My girlfriend calls me today. She was walking to apply for a job, when an "older man in a nice truck" pulls over to talk to her. "Your f@$!&$@ beautiful girl, where are you going?" he asks. She tells me, she instinctively gets rude for his approach, yet proceeds to explain she is applying for a job. He then tells her he is currently hiring for a secretary. My girlfriend is in a work release program by the way (not to be confused with prison or jail). He goes to his facility, then returns to the work release facility with an application. My girlfriend calls me excited about this, though I can't help but to feel bitter. I don't know what to tell her. I don't want to be the jealous guy, then again I don't want to tell her to do it. I need another perspective.

Im 16 and my ex and I were best friends and he had a girlfriend of 2 years which had to move away. He didn t want to let go until a year after she moved away, they finally broke up. he told me about it and of course I had slight feelings for him but I stopped myself cause I thought he needed to have time and forget about her. I didn t say anything for about a month and turns out to be he was trying to get another girlfriend and I heard about it and I told him how I felt about it that he needs time and he s not overy his ex (it was also my feelings not wanting him to date another girl) he still went through with asking her out and stuff and she said yes but he then after less than a week he had to break up with her. They were not connecting at all and he didn t feel right. So weeks later I told him how I felt and well from there we went out for about 6 months but towards the end he seemed a bit off and looked at me with pity? I was invited over less and less. He was at a weird state and telling me he felt like somethings "missing" he said he doesnt feel the same way with me than with his exgirlfriend (the Texas oneshe was also his "first love").I Told my friends and they all hated him from there they didn t like that I was with him and that I he told me that. He told me he doesn t mean to hurt me, a week later he broke up with me over the phone telling me over and over he loved me while sobbing. Should I try and get him back? Or should I just leave it alone and get over it?

I have been chatting with this unknown girl on some app for a week.we haven't seen our faces yet.we have a decent conversation at first. our daily convo lasts like 5 hrs without a break.but last night i was opened up and asked a naughty question to her and she responded quite interestingly.she kept asking me for more questions. does she want me to chat sexually?does she really likes to Chat with me?im little bit nervous coz i never had a naughty chat before.

My boyfriend and I were at school and got a little carried away. He ended up fingering me, and felt really bad. We didn't talk to each other for the next 3 weeks. I didn't know what to do and we ended up breaking up, I miss him so much. Sometimes we meet eye contact and stuff like that, but we haven't talked since we broke up. he glances at me a lot, but I'm not sure if he still has any interest in me. help me please

Like I get these lingering thoughts of the happy times with my ex and every time it pisses me off on how she just walked away like that this girl I'm seeing I'm trying to trust and feel for her she great to but I feel so empty I was wondering from a guys perspective some one other then myself if that ever changes a little later if I keep seeing her I'm trying to fill the void I miss that feeling of love in only 22

I'm a freshman, he's a 10th grader. We don't talk in class because we sit on opposite sides of the classroom. I catch him looking at me, but sometimes we make eye contact, but we don't break it right away. I like him, but how do I know if he likes me back? I am a shyer person but am trying to be more confident

Ok so long story but im a girl and i have this guy best friend. we are like super good friends and really casual with each other. out of no where he asks me out. I kinda like him but not that much and i really dont want to run out friendship by either going out and breaking up or saying no and crushing him. HELP

We both clearly like each other but I feel something is missing or weird

I really mad at girls!!! They are sll thirsty h o e s c u n t s

I think it's one hella attractive accent

So I've been talking to this girl for a month everyday all day we talk for hours through text and then we'll talk on the phone for an hour at a time ...she likes me she's always sending selfies of herself and always talking to me like she's really into me right ? Okay but she claims she doesn't want a relationship and she literally tells me this everyday she is also telling me how she loves talking to me and that I'm always there for her idk she sends mixed signals towards me idk I like her a lot and think about her What exactly should I do to get out of this "friend zone"

I know this is a weird question but I don't know her very well so yeah.

