I did noticed my wife vibrator was in a different place from where i put it last time i used on her, the issue is I do enjoy sex and would like to have it more often but sometime she has some excuse, we do have sex but not as much as i would like, also I wonder what trigger her to masturbate, married woman please explain also what trigger you to masturbate after age of 45 yrs old.

I just started a new job and I will be making a little over $20,000 a year. My girlfriend is going to college in the Spring for her masters to be a librarian. From the looks of it, if we get married and combines our income, we will probably make around $40,000 a year. I'm just depressed because I desire to marry her someday and I want a better job and more money in order to take care of her and myself. I love her very much and, I just want to stop feeling anxious and nervous of the future all the time...

My friend keeps telling me how trains are peacful nd if she were to die it would be that way makes me so sad i dont want anymore orange uice nd i love orange juice idk

Three months ago my wife admitted to having slept with another man. She met him at work. I've known for months our relationship was in trouble. I was going through severe depression after my sister's death. We were talking things over and I was getting better, so I thought things were going to be OK, but I was wrong. The real curve ball though is that she told me she wants to move in with the other man and that she wants our daughter to live with me. "OK," I said. No problem there. I don't want our child under the same roof of some other man I know nothing about. So she did. She moved in with him. It's been nearly two weeks since we last saw her. Our daughter's been asking me "Where's mommy?" I tell our five year old. "I don't know baby." 'Cause I honestly don't know what to tell her. I call my wife. I tell her our daughter wants to see her. Can you come over? She tells me she can't. She's too "busy" and she can't make the 45 minute drive. What? I have no idea what I am going to do. I mean, divorce is a sure thing. But how do I explain this to a five year old? What do I tell her?

I really like the photo but it has his ex-wife in it. My parents took it down because of that. I threw away the picture of just he and his wife but what about the family photo? My brother is almost where he wants to erase all signs of her though they have two kids so he still sees her via them and I am sure we occasionally will see her at graduations and stuff though it will be rare.

This woman has never gone grocery shopping for her husband or her daughter. Only time she goes grocery shopping is only for her other family (parents & sibling). Even when her daughter needs baby food, she won't go. This woman has never contributed to her household. She has never paid a penny of the mortgage, utilities, car payments, cellphones, groceries, baby diapers/food/toys/clothes. She made good money when she used to work but contributed $0. This woman refused to give her husband a ride to the Emergency Room when he suddenly fell ill. She kept texting me for 30 mins telling me I need to take him because she didn't want to. The hospital is just 15 mins away. This woman refuses to throw away garbage and baby diapers in the trash bin, instead tossing them just a few feet from the front door. The trash bin is just 15 feet away. This woman is on the phone all day screaming at people on the other end and eating all day. Unfortunately, this woman is my brother's wife.

We do almost everything together now and live together. He has free time now working regular hours until he graduates Residency. I have my own career in the Medical Field as well and independent. But just wondering what it's like being a Doctors wife. Will I be like a single mom after kids or alone a lot because he will be working?

My husband (our daughter father) aren't in the most loving relationship we are hot and cold and more than usual were cold. I feel resentful towards our daughter sometimes because of the hatred I have towards my husband. It's a lot and most will probably say well get divorced if you hate him that much, but I know I do love my husband, our relationship started really amazing at the beginning, it wasn't till after I gave birth that I started noticing the less love and affection a marriage needs on his end. I noticed the lies the hiding things the lack of love in other words, when I try to talk to him about it he denies cheating and hiding things from me and claims to love me but his actions lately and my gut say something else! Reason is why we fight causing me to resent our daughter for hatred towards him knowing something is up with him that he won't admit. Can someone please help. I'll take any advice. Please and thank you.

who else can smell it? If I put my head down and smell it has musky blood smell.

My husband has started talking with one of his ex s again. We just had our first child and my self esteem is at an all-time low. I want to trust him but I had an ex who was "just talking" with an ex cheat on me before. My husband never used his Facebook account and now he is on it all the time talking with that woman. I just don t know what to do or how to cope with it? Any ideas?

take a peek at me in shower. is this ok?

For years, my husband has lied to me about a porn and emotional cheating on the internet problem. Our old therapist even told me he felt my husband was cheating, but that he was not being truthful. In August, I got a message from one of those blackmail bots on Facebook who told me that she had video of him doing bad stuff and had a screenshot attached with his face. I am still really depressed and he says I am playing the victim and he could sit around and blame others for his troubles and that is what I am doing, shifting blame. I am obviously not the one who pulled this stunt. He is a truck driver who is over the road and that is when it happened. He calls me constantly and I just want some time to myself to read or watch tv, and he just wont stop annoying me and calling to scream at me. Who's fault is this? He claims his childhood friend got him into this stuff and its not his fault. He promised to go into counseling and has not (he claims that is also my fault for not finding a weekend therapist, which is rare)- he promised to get off Facebook, which he has not done. Not 1 promise he made to me has been done. Because my 1st husband was addicted to it and it lead to him cheating with some girl he is now married to. My husband knows I am against that.

