I am 38 years old woman. I have one son 16 years old. My son was diagnosed with severe autism 4 years ago and epilepsy a year ago. Soon after that husband of 13 years left. I have master degree in mathematics and work as investment banker in Singapore. Since I have left my job n decided to move back home Canada to get more help with my son in terms of health care. I have two older sisters 43,41 years old and they never worked in their life, my brother 39 never worked too and they r all married to men who don't work. When I went to Toronto, I told my mom I will stay with her few weeks till I find place to rent. My mother was very aggressive with my son and she doesn't even say hello to him whole day, whenever my sisters kids visit she's happy talking to them. One of my so called sister started screaming at me out of nowhere, she said look at ur son how he is disabled it is all because of u, u might be investment banker but I am better parent than u because my kids are not disabled. My mother said the same and started screaming at me, they both called me Whore and call girl. From what I have gathered they see I am in need of them and their true colors has come out. I called a taxi, booked a hotel and left with my son. Practically I'm homeless now looking for place to rent. The neurologist doctor said my son shouldn't eat outside food. Life is really tough right now.

First, she looks like me. But skinnier and older looking, but she is two yrs younger. She's been married twice, but has 5 kids. She texts my husband about work related stuff....but She texts about him taking her hunting. He has changed his work hours to early 6 am....amd that's when she is there. She wants him to take her hunting before work, and she has bought herself a dirt bike, so she can go riding with my husband...and apparently his friends. My husband is into dirt bikes. As much as she texts and calls my hair and, usually right after he leaves work, so I don't see or hear what she says. It's every day. She is married. I'm not sure what's going on, Ove given you what I know, but it upsets me that my husband is mean to me when I question why she is doing these things. Apparently she wants to meet me, and wants to double date with her husband...but this seems like a cover up....to get their spouses off their back. I'm really upset. She calls and texts my husband, to meet up before work for hunting, when it seems an aliby to hooking up bioreactor work since nobody is there at that time, amd she calls my husband right after work every day, amd on work hours....she also texts him all the time....and says things like she wants to go "hunting" and dirt bike riding on weekends....even though she is not a rider. She bought herself a bike, amd wants to know my husbands opinion...he tells her to be safe, amd to rode the bike first. She's not a rider My husband is being mean to me, amd defending this woman's actions. I'm so hurt, amd he doesn't care. Sorry for the typos, autocorrect isn't my friend I think she is looking for real reasons to spend time with my husband...and I'm upset. He keeps calling me all kinds of names, because I do t like what I'm seeing. I'm attractive, more than her....but he must be bored with me to take her sneaky side. I'm really unhappy right now...he says h hates me, amd that I'm crazy. I'm just crying bcause we have had issues in the past about his character and morals, and I'm loving out off state and have nobody to talk to. Everybody is mad at me for putting up with him. I'm mad at myself right now and I can't stop crying. We have two children, one who is disabled.

26 married for 3 years been together for 8 years & I don't feel the same way about my husband. He always complain about me not showing him any love or not having sex. He gets mad if I'm on my phone but he will play the video game for hours and hours & I don't complain not once. My husband has lied to me & hurt me by communicating with other women in a sexual way. He even had a women to come meet him at his job. The connection is not there for me anymore. I know the vows say for better or for worse & that's why I'm still here trying to hang on. One part of me wants to be single and live life and another part of me wants to not give up. I'm just confused. He always plays the victim everything is always my fault, he always says he wants the old me back but how can i do that when all he do is lie. He's lied and flirted with other woman so much that i don't even care anymore, it doesn't even hurt my feelings. Guess im numb to the pain. Just need some advice. Thanks