this guy and I got into a bad situation when I tried to get him to change his mind about long distance relationships after he told me he thought they were tedious and a lot of work, and I told him he'll never know unless he tries & that I think it'd be nice to have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that? And after I sent that he kind of lashed out and told me to respect his boundaries when I wasn't even aware of them and not to text him again, and I kind of did anyways, on impulsive cause I got mad he lashed out like that instead of telling me he had boundaries and expecting me to know about them. And after awhile I started thinking about the situation and realize that I was being kind of selfish & apoligized & he completely ignore it. And now I'm wondering if he knew how I truly felt would it make a difference, would he change his mind about me? What I wanted was to keep in touch while getting to know each other, not a freakin long distance relationship/friendship I just wanted someone to talk to throughout the day cause I really liked talking to him & figured why not talk to him more & see where it goes.. I really wasn't asking for much..  do you think if he knew this? He'd genuinely consider it? And please give me your honest options, it's okay to be blunt 

Nobody is supporting my life. The only people who show me love are random women in their 20's, they don't see me as a monster. It's been months since i talked to this special girl I miss her but I just don't care about myself anymore. She tried to help but I'm stupid. I wish people realized the things running through my head and things I need to accomplish. I see her with someone else I was just a fling FML. I can't let myself emote because I have a big heart but it's overshadowed by people's preconceived notions. We're all naive. I have calls from 2015 I've yet to return, my life is a giant trainwreck. But how am I supposed to get by when the only woman who made me feel loved and wanted is on another continent with another lover. I'm still f'd up by the fact my blood disowned me for being mixed before even being born. It's irks me so much still. My blood father thinks I'm scum and mom can't even help me but I love her. My daddy is God. I turned 17 a couple weeks ago school said I'm lucky if I live to see 19. Counselors & teachers can't do **** they're just doing their job & don't understand. I'm horribl at explaining. I'm homeless this house isn't my home and my parents have been at odds nice I can remember I'm emotionally unstable. RN I'm broke but I'll be a philanthropist just u wait. I talk kids out of suicide & self harm but I'm kinda liking anorexia

Basically my "friend" who has a gf btw don't leave me alone, I just want to get away from doesn't understand I have no interest in him. I've tried to be nice but he constantly obsesses over me and tries to force me to talk to him. I've explained to him a million times to leave me alone but he just keeps saying "how can I stop being annoying" and it annoys me so much because I can't stand him. Please help me.

I saw a documentary on Moose where they showed them mating and they showed the males thing too. For some reason i started to get turned on by this and then started looking on the internet for other pictures of it. I know its not normal but i am wondering why this is and if anyone else has ever had a similar problem.

Well her daughter is for a man who she later found iut was married she never knew this considering they live in different cities . Well she is pregnant by him and everything was good he claim he was going to do for her and the baby well she just wanted hum to help her when she needs it she's a strong woman in my eyes...anyways something went wrong with his life he found out some bad things about his marriage so now he cut back on her and she understood what he was going through I mean everybody did who knew him ....anyways after a while she is 7 months now and she has tried to reach out to him but it's like he wants to but don't know how to because when he cut back he told a friend of his to tell her which was stupid you man enough to lay down wuth her be man enough to talk to her face to face . ..But she has a man whose been there with her and is willing to give her daughter his last name and all that but some of his family found out Erica is pregnant by him and they want to be involved in the baby's life.....her current boyfriend said he is fine with whatever she does as far as putting him on child support also...Basically Erica feels like her current BF is so god giving but he didnt take that baby and he shouldn't break his neck to do so much for her when she has a father who is her biological father .....can her baby have his last name and can she still put her daughter's real father on child support ? We live in Louisiana.

And what relationship is he to me?

