I'm 17, I can cook, I'm smart, I'm six foot two, I'm a family guy, dress and behave professional, I'm 139 lbs, I just built some muscles on my shoulders, I'm multilingual (English, Spanish, Spanglish & learning French), brown/hazel eyes, dark brown wavy hair (just cut short), clean shave, mixed/Latino but have vanilla colored skin, I've been told I'm sweet, I'm a feminist, I work with a diverse network of individuals, grew up with a single mom, I'm an only child, I'm smart, very nerdy but cute (or so I've been told), I'm the not the manliest guy but I'm a young man. I love kids & I make people laugh. But my weakness is that I struggle with depression which is ok because most people do. I also love strawberries and surprising you with gifts assuming we were in a relationship. I'm a guy by the way and my name is Daniel. I'm learning French and Italian (Italian is starting off easy because I speak Spanish). I'm also business savvy

The guy who took my senior pictures recently came over to drop them off. I learned that we both got hired at a new, local restaurant. We started texting a little bit, since work starts soon. A friend of mine who knows him told me he's a little creepy, 34, and has a DWI when I asked her about him. After I told him I'm 18, he said it's good to know I'm legal, asked if I'd ever do a "sexy" shoot (which I declined to), and asked if I want to hang with him some day. He asked what time I check in to work on Mondays so he could see me briefly. We talked about photography and got to talking about other things. He asked what bra and waist size I have (to use for quick draw) and so that he could order clothes and lingerie for shoots and know it'd fit me - after I said I wasn't interested in another shoot, said that he's always admired my body, and proceeded to ask for a date. I explained that I'm extremely busy with school and didn't know if I'd be able to find time and he got REALLY irritated, said he felt stupid for asking since he hasn't asked a girl out in 3yrs, whatever, and would never ask again. I didn't want him to be upset so I told him if I found time I would & like him as a friend. He said he was glad he got me to admit that I "like and want him" after months of him trying to get me to. He continued to mssg me all night and I woke up to a bunch of txts. I don't want to hurt his feelings, and feel terrible that he got the insinuation that I want this type of relationship/interaction from him, but that doesn't take away from the fact that I'm very uncomfortable now. I'm not sure if I should confront him and risk hurting his feelings for an awkward workspace in return, or what to do. I just don't see how he expects something like he thinks is going work.

And when you try to reason with them they will continuously bring up fictional or highly distorted versions of events to support their views.

I've been with a Pisces male for 19months. We Have our ups/downs but recently a big fight (physical). Although it was started by him being an azz I'm not tryna prove who's wrong/right. I was left hurt physically/emotionally. I'm sure he's hurting emotionally as well. We love each other dearly. My question is how do we recover from this? I understand he told me no one's perfect. He's sort what shy and I know feeling bad. I've been giving him space but also showing him he's worth it and that this too shall pass. One other thing, we rarely fight a lot but when we do we both back off. This one just intense. Also, I've never disrespected him but calling him out his name nor made him feel less than a man. That's why I didn't understand why he started with "the physical" approach (pushing/choke holding=he said to keep me from running away which as a Taurus I have placed walls and ran away from conflict Bc I know how intense I can get; sort of my protection for you and myself.

My girlfriend s father sexually abused her during elementary and middle school years, but hasn t done that since. He still is (in my view) inappropriately affectionate toward my partner, doing things like placing a kiss on her neck or lips, trying to leave a hand on her thigh, getting angry if she forgets to give him a kiss goodbye or spends more time with me. He is also concerning in the fact he seems to prey on my girlfriend s teenage friends. My ultimate question is: should I report him as a sex offender? I m torn because I worry that he won t stop without legal force, but also I don t want to interfere heavily in their family relationship. Please help.

I went through his phone and read his text messages. I got the other woman's number and text her from his phone. She did the same thing. She went through his phone and text me. She got my phone number from him and she has been calling and texting me since. She has embarrassed him public by throwing drinks on him and punching him in the face in front of his friends. She even cut up some of his clothes and left them outside of his apartment building. He told me that he doesn't trust me because I've gone through his phone and for all he knows I've been through his wallet and pockets. I was slightly insulted because all he's done is lie to me and tell me that he was no longer seeing this woman. I went through his phone just to verify that he was still in contact with her and still seeing her. He has stood me up with not calling. Now he's telling me that he is choosing not see me because he can't trust me, but why does he still trust her enough to still see her?

