Honestly, I am really disrepectful towards my mother, we just don't get along well. About an hour ago, my mother and I was arguing and I told her to kill herself and she said "I probably will just to get away from you", and I responded with "Good. Do everyone a favor." I know this seems really wrong for me to say but you have to understand that my mom is very emotionally abusive and would say any or everything to hurt your feelings and some of the things she say are very hurtful and I just can't help BUT respond to whatever she says. I love my mother very much and I can't imagine a world without her - I depend on my mom a lot, I'm sixteen and she just turned forty and I still can't do my own hair yet. When she dies, I won't know what to do - I'll be lost truthfully. We used to have an amazing mother-daughter relationship until I was about ten maybe and I try to be good. I swear that I do but it's just so hard with her. But any advice on how I can at least TRY to fix our relationsip? Please help.

For no apparent reason my dad hates my dog. He hits my dog every time my dog licks him or just wants to play and when I tell my mom about but she never says anything to him about it. He never helps take care of him such as walk him or feed him when I'm at work or school. Today was the last straw, my dad put my dog on a leash tied up to a tree because "there are flies outside and they all come from my dog" who I bathe every 3-4 days. When I called my mom she said she's just gonna call the dog pound. I'm so angry I literally want to run downstairs confront my dad and since it'll most likely get physical I'd want to teach him not to touch my dog My moms scared to say anything to him because my dad goes on a rampage basically cursing everyone out and smashing things punching holes in the walls and on several occasions putting his hands on someone. What should I do?

It is not that I was left out or anything but just that my Dad was told and since we have another obligation that weekend he lied to me and said "there is no reunions since there was a funeral in June". I would feel so unfaithful to miss my late mother's families reunion even though there was a funeral back in June. At the same time I don't want to seem like a pest asking people since more likely there is not one. What do I do? My Dad is known to lie to avoid conflict.

My Dad is terrified of my mother and so he avoids his family out of fear of my Mom's wrath if she finds out he went to something. As a result we kids miss out. My Mom says she doesn't have fun with in-laws and so all holidays and stuff are with her family, how do I get my Dad to quit being so scared of my Mom's wrath and stick up for his family. They are not mean to my Mom it is just they don't socialize a lot with her as they had an argument with her once 8 years ago as my Mom is too sensitive and holds grudges. @Rebecca----It is my own business because I can't see my family due to my Dad's fear of my Mom

Yesterday morning I left my house to go shopping. My sister is visiting me from out of state and decided to stay home while i shopped, so she could get ready for the rest of our day together. As I pulled out of the driveway, I saw my neighbor in her front yard playing with her dog so we waved to each other and laughed about how cute her dog was acting. Then I continued driving down the street. No more than five minutes later, I got a call from my sister saying that my neighbor came into my house. I went back home right away and my sister explained to me that pretty much as soon as I left, she heard the door open and shut very quietly. She was upstairs, so she peeked over and saw a barefoot woman creeping quietly up my stairs. She got scared and said "hello?" then the woman said "Oh hi! I was just... checking on the dogs!" Then she kept making excuses and told my sister that she thought I was here and that she was dropping some things off for me, but she had nothing in her hands and she said bye to me when I left. I don't know this woman at all, besides waving to her and I have never given her the impression that it would be ok to invite herself into my home. When I confronted her, she cried and said i was being rude and kept making excuses about why she went into my home and then name dropped and said that her husband was a police officer, which I found out was also a lie. I'm scared to call the police wont be able to do anything and then she'll be after me. Help please!

My parents are out of town for 2 weeks , so they left me with my older brother how is 24, I'm 15 So on Friday I got back from school and forgot to lock the door. My brother had told me so many times to make sure I lock the door. He got home later than I did. So when he got home I was upstairs and the front door was unlocked. He came upstairs and grabbed me and threw me on the bed. I screamed my lungs out from fear! He started to yell at me. "I could have been a thief or worse. Right now I could be attacking you and it would have been your stupid fault for leaving the door unlocked. How many times have I told you to lock it?" I started to cry and apologize "Sorry is not good enough. What If something happened to you?" After all that he took my phone away and said he's gonna pick me up from school everyday. I don't like him picking me up it's awkward!