What is wrong with my c u n t girlfriend

This is as simple as a I can make it... i was walking with my friend and met 2 people in the hallway. When one of the people was talking to my guy friend, the other person, my friend(girl), asked why we couldn t bond like those 2 even though weren t even that close. It was so random and unexpected like she really wanted to tell for a long time. She is super nice and a caring person and we re not that close so is it her personality or something other reason she wants to bond? Regardless I feel like she s cared for me so much in the last few weeks and I m a chill and quiet guy so I think that she thinks I don t care about her, which I do. So what are some subtle and nice things I can do to show her I still want to bond and be nice to her ( I don t have much time)???

She dont want sex! We date for 5month!!!!!! We barely got kis! I need to make her sex!!! Im really mqd i wanna punch her so bad.why she evem date me stupid c u n t

My neighbors are complaning lately that they hear a robbery happening but it's just me and my bf doing it because he pounds me so f'ing hard I like it though, hehe. Any tips on how to reduce sound? :( ty

John John were you a virgin? When we you know did it? :D Made love? Babel, can you please come back? I'll be good I promise, and almost half sane too, or try.... I miss you and I don't want to live like this and se'x...

I cant concentrate on work or college classes because im constantly thinking of sex. I crave my girlfriend, just being around her makes me hard. Some times i get hard from my thoughts. When im alone i watch porn and masterbate as many times as i can. I feel sorry for my girlfreind im a sick man.

We are together 5 month! Wtf? We barely got kiss! How do i make her have sex! I want serious questions and no judge! Isnt she *****?

First I allow her to live with me and not pay rent, just as long as she goes to school. She then decides to go out every night before a school night and come home around 3-5AM. Then she still talks to her ex boyfriend and he uses her just for sex. He even made it clear to her that he doesn't want to be with her, but he continues talking to her and then she thinks that sex would make him come back to her. I'm just really pissed off because I'm the younger sister. I'm only 15 and she's 24. Like can't you ******* grow up? And she wanted to kill herself too when he broke up with her. I don't understand anymore.

My bf adds me on snapchat and i add him back ( without messaging) and he adds me again? He keeps doing this Does he want me to message him? What do i say? Thanks

Me and my girlfriend are in bed she thought she was tired now she said she's not but she doesn't want to get out of bed. She just got out of the shower usually hot water makes her sleepy but not tonight. She mentioned that she's not feeling so well. She said her throats hurts and she has a head ache. How can I get her to sleep ?

I'm just wondering because Muslims believe it's wrong to have sex before marriage but I know a lot of Muslims who do it anyway so I'm just asking (non-Muslim girls in particular) have you ever had sex with a Muslim guy?

We were trading stares the whole time and she was staring at me on the way out while smiling. I said bye and she thought I said hi so she she smiled laughed and said hi back. She blushed and acted nervous. Whenever she walks in she stares and when I make eye contact she smiles. But jow, she looks at me weird and doesn't smile anymore

A guy I have a crush on revealed that he started going to ballroom dancing classes and hopes to meet a girl (along with learning dances) and told me I should take classes too. I m not really into taking classes because I don t like dancing, but I m getting mixed signals. He said he hopes to meet someone by taking classes, but also suggested that I take classes as well...so what does that mean? Go and watch him fall for another girl? Should I even wait around for him to become interested or try to forget him? How long should I wait around for him?

Ok so we both are regulars at the gym I go to& this cute guy I see often there say hi to me a few times& he smiled so I did the same thing back..he always do the abs machine which is infront of the stairmaster when I do it as a warm up& I looked at the corner of my eyes I see him there everytime I m on the stairs..& he would move kinda closer to where I m at& my friend also came over& he left..im pretty sure he s interested giving those signs& I showed it to him too but he only said hi to me nothing else so that makes me wonder if he s just being friendly..but then i realized I m the only girl he say hi to I see him talk to other people but as for girl I m the only one...so fast forward I was on my fb browsing through my friends list& I saw this guy I went to school with I know who he is but never talk so I click on the profile& go to his friends list& as I was looking I found my gym guy crush yes they are friends I want to message him something like ohh heyy don t you go to this gym? But I m too scared& nervous to do it like what if he thinks how did she find me or what if he doesn t reply.? I need help he been on my mind lately& I can t stop thinking about him.

