this married guy used to flirt th me all the time, checked me out and would even tell me in certain ways how he didn't like that his wife let herself go blah blah. they married when they were really young and had children very young too. He aso even told me how she constantly would bring up all the mistakes he made in his marriage. Problem is he doesn't leave and keeps letting her have her own way even when I can tell its driving him crazy. I get the feeling he as cheated before. so im wondering how you would know if someone did. When he left to get a better jobi could tell he was hapoy but also very sad to be leaving. Right before he left he said dont worry i still live here. especialy with all these things he did

Guy or gal, personally tattoo artists take the cake for me.

Hi. I'm looking to come out to my parents as non-binary and was wondering if any of you had some resources I could use that explain what non-binary means, how to support a non-binary child, etc.? Thanks!

So this is gonna sound super weird but it's always been like this and even now and I'm a 16 year old girl. I never want serious punishments obviously but I'm always looking to be yelled at, lectured, scolded, etc by authority figures but only some. It depends on the person but usually a teacher or coach who is a guy but sometimes girls who I respect or who I usually get along with well. The thing is FOR SOME REASON AND I DONT KNOW WHY I love it when these kind of authority figures are mad at me for something. Lately it's been my karate coach who is in is 30s and I have a ton of respect for him and I love him as a person. Every once in a while he'll get mad at me for doing something dumb and he'll lecture me or yell at me or even just give me stern looks. Whenever that happens, or when he acts like he's disappointed in me I like I a lot and I don't know why??? Is this like really weird because just writing about it I feel like a freak! Why is it? Could it be b cause I don't have a dad in my life or I want attention or something? And this is gonna sound weird but what do I do to make him do it more? Like little things that'll get him to yell at me? I know it's weird but someone help me out thanks haha

the parents are not together anymore and the father is providing all financial support to the child by himself and he is disabled on a fixed income, the mother refuses to get a job. The child lives with the mother tho.

I m a girl and I met this girl at a party. Okay so recently I went out and this girl and I got wasted. She said I told her a lot of things but she was pretty and I really want her. Continuing on we almost kissed that night but we didn t. The next day she came and saw me and we talked about everything I had told her like that I wanted to marry her and make her mine. She has a girlfriend by the way. So later on that day she asked me if I wanted to go get get drink with her again I said no and I just wanted her to chill with me. She still went out but she came over and saw me after the party. So we were laying in my bed and she kissed me. I immediately said you re drunk and you have a girlfriend but she continued trying to kiss me. I really want this girl so I tried pushing her away but she kept grabbing and I finally kissed her. And then we started making out and then tried to proceed with have intercourse but I stopped her. Am I wrong for kissing her?Also she texted me this morning and then I texted her and now she won t text back so should I try contacting her asking if she remembers what happened last night?

I'm a 17yr old virgin..I've had my period for six years now,and it usually always came EVERY month around the same time (14th-17th) but this last month,it never came..It's now Oct and still no period..This has NEVER happened before and I'm beyond freaked out..I'm so scared,why has this happened? My period has been coming for so long now,it's done regulated itself out; I have no reason to be late (No diet change,no sleep change,not doing sports,not stressed,nothing..) I'm a total virgin but two months back I woke up very sore and super wet down there,so what if I got raped unknowingly? Anyway,if I'm not pregnant..Why is it late? This has never happened before..I'm so scared I'll never have it again or it won't come this month either :( After the date I was due for my period,I gained weight for NO reason..I was 109 for yrs now for like a week i've been 112 :( why? My stomach feels bigger what if Im pregnant somehow? I dont even have a bf. .i was at home,i never go out,****,I dont even have a boyfriend.. Im so depressed right now..I know you all think im trolling by asking this a lot but im literally scared shitless...Even if im not pregnant..Why did I miss? And what if i am pregnant? I wanna die.

I got into this bad situation w/ the guy i like because I tried to get him to give a long distance thing I try after he told me how he felt it about and he told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again, and then I got mad cause i felt like it was really rude of him to lash out at me like that considering the fact that I did not know about his boundaries anyway, I knew I shouldn't have texted him back but I just felt impulsive to do so & called him stubborn & apologized for wanting to try & know him better.. And after that I kind of figured he blocked me & was pretty upset for a few days knowing that it didn't go as i hoped it would, and then after awhile I started feeling really bad that I disrespected him & made him feel uncomfortable in way.. and crossing his boundaries & decided to apologized and so I did & I got curious if he really did block me or not so i called using *67 & it rang twice and after that I hung up & figured maybe he just deleted it.. But either way he saw my apology and ignore it & idk if I'll ever be cool with that but I just have to accept it :( I'm curious though, even after I did all of that he still didn't block me, I mean I would block someone if I didn't want th

I have recommended this in my condo association but the group didn't decide to bring it up for review. I understand that it may not be as hygienic but it may help the community to look a little better.

