Friends: Question: I feel confident but sad. What do I do now? |
- Question: I feel confident but sad. What do I do now?
- Question: I wasted my youth, how can I proceed?
- Question: My parents gave my moms best friend and her family the right to discipline me? what do I do?
- Question: Why do I act totally different at school than at home?
- Question: How old does my friend look?
- Question: How to become close (friend wise) to my teacher?
- Question: I hate my dad!?
- Question: How do you remove weird aribic writing about my tweeter name?
- Question: Would you be supportive?
- Question: Why do some guys keep insisting in close friendship even when you tell them that you can't because you're in a relationship?
- Question: My friend has a Bungalow, he's being oddly suspicious about it. I wanna know what's inside but he won't tell me. Any ideas what's inside?
- Question: What do i do?
- Question: Any suggestions on finding a woman around here?
- Question: What gun is this in Field & Stream ?
- Question: Is my mom ok looking..she feels plain?
- Question: Am I mean? How to do I handle situations without the awkwardness ?
- Question: How to improve a friendship?
- Question: True friends?
- Question: Best friend is a drama queen, need help in responding to the problem?
- Question: I'm worried about my friend?
- Question: Does it seem like he's interested in me?
- Question: Is this considered harrassment?
- Question: Why do I always get sick before doing something fun if I plan it a week in advance?
- Question: I had to give my friend an F on her assignment.?
- Question: Were we doing something wrong with our boss?
- Question: How to handle a move?
- Question: Do university students tend to be unfriendly?
- Question: When a friend says this response to you, what does that mean?
- Question: My friend is feeling suicidal and cuts. she's trying to stop but her life is getting more and more dramatic. WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?
- Question: How do you deal w/ bossy people?
- Question: Is delayed grief normal?
- Question: I need some advice about a friend of mine.?
- Question: How do I go about asking my roommate to not have her boyfriend stay over tonight?
- Question: Should I wait a while to tell my friend I wish to part ways?
- Question: What's your pet peeve with friends, and how did you deal with it?
- Question: Does she like me?
- Question: How do you like my kids names?
- Question: Are they my real friends?
- Question: My problem!?
- Question: Has anyone ever taken advantage of you kindness? How?
- Question: Is it better to have more or fewer friends?
- Question: Is it bad that it pisses me off when he Is clingy?
- Question: HOW WOULD MAKING FRIENDS HELP ME GET ALONG WITH MY MOM?
- Question: How can i stop my psycho female friend hurting me? It's really serious?
- Question: Why is it that my success in social media is traded with success in interpersonal relationship?
- Question: Do I have a reason to not want to be friends with her anymore?
- Question: Friends. How do you win your friend back if apologising for a mistake isnt enough? what ideas?
- Question: How can i become a really good friend with this neighbour friend of mine who doesn't have mobile and any social networking account?
- Question: Accidental work email?
- Question: Which video is the best? thanks?
- Question: What should I do with my ex-friend?
- Question: He likes every single pic that these girls are posting...why?
- Question: I was joking on facebook with who I thought was a good friend , but she took it out of context and now her and her friends are offended?
- Question: Why do I cry when reminiscing about old friends and the memories I made with them?
- Question: If we are just friends and he's in a relationship why did he talk to me on the phone for 3 hours?
- Question: So I have friends, but none of them ever invite me to hang out. I'm in college and don't drink or do drugs. Is that why?
- Question: How to handle an intractable housemate?
- Question: WHY did my best man pop back in to my life years later only to have a brief discussion and then stop responding to me again. I hate that...?
- Question: My "friend" keeps tracing my art.?
- Question: Okay so a few nights ago I was texting my best friend and I was feeling upset. Need help?
