Friends: Question: Is my mom being fair? |
- Question: Is my mom being fair?
- Question: Why are abusive men threatened by independent women who have a place, car?
- Question: I don't know what next to do in life. Im 20.?
- Question: Is he a bully?
- Question: Im jealous that an old friend talks to my other friends so much?
- Question: I said “Shut up” jokingly to my cousin’s friend. Now, her friend is mad at me because it sounded serious to her. Should she be mad?
- Question: Should I be mad that my friend got this drunk at my party?
- Question: How do I befriend guys like this?
- Question: Cheer or dance? Which should I do?
- Question: Am I selfish?
- Question: What to do when u have no friends?
- Question: How do you tell a fellow student they're wrong without sounding arrogant?
- Question: Is it considered throwing shade if you are in a room with two or more people and you're being nice to some of them and rude to others?
- Question: Why is is ok for black people to say the n word but not ok for non-black people to say it to their friends?
- Question: What is your opinion on the meaning of this Facebook status about relationships?
- Question: Like the heck? my friend keeps leaving lettuce on the floor of our dorm.... how do I tell her to stop without being mean??
- Question: Does what I plan to do sound reasonable to you?
- Question: To people who moved out on there 18th birthday,how did you do it?
- Question: Is this protecting/looking after herself?
- Question: What to do with a friend who asks to hangout everyday?
- Question: How can you tell if a "friend" really likes you, or is just putting on an act?
- Question: Why did my guy friend bring me a coffee and some treats?
- Question: Friend lied about giving me a Xanax?
- Question: How do you avoid becoming a target for bullies?
- Question: How can a high school nerd make the haters regret hurting him?
- Question: Is it odd for friends with benefits to talk about what how they like their relationships?
- Question: When you don’t have real friends?
- Question: I been knowing my friend since 2011?
- Question: I need advice please?
- Question: Birthday help- bullying?
- Question: Who was in wrong?
- Question: Birthday help- bullying?
- Question: Is touching my friend's *** inappropriate?
- Question: Dealing with ex friends?
- Question: How to handle not being cast in a show...?
- Question: Is it odd that my friend who is 19 years old hangs out with 14/15 year olds?
- Question: What to do if your best friend ditches you??
- Question: Is it wrong to distance yourself from a friend with depression who's like an emotional leach?
- Question: Why are bullies mad at me that I left the state for college? I thought about me. It’s getting really bad. How can I approach the situation?
- Question: My best friend is a zoophilia?!?!?
- Question: Why do guys flex their jaws?
- Question: Should I get a coworker just a sympathy card or something else?
- Question: Annoying copy-cat neighbors-I mean they copy everything all of the time that I do?
- Question: Can anyone send a link of mock video I saw on twitter of doctors and a mother of anewborn making fun of kardashian baby name ex: grey couch?
- Question: Why does it seem men and their circle of friends usually make the most of their time more than women?
- Question: How do I get motivated to be more productive when everyone around me is always tired?
- Question: My friend always gives me a gift as an apology?? What do I do about it?
- Question: How to be popular in 8th grade for boys?
- Question: My friend called the cops on me and now she’s trying to “make up”?
- Question: Is she trying to instigate drama with me or could this be a harmless coincidence?
- Question: My birthday is coming up, but my friend group is splitting apart. Who should I invite?
