My uncles getting married he's 26 his girlfriend is 33. They've dated since he was 20 met when he was 19. My uncles young I was born when he was 8

https://i.imgur.com/WtPGzco.png 10 years ago she worked in my gym. I think she should dump her boyfriend and take me up the London Eye. It's 10 years overdue now. Don't you reckon? ... THIS WOMAN BELONGS TO ME WHEREVER SHE IS.

He reciprocates her advances and seeks her out. Should I tell his wife what he is doing at work ? I've been friends with him for a while but don't approve of this. Or should I talk to the woman at our office who flirts with him ? @ Gypsyfish, she does kiss his cheek everytime they hug each other and she's always complementing him in a sexual type of way, he likes it all though and never seems to put her in her place. I just would want to know if my husband was doing that at work with another woman, so should I tell his wife or no ? Me and him use to date back in high school years and years ago, we broke up but remained friends, I see him now like a brother so it upsets me when I see that he seeks her out now that he is married. I don't want to call him a friend with the way he is behaving.

I'm a nutritionist and I work part time at a supplement store for extra income. I dated my ex for 4 yrs and we ended things amicably over 2 yrs ago. We don't speak, no drama, just moved on with our lives. We're both 33. He's now dating a 21 year old. I got several notifications on my phone that said this woman liked several of my photos on my public instagram account back in september and so I clicked on her profile which she probably expected I'd do. I saw a bunch of photos of her with my ex that said, "my lover, best boyfriend ever!" Okay so she got my attention and I wrote it off, didn't respond, didnt say anything, just thought she was immature. Now she has been coming into my work at the supplement shop and making small purchases and making it a point to tell my co-workers and any customers that will listen what her name is. She's forcing conversations and taking the lead so other people in the store will ask her questions and then she's volunteering information about herself that would hint she's dating my ex, she's saying it loudly so I'll hear. They met at work and work together. So she keeps reiterating to other people in the store where she works, what her name is, the fact that her boyfriend likes women with nice bodies so she's getting supplements etc. I know she knows who I am and that I work there part time, since she stalked me online. Now she's been coming in weekly putting on her show and I'm started to feel like she's trying to instigate. thoughts?

We both have a 17 month old boy together. I love him very much. Wife says she would like to go back to her country for 6 months with our boy to show him to his grandma and other family members. The problem is her & I don't get along well. We don't see eye to eye on most issues and we have tried to get divorced twice. She can be rude and disrespectful, and shows no consideration for my preferences and things that I tell her. Some have said, she won't bring the boy back. Some say don't let her take him for more than 2 months. I am a little confused as to what to do here. I don't personally find her reliable or trust worthy, but I just won't expect her to do such a thing as take him away completely. Any advice? She's from east Africa (Ethiopia)

I went with my wife and a friend to Ensenada, Mexico and we met another couple who lived there. We all went downtown and to a few of the bars. I had a few drinks (ok maybe more than a few) and then we got a ride to our hotel. On the way back I sat in the back of the car next to my wife, who sat next to another attractive woman who was the wife of our new friend. I reached my arm around my wife and started rubbing her hand with affection. She rubbed me back with equal affection but then I realized I was holding the hand of the other woman. I was shocked but I was enormously turned on and so I didn't stop. The woman kept on with it too. I was thinking maybe this woman liked it as much as I did. I don't cheat so I didn't follow up on it. I'm just wondering why she would return my affection instead of pulling her hand away.

