We broke up and when I tried going back(6 months ago) he said he wouldn't forgive me for saying something about his mom when he said something to mine first(idiotic).I didn't chase him. We ran into eachother one day i expected him to ignore but he smiled and said hi.Now he keeps looking at me, making eye contact and i caught him looking at me sneakily through the door crack. He's started coming out about the same time as I do and he said hi hesitantly and smiling. Few Sundays ago I was going down the stairs and he was behind me. He was "on the phone" saying he was leaving church and would call back which wasn't necessary since church was already over. I feel like he did it so I'd know he was behind me. We walked next to eachother he smiled and said how are you. We had a few exchanges and I asked him about his sick brother. The following week he didnt show himself inside church(he's a deacon) as I was leaving he was behind me going down the stairs. I turned around just saw a glimpse of him and turned back around didn't say hi.Today he kept looking at me, then we locked eyes and he smiled sweetly and I smiled back. Would he act like this if he didn't want to get back together? Is he scared to make a move? What does it mean?

I am in an online friend group and they make me really happy; they're my only friends. But, my favorite dude of the group is best friends with this guy who hates my guts. He hates my personality and openly wants me to leave the group. I ask him why and finally he came to say that he is sadistic and if I annoy him he likes to see me get upset. So, he both hates me AND is sadistic. Yet, I want to be good friends with his best friend and the rest of the group. What do I do?

if so, do they always try to find the most beautiful one they can and how important are the other features (such as personality) when making the decision for mate selection compared with physical beauty?

Please, I need help, I can not stand it any more.

We were together for like 3 months and i was feeling bad because my last boyfriend would bring me flowers and give me small tokens of affection and this boyfriend rarely did. I talked to him about it and he was like ok cool I'll get you flowers sometime. He came to our next date empty-handed. I texted him after and told him that really hurt me and he said he was going to get me flowers later and he was busy that day at work. I texted back "so your job is more important than me? This is not ok. We're done." And he texted back "ok"

So over the past few months, I have lost both of my best friends, one because of problems we've been having for a long time and the other because of recent problems that accured. I really don't have any other friends besides them and am kinda lonely. I thought after a while of space that maybe things would change and we could go back to how things used to be but honestly they both seem pretty happy without me. They both have other friends and boyfriends but I'm just alone. Don't get me wrong, I have family but it's kind of a broken family and sometimes I want to talk to someone out of the handful of family members I do talk to. And I'm not wanting to go crawling back to them since they seem so much happier but I don't know how to move on from it. I barely leave the house unless it's to run errands or go to my babysitting job and I don't really get to form friendships with people during those times and online friendship sites never work out for me. I usually get weirdos or people who get easily bored with me. I have hobbies but sometimes those don't even help. Sorry if this has gone on for too long but I'm desperate for advice at this point

She constantly tells me she's too poor to buy decent (healthy) food, doesn't have $10 to put gas in her car, is living with a man she barely tolerates because it's "rent free", (though she has a home in another state that's sitting empty), and recently cried because she had to cash out an IRA to pay off debts. And yet... she takes a week long Caribbean cruise ever 2 months. Her reasoning? Cruises are cheap if you're as skilled as she is at finding them. What's up with this woman? Full of it, delusional, playing games with me? Personally, I couldn't care less what she chooses to spend money on, but don't understand why she's always/constantly emailing me in a panic with "I'm so poor" -- when she can obviously afford 6-10 cruises a year. Oh and she hasn't held a job in years but thinks working is beneath her now. She's hoping for a money grab from her ex husband. Opinions?

Sooo I work at an accounting firm that hires relatively young people as audit staff. It's a very small firm and rather extremely clique-y. It's clique-y because they hire a lot of high school/elementary friends of the young staff so a few of them have known/met each other before being hired. They all even have a chat with each other, excluding a few other young audit staff (besides myself). I have become very VERY close to one of my co-workers and we both feel rather left out of the young audit staff group, even after two years of working there. I met everyone through work, not from before. I just haven't figured out a way to feel more included. I have been nothing but nice to these people and attended happy hours and such to be social and have fun with them outside of work. Lately, me and my friend co-worker have stopped going to these happy hours because we just continue to feel left out. It honestly feels like high school all over again. I also began to think it was just me, but three other people have felt the same way about the staff group and have quit the firm. It has gotten to the point that I go out of my way to never be at the office, and instead be out doing field work alone. How should I deal with the negativity/exclusion in the office? Please help!