| Question: Is my mom being fair? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 05:55 PM PST okay, so i am 14 years old. i dated someone even though my mom told me i was not allowed to date, and i knew that too, and she got all mad at me. i m not allowed to go to friends houses anymore since i "can t be trusted". she said i can t go anywhere anymore until i m 18, i apologized to her and stuff and she said she forgave me, but she still won t let me go anywhere. she thinks i m trying to be all grown just because i had a boyfriend. but i m not trying to be, i m just a typical teenager. do you think she s being fair? do you think there s anything that can convince her to let me go to friends houses and other places again? i ve tried everything. |
| Question: Why are abusive men threatened by independent women who have a place, car? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 05:20 PM PST Why are abusive men threatened by a woman who has her own apartment, car and job? |
| Question: I don't know what next to do in life. Im 20.? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 04:54 PM PST I got a full time job started a month ago. Im living with my mom. I never had a job but now i got 2k in my account . Should i just keep saving? Should i help my mom with bills? I don't what im skilled at. I don't know what to major in college. My mom got her bachelors . she's the only thing supportive in life. I got No friends. Also left the dating scene. Way too toxic. But thanks for reading. Plz reply. |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2019 03:40 PM PST He keeps trying to convince me to do the opposite what the teaches asks for on major homework assignments. He tells me not to apply for a job since they wouldn't want me cause he said my resume was no good (little did he know I already applied and got the job), and he keeps making remarks about things I say to the class as if I can't hear him. He keeps grouping with me for group projects but I hate him so much he excludes me from the group work and just makes rude commentary when I try and do my part. We are both in our last semester of college It seems like we are too old for this problem! |
| Question: Im jealous that an old friend talks to my other friends so much? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 03:34 PM PST I use to be super close with this guy, but he went away for a summer and we stopped talking. It was one of those things where if I didn t message him first we wouldn t talk. Now he talks to my two closest friends all the time and I can feel myself getting jealous. I wish he just put the same amount of effort into me when we talked. Should I cut him out of my life or should I try and become friends again? |
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| Question: Should I be mad that my friend got this drunk at my party? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 02:40 PM PST I threw a house party the other night for my friends and my friend who is 30 from South America was invited. She never really went to a house party before but she got super wasted drunk and blacked out. She had to be carried away home. I was kinda mad and dissapponted. I mean she is in graduate school and is pretty successful but this time she let loose and got this out of control. She is 30 years old. |
| Question: How do I befriend guys like this? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 02:21 PM PST I want to start hanging out with guys that go to raves, vape, etc. how do I hang out with this kind of crowd? I don't want your opinions. |
| Question: Cheer or dance? Which should I do? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 02:13 PM PST Next year I'll be a junior in high school and my counselor told me I need to become active in activities. I've always wanted to try out for the cheer team since I was little but my parents could never afford it. Since moving to Florida both my parents is wealthy enough to financially support the expensive sport. I even want to go as far as cheering in college. I admire the sport. The only problem is, I love to dance. I've been dancing literally since I came out the womb. Am I any good? no. But my dance teacher swears I have potential. The dance team at my school is very close. They have sleepovers, hang out all the time, and they consider each other family. But the cheer team talks mess about each other and they don't get along. I don't know which sport to do because although I LOVE to cheer, I don't want to be surrounded by negative energy. and although I LIKE to dance, I don't think it's something i'm passionate about. I like it but I don't love it. The dance team kids were telling me if I don't join the dance coach won't like me any more...... |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2019 02:11 PM PST I recently bought a new Gucci shirt ($650) and my "friend" who is struggling with bills called me selfish. Am I selfish? My husband and I make a steady amount of money so we can afford Gucci and other brands like that. My friend is struggling to pay rent and yelled at me saying that I should've given the money to her or to charity. Am I selfish? I don't even mean to show off but I was just wearing it around the park when I ran into her and she asked about it! |
| Question: What to do when u have no friends? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 02:05 PM PST I cut off contact with the one friend i had because i felt like he didnt appreciate me for numerous reasons but now i legit have no friends. im socially awkward and cant make friends help |
