Family: Question: Girls mature question?

Question: Girls mature question?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 02:11 PM PST

Long story short I'm in college. This past 2017 two classmates of mine lost they dad/mom due to cancer. They don't know me but I came upon good money this holiday season. I ended up secretly giving each $500 as an xmas gift unanimously ( I left the xmas gift infant of there dorm). I heard they went ape sh1t from they're friends. Needles to say do you believe in karma? do you believe good luck will come your way etc. Before you say I'm a show off/I'm lying etc you don't know me/they don't know me so I have no reason to show off/lie here online.

Question: Stepdad or real dad. Whos right and whos wrong?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 02:07 PM PST

So when i was first born due to my mom and my biological dad finishing college I had to live with my grandma. My real dad dropped out of school to take care of me and he cussed my grandma out 1 day cause my grandma didnt let him take me out. So my mom and dad kept me from him when I was a baby because of that. So my mom finally let me see him in 2007 which was the last time i saw him. I was 5 years old. Now im 16 and its been 11 years. But when I was 7 i moved with my mom and her new boyfriend. He used to beat me when I was a kid for nothing and break my toys. About 2 ago he hit me cause i didnt listen to what he said but i ended up fighting back but hes not my real father. So he no longer hits me but my mom tried to put the blame on me as if it was my fault the fight started. She told me to apologize but i never did. My mom makes it seem like my biological is a deadbeat even though hes been trying. He tells me on facebook he tried to take her to court but couldnt cause he didnt pay child support cause he didn't have money at the time. He also tells me I dont have to listen to my stepdad and he said if he treats me like **** he will handle him. But the thing about it is my mom and her new boyfriend had kids and they are 10 and they dont do anything and my stepdad makes me do everything around the house and if i dont do it he throws a temper like a child. I understand hes taking care of me but he shouldnt treat me like **** either. Can someome tell me what best for me .

Question: My mom hates me?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 02:01 PM PST

I'm in 7th grade, and I swear my mom hates me. I have a twin brother and an older brother and she loves them so much, and I feel like she hates me. For Christmas all I wanted was an iPhone and my brothers got them but I didn't, and I'm not trying to sound spoiled, but honestly, I feel like she's torturing me. She also yells at me for no reason, one time we went camping and my brother spilled the bug spray on the sandwiches, and she saw what happened but she still yelled at me for not being quick enough to catch it. She also never comes to any of my volleyball games but goes to my brother's math league tournaments. I asked her to come to atleast one because I really want her support but she called me selfish for not thinking of my brothers. I brought this up to my dad and he says she's just being tough on me. I know I'm probably just complaining or acting like a baby, but she's hurting my feelings and making me feel like I'm not good enough to be treated like one of her kids... Please just give me options on how I can be better so she doesn't hate me...

Question: My sister wants to take the family dog when she moves out, I don’t want her too. What do I say?!?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 01:15 PM PST

She's stubborn! When ever we bring it up she pulls the "dont you want me to be happy?" Card and "I will never forgive you!" But I Love this dog with all my heart. He's the most wonderful thing. The way things are looking I'm going to show up and he will be gone.

Question: Why is my brother's wife doing this to me?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 01:13 PM PST

My brother's wife has large boobs. She likes to show a LOT of cleavage. Strangely, my brother is OK with that. At our parent's home, she will bend over in front of me and say "Don't look at my boobs". How could I not look at them when they are 6 inches away from my face? I just say "OK". That is really strange behavior. Other times she will bend over in front of me to give me something and then say "Did something come up". I always truthfully tell her no. I have NO sexual interest in my brother's wife EVER. I wonder why she is acting this way. Is she flirting with me or possibly just teasing me? Anyone have any ideas why she is doing this to me?

Question: Do you have a problem with stay-at-home dads?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 11:56 AM PST

If you hear about a stay-at-home dad, would you have a problem with him? What would you tell a man who wanted to be a stay-at-home dad?

Question: How do I talk my dad into going to my aunts house tomorrow to deliver a late Christmas gift?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 11:41 AM PST

I am only allowed to go if he goes with me because her husband drinks too much. She has three kids two of them are home from college and I want to go by while they're there. My dad likely does not want to go as he does not get along that great with her husband but how do I talk him into it? We were away at Christmas so I didn't get to see her Christmas Eve.