Me and this girl do boxing together, I have bought her gloves with her name on them as a gift because she has improved. And brought her back a necklace from a concert that she was supposed to go with me, Because she couldn't make it anymore . She invited me to her party last Saturday night and instead of bringing her a dish or bottle ( which said in the invitation) i brought her flowers . I didn't want to put her on the spott in front of everyone , so I decided to wait until the next day. I told her the next day I have a gift for her and She asked me why I keep giving her gifts. I Told her straight up that I like her and she said she really likes me as a friend and that I'm a nice guy. She said she really appreciates the gift but didn't want to accept it and told me to give it to the next girl because she will feel wierd if she does accept ( she didn't know what the gift was yet) then I told her that I don't expect nothing back at all and if she dosent like me back the I completely understand. I told her the reason Im giving you this gift is because I went to your house and didn't bring a dish or bottle that I can't legally buy one yet , so I thought outside the box and brought you these flowers since you like hiking and nature. She looked flatterd and said they are beautiful( her expression changed and voice changed) then she gave me a big hug and said thank you. Any advice? What could she be thinking ? What should i do from here?

Hola yo soy una chava de pocas amigas maximo dos y aveces casi ni las veo pero si soy de muchos amigos hombres el problema es que les llamo la atencion y me molesta mucho porque uno se atrevio a confesarmelo y yo senti horrible porque yo me llevo con ellos como si fuera uno mas les cuento todo lo que hago con otros chavos mis vivencias todo y me dolio mucho porque ya no hablo con ese amigo porque ya no es lo mismo me siento incomoda y les quiero pedir un consejo como le hago para no llamarles la atencion? Trato de hacer amigos y me salen esque estas muy guapa y ahi es donde me siento incomoda como le hago ? Como me comporto para no llamarles la atencion a los que veo como amigos ? Se los agradeceria mucho

It was a weird situation from the beginning with my bf him telling me he lived with two women in a house. I understood it was a living situation money wise so didn't think much of it. He's caring, loving and treats me better than any bf has but I have this feeling he's using again. He told me he had a bad E trip a year ago and went to a camp to get help and has been clean since. When we first started dating it's like he was just trying to impress me so he got me expensive flowers sent to my job/always taking me out, etc. Recently he's always tight on money and makes sure to tell me and is now selling old valuables of his (guitar/amp). He is about ten years older than me and it scares me that I am more financially stable than him. Advice?

I enjoy sex with my husband, as any normal loving wife should. but I want to start making it more unexpected and unpredictable. i want it to be more spontaneous rather than just laying in bed and one starts touching the other and then we bang. how do I start making it more unexpected? My sister told me I should just start playing with myself right in front of him, any ideas what else?

IDK this Guy Is having this long distance relationship and he said he and his GF are in down The stretch point of their relationship...what does that mean?

Ex have left me 3 months ago. The other Day out of the blur she called me and told me she misses me. She explained that she's laying in her bed one night and was missing me while listening to her music maybe about a week later She also called me after a night of clubbin. She called me again at 6 in the morning telling me she misses me. I still love her and she knows that but one of the reason why she left me us because she didn't love me anymore. I feel like this isn't fair. If u leave someone u should be sound in that decision

This morning I wake up and had a text from a friend that said he is definitely not single, (the guy I'm talking to which I've been talking to him for 2 months and I have huge feelings for him he shows me he has huge feelings for me too) My friend said that his ex put up a picture of them yesterday that said my boyfriend & best friend. She send it to me and it seemed like it was taken a while ago so I'm not sure what is going on my I'm confronting him tonight(his spending the night at my place tonight) what should I tell him how can I get him to telling me the truth. What should I do? I have fallen for him but I want to make sure he is being honest with me too. Why would she post something like that?

Yes, I went through his phone and read his text messages. I got the other woman's number and text her from his phone. She did the same thing. She went through his phone and text me. She got my phone number from him and she has been calling and texting me since. She has embarrassed him public by throwing drinks on him and punching him in the face in front of his friends. She even cut up some of his clothes and left them outside of his apartment building. He told me that he doesn't trust me because I've gone through his phone and for all he knows I've been through his wallet and pockets. I was slightly insulted because all he's done is lie to me and tell me that he was no longer seeing this woman. I went through his phone just to verify that he was still in contact with her and still seeing her. He has stood me up with not calling. Now he's telling me that he is choosing not see me because he can't trust me, but why does he still trust her enough to still see her?