| Question: I feel confident but sad. What do I do now? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 05:26 PM PST Today at lunch, my best friend found a bag of veggie chips on the ground and she picked them up. She took the bag and threw it at my crush's table. My crush and his friends burst out laughing and he had his friend tell us to "F*** off" After that, he had the same friend deliver a note to me that said, "ALI Stop Staring" I decided to write a comeback, because I felt confident at the time. I put on one side of the note "Lick a duck" (don't ask why, it's an inside joke) and on the other "Why don't you suck on your own flute (I play the flute) and die in a freaking hole!" I now feel confident because I stood up to him since he and his friends always tease me because I like him, but sad because I don't know if he feels insulted. He did laugh a lot and his friends said sarcastically, "You're so nice!" Can you tell me what to do now? |
| Question: I wasted my youth, how can I proceed? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 05:21 PM PST I want to know how I can make the most of the rest of my 20s. I am 25 years old. I am a virgin and I regret missing out on all of the fun college sex, didn't have a chance in high school - went to an all boy's school. I still live with my parents - I am in the process of paying of a credit card bill for something I helped them out with. I am also planning to move within the next year. I haven't really partied with anyone, some of the parties I've attended have been lame. My social circle has completely disintegrated. I am attempting to start up a business so I can be financially independent one day. I regret lots of things. I regret not being more masculine, more assertive, more social, more driven... now I'm 5 years away from 30. How can I turn this around in just 5 years? What can I do? How can I cram those awesome experiences into 5 years' time? |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2017 05:11 PM PST I am really mad at my parents because they gave my moms best friend the right to discipline me. I go with them to church so they are like my aunt and uncle and their kids are like my siblings. I am mad because the oldest kid Emmett is the oldest son and he disciplines his younger brother and now he has the right to discipline me and he is already overprotective of me as it is. He is not mean or anything and I have a brother with autism but he doesn't have the mental capacity to be an older brother. Also his younger brother is very protective of me. When ever I like a girl they are start asking me like 20 different questions. This is really annoying. What should I do? |
| Question: Why do I act totally different at school than at home? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 05:11 PM PST Out of school I'm a loud talkive *****, I sometimes annoy people because i cant shut my mouth. But at school im just uncomfortable and I shut my mouth and always have a boring plain face on. Every single time i want to talk i just bite my tongue and keep shut and i start to hate myself cause i didn't talk.Its like I'm a different. Am i just a pussy or is there something wrong with me. :( PS- sorry for the cursing |
| Question: How old does my friend look? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 05:08 PM PST http://imgur.com/a/eot40 |
| Question: How to become close (friend wise) to my teacher? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 05:08 PM PST when to talk to her, when not to... im a girl btw and i just want to be friends nothing weird |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2017 04:57 PM PST My father is the most ignorant piece of ****. Ive never spoken to anyone with a lower iq, I have to restrain myself from saying things that he may take as 'rude' even though im theleast rude kid i know. I am interested in a few things like fishing, hunting, shooting, skateboarding and gaming but he dosent. He forced me to play baseball, basketball, football and soccer until i was 12, now i just play basketball but i hate it. Ive told him a billion times i dont want to play and he says things like"you need to learn 'teamwork" or make friends or something which is bullshit because after 13 years of playing many sports i havent made friends, but i have gotten a lot of kids to bully me. I already have a few great friends that i met at school. I have a rough idea of what my high school years ar going to look like (im in 8th grade) and im planning to get a job, then double up on classes so i can graduate early and i hope to go to a good college. The past couple years ive been getting bad grades though because my dad makes me do sports and yells at me often on school nights so im not awake during the school day (dont say thats just an excuse, i try my best.) When i go to my basketball games that i hate people take unflattering pictures and bully me afterwards, i cannot go to my game tomorrow or theyll do it again, any advice on how to get out of going/ dealing with a terrible father? |
| Question: How do you remove weird aribic writing about my tweeter name? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 04:46 PM PST |
| Question: Would you be supportive? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 04:29 PM PST Would you be supportive if one of your guy friends came out as a crossdresser? I'm asking because I'm going to tell my friends that I like to wear women's jeans and boots. |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2017 04:28 PM PST That stuff i said about being in a relationship with a guy is just ****!ng lies,i just dont want to be close friends with these 3 guys bothering me at the same time because i dont want people to think that im insecure and awkward like em. They identify as bisexual(typical repressed insecure homos) thats one of the reasons why i dont want a friendship with em. |
