Okay so life is crappy everyone knows that but anyways I'm 13 almost 14 and my parents are very very strict and they don't like any of my friends because they are all bad kids and im not allowed to date but I am and I'm so gonna marry this dude and they just found everything out they know I'm a low-key stoner and that I have a boyfriend well they said that if I want to I can move in with my grandparents in Iowa I live in Oklahoma so that's far away and the only things keeping me here id my niece my boyfriend and my 2 bestfriends and I'm not sure if I should move or not I hate my house I'm always fighting with my mom and I'm trapped in this freaking house I hate it and I want to live with my grandparents but idk if I can leave my niece my boyfriend and my 2 bestfriends helppppp

When my sister and I were younger, about 10 and 12, we would often times sleep in the same bed together at night, due to my younger sister being deafly scared of the dark all throughout her childhood. We would talk to each other, and I'd keep her company and ensure her that there were no monsters under her bed, etc. My dad gets mad at us often, and he normally says bad things, but I remembered something that really set me off and bad me feel horrible. Like, really icky and gross. My father accused my sister and I of inappropriately touching each other, and still does whenever we are in the same room together. A thought like that has never crossed my mind, and I'm wondering why he would even think something like that in the first place. I'm honestly very, very uncomfortable around him, especially when he accuses us of things like this? It's disgusting and I'm not sure how to feel about it. Is this okay?

Now mine Dad is actually a Sociopath, and according to my aunt/his sister, he was diagnosed when he was a Teenager. Now with his condition, he gave a quite a few harm to mine Family in which we were literally almost Homeless twice all thanks for him, and he had my mom loses her job of working at a Bank in which he uses her account for her Clients' Money and stole all of them, and because of that, she would literally been arrested, and I'm not sure who do I and mine Siblings would be with as mine Dad obviously wouldn't take care of us. She ends-up divorcing him after 11-12 years being with him, and since then he been in-or-out of Jail. Now I researched levels for Sociopaths and I looked into both High-Functioning and Low-Functioning, as I looked at the Low-Functioning, and it almost clear that wheres he belongs as Low-Functioning are more the Criminal-like and Predatory types, much like my Father, but as I looked at the High-Functioning ones, they are considered highly Intelligent, now my Dad, even though my mom, who hate him due to her Experience with him, always considered him to be "Stupid", but from what I heard from my Uncle/his brother, that he was really good at Math, and I know in-fact that he Graduated High-School and attended four years of College to be a Psychiatrist until he dropped-out, now when it comes to his schemes he trends to be quite good. Now anyone tell me that is he considered High or Low Functioning?

Just curious, because I know some people whose great-grandparents died before they were even born, and others who did get to know them and grew up seeing them.

At one time my brother was not just my brother but one of my closest friends, but we had a huge falling out after the death of my mother, my wife, and my father - especially my father. Things did not go well at all between us at my father's funeral. Most of the problem, however, wasn't really me or my brother, but poor decisions my father made, and I really believe my father turned my brother against me. My brother was very abusive to me at that time. I have tried to reconcile with my brother and his family to no avail. After my wife died he just kept telling me he was busy with his family as if I wasn't his family. I decided last year to send every person in my family a nice card which I made myself (I take photos and I have them made into cards) and $20. Most of the people in my family did not acknowledge my gift nor did they thank me, but one person wrote me a nice thank you card which was very nice. They did not contact me on Thanksgiving, Christmas, or my birthday - and then after my birthday they wished me a happy birthday and then gave me lots of excuses as to why they didn't remember, and still kept going on and on about how mentally ill they thought I was. So no matter what I do or say I'm just the mentally ill person in the family. They have no respect for me, I am just an afterthought to them, they view me and treat me like a piece of trash. I'm the black sheep. I am considering cutting off communication with them, am I over-reacting?

So whenever I'm around my dad I get supper bad anxiety and I get a supper short temper and I get aggressive. I try not to but it's seriously an intense feeling and I don't no why. I feel so uncomfortable around him. I'm a 21 year old male by the way

Im 27 and I'm in grad school with half a year left to I graduate. I got $2000 in savings and $4000 in available credit. I could move but there's no good jobs available which is making me concern on moving. I mean there's restaurants but they can't sustain me. I'm embarrassed to tell folks I stay at home. I'm even embarrass to date.