I just hate my family. I am 16 years old and can't live like this. My mom favors my brother (23 years) and my dad favors my sister (20 years). My siblings always get's stuff. My sister has destroyed her iphone 3 times this last year and my dad bought her a new one, and my mom just bought my broher the new iphone 7. Before fifa 17 came out i had both my ps4 controllers. I asked my brother this one time to play a game of "fifa 17 demo" just to be nice and just because i beat him, he took both of the controllers. I asked my mom to get them back, but she said i would get them this holiday. I have been waiting for weeks now and finally the holiday has came. It has been 3 days now and i still haven't gotten them my brother just sitts infront of the tv the hole day, and when he takes a break or go to sleep he hide the controllers. I have just been sittig in my room this past days talking tomy friend on the phone. My dad and mom get's pissed at me because i always sitt in my room and play games on my shitty telefon. Today my brother said i could play if i studied 1 houer. I studied for 2 houers and he still won't let me. All of my friends are playing exept me.I am just sick of being treated like this. what should i do?

She is evil towards people she decides she dislikes and it is often for no reason or just because of one or two minor flaws. She loves her hate and animosity so much more then me and brings me down. I turned 21 yesterday and want to disassociate from my mother like my brother did. I see my mother now a little and get abused emotionally (because she hates my Dad and brother)

My son is 13 and started to ask me about puberty. He first asked me to show him my penis to see what he would look like when he grows up and so i did . He then started to ask me quastions about any thing that worried him and i would answere the best way that i can. He then asked me so that we could be naked around the house when its just the two of us and i told him ill think about it. So please no rude coments and please help me.

I may only be 19 but I hate not knowing what I m doing with my life. I hate living at home with my parents, they are way too strict and I literally cannot stand it anymore. their overbearing presence is way too much, and it s affecting how I make decisions -- whether its my major, what I m wearing, what I m having for dinner...its too much and I don t want to deal with it. I definitely want an education though (I am in college) but I cant live at home anymore. what should I do? and i d have to wait a whole year to transfer because most of the deadlines for sping have passed.

What if I experience the agony of rejection like I did in school

When my nephew talks he hesitates in his sentences. He will say things "and then and then and then um and then we went home." The more excited he is about something the worse it is. Well my dad set a fire in the yard began to spread my dad and nephew went inside the house to get more things to burn and my nephew was watching it through the window when he noticed it was spreading he ran to tell my dad however he seemed to have trouble to get the sentence out "pops um um um pops, um the fire, um um pops what are you doing, um..." and it continued. My dad got to it in time, nothing bad really happened, but I want to know if there s a way to help him form sentences faster, especially if there s an emergency. Any help would be appreciated.

I'm Jewish and yesterday was Rosh Hashanah which is the jewish new year. My family all got ready for the big feast but as we are setting the table my parents get into a HUGE fight. The philosophy of Rosh Hashanah is however you end the year, is how you will start the year This is a very serious fight that i dont want to get into specifics. My parents are calling each other names. When will this all end? How do i get this out of my mind?

I'm 21 and at the verge of giving up everything, I don't know what to do anymore. Little bit of background information here. I live with my mom and four siblings while I go to school and work part time. Here recently things have been getting out of hand with my mom, and i'm not sure if our relationship is toxic or not. I dont know where to even start I love my mom.. However, nothing's ever been normal. Every time my mom is stressed out she lashes out; screaming/yelling occasionally, as well as guilt tripping everyone else. Example: I didn't agree with a rule she was setting down, I tried to be polite and tell her that I didn't agree with it and was trying to find a solution, and it turned into a full blown fight with screaming and yelling and her telling me to either follow her rule or get out. Now my fiancee wants me to leave. My aunt wants me to leave. My dad is helpless and doesn't even live at home, and my mom won't talk to me at all. I haven't slept, my stomach is in full blown knots, i feel ill, and i can't think straight. My mom always reminds my siblings and I that she has to have time to do the homework and keep the house clean but when we try (none of us are ever home, it's usually just the cats and dog home) she lashes out and i don't know what to do. I love my mom but I'm tired of being stressed out 24/7 when these kinds of things happen. Should I leave and risk losing my relationship with my mom or should I stay and lose myself,my fiancee and my sanity?

