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- Question: Should I just leave if everyone tells me they would be happier?
- Question: Voted Most Friendliest???
- Question: I havent been getting along with my best frirend?
- Question: Did this happen?
- Question: I'm 14 and i'm like caged in my own house?
- Question: How can I cope with my unhappiness and overall discontent with my life?
- Question: My friend shakes her butt in my face how do i get her 2 stop?
- Question: What does it mean to talk down when someone isn't around?
- Question: Do I repulse people?
- Question: How can I sneak my friend to prom?
- Question: Why am i so quiet? how can i change?
- Question: What is contact information for Adam E. Hugh of Forney, Texas?
- Question: Spanish help?
- Question: Best friend's wedding or girlfriend's birthday?
- Question: What to do about this "friend"?
- Question: Is this true?
- Question: HELP i need to solve this problem ASAP?
- Question: Why don t my parents ever believe me?
- Question: Was this theft ? My principal left a stack of notebooks near our desks during a meeting. I took one along with other papers. She said i was?
- Question: Is there anything wrong with not wanting to have friends?
- Question: How would you react to crowds of people talking about you?
- Question: If something goes wrong, would I get the blame?
- Question: Birthday gift for my best friend. I'm a girl?
- Question: My friend dips his poptarts in milk. Should I be worried?
- Question: Friend keeps cancelling. Am I expecting too much or is it time for me to move on?
- Question: Is better to live in the city with good transportation but expensive rent or have your own car plus insurance plus apartment for rent which is cheaper?
- Question: My cousin always ditching me for another friend?
- Question: EMBARRASSED MYSELF!!! FIRST DAY BACK OF SENIOR YEAR HSC!?
- Question: First day back of highschool and humiliated!!!!! help!?
- Question: I change my best friends fast how can I stop it?
- Question: L changed my life!But something is holding me back?
- Question: Im getting bullied and i canr take it anymore?
- Question: I know a girl who does crazy stuff.My mom's making me go w/ her Saturday.I tried tellng her I don't feel safe.Now my mom's going too.Advice?
- Question: Me and my bff got into argument?! Plz tell me what to do?
- Question: My friend is trying to get involved in my relationship?
- Question: Why did my best friend kiss me?
- Question: Is it okay for a 15 year old to hang out with a college student?
- Question: I'm always the butt of the joke among friends...what do I do?
- Question: Insults to a bully?
- Question: Is it molesting when the person is 4 or 5 years older than you?
- Question: I got buddy in interacial relationship, they wanna get married but they afraid interacial marriages anger their parent, what should i advice?
- Question: Should I just kill myself?
- Question: He stares at me?
- Question: I'm tired of people taking advantage of my love!?
- Question: (likely) Autistic friend is immature and inconsiderate, but I can t escape him?
- Question: My friend spits so much whenever she talks?
- Question: I don't know what to do.?
- Question: Why is my friend automatically burps everytime she massage me?
- Question: Was the Mother making a mistake?
- Question: What to do with my friend who is nice then mean?
- Question: Why did these girls walk by me and laugh and say mean things to me? I didn't even know them!! I'm so upset,please read!! :(?
- Question: How to ruin a life (legally)?
- Question: Why can't I text anybody?
- Question: What should I do if the male friend is meaner to me than the female friend?
- Question: Could I be transgender?
- Question: Why do college girls act like this?
Question: Should I just leave if everyone tells me they would be happier? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 05:25 PM PST Lately everyone I care about that I thought cared about me. Family friends my girlfriend. They have all been pissed with me over small things I even admit I'm wrong and apologized to everyone who I think I hurt. This is the first time I'm dissapointing these people though before I was perfect. Now they are all turning their backs on me even when I never turned my back on them. They are telling me to basically just leave. Not all the same way saying it but all in the same meaning. My biological father a man I hate told me no one cares for you and that everyone would be better of if I just left. Now I am starting to think he is right. So should I just leave? They way everyone is making it sound that's the only way to make them happy. |
Question: Voted Most Friendliest??? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 05:13 PM PST So I'm a little embarrassed that I got most friendliest person in my grade. The reason I am is because I act so tough at home. The votes were put in at the beginning of the school year and I've changed since then. If I told my mom this, she would probably laugh and not take me seriously. Today I had to take a picture with a girl that also won most friendliest for the yearbook. We had to hold hands and I felt out of place. If all my friends see it, I don't even know. Is there a way to reword it to make it not seem so lame or should I just keep it to myself. Thanks |
Question: I havent been getting along with my best frirend? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 04:36 PM PST Okay part of it is because I jusy constantly get annoyed with her but not my other besties. I used to be able to talk to her and not be annoyed and we'd just click. But now she's the same but maybe I'm changing. Everything she says makes me want to roll my eyes. She's the type that's Tom boyish all the way and I'm girly and a tad bit boyish but not a lot. Another half is because of a boy she doesn't know I have feelings for. Yes I know the saying don't let a guy ruin friendships. But he is friends with my "bff" and me. But she pushes me away from him and I know she's playing but she usually does push me out of their interactions. I become jealous I'm not gonna lie and that's another reason I don't get along with her. She doesn't know she acts like everything's fine between us and I of course act fake. Sometimes I click with her and I'm glad but most of the time I want to slap her. What should i do? Will this go away? I really don't want my bestie out of my life we've all been through a lot together. |
