She said I clean up really nice and she's interested in hanging out with me.

I just graduated college, and I realize that I have no real friends now. I pretty much unintentionally abandoned all of my friends while I was in school because I was always studying in order to graduate with a 4.0 grade average. The few friends that I made while I was in college were from out of state, so now they have moved back home. I will start working in July, but most of the people I will be working with are older, so it will be difficult to actually go out with them. What are some things I can do in order to meet new people?

I just moved to the most boring city in North Carolina. And I left all my friends behind in New Jersey. Now it's summer time and everyone already made there new friends. I want the last summer of my teens to be fun. But as an adult they don't have any sports or clubs to join. And I can't go to my local bar because I'm too young (doesn't make sense because I'm considered an adult). And since it's summer I'm not in college. I just want to find friends and something to do. While I'm here

My friend lets say Josh is very rude. We met in 3rd grade and ever since we've been good friends. However, ever since 5-6th grade he's been an asshole. We usually play fortnite together and he likes to say that I play too much and need a life. (Which I already have since I play sports.) He thinks he has more of a life than me because he does CHORES outside. It gets really annoying. Now my other friend, lets say Jared, also is his friend and mine too. I usually like playing with Jared because he is nicer and more chill. However, whenever they are both together, Josh usually takes over and starts making mean jokes that add up over and over. With that being said, I get very frustrated and start making comebacks (his roasts are very bad). Then they both start getting mad at ME when I'm not the one that started it. Josh never has a good point when he argues with me. I really wish Josh wasn't even in my friend group, but I can't stop being friends because if I do that Jared will stop being friends with me too. I tried talking to Josh about it, and he always says something like "hah, well thats too bad loser just get over". That's a bit of a stretch but still, he never stops. I'm moving schools so now online he'll just talk all the trash he wants since we're not face to face. He thinks he is the most popular, and coolest kid. He doesn't play sports btw

One time I've seen an old school acquaintance of mine at a department store and wanted to catch up with her, unfortunately she angrily told me she was in a hurry and storms off, I've just shrugged it off because I was under the impression that maybe she was just having a bad day. Then a year later I've seen her again with another friend of hers and I've wanted to catch up with my acquaintance, while I was talking to her out of nowhere a department store employee went up to me and told me I need to stop bothering my acquaintance and that she'd like for me to leave her alone, I've asked her acquaintance if I could finish the conversation, she said no and that I'd better get going, she was totally smiling at me when she'd seen me get humiliated, hurt and embarrassed out in public. I don't know what I did wrong that caused her to act this way towards me because I've had always tried being nice and respectful towards her.

So I am an 18 year old guy who's a senior at school and there's this 15 year old kid who is constantly texting Me. It started when he would make fake Instagram accounts and keep requesting to follow me as other people impersonating other people. He even made a duplicate account of me and every time I blocked he would make more accounts. Then somehow he acquired my number and email and keeps texting me saying he wants to be friends and every time I block he makes more emails and numbers to contact me. I can't take it anymore and he's contacing me everywhere. Is there anything the police can do? I should add I have never met him besides seeing him once in the hallway

I don't have any real friends, and my best friend from high school dropped off the face of the earth 4 years ago. How can I stop feeling lonely (because no-one understands me / I never found that person who I can be my complete self around) and I feel like I am alone.

My friend always complained about my crush and I not being Facebook friends, which doesn't bother me, she told me if he was interested in me we would be Facebook friends. Her and I fight about him a lot which I don't understand because she never met him. She told me she feels someone else is more worthy of my love but she doesn't have a right to tell me how to run my love life. But on the other hand she says he might be the right guy for me. So I thought it would be a good idea if she sends him an add on Facebook, he accepted it 2 months later. He knows of her and knows we are friends. He only accepts people who he knows and he doesn't know her in person. I was excited when he accepted it, she knew how excited I was, I told her see that's a good sign. She told me way to stay positive. I thought we would finally stopped fighting over him but she fought with me over the same thing. Every time I told her he is interested in being Facebook friends with my friends she disagreed with it and turn it in a negative. She told me he accepted it for a different reason (which is the stupidest reason). Every positive thing I said about him she disagreed with it and turn it in a negative. She told me her and I text and we are Facebook friends so she must want me around. But when I told her he's interested in/wanting her around because they are Facebook friends she disagreed with it. She disagreed what she told me. So I feel she lead me on.

