We haven't seen each other in a month and he suggested that I drive to his town to see him. I'm offended because I feel like he's trying to do the least amount of work so we will sleep together. This guy tried to tell me that I don't have to have sex, and that I should stop trying to read his mind but I know he's after sex because he always makes sexual comments. He also mentioned how he wouldn't buy he dinner since I won't have sex.

Ive had some money problems (a lot of debt) in which my husband has somewhat helped me get out of before we married. Sometimes I will take his card or some of his cash before going to the store. Ive found out he looks at my receipts when I get home without telling me. He also looked at my phone once because my ex was texting me late one night and he looked through my texts and told me he did. He did not hide the fact. Is this weird?

My boyfriend asked me if I wanted HEAD not sex but head ! Anyways he goes down to lick my p*ssy he's licking it for a few till he gets a hard on and sticks is d*ck in me and starts humping he never once asked me if I wanted actual sex is this rape !!!

We dated for a little over 3 years and I felt I had to push at around 1.5 years to get him to propose to me. He ended up calling off our wedding shortly before it was to be held. He did not want to reschedule it. It has been a year and a half since we broke up. He has been dating a girl for a little over a year, and she moved in with him last week and he wants to propose to her as his friends say its serious and he said he wouldnt have someone move in without it leading to marriage. I never lived with him for many reasons (religion, convenience, schedules). He also seems happier with her than me.

when she talk to her sister and cry he say....get over it you not going anywhere what are your thoughts of that husband?

We just had a little argument. He says i don't need to know what time he'll be home or if hes running late. I like to know not from a controlling pov but to know hes safe and when to start cooking...a peace of mind. I never tell him what he can or can't do. I'm very submissive in our relationship. Am I wrong for getting upset with what he said? He was an hour late. His dinner was on the counter. I ignored him when he got home because he didn't tell me he was going to be running late.

We all get sick and have blood from our bottoms.Mum is worried from the coincidence.Tell me please

My husband is from a different country and to be together I had to move to be with him. I gave up my job,my home, my friends, my family. We have kids together. He has a kid from a previous relationship. He dotes on her,She is the most beautiful amazing girl in the whole world and nothing will ever come close, to the point where he has told me I have to find somewhere else to stay in the summer as he wants 7 weeks alone with just her. I am stay at home parent as he doesn't want me to work. He cheated on me with this ex and I cant trust him, even though it was at the start of our relationship. He won't let me have a access to his bank. He gives me a set amount of money a week for groceries. I have no spare money for anything. Me and my kids live on the poverty line while he has takeouts every day for work and is spending money on ridiculous **** like sports memorabilia. I am undergoing tests for cancer, I have been sick for a few months and I had to have a biopsy taken. He says I am a hypochondriac. He hasn't helped me with our kids at all while I've been sick, yet he can dedicate 7 whole weeks to his daughter. I was just trying to open up to him about how scared I was and his friend called him, so he cut me off to answer his phone. I am really on the verge of just wanting to go home.If I leave I will be homeless until I get a place, I'll have no money, no car, no job, and all my furniture will be stuck here. I just don't know what to do. I haven't anyone to talk to

Me and my wife have been married for 10 years, we have agreed that we may sleep with anyone as long as there is a condom involved, she typically has sex with her ex every Saturday, he comes to our house and has his way with her, i somtimes watch and masturbate, other times i bring my own partner, this time i was at work, while on my break i tried to call her but she didn t answer, then i recieved a Snapchat image from her ex telling me "still ******* this slut." It turned me on so i decided to call to hear her moans, no response, by the end of my break i recieve a Snapchat video, it was my wife moving herself off of her ex s cock, his cock covered in ***, no condom, and her pussy leaking ***, with the text saying "Couldn t find a condom, she didn t care tho."

My husband agreed too take over my car payments, so that I could purchase a bigger vehicle. He agreed because he needed a reliable vehicle as well. We looked at several and as we went back the next day to put the down payment, he told me he had decided not to take over the payments after all! We were literally minutes away from the dealership. I was so mad I cried all the way home, his explanation was that we needed to wait until our daughters party had passed as we have a lot of expenses. I hate myself for forgiving him, he still hasn't apologized. What do I do?