Question: My uncle is an alcoholic. Could this be why he is so moody and lies?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 11:41 AM PST

Question: I'm worried for my siblings and I need advice.?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 11:35 AM PST

I'm 22 years old and I have 4 younger brothers ages 13,11,9,7 who live with their dad and his wife. We share the same mom. My mom is not in the picture and from my understanding, their dad has legal custody. They live an hour away so my sister and I go as often as we can to pick them up and spend time with them. Well, we had them this past weekend and the 13 year old asked if they can stay an extra night because their dad's drinking has gotten worse and he kicks him out and then calls the cops and reports him as a runaway. This happens Every time and they're always saying how much they hate it there. My brothers hate the wife and says she breaks things and blames them. I know she's crazy, she one time broke her bong and started slitting her wrists with the glass. She tells the 11 y/o she doesn't even like him. A little back story, my brothers have been taken from their dad and step mom 3 times because of his drinking and he sobers up just long enough to get them back. I'm to the point that I'm so done and outraged and I want to get full custody of all four of them. I have a job, a car, a place to live and I'm financially able to support them. I'm just wondering how I should go about proving that he's, once again, heavily drinking. And if I would even have a case and/or a chance. Thank you so much for taking the time to read.

Question: Am I being overly sensitive, or should I speak up?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 11:25 AM PST

My elderly mother has a habit of embarrassing me. For instance, after an arm pain that was so painful her in home nurse called 11, she accused me of "exaggerating" in front of my sister and her doctor! Well, her MOST RECENT EMBARRASSMENT was at physical rehab she's just beginning. She used to be an early riser but not now. She went there and asked for an early appointment 3 days a week, before she's had time for even toast! When I gently reminded her that 10 would be between breakfast and lunch, she said, *** "Well, maybe YOU want to sleep in, *** but I don't!" And she should Know that I get up before her, then feed and walk two dogs, separately, Before I come make breakfast for Her! I know she has memory issues, but this happens only to me and quite often. If i confrint her later, she'll deny saying anything, but OTHER PEOPLE think poorly of me, due to her harsh words. How can I respond to her? Even today, I helped her at the store, I got NOTHING for myself, then she complained how long we I was taking shopping and that she wanted to leave -- again, in front of others. I know this is worry, but I need some common sense advice from someone not dealing with my mom. Will you please advise? Thanks for reading.

Question: Sister in law from HELL. Help!?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 11:16 AM PST

Nobody in my Marks family will stand up to his sister. She is mean to his parents and grandma and often yells at them and demands them to do things. She is not a child (20). She always makes smart comments and recently called me "disposable" in front of him and he didn't correct her and neither did his mom. How do I tell her she is no longer a bridesmaid? How can I respond to her attitude?

Question: Stay at home mom and husband are on opposite pages about getting help. Please advise!?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 11:00 AM PST

I am a stay at home mother of a 18 month old. My husband works full time. He is an active and helpful father. But there are some issues. He wants us to have full time help with our child. He really wants to go back to school (and work) which I understand. He prefers his mom who is retired. She stayed with us recently for a month and let's just say it was a bit much. She has kind of a take over personality so she took over our child and the kitchen. She also lives differently from us and our personalities don't mesh. It was too much. So now he says we should get a full time nanny/au pair. I don't want any full time help and don't need it. I like taking care of my little family. When his mom was helping, I didn't have much to do and I was extremely bored most of the time. I also don't want anyone living with us. I'm pretty introverted. It makes me feel uncomfortable having someone in the house full time. I feel like they would be looking at me like why can't you take care of your own child since you don't work. Like judging me. Anyway, I don't mind our child going to daycare when she's 2 or having someone help part time. because I would like to work part time. Plus she can interact with other kids. So what should I do? Great advice is much appreciated.

Question: Is my sister selfish?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 10:51 AM PST

Ok so my older sister wants my little sister to come to her wedding but she said no because she has social anxiety and there is going to be like 300+ people there. She is like a hermit almost and I partly understand why she doesn't want to go but like come on it's your sister's wedding. So then my older ister called her selfish and said that nobody will be looking at her anyway it's my day. My little sister is really sensitive and she has been this way her whole life but I can understand why my other sister is mad. Do you think my sister is being selfish ? And how can i encourage her to come out of her shell for just one day ?