My friend of 10 years began officially dating me for a week. I began to really fall for my friend. And then he began to ignore me a little and then ghosted me on my birthday all together. Since then i havent heard of him. I always thought we had a great friendship. I suppose if you knew our history you'd say he's a loser. Here are some bullet points. He lost his job because he lied. He's gone through 2 divorces. Had a one night stand with my sister. His mom kicked me out during one visit because at the time he introduced me to his live in girlfriend who was mooching off his family and i suppose was jealous. He lives with his mom at age 43. I justified all of this because nobody is perfect and deep down I thought he was a good guy after all.

So I have a friend in a dilemma and I m really scared for her and don t know what to do. She is in a musical group and is such a sweet person And would never want to hurt anybody. She has worked her tail off to land a bunch of amazing competitive internships that she most definitely deserves. Recently, someone has been anonymously been emailing all of her different places of work telling the companies that she sexually harasses and abused people at work and that they should fire her. Knowing her and having talked to her about this scenario, I know full heartedly that this isn t true. The person is continuing to spread the word around the music scene that she is in as well to avoid her from booking certain venues and such but smack talking her and spreading these rumors. I am wondering what she should do next. I know it s not my business, but this whole situation is just killing her inside and she feels absolutely humiliated and we can t find out who the person is. Do we file a police report? I truly don t know but I just want this scenario to be over so she can move on. Thanks.

I have this friend who is about five years older than me and when I first met her I was going through a difficult time. She seemed to always want to be around me when I was in a bad place and I was getting over a bad stage of my life regarding abusive relationships. She gave me lots of support. Since then, I have found her to be very controlling and extremely judgemental of my life decisions. According to her I can never do anything right. Four years later and I have got into a happy stable relationship. Since I have been in the relationship she has wanted to see me and has told me that I have got 'everything wrong' in the relationship and she told me to not be too disappointed if it doesn't work out, because I am so young. She never told me congratulations or expressed any happiness for me in the relationship, instead she has criticised everything I've done in it and has made me doubt my relationship. The strange thing is, she is always viewing my posts of me and my boyfriend on social media, and she has never supported or liked my posts and as soon as she has viewed them, she sends me a message asking me to meet up. Why does my friend always criticise my life decisions and is never happy for my relationship with my boyfriend?

One of my dental school friends just went for a one year advanced education in general dentistry in New York and posted a photo of her in a broadway show. I messaged her : "have fun jay walking in NYC😎 we bet you will miss SoCal in less than a month😁😁". And she blocked me!!! I never thought NYvsCA could get this far..... but seriously why?

This happened a while ago and I havent been thinking about it this whole time, but something triggered it and I still feel bad about it. I remember finding out about it just because I was creeping on her VSCO. She never made a post about it like a lot of people do ( not that you have to do that) so I didn't know her dad died until I found a subtle hint about it on her vsco. That I do not check often at all. I knew her dad had been sick but I didn't know anything else. She never discussed it when we were better friends. We started growing apart so at that time I had little to no contact with her. I found out about his passing when it was already a bit late for me to say something. And I found out by accident. If it wasn't for me deciding to creep on her vsco I would have never found out. I feel like an asshole. I can't do anything about it now but idk what are your thoughts on this? How would you feel if you were the girl and someone you grew apart from didn't reach out when your dad died?

My and ex and I broke up in January because he was extremely disrespectful towards me in front of his friends. I haven't spoken to him since even though he did text apologize. I just didn't respond. However, we have a ton of mutual friends. Most of them he met through me as he only move into town 3 years ago. My friends feel award because whenever we hang out in a group I chose to not speak to him. Which has been fine but my friends are forcing her to at least be cordial and I'm just not ready for that. I know that speaking will lead to conversations about other things that will compromise us both. I can tell because we still look at each other from across the room. Am I wrong to not want any communication with him what so ever? Sorry for the typo. I'm a woman and he is a man

I'm back from college and I reunited w/my old friend group from high school so we could catch up and relax together. One of them that I've known for seven years, since middle school, is Kaylee. She's an artistic, outgoing girl. Easily recognizable thanks to her perpetually blue hair and her massively huge boobs. Even she knows it. She and I have never dated or wanted to before, but always been cordial. A bunch of us were at the pool, Kaylee and a few others were smoking weed, and later like four of us were in the hot tub until the others went inside, and Kaylee and I were alone. She was super stoned but I was sober. She started cuddling me since she gets very affectionate when she's high, and I reciprocated. Since we were alone and she looked hot I decided what the hell, make a move. I tried kissing her neck which she seemed to enjoy, and we ended up making out for a while, till I took off her bikini top and felt her up, before sucking her nipples. She seemed disoriented the whole time but she was like flushed and moaning. I led her out of the tub to behind the house and she seemed really out of it but she ended up sucking me off. Once that was over she seemed really tired so we went inside, no one knew what happened. Kaylee passed out later, but the next day she texted me to apologize, saying she hoped that she didn't make things weird, and I reassured her. What do you think? Did I molest or take advantage of her? Or was it just a summer hookup between friends?