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| Posted: 03 Feb 2017 04:09 PM PST On snapchat i complained about my godsister and said some rude things and she saw it and screenshotted it. What do I do? I've apologized and she's claiming she'll tell everyone. I called her a brat and stuff and a ***** |
| Question: Any suggestions on finding a woman around here? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 04:02 PM PST They belong to a clique or exclusive group, Their friends aren't variety and they don't like different. You can hang around them but you will be bullied or talked to in a demeaning way. Any suggestions? |
| Question: What gun is this in Field & Stream ? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 03:59 PM PST I was at my closest field and stream shop the other day. I only had about 5-10 seconds to look at the wide variety of guns they have. Because I was working. Anyway, I looked and saw what appeared to be a look alike to an FN-FAL .308 type rifle. All I saw was that it looked like an FN rifle and it was $700 something. But I went online to the field and stream website, and don't see it anywhere. Can anyone help me find out what make and model it is or why I can't find anywhere online for that price? All I see is like real FN FAL's on gunbroker for $1000-$2000. Thanks. |
| Question: Is my mom ok looking..she feels plain? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 03:54 PM PST http://imgur.com/a/eot40 |
| Question: Am I mean? How to do I handle situations without the awkwardness ? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 03:39 PM PST Basically, I'm very cool & chill. I'll do many favors without wanting things in return. I'm build on loyalty. I'm always "too" cool obviously, because some people (most) take that and run with it. Even though I am cool I am most definitely NOT a push over. Once someone does something I deem as disrespectful, I instantly cut them off. I'll talk to you if you talk to me, but I won't talk to you the same. Meaning long convos, jokes, laughs, nada. With that the person who rubbed me the wrong way always try to be my friend or kiss my *** to get back in my good gracious, it just doesn't work because I believe you shouldn't do things to piss people off then expect things to be the same after an apology or w.e the case is. I absolutely don't like my *** being kissed because it is ineffective. It does nothing but makes things akward & makes me uncomfortable like I'm being forced or persuaded to deal with someone I don't want to. I don't think I hold grudges, I get over it but I feed you a/ a long spoon. Am I just being mean? I've been called mean before, but I don't think I should have to give someone another chance to stab me when my back is turned, right? |
| Question: How to improve a friendship? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 03:25 PM PST I feel that it's getting stale, but I still care a lot. |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2017 03:09 PM PST Are true friends people who mock you everyday. Are true friends who throw water on you and get drenched. Are true friends who jumps you just for pushing your friend because he's annoying you. |
| Question: Best friend is a drama queen, need help in responding to the problem? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 02:34 PM PST I admit that I [may have] made a mistake. I say "may have" because I still doubt her story. Now here's the thing. While I *privately* sent her a text confronting her about something I believe she did wrong, she decided to seek revenge by publicly humiliating me. Now if she was honest with me in her response then I admit I have made an *honest* mistake. I don't feel that the punishment of humiliation fits the crime of making an honest mistake though. I don't have a facebook account so there is no way I can do any damage control with our mutual friends.This was 3 weeks ago. I moved on since then. However, she just pm'd my husband (they are fb buddies) with a message for me. She thinks I'm still mad at her for the original reason that I had confronted her with. But I'm not. I *was* mad about the backstabbing after the fact she had bit my head off and abruptly ended the conversation. My husband asked me what he should tell her. I said "tell her nothing.ignore it". But he told her he'll let me know when I wake up. If I ignore her she'll continue thinking I'm still angry and she may resort to more backstabbing out of anger-again. She says she still feels justified in what she did. I feel that if she actually used her brain she'd know my confronting her for a perceived wrongdoing was just a mistake and correct me, not punish. What should I do? |
| Question: I'm worried about my friend? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 02:14 PM PST He has been offline for 2 days and he didn't answer my texts. Just now, he did and he told me that he can't talk and that something is going on and he couldn't use his phone or his parents will get mad. He seemed very sad so I said that it was ok and I hope things get better and I sent him a heart emoji. I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do now because I only want him to feel better and idk what's going on. Any idea on what I should do? I don't want to bother him if something serious is going on. |
