Mentally she's not herself...actually physically too because she went from about 150 pounds to 102 pounds... she wont eat won't talk to me I feel like it's my fault but every time I say that she gets upset saying it hurts her when I say that because I didn't do anything wrong She just watches tv or goes out shopping she spent $800 on clothes just last week and that's not my wife where is my wife I told her see a doctor she won't go she said it won t help . She still goes to work but she says it feels like a distraction until her mind isn't busy then she feels nothing..she stopped saying she loves me.. What did I do wrong where did I go wrong I injured my back for 2 months she had to make me dinner I couldn't move much at all I thanked her always tho was it that oh it's my fault isn't it now our kids will hate me mommy is messed up because I couldn't make dinner my stupid back I wish I never Injured it oh please someone anyone tell her I love her she won't say it to me she barely speaks to me wont smile not even at our kids

we've dated for 6 months and then we got married because we thought we were made for each other. However after moving in i'm learning all these new things about him. Such as he's a slob, He has communication issues and likes to do his "own thing" He leaves messes for me to cleanup he thinks I overstress about messes so he he thinks by leaving messes I will eventually grow tired of cleaning and just "learn to relax" Its not anything messy freaks me out :( I had a "vacation" with my mother to relax and i noticed I really enjoy being away from him...TOO much. It felt like i was single again and enjoying life. I told this to my mom and she said its not normal for "newly weds" to enjoy being away from each other a lot. What do I do? How can I fix my marriage? We also had date night last night after coming back and i noticed we just sat in silence the whole time. We didn't talk about much.

I have a guy friend who is married. He and his wife have been together a good 15 years. They have young kids together and they didn't even have their first until they were together a few years. She was his second girlfriend in his whole life. I know they're happily married and love each other and make a great team, but I don't get the impression they're IN love. They always refer to each other as each other's "best friend". I've never seen them hug, kiss, hold hands. I've only seen them exchange "Love you" once. I've been to lunch with them a few times and they don't typically sit next to each other or even across from each other. We go to the same church and she often doesn't go to service with him so he's by himself, which I guess doesn't seem to bother him. When she does attend, he'll occasionally have his arm around her, but that's the most affection I've really seen between them. Even when them and some others are standing together, they won't be standing next to each other. The body language between them is just way off. On the flip side, he's been rather flirty with me for a while...mainly just him teasing me about stuff. He's very sweet to me and when we all go out to eat together, he sits close to me. There has been some definite sexual tension there, but we would both never act on it. I would never have an affair with him, I care about his family too much. I just find it weird that they don't appear IN love. He's never hugged me or TOLD me he loves me (as a friend), so it is very possible he might not be all that affectionate in general. I don't know about her, but I don't know how I'd deal with that. There was a time I wasn't very fond of my friend and I'd joke with others about how I wanted to ask his wife how she puts up with him and somebody said they don't spend much time together honestly. Can two people be best friends and married and have kids together, but not be IN love?

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. The first 5 years were spent with both of us attending college and everything was great. However, after I graduated I moved back with my parents to our hometown. So there was one year where we were long distance. He then graduated and found a job in our hometown and also moved back with his parents. So, we now live only 15 minutes away but we don't have too much time to spend together since we both work full time jobs and are pretty exhausted when we get off of work. So we both want to move out. However, the problem lies here. He wants to move in prior to an engagement because he said he wants to save up for that. The problem is I still feel pretty strongly about being at least engaged before moving in. My reasons include my faith, family values, as well as statistics on those who live together before getting engaged/marriage. To his credit, he has said that he wants to get married and have kids etc., but when he's ready. But to me I feel that if he can say he wants to marry me and have kids in the future, then he shouldn't need to "test the waters" I'm not sure if I'm being unreasonable. Should I compromise my beliefs, and just move out and hope he proposes?

3 months ago, she lost her child. She recovered pretty well physically, but mentally, I can tell she's no longer the same. She doesn't enjoy things she used to enjoy. I tried to cheer her up, but no use. I feel this is out of my hands.

I'm paying child support, her insurance, the cell phone bill, car payments on a car she totaled as well as another vehicle for her. I feel she chose to have the kids full time and I'm paying for everything it should be her responsibility to transport them to the Dr and to come see me on the weekends. Keep in mind she chose to go live in another state with another man..."just friends"..because she is poly and I am not.