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic. How do I get over this?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 10:32 AM PST

Question: My becoming stepfather is also FREEMAN #IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE #MAKES SENSE I HATE IT ;)?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 10:26 AM PST

Question: I met my cousins new wife. Later someone told me they were glad he found someone nice to "take care of him." What does that mean?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 10:25 AM PST

I don't think they were referring to sex.

Question: Why is the royal family so privileged?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 10:02 AM PST

Getting lots of money from the state for doing nothing, living a life of luxury and going to the top schools in England, get live in a palace etc all because you happen to be related to the monarch. Meanwhile i'm working 5 days a week 9-6, living in a cheap study apartment, paying for my study fees, working my *** off and getting little in return. My family is very supportive which I am greatful. However I get pissed at some people in this world who live off our tax money and do jack ****. Just simply isn't fair.

Question: How do I tell my mother my aunt became my godmother?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 09:52 AM PST

Over the winter break, I asked my aunt to be my godmother; she agreed. My mom told me my father doesn't like god-whatever and that makes it harder to tell her.

Question: My parents left dinner because they said we were being rude. What did we do?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 08:56 AM PST

While we were cooking in the kitchen and they were watching tv my husband and I had sex on the counter in the kitchen. I think what startled them was the glass breaking off the counter. But why didn't they say goodbye and why did they text me saying we were being disgusting and weird? I don't understand why they are being so mean and rude.

Question: What should I️ do?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 08:35 AM PST

My mom has mental disorder(s). But she refuses to get diagnosed because if she does she'll loose her teaching job . But my mom verbally abuses me( calling me slut, whore...), refuses to let me hang out or even do hw with my friends. But recently she started sabotaging my grades. She took away my Mac computer I️ need to edit for a school project. And I️ can't use any Mac computers anywhere else because my school does not offer them. My grade in Spanish is a 98 but if I️ don't hand in this project I'm going to fail the class. PLEASE HELP!

Question: Help please?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 08:26 AM PST

Ok I was lonely . Single mom two kids moved in with this guy. I'm pregnant now . He's strict which I don't have a problem with but nothing makes him happy . My teens do all their chores but if they leave one thing out he takes pictures and blows up . My son works goes to school and when his kids are over is required to sleep on the floor . He is also required to be out of the house for 3 hours a day at a park to meet friends . My role is to cook clean pay rent pay for groceries and buy presents . I am not allowed to talk to anyone from my job or have any friends . I am tracked by where's my iPhone when I am out . I pay the rent electric and cable he pays half the rent and water . I asked him to be nicer to my son he refuses and I told him I don't mind cooking and cleaning for his kids but would like sometimes something nice like a dinner out . We are not allowed to eat out . He doesn't like to leave the house and says I'm a women of the street as I like to go to parks etc . He says he wants order in his house and it's hus way only . What is going on ?

Question: Is my mother trying to use intimidation tactics?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 08:23 AM PST

So she isn't talking to me and we had an argument. She normally comes round my grandparents on her own (I live there) but since I had a go at her as she wasn't talking to me she's came back with her boyfriend who thinks he's tough- I simply let him know that my partner who they don't know much about says 'hello'. Then today her and my aunty (also thinks she's tough, that I'm scared of her and hates me) came round and used all my butter that my mum knows is mine and I had stopped her using. Is she being a bully and trying to intimidate me? It's been going on for years.

Question: Do you resent how your parent has more money than you do?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 07:46 AM PST

I don't think it's fair my Mom gets to live in a much larger & nicer house in a better area than my husband & I do. We even were forced to move out of state so we could even afford rent. We also have children and we should be the ones living in the larger, nicer house.

Question: How to tell my dad to stop being a loser?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 07:02 AM PST

*I understand that I should post my family problems on yahoo, but I just need some advice. I go to school and work 32 hours a week, and I do all of the work at home. I live with my dad. It's just the 2 of us. I do everything at home. I wash the dishes, do the laundry, clean, take out the garbage, scrub the floors, vacuum, etc. I also buy all of the grocery with MY own money. My father does absolutely nothing. He hasn't washed a load of laundry in YEARS. He is the laziest person alive. He refuses to clean anything. He has one job, and goofs off the rest of the time. He also gambles his money away, forcing me to buy the groceries. I recently left for a month, and came back to an absolute mess!! And I had to clean it up!! I feel like a stay at home wife. He refuses to do anything, and when I don't do it, he yells at me!! He's been getting violent lately, but I'm one of those people that if I get hit, I will hit that person right back. I stand up for myself. If I leave my dad, i won't have anywhere else to go. Any advice?

