Family: Question: My mom hates me?

Question: My mom hates me?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 02:11 PM PDT

Lately I have been being me. I wear the clothes I like and my mom hates it. She buys me clothes I say I don t like and say it s a waste. I try to be open I try to be nice. She even yells at me for getting AN A on tests. She never made it to National Honor Society or anything. I live a simple life too I do homework and play my Xbox. I don t bother anyone and I help around the house sometimes. I am honest unlike my sister. Then again she trusts my sister more and says I am stupid. I can t even be me anymore, because apparently to like a Ferrari is a sin. My dad owns one and she hates it then again she owns a Porsche truck. She is a teacher so I used to understand now I don t. Today she got mad at me for wearing the same shirt. I like to simple then again she gets me clothes I don t like. Please help thanks

Question: Criticizes?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 01:59 PM PDT

So, my dad does nothing but always talk smack about me, about what I wear, and what I should be doing with my life.. I came home from work today, and he told my mom that me wearing joggers looks ugly. I'm like, "Okay and?" That don't matter.. Just because you don't wear them doesn't mean I can't wear them. It's my clothes, my life, I can do whatever I want with it. What do you guys think?

Question: What should I do about my abusive dad?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 01:54 PM PDT

I'm 23. He is a moody person. Like he will cuss and be really mean. When I was younger he used to his me and he pushed me and told me "F*ck you" and when I was living on my old he called me a "B*tch". My dad has not come to see me this month at all. He says he will do things and never does it. Like going in the mountains. If I don't go he goes to the mountains by himself or with my mom. He told me long time ago when I was living with my parents that he wanted to put me up for a adoption. Then sometime last year he told me he loves my brother(His stepson) more than me. My dad only comes over like twice a month. Sometimes not even that. I told my dad that I wish he would spend more time with me. He says that he doesn't like to do much anymore cuz he is getting too old. He is 65 pretty soon. I know people that are way older than him and do more. When I also tell him how I feel he says crying won't do me any good. I wrote him letters and that hasn't done any good either. He also told me that this stuff cost money to do things with me. Cuz he is trying to save money for stuff for his truck. He tells me 6 miles is too far for him to drive. He even went onetime in his underwear in front of me. I'm a female too. He also exposed himself like 11 years ago to me and my friend. We were both under 18. I had to move out to cos that is what my aunt wanted which is his sister. So I could have a better happier life.

Question: Is it rude to say never mind in this context?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 01:47 PM PDT

my mom was trying to make me feel dumb ( as she always does ) and kept asking me if i knew where mcdonalds was *she said previously that she'd get me mcdonalds* and then kept asking where is it then . i kept trying to explain to her i knew how to get there but didnt know the street name so i just said nevermind now im being yelled at that im a nasty disrespectful b***ch

Question: Do you feel FAMILIES IN USA have it much better than EUROPE OR AFRICA?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 01:42 PM PDT

Question: Was what I did ok?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 01:25 PM PDT

I'm 53. Obviously, I am not a father anymore as my daughter is 18 and my son is 17. They're my bio children, but for 15 years I have not felt fatherly. Here is a quick timeline. Age 8/9- Stopped celebrating son/daughter's birthdays. I.e/ no more parties, no more celebrating at all. Age 11 and 12- Told my son and daughter they were too old for the spend the night parties with friends. Age 13/14- Told son/daughter they were now too old to skateboard and play video games, 2 things they very much enjoyed. I gave their skateboards and video game systems/games away. Age 13/14- Stopped allowing son/daughter to go the arcade, carnivals and summer camps with their friends. Even if some were free as their friends parents offered to pay. Son and daughter have had no joy/ fun things since 13 and 14. I am just trying to teach them that life is not fun and they have to stop somewhere. They're now 17 and 18. What do you think? Did I do the right thing?

