Marriage & Divorce: Question: Is this just a marital argument or something worse? |
- Question: Is this just a marital argument or something worse?
- Question: Why do women initiate more divorces than men?
- Question: How long have you been happily married?
- Question: Would you marry a man who was on SSI due to his disability?
- Question: I m marrying my son s father, that owes ME back child support.... Will it be annulled or will he still owe it?
- Question: I found out my mother had a affair years ago(2007), my parents are still together though. should i ask her about it.?
- Question: Husband won't get a job after 13 years of not having full time work. What do I do?
- Question: What do I do if my parents are getting divorced and try to bring me in he middle of it. I can't choose sides without hurting someone. HELP!!?
- Question: Why do women who abuse and provoke men expects to not get hit?
- Question: I'm scared of leaving my baby alone with my husband, what do I do?
- Question: Husband had emotional affair I think my feelings are fading. What to do?
- Question: My husband is letting his ex wife live in the shed in our backyard?
- Question: Men, how do you feel about your wife making more money than you? My husband is sad that he's not the breadmaker...any tips or suggestions?
- Question: Preventing loss of money during divorce?
- Question: A man that has a wife; but the man is effeminate in so many ways. Could the man be gay in reality; even though he has a wife?
- Question: Is it better to pay for marriage counseling or spend the money doing fun things together to reconnect?
- Question: Should We Invest in Marriage Counseling or Devote the Money to Doing Fun Things Together?
- Question: Should I dump my fiancé for not stepping up and taking care of my son?
- Question: Are middle eastern women bitches because their husbands controlling?
- Question: My wife told me that the van we on that her mother put a lien on it how is that even possible she s not the one has ever owned it she h?
- Question: What should my step-child call me?
- Question: Can they REALLY throw my husband in jail for this if we refuse to get a divorce?
- Question: Women: Do you enjoy making your husband not see his family?
- Question: My wife won't let me see my family, what do I do?
- Question: In a marriage is it normal for one spouse to be scared of the other spouse and submit to them?
- Question: My wife s sister and her husband argues daily when their kids are around.?
- Question: Should I divorce my husband?
- Question: My wife went to get spray tan by a guy she knew, am I right to concerned?
- Question: How common is it for military spouses to cheat on you while you're deployed?
- Question: My husband says I don't support him...should I change?
- Question: Husband and I are divorcing... He is going crazy!!!!!?
- Question: Opinions on a married guy trapped on his marriage because of his son with special needs?, and cheating for 2 years..?
- Question: If your celeb crush wanted to sleep with you but they were married, would you do it?
- Question: My husband and I have been married for 4 years but have known each other for 13 years. We should I do...?
- Question: I feel miserable about my marriage sex life.?
- Question: Is it normal to maintain ties with people who abused you, and how to stop it?
- Question: Serious question Men and Women, is marriage worth it?
- Question: Can being too similar to your spouse be bad for a marriage?
- Question: Is it true that people who wait until they're married to have sex never actually do want to have sex?
- Question: My wife doesn't love me anymore?
- Question: When a Wife Becomes Verbally and Physically Abusive, What Then?
- Question: Divorced women: how long did it take you to finally move on?
