting one, is there a way I can stop this? Will having sex for the first time help? Most of the time I'm not even thinking about sex or anything it just happens, I've never been close to a girl and am kind of awkward with them.

i am only talking about people that are in middle/high school. (im shy and find myself in awkward situations with my new boyfriend when i honestly dont know hat to even talk about)

Boyfriend asked me to cosign his car. ..He has repeatedly talked to other women and won't add my name to his lease. Am I wrong for saying no? We've been together for over a year. Living together for 10 months. He won't add my name to his lease. I spend a lot of money keeping our household afloat (groceries, detergents/cleansers, trash bags, decor he asks me to buy, etc). I do not know if I can stay with him because history with him has made me question whether or not I should trust him. His old car is giving him problems. He found a car he loves and the dealer asked me to cosign. I said no... I feel bad, should I though?

There's this girl that im super drawn to right now. I asked her to homecoming and we had a great time and i think we became really good friends. The problem is I asked her best friend if the girl liked me and she said she wasn't looking for a relationship. She also said I'm still a really good friend of hers but shes just not trying to date now because of her soccer career( she's really good ). I have heard many people say we would make a great couple but I'm having trouble figuring out if i should keep chasing this girl (even though I really wanna be with her). Is this nonsense or should I keep chasing until she's ready? TL;DR : really like this girl but don't know if i should keep pursuing because I'll waste my time. Her best friend said shes (girl I like) is not looking for a relationship What to do?

I will ask her if she has a corkscrew to open wine because I don't have one. Then I'll borrow it, use it, and return it. Then simply return to my apartment. Then 5 minutes later I'll knock on her door again and say I realized I was being rude by not offering her a glass and invite her over. That way it won't seem like a contrived plan.

I'm a sixteen year old girl and am terrible at getting guys to like me. I know what you're going to say "you're too young to want guys to like you it's better to be single." but I'm the kind of person who can't stand this constant loneliness; I see couples around and feel sad and think about how much happier I'd be if I'd have someone to go through life with me. I'm not an ugly girl, I'm a 5'0 ft, dirty blonde, and have green eyes. I'm also really smart, most of the time I do other people's work for them. I've got a pretty good taste in music, for example: buddy holly, the animals, the beatles, eric clapton, the beach boys, etc. I'm quick witted, sarcastic and a bit pessimistic but funny. I play guitar, ukulele, and piano..I can sing a bit. Honestly the best way to give you a since of what I'm like is that I have basic qualities of a manic pixie dream girl mixed with zooey deschanel...but im also really good at editing, filming, and acting...but I don't know if guys are attracted to me. The relationships (more like relationFAILS) I've had have all been pretty bad and left me hurt. Every time I date a guy he ignores me and talks to other girls. I just don't know why the guys I date (or just in general) don't like me. I also want to know how to get them to like me. I'm very unhappy being single as most people are. It's just hard for me to find a decent guy to like me.

My daughter just turned 12 in September and is in 7th grade. I just found on her iPod that she has been talking to an older boy in the 9th grade, who will be 15 in December. I have already taken her iPod and she is grounded for the time being. My husband is trying to get in touch with the boy's father to get their support in ending this "relationship". I am so disturbed by the whole thing. Their messages were mostly 'innocent', but far too many "I love u"s and intensity for a 1 month relationship, and too much intensity for her age !!! Not to mention the couple of sexual innuendo comments I found, and not just on his side :( I am so lost on what to do. I am trying to talk openly with her about it and realize I can not keep her locked up in the dungeon until the age of 50 (unfortunately) ;) Any advice would be appreciated. I should mention, she has never been a problem child, always respectful to adults, yada yada yada.... This is driving me crazy, I have no experience in this type of fright. This is my baby girl - Help !! TIA

I'm 15 and I noticed that my butt is like a big "bubble" butt I guess you could say but my boobs are so small like shouldn't they be even I'm just confused is this normal??

