I am a female, but I prefer guy friends because they do not fuss and argue as much. I don't ever date any of my friend's, but I do date guys who hang around my friends. There are three girls who are my friends as well and have been for many years along with the 7 guys I hang around. All of my friend's encourage me to keep my talent in writing up and as an author. I also try help them with their talents and dreams which are all different, yet amazing. I have published 3 of my novels, I am working on 6 more and I am about to publish another one. My grandma says I should not hang around guys. She thinks I should be more girly. I have always been tomboyish, but she wants me to change the person I am.

Here are examples of her past "friends": -a stranger with aspergers that she met on "second life" who is attracted to little boys. He is not allowed to go out alone or do anything without parental permission because of his sick child fetish and his severe aspergers. -a higher school drop out, with a criminal past, who is a drug addict who relapses every other month. he is a racist, homophobe, with neo-nazi views which are plastered all over FB facebook. He is proud to have gotten tons of women pregnant and that they had abortions because this proves he's manly and able to impregnate women. -her ex-bf, who is in his 30s, abused her both physically and emotionally for years, has right wing views that are very racist yet he presents this new age fake bernie progressive image to the community at large. he lives with his mom, has no job or education. both of his brothers have been in and out or prison for years, the oldest one for trying to kill people and for a history of drugs, his younger brother also for drugs drugs drugs. -a loser she talked to online for years who also lives with his mother because he doesn't have a job and is on disability. he has a baby who he abandoned and who he smoked pot around regularly when she did used to visit. he is another uneducated white trash jerk. -a christian fundamentalist with ptsd who was kicked out of the military for sexually harassing women. he insulted her and lashed out on her so many times, yet she still kept going back to get attention from him. they have nothing in common btw, and she just wasted years listening to his moronic rants. btw the christian fundy who got kicked out of the army for sexually harassing women, is attracted to 12-15 year olds and is always ranting about how its not fair that the secular government won't let him have a child bride or won't let him marry his cousin. -any uneducated loser with a criminal past who will talk to her in person because she is too afraid to say i'm not interested, or because she likes the attention period. when I say anything about it, simply because she insists I sit there and have her talk about them for hours, I'm instantly an elitist, judgmental, a horrible person according to her. while its true that as an adult she can keep any company she wants, would any normal individual want their sister, daughter, mother, female cousin, female friend, etc to be associated with such parasites? seriously. these men have no redeeming qualities. they're barely human. wouldn't a normal person have concern for their loved one when they only surround themselves with these kinds of degenerates and not one normal man in sight? I'm in college <33, what are you doing with your life besides making excuse for racists, drug addicts, dangerous religious fundamentalists, woman abusers, high school drop outs, the worst of the worst? and you didn't answer my question. so the question is why does she get mad at me for telling her the truth when she comes to me to rant about her problems with them, when she insists I spend hours listening to stories about these creeps? I'm not the one abusing her. I'm not the criminal or the pedophile or the domestic abuser or the drug addicted high school drop out who is part of a white nationalist organization. she got mad at me for telling her to work on her self esteem and to enjoy being single before being able to look for warning signs in men and to find a normal man shes worthy of. she comes across as desperate and men will see this and exploit it. she stormed off yelling at me and said i have no right to call her desperate. well she herself admitted how desperate she is. she told me she begged her abusive ex to take her back, to continue to abuse so she wouldn't be alone. she practically begged this neonazi thug with a drug habit for attention, she even told me she did it because she was starved for male attention. she told me she even let this loser chat her up at a community college she dropped out of, even though she found him to be unattractive, because she thought she could use him for attention. how is this not the very definition of extreme desperation. Is she addicted to being a victim? A few months ago she had my entire family in crisis convincing us that she'd kill herself over her abuser finally getting bored with abusing her. We walk on eggshells around her. We can't say anything with fear of her shutting us more out, throwing a tantrum, threatening to kill herself, etc... I wish she could be committed to be forced to deal with her issues. She is attractive and talented artistically, she is not stupid intellectually although she is rather stupid emotionally. She could find plenty of normal men out there who would treat her with respect. She could find lots of normal friends. But no, she chooses loser after loser and I'm the closed minded one for wanting to help her?