| Question: How do you tell a fellow student they're wrong without sounding arrogant? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 01:56 PM PST |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2019 12:08 PM PST Like if you're with two other people and you're being extremely warm and loving and friendly to one of those people bit cold and hateful and hostile to the other person; or you're with two other people and you're speaking and interacting with one of them and showering them with praise and compliments, but refusing to acknowledge the other person in the room and even ignoring then when they try to join the conversation; is what you're doing considered throwing shade on the person you're ignoring or being mean to, even of you're not actually speaking poorly of them the the person you're talking to and being nice to? |
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| Question: What is your opinion on the meaning of this Facebook status about relationships? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 11:43 AM PST "One day I want a long loving relationship and the next day I don't want anything to do with that mess. What am I going to do with me?" |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2019 10:50 AM PST We share a fridge and i guess it falls out when shes getting food? I wake up and I step on cold lettuce. I hate it! How do I tell her it is gross? I dont want to be mean!! |
| Question: Does what I plan to do sound reasonable to you? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 10:03 AM PST I got a call from my ex mother in law Lisa that her husband John had died and she wanted me to say a few words about him at his funeral. . I liked them both when I was married to their daughter Wanda so I willingly said yes to her request. They were both my fiends and I was sad that John had died. Lisa must of told her daughter Wanda that I was going to say a few words about her dad at the funeral. Wanda contacted me that she would be at her dad's funeral with her new husband and she did not want him to meet me of have anything to do with me. Kind of an unusual request but I was cool with it so I plan to leave immediately after I talk about her dad at the funeral so I will not meet her new husband. Does that seem like a reasonable thing to do or would it be disrespectful to Lisa to leave the funeral service so early. YOUR ADVICE PLEASE. |
| Question: To people who moved out on there 18th birthday,how did you do it? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 09:22 AM PST I haven't moved out yet, but for one of my friend she it went like this: Her parents were both dipshits. She took her passport,birth certificate,and drivers license from her mom,filled a backpack with everything that she needed. Said friend had $100 dollars to her name. Said friend stayed with one of her friends who was a few years older than her and helped her pay for things for about a month until she found a job. Said friend payed her friend back. Said friend then found a job on a cruise ship. Said friend then stayed with that same person for about a week, and then used the $15000 she saved up to hike the Appalachian trail . When she got back she still had about $6000 left, so said friend used that to make and down payment on a house(house was only $50000) and found a manegerial position at the same chain place she used to work at. Obviously she was incredibly fortunate in how she was able to save , but I'm curious, how did you do it? |
| Question: Is this protecting/looking after herself? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 09:20 AM PST My friend told me not text/message/call this guy I'm interested in ever again, I didn't ask her if I should, the guy I'm interested in didn't do anything wrong I was messaging him on Facebook while she was taking me home....she asked me who I'm messaging. Later she told me whenever we hang out to leave him out of the conversation. She told me I can't text him my location.....she has no control of that. I ask her why can't I talk about him, she told me she feels he is the main focal points in my stress and anxiety (which is NOT true at all) and she wants to avoid the subject of him. I barely talk about him to her. Her and I hardly hang out together and her and I don't really text/Facebook message each other. If we do, I don't talk about him. I feel she's protecting/looking after herself, she's jealous or she's insecure. Thoughts? She's not like this with her other friends and their interests. |
| Question: What to do with a friend who asks to hangout everyday? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 09:13 AM PST okay so I have this friend who always asks to do things every weekend.. it gets really annoying.. i get sick sometimes and he doesnt even care and tells me okay, we will go tomorrow.. and then i tell him im still sick the day after and he says.. "okay.. we will go next week.." he does not even care how i feel it is like im forced to hang out with him just because i told him i would.. he gets mad when i say i cant.. i have other friends i want to hang out with and because he always asks me before i make plans with my other friends, i can't hang out with my other friends at all.. last semseter we did not even talk for 4 months because he got mad that i kept saying that i did not want to hang out with him.. and we are in the same class this semseter so we started talking again and now he is asking to hang out every week.. im getting so tired of it.. i still want to be his friend so it does not feel so awkward but i wish he did not ask everyday if we can hang out.. this is really complicated and some may think like why can't i just stop being friends with him? well since we are in the same classes, we can help each other and still it is nice to have a friend around.. it's like if i say no, he simply just asks another person to go to places he wants.. maybe so he can post on his instagram to show off he hangs out every week.. and we always go to the same places every week.. it is so boring.. i jsut dont know how to tell him that i cant hang out with him all the time without making him mad and not talk to me again.. |