I am 14 yrs old. My family has a 2016 Toyota Siena. I live in California. My family has 7-bedroom home w/ 2 full bathrooms, 2-story, 2 living room with a cabin in our backyard. I used to have 2 maids. I have an iPhone 6s, iPad mini 4, iPad 4, Sony laptop, MacBook, and a Sony flat screen tv. I have a Wii U and Xbox 360 with lots of video games. I have a piano, guitar, flute and 2 Ukuele. I have 2 huraches, 4 Nikes, 2 converse, 2 adidas, 2 uggs, vans, timberland, and Michael Kors. I only shop from store brand stores like pink, hollister...etc. I used to have many hobbies like tap/ballet/lyrical/piano/karate/swimming/hip hop and now I have Ukuele lessons. I have couple of designer purses and designer wallets. I used to go to a private school but didn't learn much so now I go to a public school. I have 3 American girl with accessories. My family goes to an amusement park every year and eats at a restaurant every week. I have 2 emoji pillows. I have 2 solo wireless beats. I have plenty of other headphones. I have tons of phone case. And I appreciate all of my stuff and I am thankful for. And my friends says I'm spoiled every time they go to my home. So what do u guys thinks

I'm really broke if I spend my money on tickets I wont have any left for much else apart from bills , but on the other hand I'm 24 and ive never been to a concert before and want the experience, Ive never even been to a nightclub (strict culture). to be honest I barely ever go out with friends or anything. opinions ?? I mean 300 is a lot but is it worth it in my case btw artist is huge tickets are selling like hot cakes

She received it yesterday afternoon in the mail but haven't said anything to me? It was a gift along with a letter .. Should I be worried ? It was a gift thanking her for always being such a great friend, how much I appreciate her for helping in my tough times etc... It was all good. It was a surprise in the mail, I didn't tell her I was sending something. Im not depending on a response but I'm worried she doesn't like it. She hasn't said anything? She usually does

She's a single mother. I am not gay. I asked her reasoning and she said i'm obsessed with proving my masculinity. I have been practising judo for about a year and I am very enthusiastic. I am very angry with her.

I asked the guy I liked if we could talk more, get to know each other & he told me he wasn't interested in long distance relationships because they were tedious & a lot, he said it wasn't anything personal & that I seemed nice & he wished me well but it was just how he felt w/ a sad face & I kind of got the impression that he felt bad because he left a sad face emoji so I tried to get him to at least give it try & said i think it'd nice be nice to just have someone to talk to so I asked him wouldn't you want that? Cause doesn't everybody want someone to keep them company through out the day, I know I wouldn't mind talking to someone through out the day if they knew how to kept on a convo going anyway he lashed the eff out & said I do not want that & thought he made it clear in the first message while remaining nice like wtf... Remaining nice, I genuinely thought he felt bad or at least was trying to be sensitive & then he told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again... I felt so crushed after that  like I wasn't even aware of his boundaries to begin with & felt like it was unfair of him not to tell me cause I don't think I deserved it... do you think he meant to lash out? Was it what I said? I mean he should've known I didn't know about his boundaries. I know it's been like a month but it still hurts especially cause I genuinely thought we could've been great friends 

I went through his phone and read his text messages. I got the other woman's number and text her from his phone. She did the same thing. She went through his phone and text me. She got my phone number from him and she has been calling and texting me since. She has embarrassed him public by throwing drinks on him and punching him in the face in front of his friends. She even cut up some of his clothes and left them outside of his apartment building. He told me that he doesn't trust me because I've gone through his phone and for all he knows I've been through his wallet and pockets. I was slightly insulted because all he's done is lie to me and tell me that he was no longer seeing this woman. I went through his phone just to verify that he was still in contact with her and still seeing her. He has stood me up with not calling. Now he's telling me that he is choosing not see me because he can't trust me, but why does he still trust her enough to still see her?

My husband works in construction as concrete finisher and gets paid really good for the time he's been with the company. I stayed home with my baby who is now 18 months old but I got really bored sitting at home doing nothing at all. My mother in law tells me to teach my kid to do stuff but it bores me because he likes being inside the crib or the stroller all day. I don't take him out for hours either because all he does is make messes and pulls on cords. I don't need to show my baby anything because the therapy lady that comes shows him what he has to learn already and I don't want to rush him to walk. My husband told me that I didn't need to get a job if he gets paid really good. (We can even afford a house) but I get bored being at home. I need a break from my kid. So I got a family dollar job where I work from 10-12 hours and get paid good so that's extra money for me. My babysitter (my cousin who lives next door) babysits my son those times and complains that he's really heavy for her. He only weighs 35 pounds and 14 ounces and she not too far along on her pregnancy. She's only 29 weeks and 3 days right now. And she complains that I should be at home teaching him to walk instead of leaving him with someone else. She said she loves him but she's not his mom. And that she would call CPS to come to my home because my husband doesn't pick my baby up from her house when he gets home, etc.. My husband is tired, how is he going to take care of our son like that? I told her she can just have a c section if something goes wrong and she told me "I don't have c sections if I'm healthy to have a vaginal delivery. I'm not you that doesn't like pain or taking care of business" what does she mean by that? So can CPS come? Can they take my kid because I'm working too much and sometimes leave him unattended?