Hello, I am 24 and recently engaged to a very sweet 22-year old girl. I don't deserve her and I think she is a very strong, brave, kindhearted, giving, and caring woman. I don't like a skewed narrative, so I will try to explain this with as little bias as possible. A few months ago, we were in a long distance relationship. We wanted to close the distance. She wanted to move to where I was, but her parents wouldn't have it, so I drove across the country (a little over 2000 miles) to live here in the same town with her. Her parents are old-fashioned so I honored their wishes for us not to live together. I asked for her father's blessing (before he was aware that I have Asperger's) and he said "yes" in a very round-about way with a lot of lectures about how difficult marriage is (and I agree that it will be an undertaking). Several months ago, I proposed and she said yes. I want nothing more than to be a good husband and father like my dad. Recently, we have been trying to plan a wedding. However, spending more time with her family, they seem to have some suspicion that I might have Asperger's (something my fiancé knew, but didn't tell them). I have often been very secretive about my Asperger's and have tried my best to subdue the symptoms so they aren't noticeable. Recently, my fiancé's parents often warn her about "the dangers of what she's getting herself into." They are discouraging us both from having kids and don't seem to believe I can be a good father. What can I do?

The husband was drawing some nudity before they were married. But the nudity has increased since then. Sexual art was added after they were married, as he found that people liked that aspect of his art.

I mean as in personal stuff that a person does by themselves in private.

Husband and I have been fighting all day, I don't want to go to this football party tomorrow, his ex wife will be there, she is SINGLE !.. she divorced him, he was crushed for years, I found him , helped him through his depression, got him work with my Dads company- sooo doesn't my husband owe it to me not to go to this party?.

He is 33 and I am 32. We both live at our parents house while saving up for a place. I was at my house (parents house) last night and would be home alone so I asked him to stay over and come with me to service my car on Sat morning at 8am (today) We had dinner last night and came back to my house but he would not stay. While he was here his male friend kept texting him and asking when he was leaving. My bf replied "in a few minutes"..... His excuse for not staying was he woke up at 5am for work and did not want to wake up early to sit in a car shop OR be on the roads driving late at night because the friend lives an hr away. He left to spend the weekend at his friend's house and I saw that he stayed awake until 2am playing video games (after he told me he was tired)...and he was active on instagram at 9:30am. He lied to me and said he was tired but stayed up late and woke up early. ...It is Saturday now and last time he texted me was to tell me he got to the friend's place okay. Would you be upset? *** I have invested 7 1/2 years into this relationship so it is hard to let go. He unfortunately met this friend 4 yrs ago. He is my first and only boyfriend. My bf claims that men are not complicated. He says I over think and over react. He also says he is a simple guy and if he did not want to be with me he would not be. He also says that he wants us to marry but only when we stop arguing. Whenever we argue it always stems from this particular friend. **** "Soon to be" because I am leaning towards leaving him but the other part of me says things will change. We don't live together. He claims that once we are married and live together he will be home**** ******** We are 23 and 33. That was a typo

I know guys who are doing absolutely nothing with their lives, still living with their parents, or working a dead end job with low wages and part time hours, no health insurance, there's no way in hell they can afford to raise a family or have children, or even have the maturity to do it, still drinking and partying and addicting to weed and booze thinking collecting Air Jordans and play League of Legends is still their priorities in life. Yet women who want to have children are dating these men. Keep in mind these men are 30-33 years old. Meanwhile compare to other 33 year old guys who are successful in life who own their own home, make nearly 100k a year in a good career, are stable, mature, intelligent, and love their wives and children and make them a priority

My wife and I are both 29 years old, we have 3 kids. My wife's best friend is 28 years old and has 2 kids. Her best friend and I have been sleeping together for 4 years and one of her 2 kids is actually mine, but she passed it off as her husband's kid. 3 days ago, we were laying in bed together and she tells me that she's tired of being the other woman and if we want to continue the romance, I have to leave my wife and she would divorce her husband. I won't leave my wife. I don't want to lose this deep relationship that I have with her best friend. What can I do?

Including dating, engagement, things she wants and eventual alimony.

I.E. A woman marrying a man only to make another woman who actually loves him feel bad or a man marrying a woman just to spite her ex, who's still in love with her? Is it typical for spite marriages to take place?

My wife and I are both 29 years old, we have 3 kids. My wife's married best friend is 28 and has 2 kids. Her friend and I had been sleeping together for 4 years, one of her kids is actually mine, but she passed it off as her husband's kid. She's telling me that she's tired of being the other woman and if we want to continue the romance than I need to divorce my wife and she would divorce her husband. I won't leave my wife, I liked how it was going for 4 years, what can I do?