Question: My mom keeps accusing me of EVERYTHING! What should I do?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 01:17 PM PDT

Ever since I turned sixteen, my mom automatically thought i was trying to be "grown". She keeps accusing me of talking back, making rude gestures, and even SPITTING in my sisters food! That's disgusting! Whenever I try to tell her I didn't do something I get in trouble, when I don't argue and just try to let her finish yelling I STILL get in trouble! When i say trouble I mean PHYSICAL trouble. I am so confused because I do everything in my power to keep her trust and be a good child, but it feels like a waste of time. Please tell me what to do. We're a black family. I hate to put race in this but I just feel like that matters. I dont want to call CPS or get taken away from her i just want her to stop the way she is how do i get her to stop accusing me of things

Question: Who is right in this scenario, my hussy of a daughter in law and the demon she raised or me?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 01:16 PM PDT

Ok so I've told part of my story before on here to those who remember. I tried to get my hussy of a daughter in law a minivan to replace her sexy sedan that is red and she uses to attract men outside of her marriage. She refused to take it and they wouldn't refund me, so I gave it to my granddaughter the demon as a present. I thought that she would appreciate my present. But no, she said a minivan? Really? However, she did reluctantly take it. Now that I injured myself and cannot get a taxi uber since they do not assist you in and out of a their vehicles, I need my granddaughter to actually do something to pay me back for my gift and overall generosity. I simply asked my granddaughter if she would be so kind as to drive me back and forth and to help me. However, I absolutely refuse to get into the car unless she has it in pristine condition when she picks me up and drives me around town. I cannot be seen in a car that has even a tiny layer of dust on top of it. That would be humiliating and so low class. She said she doesn't have time to clean it and that it is already clean anyway. That she is busy with her boyfriend and exams. How is it that she has time for a boyfriend she shouldn't have anyway at 17 because he might tempt her into fornication, but she doesn't have time for me the matriarch of her family. I told her if she doesn't come and have it in perfect condition, I will either cancel my drs appointment and it will be her fault if I miss something serious that could save my life as its my annual checkup as well as the check up to check on my healing progress on my injury. I said that or I could attempt to walk back and forth, and it will be her fault too if my injury is worse and I possibly die because of my weakened and elderly matriarchal state. My hussy of a daughter in law who raised her to be a selfish demon told me that I had no right to make such absurd demands and that they didn't owe me anything for a present that I insisted that they take. SO who is right, them or me? I personally really believe that they owe me an apology over a nice cup of tea or something. Whos with me?

Question: Girls would you have done this?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 12:45 PM PDT

I just got home from riding with my mom to go pick up my dad at work. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of the car to be more comfortable I went for the ride in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

Question: Dielemna how should I handle my Husband and family?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 12:39 PM PDT

My husband isn't comfortable around my family. My mom is in jail for child endangerment with with my kids . He doesn't want her around them but I nag him about my values on family so he gives him but threatens to leave me and take them...he said if my family comes around if he gets mad which will happen he'all the house and come back when he done being mad. Is that fair to my kids? I don't think it's fair to me or them. He has PTSD and my mom presses his buttons about it. If he leaves the house he'll be gone for a week he did it before and it crushed my kids and I don't want that for any of us. He doesn't like the idea of staying in his man cave being angry but at least the kids and I'll be happy he's still there. My family knows he doesn't like them and he's physically threatened harm on my mom after she dumped water on him. None of the is his fault but I wish he'd put me and the kids first on this instead of his own happiness . He shouldn't have to leave for my family to be around. They're afraid of him but sacrifice their fear to see me and my kids . Shouldn't he do the same?

Question: Grandparents are racist and I'm mixed, how do I deal with this?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 12:06 PM PDT

I was adopted by my grandparents when I was little and I'm mixed (biological mother is white biological father is black) as time goes on their prejudice ideas and racist remarks are getting more and more irritating. On top of this I've been told I can't date black guys but right now I like a black guy. I don't know what to do anymore because it's becoming harder and harder to hold my tongue. What should I do?

Question: My mom calls me a shaytan what should I do without disrespecting her since Im used to not respecting my mom?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 11:40 AM PDT

Question: How to deal with a violent sister?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 11:38 AM PDT

My sister is older than me i am the youngest child. She is really agressive and gets angry when people tell her the truth. She is really spoiled because when she doesn't get what she wants she gets angry. also she treatens people saying dont make me slap you or punch you. She insults people but when they joke around she gets violent and will get Intimidate you. I don't really like her but we go to the same school.... What can I do. I have had to deal with this for years it's getting worse.