I am nineteen and my mom came in my room withwith no top on and layer on my bed and I just got up and sucked her **** she didn't stop me and now i think I did something wrong, did I I am hoping to **** her as well she is my step mom and she is really hot

My father just recently passed away a day ago, and my mother is unemployed, she can't drive, and she has chronic back pain. Me and my sister don't have jobs, and we have college classes to take, who do we go to for assistance? My father was sole provider of money and my mother has ankle and back issues that prevent her from working efficiently. How are me and my sister going to keep a house afloat on Minimum wage.

do I have to go to hospital for legal reasons? I think her dad might go next week to visit at home but I really don't feel like going, do I have to sign anything?

Right now her mother has full custody and I live 15 minutes from her. i only get to see my kid every weekend and when school starts its every weekend or every other weekend. I want to move to a city and away from the country and the city is 2 hours away. I would go get her every time I'm supposed to have her and i hope one day she will want to live with me. with me moving away this would mean i wouldn't be at her disposal and wouldn't be able to make it to every game when she has them if she even plays sports but i would be able to go to as many as i could and would still be there for birthdays, holidays, etc., do i seem horrible for wanting to do this? what would you do? i have her just as much as her mother right now. my job is an hour away as of right now and i have to drive there and back ever day. no matter what i will still have to live an hour away from her for my job but if i move 2 hours away to the city i will have better job opportunities and the job my stbw is working towards will require her to live in a big city. closest one is (2 hrs away) if she pursues it. if we move there it will be 3 years from now so its a big decision just need some advice. when she's older and has the right to choose. i will not be yanking my child out of her life i just think she will choose to live with me when she is older and with that i would welcome her no matter what.

I am 49. These are my bio children, but I feel no love towards to them. I have never felt fatherly towards them. My wife is almost always on my side. So, I do not feel as if I'm doing anything wrong. My daughter is 18 and my son is 17. They are both in grade 12, I have had them home schooled, since they were 8 and 9 years old. I have bipolar and use them as an outlet. I have been beating them and yelling at them since they were aged 2 and 3. I call them fat, dumb, *** holes, **** head, worthless, and I am constantly telling them go blow their brains out and take their lifes. But they don't listen to me. I never want to see them again, they tried telling a cop the moment I told them kill yourself, he came over to check everything out and laughed in their faces. Because that is my freedom of speech to say whatever I want to. What do you think?

Back in the past, I have two cousins from my mother side who read my Diary that I keep when I was a teenager. They read it and even mock me afterward. I really hate them after that, and I wouldn't keep a Diary anymore. P.S. They went through my stuff and found my Diary. I really hate people who doesn't respect your Privacy.

My daughter is 3 and 5 months and more or less gets on well with anyone but there is that little girl that hates here for whatever reason...ever since I first saw her she has been giving my daughter mean glares and ignored her when she said hi...didn't really bother me because she doesn't have to be friends with her if she doesn't want to...a few months ago tho she shouted her head off at my daughter just for standing in front of the climbing frame she was on and I lost it and shouted at her to leave my child alone or id tell her mother...the mother found out later and I explained it and said that I was sorry in case I overreacted...courious enough tho that she didn't notice her three year old shouting and being shouted at...after that it was all glares again until yesterday when she very loudly told the other kids my daughter wasn't allowed on the climbing frame...her mother was in earshot but didn't bother her *** to do something...how can I stop this?I have been bullied myself since playschool so I do recognize a bully even when they say thee year olds cant be bullys because they are too young bla bla bla and seeing the mother stand there and not do anything makes me hate her very much...friend of mine told me to point it out to the mother loud enough for others to hear the next time it happens to shame her into being a parent for once...any other ideas?

He's got no future. He shows no interest in anything except video games. He won't listen to ANYONE in the house. He's failed half of his subjects. He has literally no life. At one point, he'll become homeless, and I sure as hell won't help him. He won't listen to anything we say. He steals and cheats. No, he will never be something like a video game designer. He wants to play video games for a living, which he honestly thinks will work out for him. I don't want to help him later in life, I want to make him work for something. He has an interest in martial arts, but he uses it for things like beating ME up, and I honestly doubt that he could do something like that. He's literally a walking stick. He's got health problems, too. How can I get him to do something?

