We were married in July of 1997 at the courthouse. We became a Christian couple many years ago. We've been thinking about having a low key marriage blessing. We will only invite our immediate family. We will take everyone out to eat afterward. Do you think it would be tacky?

So my fiancé and I are going to have a small wedding, court house style, with few friends in Cali. Since we decided to go that route, instead of leaving our families out we thought about having a reception type deal/family vacation. What would be a good city to do that in? My initial ideal was going to the Cabins in Tenn. Most of our families live in the south so we wanted to keep it in that area. Is this even a good ideal?

I'm so sick of hearing it whenever I go to a wedding.