People always compliment me and say I'm pretty. I always get looked at. But I feel like people say that to make me feel good. I think people look at me because I am ugly.. I ask my friends to be honest with me and they say I'm pretty. I don't see it I feel chubby and i hate the side of my face because it is fat and I have a big nose. Do we see our selves different ?

My boyfriend is 17 and I'm 14, but he won't talk to me. And when he does talk to me its all one worded, I feel like I'm bothering him all the time and I don't understand why he seems to be rejecting me? Should we take a break? We've been together for almost 2 months

So I've had a crush on a girl now for a few months, but we've never even talked before. She goes to my school, and she's in the grade below me. I have a really good friend who's really good friends with her, and the girl I like does think I'm "cute". So now that I know this, what do I do? What do I say to start a conversation that isn't cringy as hell? Thanks for your answers

Hello, I am a college student and have a girl I like. We are taking the same class and live in the same resident hall, so we sometimes do homework together. It's been two months since we met. A couple of weeks ago, I put my arm around her shoulder. On another day, I put my arm around her waist. She did not refuse it, and when I put my arm around her, she started breathing fast. We have talked about past relationships, sex, future, and interests. We have so many things in common, as well. They seem good signs, however, she has a guy friend whom she's been hanging out so often. They have dinner together almost every day, and he goes her room so often. (She has a roommate though.) When I asked her about him, she said that he is just a guy friend, and they are just doing HW and not gonna turn into relationships. I am not sure what she is thinking about me. When I asked her out for a date, she is always busy, but she seems going out with him as I see her sns. She said that she is a shy person. Is she just hanging out with him just because she is comfortable with him and trying to be hard to get?? She touches me and compliments me often. We don't text so often, but she always likes every post on my Facebool. Is that sort of mixed signals?

Going with BF to be his date to a wedding. He tells me cost of hotels and brings up pet fees. He said they could go. One fee was $20/night. Other was $75. I ve bought a dress having my nails done etc and I m like really? Maybe I sound like a ***** but I ve paid for stuff to go with him. I feel bad about leaving them because one is still a puppy.

I can't tell. I've talked to a lot of girls, haven't dated anybody seriously for a couple years. I often get to know girls really well, and I can tell they like me, but I don't capitalize on it. Don't wanna do that again. So, I only have one class with her. She's a grade above me, and she's only 1 "year" older than me, even though in 4 days we'll be the same age. My school has block scheduling, so I only see her every other day. From September - October we didn't talk at all, although she sat next to me (to my right). Two seats to my right was a kid that definitely liked her, and it was very obvious. She treated him nothing like how she treats me now (she treats me a lot better, as in she didn't laugh at anything he said and laughs at everything I say, she sat her legs so that they were touching mine and didn't move them away a couple days ago, etc.) which is one reason I think she likes me, but that's kinda off topic. But, now her softball season is over, and she was gone nearly every day due to softball for the past month, so she missed a lot of work, which I had been helping her catch up on. I really started to like her throughout this process, but I didn't think she liked me back at all. Then, on Monday, she asked if I wanted to be her partner for a project, even though she has multiple friends in that class. I obviously said yes. To summarize, we had to go around the school and take pictures of posters. I was the one taking the pictures, and she posed with some of ^ CONTINUATION: the posters. She's beautiful, tbh. Anyways, she then asked me to send them to her, even though she really didn't need the pictures at all, so I think she was just trying to get my number. Unfortunately, we ran out of time at the end of the class and weren't able to exchange numbers. I thought that was the end of it and walked out like normal, but this time she walked out with me (again, she has lots of friends in the class and chose to go with me) and asked me to walk her out to ^ CONTINUATION: her car. Forgot to mention, she asked me if I had a girlfriend on Monday. So, then I saw her again on Wednesday. I helped her with some work most of the class period and we just talked, she laughed at pretty much everything I said, and then we exchanged numbers at the end of the class so I could send her the pictures. I assumed she wouldn't walk out with me again, so I left ahead of her, and she did that awkward half run half walk to catch up to me, and asked if I wanted to ^CONTINUATION: to her car again. She introduced herself to my mom on the way to her car. I haven't texted her. I don't know if I should. Forgot to mention, on Monday, she asked me if someone picked me up (again, I turn 16 in 4 days, so I can't drive myself home yet), or if I drove the bus. I'm pretty sure if I said I took the bus, she would have offered to take me home, since we live in the same neighborhood. ^CONTINUATION: She's always staring at me during our conversations. Forgot to say, when we were working on our project, she told one of her friends to get to work (in a joking way, u kno lmao) and they looked at me and smiled, looked back to her then said "no, i think you're the one that needs to be getting to work" and laughed. she kinda blushed a little i think. but yeah, i don't know if i should text her or not. my friends said i should say i have to take the bus and see if she offers to CONTINUATION: drive me home. idk lol. u think she likes me? what should i do if she does? like i said i haven't really tried to date any girls for a while, i just talk to them and i'm not really seriously into it at all. it's been a while since ive done this lmao.