So I went to driving school about 3 months ago, but 1) my driving instructor was horrible. He never let me do anything for myself, i.e. he basically controlled the wheel. 2) we went overseas right after, so I haven't driven in like 3 months. Well today I drove with my mom on my way back from school (basically my first time ever driving by myself). She kept on yelling and everything and it just made me even worse. At one point she yelled and then I ran over someone's lawn. She asked me why I went to their lawn and I told her her yelling makes me anxious. Well, she kept yelling for me to "turn, stop, wrong lane" and I ended up running over two more lawns after that. I really think if she was much calmer about the situation I would be too. I didn't even look at the mirrors once and I barely used the turn signals because I felt like I had to try so hard not to make mistakes. My brother (18) told me my mom did the same thing to him, and that although my dad is not as bad, he still yells. If it's been 2 years and they still yell I don't think it will change. I don't know how I'm gonna deal with this for 6 months. Help??? And p.s. how does she expect me to not make any mistakes when it's the first time I ever drive by myself? The second I got in the car she basically expected me to know how to drive. She barely gave me directions or anything like that, only until after I made the mistake (i.e. driving in the wrong lane).

He purposely goes out of his way to insult me. One time, he literally pushed me out of his way to sit at the computer. He claimed that it was "for homework." Then he proceeded to call me retarded. If I get angry (which I can't help) he imitates me and calls me things like "gay" or "introverted" or "retarded." I'm sick of it. And he refuses to leave me alone. Then he calls me a crybaby and "asks if I'm going to tell mommy." If you have a brother, you probably know the feeling. Ignoring him won't work. My parents decided that it would be a good idea to first enroll him in tae kwon do, then get him a punching bag. Sometimes I wish I could beat him up, honestly. I know that you guys will say "ignore it." I can't. When I was a child, he kept beating me up because of it. I still can't to this day. And I can't tell my mother, cause he'll make up something (well, half of it) and act like he just teased me and I overreacted. Fighting him with words is no good, because I tear up really easily, and then he imitates me saying that in a whiny voice.

So my father just passed away, and my aunt wants him buried with my other aunt that passed about 20 years ago. I m 24 years old and have no idea what anything costs but I remember my mom said it was around 8 to burry my grandfather a year ago. The funeral and everything is very minimal, everything was basically the cheapest option, and there s no veiwing so no embalming charges. But at the end of planning with the funeral people, my aunt tells me that I m paying from the money my father left me, and my family is very wealthy, I m not. I was so mad I couldn t even stand it, mad I m paying 16 thousand for something my dad wouldn t even care about and mad that they re letting me know what I m paying for. Besides all that, I think they re ripping ng me off because my aunt was basically sold because my other aunt is hurried there and they used that to make the funeral 7thousand more than it should be. I told my mom that my father wouldn t want me to spend this much, he was really cheap, and now I gotta go to my aunt and tell her to stop everything we just planned. So I want to know if that s the cost of a minimalistic funeral, and if it is I ll just have him cremated which everyone else in the family is just fine with... Just can t believe the whole time she new I was paying for it and she keeps adding these things like NBD

I know this is not my relationship nor is it my place to say but being in the same house--it is indirectly affecting my own peace of mind. I am currently living with a cousin and his girlfriend. It seems like almost every night after he comes home from working his *** off six days a week, sometimes 12 hour days--he owns a business and works for another, simultaneously--or after he wakes up, she would accuse him of infidelity and of 'not giving her enough attention.' She does not work. She has no hobbies. She is going to school for medical, using his money. He is giving her everything she needs/wants! I hear all their fights--I'm not one to be biased or take sides but she never has any substantial proof in her arguments. I know his schedule and he seriously could not possibly have time to run around lurking and cheating--plus, morally, it would be very out-of-character for him. She pushes him to the edge where I can hear in his voice, that he's losing his sanity. She's talked to me about it and she's talked to a therapist about it but I don't think she cares or listens to anything we tell her which are very similar, in suggestions, of how she has no proof and of what she can do about her insecurities and free time. I am not saying that she is a straight up, bad person--I'm able to enjoy myself in her company--but I do feel really bad for my cousin. He really doesn't deserve these relentless accusations. What is wrong with this girl??!!!! I try to mind my own but it's a bit difficult when I'm abruptly woken up early in the morning by screams and yelling, and slamming doors....