Question: My brother is depressed, and blames my father for it?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 10:55 AM PDT

im his little sister im 16 he is 19, as a kid he wasn't a good kid, he fought with other students, was sent to the principal every day, wouldn't do his homework. he once fought with the teacher pulled a hand full of hair from her head and threw a chair on her in seventh grade. the school wrote a warning letter to his high school before he started (the school system in norway is different) they told the teachers to be cautious so they wouldn't get hurt. but when he startet in 8th grade (high school in norway) he suddenly became quiet and started isolating himself from others. my father didnt know he isolated himself but knew he wasn't fighting with others or getting in trouble anymore so he was really happy and told my brother he was proud of him. my brother claims that, that was the first time my dad said that. so my brother continued being quiet and isolating himself. he eventually got no friends and fell into depression the only thing that made him happy was his video games. he is very very depressed. has no friends at all spends all day in his room. he says he hates all of us. he says my father hit him as a child and was abusive towards him, he blames all of his problems on my dad. my dad has done nothing but been good to him, i have soo many memories from my childhood where my father has been good to my brother. we have tried getting him help, we have gotten many therapists for him, but none of them have helped. what do i do?

Question: Are my brothers being too protective?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 10:44 AM PDT

I am a high school girl and just starting to date. My older brothers pleaded with me to not have sex until I am 18 and I can then decide for myself. They are getting me a cell phone and they want me to call them ANYTIME some guy puts pressure on me to have sex. They will come and get me no matter what the hour no questions asked. They also want me to call them if I am someplace where alcohol is being given to teenagers and they will come get me. They also gave me a condom and showed me how it is used just in case I did not listen to them. Are they being too protective of their little sister. I am afraid they will ruin my social life.

Question: Over-protective parents?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 10:42 AM PDT

I'm 13 years old, my parents are divorced and both are really strict. I only live with my mom. One time, I took a walk around my neighborhood and I wasn't even gone for 30 minutes. I did not go out of my neighborhood. Next thing you know, my mom is being really freaked out and she drove around in her car speeding in my neighborhood! So she told me to get in the car and told me she thought I got kidnapped. Now my dad is kind of the same thing. My dad won't let me hang out with boys that are friends and one time, my dad even visited my school which about 30 minutes away from his house; just to check on me. I don't want to be hovered over everything I do. Help? Thank you in advanced.

Question: My daughter is 16 and the orthodontist complains about her hygiene. Advice?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 10:27 AM PDT

They wrote on the paper that she has poor oral hygiene, always had food between her brackets, and that she doesn't seem to care. I have tried taking electronics away but she just doesn't care and I don't want my kids to have bad hygiene. She even got made fun of by some girls on Instagram for it once and it emabrrasses me as a mother to know that my child is lazy, disgusting, and doesn't care. How can I force my 16 year old daughter to take better care of herself? She still has 2 years left in treatment and she recently got her first job at a fast food place. Am I wrong for being embarrassed?

Question: As a 30+ man, is it immature to show funny celebrities/athlete as your main facebook profile pic?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 10:06 AM PDT

Question: What family member besides your brothers,sisters,mom and dad do you hate ?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 09:31 AM PDT

Question: I think my cousin wants me to F*** her. For me that’s super awkward. How do I tell her no without being awkward?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 09:21 AM PDT

Keep in mind that I'm adopted. So my cousin keeps giving me these long @ss hugs and grabbing by @ss every time she does this. She lives two houses down the street and goes to the same school as me. She also kept giving me something that resembled a lap dance while we were canoeing during the family reunion it was really awkward. Since she's family I tried not to get turned on but it's so hard not to get a *****, because she is quite pretty and has a nice body. I keep hoping that my aunt and uncle will catch her, but she always gets away with it. She pretends that she needs help with math and comes over to my house all the time for math help even though she's a strait A student. My mom thinks it's a wonderful idea to help her out with math, so she's obviously oblivious to what's really going on here. My cousin also sits on my lap while we work on math because she says she can't see the paper that well from the side. I thinks she thinks this is ok because I'm adopted but I'm not interested in F***ing my cousin. What do I do, PLEASE HELP I AM SO DESPERATE TO GET HER TO STOP? She's 16 and I'm 17