She basic ly just wants me to get pregnant. Which is something I do not want. I am 21 and live with her. I do everything I can to help her because I feel terrible for not being the daughter she wanta. It is killing me, her whole family has been putting pressure on my to get pregnant and she is too. I can't deal with this anympre. I want to talk to her but idk..help? Advice,? Commenta? Anything?

I live in Louisville Kentucky, I've hopped a variety of jobs around here, but the consistency is the same at them. The employees are rude /petty at best to hostile at worst, all have borderline/npd and the desire/likeliness to bully or come after somebody. Hr issues are immense. Leads me quitting them over hostile workplace.

We aren't poor, but we aren't rich either. But when it comes to food, if I leave even a tiny piece of bread on my plate less than the size of my thumb, even if I'm overstuffed and feeling sick I have to eat it anyway because its a "waste." Please don't comment with the "the less fortunate would want to get their hands on that" and etc, I'm fully aware, I don't waste much food unless it's accidentally burned or something, but seriously, I try not to cook much because food is "waste" I guess.

My back was sore from lifting heavy stuff so I went to a drug store and asked the pharmacist what he would recommend for an aching back. He said "Been Gay". I told him no, I had been straight all my life. Why would the pharmacist be interested in my sexual orientation?

I ussually don't call back causepeiple say I'm scared of my success I take a while to email back. In public I'm silent but I'm the loudest mofo when all eyes are on me. I've been depressed since I can remember with zero treatment. I talk kids out of harming themselves but I've got a lot of problems. I text this young girl I fell in love with but she's been in a long term relationships but FML cause I don't really care what people think of me. Everyday my dad tells me I'm a f up. Strangers want to judge me for being fashionable. Most women like me but most men seem to hate me I'm a guy by the way I pray to God everyday. Majority of people in the business world seem to think I'm a sweet guy but I'm not that professional. The people I help always want to bring me down. I don't consider my blood dad my dad God is my real dad. Most people say I'm an a hole. My blood disowned me before I was born because I'm mixed. I don't go out much why would I? Not like I'm trying to waste my time in a club I'd rather brainstorm. People say I think too much and that I'm emotionally unstable. I'm lonely I miss that young woman but f it because their probably gonna start a young family after 6 years and I know it's hard to love and bag like me. Women say I'm their favorite person kids that get picked on say I'm an inspiration their dads call me mentally ill. White racists hate me.I feel under appreciated. I wish I could feel something

The girl crew members don't talk to me only to ask me to do somethung. The boys are friendly and talk to me. Its weird cause this happened all in school which some girls talking to me. This happened when I went to dental assisting school, it was a small group of girls and they all did stuff without me. I'm not the greatest with eye contact. Why.could this.be happening?

I don't know who did this to me but I believe that my tears isn't a lie.? I like to hear out people who ever they are a friend a family a stranger but will never put my trust in them. I mean I won't believe still I will listen to them. Anytime I am ready to be betrayed, to let go, and to be lied to. I mean I am expecting to let go every time . And when I feel that someone have impact on me I try to push them away so that I can't get hurt I had experienced once and I just got through it alone I mean I'm that kind people who gives up everything for their beloved one's.

What do you think of life?

Yesterday my girlfriend and I had sex twice and when she had to take the pill 1 hour later she noticed that she had forgotten 1 the day before. She usually takes them around the evening (9 pm) and as I mentioned, she noticed she forgot the pill around the same time. So that's already OVER 12 hours. This is her 2nd week of taking the pill. I read a lot that in the 2nd week you shouldn't be worried if you just take the forgotten pill anyway. Is this true? As a second question: after we had sex, my girlfriend wiped herself a bit because she was pretty wet. There was a little bit of blood in there. I do not mean as in (bright)red-blood, but a teeny tiny small whipe. Like if you scoop away a bit of near-dried up blood from a bleeding lip, and notice a very small and light spec, which is bit hard to see and easy to miss if you dont focus on it (wish i could explain it better). Could this be due the irritation of the cervix/friction?