Since 06 I had depression due 2 my dad leaving but in general I had depression cuz my seizures. My mom yelled n used to beat me with brushed remotes and tell me I'm stupid and a dumb ***. It's 2016 and I'll be 23 soon. My mom yells and still name calls me. She lets her bf treat me like Cinderella. She's lazy and tells me to lose weight when I starve myself cus she doesn't put food in the house and eats everyday at fancy places. Her bf tells me I'm lazy but I do everything I could possibly do. I clean, cook also mother my brother cuz my mom won't step up. My dad has always loved me and cares about me and when I need advice, he gives me advice. My mom slams the door on my face when I need her. My brother started calling me mommy cuz I raise him. I have no where 2 go especially when it's getting cold. So I stay with my mom whose abusive towards me n her bf joins in on it 4 fun. I cry every night and wake up depressed n feeling like I want to cut or kill myself. Living with abusive parents who hate you. I lost 16 pounds my mom told me they're not weighing you right. I flinch alot from my bf because my mom has hit me countless times for no reason. One time she was so angry at someone I was having fun n she slapped me for no reason. Come to find out its cuz she had anger issues so whenever someone pissed her off she would use me as her punching bag. I told schools so many times, they refused to get her help n never got me help either. So many years I begged for my mom's love.

How do I break it to them I don't know my timing on if I can be over by three and if I can come to my aunt's on Thanksgiving because while I hope to I don;t know my Dad's plans and need to fit in BOTH. If I tell them that up front I'll be attacked for putting my Dad before them (when I am actually making both even), so how do I phrase it to avoid an argument? They start the holiday competition drama earlier every year. I am a nervous child of divorce -an adult now the divorce was 20 years ago

It is not that I was left out or anything but just that my Dad was told and since we have another obligation that weekend he lied to me and said "there is no reunions since there was a funeral in June". I would feel so unfaithful to miss my late mother's families reunion even though there was a funeral back in June. At the same time I don't want to seem like a pest asking people since more likely there is not one. What do I do? My Dad is known to lie to avoid conflict.

There must be so much conflict in the house. If you watch shows like jerry springer the guests will have something like 7 brothers and sisters. That's a lot of people to squeeze into a trailer.

(I know it's a lot to read but please read it,I need help)I'm 13 years old and I don't want to live with my mom anymore.Coming from a cuban family makes life even more complicated.My mom screams at me for no reason. For example: Whenever her boyfriend breaks up with her she assumes I had something to do with the break up.I can't talk to her about anything because she will immediately start yelling at me.If she's mad, she will take her anger out on me by saying that my stretch marks are ugly and basically just judging everything about me.I'm sick of her negativity.My dad says that he would gladly come pick me up and take me with him.But he suggested that I call the custody lawyer because he doesn't want any problems with the law or my mom.I don't know how custody laws here in Florida work so I don't know to tell the lawyer.Can someone please help me! this is very important to me😭

Cps has called saying they are showing up to my house three times and they haven t shown. But the problem is I haven t talked to them myself. My aunt told my children s father she s the one who turned me in and she s the one my cps worker keeps contacting and she hasent talked to me. Now my aunts telling me she will do everything possible to get my kids taken from me. She is telling them I don t feed or change or bath my kids. My kids are always clean and in new dipers the second I notice there dipers are peed or pooped in. And they are both on the higher weight percentage the doctor said my kids are the two healthiest kids they have seen in a while. My youngest has sensitive skin so she s allergic to her own pee. She gets rashes but not bad ones I see she s red I put her medicine on and it s gone writhing that same day. My kids are my life I feel hurt and broken. I moved in with my mother in law and she has seen how I care for my kids from day one. What can cps do if I haven t met with them and they won t even talk to me. I feel it s not okay for them to do that.