Hey guys. Since I'm pretty sure many of you have experienced something similar to this, I thought I would seek out some opinions. I'd do anything for my best friend. I try to do everything I can to make her happy, even if it's little things. She, on the other hand, is very apathetic. The friendship feels very one sided, and I feel that if I wasn't the one initiating dialogue it won't happen. I know what you're thinking, no, I'm not clingy and overdramatic in our friendship. I'm not showy about the things I do for her, I just get frustrated when I care so much and she doesn't seem to care at all. For those who have experienced something like this, what is the best course of action? Thanks guys

o I'm a female who has just split up with her boyfriend. My best friend who is male is very close to me but said something confusing. He said we could keep our friendship natural and see what happens in the future. He's supported me dating again and we respect each other as friends. He was so supportive when I needed it but the other day he asked 'will you be happy for me if I marry oneday?' I said yes happy for you but also a bit sad because I wanna marry oneday too and it's not happened yet. He then said that's bullsh@t, I wouldn't be happy because our friendship would be gone. He said his future wife wouldn't accept a female friend. I was shocked. Why this response !

I'm a girl and I'm 14. I play on the ps4 and I've made some cool friends on there. I like making friends and just playing games without it being weird. But sometimes guys would ask if I was a girl and I would say yes nd then they would talk sexual to me. They could be like 30 years old and they would talk to a 14 year old like that. It's really disturbing. I learned to just lie about being a guy because my voice sounds young and I guess I can pass as a guy. I made a friend, he's 11 and he's a good friend. But he thinks I am a boy and it's starting to get complicated with him asking my name and I don't want to lie about a guy name I just wanted to stay ps4 friends. And not involve real life stuff. His brother thinks I am "gay" because my voice sounds feminine, it's a little funny. Should I just come clean? I've known him for a year and I feel bad for lying but I know that it's less complicated when they think I am a guy. That way I don't have little kids hitting on me and making weird. If they think I am a guy they can just be cool. Is it weird that I lied?

it seemed pretty innocent at the time, because i had been upset and i thought that was his way of comforting me. but i dont see him saying that to any of my male coworkers.

I'm noticing that In the three little circles there are three people, one of them Is a friend I barely talk to, one is my ex and the other is a guy that I'm currently talking to and they are on my three when I pull the views down, can anyone explain what this means??

(Texting, hanging at her house, going to Disney, sleepovers---we spend a lot of time together) and I ve let myself get really comfortable.Our usual hangout is about at LEAST once a week and I usually spend the night 1-2 nights. I have never been this bestie with someone but anywho her little sister is on Summer break from college and now stays with her and ever since things have been different. I mean, I figured since it s her sister and they are very close with one another that of course they d wanna spend time together I get that totally and encourage it but it just seems like the whole dynamic of our friendship has changed since she has been staying with her. Her entire schedule depends on her sister, our weekly hangouts are inconsistent and little to no sleepovers are happening since her sister is with her (I did have one sleepover but it was very uncomfortable as she only has 1 bed and three people). And also, she was my Disney buddy meaning I got an annual pass to go with her and now that she has her sister, she doesn t even go to Disneyland with me anymore or ask if I would like to come with when they go. I don t know...I guess I just feel like I got really close and comfortable with 1 person and I got booted from best friend to third wheel friend and that just makes me super sad. Am I overreacting or should think about it a different way than I m thinking it?

I went to Paris for my birthday and paid for my best friend ticket and mine.Her ticket was 800 dollars. She paid for the hotel and it was 900 dollars. She told me when her birthday comes around she would pay for the whole trip because I paid for her to go Paris. Anyways Now it's her birthday and she wants to go to Vegas. She doesn't make a lot of money as a stripper so I paid for my own ticket. the hotel came up to 600 dollars and we are splitting it between 3 girls. I feel like I should only have to pay 100 dollars towards the hotel because when it was my birthday I paid for her ticket and never asked for the money back. Her argument is the fact that I make way more money than her. Am I being petty