Like if you are excited for a movie to come out could you say "I can't wait any longer?"

Guys will talk to each other, punch a wall, throw things at each other. If they get frustrated they kick a chair or punch a hole through the wall, and throw a horrible fit, and start violently yelling at you like a drill Sargent. They will randomly jump up to certain people and start moving their hand back and fourth on their chest and hounding words in in their head and yelling in their head and following them messing with that person, They will randomly walk up to a person and put that person in a head lock and start pushing him down. They will randomly go up to someone and slam them into a locker. Why are guys like This?

As in, everyone takes you for granted and no one appreciates you or the things you do? For me personally, I've been feeling that way for awhile, but it was just confirmed the other day when I brought up a topic about something I've always wanted and a friend said "that came out of nowhere, we never talked about that", when we had literally been talking about it for close to a year... Another example is when I told someone I loved them, and they proceeded to tell me "You don't love me". The point, it seemed like it came out of no where for THEM because they didn't notice me or any of my past actions. :/ This becomes frustrating because I feel like I'm invisible to them. So what do you do when being you isn't enough?

Hello, Please may I know how to indicate that the message that I will send is to someone himself. I mean to him personally. I do not not rather him to read it even his secretary. what shall I write in the subject section? *correction: I do not anyone rather him to read it even his secretary. *correction: I do not want anyone rather than him to read it even his secretary.

I'm Latino mixed of every race I look white/yellow brown hair and eyes. I'm a pretty sweet guy so I don't act like stereotypical American. My ideal first date would be a tour around the city and end it with a dinner drive you to the building walk you to your apartment say I had a great time ask if you want to go out again. I dress fairly nice from what women tell me. I get along with women's parents. I'm 17 so I'm fairly young but what do you think

Because I feel under appreciated and I have since 2012 and I'm a young man 17

I'm a male who is reserved when it comes to girls. I'm nervous around them all the time. Growing up I've been teased at by relatives and people in school. Often I would just think about girls I like when stressed over homework or home life. Whenever a Victoria's Secret magazine came into the mail, I'd get nervous about being caught glancing at it for a second. Never am I allowed to have posters on my wall in my room. One day I snapped and began to loosen up and not care. I started flipping through the pages of the vs mag and then leaving it elsewhere in the house. Kinda like I'm saying that I notice these girls. They in malls at the vs store and on tv being seen by everyone. I use the main pc a lot but it belongs to my mom. I don't know why I got comfortable putting vs lingerie girls on the screen but I do. Now I discovered this sexy playboy girl. However she is black and I come from a racist family. I'm white and would like to have a black girlfriend. I expressed that with this girl. http://www.pimpyporn.com/assets/hfinal12/kylie_johnson/hot_tub/130335_main.jpg http://www.pimpyporn.com/assets/hfinal12/kylie_johnson/hot_tub/130336_main.jpg. Since Victoria secret girls pose like this I figured this pos would not be a problem to have and it wasn't. http://www.pimpyporn.com/assets/hfinal12/kylie_johnson/hot_tub/130338_main.jpg. http://www.pimpyporn.com/assets/hfinal12/kylie_johnson/hot_tub/130337_main.jpg. I dunno know. My hormones I guess raged a week ago and I was looking at this pic of her and just out of no where decided to put it as wallpaper. At first of change it out of fear when I got off the computer. However I decided to have it on and go through with it. She looks so good here and is only shown at a side. Think it will be ok to have up? http://www.pimpyporn.com/assets/hfinal12/kylie_johnson/hot_tub/130345_main.jpg

Me and this guy love each other but I don't want to start a relationship just yet because as much as I love him he's going away for a month back to his house on Colorado then 5 month deployment to Japan afterwards he's getting out of the military and moving back to Denver. I live in So Cal. He wants to have a relationship until he goes home. It's confusing cause he says he might re list and just move to San Deigo for another 3 years but then it goes back to him getting out of the military What should I do? I just feel like I'm gonna get attached then hurt. I feel like I'll never meet anyone else... I'm almost 24 and still no one.

My mother once sent my brother down in our creepy spider-filled basement for a couple minutes one night because he was talking late at night. He is terrified of spiders, and when he came up about 5 minutes later, he was crying. My mother did catch him talking before this and warned him not to do it again, or he would be sent down there. Would this count as abuse, or punishment taken too far?