Well like every other girl i just wanna know what a guy does when he likes you. Please help?!

Nobody is supporting my life. The only people who show me love are random women in their 20's, they don't see me as a monster. It's been months since i talked to this special girl I miss her but I just don't care about myself anymore. She tried to help but I'm stupid. I wish people realized the things running through my head and things I need to accomplish. I see her with someone else I was just a fling FML. I can't let myself emote because I have a big heart but it's overshadowed by people's preconceived notions. We're all naive. I have calls from 2015 I've yet to return, my life is a giant trainwreck. But how am I supposed to get by when the only woman who made me feel loved and wanted is on another continent with another lover. I'm still f'd up by the fact my blood disowned me for being mixed before even being born. It's irks me so much still. My blood father thinks I'm scum and mom can't even help me but I love her. My daddy is God. I turned 17 a couple weeks ago school said I'm lucky if I live to see 19. Counselors & teachers can't do **** they're just doing their job & don't understand. I'm horribl at explaining. I'm homeless this house isn't my home and my parents have been at odds nice I can remember I'm emotionally unstable. RN I'm broke but I'll be a philanthropist just u wait. I talk kids out of suicide & self harm but I'm kinda liking anorexia

Instead of trying to have a man with me in marriage or serious relationship... because I don't think I honestly can give enough value to a man.. I mean I cant compete with other women, like I dont have the energy or ability or desire to learn cooking, etc. and looking sexy all the time to show my value in public, and social performance. Most my energy goes into spirituality and other things which is not valued by most persons in this world. Maybe I am better off to just have off-on or some other type of sensual or emotional/romantic connection with a man or men which is not like a dealmaking marriage thing...

My husband was having a conversation with a woman he worked with and she was telling him how naked pictures of 3 other girls were once upon a time ago being sent to the old manager on snapchat.. she went as far as to name the co workers. .. so he decided to search for the pictures. He didn't find them but I am a heart broken mess because I dont feel a MARRIED MAN should be trying to find pictures like that of people he works with on a daily basis and he thinks I am out of my mind for being so upset and uncomfortable that he had looked for them at all, am I wrong? Or when did it become okay for co-workers to be randomly looking for naked pictures of each other because of a third party person telling them they once existed?

We are in college and I see her stare at me intently EVerytime I pass her and when we lock eyes she won't look away. I'm looking for new friends but I'm also bi curious and have a boyfriend who we have discussed already we want a threesome. This girl is HOT ! But I really am shy and can't tell if it's just her being a girl liking my clothes ( we have the same style) or more. I walk past her and she will look up and just gaze at me and stare HARD and won't looks way. And after class she will sit in her seat and stare hard . after she was done staring she got up behind me while we were leaving the class then she said " I LOVE your shirt" and I said thanks! I would have brushed that off until I was talking to my boyfriend and she's about some feet away walking away staring she had to turn her head to look at me to she then looks kinda like oops/startled and makes sure I catch her eye contact obviously or she would have looked away but I was the one to look away. Does she just like my style? I'm very intrigued by her. Should I keep staring at her.? Or do you think she just thinks I'm pretty and likes my style because we do look similar and have the same style but the way she stares is what's making me question it and how she talked to me for no reason after the fact we made eye contact.