Posted: 02 Feb 2017 04:23 PM PST If my iMessage goes from blue to green does that mean I'm blocked? It was to a friend who isn't the best at answering their phone(does it to everyone). Trying to get in contact now and then over the last few days. The blue message goes to green. I'm guessing he blocked me, right? Idk why. |
Question: I'm 14 and i'm like caged in my own house? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 04:12 PM PST I have no life, no friends, i don't go to school, i don't go outside (homeschool), all because of my parents. I'm getting depressed since i can't go outside without them, which they rarely go outside. I have a huge passion for photography, and i can't take photos since i can't go outside. Is it because i'm a girl? |
Question: How can I cope with my unhappiness and overall discontent with my life? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 03:20 PM PST My life is awful. I hate my friends for hanging out without me and using my jokes like they're their own. I hate my best friend for replacing me with my own friends and not ever even texting me in the slightest. I hate how oblivious she is. I get on social media and it makes me even sadder. The new friends I made don't make me happy, either. I hate that I am always so tired and I hate that I never exercise or eat right anymore. I hate that I don't have time to eat breakfast or pack lunch so I come home and binge eat. I hate that I have to watch television shows or Youtube to distract me from how unhappy my friends and my diet and my health and my GPA are and how I haven't started studying for SATs. I hate how my friends only hung out with me when I had a car and now tht they have a car they don't anymore. I hate how I get jealous of people instead of being happy for them. The obvious solution to this is to delete social media, make even more new friends, work out, eat right, sleep more, do homework on time, study a lot but it isn't that simple and I don't know why. Please help. Please tell me how I can better myself and make myself |
Question: My friend shakes her butt in my face how do i get her 2 stop? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 03:20 PM PST its so gross like wtf ewww nobody wants a butt in there face |
Question: What does it mean to talk down when someone isn't around? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 02:58 PM PST |
Question: Do I repulse people? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 02:33 PM PST Hi, I'm a 25 years old man who has no friends and haven't had a date for over 6 years. I try to be kind and I work out 5 days per week for 3 years now. Is there anything I can do to have friendship with a person? |
Question: How can I sneak my friend to prom? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 02:11 PM PST My friendship group of 6 are really close (like movie friendship close) and one of us who shall not be named decided to move to a media school to chase after her dreams and stuff. Anyway, recently the realisation that she actually won t be able to come to our prom is like sad af I can t allow that to happen omigod I will actually die like how can we sneak her in????? |
Question: Why am i so quiet? how can i change? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 01:45 PM PST hi im 14 and im a girl and i have friends but for sum reason its hard for me to socialize my friends keep saying im quiet and im sooo tired of them saying that! i remember i used to talk all the time and people would love being around me cuz i was intresting but now all that change my bestfriend keeps saying im to serious and im to quiet and she kinda stopped talking to me so i feel like i kinda lost a bestfriend and it makes me sad....like i wish i can make her happy i wish i can make everyone around me happy but i feel so down i dont even feel confident anymore..what can i do to change |
Question: What is contact information for Adam E. Hugh of Forney, Texas? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 01:03 PM PST |
Posted: 02 Feb 2017 12:36 PM PST Create a fast food conversation. In your conversation, be sure to include the following items: greet your friend, your friend orders, you order a hamburger, French fries, and a soda, discuss how good it tastes, and say goodbye to your friend. |
Question: Best friend's wedding or girlfriend's birthday? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 12:27 PM PST My best friend is getting married this coming June, and I have a role as a groom's man, and it happens to be on the same weekend as my girlfriend's birthday. She is upset about this because I will be several states away in Florida for the wedding and won't be back in time to celebrate that weekend, and she hates that I won't be there to see her. I've suggested celebrating at another time, but she's still quite upset that I won't be there. It appears my options are either 1. Go to my friend's wedding and miss her birthday weekend, making her upset, or 2. Missing the wedding and possibly upsetting my best friend. Do any of you older, wiser YA! users have any advice? (I'd be paying for my flight there as well) |
Question: What to do about this "friend"? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 12:23 PM PST It's a guy that likes me and I turned him down nicely. I'm his friend but it's getting annoying... he says he is trying to become attractive for me but I told him to find someone who will like him for him. He still insist and won't listen to me. I'm also depressed and he always pressures me to tell him my feelings. When I would not tell him he said "**** you" to me. I got pissed because I don't presusre him and I respect him. But he gets mad when I dont want to tell him. I also feel bad because I know for a fact that if I had a normal best friend that hung out with me alot I would not mind. But now that I know he likes me It annyones me and I feel bad. I don't know what to do |