My brother has sensory processing disorder, has been in and out of school for a couple of years, gone to three different schools, has 1 suspension, has almost been baker-acted twice. My brother is only nine years old. My mother is trying but there isn't really anything to do, I thought about writing an email to fox news, even wrote it all out. But I'm not sure if that would even do anything. I'm scared for him. What should I do?

I'm 40, my husband is 45. We have 4 children, a 24 year old, 13 year old, 3 and 5 year old. I hired this babysitter back in March, but I fired her in June because I couldn't take it anymore, after she left for the day my kids the ones she watched my 3 and 5 year old, would act like little brats, but when she was there with them they'd act calm and sweet. She is 17 or 18 I really don't know or care at this point. I fired her because of the way my children acted when she was not there. I have not had a sitter since June when she left, no one wants to work for the pay that I gave her. They say it is not enough. But it is. My 5 year old pooped on the floor, in her care once. I was upstairs, I was always upstairs studying when I have babysitters. She was my 2nd babysitter we ever had for them. When he did that, she came up and told me. I cussed at her. She was not in the restroom at our house with him, he is 5 years old!!!!!! My son was laughing and told me he had done it as a joke, the stupid babysitter refused to pick it up and said he never does that, and that he is old enough to clean it up himself. And that she refuses to touch poop, as she said he was more than old enough to do it himself. My 5 year old weighs 62 pounds and my 3 year old weighs 50 pounds. I told her she needs to carry my 5 year old everywhere as he screams if he walks and push my 3 year old in the wagon everytime she gets up or they walk to the park as the 3 year old will scream if he is not carried. I had her step on my scale before the job, she weighs 72 pounds more than my 3 year old. Yet she is lazy and won't carry him for more than 2 hours at a time because they gets heavy after 2 hours and s a break? LAZY!!!!! I have made her carry both at the same time and made her take nanny cam so that I could make sure she was carrying them all times wuile walking to the park. If she put them down once unless they were on playground, I would take $10 out of her paycheck. I refused to give her any was not mad at my son. I hugged him and told him it is alright. So, I fired her right on the spot after cussing her out, and telling her she will never get another job as a babysitter, I will be sure of that by giving her number out and telling others how horrible she is. Why is she so rude? I had her work 25 to 30 hours weekly, I'm mad at myself, because I would pay her $120 a week when really I only wanted to give her $10 bucks only for the whole week she worked. I was so mad at this ugly b*tch I refused to give her anything to clean my sons mess up with. I cussed at her some more, I threatened to call cops after she pushed me out of her face, instead I called my husband and we both fired her and gave her no paycheck for that week

I get so mad at my Mom because I miss out on time with my cousins when she is mad at their parents @Carlos K----My mother was never molested, she is mad about real estate and money.

My partner had a horrible childhood with his father, who was overly strict and abusive, and left home for college at 18 (never to return). They never talked about it though. My partner is now 27 and his dad sometimes calls him on Christmas or the likes and talks about banalities. I strongly feel that he'd better sever ties with his old man but he just can't, although he's agitated just by talking to his dad over the phone. I dislike his dad and don't want him near our future child or slowly enter our life, but I don't know how to make my partner realize that it's better to ignore his dad completely, particularly after those years of harsh punishments bordering on physical abuse. He just avoids the subject but still responds to his dad. I even consider counselling. Am I overreacted?

So my fiance has always wanted to name his son John Gilmore After him his entire life, well my sister in law recently found out that she's pregnant with a boy and she's naming her son John... At the gender reveal party as soon as the paint came out blue my mother in law yelled as loud as she could "its gonna be John Something!!!" probably about 4 times.. and then asked my fiance is he was "jealous" within seconds (because he wanted a boy really bad and wanted to pass down his family name & we had a girl first) Well my sister in law knows my fiance wants this name because when she was pregnant with her first child she was trying to pull this before but it ended up being a girl so she knows how he feels about it. regardless of what she names her son we are still naming our child after his dad and I was wondering how I could sarcastically make a remark telling her so? It just p*sses me off because they're always pulling some crud like this to hurt him on purpose and it infuriates me!