He's been gone a year now..its like he's died. I don't know why or what to tell our children. He was never ever like this not even close. I knew him 10 years he was always so kind, easy going, health conscious He started acting not like himself actually whacky for about 8 months...he started doing odd things like waking up at 4 am to go jogging before work without telling me for a week...hyperventalating when i didn't agree with him about something trivial and cried when his cousin beat him at a board game when he's 25 years old...alao cried at work and I had to pick him up Then he bought a new car when he just got the past one 3 years ago and it was working fine... Then he up and left us and moved into an apartment by himself. Gained about 35 pounds too. Like he used to go to the gym last photos I saw last month of him and his brother he was a lot bigger with a very large beer belly when he used to have an athletic build..his hair was a mess too. I don't know where my husband is...or who stole his mind. He is a pediatrician and normally so very sweet , mature and this is like someone possessed him

Me and my husband first met in college, I was an exchange student and we started dating. I ended up getting pregnant and we got married, but I had a lot of pregnancy complications and I had a miscarriage months later. We stayed married anyway, because we love each other, and this was our main motivation to get married besides the pregnancy. All of this happened 6 years ago, and since then I've been taking a lot more care of myself to not get pregnant again, and we didn't talk about having kinds until now. He really wants me to get pregnant, and so does his family and mine. I finished college, I work, and now I'm studying to get a master's degree. I absolutely love my husband but I'm not thinking about having kids for now or anytime soon, I've been focusing on my career. I believe that someday the right time to become a mom will come, the first time that I got pregnant everything happened so fast and so unplanned, I was so scared, and I'm a foreigner, so I didn't even have my family close to me to give me emotional support. Now I want everything to be perfect, including the perfect time. My husband still insists in the subject, but I know he'll respect my decision. The problem is that his family and mine have been very judgmental about this, they say that I'm selfish and that I'm only thinking about myself, and they talk about it all the time. Am I being selfish for this? Btw, we're both 26

This guy I have a crush on told us back in the beginning of the month that his ex got with someone else and how he loved her he was with her for 5years they and she didn't like his family all these things, then I felt like he liked me cause the few times I saw him he would hug me hello goodbye and he would try to be near me I knew who he is but I had to go home witch is an hour away he and I follow on social media. And we never got a chance to introduce ourselves this time I saw him again he was with a new girl and it's been 2 months since the last time I saw him and he mentioned the ex this time he would avoid me and looked sad when he looked at me. the girl would just hug him kiss him in front of everyone and she would put her legs on top of his he would smile at her and then he would look at me and would look down or was very serious and looked sad and he would turn to her and would "smile" my cousin said he is always bringing up the ex. Or comparing himself to the his ex new boyfriend.

I moved 13 hours from home for a job and purchased a townhouse. The job I had only lasted from April - July when the company went bankrupt. I found another job a few weeks later. It was a temporary job but I wasn't told how long it would last. Unfortunately, it only lasted until December. Since December I've been struggling to find work. I took a job in March that lasted a month before I was fired for something I had ABSOLUTELY nothing and I mean NOTHING to do with. I live in a resort town and there's NOTHING in my field here I happened to get VERY lucky with those other 2 jobs I had found. For the past 3 months I've felt awful. I cry almost daily for no reason, I feel completely alone. Even when something positive is happening I'm STILL depressed. I've become EXTREMELY clingy with my bf to the point he feels like I'm suffocating him. I have very few other friends here so I spend a majority of my time alone in my house. I put in an application to volunteer at the airport and the women laughed at me and told me I was much too young to be volunteering. I've been spending a lot of money flying back and fourth to home and I'm just MISERABLE! I've ALWAYS been very independent and on my own. Now, I feel like I can't be alone for more then an hour. I don't know what's wrong with me!!! ANY ADVICE?!?

Not trying to offend anyone, just trying to get a deeper understanding of how people justify it and deal with it in their mind and continue with life.

I just don't get why people are married if they don't want to have kids. What's the point? Why not just stay single?

He is my husband mine. He used to love me and made me feel like a goddess but I used to reject him we are 7 years apart I knew him since I was 17 he was 24 and I rejected him I left and we saw each other again in the time we were apart I realised what he meant to me and how is better than all the other aholes while the traitor was winth another woman and he rejected me at a party I took him outside when he was drunk and I ended having our beautiful 5 year old daughter our parents forced him to marry me he embarrassed me at the wedding when he rejected my kiss and everyone laughed. Now I am 26 he is a complete ahole to me he never touches me he treats me like ******* garbage he says he only married me because he was forced to it and this past weekend he found out that the woman he is with is getting married he hasn't spoken to me since and sleeps in the sofa or with our daughter who he really loves. She said Monday he looked like he wanted to cry since then he has come home drunk everynight and even then he is ignoring me he passes out on the couch that is the only time I can touch him he looks so miserable and angry like when I would have rejected him but sexy af i start to touch his chest his arms and would bite his nipples neck and kiss his lips why can I only have him when he is like this? He has no right to treat me like this i am his wife. Why is he so cruel?

My wife is very attractive, she has bigger boobs and I have fun watching them shake when we both have sex. She argues that I am obsessed and that I should get myself checked, am I really having serious problem because I ask her to repeat sex in one day ..