Question: My aunt will not speak to us cause my Mom reaches out to her son who she is estranged from. Who is wrong here aunt or my Mom?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 03:46 AM PST

The aunt resents her son cause he sometimes misbehaved. Her other two kids, both daughters, have never misbehaved after about age 5.

Question: Why is my mom always trying to set me up?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 02:50 AM PST

She wants me to date my coworker I haven't even met yet.

Question: How to be a hoe when living with your parents?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 12:50 AM PST

yo guys I was wondering how to be a hoe when living with your parents, I would really love to take some solid advice because it can be very difficult to extend my needs in a religious indian household, your tips will be very much appreciated, papa bless

Question: What to do about child custody?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 12:22 AM PST

I m the mother and I live in Michigan. My child s father wants to move to Florida and wants to get him every two months or so. Not only has he never taken care of a baby in his life (the baby is 5 months old), but he has never had the baby overnight. The times he takes care of the baby without me he s helpless and can t do anything about asking me a million questions. He s not being cooperative and is being rude and disrespectful towards me and I don t trust him with the baby AT ALL. He recently bought an unlicensed gun for a rap music video. He has a iffy work schedule and he works with his father, so I m wondering who will babysit for him when he knows no one down there. He is a compulsive liar and told me that he doesn t work often, and when he does his father doesn t. Which is a lie as he not only works with his father but doesn t work without his father. He is not on the birth certificate, and doesn t want to be with me long enough to get it done. I m trying to be nice as not to ruin the baby s life, but he told me "My parents raised two kids and they hated each other, and the two kids are doing fine." He was abusive to me, and I was in the hospital because of him. I want to be able to get full custody of the baby. I am supported by my parents and I'm unemployed, will that play a factor as well?

Question: What to do about child custody?

Posted: 04 Jan 2018 12:22 AM PST

I m the mother and I live in Michigan. My child s father wants to move to Florida and wants to get him every two months or so. Not only has he never taken care of a baby in his life (the baby is 5 months old), but he has never had the baby overnight. The times he takes care of the baby without me he s helpless and can t do anything about asking me a million questions. He s not being cooperative and is being rude and disrespectful towards me and I don t trust him with the baby AT ALL. He recently bought an unlicensed gun for a rap music video. He has a iffy work schedule and he works with his father, so I m wondering who will babysit for him when he knows no one down there. He is a compulsive liar and told me that he doesn t work often, and when he does his father doesn t. Which is a lie as he not only works with his father but doesn t work without his father. He is not on the birth certificate, and doesn t want to be with me long enough to get it done. I m trying to be nice as not to ruin the baby s life, but he told me "My parents raised two kids and they hated each other, and the two kids are doing fine." He was abusive to me, and I was in the hospital because of him. I want to be able to get full custody of the baby.

Question: How should I deal with my daughter who doesn’t get along with my partner’s son?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 11:51 PM PST

My daughter (13) can't stand my partner's son who's the same age. There's not one time where they can be together without arguments. Both kids get on each other's nerves a lot. It's hard for me to see her struggle like this. All I hear is complaints, rants, and sulky remarks when this boy comes up in a conversation.

Question: How can I deal with an 11 year old who has a hard time saying “no”?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 11:46 PM PST

If it's peer pressure or someone suggesting something that is harmful, she has a hard time refusing by telling them no. I hear her insist that they wouldn't listen and maybe she's too afraid, etc. Usually these are minor situations, but I worry about this as she reaches her teen years and more illegal activities start going around. An example of right now is when how she is supposed to feed her goldfish when someone else pushes her to feed it an excessive amount. She has given in once, despite the fact that she knew her fish could die from too much food. Another example would be someone insisting that she wear an inappropriate outfit when I clearly set down the boundaries (absolutely not).

Question: How can I make my nephew understand that his Aunt and I don't approve of imagination?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 11:29 PM PST

And he certainly will not be using such things while he's staying at our Manor.