I despise my parents by all means. They always leave me burning in hatred and anger yet I always bottle it up and stay quiet. My father was never there for me, he only talks to me when he wants to stir trouble with me and starts to yell at me for stupid reasons. I've never heard him praise me for anything in my life. When he's not home my mother won't talk to me. When he's home and he wants to stir trouble with me she would look at me in disgust and curse at me. I'm 15 and ever since I was in elementary he would make scenes with me using violence. One time where I was only 9 years old I was too angry and cut my hair by myself but i didn't ruin it. I was met by a week of beating up and screaming by him and as for my mother she was too disgusted to look at me, talk to me or sit in the same room with me which lasted for 2 months to say the least. My aunt was the one who was there for me during that period and acted as a parent figure for me. It's like they forget everything good in me and everything I've ever done and look at me as if I'm a disgusting insect meddling with their lives. I don't even get an allowance or ask much and they act like i owe them my life for paying for my education. Lately this hatred is eating me up and it's exhausting me to no ends. I used to cut myself last year but I managed to make myself stop. I feel so helpless and numb I just want all this to end. Can I at least free myself from this anger? How? Also a psychologist is not an option.

I'm a 35 year old male who's happily SINGLE. I like my life, I don't want to ruin it. I travel a lot, I've been all over Europe, Japan, Asia, Israel, Mexico. I go to the gym 6 days a week. I don't think a home is a good investment, so I've been living in a hotel for years. I like my life. Why would I want to get married, and give up traveling, the gym, my hotel? What if I get divorced? Why would I want to pay alimony? What if I get kids? What if I'm forced to pay child support, and not even get to see my kids? I don't want to get married? How can I get my parents to stop bugging me about getting married?

My parents are really mad that I weigh 120 pounds. Yet I have NO FLABBY SKIN! They think it's overweight but my height is 5 foot 7. I have been this same height and weight for 4 years. What would you do if your parents did this to you, said you were grounded until you lost 13 pounds, called you ugly, overweight retard all the time. What would you do?

I'm Rileys older brother Ryan. I'm 19 years old and our younger brother had his first wet dream. I went to go wake him up one morning when I saw his sheets were wet with a yellowish tint color. He looked super embarrassed and told me to leave. He hasn't reall come out of his room and won't look at me or talk to me nor his siblings. When we try to talk to him he just ignores us. Please help!!!!! What do I do!?

Me and my older sister are LITERALLY complete opposites. People see her as the goody girl with good grades, shes spoiled and all that. You get the picture, right? People see me as a rebel with sass that doesn't care and all that. My sister ALWAYS makes a big deal and out of something so petty and small. For example Im grounded for trying to make money in an illegal way and my dad found out so I did my time on my punishment but my older sister always has to put in the password to my laptop, so my parents know there is someone around so Im not looking up anything bad. (Although Im playing Skyrim most of the time). This morning I woke up before my older sister and well, I went in her room and hesitated waking her up cause I didn't want to be rude by waking her up (although she wakes me up 24/7 to tell me stories of drama and such). So I went back and forth in her room deciding if I should wake her up. She woke up and was all angry and screamed at me she said something so childish, she said this "I KNOW YOU WANT ME TO PUT IN YOUR PASSWORD AND IM NOT GOING TO CAUSE YOU HOVERED OVER ME WHILE I WAS SLEEPING". I was shocked that she could even say something so childish and stupid for 'ruining her sleep' when she is the child with all A's. Either way, I told her to call our dad so I can talk to him about this situation cause I didn't want to go crazy and get in a physical fight. (My phone is disconnected so I cant call). She refuses and I just keep telling her to call our dad so he can figure out our situation. And of course she keeps saying no cause it's so obvious that she IS in fact acting childish and she herself knows it. She just wants to take advantage of me and control me with the only entertainment I have (I also can't go out with friends cause my older sister made my parents believe my friends are a bad influence although her friends drink and smoke pot but mine dont even go close to doing that). So in the end MY dad calls and she answers and I tell him what happened and he tells her to just put in the password cause shes making a big deal out of nothing. She starts screaming and whining and saying "IM DONE WITH EVERYONE GOOD BYE DAD, GOODBYE!" she puts in the password and goes in the shower. I think she is crying in the shower. So does she have some sort of mental illness, or am I crazy?