I got into this bad situation w/ the guy i like because I tried to get him to give a long distance thing I try after he told me how he felt it about and he told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again, and then I got mad cause i felt like it was really rude of him to lash out at me like that considering the fact that I did not know about his boundaries anyway, I knew I shouldn't have texted him back but I just felt impulsive to do so & called him stubborn & apologized for wanting to try & know him better.. And after that I kind of figured he blocked me & was pretty upset for a few days knowing that it didn't go as i hoped it would, and then after awhile I started feeling really bad that I disrespected him & made him feel uncomfortable in way.. and crossing his boundaries & decided to apologized and so I did & I got curious if he really did block me or not so i called using *67 & it rang twice and after that I hung up & figured maybe he just deleted it.. But either way he saw my apology and ignore it & idk if I'll ever be cool with that :( but I'm curious even after I crossed his boundaries he didn't block me.. Why do you think that? I think it's a little weird tbh..

it was there and i looked and there was a bag and i opened it and there was cash...only one hundred bills, and i took some now i have 1,400 dollars but, they are from 1988 B and i need to know if thry can still be used. I think he forgot about that money but, still please tell me if they can be used im 11 years ols so please help me and WHAT DO I DO?! I found money in my dads closet

Tengo 19 años y nunca he tenido novio pero si es salido con chavos me he besado con ellos con uno estuve a punto de andar pero no se dieron las cosas tuvimos diferencias y varios andan detras mio y me siento bien pero derrepente si me entra la duda o rara de que no he tenido novio y la verdad ahorita a pesar de que no he andado con nadie no quiero tener noviazgo no se porque ,nadamas quiero salir y conocer personas nuevas estoy bien ? O me debo preocupar por ya tener a alguien?

You have to understand that as a 17 year young Latino man mixed up of ever race living in America I'm hopeless. School said I'd be lucky if I live to see the day before 19. I'm tired of feeling like a failure. Nobody picks on me anymore, my stalker's followed me around school a couple times but IDGAF about myself. I've dealt with depression since pre school with zero treatment. If someone I know reads this than FML I'm at least living my truth before I get killed. I'm somewhat in love with the daughter of my blood father's sister who's 21 & has been in a 6 yr relationship. We didn't grow up on the same contintents but she's the only 1 who calms me & her words make me feel wanted. She makes me feel as if my life actually mattered. I say somewhat because how could I fully love someone that way when I suck. My teachers like me, I'm gifted, women like me but I'm not chasing sex. I only want to feel & im almost crying right now cause I'm scared. My parents can't support me & it's on me nobody else. I put myself in a possition that looks promising but I'm geting ready for the hate. I think of suicide. I'm emotionally unstable like the Internet says I am. My blood dad has always made me hate myself. God is my real dad. Somebody's gonna kill me I see it in my dreams every night. Why even care to live. I don't need anyone but I'm sad everyday, Women think I'm sweet men hate me. Just like my mom and blood dad. Before you judge me try hard to love me. I'm misunderstood I mean well

I met my now boyfriend 2 months ago online. We thought we were so lucky to have found each other and it was perfect, one month later we started to fall in love with each other. I'm absolutely in love with him, but the distance is a huge obstacle. He can't visit anytime soon and I think the same goes for me. I never felt the way I feel when I'm talking with him, we completely trust each other, but we've been having pretty rough days... I mean, we started fighting and I don't know, it's just getting serious and boring and too stressful. He changed, I don't feel like he still loves me the way he did, his way of talking, he's getting bored of me, I can feel it. I don't really wanna lose him but ever since he's become officially my boyfriend, he's like this whole other person who's always making sure that I'm happy. Any suggestions? Is this normal for new couples, like do you reach a stage right after a new relationship where you feel like everything's falling apart?

Today my husband started yelling at me to do the dishes and I told him no not until he learns to speak to me properly. He then pushed me into a mirror and my body broke the mirror then he proceeded to grab my arm and forcefully push me into the kitchen to start on the dishes and I had red marks on my arm from him grabbing me. My husband also took away my cell phone and laptop and told me I wont get the items back. We have a 4 year old son together and live in Florida . I have no family here all my family is in Georgia, Im so fed up with my husband bossing me around. im a Christian and don't believe in divorce. Any advice?