Posted: 02 Feb 2017 11:17 AM PST When i asked my friend why she doesnt make eye contact she said; "Because im afraid of getting hurt...whenever i look into someone's eyes...what ever they tell me I internalize...so i dont make eye contact" I guess what im asking is...is that really a reason some people dont make eye contact? |
Question: HELP i need to solve this problem ASAP? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 10:38 AM PST So ive got a new sc account and i obviously told my friends and people that i know from my old account to add the new one,so at the first like 20 people that added me i could add back,but now i see all my friends adding me and it tell me that its adding them but it isnt?so once i close and open the app again it appears with theyre name again and im so stressed i really need help ive tried everything!! |
Question: Why don t my parents ever believe me? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 10:30 AM PST I mean sure... I used to lie. And I used to break the rules they set. Especially playing on my computer until early in the morning. But I havent lied to them in months. And every time my brothers do something they always assume it was me and even if I can prove to them it wasn t me they think I m lying somehow. It really sucks because every time something bad happens they assume it s me and that strengthens their opinion that I lie all the time. I ve resolved to just walk out of the room whenever they assume I did something I know for sure I didn t do... And you would be surprised how often that happens. Atleast once a day. This isn t a permanent solution though and I m always fighting with them because of this. Please help me. |
Posted: 02 Feb 2017 10:29 AM PST Stealing |
Question: Is there anything wrong with not wanting to have friends? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 10:14 AM PST Back when I had no friends and was content our of ignorance, I was semi-happy. Then I found a friend, and was double-happy. Then I lost that friend to situations neither of us could control, and I was miserable. Now it's been just over a year, and I am still sad but getting over it. I don't want to do that to myself again. |
Question: How would you react to crowds of people talking about you? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 09:26 AM PST I have a neurological disorder so my body probably shakes , bucks, ticks, and trembles a lot of the time. Apparently, because of this I look and sound scared to people all the time. People are constantly making comments, I hear gossip ,whispering constantly, and it makes me feel like a freak. I try to ignore people because all I want to do is go through a normal day and I can't stop and talk to everyone I hear say something. Ive addressed people in different ways from being civil and also being aggressive. I find constantly doing this makes me look bad and I've been banned from three or four places from altercations. Ignoring them isn't very good though because these people are bringing down my quality of life and making me depressed. |
Question: If something goes wrong, would I get the blame? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 08:49 AM PST Even though I am divorced, I am still friends with my ex husband. I know people say that can not be done be we did it. I am also friends with several divorced women like me. These women have asked me to fix them up with a date with my ex husband. I can understand this as he is a great, and I mean GREAT looking guy. I know they would enjoy a date with him and I know he would enjoy a date with them. I am not sure I want to do that however. I am afraid if something goes wrong on their date, one or both of them will be mad at me. Guys, how would you feel about your ex setting you up with dates for beautiful women? What if it did not work out. Would you blame me? Gals, also if I set you up with a date with a guy and it did not work out, would you blame me? |
Question: Birthday gift for my best friend. I'm a girl? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 07:59 AM PST My best friend and I have been friends since 7th grade. We are now 17 and I wanna do something super super special for her bday bc she's family to me and I wanna give her something memorable. What is something memorable U would want ur best friend to give u. I was thinking ab buying two nights for us to spend at Wisconsin Dells, but the age rule is 18 |
Question: My friend dips his poptarts in milk. Should I be worried? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 07:26 AM PST |
Question: Friend keeps cancelling. Am I expecting too much or is it time for me to move on? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 07:22 AM PST Okay, so I've got this friend I met around 09/2014 who keeps blowing me off whenever one of us arranges something. The last time we met up, it took like a month to arrange it but that may have been due to Ramadan and other things. We've been trying to meet up since August but she keeps cancelling. We keep in touch via email because she doesn't have a mobile phone. Anyway, it goes like this: 15/08 She messages me to tell me her granddad died the night before. I'm a **** friend who probably didn't see this message because I was spending annual leave over at my uncle's house, which is two hours away from home, and all of my mum's cousins were coming around to visit and keeping me busy. 18-24/08 My dad drives me back home so I can get my exam results. I reply and offer my condolences. I ask her if she wants to see the movie that we discussed when we met up last month. She says yeah and we set it for the following Saturday. 26/08 The day before we're due to meet up, she cancels last minute; her sister's giving birth and wants her to look after her daughter while everyone else accompanies her to hospital 03/09 I ask her if we're going today, she says no and pushes it back another week She says she's scared about working, I think she got an apprenticeship at that point? Hard to tell because she doesn't reply when I ask. Hold on, I'll carry on in additional details. 