So I recently started college a month ago. I made 5 new FEMALE friends. Today, my friend came in class with a pair of earrings. She informed me that she had stolen 2 pairs from work and thought about me, so she brought me a pair! I thought they were pretty so I gave her a shout out on snap chat! MY BOYFRIEND was sooooooo upset! He said "I don't want anyone buying you things except for me. Those cheap earrings are stolen. If you needed earrings just tell me, I would've gotten you a pair of REAL earrings! Don't wear those!" My man is a soldier in the army & he buys me things and takes me shopping all the time. He also said, "I bought you expensive jewelry and you never gave me a shout out on snap chat.. why are you so proud of the fake jewelry she bought you?" What's his problem? And does he have a right to be upset?

In the old school, I went to. This was when I was around 12 So one day some girl was making fun of how I speak and I ended up pulling her hair two times. And then people kept telling me to go on even tho I didn't feel like it. So I stopped. After that I tried to keep myself distanced from her as much as possible but I couldn't. She would come and hang with me and my old friends who none of them liked. She would just stand there and everyone would just get annoyed when she came. So another day, one of my close friends had said that I should say something to her when she comes. I then asked the girl if she could please go? Yeah I was being quite rude but she was a rude person herself and that was really why no one talked to her, she could be so offensive to people. There was a point where she would stand right in front of me while I'm sitting down and act like she's just standing there just to get me mad. And let's not forget that I had so much going on, other girls would constantly pick on me for the colour of my skin, and girls will say smart comments about me. So once when we was in the park my friend told me she was gonna call her so I can fight and I said no but she continued to do it anyway. So when she came I said please just leave because they didn't bring u here to hang with u. They wanted u to fight me. I threw a water bottle on her because I was being told to fight. I didn't know that it was me who had fight her. I'm 15 and still sad about it. Am I a bully?

I have this "friend". We've gotten along for around 2 years now, but over the past 8 months, she's got to that bitchy state. For instance, I wouldn't be talking to a friend about something mean that she said, and I would tell her. The next thing I see her do is to tell my other friend. Or when I have completed an achievement, she all of a sudden makes me feel like that achievement wasn't worth the effort, and how easy it could have been done. From tiny things to big things. Her questioning and looking at my Instagram feed and saying "Really? Prom isn't even in 4 years, why are you looking at dresses?" Or "Really? Why are you looking at (Celebrity Name) This has become an obsession." In a judgmental tone. To mocking me about how short I am. She never apologizes for what she does, even if its something she really ****** up by telling one of my friends that shes not good enough for this one guy. Over the past year, I've noticed she's gotten bitchier. I'm In 9th grade taking mostly honors classes, and she said that I couldn't do it and questions if I even can, and when I don't succeed, she looks happy. Should I call her out for it and hope that she changes, or should I end the friendship?

I came to my school district in 5th grade and I had a solid group of friends. In 6th grade (middle school) we all split up. I became kind of popular and had two friend groups. I was the funny and cute girl and it seemed like everyone wanted to be my friend. It was a good year. In 7th grade I only stuck with one of my friend groups. (the more popular of the two) The other one and I drifted apart. I became the funny and annoying girl. Boys thought I was annoying and not cute. It seemed like everyone hated me because I was I guess annoying. The summer going into 8th grade the friend group I stuck with abandoned me. I only hung out with 2 people that summer. I am now in 8th grade. I am trying to re kindle my friendship with the group I didn t choose in 7th and I m getting rejected. The group leader is kind of a brat but everyone else is sooo nice. The leader doesn t like me and therefore I can t get it. I made a new friend group too but they are kind of fake. They act like i m bff s with them at school but didn t invite me to one of there parties and we ve only hung out once. Everyone in my grade pretty much is fake to me or hates me. Especially the boys. I ve been trying to change sooo hard but I m still known as the annoying girl/ What can I do???? Please give me advice or help me in any way... :(

I'm 16 and my friend has invited me on a holiday with her family. At first I was really excited but now I don't know, I'm having bad feelings about it. Don't get me wrong I am good friends with her and I don't want to sound mean but she's very over the top and I think that a full week of being with her might really annoy me and I'll get really frustrated. But at the same time it could be really fun and something to look forward. And I know I really am sounding like a total ***** but I don't really like her parents. Also it's really expensive, they're going all out. My parents are willing to pay for half of it and I do have the rest but it's still a lot of money. I'm supposed to be going to her house tomorrow to pay the deposit, what should I do?