| Question: Is this just a marital argument or something worse? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 08:40 PM PDT I do not feel like there is anyone I can talk to about this, so I am posting here. My husband and I generally get along but have a lot of financial stress. Up until a month ago, I was managing our financial affairs but he has taken over as we agreed he would be better. Tonight, I decided to go into the accounts and I discovered that he is doing a worse job than I am. In a pissed but matter-of-fact way, I told him that I am managing our finances again. He started calling me an idiot repeatedly in a vicious way to provoke me. I sprayed him with my water bottle, and he pushed me onto the bed smothered my face. Not into a super hard way, like it did not really hurt me or anything, but it was a terrible and unpleasant response to my water bottle. Especially since he is stronger than I am. I tried to kick him off to no avail. he then got up and took my computer, locked himself in the bathroom to unenroll me from my graduate courses. i knew he wouldn't actually do it, and i just checked and saw he didn't, but our fight tonight which stemmed out of a big tension in our relationship ended up crossing the line. |
| Question: Why do women initiate more divorces than men? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 08:23 PM PDT |
| Question: How long have you been happily married? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 08:13 PM PDT Amongst all the cheating, lying and divorce questions I thought I'd ask a more uplifting one. I've been married 7 years, still going strong and very much in love. We met when we were 15 and 17 and have been together ever since. What about you? |
| Question: Would you marry a man who was on SSI due to his disability? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 07:59 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 03 Oct 2016 07:54 PM PDT So i was looking through some old folders and boxes and came across one with a variety of old stuff from 8+ years ago, I'm 20 so some of it was of my childhood like videos from first grade. in it i found some printed out old emails and other stuff that talks about my mom having an affair in 2006 or 2007 should i talk to her about it, let her know that i know. i also now have a bunch of questions, we moved to a new town summer of that year. i also have questions of what happened and why. my parents are still married so obviously they worked things out but its probably still are tough topic and its a hard one to ask about. |
| Question: Husband won't get a job after 13 years of not having full time work. What do I do? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 07:45 PM PDT Husband will not get a job. Says there aren't any. He is 48 and hasn't had a good full time or even several part time jobs for over 13 years. He said it is hard for middle aged men to get jobs in 2016. What do I do? I am about to giving up. We are going to lose everything. |
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| Question: Why do women who abuse and provoke men expects to not get hit? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 07:20 PM PDT |
| Question: I'm scared of leaving my baby alone with my husband, what do I do? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 06:35 PM PDT I'm 27 and my husband is 30. I'm biracial and he's white. He acts like a typical white man and annoys me all the time. We have 5 children the youngest is 4 months old. My husband works long hours and I appreciate him for that but he's so annoying. He leaves a mess wherever he is and makes stupid jokes. We have been together for several years now. I'm not in love with him and haven't been for a while now. It's just the same old every day he works I take care of the kids and cook. There's no excitement. I feel lonely because we moved because of his job a couple of months ago and I miss my mother and friends so I only have him to talk to here. I'm so bored of the marriage it's just the same old all the time. He always has to act in a silly way. I usually do the grocery shopping after my husband comes from work around once or twice a week and it takes a few hours. I leave the children with him but always take the baby. I have never left him alone with the baby because I worry. I don't like the way he holds her as if he's going to drop her and he gives the kids candy even if I tell him not to and they are supposed to be in bed at 8 pm and they are still awake when I come home. He doesn't listen and I feel I can't trust my baby alone with him like I would with my mother or friend, what do I do? |
| Question: Husband had emotional affair I think my feelings are fading. What to do? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 05:40 PM PDT My husband went on two dates with another woman. He made a tinder account, found a stranger, met her for coffee, then met her at a bar and that's when I caught him. I said I forgive him and I'm going to work on getting over it. He said he's never going to do anything like that ever again and that it had nothing to do with love and everything to do with him feeling like a loser. I went back and fourth between wanting him so close to me, to wanting to give up and say it's over. I've been working on forgiving, I do forgive him but the over abundant negative feelings that I keep feeling are starting to make me wonder if my feelings for him are fading now. I know I could restore our relationship... But today is his birthday I did all these nice things for him and it didn't feel good to do these things. He made me feel like I wanted to die I was so devistated... Now I dunno I dunno if my feelings are fading. I don't feel good or happy about us, I don't feel good about seeing him happy right now, I don't feel good about anything... I'm trying. All food taste like nothing, I can't enjoy music, I can't enjoy movies, I can't enjoy his affection towards me... I dunno what to do or how to feel anymore. I feel like my feelings are fading. |