Question: In laws insisting on having a family day out, won t take no?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 09:21 AM PDT

My father in law is a finance executive and makes tons of money. In the past, he has told us he was taking us out to eat and then the bill comes and he refuses to pay it and we blow our budget for the week because of him not paying as he said (after he invited and said he was paying). The in laws want to take our kids to a fall festival/pumpkin patch and this week is not good, as we have several bills due this week. My mother in law won t take no for an answer and says "we will pay for it, don t worry". I have heard this before, and they never do pay but always say they will and invite us. How can we get them to understand that we can t afford this? Trusting them to pay as they say they will is not an option. etiquette-wise, how can I politely tell them no, we cant go with them insisting?

Question: I'm angry with my husband after death of my dad?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 08:33 AM PDT

My dad passed away 5 days ago, I'm dealing with his death very well he was so ill in so much pain I miss him and struggle to believe his gone I loved my dad greatly. My issue that I'm so angry about is we knew his death was approaching so the whole family gathered to spend his last few days. My husband came with me and after 2 days said I want to go home due to the kids my kids were fine one of my aunts from other side of family was with them he made his desire to leave so obvious I had to drive him home, I dropped him home and went back to my dad 7 hour round trip my dad passed 2 hours later, my husband has lost his sister and mother in the past 15 years and I never left his side, I feel as though he deserted me when I needed him the most I'm so angry with him he hasn't been great with me at all I needed someone to speak to and he said I'm too tired and when listening to a few songs for dad's funeral he found something else to occupy his mind. I'm about ready to pack a bag as I feel Devastated about my dad and he may as well be on a different planet

Question: My sister thinks she's better than me.?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 08:16 AM PDT

I'm 21 years old and currently live with my Mom and sister. I've lived with them my whole life, and my whole life I've found my sister to be extremely egotistical. It seems like she enjoys making me feel bad about myself. I'm currently struggling with major depression, as well as an eating disorder caused by body dysmorphia, and feel like I have the absolute lowest self esteem possible. What bothers me is how insensitive she can be, at times. For example, she'll look at herself in the mirror and make comments about how "skinny" she is. Or how she's the skinniest one in the family, being very well aware of my issues. She'll also make fun of the way I eat, as well as, several other aspects of my personality. I feel I became self conscious about my weight when she would make remarks about how big my butt was, or how she didn't want me borrowing her clothes because she didn't want me to "stretch" them out. She always talked about how pretty she was, or how much everyone liked her. She always rubbed it in my face when someone complimented her and not me, or if someone was flirting with her, she wouldn't stop talking about it. She's even gone as far as to say that my grandma, dad, aunt, and mom loved her more than me. She constantly tells me how weird or crazy I am, and also talks about how she's so smart and talented. I feel my self esteem worsening by the day. I feel as though my intrusive thoughts control my mind completely and can't seem to find an escape. Thank you, everyone, for your answers!

Question: Weird question about a car for my teenage son. He wants a boat I cannot understand why?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 08:07 AM PDT

He is doing exceptionally well in school, and I promised I would buy him his first car. I told him within a price range he would pick the car he liked, I figured he would want a sporty car like his friends and I would have to talk him out of it, but he the cars he looking at are Toyota Sequoia Chevy Suburban, Ford expedition. My husband an I couldn't believe it. My husband proudness it too much. He keeps going on about how pleasantly surprised he is. My question is anyone else have a teen wanting such a large vehicle? It's crazy but I'd rather him have that than a sports car he can get crunched in. We will be buying it brand new so it will last but why something so big? Both me and my husband have cars never anything that large.

Question: Should fathers respect their wives and kids as wives and kids respect the father?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 08:06 AM PDT

Question: How should I tell my mom that I'm engaged?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 07:56 AM PDT

I'm 21 and my SO and I have talked about marriage for a while now. Recently my mother's cancer came back, and its looks like it's terminal. My SO proposed to me a few days ago, and I accepted. I'm very excited to be married to him, and while my mom's illness has played a part in expediting the process, it's not the only reason why I've decided to marry him. I feel that when I tell her she going to think it is too soon, or that I'm doing it because of her potentially limited time with us. How should I tell her? I don't want to do anything "cutsie" or just wear the ring and wait till she notices. I want to be upfront, but I have no idea how to initiate the conversation. Ideas? Advice? Thanks in advance.