He is 65, I'm 55. Should be the best years of our lives but since we are together 24/7 we fight like cats and dogs. I want to sell the house, buy an RV, travel, see the country. He just wants to sit like a lump. He has done a lot of underhanded things during our time together and I have forgiven but now, I feel nothing.We just cancelled a week vacation in Florida because I couldn't bear the thought of being trapped in a vehicle or motel room together. We are on fixed incomes and can't afford to split the household but I am miserable and want him gone.

My ex wife filed for divorce. I signed a waiver of service and it was noterised. She then presented me with the final orders that had child Support and child custody. I made the mistake by signing the final orders and not reading them. So now she's going to court with the orders. I have no idea what is in the orders. After she goes to court and I get the papers back if i dont agree with whats in them what can i do

I've been on a few dates with this guy and we both seem to be on the same page. We talk daily and even with our busy schedules we try and make time for each other. He says he wants to take thing slow and be a gentleman so he doesn't scare me away. The only thing I see as a possible red flag is the situation between him and his son's mom. His son is 7 and they have been broke up for 5 years. It's clear she wants him back and he will admit it. He's an amazing father, he has full custody. He is able to co parent well with her, which is great. It's just that she relies on him for everything. She will ask him for rides here and there and if he picks his son up she will ask to go to the store, etc. He will take her and the next thing you know they are out to eat as a family. I've not met her yet so I am not included. He will also say their son wants to take them to dinner, so they all go, but I have a funny feeling she sets him up to say that to his dad. I haven't mentioned this, but he will come out and tell me I have nothing to worry about with her. Yet she can ruin his mood like nobody else. If they fight, it ruins out plans. He tries to tell her no he won't do something for her but they argue and then he ends up not talking to anyone because he's in a bad mood. So it does affect us in some way & it scares me off a little. I'm wondering if I should even continue trying to date him or if this is a situation I need to remove myself from now before I get hurt.

My boyfriend always deletes texts from one of his guy friends if it has anything to do with them getting together. It is a male friend, and I don t care if they hang out, but he lies to me saying he doesn t hang out with him, and deletes the text messages. I just don t understand why. I don t hate the friend, or get mad if he does go out to drink or hang out.

I have been overweight for about a year now. Before that, I'd say I was on the higher side of average. I used to be 5'5 and hovering around 150lbs when we met. I weigh 185 now. Then when my son was a few months old, I was in a car accident where I injured my leg and had surgeries on it. I spent months hardly being able to get around. And then I was depressed and I wasn't taking care of myself. But it's been over a year and my leg is better now and I want to get back to my old self. My husband, who took care of me so well for all this time, is suddenly just being a jerk. He's accused me of wanting to lose weight to cheat on him which I think is crazy. And he says that me going to the gym is taking time away from him and our family which is selfish. He says that I should only care about what my husband thinks of my body and he likes it the way it is so I must be doing this for other guys. He is 6'1 and like 190 pounds, he used to be in the Navy. I don't understand why he would like me this way or to stay this way. He's even thrown away healthier foods out of the fridge. And part of me wants to leave him for this but I feel crazy for leaving him for my weight but he is honestly not acting normal or like himself and I feel like I don't know who I'm living with.

I know a lot of people will say they don't care about that and the past is the past, but that's usually because they are also promiscuous themselves and have been around so they don't care if someone else has done so as well. But, don't you think that past long term behavior is indicative of future behavior ?

My wife loves to lay in bed and cuddle all day. Why does she love this ?

I m a female in the military. I ve been with my husband for almost four years now. 3 years dating and we are going on 1 year of marriage. I married him after I graduated BMT. He is my high school sweetheart but he has always been horrible at keeping/getting a job. We never fought until we moved in together. Just recently it started getting physical. I am not innocent in this. I ll playfully smack his arm or something in a n argument and he ll hit me hard back. Yesterday he made me so mad (he hasn t gotten a job since we moved almost 6 months ago, and I am the one providing for this family) and I smacked his head pretty hard. He turned around and kicked me in the side of my leg. It hurt terribly and I feel to the ground crying. Them today we got in an argument so I reached to take his PS4 controller off his night stand and he pushed me hard. I fell to my knees and hit my head on the door. I bursts out in frustrated tears and ran to the guest bedroom, on the way there I threw a framed picture of us on our wedding day at the front door. I m now laying in the guest bedroom contemplating divorce for the millionth time.