I'm in a new relationship with a guy who had a baby 11 weeks ago, we are living together. Him & the mother of his child had a nasty breakup and haven't been on good terms for the last two months. He rarely speaks to her. However yesterday when she brought his son over to see him, my boyfriend asked her could she give them a ride to his grandmothers house so that she could meet her great grandchild. Am I wrong for feeling slightly disrespected. I understand my boyfriend doesn't have a car because he totaled it but riding in the car together seems too personal considering they hated each other last week. After they returned from visiting his family, I overheard him tell her that he loved them, by baby and be safe. Should I be worried ?

I'm 18 years old and pregnant. I love sex and I'm promiscuous I had sex with everybody on my schools football team plus a few more guys. Since I don't know who the father is I would like to name my baby after the football team the Hurricanes. I will name the baby Hurricane

XD no accurate category for this question

Suppose he lies on the ground without any movement after the fight , what would you do then ? And would you start being nice to him and eventually leave him ? Actually , this happened to me while trying to defend us from an eve teaser . I am just curious if she would leave me and what can I do to stop it if yes .

Hey. I was recently asked by a couple to let the man's wife suck my dick while he video tapes. This was through Craigslist so I'm kind of sceptical about it. Do you guys think this is weird or do some people actually do that?

Should I say just "good morning" back or "good morning, ____ their name"? Sometimes I do not know their name but if I do should I respond by just saying "good morning, ____ their name" or does it matter?

My manager and I got along really well in the beginning. he'd randomly share stories about himself and at first I wasn't really interested and didn't think he was that attractive and there was a time where we were taking he randomly touched my wrist which took me off guard for a bit but I was cool with it. Anyway after awhile I started seeing his personality and the more he talked to me the more I felt comfortable and found myself falling for him but I kept it to myself. Anyway I had to get someone to cover my shift & he told me if I couldn't find anyone I could text him, so I did on my day off and he told me he'd get back to me the next day & when the next day came I think he forgot or something so I decided to ask if he's had time to look at the schedule & he told me he found someone so I just said thanks. And when I came back to work the next day everybody acted so weird towards me... and it was kind of obvious he was avoiding me. Anyway a few weeks later since he's left and I longer worked there, I decided to be straightforward & honest and ask if we could talk more, get to know each other & he told me he wasn't interested in a long distance relationship, that they were tedious & a lot of work and that it wasn't personal it was just how he felt w/ a sad emoji at the end & I tried to get him to least it try and he lashed out & told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again... Like wtf? I only texted him like three times. I don't get it :(

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, he just turned 16 and I just turned 18. We both have a lot of our own issues, his mum is an alcoholic and she uses cocaine herself, so she doesn't really care, she basically told him to get on with it. His older brother also uses drugs(ecstasy) and has the same view as his mother, so there is no proper role model for my boyfriend at the moment. Recent events have made him stay at my house as he can't deal with the arguments at home. About 4-5 months ago he started getting depressed and I had no idea how to help him, he was doing a lot of the things I do, staying inside all day and not going out, lost all communication with friends etc. So I thought I would get one of his old friends to hang out with him( at the time I had no idea that this friend was heavily into drugs ) anyway call it about 3 months into their friendship and I heard from one of his newer friends that he was doing drugs behind my back. I already had my suspicions so I confronted him and he basically lied to my face. Promised he would never do anything like that, and then a few days later he confessed the truth to me. He had done ecstasy twice and lsd once. Now for the past 4 weeks or so we have been having constant disagreements with eachother. He constantly feels like he has done me wrong and apologises all the time which makes me think maybe there are other secrets and he has a guilty conscience?