I have an average amount of friends but I know some people with no friends.

So, my best guy friend for over 5 years came out last year and told me he loved me and has for a long time. I don't love him romantically but love him as a person. I told him that i don't feel the same way. He keeps trying to kiss me and holds hands and doesn't seem to be getting the hint. Today he told me again, and i explained that i need him to stop this at once because it is making me feel really uncomfortable. He said he will respect my wishes but I'm a little worried. Btw, i haven't seen him in 6 months because of this. Its his birthday this weekend (along with his twin brother) and all of our friends are out to celebrate with him. I don't want to not go because of this. You guys really think i should end my friendship if he continues? We have a friend group so its harder to just never see him.

I'm a guy and my friend is a girl. We would only do this for pleasure and our masturbation needs. Personally she has a great body and I think it would benifit us both.

I'm a guy and she's a girl, it would get rid of our masturbation needs. I get to pound her and it's benificial to both of us. She's got a great body too

We've gone out with a group of friends a few times and she always sits by me. Yesterday she said &"we should go out sometime soon." IDK if she means just us or a group of people. HELP!

I am very upset and I keep thinking why she ignored me.

If he or she wants to stay friends with both of you but they also have a crush on the cruel friend, so they're biased?

My friend just got out of a 7 year relationship and I have to say the guy did some pretty messed up things. He tried to hit on all her friends including me but that's not the worst part, she took him to live with her at her parents and he got into her moms underwear drawer. She forgave him for all of that even though she had evidence. Her mom has a full time nurse taking care of her nephew and her bf put the phone to record the nurse while she was using the restroom, files were charged they took the guys phone away and found evidence. I kept telling her that she is better off alone and I kept reminding her the stuff he did to her but she doesn't want to move on. I've tried taking her out to meet new people but I see that maybe her self esteem is low cause she doesn't want to talk to anyone and shes always asking me if she looks fat, good, or normal. Recently I found out by someone else that her bf is doing crack, she knew all along and she never told me all she would say was that he was doing coke. I want to help her leave him cause he is not good for her but she doesn't trust me anymore and I considered her my best friend, she never told me about the new drug her bf was doing when she always tells me everything. I want to make her feel that shes worthy and that she deserves better than that crack head. Can I even help? Shes been my friend for 16 years, I met her in elementary. Please advise?

Idk if it's a really big deal or not but I'm not that comfortable with them anymore ? Last year, we were really close. One girl, who I considered my bestfriend compared to all of them, got into an argument with the the rest of the people in my friend group. Since I was the only one she trusted, I was there by her side and everything, and I helped her make up with them. But right after they made up, they've gotten even much closer without me and I feel left out ? Like I'm just there and I basically have no purpose being there. They have all these inside jokes and memos that I never get. And whenever we talk, it just doesn't feel real anymore. Like usually, I could bring up whatever topic I would want, but now I just wonder about what I should say. And I feel nervous because I feel like I'm boring them. Whenever I hang out with one of them, another friend apart of the group comes, and then I'm left to thirdwheel which really sucks. There's just no connection anymore, and I feel like I'm losing them. Has anyone else ever experienced this ? What did you do ?

I kind of like my fauxhawk style. It's not that long, it's short. But my GF doesn't really like it anymore so she convinces me to cut it off and get a new hairstyle. I wouldn't mind changing it, but I also don't see anything bad about my hairstyle.

She's my best friend but last Tuesday she told me she didn't want to be friends anymore bc I'd been unnecessarily rude lately, which I admit I had been but apologized for immediately after. The last text I sent her was if there's any way to fix this text me back after apologizing and not getting any response. She still hasn't responded and it's been a week and I'm freaking out. Every day I want to reach out but I feel like I should give her space. What should I do?