| Question: Does it seem like he's interested in me? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 02:00 PM PST I guess this is the typical does he like me question: we've been casual friends for a couple of months, we've been working on a school project together and we've gotten a lot closer. I feel like there's chemistry between us but I'm not sure how he feels. There's about five other people in our group, but just he and I stay for sometimes almost an hour after our meetings just talking about everything. Like just funny stories sometimes, but also serious stuff like about our families, politics, and religion. It will be past 11 on a school night and he'll be really tired but we'll both stay talking even if it's really cold outside too. The other group members make jokes about us being into each other, but we just laugh awkwardly and change the subject. He'll touch me on the arm sometimes just walking past to get my attention or to show me something on his phone. We side-hug goodbye, but we're both kind of nervous/reserved people so maybe neither of us is just going in for it We DM occasionally but we don't text and that also makes me kind of nervous maybe he's not into me He has said I look nice and made positive comments about my appearance before The project ends in two weeks and then we graduate. I'm scared he's not going to make a move before then. Is he not into me, should I make a move, or what? PS we're both single now, he got out of a long relationship about six months ago and I got out of a shorter relationship about a month ago Thanks! |
| Question: Is this considered harrassment? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 01:56 PM PST Okay so backstory: I'm a very naturally skinny girl, I'm about 5'5 and 95 pounds so naturally I have small boobs to match that. To make clothes fit more proportionally and look better on me, I often wear padded / push up bras. I enjoy the feeling of "having boobs" and I do that even when I'm not going out sometimes. So anyway: This guy that I'm doing a community theatre play with used there being "something on my shirt" as a pretense to touch my boobs. I guess he felt that there was more padding than anything else and shouted, "I KNEW THEY WERE FAKE." Then he told everyone my "boobs were fake" and multiple other teenagers in the cast have tried to rub up against me or "accidentally" touch my boobs to see, or point out the bra line under my shirt. Granted, a lot of these are girls, but it naturally still bothers me. They call me the girl with "small-big boobs." This isn't junior high, mind you. I'm 18 and the boy is 17. Is this considered harassment? It's gotten bad and I'm scared of going into the dressing room for performances now because the other girls will make fun of my body. |
| Question: Why do I always get sick before doing something fun if I plan it a week in advance? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 01:54 PM PST Whenever I plan something with friends a week in advance, or generally have something interesting soon, why do I always get sick right before the event? Is this a common thing? I m going out with some friends tomorrow and I really don t want to miss it but I m feeling sick. |
| Question: I had to give my friend an F on her assignment.? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 01:30 PM PST My teacher made us grade our classmates' assignments, and I did whatever I could, but her answers were wrong to my knowledge, so I had to give her a 1 out of 3. I feel awful; she really cares about her grades, and I think she might be mad at me. Should I feel bad? What should I do? |
| Question: Were we doing something wrong with our boss? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 01:27 PM PST I work in an office with 12 other women. We are all single or divorced. Our boss Bill is a 28 year old great looking single guy. Besides being our boss Bill is a good friend to all of us and just a fun person to be around. Instead of not wanting to come to work, we all enjoy our job mostly because of Bill. One day at a staff meeting one of us asked Bill, "how do I find someone rich to marry?" Bill said I don't know but if you find out, please let me know. Another one of us said, "Does that mean you would marry me if I was rich"? Bill said "if your are rich, please answer 2 questions for me. "What is your ring size and where will we go on our honeymoon". To which she replied "That is the first marriage proposal I have ever had". We all had a GOOD LAUGH at that conversation. Later talking to other employees about this, they told us we should not be talking to our boss like this. It shows disrespect to our boss. We thought we were just having fun. What do you think? Were we doing something wrong with our boss? |
| Question: How to handle a move? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 01:22 PM PST Ive lived in this house all my life, im 17 and a junior in high school , i have so many great memories in here from my childhood that id be leaving behind, and its right down the road from my high school and has a pond in the backyard where i ice skate in the winter and fish in the summer, and all my friends live in the same neighborhood so it wont be as easy to hangout and we wont be able to hangout as often. Im gonna be living in the same townand go to the same school, but my dad wanted to move cuz its just me and him in this 4500 sq ft house since my sister went off to college, and he feels we dont need all this space. i REALLY dont want to move. So how can i get over |