Question: Something's really wrong with my step mom?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 07:49 AM PDT

It was raining super hard last night and my window started leaking again (which it always used to do) I turned on my light and went out to my living room to let my step mom know. When I walked out and said something, she continued flipping through the channels and eating her cracker like I never said anything. I said it again, but she still did nothing. At one point I was screaming her name, and she got up and walked away, completely ignoring me. This is something she would never do and I'm so confused. Is something wrong?

Question: How do I keep my parents from finding out I'm going to LA?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 07:45 AM PDT

I'm planning to go to LA after I visit my family in Atlanta. I don't want my parents knowing that I'm going to LA. Yes I know I need to move out of my parents house and I'm working on it. However me being the only child my parents aren't going to want me to live alone. Even though I am almost 30 (I'll be 30 in April). They have protective over me. I do work and I am going to college I'm taking a trade for Dental Assisting which is for a year. After I plan to get my own place but that will just be another issue. My dad and I were arguing this morning and he told me that I better let him know about all my plans. Or I'm not going anywhere. Is there anyway I can keep them from finding out I'm going to LA? When it's time for me to leave Atlanta where should I tell my family I'm going?

Question: My brother embaressed me?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 07:13 AM PDT

My dad gave me a 5 dollar bill and told me to share half of it with my brother. When I arrived in the cafeteria, I told him and he said he can give me 2.50 in nickles. I told him I didn't want his nickles and he then got angry and told me to give him the 5 dollar bill. He started screaming at me in front of the whole class and I told him I can spend my 2.50 in the cafeteria for my breakfast and then give him the change. He said no and that he was gonna tell my dad and started texting him. I then just left and then he called out to me "Hey, jerk!" and everyone was watching. It really embaressed me. How do I solve this problem

Question: My mom is an alcoholic?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 06:55 AM PDT

Every single day, every f*****g hour she drinks, I'm really angry and no matter if I talk to her to stop she starts all over again, same as " mom don't quit alcohol, it's good for you". She is so stupid and just screaming at me and dad, that she is fine and we can't stop her to quit that s**t. Also she hiding alcohol bottles all over my room and also she carry a bottle with her when we are not at home. I don't know if I'm going to get some useful answers that could help me but ill hope so. Thanks for taking your time... I'm 20 by the way...

Question: Can multiply foster parents live in the same house?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 06:53 AM PDT

Can multiple foster parents live in the same house in New Hampshire?

Question: Am I being abused?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 06:51 AM PDT

So my dad always screams and yells at us kids. He sometimes smacks us and pushes us. At one point he became angry at me and threw me against a wall. Another time my brother said he wasn't hungry, so my dad freaked out on him, smacked him multiple times, and called him names like bastard and asshole. He also calls all of us names like retard, moron, stupid, assholes, and he once called me a dork and no wonder nobody likes me at school. He loves us, don't get me wrong (nice house, good cloths, etc) but it's things like this that make me question. Is my dad abusing me and my siblings?

Question: Grandparents in town but I wanna go home?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 06:04 AM PDT

So guys my grandparents are in town I picked them up from the airport today but I wanna go home but their only here until Monday and I live 2 hours away

Question: Child Support Question?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 06:04 AM PDT

My bd is not on CS, and doesn t actually give me any cash for our daughter. He s very much in her life, and provides all her essentials such as clothing, shoes, pull ups, wipes, and more. In order to move to hud apartments i have to fill out a form to basically put him on it. We really would like to avoid him getting on it, and continue our agreement we have in place. I honestly don t need any cash from him because he helps out so much. I feel as if any cash I receive from him would be more for my benefit verses my daughters. He makes sure she s well cared for without having to give me a dime. Is there any way we could avoid him paying if they know this information? I ve seen somewhere that materials doesn t count for CS, which is view diffently through my eyes. If he gave me cash I would just buy the same things he buys now.

Question: What do I do if my CRUSH talked to me in HIGH SCHOOL?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 05:43 AM PDT

So I used to have this crush I loved him for almost a year and now this year a new grade begins and he is with me, last year I knew he doesn t have the same feelings for me as much as I have to him but before I knew we were friend,however he had a girlfriend that I knew pretty well I was disappointed but I let it go but after some time I broke the friendship with him so this year if he talked to me what will I do? Do I ignore him or just talk to him?