13/09 Tells me she's returning to college (I'm not) and asks stuff about a mutual friend who's still there 17-18/09 Says she'll plan something 23/09 Ask her if she wants to go out this weekend as she never followed up but she says she's got to work for mum and earn money 27-28/10 Messages me out of nowhere and asks if I want to go shopping with her. She can't do this week but can do the next weekend. I say okay. 09-11/11 Asks if I want to eat out this weekend, 'definitely no cancellation' I point out that she said 'definitely' last time She says no 'buts' this time and that five of her friends, four of whom I've never met, are coming along too I ask her about these friends because I'm not very comfortable around people I don't know She dodges these questions and insists that we can go shopping later, just the two of us Starting to wonder if these friends actually exist... She suddenly apologises for being a **** friend and says we should hang out alone the NEXT Saturday I say that's not necessary, I just want to know who these friends are. She finally gives some names, but only three as opposed to five, the only one I know being one of the ones who didn't show up the last time Says she's not even going tomorrow anyway because her sister is coming down with her family, including the new baby Blames her family for being so last minute and suggests next weekend We never meet up that month. 21/12 Wish her happy (late) birthday She replied but I somehow didn't see the email - my fault - even though I'm sure I checked? 16-25/01 I ask if she wants to meet up and she says she free whenever I suggest the following weekend She says actually she can't meet up until 04/02 because she's busy helping her mum run her business It's decided we'll meet up then and we discuss the details She stops replying 2/02 I get *that* feeling and ask her if we're still on for Saturday. Surprise, surprise... she cancels. She says she's broke as she spent ALL her money on shopping. Apparently her mum's got new pricing and a new website (she mentioned this site as being new about two weeks ago) I reply somewhat bitchily and say she should have told me before, maybe two weeks ago? I say that I'm broke too (quit my job; personal reasons) but I still would have made an effort to meet her. So, is this too much cancelling on her part or is this me expecting too much? What do I do? I find it questionable that she has two jobs but claims she's broke. And who exactly did she go shopping with, if she's really that busy and always cancels? More exciting friends? Her sister or her mum? I don't even know if I should bother anymore because she'll probably just cancel again. So, is this too much cancelling on her part or is this me expecting too much? What do I do? I find it questionable that she has two jobs but claims she's broke. And who exactly did she go shopping with, if she's really that busy and always cancels? More exciting friends? Her sister or her mum? I don't even know if I should bother anymore because she'll probably just cancel again. Sorry about that duplicate post, Internet is acting up. |
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Question: My cousin always ditching me for another friend? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 05:29 AM PST Alright first off im not jealous of him going out with his friend i really don't care but Im tired of being the second pick meaning the only way my cousin wants to hang out its if his other friend is unavailable which ive been noticing and if we make plans to hang out or to do something and his textes him to hang he always leaves whatever his doing with me to go with his friend. in the beggining i didn't care but hes done this many times already kinda makes me feel like he doesnt even like being with me. What really pisses me off is that when his with me his safe in the sense he wont be getting in trouble with the police or with anyone else but with his friend is a hole different story they do stuff that will put them in jail and me being his family i always tried to make him understand this because even though his my cousin his kinda my little brother bcuz im 21 and hes 17. I could of easily just hang out with my friends but most of them have a way different work schedules that makes it difficult for us to chill Thats why ive been putting my ego aside and kept agreeing to hang out with my cousin even tho in the end he most likely just forget about our plans and ditch me again idk if this is going to sound like jealousy but im tired of feeling second.my question is if i did right to block him and ignore him for awhile even tho it hurts me bcuz like i said hes like a brother to me and the more hes with his friend the higher the probability of him being arrested |
Question: EMBARRASSED MYSELF!!! FIRST DAY BACK OF SENIOR YEAR HSC!? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 04:59 AM PST so i have reactant anxiety and social anxiety, im 17 and going into senior year, i've always had terrible anxiety caused by school and bullying so this situation really has ****** me up even though it isn't such a big deal as others may view it. so i started senior year 2 days ago, by the way i always smoke weed regularly especially before school to help me get through the day and survive, or atleast go through it with a haze so it's easier to deal with. the first lesson back we did an orientation thing that every class does as a get to know thing, so we all had a group of 3 and asked the questions written on the sheet and have to answer it then read it out, since everyone was talking the first question was what did you do over the break? so i said in a joking manner "ohh well idk if i can be honest ahaha" and then the other two were like ah it's fine, so in my head i thought oh we're just talking about the holidays just together like in a non serious way so my stupid brain with no filter blurtted out "drugs" i was meant to just say "bud" or "green" anyways the minute i ****** up they stared at me and then i said "but yeah just write down the city/hanging out with friends" which is true because