So ever since trump signed that new thing it has put me in extreme worries these last couple of days. I am trying to bring over my wife from southeast asia and I am afraid her case will be canceled. Should I consult an immigration attorney ?

What is the point of a long term relationship when there is such a high divorce rate and there will be people always more beautiful or better than you? Don't we all just get cheated on anyways because the other partner is looking for something else? How can we ever trust our partners with things like social media and phone apps around?

My parents been married for 18 years and all of the sudden my mom wants to divorce my dad. She says he doesn't consider her opinions nor does he care about us. But, it's not like he's cheating or gambling money. And my dad doesn't complain when she spends $5,000 on a purse. She's just tired of constantly fighting with him. But, the thing is they're just fighting over the new house we're building and furniture. She says that she'll find a job and she'll be capable of taking care of us. But, she doesn't even have a college degree. What job is she going to get to financially support her three children? Not to mention, she's minority. It's only going to make things harder. I'm just frustrated with her and it seems like she's trying to validate her actions. I told her not to do anything she's going to regret and to think rationally. Then she got mad at me for not supporting her. I just don't want her to regret her actions and then seek pity or comfort from other people. Like I feel like my mom has been neglected from my dad, but she can't afford to divorce. Most women who divorce know they're going to be financially stable. While, she'll have absolutely nothing. Anyway, I'm kind of sad. I don't want my parents to split too. She also talks about it so bluntly in front of my younger brother. And he doesn't need to hear about those things yet. Any advice? I get it, not to interfere with their relationship. But the last thing I want my mom to do is take my younger brother and run off working 2 jobs to barely make ends meet. She also expects me to go with her when she divorces my dad. Which is the last thing on my mind. Honestly, I feel like she wants me to pity her but the more I think about it the more I'm starting to see how childish her actions are.

I am a happily married woman. I love my husband very much! Every now and then though I think of him...the one who got away. I can go years without a thought of him, but every once in awhile he pops in my head. We were never an item! We were really good friends that hung out a lot. I had a huge crush on him but was always afraid to do anything about it. We had one drunken kiss but that does not count. All this was over 19 years ago! He s got a good life and so do I. So why does he haunt me so from time to time. I feel so guilty when this happens. I love my husband so much. Am I bad person?

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I split up with my husband a few months ago and started dating this guy. He takes good care of me and my five kids and we have been talking about marriage for a while now. I wanted to know how to divorce my husband. Please help me. I have no clue what to do or where to even start.

I'm am a 38 year old woman, I've been married for 8 years. My husband and I have not been close for the last 5 yrs, and though I try to get him to spend time with me as my husband, he's just not interested. Anyway, I have a friend, he's 26 years old. He's very handsome, tall, smart, hardworking, and kind. I've known him for three years, and we are close friends. We hang out and go do things like go hiking, swimming, dancing, or sometimes go see a movie; and afterwards we have dinner. I try and try to get my husband to do those things with me, but he refuses. I don't know why, I keep in shape, I always dress well, and I treat him good, but he won't spend time with me. He wont even have sex with me! He'd rather be working, watch tv, or ride his motorcycle. Anyway, I have met a lot of the women my friend has dated, and though they're very lovely, I am starting to have a hard time seeing him with them. A lot of times when I see them holding him, and touching him, I can't stand it. I'm so confused? My husband won't spend time with me no matter what I do, my friend is more than happy too spend time with me, and I don't like seeing him in another woman's arms. Why do I feel this way about my friend, and what can I do?

If this helps, im 29, hes 23. Anyways, hes currently in his first year of dental school. Im a med school student so him and i can relate to the tough schooling! Hes worked as a dental hygienist the past two years. He likes it and pays well. To cut to the chase, a month or so ago he has a cousin who is a police officer and he offered to take my husband on the job with him to see what cops do. My husband gladly went and when he came back, i can tell he loved it. A week or so following that day, he sat down with me telling me that hes going to drop out of dental school and join our local police department. Obviously he has to go through police academy first. I love him to death and am im full support of his decision, but why would someone want to drop such an amazing career field like dentistry? He claims that dental school is boring and to have a job where hes digging in peoples mouths all day is not his thing. What do you guys think?