Question: Do you think it's ok for my mother to say this to me (a 13 year old girl)?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 05:18 AM PDT

She has said all of these things on-and-off for as long as I can remember. I am depressed and have social anxiety, I'm always scared that people will judge me and criticize me, and I believe that is her fault. Here's the list, and there is probably more, I just can't keep track of it all.. -***** -Worthless -Monster -Teenage Whiny Brat -Bratty Idiot -Stupid -Dumb F*ck -Piece of Sh!t - Entitled piece of sh!t yep. That's all I can remember. Now here's the list of things she has said to me: -You deserve nothing. -I always wanted a boy (i have a twin sister and an 8 year old brother who punches, kicks, claws me and gets away with it) - What have you done for the world? Nothing. -Your father is on my side, you can't go whining to him (I really don't know if he is or isnt- when I email him, he seems to be on my side, but I don't know...) - I wish you were never born. -I'm gonna beat the sh!t out of you - Go ahead, go tell the police. They're going to laugh at you (I didn't even say anything to make her say this). Of course, after all of this, she acts like nothing happened and is all nice and stuff, but of course, in the next few days, it happens again.

Question: Was I a good father?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 05:17 AM PDT

I'm 53. Obviously, I am not a father anymore as my daughter is 18 and my son is 17. They're my bio children, but for 15 years I have not felt fatherly. Here is a quick timeline. Age 8/9- Stopped celebrating son/daughter's birthdays. I.e/ no more parties, no more celebrating at all. Age 11 and 12- Told my son and daughter they were too old for the spend the night parties with friends. Age 13/14- Told son/daughter they were now too old to skateboard and play video games, 2 things they very much enjoyed. I gave their skateboards and video game systems/games away. Age 13/14- Stopped allowing son/daughter to go the arcade, carnivals and summer camps with their friends. Even if some were free as their friends parents offered to pay. Son and daughter have had no joy/ fun things since 13 and 14. I am just trying to teach them that life is not fun and they have to stop somewhere. They're now 17 and 18. What do you think? Did I do the right thing?

Question: Is it rude to call my two cousins and tell them I am sorry their mother died yesterday morning? Should I email instead or wait till funeral?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 04:41 AM PDT

It is my mother's cousins actually so I'll see them next Wednesday at the funeral.

Question: My Dad and step-mother are getting divorced and my mother is laughing and loves the gossip, how do I distance from this?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 04:40 AM PDT

I cant stand listening to my mother say "guess what, guess who is getting divorced" like it is someone having a baby. She is so excited to see her ex hurt and she calls it great karma to all her friends. Even if she stops talking about it around me for a few days (she only manages to stop for a few days before she starts again like an addict who cant stop), she still talks behind my back. So I am mad at my Mom, not my Dad or step-mother. How can I distance from this? The divorce is my step-mother walking out on my Dad. My parents divorce when I was a toddler was amicable though my mother hates my Dad with passion and talks about it to me even though she is told not to. I am 16

Question: Is my dad abusive?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 03:53 AM PDT

So my dad always screams and yells at us kids. He sometimes smacks us and pushes us. At one point he became angry at me and threw me against a wall. Another time my brother said he wasn't hungry, so my dad freaked out on him, smacked him multiple times, and called him names like bastard and asshole. He also calls all of us names like retard, moron, stupid, assholes, and he once called me a dork and no wonder nobody likes me at school. He loves us, don't get me wrong (nice house, good cloths, etc) but it's things like this that make me question. Is my dad abusing me and my siblings?

Question: Is your husband's half brother your half brother in law?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 03:48 AM PDT

And would his wife be your half sister in law?:S

Question: Do you find this a bit odd?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 03:16 AM PDT

So I'm renting a room from my coworker so since I've been at her house almost 2 months she hasn't given me the code to disarm her alarm so sometimes when I get to the house she's not home and I have to sit and wait for her like 35 min. So last night she said she's going to be late cause her car was conking out and her brother Was going to take her home. When he got there with his wife and son I had my door open them there window open and I said hello no one said anything in fact the sister in law just laughed my room are didn't even introduce she was just sitting in car I didn't know what was going on. Then the brother got out the car and opened the door and they were speaking in Spanish and then kissed his sister my room are on cheeck I just went to my room. I'm still confused.