Do you feel any type of way when your spouse leaves for 2 days to hang out with their friends?

At the end of each month my wife and I calculate a budget for the next month. We List all expenses from needs to wants, from fun to paying bill. Now throughout the month she will buy stuff on impulse. So we had set up an impulse budget with a decent amount just for those moments. THis was fine at first, soon it wasn't. So she opens up credit cards, including an amazon account with credit card, etc... This seemed to bring her happy and freedom. Months and months later. She racked up a large amount of bills. Now this is a source of our arguments and issues. She somehow blames me! I did not even know that she was buying this stuff. Now she says that i should give her more money for her bills and impulse. I see that it is her spending and lack of discipline that is the issue! She did argree and work with me on the budget. So she knew what we had. The Budget was structured with the amount we make. The last factor i want to point out is we run our own business. So she sees the daily operational Money the business has. I she feels i can just take the money from there to give to her impulses. However i Am strict cause that is a business. It has to run and run right. If she was just a business partner clearly this would be simple, however she is my wife, and i care for her dearly! But this has become a serious issue! I get her material on financial education, she ignores it, and continue with her thinking. How do you fix this? More money is clearly not the solution.

Bf wakes up at 5am for work during the week. We had was at my house his male friend kept texting and asking when my bf was leaving. My bf has been spending every weekend at his male friend's house for a month. He says its to get away from his parents because his mom has mental illness and picks fights with him. So my bf left at 9:30 pm and went to friends house. Ghey stayed up til 2am playing video games and i saw that my bf is online at 9:00am....he only got a few hrs of sleep but couldnt stay at my place..go to bed at 10pm and wake up at 8am for us to go service my car..... What should i do? He is pissing me off and I want his friend gone

We in a relationship for 5 goin to 6 years now. We have 1.5 year old baby girl. We moved to an apartment 6 months ago. I already engaged her 2 years ago. We are saving to buy a house in 3 years. She always bring the marriage question up. I always told her that I'm not financially ready for marriage, but she keeps pressing it. I know marriage is a long term commitment and expensive and I want make sure that I'm ready before I jump into it. I'm 27 and she's 25 years. Any advice would be helpful.

Around 2002 I was 18. I had just graduated high school and am half Thai. I had visited Thailand for the first time. My uncle's wife's family visited (non-blood related) and I had developed a relationship with a Thai girl who was about 5 years older than me. We communicated via IM sometimes and mostly e-mail due to time differences when I was in the US. I had visions of working in or ex-patriotizing myself to live in Thailand. I was fascinated with it like this was the meaning to my life. I was still young, going through college, saving every little dime from my part time job to visit Thailand. A few years later, I sent her a Valentines Day package with the typical stuff - chocolates, teddy bear, custom roses delivered on time. Apparently her family saw and said her family thinks of dating younger men as a sign of desperation. She broke it off using that as the reason. I never got over her and struggled through life over this. I had gotten through my community college program with an Associate's Degree and had applied to several universities. I met another girl who had all the same (extremely rare) interests as me online. I was accepted to the University of Hawaii and all the other places I applied to, including her home town. I was excited and wanted to go to Hawaii. She threw a tantrum and basically put me in an ultimatum about going to school where she lived. I ultimately went to her home town, resentful. Part 2: While there, toward the tail end of earning my Bachelor's Degree, I had found out she cheated on me. I was living in a place I didn't want to live, doing all this for her and she cheated on me. I had stayed faithful the whole time. I wasn't doing enough for her, I wasn't doing xyz. I was getting older, it totally blindsided me. I broke up with her for a few months and she kept trying to come back, saying she'll never do it again, she's changed, it was a mistake. Part 3: I was alone there. No friends/family/self respect because I was getting fat and older. I eventually caved in and took her back. Went back home to the west coast for a couple years with a job. She got upset. Wanted me to quit my job and move back with her. I eventually did and found a really good job there. She moved to Japan for a year to be an English teacher. Got upset and wants me to move there now. We can barely talk due to time. She's thinking of staying another year. Part 4: I'm still alone, no friends or family around. Working a great job but total loneliness. If anything happened, I don't think my will to live would be that strong. I found out my younger cousin from Belgium had just married the sister of the girl I dated in Thailand - who I could never get over. I'm happy for him. He's having the life I originally wanted. All these people surrounding him. He's wildly successful. Dating the sister of my old girlfriend I couldn't get over. Part 5: I look at his pictures and start thinking about the what if's and it keeps opening old wounds. Ironically, she's older than my cousin (negating the reason why my ex broke up with me). I'm on the path of darkness and he's on the path of light. I'm in absolute loneliness, being guilt tripped into quitting my job again to live the life of someone else - a girl I think I will never find again as pretty or what interests we share. After sitting a year in total loneliness. I feel like I'm in depression. I can't talk to anyone, which is why I'm here. I think of all these painful memories of what I could have been and the shell of a person I am now. I don't know what to do. I've delayed my life for other people. Living dreams of other people, what other people tell me to do. He is living the life he wanted, visiting Thailand several times each year with a rich, happy and full life. I have nobody, going farther and farther down the hole, reminded of what could have been. In an age where nobody cares.