My boyfriend of 3.5 years and father of my child was in a serious car accident a couple months ago that resulted in a serious neck injury, 2 strokes, and some minor spinal cord injury. He s coming home tomorrow thank god!! But this whole thing made me realize how much I truly love him and never want to lose him. I want to be with him for the rest of my life and have more children with him. I don t want to get pushy or make him think I m trying to rush him or anything but I got us each a ring. I made sure that his wasn t gold or silver so it wouldn t look like a wedding band and mine is a heart with my birthstone (emerald) so it doesn t look like an engagement ring. I was going to surprise him with it tonight when I visit him in rehab. Idk though.. I feel like his mom would think it would be weird and other people would think the same if I say I bought the rings. Idk I told him I got him a present for him coming home and I even told him that I wasn t sure he d like it and he said he ll like it no matter what it is.

My husband hasn't been paid for his work in almost a year. We're expecting back-pay for his work, but there's been a hold up in getting it. We've been living off just my salary, which is not much. We're at the point where credit cards are maxed, and we can't pay it until his back-pay comes in. He keeps telling me 'The money's coming', but when I ask more questions about what that means he gets very mad and upset. I'm pregnant with our first, and the stress is really getting to me. I know the money is coming soon - but I just want to talk about it so I'm not stressing. When he comes home, he just wants to not think about it, because it's stressing him out too. So when I push to bring it up, it always starts a fight. But I can't ignore it anymore! He's a good man. He's just $h!t at communicating. How do I get him to talk to me, when the mere suggestion of the topic makes him so angry and shut down completely. I came here for advice, not to be judged. The money is coming, my husband is not a liar. I should have known better than to expect help from strangers without them making me feel like utter crap. None of you know our situation, and how we've had to fight cancer, and how this is a miracle baby, and how there are legal reasons the money has been tied up, and how he's been fighting to get paid, and how we're looking for other work. I came here for help. Never again.

Why would a guy who's married flirt with you, tell you about all the things his wife finds wrong with him, not hang around her when your around and act ashamed if her but yet will post all over fb how happy he is when he told you he wasn't. And he's one who has eyes for you too.

he wont talk to me i am in so much pain... will having a kid help me? i thought of traveling to india which i always wanted to do but i can see that will not make me forget my ex...i will just be lonely in another country.

Do you ever have moments where you wish you could go back in time and relive all your childhood memories? Does it sadden you that you'll never be a child again and those special moments in life will be lost? I always think about my childhood, and I miss everything about it. My old friends, my family, even the music back then was so much better. When I look at my life now, it isn't the same. I'm not the same person that I used to be, and that thought saddens me. I just want to hear other people's stories and if they feel the same way.

I don't know where to start finding help for a older homeless man (60 ish). He recently became homeless and is sleeping on the street. How can I find him permanent housing? What sort of of help is available to him. I don't know what to do since it will start getting cold and he can't be living on the street. My bf doesn't think that it's a good idea bringing him home until I find him help but I don't know what I can do besides feeding him. PLEASE help me help him.

I live in Louisville Kentucky, Regardless of the jobs that I take or just me generally out here, the atmosphere is like this, The people all are like this! The white guys all have big egos, borderline and will bully you over anything, they are all loud and will punch a wall or kick a chair if they get a little frustrated. They tend to be really preppy, If they're not this way they have a delinquent personality. These Guys all have the likeliness of coming after somebody. The black women and white women carries attitudes that you would only find in a prison. They will actually fist fight somebody! Like the guys here they seem to have no fear over the law. There is no respect here for old people, as these young people would attack old cashiers and smart off and be rude to old people. Generally the people here are rude, whether I'm at a job here or just out here shopping.

I should add that it is actually a collage of my best friend and my best friend's family. I am making it as a gift for her (birthday), I have room for 2 words or 4 small words. I was thinking BEST FRIENDS but since I am putting pictures of her with her family as well, I think it needs to be something more than that. Thank you!