So hes really nice but intimidating. Wanna talk but dont know what to say???? help!!!

So normally I do not give ANY boys nudes or anything, but I felt like I trusted him enough to give him one. He kept it in a file with a password on his phone and at first he said his co-workers (like family to him) found the password but then I found out he lied and he actually showed them because the subject came up. I didn't really care all that much but I feel like my trust is kind of broken. Help?

I always push people away that really care or want to be with me because I'm so scared that they will judge and hurt me. I've been bullied and picked on alot when I was younger so I've always felt as if my life wouldn't get any better from that and not having any friends made it that much more worse. So when someone actually came into my life and really wanted to be with me I kinda pushed them away without knowing that I was. I keep losing people because they think that I don't care about them but in reality I really do but it's just so hard for me to show them how I feel. I just want to be able to actually love someone without thinking that they will hurt me. It's hard for me to show that I actually love or have feelings for someone when I've never really felt it before.

If a girl tells you to text her tomorrow with a kissy face does that mean she's in to you?

This guy and I clicked wonderfully this year, and I was just ecstatic at the thought of being more than just friends. He gave me dumb nicknames, called me hot, checked me out, and would walk me to lunch and talk to me before and after school. A lot of people don't think he's attractive, but I just think he's the cutest, and he's one of the funniest people I've ever met. His eyes give me tingles, and when he looks at me and smiles, I melt a little. But now he likes this other girl and they're like about to date, and I can't help but feel heartbroken and just crushed. He still talks to me the same, and he still gets super close and looks at me with those stupidly wonderful eyes... how do you get over someone, when they're always right there giving you a reason to keep falling for them?

Everytime i pass by his cubical he looks down or just make sure he just focus on his screen. I caught him more than once looking at me from far but whenever I go up his way he just avoid looking. I came by him once and looked at him, he was looking down and was kind of shy he says hi to everyone but me Does he like me?

I just need help with what to say!

Me and my gf broke up in july after being together for about 5months; she lost her trust in me, I didn't cheat or nothing like that I just didn't tell her every little detail about my friends and see seen that as lieing and lost trust and couldn't be with someone she didn't trust. She even told me its mostly because of her past she seen something she didn't like and ran, besides that we were very much in love, When this happen she told me she couldn't be with me cause she didn't trust me, and she didnt think I could ever rebuild it, I left some things at her house and were suppost to meet for dinner one night but she desided againt that to meet in a parking lot cause she didn't think it was good good idea to rehash everything about the relatioship, we kept talking fromtime to time then eveey other day now we talk alomost every day, she recent told me she want to come into town and stay with me a night and catch up... what do u think she is thinking? Does she possibly want to start things back?? Or does she really just wanna hang out? I can't ask her cause that would just be werid but I kinda wanna know where she stands, what does it sound like