Question: Is child support for the parent or the child?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 10:18 PM PST

I take care of my son, provide him with the basic needs. But the father of my son keeps verbally attacking me for spending the child support I RECEIVE on whatever I chose - whether that's handbags, clothes or what I buy to treat myself. I firmly told him the child support is sent to me with a cheque OF MY NAME, that means I can spend it on how I wish, but he says no child support is to be only used for the child. I have told him over and over that child support is supposed to be for the parent, but he tries to defame me to everyone I know and post on social platforms of how I am a bad mother and a thief.

Question: I’m come from a poor family and my gf is wealthy ?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 10:05 PM PST

im 17 a senior in hs turning 18 in a few months living in housing projects with a single mom working a minimum wage job who doesn't let me work to focus on school and I have a gf who is wealthy that I really love and she loves me but I don't know what she sees in me like I literally can't buy her anything, take her out to eat and she's always the one buying food and stuff and I feel bad because I don't have money to pay or buy her stuff. She always tells me that she doesn't care about money but for me but I just don't know what she sees in me like I feel horrible not having money to buy her stuff and I feel she will leave me for my financial status eventually even though she says she loves me for who I am and not my money situation. Her father also doesn't like me because I'm poor and he thinks I'm using his daughter for money which I'm not but her mother and I really get along

Question: Why did my middle School counselor tell my parents that I told her my dad groped me. Is that even legal?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 09:04 PM PST

I wonder if it was a coincidence that she changed job titles a few years later. She changed into a career counselor. I wish I could remember who she was so I could give her a piece of my now adult mind.

Question: Which is the better option?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 09:03 PM PST

I have 1 year old twins and I nurse them together. For me it's easier, quicker and they actually prefer it - they are identical and inseparable. On Christmas Day they were exhausted after hours of being picked up and played with by numerous family members. They just wanted to cuddle and nurse. I obviously let them. I had a jacket on and pulled the sides over my girls heads, as far as tandem nursing goes I was very discreet. My sister-in-law very rudely asked me if I could "do that upstairs" as she was cautious of people seeing (we were at her & my brothers house). I explained to her that it was Christmas and the only "people" around were family. She very bluntly responded that she didn't want me doing that in her house and asked me to either go somewhere else or to leave. I took my girls and I left. I was so upset that I was treated like this. It's my dads birthday this weekend and we are having another family celebration. The timing of this one crosses over with the regular time my girls feed in the afternoon, so I will have to nurse. What do you think? Should I: 1. Nurse my babies confidently or 2. Hide myself away in a private room?

Question: I feel like I’m becoming my sister and don’t know how to be myself?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 08:30 PM PST

I am 25. My sister is 35. My sister lived with my mom and dad who fought really bad all the time until she was 10 and I was born. Then my mom went crazy and we both lived with my dad who a few years later had his girlfriend and her 2 kids move in. Our parents were not good role models. Our mom is very mentally ill, emotionally and verbally abusive, illiterate, very strange in a way, on disability. Our dad is addicted to weed, distant, emotionally unintelligent, and mean, though he has become nicer since we're older. Stepmom is trashy, doesn't have morals, and not nice to me. I feel that I've had issues with my identity. My sister is one of my role models. She is very smart and functional. She has a great career, married with a baby, very clean, healthy, works out, lives green, beautiful house, great sensible style. As I get older I see why she is the way she is and I feel compelled to make the same decisions because we have the same values. I feel conflicted because she has all these classy friends while my parents seem to want me to hang with and be a lower class person. I really respect my sisters way of life and want to be similar in ways. But I feel like I hardly have an individual identity. I also don't have many friends at all due to my low confidence which I need to work on. I'm just conflicted what type of friends and life to pursue.

Question: Has there been actual proof that birth order drastically effects people’s lifetime other than the stereotypes?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 08:28 PM PST

Spoiled, manipulative, rebellious behaviours might indicate that the parents failed to properly teach them right and wrong. It doesn't mean it's youngest child behaviour. Being bossy and aggressive also isn't firstborn traits, it could just mean that they haven't learned some things in the long run etc. Being a peacemaker is a sign that the person knows how to handle conflicts, resolve them, and compromise. Those are good skills to have, and we aren't born to have them. What I'm saying is, while most oldest kids are a bit more responsible in the long run as their parents required more of it, MOST of these traits were taught or learned.