My boyfriend (who is the father of our 3-year-old son) wants us to move to Florida -- blind, so to speak. He sees no problem with us living in a hotel until we find a house to rent. I think this is very stupid and foolhardy, especially because we have a child. Given, I used to something of a risk-taker, but since I had a child, I have changed. I want stability and safety. (He is retired with a pension and Social Security and I work part-time for diversion and pocket change). Anyway, I am very opposed to this and have said so. He says his parents lived in a hotel until they found a house, but that was in the 1950s/1960s. If my boyfriend thinks that moving to Florida will be a panacea, I think he is sadly mistaken.

She received it yesterday afternoon in the mail but haven't said anything to me? It was a gift along with a letter .. Should I be worried ? It was a gift thanking her for always being such a great friend, how much I appreciate her for helping in my tough times etc... It was all good. It was a surprise in the mail, I didn't tell her I was sending something. Im not depending on a response but I'm worried she doesn't like it. She hasn't said anything? She usually does

It's not that I would want to hangout with him, I'm just super inspired by how he CREATES

I still love him so much. He's in a new relationship right after we broke up. I talked with him once recently and be says he's happy with her. I told him I still love him and always will and that I even want to be his friend now. Be said its too fresh for us to be friends so soon. I told him I am grieving and I'm so much pain because j lost him from my life completely, and I asked him to just help me deal with the pain of loss. But then that's when he started ignoring me and my texts and messages. So I realized he was just ignoring me and I sent a message saying I'm here for him as a friend whenever he needs one and I wish their relationship luck. So now I'm going to have to wait for him to contact me. P.S. Before you reply, please hear me out. I will never stop loving him and the feeling of loss and pain of separation will always be there when he is not reaching out to me. So please do not include in the advice to "move on", I'm being honest when i say that isn't a possibility with me. I even felt such extreme sadness and missing him when we were long distance and I even told him I'd cry when I could not be next to him. He told me back then, to not cry, that he will be with me soon. He basically asked me to not cry, as a favor to him. So I said I promise to try my best not to cry and it worked, I managed to not cry much again from missing him.

When i was younger i was abused and i always thought its my fault because i didnt stop or tell anyone what was happening. I have to meet him tomorrow and i have a choice of not meeting him should i meet him and talk things out, like confront him? I know he will deny things and say its my fault too. I feel pressure i think if i dont talk to him maybe ill never get over the painful past. This is what i want him to tell him this... "This is how i feel ....... you did things to me i was young you were older. After we stopped talking I grew up into thinking im dumb for being friends with you. I'm older and stronger now and you cant hurt me anymore. I want you to know that i want to forgive you and i want to forget you."

My husband and I are expecting our 3 child in January, and money is real right even with both of us working. My husband boss found a loophole in which my husband could get about and extra $150.00 per paycheck so around $300.00 a month but he wants to sleep with my husband on a regular basis. my husband told me that is was my choice and he would respect my wishes. I know our family need money I just think it's wrong to my my husband suffer like that. His boss is a few year younger than him around 25 so I'm not sure why exactly he would pay to sleep with a straight man. But either way my husband said he wouldn't get fired if he said no; which tbh I think it's possible. Has anyone else have a similar issue going on? How did you deal with it?

I still love him so much. He's in a new relationship right after we broke up. I talked with him once recently and be says he's happy with her. I told him I still love him and always will and that I even want to be his friend now. Be said its too fresh for us to be friends so soon. I told him I am grieving and I'm so much pain because j lost him from my life completely, and I asked him to just help me deal with the pain of loss. But then that's when he started ignoring me and my texts and messages. So I realized he was just ignoring me and I sent a message saying I'm here for him as a friend whenever he needs one and I wish their relationship luck. So now I'm going to have to wait for him to contact me.