3 weeks ago my girlfriend cheated on me and broke things off.Should have seen it coming, when I first met her she had a bf and we went on dates, I see it as karma and never wanna do that again. Even when we were in relationship there was this girl in one of my classes, Karen. She may be the most beautiful girl I have ever seen, and we had great chemistry, but I stayed distant to her because I had a gf of 2 years and I even told her about it so I could be honest and loyal. Now here I am, single again. Karen has a boyfriend, a super long distance bf who lives in a far away country. But I can really sense the tension and attraction between the two of us. In group activities where everyone talks, our eyes always meet for no reason until one of us looks away. We text everyday now about random stuff, she even told me once she was "going through something with her bf" but we dint discuss it much further. Sometimes she is flirtatious with me and it bothers me because she has a bf, but I also genuinely like her. We spoke for like 20 minutes after class the other day and she is really cool, we are both passionate about the same career. And she has even invited me on a road trip with JUST her to work on a project together. I don't know what to do, I don't want to start my next relationship the same way it started with my ex. I also don't want to get friend zoned because I was planning on asking Karen out once she became single. So how should I interact with this girl? any advice?

We were on the bus together. I was sitting next to him. I was sliding my long girly natural fingernails against his hand. He liked it. His eyes were rolling in the back of his head. He was even moaning? What the? Then he end up placing my hand on my knee and was rubbing it. Is that a love sign?

So, in school today some girl wanted to go out with me so I was talking to her, but it was extremely awkward. I couldnt think of anything to say but neither could she. So half of the time it was silence. What are some tips to make small talk? Thanks!

I'm 16 years old and am sexually attracted to a guy at school (I'm bisexual). I can sense that he has some sort of feelings towards me (he says he's straight). I don't want an actual relationship with a guy, I only want a purely physical relationship with him. How do I ask him if I can give him a *******, or if he will give me one? The last sentence is supposed to say b l o w j o b

I'm in 8th grade, I was sitting on a chair with half of my *** hanging of it so my butt went numb because of it and this guy who sits behind me in class was grabbing my *** for like 20 minutes while we were reading I had no idea cause my *** was numb. The numbness started going away then I felt him grabbing my *** so when the bell rang I told him to **** off and I have to go to school tomorrow with him still sitting behind me and I don't know what to do someone please help

i think i just got dumped. i dunno. it s hard to communicate with my bf (well maybe ex-bf now) cuz we don t go to the same school. he seems disinterested now. it sucks. i mean it doesn t hurt as much as it could have but i m just like wow... i don t even get closure?? he s been making excuses for our dates. some of these excuses are valid i guess. but i can tell hes also pretty disinterested now. he promised to call (because he cancelled our date again and i suggested facetime). well guess what he never facetimed me (he said he d text me before doing so) and it s been 4 days since then. i feel like crap. i don t think i ve been clingy but knowing me, i probably was. which was why i told him that if they at any point wanted to dump me then they had to do it immediately. ugh i just wish i d get some closure honestly. i pride myself too much to make the first move. plus a part of me wonders well what if he was too busy to facetime?? maybe it was an emergency? because well, he has to be still into me, right?? (but thats just denial) at this point, it seems as if he s confused on how to dump me and i think he s just kinda naive and doesnt want to hurt my feelings. anyway now my head hurts and i can t concentrate on jackshit. i know i ll feel better at some point but for now i just feel really confused and hurt. i dunno. i m trying to just let it go i guess but a part of me wants to confront him but that seems a bit immature.

So my GF is a little mad cause we were out and we met up with these two friends of hers and they were both wearing crop tops. She thought I stared at their bellies too much but I don't see how I could help it. I'm a guy.

In middle school Samuel was a totally different person and didn't ever really talk to me but now here we are graduated and I sent him a friend request because I remembered him and he accept it. I uploaded a nice selfie to Facebook with a cute little Snapchat filter and he reacted to it with a like and from there him and I just started talking and he told me what he's gone through and I told him some stuff as well and mentioned to him I'm getting an apartment so he asked if I was getting it anytime soon so he could stay with me. He doesn't read my messages he normally replies right away and he started calling me hun today and stayed and talked to me because I was going to depression. He always wants to talk every day now and I find that good. He mentioned he was locked up and he was in an accident and it messed up his face so he's been getting surgery and seeing the doctors and he's changed personality wise and admitted I'm pretty much the only one he talks to. I feel like he's starting to like me a bit in a way and I feel like I should let things fall in place. He tells me goodnight as well everyday c:

we just started dating. i dont talk much and im shy and awkward. im a 14 y/o girl in 8th grade. in gym class, the first ten minutes is jogging and walking and stretching. he walked with me almost the whole time, yet we didnt say much. i was nervous and i don't know what to talk about.... GIVE ME SOME IDEAS OF WHAT TO TALK ABOUT PLEASE