She is constantly yellong at me an dmy friend s and she doesnt yell at any other stude nts. She only yells at us. SHE YELLED AT US FOR AN ORANGE! There is kids who vape amd do a bunch of other things (throw dictionaries, play very loud music, make sex jokes, throw chairs, make out etc) she even moved someone out of the class because her boyfriend was in the class. She just yelled at someone for plugging in their phone. WTF!? There is kids who threaten her and she yells at us for an ORANGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She yelled at us for not doing our FINISHED WORK! IM SORRY WERE BETTER THAN EVERYONE ELSE! What do we do!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

So last week he was printing out assignments and I dont even use my phone often at school so while I waited for him to give out classwork I was on my phone he suddenly walks up to me tells me to put my phone up and take my earplugs out (he is strict asf) I listened to him then next thing I knew I had fallen asleep then he calls an administrator and I end up getting detention for 2 blocks then they call my mom and tell her I'm not doing any work and keep playing games on my phone so she wont believe what I say so now I cant take my phone to school anymore (I'm 18 and a senior btw) so today I was really tired bc I had to work late last night and I had to walk home he tells me to wake up I wake up then I get drowsy as soon as my head drops he calls an administrator (I was unable to detect him bc of my drowsiness) so I end up getting detention for the rest of the day and they called my mom again how do I explain this to my mom I really want to kick the teacher's *** rn Sunufa batch stop stalking me ****** and getalife!

Why are some people born so privileged? My cousin was born with good looks, everyone says how pretty she is, she also has the better looking siblings and parents, along with the rich parents, big house, she's popular. Me? I always get called ugly, I have unattractive parents and siblings, were the ones with hardly any money, I have no friends.

My sister has really bad asthma and health issues she hates snow unless it's 30 or 40 degrees to where she can play outside she hates it. She thinks everyone can play out in the snow but her. Last week we had a snow day all her friends even our cousin let their kid go out in the snow. When they show cartoons of animals or kids playing in the snow even in fidget degree temperatures it offends her. She can't even go out with her friend to walk her dog as long as it's 5 or 10 minutes her friend lives in a villlage so it takes her about 10 minutes to walk the dog around town she's going over there tonight so she feels bad about it. She said it's not fair everyone can be out on a snow day but her. She really hates winter she wishes snow or cold didn't effect her asthma. How can I help her feel better ?

I'm trying to go back to college. I need 5K to pay for the next fall semester. I won't be able to afford it because my mom keeps asking me for rent money. I'm also trying to save for a place of my own. How can I afford to move out, get a car, and go to school to better my life if she keeps asking me for my money???

I am 20 years old. I have autism. My mom yells at me and she tells me that I behave like a 5 year old. I read and write too slowly and my mom blames me for that. She tells me that she does not want me anymore. I am very sad. My dad died when I was 4. I am very alone. I have some friends but I only see them once a week at the autism school. Why does my mom hate me?

I have been so busy with school and my life my brother is blaming me for him failing accounting.. I told him, I'm not going to teach u the material I will help u on some of your homework.. he had only answered two out of 12 questions.. I told him I'm not doing your homework for you!! Have you tried at all? His response: i have I just don't know how to do it.. can you show me?.. b.s. he doesn't even study at all! I would quiz him and ask him give me an example of an asset and his response was "um.. idk" It's been four weeks!! He still doesn't know what a liability is!! He works all night and sleeps all day.. I have been asking him the past four weeks have you been studying? He was like.. yeah I'll get to it.. now he is being ugly with me because he didn't study.. what should I do??? How is it my fault he is not doing well?

I m 17. My dad changed the doorknob on my room and locked me out because it s dirty. I can t deny that it s dirty, but it feels weird to me that he locked me out. If I convince him, I can go in to grab clothes, but I sleep on the couch and get dressed in the bathroom. I m just wondering if this is a problem, I guess? My dad has a history of mistreating me and I m worried that this fits into that category.

I'm 32 years old, and I live with two of my dads sisters, in my dads house. He doesn't live here anymore, and I've been renting the rooms out for 2 years. One of my aunts, aunt N was asking me about her missing coffee cups. My room was clean, so I said I would check my aunt S's room. I went into my aunt S's room to look for coffee cups, and found none. My aunt N told aunt S I went into her room, and aunt S told me she wanted to talk to me and she didn't want to say anything that would ruin our relationship for ever, but instead she proceeded to ask me why the f*** I would go into her room, and she went on about privacy, and kept using the f word at me, and so on then she told me she would be moving out next month, because she has no where to go right now.....she has told me she was going to move out before, for other reasons. I'm trying to understand why she is so angry about it.....she said she wasn't a child and I didn't need to clean her room, and I guess I just don't understand because if someone was looking for something, and they thought they'd left it in my room, and they went into check, I wouldn't really have a huge problem with it......I just don't really care about stuff like that, but for her it was a huge deal, and she is mad at me, so I'd like to hear some responses from people who understand why she would be mad about this, but please be kind, I really would like to understand so I don't have to go through this again with anyone else. Thank you so much!