i go to the city nearly everyday despite having social anxiety im fine in public it's just at school since bullying was from there. anyways after i moved on from what i said they were being very condescending and just like "hah drugs, drugs drugs" when going down the list so i just sat there and tried to move on since they were a bit immature, meanwhile on one of the guys papers he had literally wrote down "drinking" on every question, so i got a bit pissed off cause i only said "drugs" as a joke sorta thing yeah it came out very wrong but i wasn't literally going to write that down, anyways by the end of the class when so i just sat there and tried to move on since they were a bit immature, meanwhile on one of the guys papers he had literally wrote down "drinking" on every question, so i got a bit pissed off cause i only said "drugs" as a joke sorta thing yeah it came out very wrong but i wasn't literally going to write that down, anyways by the end of the class when were going to hand in our papers, since people were staring at me i pointed to his sheet with the drinking on it and said "ohh so drinking is okayyyy but weed isn't??" cause it's just a plant and theres been no deaths it's pretty harmless. after that class was over and i just felt this enormous regret and humiliation. now i haven't been back since, i just feel like people are talking about me and judging me. i just wish i didn't say that word, like why did my brain decide that was okay. SORRY it's so long, idk why it repeated the second update... anyways WHAT DO I DO?? i just can't go back my anxiety is so bad right now and i feel like i wanna just disappear completely |
Question: First day back of highschool and humiliated!!!!! help!? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 04:49 AM PST so i have reactant anxiety and social anxiety, im 17 and going into senior year, i've always had terrible anxiety caused by school and bullying so this situation really has ****** me up even though it isn't such a big deal as others may view it. so i started senior year 2 days ago, by the way i always smoke weed regularly especially before school to help me get through the day and survive, or atleast go through it with a haze so it's easier to deal with. the first lesson back we did an orientation thing that every class does as a get to know thing, so we all had a group of 3 and asked the questions written on the sheet and have to answer it then read it out, since everyone was talking the first question was what did you do over the break? so i said in a joking manner "ohh well idk if i can be honest ahaha" and then the other two were like ah it's fine, so in my head i thought oh we're just talking about the holidays just together like in a non serious way so my stupid brain with no filter blurtted out "drugs" i was meant to just say "bud" or "green" anyways the minute i ****** up they stared at me and then i said "but yeah just write down the city/hanging out with friends" which is true because i go to the city nearly everyday despite having social anxiety im fine in public it's just at school since bullying was from there. anyways after i moved on from what i said they were being very condescending and just like "hah drugs, drugs drugs" when going down the list so i just sat there and tried to move on since they were a bit immature, meanwhile on one of the guys papers he had literally wrote down "drinking" on every question, so i got a bit pissed off cause i only said "drugs" as a joke sorta thing yeah it came out very wrong but i wasn't literally going to write that down, anyways by the end of the class when so i just sat there and tried to move on since they were a bit immature, meanwhile on one of the guys papers he had literally wrote down "drinking" on every question, so i got a bit pissed off cause i only said "drugs" as a joke sorta thing yeah it came out very wrong but i wasn't literally going to write that down, anyways by the end of the class when were going to hand in our papers, since people were staring at me i pointed to his sheet with the drinking on it and said "ohh so drinking is okayyyy but weed isn't??" cause it's just a plant and theres been no deaths it's pretty harmless. after that class was over and i just felt this enormous regret and humiliation. now i haven't been back since, i just feel like people are talking about me and judging me. i just wish i didn't say that word, like why did my brain decide that was okay. SORRY it's so long, idk why it repeated the second update... anyways WHAT DO I DO?? i just can't go back my anxiety is so bad right now and i feel like i wanna just disappear completely |
Question: I change my best friends fast how can I stop it? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 04:41 AM PST i mean im close with someone and then all of a sudden they become annoying and I start to count on someone else as my bff how can I stop it and be loyal? |
Question: L changed my life!But something is holding me back? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 03:51 AM PST Hey guy's! I've been recently changing things of what I use to do! I now try to eat healthy! Wana be a youtuber and I stay away from toxic people as possibly as I can!And I follow what's right and what I want to do instead of my parents! I am 14 and still in school but school is depressing me and I want to get out! |
Question: Im getting bullied and i canr take it anymore? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 03:17 AM PST So i was bullied for 2 whole years from year 7 to year 8 by many different people. Now a couple of days ago i started year 9 and its gotten so much worse like a noy in my year he hates me so much and more than anything in the world he doesnt even hate anyone else. And now he has turned some of my friends against me and he talks so much **** and i cant take it anymore |