Question: Will you do something you dislike just to please your parents?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 03:15 AM PDT

Question: If you were At a friends house would you put your boobs up or keep your boobs out exposed?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 02:27 AM PDT

Question: HELP I overheard my mom saying that she had sex with the neighbor??!!!??!?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 02:22 AM PDT

I was half-asleep on the couch at the time 'cause it was like 7 in the morning and I had stayed up till 4 AM in the living room watching TV so I'm not entirely sure if it really happened or if it was something on TV, but either way it's gross. Should I tell my dad? How do I make sure?!

Question: My brother was taken away from my mother and I was told that his name was changed.how can I find him..he should be about 26 27?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 02:03 AM PDT

Question: How can i stop feeling other peoples emotions?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 01:53 AM PDT

im 19 and i know what i want, i want my safe zone aka house all for me but my mom is dragging me down, shes saddest thing ive ever seen, we are poor and she barely stand to afort a house (not me tho) but i stil live with her for some reason, this emotion that i feel when im in her shoes kills me, the depression of thinking that shes spent 45 years (shes 48) on working without ever leaving the coutry, having to go to the beach (by herself) and she always dependable, she needs a man that takes care of her. I know what want but these ******* emotions man, it kills me in being on her position and i cant stand it, you know what i mean? How the hell can i stop thinking about this and leave her ***- ps:not that she was a bad person, she always good for me, but i know that life is all about emotions and i want to stop feeling this one with no regret

Question: My dad offended me now it s haunting me?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 01:11 AM PDT

well i am use to the cold. and you know my fathers dad died from always being in the cold and he never really talked about his father much to me, i don t even know who he is or how he looks like, but my parents were just talking to me and my mom was like, "you need to start dressing up more in warm clothes because you can get a sickness" blah blah blah, just a typical worrying mother and my dad said, "by the time of 20 you ll catch a sickness." like cancer or some disease. and i m honestly so offended. my mother did get mad at him, but they don t know i suffer through depression and topics like those haunt me. and i don t know if i m over reacting but what if he jixed it, and really i do die at age 20? what if i do get a sickness. I overthink stuff a lot but i need help.

Question: My mother is the reason for my suffering...Please advise me where from here.?

Posted: 14 Oct 2016 12:04 AM PDT

My mother is a single parent who willingly had an affair and willingly got pregnant from an uneducated married man who did not go to school, had a very low job(selling flowers outside) She knew that having a child would put her in a difficult position. He ran away after giving birth and I grew up in a ghetto..again she didnt consider that I would grow up in that place. Igot bullied and sexually harassed very very badly, since 5, to a point where I still havent healed. My mother never protected me or made an attempt to move. She has over 100 000 debt with absolute no life cover. Will I inherit this debt? I stay in South Africa, very poor neigbourhood whre your rent just pile up if u cant pay, bcoz the place is that bad. I want to move and she said we cant, but when i say i will move, she say i wanna leave her there alone and throw her away, then i feel guilty(obvi will be kinder poor when i move) she has no policies or medical aid. i had to take a taxi and train, had an operation then had to travel back all the way i pain. as a child i also had to travel, as sick as i was and ended up throwing up cos we walked and took taxi to hospitals.She say medical aid is for rich people and always make me feel guilty that she is a single parent and get no help.she watched me suffer a great deal with abuse from people, cos we stay alone in the ghetto and fam never come. men touched me, made fun of me,bullied me,etcI feel like i hate her, because she refuses to take out life cover. I wasnt sexually harassed at 5, only when i was 13. By standers would pull me etc and touch me and it went on for years... Our neighbours also stole from us while my gran was living there..gran had alzeimers and it was her flat at first, but my mom's main priority was to get the ghetto flat on her name...because she thinks its her property..and said God blessed her with a house OMW

Question: My dad died when I was younger and it's making Me sad and depressed now?

Posted: 13 Oct 2016 11:56 PM PDT

Question: My parents are forcing me to go on a school trip!?