Question: Is this fair?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 07:59 PM PST

Every so often my mother decides to hold a "bible study" in our living room and says we have no choice but to sit and listen to her or else we get kicked out the house. (Mind you that she's done this plenty times before, literally kicking us out) any ways my mother is not what you would called saved or whatever, but she believes that she has to preach and yell at us during this time. Also she pays not one bill in the house. I don't want to get into her business on here but she does a lot worse... Is this fair ? My sister and i are considered grown and looking to move out.

Question: Did your parents provide you with many more opportunities than they themselves had, growing up?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 07:47 PM PST

Question: What do you think about someone who always victimizes himself and treats everyone else as the "bad guys"?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 07:44 PM PST

Question: Do you think my mother now loves me less than before?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 07:36 PM PST

I am a 25 year old male and recently flew home for Christmas, only to learn that my parents are going to get a divorce. It turns out they have been separated since October and have ultimately decided it wasn't going to work and both hired lawyers. I was shocked, but it got worse from there. My parents, especially my mother, seemed to want me to take sides and hate the other. For example, as I was going to meet my father for coffee one day, my mother said 'Oh, fine. Go meet your father. Just proves he can do no wrong after all.' I flew home yesterday and called to check on her, and she was still quite upset. I can imagine both my parents are very stressed out, but I was a bit surprised when my mother, who is normally very loving to all of her kids, was not so much tonight. When we were ending the call and I said "I love you," she simply replied "Okay, take care." I know this is a childish question for a guy my age, but do you think this suggests my mother now loves me less for not taking sides in their divorce?

Question: Is my sister part Vulcan?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 06:59 PM PST

She speaks in monotone, displays almost no emotion, and she hates being touched. She doesn't have the eyebrows or the pointy ears but her hair is black and has a similar texture. Also, the last time she got hurt I'm pretty sure her blood was greenish. Is she part Vulcan?

Question: My dad is biased?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 06:25 PM PST

I think my dad is biased, today he took my older sisters phone and she started cursing at him and yelling at him calling him a hypocrite, saying stuff like f u and he didn't even yell at her and in the end gave her phone back. I wasn't even doing anything just sitting at the table and he started telling me I should freeze to death and I have no manners and other stuff to my mom the funny thing is the moment just before I told my mom how biased he is and how he is always talking behind my back to my grandparents. I looked at my mom and she gave me this look so I went upstairs. The other day my older sister just got a Mac book air that was just a little under 1000 while my other sister got a used laptop, these kinda stuff happens way to often and I doubt I'm overthinking stuff. What should I do?

Question: I don t want to be my sister s bridesmaid?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 06:12 PM PST

How do I tell her? My sister and are relatively close and she has asked to be a bridesmaid. She said that I would have to be involved with the bridal shower and bachlorette party and go on a girl s trip with her and a bunch of girls I don t know. Im honored and dont want to hurt her feelings but I have horrible anxiety and I don t know any of her friends, I m also 17 and her friends are in their mid twenties so I highly doubt they would want a minor that can t drink or pay for anything since I don t have a job tagging along. Also my parents can t helping pay for the stuff, isn t really an option as they re mostly absent and I live with my grandma but she can t really afford to help.

Question: I’m a 16 y/o girl and my dad makes me say sir and ma’am. I live with him my and my step mom. Now my dad wants me to call my step bro sir?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 06:04 PM PST

What should I do? He just got married to his new disgusting wife. She has a 26 year old son and do you agree it's weird? He's not that much older than me. My dad said it's a sign of respect and Bc I need to respect my elders ??? What should I do ?

Question: What is one thing you did when you were 18 that you regret?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 05:59 PM PST

Question: Special needs parents of adult children: Ever used a recreation travel program to send your kiddo on a trip/cruise?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 05:56 PM PST

Question: Am I too close with my cousin?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 05:52 PM PST

So I recently had a few good friends of mine tell me this was "weird". I am 16 years old (Male) And I have a cousin who is also 16 (Female) Me and her have been doing everything together since we were babies, and we're still super close this day, we talk about EVERYTHING, our families go on vacations together frequently, and me and her get changed around each other because that's normal for us (Going to bed, getting in the shower, getting changed for the pool, etc) I always found it pretty normal because both of our families are pretty chill with nudity and we all like don't care if we see each other naked, and we've been doing it since we were again well, babies, she's like my best friend but is what we do weird because she's my first cousin and a girl? (Note: There's no sexual feelings involved between either of us)

Question: I want to move out and rent an apartment soon, any advice?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 05:40 PM PST

