First date was at a coffee shop talking few hours. Second date we watched 4 movies and both slept in my bed. We cuddled and kissed but did not have sex. On Friday, I'm visiting his place. I like him and we get on well , I really want to have sex with him. Is 3rd date too soon or OK?

My brother was physically and verbally abusive to me when I was a kid (7-10). My mom kicked him out and we moved away. I m now in college and I ve visited with him a few times in the past few years. He seems better, but he acts like my mothers actions in kicking him out were unjustified, and hasn t spoken to her much since. He emailed me today and said he s moving near where I m living and would like to meet up.. Basically he wants to reconcile and have a closer relationship. I don t trust him, but I don t know if rejecting him is the right decision either. Sorry for the long read. Any answers appreciated. Thanks, Lacy, for your input. I think you're completely right. He was a seriously messed up teenager and my mom had him in with like 3-4 different counselors in just the span of his high school years. Since then I don't think he's had any counseling. I feel bad rejecting him, but I feel like I know that's the right thing to do. I guess that's what I'll do. Thanks again.

Im a 10th grader ,whenever im in school i cant help but look at girls butts if they wear tight clothing (in my school like 9/10 girls wear tight clothing). Idk if this is normal at all... Sometimes ill even look at 9th graders butts. Please answer is this normal?

My grandma just came from our country to the U.S. 3 months ago. I overheard her telling my aunt that she is not too comfortable living with us, because no one spends too much time with her and I apparently complain about so many things that she does. Having said all these things, I would like to clarify on what she meant. Both my parents work full-time, and I am a full-time college student, and work part time (13-15 hours a week). When I am home, I am either studying, reading, or relaxing with the little time I have to myself. Don't get me wrong, I do spend time with my grandma and even make her lunches or dinner when I have free time. (She doesn't cook, but can microwave what my mom and I cook). I understand it's not ideal spending time alone, but she was brought here to get better medical care and us working helps to pay for medical bills and medications (the portion her insurance doesn't cover). For the first 2 weeks, every time she came to bed (we share the same room) she would slam the door, and I'd immediately wake up. So I asked my mom if it would be possible for her to ask my grandma to shut the door gently. After that, my grandma broke 2 of my plates (both of which I had since I was 11 years old), so I politely told her to please be a bit more careful when handling chinaware. Honestly, I adore my grandma and I understand a bit of what she may be going through but I do think she's being a bit unfair when complaining to my aunt about us. Any advice for this situation? Thank you for the advice so far. I hope you believe me when I say that I do not take her presence for granted. I do spend time with her, but there are also specific academic priorities that come with taking 5 or 6 college classes that take up a lot of my time..

Been living out of hotels for the last four months w/ our daughter, our things are in storage, and now my partner has cold feet. He says his job pays him well and he doesn't have another lined up. Yet, his job does not pay adequately for the area which is obscenely expensive and ugly/gross to boot. I desperately want to leave. Super depressed. He could easily get another job, yet the problem is that he really likes the one he currently has. We are living paycheck to paycheck and I hate it here with all of my heart. I mean that I want to move to another state...I don't hate the hotel.

I text my partner 2 days ago and without any reason they read it and completely ignored me? They are still online and posting things, I already posted this a few hours ago but I never asked for advice on what I should do. I don't want to text them because the last thing I want to do is to let them know they're getting to me. I don't want them thinking they're effecting my daily life. I just find it quote unfair to me as I didn't do anything wrong. Also I do not mind if they do not want to talk to me but they could have aleast talked to me about it instead of completely ignoring me. I also find myself asking this question as I have no one to talk to about this so please be nice. if anyone has advice on what I should do it'd be appreciated.

I've recently been diagnosed with Leukaemia and I've been lying to my best friend about it. I lied and told her I was fine and just made up some lame half *** excuse for everything. You probably think I'm a bad best friend for not telling her but she's like a sister to me. She's only 18 days older than me but she acts like my older protective sister. She worries more about me then I do myself and I'm afraid that if I tell her she won't be able to handle it or she won't treat me like me. That and she will probably be a little pissed that I've been lying to her, specially since we promised to tell each other everything. I just....I don't know how. How the hell am I supposed to tell her when I know she will flip out, that's just how she is. I mean do I tell her? I can't keep lying, she's starting to catch on, I'm a terrible lair. And if I do tell her then what do I say?

How do you always have something to talk about with your spouse?

Or is it best to stay close to families? I left my family (with my kids) to go live with my boyfriend. He and his family are very welcoming and patient. I am blessed to meet them once in my life. My boyfriend and I both have kids. Before coming here i know exactly what I'm getting myself into. And I wanted to experience it. I've realized it is hard being a step mom to other kids. I bathe the little kids, I feed them, I tried to make things equal. Overall, everything is still hard. We both work and barely get to see eachother. I get to see our kids more than he does, it feels like theres so many things on my shoulder. And we're not even married yet. Having 5 kids around the house, ( he has 3. I have 2. ) responsibility, cooking, cleaning, discipline the kids is getting too overwhelming for me. I think he feels it too. He think that maybe one day I might leave. Maybe he's right. I don't wanna lead him on. Life now is overwhelming in our situation of just dating and living with eachother. Besides, if I cant handle it now, what makes me think i could handle it later? I dont wanna turn back to my family because its kind of a embarrassment. I want to look forward to go live with my uncle and cousin 3 hrs away, but same state. Should i move back or move forward if I ever do leave?

I have recently got into a relationship with a girl and its been really well. Now though she has revealed to me that she like to get wedgies and asks me if i could wedgie her. I dont feel uncomfortable by this and not gonna lie i kinda want too. Is this wrong and i should just say no?