La Neta Me Gusta Un Chavo Pero No Se Si Decirle Tengo Miedo Por Que No Se Si Es Gay Siento Que Si Le Digo Algo Me Va A Mandar a La Verga Me Siento Desesperado Casi Ni Hablamos Solo Nuestras Miradas Se An Crusado Muchas Beses El Viernes Se Sento A Unos Metros De Donde Estabamos Mi Amiga & Yo Como Si Esperara A Alguien &Luego Se Paro Se Fue & Me Volteo A Ver & No Tardo Cuando Ya Estaba De Regreso En Eso Vi Que Se Metio Al Metro Lo Fuiomos A Seguir & Se Subio Al Metro Como Si Nada Igual & Soy Yo Pero Tengo La Espinita De Que Hay Algo o De Que Si Le Llamo La Atencion Aunque Sea Poquito Ustedes Que Dicen Alguien Digame Que Hacer Por Favor

So my girlfriends mom acts flirty with me sometimes and I need to know if its weird or not. My girlfriend introduced me to her parents two months ago and it was really casual. But since then the times I've seen her she compliments me on just about every aspect of me and touches me (like breaking the touch barrier, not dirty or anything). And my gf tells me she asks about me when they talk too. It doesnt really bother me (shes looks identical to my gf and is really kind) but is it strange? Her mom is in her late forties and has been married for 25 years, so obviously nothing is going to happen.

It's an internet flash game that I remember playing maybe ten years ago, in which you play as a pill swallowed by a guy, and your job is to travel around the guy's body as the pill and kill germs that you see popping up in order to keep him alive and healthy. A small status screen on the bottom right shows the guy's face and age, and his health is represented by how healthy his picture looks; the sicker he gets, the worse he looks, and vice versa. You have three pills to start with, and the game has no winning conditions, but simply continues until either you run out of pills, or the guy dies from illness. I thought I remembered the game being called "Happy Pill", but I looked it up and that is a very different game from the one I'm talking about. It's bothering me that I can't find this game, so if anybody has any idea what I'm talking about, I'd greatly appreciate it if you let me know.

When I was about 12 my cousins (both girls) and I (also a girl) would have sleep overs. We would play truth or dare and spin the bottle. We would makeout and touch each other. I m now 14 and think about it sometimes... Is what we did wrong?

I'm 17, I can cook, I'm smart, I'm six foot two, I'm a family guy, dress and behave professional, I'm 139 lbs, I just built some muscles on my shoulders, I'm multilingual (English, Spanish, Spanglish & learning French), brown/hazel eyes, dark brown wavy hair (just cut short), clean shave, mixed/Latino but have vanilla colored skin, I've been told I'm sweet, I'm a feminist, I work with a diverse network of individuals, grew up with a single mom, I'm an only child, I'm smart, very nerdy but cute (or so I've been told), I'm the not the manliest guy but I'm a young man. I love kids & I make people laugh. But my weakness is that I struggle with depression which is ok because most people do. I also love strawberries and surprising you with gifts assuming we were in a relationship. I'm a guy by the way and my name is Daniel

What are negative things that have happened in the years before you turned 40? Are there any regrets? What are the positive things that have happened?

I m a college student, and for they most part I don t really have friends. My sister goes to the same college, and when I hang out with people, it s her friends. I don t really talk to anyone outside of the school. Also, I m not exactly good with girls. My roommates is hardly here, but he doesn t like being around me, so I try to stay away so that way I don t bug him. I know that as soon as college is over, I m going to live alone, because I m not good at keeping relationships of any kind be it friends or girls etc. I really feel like I should practice being alone, but I m not sure how to do this without anyone really noticing or thinking something is wrong. How can I start doing this?

Tinder sucks and cougar life is fake btw I'm 18 & want older women

Background info, I'm a sophomore in high school and my friend and I have been having an issue with the same girl. I'll refer to my friend as Jon and the girl as Ann to save time and confidentiality. Okay. So my friend Jon has been friends with and like this girl Ann for about a year now. I've like her for the same amount of time, but haven't actually been friends with her as long. Before Ann and I were friends, her and Jon sort of had a thing. Jons a great guy but he has a tendicy to mess things up. He sort of wrecked his chances. A few months passed and Ann and I become friends, little does she know how long iv'e like her. Summer comes, and then the first few months of school til finally homecoming. Jon and I figure out we both were going to ask her. But we agree that that would wreck our friendship so we agree neither of us would take her. Well Ann decides she likes Jon, and says that she sees me more like a brother. So then Jon betrays me, and takes her to homecoming. I was/am pissed because i've like her for over a year now, and i've never like someone like this. So now to the big question.... I know at this point I need to back off, as far as flirting, but still stay her friend. But I have this feeling Jon will mess up their relationship, again. If this happens, how do I convince her I'm not a "brother." But until then is it weird if Ann and I hangout alone? We are still really close but I feel funny going places with just her now.... Thanks How do I get out of the "brother" zone?