So About 3 Weeks Ago My Boyfriend ( Now Ex ) was being a total ***, and pretty much pushing a break up on me saying how he wanted to be " free " and that it would be better and all that stupid talk. So I did what any smart girl would do and said " If you really want to be just friends, okay, but i'm not giving up. " He always used to do this stuff " testing " my patients. I believe he has bipolar disorder and needs medication but he wont listen to me. Anyway, About a week of me regretting what i did and crying i decided to put the no contact rule up, I would ignore him anytime he was around sometimes going passed him laughing with my friends, proving that I was doing okay. everyday from that point he would send me messages on Skype asking why I wouldn't talk to him, Prior to the break-up he always used to say that I was " Clingy and Annoying " a few days before the break up he even said he would Never leave me though! How Ironic... So after him continuing non-stop sending me messages on why I was ignoring him I finally said " Well you called Me annoying and clingy, so I took a step back, this is what you wanted and this is what you got. " He soon after that said that He doesn't understand what I am trying to accomplish, with him also saying " Well, I still want to be friends but your avoiding me " I said I wasn't trying to avoid him, only trying to get myself back in the routine of not being in a relationship, that was something he needed to see but obviously didn't... Hold on still adding more Anyway, I still love him and would be glad to get back out with him but im not gonna come crawling back as I said. He said he was Emotionally disturbed right now, idk exactly how. we are almost finishing high school and he sent me a message last week saying " You know I never ignore you " and I said " what " he replied saying he watches me go get books from my locker and watches me walk everywhere, he said he got a after school detention by skipping class to see me.. He stated how he still liked me but didn't feel right, he said it was stressful in a relationship and needed a break. i accepted what he said and went on. later that week on friday we had a football game at our school, while there, me and my group of friends hang out behind the school just chatting and stuff, And suprise, he came because I said I was going. the whole night he bought me everything i wanted and wouldn't let me spend my money, calling me Babe and Honey the night and often hugging onto me trying to pull me away from the rest of the people, he also would bring up alot of sexual things to me and even brought me behind the school in one of the wooded areas joking about having sex there. after that night was over i sent him a message saying " what was that all about, do you think we are still together or something " he said thats the way he is used to acting around me, althought he would start being mean later that night saying how we never liked me. Then would act all nice complimenting me and saying sweet things, acting like we are together... he had to move recently and i haven't spoke to him since then, he said he was angry at me for some reason when idk what i did, he also talks about this girl that is " cool " that goes to his new school that he has known for awhile but never liked liked because we were dating ( we had been dating for 1 year and 8 months ) i dont even know if this girl is real since he is the only one that knows her. When he moves he usually comes back a year later or so. this time he is supposed to move forever but last time that happened he came back sooner then had been said. I'm not sure, he says he might go out with me again in the future but i feel like he is stringing me along. Sorry this was so long but i needed to get this off my chest. I almost forgot, when we were dating he always said I was everything to him and that I was his favorite person, and other really nice things. he would protect me and never let any other guy touch me, he still gets jealous when i talk to other guys.

I'm friends with a boy that is going to hell really fast. I warned him that if someone snitches he'll go to prison for drug trafficking. He blocked me. I really want to talk to him but now I can't. What should I do?

I moved to San Diego for school but I always knew that I would move back home to San Francisco because of my dream to be in tech. While in SD, I met a boy and fell in love, and made a lot of friends- we were all one big group that hung out daily. I left San Diego after a year of it, and when I left, my boyfriend and I ended because he didn't want to do long-distance. (we ended up trying for two months, but he gave up and literally disappeared) he got a new girlfriend immediately and I have been hurt about it. My friend group never reaches out to see how I am and I just feel forgotten and hurt. I reached out all summer and made sure they were well, but they never do. I understand that I left, and I am happy with my life, but I just feel hurt and as if I didn't matter at all to any of them. The fact that my ex found a girl SO fast is so disappointing and seeing everyone always together hurts. A case of FOMO. My best friend in the world still lives in San Diego and I have her as well as a couple other best friends there, but the collective group that I hung out with are the ones that just forgot. My ex boyfriend is in that collective group and I guess I just fear them having a negative view on my departure? Or maybe I fear them not caring about me at all? Do you have any advice on how to stop caring about their lives? How to move on from my ex? Any insight will really help! Thank you!

