I look back on all the things I had when I was younger and think, wow I was really ungrateful. I never really noticed them or paid attention to them. I didn't appreciate them when I had them. Why are we ungrateful when we're younger?

I belong to a desi family. We are pakistani and it is compulsory for the parents consent before getting married. In our society marriage is not only between 2 people but it is a bond between two families. So without our parents permission we cant marry. So i have a chronic disease called fibrous dysplasia and it is a disorder that is present in my right femur. Becoz of FD i have very fragile femur(thigh bone) which could break anytime but thanks to a doctor who has supported my leg with nails and plating that i dont have the tension of it getting fractured again. But i have a constant chronic pain in my leg... i limp becoz the affected leg is shorter and therefpre i have to use a stick to balance myself. Due to the great beauty standards in my society... every mother wants a beautiful daughter in law for her son. But unfortunately, becoz of my leg my boyfriends parents have rejected me. Though my boyfriend has stood up for me he cant fight with his parents coz it is his parents and we respect our parents alot and we can never go against their happiness and will. What should i do at this point? I feel very sad and lonely... and need help! Ive talked to my boyfriend about this but i cant blame the situation he is in. Please help!

People (friends, family, sometimes random strangers) tell me I am pretty and attractive and it surprises them when they find out I don't have a boyfriend (I'm at the age where all my friends are getting married and reassuring me that I'll find someone) But, the guys that I like and find attractive are not interested in me... Why is this? As I've grown older I've become more confident in who I am as a woman, but as I've experienced rejection in the past couple of years, my self-esteem has naturally taken a hit... I don't know if it has to do with personality or not, but I would say I have a pretty laid back personality and I'm the type of person thay thinks befofe they speak. I have good morals and always act lady-like. I recently met a guy and we've hung out a few times. We seemed to have a connection and honestly haven't gotten to know each other enough yet, but based on what I do know about I thought we would be perfect for each other... but then he pretty much friend-zoned me. It's like he didn't even give me a chance and knows nothing about me. So, what could be going on? Because I am about to give up on love altogether. My heart has been hurt so many times that I don't think it can take anymore.

I am a college student and I live in a house with 10 other people. They keep throwing loud parties without asking me or telling me first. Often times I will be in my room then suddenly hear loud music playing. I have asked them THREE TIMES, very kindly, to check in with me before having parties (I have a life too obviously), yet tonight they threw another without asking or telling me. How can I better this situation and finally get them to respect my very reasonable request? I've called for a house meeting.

Most people who never had a sibling who's the same gender as them have always wished that they did have one. Like I knew many boys who didn't have a brother who wished that they did have a brother, and I knew many girls who didn't have a sister who wished that they did have a sister.

My mom and her boyfriend would always get into it and he would put his hands on her, but it doesn't matter because he would leave for 2 days then come back like nothing happened. When he talks to me I would just ignore him because I don't like him and he would try apologizing to me about what happened, but I dont care. It gets on my nerves that my mom just lets him back in the house and she even acts like nothing happened. I'm too young to move out, but my sister said that the house is toxic and that I could live with her, but I don't want to leave my mom by herself. I tried talking to her about it and she would say he had one more chance even though she said that multiple times. I tried talking to her about it but it doesn't work and when the police would get involved they would say take it to court and my mom doesn't want to do that. What can I do about this? Should I try talking to her again? Idk what to do

So my fiancé had a Samsung Note (older version) that had a lot of issues. For his bday last year I bought him the newest iPhone. I thought he would do away with his Samsung since it was no longer serviced but he continued to carry it around. I asked him several weeks later why and he said because he had a lot of info and apps he used. it's been almost a year and he is still carrying it. To work, running errands, the bathroom, everywhere. He had everything synced over to his iPhone so I've wondered why he still carries it. Now, he just moved over to my phone plan about a month ago. When I paid our bill last week I was curious and went through his call logs. I found he called a Tracfone customer care line (the ATT log identified it as Tracfone). I called it myself to see what it was and it was to reload a tracfone account. So now I'm really questioning why he is carrying his old phone, and if he does have it hooked up to service, why would he not tell me? As I said, we just synced our phone plan so I can only see logs for the last month. I don't know how often he makes calls to Tracfone. I want to confront him but I want more evidence so that he can't try and lie his way out of it. Am I being a crazy fiancé/gf or is this suspicious to you? We've been together 2 years, we live together and i had no suspicion of cheating but now I really wonder. What are your thoughts?

I'm a senior in college RA. There's these two cute freshman guys that live next to me. Their room is all the way at the end of the hall so I'm their only neighbor. Every weekend I hear tons of girls going into their room, loud music, and everyone having fun. Meanwhile, I'm just sitting in my room alone and I can't go out or have anyone over as I have no friends. What should I do? I'm depressed. I also feel like the girls they have over are "better" than me, they're prettier and more fun to be with, and I'm just the lousy RA too afraid to confront or hang out with anyone

Let's say that her ex was 8 inches and her new guy is 5 inches. Will the 5 inches still be enough to satisfy her?