I'm 15 and struggling out water had been off for almost a year and today they decided to cut our electricity off

I have spoken to him in the past, tried avoiding him, ignoring him, but nothing seems to work. I've had this inappropriate crush for two years now. I got married a few months ago and havesn't seen him for a year. I saw him again snd the stupid crushing is weirding me out. We were acquainted and both of us were in relationships; the possibility of having a relationship wasn't something that should happen as we are in different worlds. Cultural, age, and just different stage in life.What to do?

I asked the guy I liked if we could talk more, get to know each other & he told me he wasn't interested in long distance relationships because they were tedious & a lot, he said it wasn't anything personal & that I seemed nice & he wished me well but it was just how he felt w/ a sad face & I kind of got the impression that he felt bad because he left a sad face emoji so I tried to get him to at least give it try & said i think it'd nice be nice to just have someone to talk to so I asked him wouldn't you want that? Cause doesn't everybody want someone to keep them company through out the day, I know I wouldn't mind talking to someone through out the day if they knew how to kept on a convo going anyway he lashed the eff out & said I do not want that & thought he made it clear in the first message while remaining nice like wtf... Remaining nice, I genuinely thought he felt bad or at least was trying to be sensitive & then he told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again... I felt so crushed after that  like I wasn't even aware of his boundaries to begin with & felt like it was unfair of him not to tell me cause I don't think I deserved it... do you think he meant to lash out? Was it what I said? I mean he should've known I didn't know about his boundaries. I know it's been like a month but it still hurts :( wish we could at least talk about it & be on good terms but he probably hates me now

My father remarried and had another baby, so I disowned him. I told him before that if he tried to replace me with another kid I'd never speak to him again but he ignored it. So now he's "hurt" that I refuse to speak to him. He's SO rude. Before I turned 18 he'd still make me him and pretend like he wanted to mend things. He'd still show up to my school events even though I told him not to, and insists on coming to my grandparents house sometimes when I'm there. He was even in the audience for a college program I was hosting. I was PISSED. My grandparents have started insisting that we work it out. And saying that if I can't I won't be able to come for major events at their house anymore because I ignore him. So I think I'll just stop speaking to them too. I shouldn't have to love him. He decided he didn't love my mom. I decided I didn't love him. Isn't that fair? He chose to replace me with another daughter. HE chose to give that brat the 2 parent home he didn't bother to give me after I was 13. If I have to suffer so should he. He wanted a new family and he got it so he should LEAVE ME ALONE. I don't owe him anything. HE told me I don't make decisions about his family for him when I told him i didn't want halfsiblings. Well he doesn't get to decide that I have to love him. I hate him. And I hate my grandparents too if they'll pick him over me. I should add that I still have a great relationship with all of my aunts/uncles and cousins on that side of the family. It's not even the divorce so much as it is how unfair it is to give this child the perfect family that I don't have. And its obvious he loves that child more since that child is half the woman he loves while I'm half the woman he abandoned. When I have kids I"ll never get a divorce. Even if he hits me, as long as he doesn't hurt the kids I'd never do that to my kids.

Everything s just come crashing down on me today, I ve just started sixth form (I am 17) I hate all my subjects, I can t cope with the workload already and the people that are there are so bitchy. They are a group of girls perceived as angels, all clever and one is head girl yet they constantly contradict themselves making horrible comments about others and I just cannot stand it. I have my best friend there, who (long story short) has said some awful awful things to me in the past, things most people would leave after if the same was said to them. Don t get me wrong, she s the best at times but when she s in a bad mood she turns it all on me and makes me look like the bad one when although I can be moody, it s nothing compared to her in the past. I am fed up of feeling like the only genuine person I know. I have a friend group but I just haven t felt like going out with them at weekends of late and I just feel so miserable, also, I ve just got back with my ex who cheated on me. I know you re all thinking I m an idiot but I can t keep away, and although he seems to be trying harder now, I know the girl it was with and she s just gorgeous and so skinny and I just feel like nothing on her. In fact, I hate myself and I ve stopped eating properly. Perhaps I m being paranoid, but there s some nudes on his phone and when asked he said they were off twitter but today it s come to my mind that it might be her. lol I m just venting because I feel awful and probably need reassurance.

I don't even see him but he has such an effect on me.