| Question: How can you tell if a "friend" really likes you, or is just putting on an act? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 08:48 AM PST |
| Question: Why did my guy friend bring me a coffee and some treats? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 08:41 AM PST This morning I had work and I went in early morning. I always tell my friend how I have a hard time eating breakfast. So, he always tends to bring me coffee and he'll sometimes make me food. He surprises me at work and will bring me breakfast and lunch. It gets the other girls so jealous and it makes him blush when I'm smiling (I figured that out after the fourth time he brought me food). Ben will compliment me on what I'm wearing and hug me. I asked why he did this once and he got so nervous and blushed and walked away. |
| Question: Friend lied about giving me a Xanax? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 08:21 AM PST So I am 31 years old I have this friend who I've known for a few years. We went on vacation together and I took a picture of her in the water with her phone and as I clicked out of her camera, her text messages popped up. In her text messages she was telling someone how annoyed she was with me (I had been worried about getting to our flight on time bc of the gov shutdown) and in her text she wrote her she wants to just tell me to shut up about the government shut down and then sent her friend a video of me when I was drinking and wrote that I was drunk. (which I wasn't and who cares if I was, I'm not a biligerant drunk by any means) and the icing on the cake was when I saw the text that said "I gave her a Xanax, nurse Sara to the rescue." SHE DIDNT EVEN GIVE ME A XANAX. I called her right out on it, she said she meant to write "offered" me a Xanax but I don't think that's true bc she wrote "nurse Sara to the rescue" after. This is so childish, she felt bad but we haven't spoken since we got home and I feel like she's a really bad friend. Why lie about something like that, it's so bizarre. What do you think? |
| Question: How do you avoid becoming a target for bullies? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 06:52 AM PST I'm a teenaged boy in high school. I'm always being picked on. I know people may say things like, "Stand up for yourself, ignore them, etc." However, how do you avoid becoming a target to begin with? How do I prevent someone going, "Oh lets mess with this guy." |
| Question: How can a high school nerd make the haters regret hurting him? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 06:42 AM PST There are a group of people since school at age 5 who have basically hated me and tried to use me whenever it suited their interests. I wanna know how to best make them regret it, especially if we met at a school reunion in twenty years time. |
| Question: Is it odd for friends with benefits to talk about what how they like their relationships? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 03:53 AM PST Initially this guy asked me to hangout with him. But I didn't instead I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. He said yes because he's always been into me. I told him I like to have space in regards to relationships. And that I knew that was probably strange and he said it's not because he's actually the same way. |
| Question: When you don’t have real friends? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 01:50 AM PST I have realized that I never really had friends, I had some good friends but after I left town with my partner and family nobody ever check up on me usually it was me calling on the to see how they were. I have one friend and I do consider her a friend but we don't talk on a regular basic we did before years back when I still live in town. I would always make the long drive to go see her. She hasn't came once and sometimes things hurt a little. I have always been a good friend the one that reaches for others but I also feel that I never got back some of that love. And i had more close friend relationship at least to me they were genuine. Has this happen to anyone? |
| Question: I been knowing my friend since 2011? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 12:57 AM PST I been knowing my friend since 2011. We were really close but things started changing recently. She can be bossy and controlling at times. So I got her a job back in 2013 in one of our medical offices. I coordinate lunches for our facility. She's the late person and usually can only take lunches if she's covering for providers or if it's needed. This particular day ahe has the option to go either 12-1 or 1-2 but she denied, she said she wanted to go to lunch later on the day. I told her okay that is fine but make sure you check with the manager because you only go to lunch late if your scheduled to cover any nurse. She said she would ask the manager. A couple minutes later I asked her did you verify with the boss to see if you can go and she said no, I'm not going to call her I'm just going to go. When she told me that I picked up the phone and ask my boss hey is it okay if she talked a late lunch and the boss said absolutely not. She then called and asked her to please choose from either 12-1 or 1-2 , my friend got so upset I called the supervisor to verify and pretty much called me a snitch. She hasn't spoken to me since December it makes it kind of akward because she talks to everyone at work but not me. Did I do something wrong by verifying with my boss if her request to go late was okay? Ive tried taking to her in many occasions and even txt her once but she doesn't reply. Should I just let her be? |