We have been friends for a year and a half now but only officially dated 2 months. Also I should add that, he is younger than me I'm 40 he is 31 (but i look really beautiful and young and in shape and could pass for 30). Since then, we will occasionally get together and it leads to sex (not often). Thing is, our friendship has grown so much stronger in the last 6 months since his father passed away. We have been talking almost daily and can talk for hours. About a month ago, I told him that my feelings for him have grown and that i have fallen for him. I asked him if he ever has feelings of love for me, and he said no. I understood so i just backed away from that and decided to just accept and appreciate our friendship. So, yesterday we got together and had sex but it was really delicate and beautiful and very loving...different than before. I didn't bring up the love thing, but he just felt different. However, he also let it slip that he is dating other women (which i kinda knew about) but he let it slip that he is dating a "someone". He didn't mean to say that, it just slipped...but then he changed his tone and said its not a someone its just that he is dating many multiple women. I don't want to sleep with him if he is dating anyone else officially. Also, he just out of the blue said he was deleting his fb account and it just disappeared BUT he said that he was keeping me on fb messenger. He was complaining for months that he hated his fb and that he want it He was complaining for months that he hated his fb and that he wanted to delete it and finally did so. I know he probably doesn't want to get officially tied down to anyone, but i don't believe him that he doesn't love me. I feel it in his touch and his kiss and the way he cuddles, the way we laugh together....im beyond confused about that fact. We get along beautifully. But i will say that he is middle eastern, he is younger than me, and his father just died. i know he is just starting to feel better after his fathers death and he is laughing more. I think he kinda just wants to be free right now and do his own thing. But i still don't get why he denies the fact that he doesn't love me....his body language and his eyes do not match his words at all.

I've known my first love for 6 years. We first met when we worked together and he was married. He was so flirty and charming and I developed feelings for him. I know it was wrong to, but I did. 4 years ago, his wife asked him for a divorce. He never mentioned why they were getting a divorce, just that she was "dead" to him. When they first got separated, he hinted around to a possibility of something happening between us and I figured once his heart healed, he'd give me a chance. However, we never dated, we never fooled around. I'm actually impressed that he never took advantage of my feelings for him, in order to use me for sex. For about a year and a half, he flirted majorly with me and really led me on. I was blinded by my love for him so I guess I really didn't see how wrong he was doing me. My friends and I would often go to the restaurant where he worked every weekend for dinner so we could get good food and I could hug on him and flirt with him. One night, we were saying goodbye to each other and hugging and he started grabbing my butt and even put his hand down my leggings to grab my butt over my underwear. He was obviously in the mood, as I could tell from how he was talking/breathing. I, of course, enjoyed it too. A week later, he was forced to tell me he had a girlfriend because his girlfriend was with him when I messaged him a flirty birthday message. I was in shock. He later told me he didn't mean to lead me on and that he should've mentioned his girlfriend sooner. (no kidding) I saw him again 4 months later and he said he had to distance himself because things were becoming "too friendly" while he has a girlfriend. I haven't seen or talked to him in 2 years. He's still with his girlfriend apparently. I've blocked him a few times, but I end up unblocking him and "poking" him on Facebook. I keep hoping he'll block me so I can no longer be tempted to reach out to him. Why won't he block me? I'm 27, he's almost 40. I seriously figured he'd block me I feel like ME blocking him is pointless since I get weak and unblock him again. I can't manage to keep him blocked, that's why I need him to block me.

Can I just call someone to talk about something because its really bothering me and I have no one to talk to

I want to stream a game for only my friend and have the minimal delay, how do I do that?

So, I lost my license a while back. My mom typically gives me rides to and from work, but occasionally I ask my guy friend if he can give me a ride home. He gets off work at the same time I do sometimes (he always gets off at the same time, mine varies) and he works literally right up the street. He's the best person to give me a ride home and he's always telling me he's happy to do it. Well, Friday he was supposed to give me a ride home. I had asked him earlier in the week and he said he would. Friday came, I sent him 2 messages during work and no reply. After waiting on him for an hour, I finally had to call my mom to come get me. I had sent my friend a message during the time I was waiting to ask if I should find another ride since I hadn't heard from him. I expected him to at least message eventually and apologize, but he got out of work real late and called me on the way home to apologize and explain he was super caught up at work and to never hesitate to ask him for a ride and how he truly didn't mean to forget about me, that he was just real caught up at work and that's why he couldn't reply. The first thing he asked when I answered the phone was if I made it home and he later asked who gave me a ride home. Do friends normally go out of their way to apologize and explain in such situations, ask if their friend made it home and ask who gave them a ride?

Una mia amica è depressa ( non scherzo ne sono sicura ) poiché una sua grande amica l'ha completamente rifiutata, insultata e tradita. Non sono mai stata depressa e non so come aiutarla. Vi prego datemi qualche consiglio ci sto male a vederla sempre triste e con gli occhi lucidi rannicchiata sulle scale.

I'm in 8th grade and I was diagnosed with leukemia 1 1/2 years ago and I had a bone marrow transplant and still have 2 years of chemo ahead. Right now I'm dealing with joint and bone problems, as well as kidney failure and liver disease. And I'm missing out in school alot. And many people have turned their backs on me in the last months. I just don't know why. I mean, I know that having a friend with cancer is not easy, for nobody, but I think that friendship is about being there for each other, especially when times get hard. I was in a 'group' in my class, wich kind of dissolved when I got sick. I had 4 really good friends, one if them being my best friend - well, she was my best friend, until it got too much for her and she told about a month ago that she just has different friends now and that our contact broke because of me always missing in school. It's just dragging me down and making it really hard for me to accept my illness. I just want my life back. There are some girls in my class who are very nice to me and I think we could be really good friends but it's just hard to keep up with them when I spend almost every second day at the hospital. How do you think can I deal with all of this? What can I do to make new friends. I'm just scared they will leave me alone like my other 'friends' did.