Posted: 02 Feb 2017 03:05 AM PST I'm an adult with PDD-NOS and sometimes it's hard to do social stuff. I told my mother that I don't feel safe around this girl many times. My mom feels bad for her.I know she has similar conditions as I have, so I want to be sympathetic, but she continues to get in trouble.Every time we hang out, something bad happens or someone gets hurt.An example of these "crazy stuff" would be breaking into my home and dragging me out of the house at 8:50 pm to play at a park.She also fought her sister over the remote and left purple bruises and bite marks on her sister's arms. Also, the last time we hung out, she ended up in a fight with six teenagers who we never met before and I had to break it up before things would get bad.She then tried to get me into the fight.This was my last straw. I decided I didn't want to hang out with her anymore. I gave her lots of chances, but she'd always resort back to violence and trouble. I don't want to be mean, since I know she doesn't have a lot of friends. At the same time though I know she's dangerous and that sometimes reckless. I honestly have no idea of what to do. |
Question: Me and my bff got into argument?! Plz tell me what to do? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 02:12 AM PST |
Question: My friend is trying to get involved in my relationship? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 01:10 AM PST My best friend, I share secrets with. I've been having relationship problems, yes, I know my bf is a jerk, but sometimes I really need to vent. I dont come to my friend, its like he knows there is something wrong. Anyways hes trying to add him on social media to 'talk with him'. I don't want him to intervene...at all. My problems can probably still be resolved, I have to do it, not him. I told him to stop multiple times he ignored me, until I threatended our friendship if he says anything to him. I made him promise that he will leave this to me, but I dont know, I feel like he cares too much and will do it anyway. What should I DO? |
Question: Why did my best friend kiss me? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 11:50 PM PST I have a guy best friend we have been firends for leik 10 yrs we were always like a bro and sis never argue or so. Today we were watchin a movie at my house like we do almost evrey other day and we were talking and laughing and he just suddenly kissed me on mmy mouth. I was just so shocked i didnt kno wat to do i jjust starrted crying and he apologized and left. He is not home and he isnt pickin up my calls i dunno what to do. Whyy did he do that? |
Question: Is it okay for a 15 year old to hang out with a college student? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 11:00 PM PST I've been hanging out with a 15 year old girl more and more now and she visits me at my university sometimes. She's been told by her classmates to just leave me alone because she's still a kid who lives at home with her parents and she just started high school this year. I'm a 20 year old woman and I'd really miss her if she stopped hanging out with me because she's really wild and fun to be around with. We live in Canada and where we live she is legally still a child until she's 19. I don't want her to be mad or hurt if I just drop her. She has Asperger's and doesn't have very many friends because she claims that all kids her age care about is popularity and drama. Her parents are cool with it but I've never met them personally before. |
Question: I'm always the butt of the joke among friends...what do I do? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 10:57 PM PST I'm constantly the one everyone makes fun of among my friends. Probably because I'm the silly one in the group so I guess they think it's ok to make fun of me because I make fun of myself many times. Also, I am intellectually inferior to them, Almost all of them are going to colleges ranked in the top 25 in the country, while I am struggling to get into one barely in the top 75. It honestly hurts, they're always very condescending jokes and lately I've become more serious to try to get them to stop but they always find a way to make fun of me. It could be jokes about my grades, my appearance (I'm not attractive at all) or the way I dress. But it's always me.. And please don't say "they aren't real friends, leave them." They are honestly great people who know a lot about me and are fun to be around. I just want them to take me a bit more seriously. |
Posted: 01 Feb 2017 10:51 PM PST To a bully? "Hey, you ever heard of the story about the asshole who was murdered because he harassed someone one to many times? It's a great story. Would you like to be in the sequel? Is this insult to open for counters? Or is it fine? Give me your own peeps. Have fun. Be creative. |
Question: Is it molesting when the person is 4 or 5 years older than you? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 10:50 PM PST ok i was 10 or 11 when i got molested by someone who i thought was a "friend" he was 4 to 5 years older than me. until i was 12. it really bothers me now i am 26 and i just saw this guy and the memories are back it's making me so uncomfortable. when i was a kid he used to tell me "i wont hangout with you if you don't let lick your butt." he used to rub his penis on my anal. i never let him put his whole penis inside of me because i never wanted to do it but i didn't have friends at all he was the only one. he also once tried to molests his nephew. his older sister's son who was same my age. i am still ashamed of what i let him do to me and i still don't know weather it was molesting since it was my own will to let him touch me of course with threats like "i will never talk to you again you will regret it the rest of your life" i was scared to lose him as a friend. also the fact that he was underage himself too. is this considered molesting too? i am not gay by the way. after what he did to me for like few years i suffered from depression until i forgot about him when i was 17. i moved to Australia now he moved to Australia too form Iraq. i don't want to meat him face to face. i am so ashamed to meat him. what should i do guys. did he molest me or is not considered molesting if he was under 18. i have never told anyone about this also this is a throw account. |