My daughter was trying to find something she had been looking at earlier online. Her dad had given her his old phone since he got his new one. He still had his account logged in for Google because when I went to history it showed all of her searches as well as his. He'd obviously been looking at pics of women usually naked and sometimes with gifs. In between a string of these x rated searches and sites is a Google search for "hotels in Tacoma, WA". Is this obvious or do you think there is a perfectly good explanation? Maybe I shouldn't even be worrying about it? No not looking at escorts, strip joints, or craigslist ads. He hasn't been above going to strip joints and getting escorts for him and his work buddies at hotels before we were ever together though.

why cant she mind her own business ? I really feel like hurting her.Sometimes they sit outside on bench when weather is nice, I park my car across the street and I see everything. Am I allowed to legally hurt her in some way? I ask my husband at night real quietly, did you have a nice lunch today? and he says same old lunch at my desk. That is when I go downstairs, I want to find this girl and have her beat up, who does she think she is, she laughs like she is some comedian, like an overlaugh, I hear her across street. she is thinner and younger but that is it, she needs to go.

every job,every place I go in public married women are looking for other mens attention. What is the sense of marriage when women go out of their way to smash a wedding vow? they flirt, shows boobs, wear tight fitting pants all for their own ego. @ Rebecca - you are terribly lonely,you never leave yahoo.go find someone to play with.

past few weeks he started having panic attacks and bad depression and decided it was his job doing it and also decided that he wanted to go back to school and become a accountant.. well a little information about me.... I am unemployed but take care of my daughter and his step daughter but they started kindergarten this year so I am currently looking for a job.. The mother of his daughter is crazy and we been to court with her non stop!! I been there by his side even when I didn't agree with his decisions he was making..well He went to work yesterday and they made him come home because his doctor didn't release him... he had a panic attack the week before and had to come home... well he told his boss he didn't want to do animal control anymore so she told him she would contact HR to see if their are any available positions open for him.. I agree his job was a dead end job with a salary of 35k... he could do much better.. but now I am worried about our daughters health insurance as it was through his work...she should be approved for FAMIS.. but I feel so much anger towards my husband for not thinking about this much more.....so I told him I am worried... (he is not the bio dad of my daughter.. her dad hasn't seen her in 3 years and is a dead beat/ no job) my husband has been in my daughters life since she was 4 months old... she calls him daddy and thinks its her dad... so today my husband said that it isn't his problem that I need to get a job and worry about it..

My husband have this thing where we record a lot of TV shows and watch together at night. There's not a day that goes by where our DVR isn't recording at least 4 or 5 shows a night. Yes, we watch a lot of TV. We've been a little busy lately and stating to get behind on our shows. My husband said that he was cool with us just watching the shows on our own just not deleting them for the other person. On his job he has the ability to watch TV at his desk and our satellite system at home allows us to watch our DVR recordings remotely. Well, we're already behind like 2 weeks on this season's new fall lineup. Last night we were eating dinner and I was about to start a show and he said, "I've already seen that." When asked when he said he watched it while he was at work. I got a little upset because I like the fact that we watch shows together. He said, "It's just a tv show. We don't have to watch everything together at the same time." Am I wrong to be upset that he's now doing things without me? We have some shows that we watch together, some only I watch, and others that only he watches. He says that I never even watch the shows that only I watch but will come home and watch live TV instead of catching up on my shows. Again, I'm waiting on him to come home so "we" can watch "our" shows. Am I wrong here? We tend to be busier people these days so he just feels that we can watch some things apart cause it's no big deal. It's just TV according to him. My husband has this funny saying. "Anything you (me) record is for you to watch and anything I (him) record is for us to watch." He feels that if he sees a show he wants to watch he'll set the DVR to record it but then when I see it on the listing I now want to watch it and he can't watch it until we're both sitting down together. He says I just don't like doing anything by myself.

she constantly was refusing sex and I had enough of it. So I found a FWB who I have fun with. When I want to get laid I call her and vice versa. I explained her the situation and surprisingly her situation is similiar to me. I told her I'm married and my wife doesn't love me or have sex with me anymore and she told me that her boyfriend is the same way. She's so awesome! And we also have this code where if either her boyfriend or my wife sees us together, we're "old friends from college who wanted to catch up" does this make me a rotten person?

Serious question, my Dad and her Mom got married but will that stop us from getting married? We met through our parents dating,

Backstory: Myself, my ex (then boyfriend) and my best friend were all in the air force a few years ago. Me and my ex worked together and started dating. He put me through a lot back then and we were very close. My best friend absolutely hated him and I told him this. I ended up getting out the air force, he was stationed somewhere else, and so was my best friend. Me and my ex planned that I would move in with him, but he broke up with me before I could. That was two years ago, and we've been NC ever since, not a single word. I have no social media, however, he found my best friends Instagram, which is really discreet and private, and followed her, she doesnt even follow him back! Whenever my best friend and I meet up or take a trip, she posts pics of us, and he always likes them in addition to liking other dumb random things she posts that have nothing to do with me. I don't understand why he is doing this, he dumped me in the most brutal way two years ago, what is he trying to say?