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Im a 27 single male on a deployment. Im considered by many to be a quiet soft spoken nice guy and a bit of a pushover,people take me for granted and dont respect me.I have no confidence in anything i do or say, i have no talents or do anything do anything special,Im a below average joe.Women often find me unattractive and undateable f i even ask a mildly attractive girl out, she says yes to me just as just a friendly date,but will tell her friends that she doesnt want to date me and just said yes to be polite and because im nice and shy. PS: i grew up shy and antisocial and its affecting my life badly,I cant fully express at all i even cant tell a simple joke

So I have two girls that I m currently dating, and they both sort of happened simultaneously. I find them both to be equally amusing, so I m not choosing between them. I m worried that as our relationships progress, it will be harder to maintain their ignorance. Any suggestions?

My guy friend who likes me added me on snapchat so he could video chat with me. Why does he want to video chat? Thanks.

My boyfriend recently broke up with me, we were together for about two months, and ever since I've finally started being myself again. And then he tells me that he dosnt love me anymore. And I'm actually pretty young but we had the most mature relationship that a middle schoolers would get. It was so nice to finally know that some loved me, that I loved back. He was my only motivation to get up in the morning. I used to get mad and cut myself for being so different. But I finally had someone to tell everything, I would tell him how I felt all the time. And now I'm finally recovering, the last thing I need is for the person that I loved most to just leave me. And of corse my friends tell me he dosnt deserve me and what not. But really I didn't deserve him, for the past week I was such a jerk to him.. i would put him down for playing music, and I've guess I've put on weight? I don't know.. I just want to be able to talk to him again. I don't even want to be his girlfriend.. but I just want to love him like I did when we didn't know we loved each other. He's my everything and know he pretends that I am nothing. But I guess he fell in love with the girl I was trying to be.

On campus. She started staring and smiling while she was walking by me

I'm busy with expanding my small business and super busy. I'm easy on eyes I been approach by several women in my lifetime but most of them are super attractive and for some reason I don't like it also I'm not into all the fake scary looking white teeth, lot's of makeup etc. . I like cute and chubby type of women with as much as natural looks. That for now wants healthy sexual relationship. So any sites, or any ideas where to find these type of women. Thanks

We've been talking about having a baby for a while now and now I'm starting to think that I'm not ready. She's going to college right now and I have a job and we're ready financially but I feel like I'm still not ready. I told her I was ready last night but now I'm having second thiughs. I don't want to hurt her by telling her I don't want a baby now. I know she really wants a baby and I don't know what to do

I've had a thing for her since middle school, and I always had the hots for her. Any advice?

I'm 16 and I'm a really shy guy and this is personal for me so I don't wanna ask anyone close to me but is masturbating bad like I feel like it makes me a dirty person and is there such thing as doing it too much?