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Question: Should I just kill myself? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 09:44 PM PST I am constantly getting made fun of, people from my school are always spitting one me or shoving me into lockers and it leaves bloody bruises. I have big family no one one in my family really pay attention to me or like me and my parents are always putting me down. I have no friends, (I'm a laughing stalk, why would I?), average smart, and not good at anything. The only time I have been asked out turned out to be a dare. I have been cutting my self for years and it has been like this for me sense I was 11. Now I am 16 years old. I don't want to tell anyone because I don't want people to hate me more than I already do Could you please ask me what I should do? Thank you Also I'm white |
Posted: 01 Feb 2017 09:37 PM PST I was making a bouquet of flower at the office and there's this guy who kept staring at me when he came in... he stood still, looking at me.... I was not paying attention...but my colleague did she asked him what happened before he stopped.. Again the other day, we were having lunch at a restaurant and I kissed a guy in particular on the cheeks, when I went back to my seat he stared at me and smiled.. why does he stare at me so much?? |
Question: I'm tired of people taking advantage of my love!? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 09:27 PM PST Everyone says I smother them and I don't mean to. I'm just so empathetic and want to love people because I grew up with a lot of love from my mom and I just love to love because loving and friendships and being nice makes me happy. But it seems people take advantage of it. Or get annoyed with it UNTIL I show them the complete opposite . I get pushed away and called irritating and pushed around that I'll get the message and leave them alone and I get angry so I just pretend they don't exist anymore and I go from giving them tons of attention wantingto be their friend /girlfriend to staring right through them when they pass me. This makes them go crazy and anyone I've ever been friends with or talked to relationship wise almost always BEGS for my attention back. It's like they always want me back. I don't undstand why be so mean and hateful towards me and call me smothering until later on when u push me away u can't stop calling me or trying to get in contact with me? My boyfriend right now says I'm "smothering him" it's apart of my personality and I don't plan to change because all I'm doing is showing love to him. I'll ask him if he's okay and if he wants to talk about things hug him and try and hold him. He says he wants to move out I told him it's fine because I'll just leave him alone. He look petrified he knows i block peoplenout. |
Question: (likely) Autistic friend is immature and inconsiderate, but I can t escape him? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 08:49 PM PST Moderately functioning special ed friend insults me, belittles my accomplishments and also my problems, isn t there for me, makes me feel generally bad about myself. Besides that, he is kind of annoying and we don t have anything in common. Want to distance myself from him, but I can t escape him. He follows me around school, and is in the clubs I m in. What do I do? |
Question: My friend spits so much whenever she talks? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 08:25 PM PST I know its not a huge problem, but she just spits so much whenever she talks. It flies everywhere lol but she is a good friend, and it would be rude to tell her something like "You're spitting everywhere!" And if I move away from her, she'll just sit closer to me |
Question: I don't know what to do.? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 08:20 PM PST A couple months ago I moved to Florida from west Virginia. I left behind all my friends from school. Ive been fine until today when I just started thinking. Here's the whole story first. Ive been moving from state to state and even countries all my life. When I moved to west Virginia I wasnt so happy. The first school I went to there was horrible I had no friends and it just sucked. But I did end up crushing on a girl. Then I moved to another school in the same county and everything changed. I had amazing friends and the 2nd year there the girl I had crushed on for so long moved there aswell and we started talking. Then one day my mom came home with news we were moving to Florida. I was devastated but I tried hard to hide it from my friends. I am horrible at making new friends and the only reason I made them there was out of luck. So we moved and Ive gone to 2 schools here so far and its only been 2 months. I can't deal with it. I miss everyone so much. Some good news is the girl and i still talk and she even admitted she liked me and has been flirting with me all this time and I never knew. But I have no friends here and part of that is because I'm so scared that if I start to enjoy it here ill forget about the girl and every good moment I had there. I don't want to forget. I just don't know what do. |
Question: Why is my friend automatically burps everytime she massage me? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 08:18 PM PST I noticed that everytime my friend massage me, she automatically burps, she can't explain also why she automatically burps but she says that it automatically comes out everytime she massage me. She said she just first noticed that when she first massage her grandma and now, me , second. She felt everytime she massage someone, all the knots goes to her inside and makes her burp. One time, I ask someone to massage me. A "MANGHIHILOT". My friend is there too. We are in one room. A Manghihilot is the term used in the Philippines for a person who specializes in healing muscular aches and pains by using massage or a midwife with non-formal midwiferry education. Many of them do not have any formal training. Rather the skill is passed down from generation to generation. Like the arbolaryo, the manghihilot does not charge but a voluntary fee is usually demanded. The MANGHIHILOT is wondering why when she start massaging me, my friend is the one who burps a lot,she was confused because instead of her that will burp when she massage me, my friend is the one who burps a lot. The massage is over and the MANGHIHILOT already go home, still my friend continues to burp a lot. My friend said whe she is trying to control to burp, she felt her head starting to get heavy so when she choose to burp, she feel better. She said she feel she is about to vomit when she burps a lot too. Anyone can explain what she is like that? Thanks so much. |