My friend , she is same age , sex , as me , we are both turning 17 this year . To be honest , she is kind of overweight , I don't really like to use the word 'fat' because that sounds pretty rude . Her height is 5'2 , weight : 154 pounds . Okay , I know this is going to sound mean but sadly is the truth . She have short hair till her chin ( bob hairstyle ) , have bangs and wear spectacles . She likes to dress in some cute , kiddish and childlike clothes , examples : skirt , Disney shirt . Sometime she will also dress kind of sexy .... those sleeveless shirt , very short shorts etc. The point is that many people in our school find it really ugly and disgusting . Not just boys who tease her but also girls . She will act like a child at times and think that it's cute , but it isn't . I mean ..... it just don't suit her . Many of my other friends talk behind her back , saying how ugly or funny she look . She also have acne . So .... overall , it really does not look good on her , this whole overweight+Looks+cuteness . I don't want to hurt her feelings .... but I feel that it's only good if I voice out to her how and what other people viewed her . What I am trying to say is that everyone have different style that suits them . I know that it's cute when you are chubby but that only applies when you are still a child , probably when you were 6 or 7 . Should I voice out my opinions ? Because seriously , everyone just laugh behind her back when she try to act immature or cute .

Someone who I thought was a friend of mine seems to want nothing to do with me anymore. We had a disagreement and I thought we patched things up but when I go to say hello to him on facebook he does not respond back now..so he seems to be ignoring me and I am not sure why since I thought him and I patched things up. so my question is..when someone ignores a person like this does it really mean they must have cared alot at one point? I am wondering now if I hurt him more then I realized? thanks for any thoughts and will choose a best answer.

I have known my best guy friend for years because I was best friends with his sister (which ended very badly due to her recent marriage and even ended with her not speaking to half of her family). When that friendship ended, me and her brother became extremely close because her family still treats me as their own. He has a separate mother than his sister, and she has recently been texting me trying to set up a lunch date. Him and his mom have bought me Christmas, Valentines, and Easter gifts this year. Everyone thinks that he likes me or that we should be dating. (side note, I slightly do have feelings for him but refuse to act on them to maintain our friendship.) I'm not sure why, but I am nervous for this lunch since it will just be me and her. Should I be?? After the past few years why would she suddenly want to meet up?

my friend is retarded and he is getting adjusted to my awful sleeping habits. i really dont know what to do at this point

Something I've noticed with my friends in high school is that they like to talk to me how I'm boring or typos because I don't drink beer with them, go out and party and that I get good grades lol. All of them fail their classes and and smoke/drink on the regular. I choose not to do either of those things, just because of personal reasons and my family has a history of drug use. I don't criticize them on their choices to drink or smoke either, I just let them do what they want and I could care less. I work hard, im humble, and I choose not to do these things but my friends like to bag on me about it lol. Were going to college next year so I'm not even sure what's gonna happen to them. What's your guys thoughts on this?

My best friend and I have been friends for pretty close to eight years. But a few weeks ago, he told me that this ENTIRE time, he has had feelings for my older sister. I'm not sure what to think about it...

This has happened to me for a while now. By the way I dont see her all the time we dont work together anymore so. I saw her today and she continued it from like a month ago when i worked every day with her. This coworker every time she is around me or I come around her she just looks at me and doesn't look away when I look at her. She is just looking at me even when im not looking at her she continues. Never says a word to me.

If you compare a 15 year old to his/her 17 year old buddies, would there be obvious differences in physical/emotional development? Such as a room full of them... would there be obvious signs which teens are older or younger?

Me and my best friend have always been flirty and sexual but he worried I had feelings for him which I denied several times then he slept with my ex best friend and he knew how much she hurt me and I felt betrayed but was willing to forgive him until he said that his family wants him to marry her so he needs to try things out. He said he had no feelings for her but she can benefit him and make his family happy. I said I'm willing to make amends with her for him and she agreed to making amends and getting along with me for him but then he says he doesnt know if he even wants her Yet so He told me he still needs space because he doesnt know who he is without me. He told me that he needs to make decisions in his life and not worry about how it'll affect me but I told him I don't mind you being with someone else I want us to both be able to be in relationships and still be friends and even get together as couples one day and he said he believed me but he still needs space from me. What's the purpose of this need for space because you usually don't need space from someone you just see as a friend and you know that there's no feelings to worry about? Its weird to say but he played so many roles in my life but I prefer his friendship above all and would do nothing to sabotage anything. Every time we hooked up was always him coming on to me and me going along with it because I thought we were just having fun. Is there something I'm missing could there be something he's not telling me