She told me I had a new half brother when he was born ten years ago and then broke contact with me. Should I reach out to her now, or cut it as a loss? She lives in another country now.

I just, REALLY hate it. I want to be 18 so badly so I can do my own thing. I hate being controlled by my narcissistic father and my mom who still treats me like I'm 10 who feels like she needs to make my decisions for me. I won't be 18 for another 8 months and time has been dragging by. I'm trying to save up as much as possible so I can move out at 18 and get my own apartment with my best friend since 3rd grade. I hate being so close to adulthood and still being treated like a child who can't decide for himself. How do I make time go faster?

First of all, i love my mom and I'm not just trying to talk trash, but she really stresses me out. Usually she's pretty nice and mostly like a normal mother, but she can snap from perfectly happy to raging in just one bad move. She also is an immigrant who had a divorce from my father when i was 4. And last year she found out that I was gay. Could any of these things contribute to her tendencies and how should I deal with it. She is honestly my main source of stress.

My mother and I were going to lunch with my 25 year old brother who surpasses me by 5 years. When we were headed to the car, my brother asked where the keys were, and my mother said, "Up your butt. Turn around so I can look." My brother seemed weirded out and was like, "Noo, that's alright." Few minutes after getting in to the car, my brother jokingly said, "Okay, if you really want to look, just don't make physical contact." He twisted onto his side, as if he were to show his butt, but then sat back down and said, "No, that's just weird." Do families make these jokes a lot or is this uncommon?

My brother came out as transgender so he's now a female so he's my sister now I guess I'm so confused. Also I don't like what he's doing to himself I don't know why he's doing this. I'm not comfortable with tit I'm his big brother I'm kind of in charge of him since our parents don't seem to care. I'm afraid he's gonna end up hurting himself or someone else if he does this. What should I do about him ? Why is he doing this also is he now my sister or still my brother ?

I m living with a toxic family and they refuse to change and keep trying to kick me out. I m 18 so it s not like they have to watch what they say or get reported for child abuse bc of my age . Yesterday my dad told me he wouldn t care if I died bc I m an asshole what only thinks about myself . I asked him to take me to the hospital but he refused to pay the bill .I m ****** and suicidal ASF and have no options it seems like .I m talking to my therapist Tuesday but I don t know if I ll last that long in this environment . Everyday my dad has to argue about something and tell me how worthless I am and living with a brother in the house that molested me is a whole other fuckinf problem. Someone pls help .I cant move out bc I m broke with no Jon due to my mental illnesses .

My mom, brother and sister. My dad died 5 months ago of dementia. I blame her and my aunts(dad's sisters) for always gossiping and saying negative things. My dad always used to take medicine and drink alcohol. But it's also stress and anxiety is also genetics to so the negative thing she been doing can be a boost up for mind torture. we were little, now we understand who is really wrong. We are studying, how can we even get a house. we are stuck here until we are done

Ok, so, My girlfriend is 18 years old, and lives wth her psychopath mother. I had started to wonder about her mother's mental health when shortly after her 18th birthday, their waterheater broke, and her mom told everyone in their house that she wouldn't pay a plumber to come fix it until the whole house was clean. Turns out she's a pack rat and won't get rid of or let anyone get rid of the ridiculous amount of **** in their house. It's been 5 months since they've had running water. She also won't let her do any schoolwork, (She's homeschooled), and bitches when it doesn't get done. She's become physically violent at times, but I can't call CPS because my girlfriend is the youngest at 18 years old. Her mother also won't let her work for more than 2 days a week, and I'm all but certain it's so she won't have enough money to move out. She also won't let my girlfriend drive, or take her to the dmv, and she can't stay with friends. Her mother won't give her a phone, so me and her communicate unbeknownst to her via Instagram DMs. She even takes some of my girlfriends hard earned money from her job, for menial ****. She lives 4 hours away from me, so I can't do anything myself, because I also can't drive, yet. TL;DR, my girlfriends psychotic mother won't let her move out.