| Question: Do university students tend to be unfriendly? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 01:15 PM PST I've studied at two universities in two states, and honestly had never made any close friends with any uni students. On a typical uni day, I go to class, sit with the other students, we may talk a bit (mostly about the work), then finish and I go home. I haven't made a friend or group of friends where we hang out after uni and go out on night outs. My mum says that I'm not friendly enough or lack proper social skills. I just think I'm being ostracised and ignored in favour of "higher class" students. The thing, I'd start a conversation with a student, and it gets awkward really quick because soon neither of us has anything to say. I hear stories of uni male students treating girls out to coffees, or groups going to the shop together. I haven't had that experience since starting uni at age 18, and I'm nearly 29 now! The much older people seem to be nicer and friendlier, and seem to have actual topics to talk about, but then they are older. I have yet to find a person close to my age that can provide a conversation. |
| Question: When a friend says this response to you, what does that mean? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 12:55 PM PST Everytime i call my my best friend out on something he said or doing, he always replies"Go find a new friend then" or Don't be my friend, if you don't like the way i talk to people" what does that say if a friend of yours can just tell you find a new friend so easily like that? ( I'm bad at reading in-between the lines) |
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| Question: How do you deal w/ bossy people? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 12:15 PM PST I am being annoyed w/ a certain someone we'll call her Rachel. Rachel tends to focus on everyone except herself. Her plate of problems is pretty full, but still chooses to focus on other people's problems and bringing theirs to light. Rachel doesn't help clean up in any way shape or form, but notices when things are dirty (ironic). Rachel is NOT a boss, Manager of any sort. Rachel is family member that basically doesn't get along w/ anyone. Rachel is a mom, but being the boss of them just isn't enough for her. Rachel pokes her nose in everyone's business. Rachel seems to think this behavior is tolerable by everyone, but has met her match because I'm no push over. Advice on dealing w/ Rachel ? |
| Question: Is delayed grief normal? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 11:56 AM PST I lost a friend in 2012, and even though I was sad about it at the time, the grief never really struck me until about last August. Since then, I've just been deeply bereaved and not a day goes by when I don't think about my friend. Is that normal? |
| Question: I need some advice about a friend of mine.? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 11:47 AM PST This friend of mine is my oldest childhood friend. We've been through a lot of stuff together, especially in dealing with her own traumatic experiences. To give a bit of background knowledge into our friendship without getting too detailed: We both took very different life paths after High School ended. I started going to college full time and working (to pay for the ever increasing sky-rocketing bullshit tuition). She married a man and settled down to have children with him. Currently they have more than three kids together. Both of our lives keep us incredibly busy. Usually this wouldn't be a huge problem. I have other friends that are in her situation... sort of. We never have issues going a few weeks or months without a real conversation. But with this particular friend she can't handle it. Before I began college and she had children we'd talk for hours every day. When I started college our conversations started to drop. Unfortunately, my friend doesn't make other friends very well and besides her husband I'm the only person she speaks to. So when we stopped talking all the time she began acting kind of crazy. She'd call me out of the blue and lash out at me, screaming that I'm not being a good friend because it feels like to her that I don't care. Recently she's tried to shut me out of her life when things were going well for us. It was out of the blue and very strange. I'm not sure if I should keep trying to be her friend or if I should let that friendship die out? |
| Question: How do I go about asking my roommate to not have her boyfriend stay over tonight? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 11:36 AM PST My roommate has had her boyfriend stay overnight in our dorm room three weekends in a row now, never telling me that he's coming over. I don't prefer that he stays, but I put up with it as I am usually able to escape to a friend's place for the weekend. Tonight however, I cannot stay at my friend's plane and I have practice tomorrow morning and I need to get to to sleep early. I'm honestly just bad at bringing up conversation about boundaries and would like a nudge in the right direction. |
| Question: Should I wait a while to tell my friend I wish to part ways? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 11:34 AM PST The reason I ask is because he recently suffers a massive stroke about a month ago. He's doing great now. I ask him if he's traumatized or anything and he said no. I also had a near death experience a few years ago and still am suffering from psychological issues. Anyway, the reason I want to part ways is because we've just grew apart so much sense 8th grade when we met. He's 21 and I'm 23. That's not the only reason though. I feel he's rather disrespectfull towards me. All I have to do is make a small mistake like misunderstand something he said and he'll call me names because of it. Not real bad names. Just words like retard and dummy. It just really bugs me. He's done unbelievably stupid things infront I've and I just bite my toungue and don't say a word. He also thinks he knows everything even though I know he's wrong. But I just bite my toungue. I'm just tired of being criticized constantly. He gave a two week notice to his landlord before he went to the hospital so I went with a couple friends and moved all his stuff a half hour away to his parents house and he hasn't even properly thanked for that and he still criticizes me. I thought maybe after have an experience like he had he mite wake up and treat people with respect. I know it's going to devils rate him when I tell him this but it needs to be done, but I think I should wait a couple months. Sorry for the terrible wording. I'm in a hurry. |