| Question: My husband is letting his ex wife live in the shed in our backyard? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 05:19 PM PDT he cleaned out the shed, put everything in our garage so now I cant fit car inside.he spent 200 dollars on goods to make shed look nice for his ex wife. he told me to mind my own business. she's not even paying rent or anything.would you be upset ? |
| Posted: 03 Oct 2016 04:13 PM PDT Men, how do you feel about your wife making more money than you? My husband is sad that he's not the breadmaker. I have a good career, and I just took on a new job that pays 70k vs 50 in my old job. he makes about 38 a year. his money is my money, my money is his money. That's not why I married him. (we also just had our 1st child, I'm 30, he's 34). I'm not sure if I should tell him my new income. I lied to him about how much the new job pays me because I dont want to make him feel anyway. what can I do to not make him feel this way? |
| Question: Preventing loss of money during divorce? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 04:00 PM PDT Is it possible to make an agreement with a woman that when they get married, and if there is a divorce, she won't get any of his property? Like a legal agreement. By the way, I am just curious. Thank you. |
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| Question: Should We Invest in Marriage Counseling or Devote the Money to Doing Fun Things Together? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 03:18 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I dump my fiancé for not stepping up and taking care of my son? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 02:40 PM PDT My fiancé and I have been together for two years. I have a 7 year old son from my previous marriage whose father (my ex husband) is still actively involved in his life. Recently my ex husband got a new job in which he is making more money. I am struggling financially because of pay my sons health insurance, schooling, etc and costs have gone up. I mentioned this to my fiancé hoping he would help me out and he told me I should take my ex husband back to court and have his hold support upped since he has a better job now and it hasn't been updated in years.i think my fiancé is being selfish and should financially help with my son because if he is going to marry me he should accept my son as his own. I'm also realistic about what to expect from my sons father. Should I dump him my fiancé for suggesting this? |
| Question: Are middle eastern women bitches because their husbands controlling? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 02:35 PM PDT Middle eastern women are bitches. There I said it. But could their be a cause? Is it because their husbands control them and beat them up so they take out their anger on other ppl |
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| Question: What should my step-child call me? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 02:31 PM PDT I am engaged to a professional athlete, who has a child with another woman. I met and began dating him after he broke up with her, (it was a mutual break up- they simply weren't right for each other and they mutually decided to break up). I have been in his daughters life since the moment she was born (I was at the hospital). She is now getting old enough where she is starting to talk and my fiancée is very concerned about what she will call me (he thinks she should call me mom). We have an odd custody agreement due to my husbands profession and is traveling so much. It's about 50/50 and her mom lets us take her on road trips with us. Even when she was an infant we had 50/50 custody and she would spend the night with us, and since my fiancées schedule is so odd (usually coming home around 1 am, he plays professional baseball) I was the primary care giver when she was with us. We have a good relationship with her mom and I don't want to upset her by having their daughter call me mom, and I also don't want to confuse her. What do you think she should call me? |
| Question: Can they REALLY throw my husband in jail for this if we refuse to get a divorce? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 02:29 PM PDT When I was 15, I met my husband. He was 22. I gave birth to our daughter at 16. But my parents never reported him, since I was pregnant with HIS baby. At 26, I gave birth to our son. (We got married when I was 23) A few months ago we got into some **** and they found out that we got together when I was underaged. Now they are saying, if we don't get a divorce my husband will be sent to prison FOR SOMETHING THAT HAPPENED 15 YEARS AGO!!??!! Can they do this? |
| Question: Women: Do you enjoy making your husband not see his family? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 02:25 PM PDT Why do so many women forbid their husbands to see his family. Are women this evil? |
| Question: My wife won't let me see my family, what do I do? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 02:05 PM PDT I have been married for a little over three years and my wife still won't let me see my family. I haven't seen any of my family or friends since our wedding. I am only able to see her family and her friends. We have two young kids so I just can't divorce her because that would tear apart the children. I really miss my family and friends but my wife makes it impossible to them. Should I confront her and tell her how I feel or should I take it to the extreme and file for a divorce? Please help me. |