How would you feel if your friend asked if they could sleep with someone you used to talk to but don't anymore?

My friend is from Korea and is 27, she recently moved here to America for Graduate School. But anyways, I invited her to my house party. And she went overboard, she took many shots of tequila and she ended going wild and she Blacked out. He woke up and did not remember anything. She never got this drunk she told me she said until now at 27

Okay, i am 13 and a boy. My cousin is 14 and also male. Lately i have been wanting to wrestle/grapple with him, but i am nervous to ask. I dont mean wwe, more like bjj. I also dont want my parents to find out. How do i ask??? I am also not confident with my own feet, but i want an excuse to massage his feet... I am afraid of getting a ***** while wrestling, and im not gay! I also want to know how to get him to learn brazilian jiu jitsu online with me??? I just want to ask. He is my only friend so i really need this to work.

So, recently I asked my friend if I could borrow $1,000 so that I could I pay my bills. She said she couldn't do $1,000, but she would let me borrow $350.00. She was gonna give it to me tomorrow. Well, last night she texted me and asked me if I could babysit her daughter while she goes to school because her daughter's normal babysitter was sick and couldn't watch her daughter. I told her that I would. Today, she tried calling so that she could let me know she was on her way. I didn't answer so she had to find someone else. I've been trying to call her all day and now she's blocked my number and Facebook. Am I wrong or is she wrong for not letting me borrow the money she said she would let me borrow? She was also supposed to come pick me up yesterday so I could go to her appointment to see if she has cervical cancer and she never came to pick me up

This girl I don't know followed me on Instagram a while back, probably because we follow a lot of the same people, and so I followed her back. It turned out to be her private account where she posts some pretty personal stuff, and a lot of times her captions are really dark and talking about specific problems, mental problems and feeling alone and unwanted, feeling suicidal, stuff like that. I realized the other day that usually there will be at least 200 likes on pictures that say these things, but not a single comment asking if she's ok or saying 'message me' or the type of thing I get from my friends when I post something even half that dark. If there are any comments at all it's just guys calling her hot. I'm not sure if she goes to my school or not but I've definitely never talked to her, but I feel guilty just liking it and moving on, when it seems like she's really alone and is going through some really awful ****. Would it be completely wierd to message her and make sure she's ok? Maybe I'm totally wrong and she's got people to talk to, but it seems like nobody following her really cares enough to make sure she's alright. I just think it's really awful that someone could be posting stuff like this and despite having so many followers, none of them care what she's actually saying, they're just focused on how she looks in the pictures.

I participated in a "womens group" today. There were around five girls. We shared stuff about ourselves. This girl shared how she doesn't have many friends and doesn't get along with the people in her city because there are lots of trump supporters. I said I didn't have lots of friends either. We made rules for the group and one girl (a different girl) said "branching out to people and making new friends" and the girl with few friends was looking at me. In the end we shared concluding words and she said "you all seem like nice people and I look forward to getting to know you better" and she was looking at me.

This place may not be around anymore my mom can't remember bc I was so young but I want 2say for my 8th birthday is when I went there but it's called a Victorian window or something close to that I don't think that's exactly the title but it's something very very close to that I'm just not getting the title exactly correct but I'm trying to remember what it's called. I remember I went there for my birthday and all of my friends went too. the whole point is to dress up in Victorian era closed and since I was the birthday girl they let me pick the prettiest gown in the whole place &the woman who owned the store told me which was the prettiest gown in the whole place it was this giant pussy wedding dress with a hat and I got to wear it because I was the birthday girl and the girls that have any other thing they wanted to wear . And we had a tea party it was lots of fun my friends brought presents and my mom brought a cake etc. etc. well I got pictures of it and we have one on the wall at my dads house that we've never taken down. but I was trying to tell somebody at the library today where I worked in the storytime department that they should check it out if that place is still around. If anyone can help thanks! It's in or was in Kansas. Something like the Victorian window or something.