| Question: I need advice please? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 12:39 AM PST I'm in 9th grade and there have been rumors around my church that I had sex with a guy but I seriously didn't. I told everyone that I didn't but they don't believe me and it's really sad because I've been friends with them for years and now they all think I'm this slut and they won't talk to me, their talking behind my back, spreading the rumors even more, and even blocking me on social media. It really sucks because I'd go to them about everything and now there's nobody to go to. |
| Question: Birthday help- bullying? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 12:21 AM PST Hi. So I am a year or two younger than most of my friends. I usually hate this. I don't like birthdays because of it. My birthday is coming up in 8 days. All my friends are planning on getting me balloons and all of that. And I know that once people find out that its my birthday, many people will make fun of me for being such a baby. I usually don't get affected by these things but it will change the way people will see me. What do I do? To reclassify- People constantly make fun of me because I am so young. I think its dumb, but, for example, people from my previous school ruined friendships because of it, and it made everyone see me differently. I know it sounds dumb, but it really effects my relationships. Its unavoidable, but how can I play it? |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2019 12:11 AM PST Went to a braves game with two friends. We got the stand in tickets. You know, no seats so you stand and watch the game. We decided to tall in front of the restaurant to get a view. Like there is no specific place to stand. Anways we're kind of tall and blocked the people behind us. They were really rude to us telling us to get out of the way saying theyd been there for a while before. My friends didn't like it and refused and almost got into a fight with them and security had to come lol. Guy started pushing them to and all.Anyways who was technically wrong. Like i said there was no assinged place to stand you know. |
| Question: Birthday help- bullying? Posted: 03 Feb 2019 12:04 AM PST Hi. So I am a year or two younger than most of my friends. I usually hate this. I don't like birthdays because of it. My birthday is coming up in 8 days. All my friends are planning on getting me balloons and all of that. And I know that once people find out that its my birthday, many people will make fun of me for being such a baby. I usually don't get affected by these things but it will change the way people will see me. What do I do? |
| Question: Is touching my friend's *** inappropriate? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 11:34 PM PST |
| Question: Dealing with ex friends? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 11:33 PM PST While I was in college I became really good friends with two people, just to make things easier the guys name is Josh and the girls name is Jess. I have known Josh for close to six years and I knew Jess for about a year before I started developing feelings for her. She was the one who took the initiative and told me how she felt and I let her know I felt the same way, although she just wanted a fwb relationship while I wanted more. Jess lead me on and long story short we are no longer friends. Josh on the other hand, while a good friend at first started getting jealous about everything, girls, grades etc and over the past few months I have cut him off as well. He kept bringing up Jess, and how I messed things up with her plus he let me know she was seeing someone else which made it q bit harder to move on which I have now. Josh and Jess are still good friends and even after I have made it clear I dont want to be friends with either of them, Josh keeps trying to find out what I am up to and I know its because Jess told him to. I have made it clear to them I don't want to be their friends so I don't know why they can't mind their own business or what I should do in this situation |
| Question: How to handle not being cast in a show...? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 11:08 PM PST I have always been casted in this community theaters spring musicals. For the bast 4 years...and suddenly they do a disney show (i was SUPER excited for). And suddenly im not cast. All my firends did but i wasnt...im confused. I feel like im being isolated and cut out of a group that i thought i mattered in. I have had friends and confidence trouble in theater before and this was a hugle blow to my confidence and my relationship with thease people. I have tried to use my new found free tine to focus on school and work but there is only so many days work will give me and school im pretty up to date with...so not having this to do on the side is...i feel like a big part of my life is missing. My boyfriend and family bare no comfort and jsut dont understand. So i feel practically alone in feeling hurt by this. And i don't mention it around them bc they make me feel bad about being up set over this. I also feel like there is a lot of precasting/ nepotism bc the Directors boyfriend got the male lead and her two of her best friends got the sidekicks (one of thease friends isbthe owners daughter and didn't want to even do the show to begin with). Im just really up set and imngeting flash backs to a really toxic friendship from high school who made me hate theater...(this group was theaching me to love it again) and idk what to do... |
| Question: Is it odd that my friend who is 19 years old hangs out with 14/15 year olds? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 10:53 PM PST Like he hangs out and doesn't have friends his exact age |