Question: Was the Mother making a mistake? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 08:00 PM PST Is this a harmless crush that my brother has on his friend's little sister Claudia? Matthew and him are in 4th grade while Claudia is in 3rd grade but she just turned 8. I don't see anything wrong with him liking her cause she is very pretty.......but! The issue is he may not be attacted to her long blond hair! What happen is a few days ago is her Mother was a dumbshit when Claudia was in the middle of getting a spanking. Claudia belongs to a youth swim club so a great many times my brother has seen her in a bikini bottom. So when he needed to get his jacket which was in another room they thought it was not a big deal if he happen to see her laying across her Father's lap with her school skirt off. Her Father had stopped spanking til Matthew went home with his jacket. . The Mother must think that a swimsuit "panty" is the same as her sheer white underwear panty. So now my brother has interest in seeing her in her underpants! Is this the likely reason now he seems to have a bigger crush on Claudia? |
Question: What to do with my friend who is nice then mean? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 07:51 PM PST I have a friend who is nice and then she says bad things about me to others. If I ignore her when she talks she tells other people lies about me. She is usually not around but I think about her. I am usually just to scared to contact her I dont know how she will react. I just found someone on facebook I think its her but I dont want to make a mistake if its not |
Posted: 01 Feb 2017 07:17 PM PST I'm 17yrs old and today while in town,there were these very loud and bratty acting girls in there..As we left,they were behind us and they looked at me and laughed loudly and pointed and said "EW,look at her!!" And they laughed and got into their car..I've been depressed ever since this happened..Why do people I don't even know hate me? I get enough hate as it is from bullies..Now strangers are doing it too..I'm 5'5-5'6 and 117lbs,dark short hair and blue eyes..I have some acne but not much..Am I that ugly? Why did they do this? Im so upset this ruined my day...I dont even know them..I was minding my business and they did this :( |
Question: How to ruin a life (legally)? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 07:05 PM PST Let s just say this girl hurt my brother bad in such a shallow way after he did so much for her. She was my best friend, too. Now her friend who I already hated is telling lies about me. I didn t go into detail about just how bad the things they do were, but as long as I don t get into trouble legally I will do anything to make them miserable. I want them to know how my big brother feels and how badly he hurts. Hell, I want them to hurt worse. I just need to figure out exactly how. Nothing is below me, but I can t get into any legal trouble. Do not comment stuff like "be the bigger person" or "don't" because I am determined to cause them harm, and those comments will only annoy me. |
Question: Why can't I text anybody? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 07:01 PM PST So I just got a new phone today and I am very sad :( I tried to text my best friend but it sent me a pop up message saying "emergency calls only" how come I can only talk to the police and not my other friends? Also I really need to contact my mom cos I walk home alone from school sometimes |
Question: What should I do if the male friend is meaner to me than the female friend? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 06:47 PM PST |
Question: Could I be transgender? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 06:32 PM PST Hey guys as u can see by the title, i am wondering if i should change to a girl, i have really been thinking about it lately. I feel like its too late tho. I am a 16 year old guy,i already went through puberty, even my voice is really deep. But ever since I was a little kid I was interested in girl stuff. allof my friends were girls and we played "barbie" and dolls. one of my favorite things to do, was wait for my siblings and parents to leave the house so i could try on my moms shoes and stuff sothey wouldnt know, i even tried on her dress xD. my family is worried because i dont have a girlfriend yet. I have never actually been in a relationship. My parents sometimes ask me why I act like a girl, I tell them iits who i am, and they get mad. I never actually told anyone about this, except you guys. it saddens me that i never did anything about it sooner, what do u guys think? should i change? |
Question: Why do college girls act like this? Posted: 01 Feb 2017 06:10 PM PST I think college girls are somewhat similar to middle or high school girls except they're legally allowed to drink (at least here in Canada once they're 18) and they're not their parents' responsibilities anymore. I notice a lot of them dance provocatively on the tables in bars and take their tops off in front of random people then people start cheering them on. There's always at least one video of them twerking or kissing in the clubs and then they laugh so hard like it's the funniest thing ever. They often think it's cool to behave like strippers or prostitutes and they think pictures of their friends sticking their butts out is funny which is like 4th grade humor to me because back in elementary school kids would shake their butts in front of the class and make fart noises whenever the teacher wasn't present in the room. Why do they like doing this? Is this some kind of thing that's popular with people at this age? |
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