My mother had taken away the facial tissues I had bought for the family, and hidden it away somewhere in the house, and then ordered my father to buy more facial tissues (hence costing more money). Sad to say my mom is a very spiteful person and it is quite difficult for me and my father around her. I need to use the facial tissues (bought from Target at a discount), yet she refused to hand them over, saying that she is using this to teach my Dad a lesson (I was like..What the heck?!). I am tired of this stupidity, sad to say my mother is not a reasonable person. May I ask, what exactly is she trying to do by taking away the facial tissues? I am sorry if this sounds crazy but that is what she likes to do. :-(

Everything started 3 years ago when I met the girl of my dreams. Long story short, we broke up before I went to the desert for 11 months (I didn t want her to go through all the bs) but I m home now. Lately she barely responds to my messages, she doesn t talk on the phone, and she s never able to come out for a date or even to talk a little. I know very well she stays at home, I know her family and she posts snapchats of her at home playing with her niece and nephews all day, don t pull the "she s cheating" card. I know lately she s been stressed about work but she s not giving me any attention or making any time for me and I m willing to give all of my time for her. I just want some advice, I ve been feeling down about the situation and I haven t been able to talk to her about it at all. Any words of wisdom is appreciated.

By trusting too easily I mean putting your trust into somebody within days of meeting them, and by trusting nobody I mean not fully trusting anybody no matter how close they are with someone.

ok ive only been with my boyfriend for 6 months and he already hates my best friend me and her have been friends since 3rd grade but shes A LOT DIFFERENT THAN ME shes pregnant a "housewife" (has no job but engaged and lives with her boyfriend he supports her) and her boyfriend works a minium wage job and she never went to college or had a job other than mcdonalds...while i work in a pharmacy,in college, not pregnant and making my own money!. My boyfriend says im out of her league and maybe i need to find new friends that compliment my lifestyle better we try to invite them over for dinner they never wanna come we try to invite them to get together where his friends are going to be at his house they never wanna come AND we even offer to come over there house and my friend always complans that we "ask at the wrong time and she'll tell us when we can hang out" ITS ONLY HAPPENED ONCE IN 6 MONTHS LOL anyways my boyfriend always talks **** saying he could never try hang out with them anymore cause no only are they "uneducated" they never want to hang out with us when we ask and they want control over everything he thinks shes taking advantage of me and is lazy cause she also gulit trips me cause i never hang out with her anymore or cook for her anymore IS MY BOYFRIEND RIGHT?? and he's not one of the types that want me to completely drop her he just tells me shes not a good friend and i need more!!!

First i'm sad, i feel so worthless like theres no one genuine in my f*cking life and I'm just so sick of everything. And then I just get so mad, i feel like i have no control over my body. Please help i don't know what to do.

I'm in 8th gradeThis group of ppl made a racist joke about me blowing up some ppl and shooting them w/ a sniper cause I'm Muslim. These aren't my friends so it wasn't like a friendly joke. It was super hurtful and racist. What should I do?

Today, I unintentionally managed to get my work PC infected with a malware. I got notified my IT department about it and reached my manager and IT guy. The situation was well handled and in my view, it didn't cause further damage. The security investigation was closed and I got warned by the manager to be more careful. Long story short, the whole situation was really bad, I felt and still feel really stupid. The worst part is that my boss got notified about all the hot mess I caused. He's away from office and I am tremendously afraid of the day he returns and found out what happened. This frustration is killing me, I feel really bad and ashamed of the whole situation.

Standing at her desk, and she had a marker and decided to do that. It didn't bother me, but why do you think she did that?

all of the white people I seem to encounter where I live have narcissistic/antisocial behavior. Don't get me wrong I've been to other states to visit and the white people seemed normal, But where I live they are all narcissistic and antisocial. I have a hard time dealing with them, any suggestions?

My fiancée was abused from 14-19 (her current age) by her step brother and now she's afraid of guys, including me and our roommate. Anytime we move too fast or touch her, in a normal way, she jumps or flinches. I know she trust us but just want to reassure her she has nothing to be afraid of when it comes to us and I know that takes time. I just want to find a way to help her calm down around us, any suggestions? And she is seeing a therapist.

Judge ordered standard visitations on my 1 year old daughter. I really feel that she is too young especially since she always cries when he picks her up. But this weekend is the first time she is spending a night away from me. He gets her friday-sun. He has yet to pay any child support. I told him everything she is going to need like diapers, clothes, milk ect. He said he was going to call cps on me for neglect if I don't send her with everything she needs. I didn't want him having overnight visitations because I don't trust him and she is too young but the judge granted it but I don't feel like I should have to care for her financially at his house and he needs to take on some responsibility. What do you think?

So im going on vacation and i just wanted to be nice and get my boss something. Would it be weird if i did???

well I'm 14 and i want to smell my friends feet. we are both guys but I'm not gay i just really like feet. he knows i have a foot fetish and i was wonder how and if i should ask him. well I'm 14 and i want to smell my friends feet. we are both guys but I'm not gay i just really like feet. he knows i have a foot fetish and i was wonder how and if i should ask him.

back in the times of monarchy: what if a prince had a brother or sister? would they not be princes and princesses too? only one could become king/queen right? but they are all royal blood, did they suddenly become no longer part of the royal family if the other sibling became king? if not, what were they? certainly not princes since princes were the sons of kings, right?

I was messaging a co worker a lot i guess this week, she ask: Thanks but seriously you are sending me alot of messages this week. Everything good between us? Just want to know if that is good or bad.