| Question: What to do if your best friend ditches you?? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 10:13 PM PST So i had a best friend but today i got a text from her saying she wants to hangout with one of her other friends and i did not understand her message i said sorry i dont understand and she said she doesn't get the part i dont understand and was being very rude to me i know i have other friends but at the end of the day we were really good best friends and had everything in common and trusted her so much and i am so dissapointed and shocked in her actions i have no words speechless and the only thing is when i went to her house for a sleepover her parents have very good money and bought all of them large drinks and bought me a small drink that made me feel very sad when you go to someones house you treat them fairly and respectfully and also i couldnt imagine words come out of her mouth like that she was so shy nice and caring but i know i need to stay positive and also the problem was she never texted me and never called to say hi how are you any ideas what to do at school tomorrow she was my only friend i really had she knew that and then dumped me i honestly dont know anymore! :( any suggestions??? |
| Posted: 02 Feb 2019 10:07 PM PST Let's say you have a longtime friend who's diagnosed with depression. Maybe when you were teenagers you got along because you were a moody teenager too, so it felt like you were in tune, but now as an adult you're more of a free spirit while your friend is very much shackled by their depression. Your friend refuses medical advice. They won't do counseling, or will themselves to do or try anything that might help. Instead they spend nearly the entirety of their time trying to drag everyone else to their level. Everything is made to be about them, and it's like they can't acknowledge other people have feelings too. Yes, this person has a medically diagnosed disorder, and they may actively rely on the emotional support you give them, but you're tired of being in a completely one-sided friendship. You want a life of your own without being involved with someone who will not improve. You have spoken with them, but of course they take your concerns as an attack. Is it wrong to distance yourself from this friend? |
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| Question: My best friend is a zoophilia?!?!? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 09:25 PM PST Not too long ago, I went on my best friend's phone (with his consent) because I needed to delete an ugly photo of me. While I was on his phone, I went to his deleted folder and I found a video of his dog licking his penis and another video of him putting his penis inside the dog's mouth. I was totally shocked of what I just witnessed on his phone. I quickly closed the photo app and gave the phone back to him. To this day, he still does not know what I witnessed on his phone. What should I do?? ignore it or confront him about it? He's forcing the dog to do all these kinds of stuff. (BTW, we are 17, not sure if that matters) |
| Question: Why do guys flex their jaws? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 09:09 PM PST I see some of my guy friends at school do this, but I don't want to ask them why they do it. I'll be hanging out with them and if we're not saying anything or if they look like they're thinking, I'll just see them kinda stare off into space and move their jaw muscles continuously. I did try to ask one of my closer guy friends once, but he wouldn't tell me and just said that it's a guy thing; he kinda hinted that there's something to it, but didn't elaborate. I really feel like there's something about it he wasn't telling me, but I might just be overthinking it. Any ideas? |
| Question: Should I get a coworker just a sympathy card or something else? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 08:37 PM PST I have a coworker whose mom recently passed. Her and I have become pretty close and she has helped me with things, so I'm thinking that next time I go to work and see her to give her a "sorry for your loss" card. Is there anything else I should bring or would that be enough? If it matters, I'm male, but her and I are just friends nonetheless. |
| Question: Annoying copy-cat neighbors-I mean they copy everything all of the time that I do? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 08:24 PM PST Copy my plants, my garden items, my flowers. Put in a birdhouse, a few days later they have one in the front of their house-same color-same style! They even copy when I take things in if going on a trip. They drive up and down my street-see them a lot. It's a dead end street. They live in back of me. I think it's to snoop and then copy things. It bugs me; it's like why don't they think for themselves. It's like someone copying your answers on a test. I find them annoying and CREEPY too. Something's wrong-with them. I'm not flattered. Something's off. Has this happened to you? |
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| Posted: 02 Feb 2019 07:41 PM PST Guys meet up to drink beer, work on cars or play video games or start a podcast. And all the women I know or known just want to drink wine in their kitchen. It's boring! Why is it so hard to find women who want to bond and make memories with. Do you think it's true guys are better friends? |
| Question: How do I get motivated to be more productive when everyone around me is always tired? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 07:35 PM PST It has an affect on me because they say who you surround yourself with is who are or who you'll become. I like my relax time and being home bound too but not ALL the time. How do I meet more people who want to be creatively productive in their spare time? |