Posted: 13 Oct 2016 11:56 PM PDT

They're asian what do you expect. My mom is literally shouting and blackmailing me to go and calling me stupid and useless and dissapointment not going. I don't wanna go. I don't like France I'm just afraid to say it to her. My dad's more assertive but hasn't tales to me yet. My mom is filling in the form. What should I do! Should I hand it in late

Question: What does it mean to be "deeply moved" by something?

Posted: 13 Oct 2016 11:28 PM PDT

My friend said my words deeply moved her?

Question: Whats worse? knowing your father for only 10 years or not knowing him at all?

Posted: 13 Oct 2016 11:15 PM PDT

my father died when i was 10 of a drug overdose. but at first he didnt want a family at all he was young when my parents got married; and they split two months after i was born. i only got to see him once a year, but each time i saw him it got better and better and as i got older he wanted to see me more, but passed away. and i always wonder to myself would it have been better if i just didnt know him at all?

Question: What to do about a mother who deliberately tortures her kids mentally and emotionally?

Posted: 13 Oct 2016 10:55 PM PDT

She takes her anger out on her kids, saying that they "resemble their father" and that they piss her off. She always says that kids don't deserve love and that having a family is only a duty. Then why doesn't she leave them, why stick around if she's just going to sit on her little sofa and complain about her kids and watch celebrities? She also verbally abuses them and pushes all her responsibilities onto them. If they don't, she doesn't even let them go outside, not even take them to appointments if ahe happens to get pissed off that same day. What a horrible mother.

Question: Depressed, feeling like i should give up?

Posted: 13 Oct 2016 10:51 PM PDT

my entire family thinks im a loser because of my crazy mother who always talks bad about me to anyone.. I dont get how a 17 year old who is already done with high school a loser? Ok no i dont have a job but when i ask for 10 or 20 bucks here and there she always has something to say to bring me down.. ''Oh, your always broke your a loser go get a life''. I do nothing wrong ... i dont get it! The list goes on.. but sometimes i just feel like im nothing.. she doesnt even treat me the same anymore. Ever since i got caught smoking weed shes never looked at me the same. What a grudge.. like i said, the list goes on and on.. put it this way, if a person has a gun in my face and threatens to kill me.. ill just say ''pull the trigger''.

Question: Isn't it so damn annoying that my stepsister sings all night ?

Posted: 13 Oct 2016 10:40 PM PDT

I need my sleep because I have to get up early. This ***** keeps singing. She really thinks she's so great at it well she's actually not. It's so annoying. I wish she'd get a dorm. She's already in freaking college.

Question: When should you call the police? In domestic situations (fight between parents)?

Posted: 13 Oct 2016 10:11 PM PDT

My parents got into a huge argument involving my little sister and my dad was extremely angry; he was trying to get at my sister and my mom was physically protecting her so my dad tossed my mom around a little. I was really scared. It calmed down after a while but I'm unsure if next time I should call the police. I am 14. I do have an older brother that is 16. What should we do in this situation? It happens fairly often, as well as other extreme acts of rage by my dad.

Question: Double standard?? Between Mother and Daughter.?

Posted: 13 Oct 2016 10:08 PM PDT

One time I bought a box of delicious Oreos for everyone to take.. they only left me two. But a few days later she would get mad at me for not asking to use her perfume that morning. And the reason she said she got mad was how double standard I am being, when other times she said anything she buys is for everybody. Which that the spray is still full (barely used). I've got mad because it seems like she's being double standard like a similar situation as the Oreos.. What are your thought on the matter??

Question: How do i convince my parents to give me my own room?

Posted: 13 Oct 2016 09:49 PM PDT

I'm a 14 year old boy who is born in a family with four kids, I was second. I still share a room with my three sisters. There is enough room in my house. There is a storage room in fact two they are pretty much empty. I could use those for my own room. The bad things about staring a room are: No privacy,and I need privacy. The girls always messing with my stuff. I rarely get to watch the tv shows I want to beacause the girls takeover the tv. There are two more tvs in the house but my parents don't allow us to use them. I also can't concentrate beacause my younger sisters always make annoying noises and my older sister doesn't care. How do I get my own room?