| Question: What's your pet peeve with friends, and how did you deal with it? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 11:25 AM PST This couple I know are ALWAYS late. Whether it's their own event or someone else's, they're gaurenteed to be late. Close friends and I decided when we include them give them a time that's an hour earlier. It seriously works. Everyone was worried they would be offended but they have no idea. They're starting to be on time now. |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2017 10:08 AM PST So recently i got my first crush shes 14 and in 11th grade like me but shes a few months older. Up until now never had a girl friend and never liked a girl. I found out shes and like and waiting for marriage like me. We tease each other alot and when i fo she gives a light hit on the head or shoulder |
| Question: How do you like my kids names? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 10:04 AM PST Emma Marie Boisvert Jackson Ryan Boisvert James Hampshire Boisvert Sophia Elizabeth Boisvert |
| Question: Are they my real friends? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 10:01 AM PST I had the worst day ever in school today. I was humiliated during an exam and people were bullying me so I started crying and was depressed for the whole day...I was with my friends but they didn't do anything to cheer me up... eventually I left breaking out in tears and they didn't even chase after me.... when I came home I got a text from them apologizing about letting me leave... are they real friends or what? I almost hurt myself because of how depressed I was... I'm not mentally ill. I almost hurt myself when I was doing an important job during one of my practice classes I'm not ill just careless..also I'm really good friends to those people I've always supported them and even offered to stand up for them... but when it came to me breaking down they didn't do anything....I left because I felt worse than lonely because they didn't care... unlike me they didn't give me a shoulder to cry on... I'm not a drama queen. I'm just saying that I always help everyone out... even if it's someone who I'm not fond of. I've never abandoned anyone who needed help....in this case they abandoned me... I asked them if they think I should stay and they didn't reply....I supported them like a real friend would when they were crying... but they just left me to suffer.........I thought friends were the people who helped you in hard times...I left because they carried on like I wasn't there.... |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2017 09:57 AM PST Sir, once my cousin messaged to one my two friends"MY SISTER IS A BAD GIRL & DON T TALK WITH HER" from my mom's mobile phone copying my friends mobile numbers from my mobile phone, But I don't know this that she have all done this from my mom's mobile phone? She is a small kid studying 7th class now? when my friends informed about the incident on the next day of college, I told them that I didn't done all this, and thinked once who have done this all, then I remembered & I explained to my friends that my cousin would have done all this for kidding me near you, I rushed to home & asked my cousin, she(my cousin) told that she have done for kidding me because that I have bullied her few days back, on the next day I explained to my two friends about the incident again me and cousin told sorry, friends fired on me, I'll obey their firing, I told sorry for them, but my cousin sent message for 2 members of my friends list only, but they both dragged whole class of my friends by putting my character bad. |
| Question: Has anyone ever taken advantage of you kindness? How? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 09:15 AM PST *your |
| Question: Is it better to have more or fewer friends? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 08:55 AM PST I only have one best friend and I'm 17. It's always been that way for me because my anxiety makes it too hard for me to make friends. I also have a boyfriend. Is it better to have more or fewer friends? I started to realize that having fewer friends is awesome because I get more time to myself. |
| Question: Is it bad that it pisses me off when he Is clingy? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 08:41 AM PST He says how I hurt his feelings every time I want to be alone. And he says I'm not being a friend. The things is I told him friends can still be friends and not be with each other 24/7 And he says how he does not like being alone and says he is a "24/7 friend" I tell him thats a problem all he does is say how he needs a friend. He thinks friends don't take breaks. I told him I need my space. He also has a crush on me but I don't like him. I'm getting pissed because I'm going through stuff and I have other things going on in my life. I don't want or have to text all the damn time. He always wants to hang out with me and it's annoying. What are your thoughts on this? |
| Question: HOW WOULD MAKING FRIENDS HELP ME GET ALONG WITH MY MOM? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 08:17 AM PST AND WHY DONT YOU EVER TALK ABOUT THIS |