We met at a fair at the town that my new friend who just moved to my school was from. We hung out because my friend knew him from her old school along with some other friends. We started out just kind of mutual but later on we started to get closer. He won me a prize at one of the games and was always eager to go on a ride with me. We had long conversations on the ferris wheel and shared many jokes and laughs and I had lots of fun with him. Rumors then began to go around among some of his friends that he thought I was cute, and he admitted it. We began to hang out more, and when it was time to go, we gave each other a nice long hug. He told me he had lots of fun with me, and I said I did too. His other friends who seemed to really like me as well (one had a crush on me too because he kept calling me adorable and saying that he and his friend liked me, and the other just liked me as a friend, or he just wouldn't admit it) said we were so goals. I just found out that she had a crush on him for three years when we got back to her house. She seemed kind of upset that we exchanged numbers, snapchat, instagram, and facebook all in one night when we had only known each other for five hours total at the most. She texted him and told him not to bother and that he didn't even know me. He replied with he'd like to get to know me better. She wrote that he'd never see me again, and there was a 99.999999999 chance he would never see me again. He said he was willing to try because I was amazing and worth it. The next morning (me and her had a sleepover), he kept texting her asking if I was awake yet because he didn't want to text me and bother me or wake me up if I wasn't. She didn't seem to really mind at this point (after all, she had a boyfriend). So me and him talked a lot and we've been organizing to meet each other at a park that's right between our towns (he lives on the edge of his town near mine) and since he goes biking alot I like him because he's the first boy I've met that actually seems similar to myself. I know I've just met him and all, but I feel that we could bond and get to know each other better. And if he doesn't turn out to be who I thought he was, then that would be the end of it. It's all just really confusing and really rushed so I'm not sure whether or not I should follow up with it or not. There's another guy - my best friend's brother, in fact (different best friend)- that I still really like, and I know he likes me too. We dated briefly but broke up; it was mutual. But we've gone through so much and we always felt like we belonged together if that makes sense. But he is my best friend's brother, and I know she wasn't too fond of the relationship though she let it slide by and after all it was very short, but I feel like it's like breaking the bestie code there. And I feel like someday I'd end up having to choose between my best friend and her brother, so sometimes I'd prefer to just push him out of my life so it never comes to that, but I can't keep denying how I feel about him. It's so much easier to go for the kid I just met; he's new and none of my friends besides the new girl to my school would know him. But I'm so familiar with my best friend's brother; I know him and his parents and I trust him. I feel like we're closer than most couples would be I don't think I should just disregard him because there's this feeling I have and I've always had it that he's somehow going to come back to me and we're going to date when we're older and it will be more than what we've ever done now. And we'd be meant to be together. Maybe my mind's just playing me. But I don't want anything to happen between me and my friends because of my choice. I was told I should just go out with both; they don't know each other, it wouldn't matter. But that's not right.

I'm a cool guy and all but just not really fun to be around. I don't know what to talk about its not that im shy I actually dont know and I cant crack jokes or anything. Help anyone?

To be honest this is really dumb but whatever... There are 3 girls in my school that I like, but I don't know who I should get to know more and attempt to ask out. I am somewhat short (Like 5' 8 or 9"), into gaming a little, somewhat popular, and I love music 1. The first girl is named Katie. She went to my middle school and we are always joking around with our names. (She will say "Joseph" which I hate lol, and I will call her Kateelin. Then she will come back with Josephine) She is in my spanish class, she is around my height, somewhat in the middle to moderately high on the popularity 2. The next one is a girl named Isabella. We are in the same math class and she is at my table. She is around my height. We both have the same problem in class where our teacher can't hear our answers for when she asks a question. (We say the right answer, she doesn't hear us... when someone else says it, she hears them. Isabella and I always make the same remarks every time) She laughs at almost every joke that I make. I'm planning on seeing if I can get her number. In the middle in terms of popularity 3. The last one is a girl named Alexis. She is in my math and biology class. She went to my middle school and we talked a little bit there. She is into 5 Seconds of Summer, (which I am kinda starting to get into) she is around my height, and she is somewhat into gaming. In the middle in terms of popularity

Hello, so I have been texting this girl I met online for the past 2 months. About three days ago I went on my snapchat and I saw that she unfriended me, I was confused so I text her on kik and ask her why she deleted me. She said something got put on snapchat so she's deleated everyone. I asked her what got put on there and she said that she didn't want to say. So I asked her saying its better to tell someone about it and she still resisted. I was only concerned for her and knew that what ever happened was bad because no one would delete everyone if something really bad wasn't placed on there for everyone to see. I got pissed off that she didnt want to say. Because not long ago I helped her when she told me she had been raped, I made her tell the police and that man is in jail now. Anyways I said to her that I was fed up and didn't want to speak to her anymore. The next day I dearly regreted it. That same day I texted her saying I was sorry and she hasnt replied. I sent another text the day after and she still wont reply. I dont know what to do, I care about this girl alot. Someone help?