| Posted: 03 Oct 2016 01:58 PM PDT My Dad was like this where he was scared of my Mom and so we missed any activities with my Dad and his family since my Mom banned my Dad from it. I made up to them as a teenager and got close and remain so as an adult but it was weird to see. I just saw a question on family section where someone said there Dad is scared of their Mom and a similar question last night of a Mom submitting to a step-father with work. So is this normal? One spouse is scared of the other and so submits? |
| Question: My wife s sister and her husband argues daily when their kids are around.? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 01:46 PM PDT Here is the thing, the husband who is unemployed asked my wife to stay with us for a very long term along with his 2 kids. I love his two kids but we just bought a small house and we can t afford to raise all 3 of them. Not sure what to do. |
| Question: Should I divorce my husband? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 01:32 PM PDT My husband treated his ex-girlfriend better than me. i just found out that my husband supported his ex financially by sending her $1,000 every month for 2 years and also bought her a car during their relationship (she lives in his home country). I'm currently few weeks pregnant and my husband is forcing me to work even though the Doctor told us that I should get a full rest as I've had miscarriages in the past. He had no problem spoiling her but is a major problem when it comes to me. Help! |
| Question: My wife went to get spray tan by a guy she knew, am I right to concerned? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 01:12 PM PDT This happened last year, but I didn't find out about it until recently. I was hanging out with a buddy of mine and he asked me why would I let my wife get a spray tanned by J, who I didn't know well, but was someone my buddy knew. I told him I didn't know anything about it and he told me how J had done a spray tan session with my wife last year and afterwards, he had bragged to all his friends about seeing her naked. He told me the way he described her breasts and I knew he wasn't lying. Before we went to Jamaica, I remembered her getting a spray tan, but I never asked her about it. J was my wife's coworker's boyfriend, so she knows him and I remember seeing her talk to him at a club one night and they were smiling with each other. The thing was, he was a good looking guy, so I am now suspicious of my wife going to him? And I want to also confront J for talking about my wife like he's been doing. I am totally upset about it or am I overreacting? |
| Question: How common is it for military spouses to cheat on you while you're deployed? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 12:02 PM PDT I just have this gut feeling that she was banging some other dude the whole time I was gone. I have no proof or evidence but I'm seriously depressed about it because I just "know".... you know what I mean? Am I being paranoid? |
| Question: My husband says I don't support him...should I change? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 12:02 PM PDT My husband plays rec basketball. His games are on my days off once a week @10pm. I'm usually in home just relaxing during my one day off. I don't want to go to his games but he makes it a big deal & acts like I don't support him bc of this. He doesn't even practice with his team during the week &I've attended one game and there were literally three people there. It's just something for basketball lovers. I support him with everything else & ive attended every event he's had except for the games. I don't want to go. Should I just go to please him? Or deal with his attitude after the fact. |
| Question: Husband and I are divorcing... He is going crazy!!!!!? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 11:57 AM PDT My husband and I separated 9 months ago due to him leaving for his affair partner. At first I was devastated and couldn't understand why. Now 9 months into this I started school and I am doing very well for myself. My husband moved in with "the love of his life" but is treating me terribly. I accepted that this is the way things are going to be. He keeps stalking me on social media and trying to get any piece of something on me for court. He even went as far as to try and have me arrested for bumping into him at drop off for our son. If he is so happy and made his voices and are confident in them ( he keeps telling me he is confident in his decisions) why won't he leave me alone?? That's all I want!! |
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| Question: If your celeb crush wanted to sleep with you but they were married, would you do it? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 11:03 AM PDT Say you're in a hotel restaurant and ask them for an autograph then they say "you're pretty let's go upstairs". |
| Posted: 03 Oct 2016 10:59 AM PDT Yes the beginning of our marriage started wonderful and a year into our marriage we talked about themsomes I was a little scared but yolo. He said somewhere down the line I wasn't making him happy so he made a mistake and cheated with a stripper and now when we talk about it of course he's excited but I get jealous when he's texting a three some girl and isn't focus on me by keeping their conversation between them I have seen conversation saying things like, don't mention this to my wife, if I come see you would you be down to have some fun, while I'm involving him. so yes I got upset and he made all kinds of excuses so I started talking to this guy to show my husband how it feels to not be involved so he think I don't want the threesome because it makes him happy after a couple of threesomes I figure he would want to focus on us more and not them. We have had fist fights about other girls and I know we're young but I want a future with him. well after talkin to the guys just flirting never met up or he thinks I did because he was weak and made a mistake so he goes and hit a threesome girl up telling her what we're going thru to get comfort from her he said he just talked to her but they kissed I'm more hurt at the fact of finding out by the girls best friend and I tried talkin to the girl on FB but she never replied so I feel they never wanted me to know.I wait to see how long it would take my husband to tell me and when I found out it was already a week after it happened. |