I know you can t live completely stress free. But I need to learn how to live with just a little bit stress free. I m 26 weeks pregnant, with my third boy. I m so happy with me family like my husband and kids. There amazing. My husband is so loving and my kids are as good as it can get. But out of my house it s horrible. My work is awful! I m always getting into fights with my coworkers and manager s. I don t get along with my mother in law. Everything I do is wrong in her eyes. And know I m not getting along with my sister. I feel like everything is falling apart for me out side my home. What can I do to change this?

There is this girl I like. She invited me to her party last Saturday which I went. I was going to give it to her at the party but I didn't want to put her on the spot, so I decided to wait the next day. I told her I got her a house warming gift since she invited me. Is this a sweet thing?would you be flattered of someone did this to you?

So long story short she thinks i snitched on her and apparently i got her suspended. So now she wants to beat me up when she comes back. What should i do? Also she knows how to fight

We were dating each other for about 8 months and on the 5th month his roomate left. So he had "no option" but to leave to another city, 3 hours away. According to my boyfriend at the time, he said he couldn t afford the apartment expenses on his own so he moved to santa cruz a month later because over there he could have a roomate, his roomate would be his uncle s widow, 65 years. He didn t have any more family close by so this was his option or his grandparent s who were only an 30 minutes away from where he lived. Likewise the "weather conditions" were "terrible" and according to him it was better to leave because where he lived there was a lot of pollution which triggered his allergies, bad temper and depression. Okay I tried to comprehend him, he choose to leave and live at the beach with his uncle s widow, only them two. Continuing, the plan was that he was supposed to hang out with me as usual, twice per week. It was twice per week because he has school twice per week in my area. So I agreed. We saw each other 3 weeks later after he moved to santa cruz. When we were hanging out he said got dropped of school, clearly not even a month after he moved. He got dropped from an accelerated program at the university because he missed his class more than twice. His excuses were "excusable" and the last time he missed class was because his car had mechanical issues while driving from santa cruz to the university. So yes " he missed class and got dropped.

I had sexual relationship with a married coworker for mine. I found out she was married when we were going to have sex at her place for the first time. I saw wedding photos and decided to cancel out on her. She threatened to file sexual harrassment so I gave her what she wanted because I got scared. This went on for a few weeks. I got a new job and left her. Sadly, she found where I work and told me she can easily get me fired at my new job if I don't do as she says. Knowing her, she hates losing. She loses her mind when things don't go her way. If I tell her husband, she will twist the story and turn it against me. I turned her down and she told me she is giving me one last chance or else I will be out of work.

ok im 22 still living at home (embarrassing i know) but i have SEVERE Anxeity and PTSD which causes me to have panic attacks while driving alone which means that moving out alone is basically out of the picture im way to paranoid to handle being alone day in and day out! anyways my boyfriend is 31 with a nice big beautiful house and 2 dogs which i love we've only been dating since august but when im over there I NEVER WANNA GO BACK HOME I hate being around my family since ive been dating him but the problem is he's slow to fall in love he's been married before and his ex wife cheated on him sooooo its hard for him to open up his doors for me ive only spend the night twice and he already told me that in order to let me live with him i have to meet his WHOLE family ive only met his mom and cousins so far and he hasnt been acting like he loves me yet and actually told me its gonna take A WHILE Before he says "i love you" but i already feel like im in love and want to be with him FOREVER HOW CAN I GET HIM TO FALL IN LOVE WITH ME AND LET ME LIVE WITH HIM FAST???

I want to wait for marriage due personal views but when I tell a guy this they either ghost on me or want to get married in 3mos. I get called a prude and old fashioned alot,I don't know what to do I feel like nobody really wants to be with a person like me because we live in a different society.

Hello, im hosting my sweet 16 in januaey. i have a few questions! How many dresses will i need for my event, other than my gown? Can i just serve them pizza, snacks and cake? If the party starts at 6, and ends at 10, will i still have to get up early to get ready? How many people should i invite and who? What should i do for ivitations? I already have the place booked, do i still have time to come up with the money to buy the actual dress and invitations? what activities/traditional things should i do? I dont want them to get bored! I cant do a father daughter dance, my dad lives in another state! Please help me :)