| Question: My friend always gives me a gift as an apology?? What do I do about it? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 07:15 PM PST My friend (current roommate) has a tendency to buy me gifts every time after we get into an argument or disagreement. For example, she doesn't wrap her pads when she's on her period, and I find that disgusting. It took me two times to tell her that she needs to wrap her pads, and when she continued to not wrap her pads, I was visibly mad/disgusted, and when I got back from class, she bought me a bracelet with a note saying, "here's my apology". She and I got into an argument and later that night we talked about the things we didn't like about each other. A few minuets later, the cops come to our dorm asking my roommate if she's ok and what was going on. She and I were just having a conversation about things we didn't like about each other - the cops were not needed for that. When I asked her why she called the cops, she said that she told her friends that we got into an argument and THEY called the cops. So, I asked her what did she tell her friends to make them think that they had to call the cops, and she said that they were just being overprotective. Anyway, she left for the weekend and left me a cupcake and a note on my desk saying, "I know a cupcake won't fix anything, but I thought you'd want one" |
| Question: How to be popular in 8th grade for boys? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 07:12 PM PST I need this. I have bad anxiety, not the best self esteem, if anyone can help I just want to be popular and have a lot of friends. Anything helps |
| Question: My friend called the cops on me and now she’s trying to “make up”? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 06:42 PM PST This is an update to the previous question** My friend, who is also my roommate, and I got into an argument yesterday afternoon. Afterwards, we went our separate ways to cool down, and later that night, we talked about the things we didn't like about each other. We were not yelling, we were not about to fight, we were just talking about the things we didn't like about each other. Ten minutes later, the police comes to our dorm, asking my roommate if she's ok, and what was going on. I was confused on why the cops were called because we weren't yelling or fighting. When I asked her about why she called the cops, she said that she told her friends what was going on and they called the cops. So, I asked her what did she tell her friends that made them think to call the police, and she never told me what she said. She just said that she didn't know that they were going to come, and that her friends were just being overprotective. However, her friends know me, so I'm very confused by all of this. She went home for the weekend and I left for the day, and when I got back to our dorm, she left a cupcake and a note on my desk saying, "I know a cupcake won't fix things, but I thought you'd want one :) " How the **** does someone call the cops on their friend, then give them a cupcake as an apology?! |
| Question: Is she trying to instigate drama with me or could this be a harmless coincidence? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 06:32 PM PST I'm a nutritionist and I work part time at a supplement store for extra income. I dated my ex for 4 yrs and we ended things amicably over 2 yrs ago. We don't speak, no drama, just moved on with our lives. We're both 33. He's now dating a 21 year old. I got several notifications on my phone that said this woman liked several of my photos on my public instagram account back in september and so I clicked on her profile which she probably expected I'd do. I saw a bunch of photos of her with my ex that said, "my lover, best boyfriend ever!" Okay so she got my attention and I wrote it off, didn't respond, didnt say anything, just thought she was immature. Now she has been coming into my work at the supplement shop and making small purchases and making it a point to tell my co-workers and any customers that will listen what her name is. She's forcing conversations and taking the lead so other people in the store will ask her questions and then she's volunteering information about herself that would hint she's dating my ex, she's saying it loudly so I'll hear. They met at work and work together. So she keeps reiterating to other people in the store where she works, what her name is, the fact that her boyfriend likes women with nice bodies so she's getting supplements etc. I know she knows who I am and that I work there part time, since she stalked me online. Now she's been coming in weekly putting on her show and I'm started to feel like she's trying to instigate. |
| Question: My birthday is coming up, but my friend group is splitting apart. Who should I invite? Posted: 02 Feb 2019 06:22 PM PST My friend group consists of four girls, including me. The three of them had a fight over text/facetime while I was sleeping. I woke up to find all of their messages and found out that two of them wanted to not be friends with the third.The third girl does have many issues, like always lying and being more talk than action. My birthday is coming up next week and now I'm not sure who to invite. If I invite all three of them, I know there will be tension. But maybe if I don't invite the third, she will get the message that we don't want to deal with her anymore. I don't know if that would be too mean or harsh, but I honestly think that she is poison. Please help me decide what to do!! I'm really sad about possibly losing a friend, but would also be relieved to not deal with any of her BS anymore. |
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