I ve been talking to this guy for like two months. I guess we re dating but we re taking it slow, we kiss, we go on dates. But i guess it s not official. I saw him Sunday and we left off fine and them he slowly stopped texting me. We went from talking every single day to nothing in two days. I just want to ask if this is way of dropping me or what s going on. I m not the needy type and I understand he s busy so I haven t tried reaching out to him because he was the last one to reply but he s been active on social media. My friend said to not text him because he s trying to make me miss him. But the uncertainty is making me anxious. I want to know if we re done so I can get over it. If i do text him what do I ask?

I'm a 16 year old guy and I like to be hairless. How many other guys like doing this? How many actually do? What are the advantages/disadvantages if there are any? Do women like it better?

I have known this girl for a while but we just started becoming friends. I like her and she might like me idk. I was stalking and liked a pic from February. I unliked and stuff but she got the notification and tagged me on the picture and said lol. I just responded with 😂ik cause I didn't know what else to do. What do I say tomorrow when we see each other and she asks about it?

not literally without a heart but a man type person

So I have been dating this guy for 4 months now. It's been great and all. I introduce him to family and friends my family likes him but my friends have other opinions on him. He and I recently went over to a guy friends house to go drink with my guy friend. My partner got too drunk and threaten my guy friend and ever since then they both do not like each other so my boyfriend made a idea of wanting me to not be friends with my guy friend anymore and told me that he is sick of our constant arguing over friends. I realize that I am a jealous person and I get jealous and needy over his friend who is a girl and she and him have fooled around when me and my partner were friends. so he made an idea that we both cant be friends with any of our two friends we do not like. He says he trusts me and that I don't trust him and this is very new to me because I admit it is my third relationship. I don't know what to do but he said that he is at the very end of us being together and I care about him deeply but I guess It seems to me that I am going to lose a good friend. It's either I lose him or I lose a friend. That's what it sounds like to me.

Hey, thanks for reading this I really do appreciate it in advance. Basically, I'm a little confused about a recent date. I met someone, we hit it off, a week later he asked me to get coffee. We ended up talking for a little over 4 hours. We share most of the same interests, have the same values, and a mutual attraction for each other. The problem is we're both recently out of relationships, which is something we originally bonded over. I've moved on from mine, however he's still really hung up on his ex who he talked about A LOT on our date, even to the point of showing me texts going back and fourth between them and giving me the just of the relationships background. I thought it was odd, but I consoled him and was very patient and understanding. At the end of the date he said we'd have to hang out again sometime, shook my hand, and left. I haven't heard from him since and it's been 6 days. At first I thought he may just need space right now and I've avoided contacting him because of that. My question is should I wait around for a bit to see if he comes around, should I contact him, or should I just move on? I really do like him and was hoping for a 2nd date, but I have a number of other men interested in taking me out at the moment. I don't want to wait on something that for sure won't happen, but I don't want to move on to the next guy if there's a chance left. Please advise. Additional Information: I've only been in one relationship and I'm not sure how to date LOL.

Over the summer, a guy and I got really close and decided to take our relationship long distance. We had an exclusive relationship and talk for a couple months. Last week, his ex-girlfriend broke up with her current boyfriend and then he started asking super weird. He then told me that he went to talk to her about her break-up and he realized he might still have feelings for her. I like him so much and I don't want to lose him but I'm seven hours away when this girl is literally minutes away. I feel so trapped and I don't know what to do. I really don't want to lose one of my closest friends.

I like dressing what I feel like. Sometimes, I could dress up but only if that person really loves me. That's the only way I could show that side of myself to someone. But I'm more like a guy than I am a girl. Is that really so wrong? Will that mean I will never find anyone who will like me this way?