The whole damn house was decorated solely by him. I was not part of the decorating at all. Not even in the kitchen or bathroom! I need my space so I can think without being groped and having him up my **** all the time! He says I can t have that. Would you guys give your wives a woman cave if she asked for it?

Ok so my husband left to work and forgot his phone. I went through the search history and i found out hes been searching girls with big *** and titsand of course porn. I am beyond pissed. I don t know how to approach this to him because I don t want him to know i ve been looking at his phone. How should I handle it?

My husband and I had a disagreement about parenting last month and were not on the best of terms but were trying to work it out. While we were trying to solve things I was stressed so I booked a trip out of state to visit a platonic single male friend of mine that I grew up with. I did not invite my husband to go with me. My husband and I made up and worked it however I ended up taking the trip anyways without him and stayed for several days with my platonic make friend. When I came home my husband told me he wanted a divorce. In the past Ive told my husband we shouldn't take trips without one another and honestly I would not like it if my husband did that to me. Was what I did so wrong and how do I save my marriage?

I read this blog and see your responses, I have no experience I have never seen my fiancé naked, or any other man, What if I don't like his penis -too big / too small / ugly? Or what he does with it and wants me to do those hand mouth aynel things that men want (yuk that scares me) It's too late then

I was married for 5 years to a UK citizen and we lived in America together. We went through the immigration processes and got to the point where he was about to receive a permanent residence card. Before that point we went back to UK where he is from and I lived with him there. A few years into it things were not working out so I went back home to America with our son (he signed notarized papers etc. through lawyers). We got a divorce about a year and a half later. After the divorce, I found out that he actually came back to America and remarried a different US citizen before we were ever even legally divorced - about 5 months after I left UK to come back to America. Is this still considered bigamy after the divorce was finalized because I had no idea? Also is his 2nd marriage considered a fraudulent marriage? Any info would be greatly appreciated. . I understand most of you are saying "move on with your life". I have been moved on with my life. This is information that I just found out and I feel that it is disgusting that people can get away with that kind of thing here.

My husband makes good money and is a doctor but has always been cheap with me. For himself he has an authentic Breitling watch and a new sports car, motorcycle and on and on. Same for his family. If his brother wants or needs anything including expensive phones he gets it for them! He got me a $20 engagement ring from Amazon and it's starting to rust. I have no wedding band. When I bring it up he says it shouldn't matter to me. Anything I want I have to pay for. Ultimately it hurts my feelings that for himself and his family he will splurge but when it comes to me I'm being ungrateful or I want too much. Am I wrong to be hurt by this? What should I do?

Mother and father got divorced 2 years ago and have been splitting 50/50 custody since. This is in the divorce decree. Mother has had a baby since then with another man. And is now wanting to move 2 hours away (it is in the same state) with a different new man she has known for 5 months before the 5 year old child starts kindergarten so she is filling full custody where father would only get him every other weekend even though they have had 50/50 for 2 years. Her argument is child won't be able to spend time with his half brother. Father has lived in the same house since divorce and has not moved. Father wants to enroll him in a private school and is willing to pay for it that would still be in the area where the child was born and grew up since he was born. Father is currently engaged. He does not want to give up his time because she is moving away. And is paying child support even with a 50/50 case cause he makes 100k a year while she makes 10k a year. What would a judge do in this case?

Long story ahort they have been split up for two years before I met her. We are going on 9 months now. They are finalizing paperwork. The ex makes loads of money but reuses to split school cost his sons insurance and split doctor bills. Everyday it's a new page to the same chapter of this mess. There is no leaving this relationship for me, so those answers are out the window please. She calls me roughly ten times a day when so am at work and 6 of them are about her situation with the ex, I am sick of it. I told her to wake up it doesn't matter what he makes or what he should do it is clear he won't so give it up. When I arrive home from work this is what she wants to talk about. I get short and blunt how I feel and I don't want to discuss it anymore. Like I said leaving is not an option. What should I do

Instead of wife I now have a VPN, I don t know what it is and what I can do with it.. I tried restarting my computer 3 times and my wife is still not there, completely gone. I tried to search online on my different computer which is connected directly to a cable internet and I tried all the solutions but my wife still gone. Here in the neighborhood we got plenty of wifes of others people and I always connected to them with my wife and now I can t.