Me and my wife have been married and divorced. Twice. This morning she texts "Third times a charm." I love her like I love toast in the morning. What should I do, ya'll?

My ex wife used to be very hard on our daughter about her weight. Now my daughter is in the hospital, for the past two years my wife has been telling me that my daughter had an eating disorder. I used get annoyed at my wife would tell me that my daughter was bulimic. Last year I got mad at my her for taking the lock off my daughter's bathroom door, I even got mad at her for taking all of the junk food out of the house because she was afraid that my daughter was going to binge and purge. If I had listen to my wife maybe daughter wouldn't be in the hospital.

Me and my husband have been together for 5 years, we met when I was 18 and he was 19. He was a virgin and I wasnt, so he s only ever slept with me. As time has gone on and we ve become quite serious as we re married and expecting our first child I can t help but torture myself with the fact I m not going to be enough for him. He says he doesn t even care about sleeping with another woman, which I believe to be the case now. But will/could that be the case in 10 years time? All I can think about is our future and whether this will be an issue in years to come. Is there any men out there that have been in or are in the same situation who can give advice or their opinion? Thank you

My wife and I have been married 7 years and have held a serious relationship the year and a half leading up to. The first 2 years were great. Sex all the time (I'm borderline nympho so this was perfect). I deployed to combat for a year and we got married while I had R&R. Upon getting back home the sex resumed. She wanted kids so she had her birth control removed. We were quickly successful. 5.5 years later we have another child. Since then she has virtually zero interest in sex. She doesn't want me to leave or vice versa. She prefers if we have sex it's while she sleeps. Should I get a mistress and how would I go about that? I don't have money for websites nor escorts.

"I hate to say this. Truly I do but…you must understand that a LOT of American men are honosexual. I hate to be the one to have to "out" them like this. Really I do, but you have to read between the lines. These men leave answers here like they want you to jump through hoops, when in reality all you need is a heartbeat. They say they want you to volunteer at an animal shelter so they can see you're a good person ? Really. Think about how many nasty and even mean women you have seen or known who have all KINDS of men (those that are straight or pretending to be) bending over backwards to please them while you remain single. Think about it. These American men are not hetero. If you're not in America, wherever you are is probably the same. Now finally, you can rest assured some "men" will respond to my comment angrily . This is because I blew their cover. You sound very young. I used to be like you, cooking and cleaning up, smiling & trying to be aggreable , volunteeringl & trying to do what was right. Like you I was attractive and funny. But they didn't respond to any of that despite what they say on here. They never desired a "relationship". I couldn't understand what what wrong with American men….but now that I'm older, I get it. So I'm glad to be able to warn YOU, so you can open your eyes like I had to open mine and don't waste another second on American men. Or whatever men you are dealing with. They are NOT hetero. Find some hetero men overseas"