| Question: I feel miserable about my marriage sex life.? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 10:47 AM PDT We have been married for 3 years, and living together for 2 years for x distance reasons. He is 25 and I'm 24. And right from the beggining sex life hasnt been great, I think I was so stupid for hoping that once we lived together things were going to change, becaus it has not. Im overweight, but I still try hard to satisfy him even if im already tired. My husband just hates doing oral sex, and I have come to the point that I dont even do oral to him neither because I dont think is fair. He also ejaculates in like 2 minutes, and I have talked to him a million times, that we need to foreplay, to get ourselves warmed up, but he gets so horney he just wants to get it in. I guess he only cares about what he feels. I have talked to him about oral sex, he just ignores me and changes the topic, one time he just told me is just to nasty, (even tho I shave, and always shower before anything!) I have talked to him about foreplay and he always says we will do it next time, and it never happens. And even when he tries to touch me down there, hes just so rough, its horrible. Im really getting sick and tired of all this. And tired of talking and it doesnt work. I cant even go to a sex therapist because he doesnt speak really good English :( |
| Question: Is it normal to maintain ties with people who abused you, and how to stop it? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 09:42 AM PDT My partner had a horrible childhood with his father, who was overly strict and abusive, and left home for college at 18 (never to return). They never talked about it though. My partner is now 27 and his dad sometimes calls him on Christmas or the likes and talks about banalities. I strongly feel that he'd better sever ties with his old man but he just can't, although he's agitated just by talking to his dad over the phone. I dislike his dad and don't want him near our future child or slowly enter our life, but I don't know how to make my partner realize that it's better to ignore his dad completely, particularly after those years of harsh punishments bordering on physical abuse. He just avoids the subject but still responds to his dad. I even consider counselling. Am I overreacted? |
| Question: Serious question Men and Women, is marriage worth it? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 08:24 AM PDT I'm in college studying to hopefully work in the criminal justice system. I honestly don't care about love at this point. I have friends, we hang out a lot but that's enough for me. I don't think about looking for a girlfriend and hoping one day to marry her and have kids. I want to just focus on what I'm doing live in my house freely and live my life. Is that wrong to think that way? Is marriage actually worth it for me to try to pursue it? Stop changing the category to my question |
| Question: Can being too similar to your spouse be bad for a marriage? Posted: 03 Oct 2016 08:14 AM PDT My husband and I are both Filipino, we come from conservative Catholic families, and we're both perfectionists due to our family upbringing. My parents wanted me to marry him because we have the same cultural and family values. He's scared that I'll leave him for another guy who is opposite of us, especially when I talk to a guy who looks and sounds different in terms of race, ethnicity, religion, and political beliefs. Is it best that both you and your spouse are similar or not? |
| Posted: 03 Oct 2016 04:27 AM PDT someone told me that mostly women who wait until marriage to have sex never want to even after marriage. Is that true? |
| Question: My wife doesn't love me anymore? Posted: 02 Oct 2016 10:37 PM PDT We used to love each other so much and i used to sing her lullaby every night. We used to share everything. Since weeks she's becoming distant. Like she would come back from work late and already had her dinner.. and here i wait for her to have our dinner together. One day she had to go far away for work, and she was booking a car for herself when she could simply ask for mine. She forgot my birthday. And she doesn't sleep with me. I talked to her why she's behaving like that. She simply said she wants her space and privacy. She wants to be free and an independent girl. But it hurts me everytime. Once i asked her to sleep with me in the same room and she told she was too tired n tht she's not a sexual object that i could use anytime. N it made me cry cuz i am not just a horny guy.. i just wanted her love. To just hug her n to talk to her. Yesterday she didn't even see my face before going to work. It's like she doesn't feel anything for me. I think she's depressed again about her past.. but she doesn't let me close to her so that i could make her feel better. What can i do to make her realise how much i love her? |
| Question: When a Wife Becomes Verbally and Physically Abusive, What Then? Posted: 02 Oct 2016 06:25 PM PDT |
| Question: Divorced women: how long did it take you to finally move on? Posted: 02 Oct 2016 03:25 PM PDT I've been divorced for 6 years. We share 2 kids so He's still in my life. He remarried and I have to deal with the new wife. I miss him less and less but I would like to find someone new. I'm sad a lot and I've dated others. Some are better than him at talking, but most I just didn't click with. What's the best way to move on ? How long did it take for you to find someone new or just be content? |
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