I'm still a virgin at 26, after losing nearly 110 pounds, and moving from NC to CO and meeting a guy who I grew to care deeply about (though not romantically) I still have absolutely no luck when it comes to male for one very important reason, sex. I've had a few instances in my life where I came close to doing it, but I panicked and couldn't go through with it leading to the guys becoming mean, disappearing, and all around treating me like crap. Among other events I've had issues with, one guy told me unless I wanted something sexual in our relationship he didn't want to be my friend. Another was a liar and put me in a bad situation when his WIFE (he lied about her and claimed they had restraining orders against one another and couldn't be in the same room) he ended up getting back together with her and blocking my number rather than come clean and tell me the truth. After the last incident (and being threatened and called a whore by his wife) I grew very depressed, started drinking and smoking heavily and at my worst state was on the top floor of my dorm building ready to kill myself because of how worthless he made me feel. I turned my life around about two years ago. I started working out, quit drinking and smoking heavily (I still smoke just not a pack a day like I used to do) and moved to another State just to be away from it all. I met someone here and we clicked immediately (not sexually though). And he's moving away. What can I do?

I got into this bad situation w/ the guy i like because I tried to get him to give a long distance thing I try after he told me how he felt it about and he told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again, and then I got mad cause i felt like it was really rude of him to lash out at me like that considering the fact that I did not know about his boundaries anyway, I knew I shouldn't have texted him back but I just felt impulsive to do so & called him stubborn & apologized for wanting to try & know him better.. And after that I kind of figured he blocked me & was pretty upset for a few days knowing that it didn't go as i hoped it would, and then after awhile I started feeling really bad that I disrespected him & made him feel uncomfortable in way.. and crossing his boundaries & decided to apologized and so I did & I got curious if he really did block me or not so i called using *67 & it rang twice and after that I hung up & figured maybe he just deleted it.. But either way he saw my apology and ignore it & I don't know if I'll ever be cool with that but I just have to accept it  I'm curious though, even after I crossed the line and might of pestered him, like isn't that enough to block someone? knowing that he didn't block me, just confuses me. Id rather have him block me cause I'm scared I'll get really drunk one night & just text him something I'll regret cause it's most likely to happen 😭 please share your honest opinions

I found it uncomfortable, but maybe she didn't know what I was thinking. I got a little excited to see someone just walk passed me when I was in the restroom; well, I brightened up. I also felt a little disgusted because they didn't wash their hands after they were finished. Mostly, I was happy then I looked at someone else and they frowned. I was probably offended or something because I wanted to be happy not sad or feel something else like this other girl did. I don't get why she acted like that.... Whut?

Hmm... Have you ever felt that strange, mindless feeling when you think of someone or something and how special they are/it is to you? Does it almost make you want to cry? Does your heart hurt? Do you think about how the future will go with that person/object/animal? What happened if that person/object/animal was to die or be broken? I've thought and felt these things about my pets, a few of my friends, and my stuffed animals (Stuffed animals. Ridiculous, right? X3). Do you think that this is love that I feel or something else? I know one part of love for a person is having a sexual attraction for him/her but I've never felt that too deeply for any of the things I think I love. Are there different forms of love? I'd like to compare and contrast your experiences of love (if you don't mind sharing them) so I can see if this is love or not. Thank you! Good day. *tips hat*

Okay so my mom has been fussing alot lately about having to do everything herself and she's been really loud with it so her boyfriend who she doesn't even claim as her boyfriend was talking to her about how she had to stop fussing so much at us ( me and my brother ) and just talk to us. these were her exact words to him (her "boyfriend") " I CANT STOP FUSSING IM TIRED OF WASHING CLOTHES ON MY OWN , TIRED OF WASHING PERIOD STAINED UNDERWER" now I knew she was talking about me because she had a hysterectomy and doesn't have a period anymore. I was so embarrassed she told him that and he knew she was talking about me too because he knew about her surgery. I ran out of the kitchen to my room and cried . why would she tell him that? For one if I do accidentally get a little blood on my underwear its my business and I clean off the stain before I put them in the washer before anyone sees them . she knows I'm a private person and don't like her talking about me BUT SHE TOLD A MAN I DONT EVEN KNOW LIKE THAT. then she wonders why I don't talk to her. She puts everything on facebook even when she tells me she won't. And I don't like that . how can I get over this?