| Question: How can i stop my psycho female friend hurting me? It's really serious? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 08:08 AM PST I met some great friend in September 2016 and we became best friends. Well she is to me. I was wondering why is she hanging out with me when i'm nothing special and full of social anxiety. She is everything i wanted. Whenever i talked about something serious she'd laugh at that and would just say 'okay' or 'i had it worse' and i got really angry and was avoiding her.Next day she came pissed off next to me and she asked me angrily what is my problem and we were arguing in the middle of the class. In meantime i told her some of my secrets and she didn't. She was mocking me infront of my friends.. She never makes sentence logical and i always get confused and then she shows messages to my friends and i saw it with my eyes, it hurt me a lot. Since then i became different and i started acting cold and she's kinda angry and asking me 'wtf is wrong with you?'. I want to stop her. She really got under my skin and i didn't even noice. I'm girl by the way. Friend from my sister told me she's psycho and i didn't believe her but when she read article i was shocked.. How can i start acting like her and win this game? I don't want to be psycho i just want to show her i found out about her twisted game and being her 'diary'. I want to show her i'm not weak. Can you help me with that? |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2017 07:28 AM PST I used to be a girl who doesn't really engage myself in real life situation and preferred making friends and talking to people on social media than to get associated with my real life friends . As I adapted myself, I realized that situations have changed. Now, fate/God/universe seems to be playing a "trading card" on me. Things in real life got better and better while online stuff worsen. I was stalked, blocked, humiliated, shamed and threatened by my once "online friends" who were the people who I really poured my heart to and that I really treasured. I had been with my online friend for TWO YEARS. I was hoping our friendships deepen and lead to further meaningful memories, but everything came with disappointment and cyber-bullying. I could hardly name one online friend who did not say I'd "irritated/frustrated/annoyed" them! Behind the screen, they were all nice/innocent/angel-like people who enjoy listening and talking with you about everyhing. In fact, they were all either creeps, cyber-bully, bully or sociopaths. I was once bullied by people in my previous school. Making friends was never a successful. I was verbally and physically abused so I resorted to cyber relationships. Now that I'm not bullied/harassed in real life my online friends started bullying me which made me so sad because I once trusted them and treated them closer and nicer than my real life friends. |
| Question: Do I have a reason to not want to be friends with her anymore? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 07:15 AM PST We met in a class and immediately got along. At first, things were okay and I would always talk to her when I saw her at school. We texted sometimes and talked on the phone sometimes as well. I will say that I am not much of a phone person and I'm naturally introverted, so I was really making an effort with her. However, she kept saying that I should call or text her more often even though we would talk two or three days out of the week. This became a pattern and in the summer, she wanted me to call her and text her often. I worked more hours during the week and even if I had one or two off-days, she wanted me to spend them with her. As I got to know her better, I felt that she was judgmental of people and it made me uncomfortable to hear her negative comments about others and herself. If I went a week or two without talking to her, she made me feel guilty for it. In August she asked me about my school schedule and tried to tell me when to visit her. The last time I visited her, I was there for four hours and she barely talked to me. She watched TV, talked to other people, and was on the phone. I hadn't heard from her in months and she texted and called me the other day. I don't feel like this is a healthy friendship, but I don't want to hurt her feelings. Is it wrong for me not to want to be friends with her anymore? |
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| Posted: 03 Feb 2017 05:22 AM PST We are both 16s and neighbours, he just lives last 4 houses. |
| Question: Accidental work email? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 05:04 AM PST I was sending an email to one of my coworkers regarding another coworker and how it seems that whenever he supervisor isn't in that she leaves early. However, I accidentally sent the email to the person I was talking about. She in return forwarded it to my manager saying she doesn't know why I'm attempting to monitor her work hours when I don't even know what they are and that her supervisor told her it was ok for her leave at that time. Then she stated that I need to monitor my own hours because I'm always 10 to 15 minutes late for work and that I go and get coffee and breakfast when i should be at my desk. I don't understand why didn't wait to speak to me directly about this. Now my manager has written me up for harassment and gossiping through my work email. Is that even allowable? |
| Question: Which video is the best? thanks? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 04:34 AM PST can only have one of youtube video on a dating site but cant decide which one is my best. My friends all tell me a different answer..I think I need an objective opinion from someone that does not know me. please dont be mean to me..if you dont like my question then please dont answer..I would really like to get an opinion on which is my best video (first, second or third)? I will choose a best answer and if you leave a link I will answer your too. thanks 1) https://youtu.be/d8n10gtnUgI 2) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGdliEZKNag 3) https://youtu.be/8xuRqDx1ZAM |