I know this is somewhat unrealistic at time because I'm not employed, however I do have some money saved in my account from my previous job. But, I'm willing to sacrifice a lot for this. I want to move out is because, even though this problem may seem minor, its become a really big deal and its impacted me so much, I can't and don't want to deal with this. My youngest sister, 27, and I, 20, we don't get along. She has some mental anger issue. In fact, she scares me sometimes. For years, since I was a kid, she would blame everything on me. She yells at me and swears at me over the smallest thing. She will even go as far as physically hitting me. She gets along with my oldest sister and parents, but not with me. My parents can't do anything about her behaviour toward me. If she yells at me for something, my parents will take her side because she has some mental anger issues. One night I ran the faucet to wash my hands while she was sleeping. She wakes up, yells for me to go to bed. Next morning, she's getting ready for work and she wake me up because of last nights occurrence. When I refused, she was about to throw a few punches at me when my mom came and held onto her. One example out of many. When we go to parties, she dresses up and acts like an angel in front of everyone and they all compliment her. She even pulls me to dance with her. She's obviously faking it. I figured she changed. No, she was faking it. She even gossips about me to her friends. Cant take anymore.

Question: Emotionally abused?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 04:50 PM PST

I'm just needing some quick input. My friend has a boyfriend who when they're arguing, starts yelling and banging on things, or start yelling and throwing things because it "got her attention didn't it?" From time to time, he calls her a stupid *****, threatens to throw her stuff (boxes of clothes ect) in the trash, and tells her if she's not keeping up on the house constantly, she's ******* up on her "only job". He won't even share cigarettes when he's mad at her. He's like a Man child. She's thought about calling the police when he starts borderline screaming and banging things, or slams doors, because she's starting to feel unsafe. but if she did, he wouldn't let her back in the home so she would be homeless, and his parents (live next door) would be just as livid as him. She also doesn't want the police to not take her seriously. Her family lives cities away from her. What can she do?

Question: Is suicide my best option?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 04:49 PM PST

I have been suicidal. I am an adult guy that isn't perfect. I try and be nice to others but nobody cares. Family hates me. Yeah I have faults and flaws, I am also a loser and live with parent's. I deal with anxiety and depression, and blamed for everything. My dad is ashamed of me. I have also been to jail having to do with my mom. Because of misunderstanding, and frustration. I am not perfect and i am hated. Nobody wants anything to do with me.

Question: Don't want my sister to hang out with me and my friend?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 04:38 PM PST

I am going to meet up with one of my new friends and she was gonna pick up for me (you know) and my sister knows that so she wanted to come cause she's also heard about my friend a lot so she wants to meet her and be friends with her too, but I just don't want my sister there because she doesn't know my friend AT ALL. I'm already lucky this girl is friends with me because she's like 3 years older and I can't just randomly be like oh btw can my sister come and my sister doesn't understand that it doesn't work like that it will be awkward and my friend could possibly be annoyed that my sister is tagging along. I have no idea how to tell my sister that and it's killing me because she keeps mentioning it and I know it I tell her if she comes it would be kinda weird she will freak out and get super angry at me especially cause she'll wanna get high too. My sister can sometimes just get mad and not understand **** and then she'll start bringing up old **** I've done and threatening me. Please help I just want to simply hang and have fun with a friend without my sister there

Question: My family from states is asking to have online access is this safe?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 04:37 PM PST

Question: How can i work through these problems?

Posted: 03 Jan 2018 04:37 PM PST

my mom passed in february. i used to treat my mom badly due to our severe problems. i thought she didn't want me from the time i was 9 so i had a bit of resentment. however, we were on a good track before she died and everything. but i feel bad for treating her shitty and thinking badly of her. i've lived w my dad since i was 9. now he's all i have and i think of him basically how i used to think of my mom. i don't want to hug him, i don't want to be around him, i don't want to talk to him, anything that makes me think of him MUST be out of my sight. i can't listen to music that makes me think of him, etc. but i don't have reason for this one. i guess i just see the real him now that i'm older, but idk. i genuinely can't help it. i know i will regret it when the time comes but something in me won't let it go. i hate it so much because we used to be close but i can't stand him anymore. all he does is drink and **** up the house and expect me to clean. what should i do? how can i work through this? if i left anything out, don't hesitate to ask about it please, i genuinely need help!!