| Question: What should I do with my ex-friend? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 03:44 AM PST So about two years ago this certain person and his mother were getting cyber bullied and harassed online, so I decided to help. I did all I can to make sure these bullies would leave them alone. I did so much that I lost something that meant A LOT to me. This "thing" (I'll just call it "thing") that I lost meant the world to me because of some private things I kept. Now that it's gone, I still feel bitter and upset about this. Around the time however, this certain person and his mother called me a "good friend" for helping out, and did some really nice things for me. I rarely have friends, so for them to care about me like that was pretty meaningful. I was glad that I found people that I can call friends. So it did help me get over losing the "thing" that I loved. Fast forward, my friend removed me from out of nowhere. When I asked "why," he never responded. I was upset over this, because I really thought he was my friend! What makes it so upsetting is that I lost my "thing" (that meant so much to me) for nothing! A year has passed since this happened, but I honestly CAN NOT stop thinking about it. I feel angry, bitter, but most of all, I feel hurt. I feel hurt that I was betrayed just like that. I feel hurt that I can't get my "thing" back. I feel hurt that I never got an explanation to why he would just removed me and just not want to have contact. So the question is, what should I do? Should I confront him? Be honest how I feel? Should I try being his friend again? |
| Question: He likes every single pic that these girls are posting...why? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 01:25 AM PST Why would a guy be liking several different girl's pictures but not just that, but every single pic (just about) that these girls post? He's not dating anyone and I know for sure he's not a player. He's a genuinely nice guy. So why is he liking all their pictures and why several different girls? |
| Posted: 03 Feb 2017 01:11 AM PST Over the past few months , I have posted jokes on my friend's facebook page. She never clued to me that the jokes were offensive up until yesterday . The straw finally broke the camel's back . She is a bar owner....Myself and her have been facebook friends for 5 years and I have been visiting her bar regularly as an avid customer for the same amount of time. As a friend , I never knew she would think I was intentionally trying to hurt her with my jokes. Her friends took my posts more serious than she herself did ! They accused me of insulting her , when all I meant for it to be was fun and games. I advised her to delete and or block me from facebook , if her and her friends find my posts offensive. Yet so far , they choose to keep me as a friend. Number 1 : Why are her friends getting involved , when she is a grown woman and can fend for herself? Number 2 : Why is she keeping me as a friend on facebook, if my posts offend her and her friends? Number 3 : I'm questioning if she and her friends ( who are bartenders at the bar that I frequent) even appreciate my patronage . Should I take a brief hiatus from going in there , or should I permanently stop going there? Over the past 5 years , Ive spent hundreds of dollars there. |
| Question: Why do I cry when reminiscing about old friends and the memories I made with them? Posted: 03 Feb 2017 01:06 AM PST |
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| Question: How to handle an intractable housemate? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 11:14 PM PST I have a housemate who simply does not want to do chores, and if someone says something to her about anything it is immediately a personal thing. You are wrong, you're attacking her, and says "I feel threatened," but when she owed money for bills was very aggressive "in your face." How to handle someone like this without her blowing up? |
| Posted: 02 Feb 2017 11:12 PM PST I think I would rather him just forget I exist, really. |
| Question: My "friend" keeps tracing my art.? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 10:27 PM PST Basicly she traced my art and forgave ME even tho I was defending my art, I said that I did nothing to offend her and she never apologized. What should I do |
| Question: Okay so a few nights ago I was texting my best friend and I was feeling upset. Need help? Posted: 02 Feb 2017 10:14 PM PST I said a paragraph explaining how I wish we could be more than friends and she said she wish she could but her religion and parents won't allow it which I understand and should never have said. And she said that we should chill on the texting and hanging out so much so we don't feel that wat about each other anymore. But I explained why I was upset and she just made it clear that we are friends which I'm okay with I want to be her best friend or what she says biffle. Which means closer than a best friend best friends for life but better. I asked if everything was cool and that if we can leave our relationship on how it was and she said yes yes. But for the past few days when we do text I get this vibe as if she isn't interested to even talk anymore. I ask her if I did anything and if everything is okay she says yes yes you are fine and nothing is wrong just a little stressed and don't Feel like texting. I say oh then I'll go at let you be but she says it's fine. My main question is should trust what she said about nothing being wrong? Or could she just be dry with me? What should I do? |
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