I recently graduated with my master's degree in human services counseling but have been having a hard time finding work in my chosen field. One hurdle that I'm running into is that the program I was in was not a licensure program although I received my master's. To work with the school board in my city or possibly the police force in some sort of counseling position I need to be licensed. In speaking with one of my sisters that I had requested some information from the local community college to possibly obtain my license to actually counsel she feels that I should get the job first then gain some work experience then work on the license. She is one who feels that going into more debt to gain additional education or licenses is pointless. Get the job, gain the experience, then go from there. When she graduated from college many years ago with her bachelor's she immediately began working for a company and has only changed jobs once. She now works for Coca Cola as a staff accountant. She doesn't think additional licenses, degrees, or certifications will get you a job, experience will. What do you think? I am getting older in life and finally put my education in the forefront and want to make a better life for me and my family but I feel that I need to be licensed before applying for these jobs which most require. Am I wasting my time by looking for additional training before I even get the job?

used to be 18. We dated for a year. She didn't want sex because she said she wanted to wait also she claimed she be a virgin. We'd still touch, send sexy pics, talk dirty. Well we graduated and she left to college. We'd still talk but that was it. She left for a whole year and i'd see pics of her partying/drinking/dancing with dudes you know college life. Well a year later she moves back home and asked me to grab food with her. I was confused because why would she want to meet up with me a year later we stopped talking/seeing each other why now all over again? well we had lunch and we kissed etc. We started to talk about a relationship and she said she didn't know what she wanted and wanted to stay friends. We started to talk about what have we done since we stopped talking. I then asked if she dated? she said yes but nothing serious. I tried asking low key how far she got in the dates as in if she's still a virgin and she wouldn't answer it. She kept walking and singing songs (avoiding the question). She then asked me and I told her I had slept with a girl she hates and said "SO WOW ONLY ONE GIRL HUH THAT'S IT". She got mad but still wouldn't answer the questions I asked her earlier. We'll we're no longer together anymore and many people told me she wants nothing to do with me but what do you think could she still be a virgin after so long? She could of just been shy too admit she's still a virgin but I don't know

then you can actually smell her intestines,because while she bends over her small intestine juts out ever so lightly letting you sniff her. its a weird fact of animal behavior.

She is 18 and I am 15

Me and my sister were watching 16 And Pregnant she's scared to have her kid. There's a lot of drama in this episode. This girl had her baby now her boyfriend acts like he cares when he really doesn't. He even threw all her stuff out on the street then he met her mom and they all started yelling. She's worried her husband will treat her that way. Luckily for us our parents are dead but she's worried me and him will fight since I'm her big brother he's my best friend. I told her I would never do that to her. Also she's not 16 she's 23. She and her husband have been married for 4 months. She's 5 months pregnant with their son. She didn't sleep too well last night. How can I help her feel better ?

My parents want me to babysit my grandmother again which they dont' know that she's a theif and attention whore and plus, loves to ruined my privacy.And I don't like her all she does is knocking at my door with her nails it's really annoying me a lot which they think it's funny to them even I'm doing some homework she made me get an F on my report. I wish they leave her in nursery home get this my parents wants me to babysit her I only babysit babies and little kids. how can I make my parents udnerstand me more? I'm only 26 yrs old I don't need this.Please no rude, disrespectful, bullying, nasty, spam, and anonymous comments because some people don't know where I come from

My mother in law is a very attractive woman for her age, but she never got a college degree and never had a long-term job or anything, That said, she has really rode the coattails of her successful CFO husband for decades. She mocks me for wanting a successful career and having had gotten a degree. She loves to tell me how huge her chest is, if we go shopping and I show her a cute blouse she will say"it is so cute for you, but I cant wear it with my humongous boobs." Actually, I have more in that area than she does, but she cannot believe that. I am also known as the cook in the family and she has made digs about me saying that her husband's poker pals love a dish she makes, or tells me she can make something better (in a round about way of course). My husband's brothers girlfriend said that she has never heard her mention these things or brag this way to her, but we both are not sure why she does it to me only. Why is she like this?

Moved out to Florida with a relative been here 20 days ago and after a bad argument I was put out this morning. All of my belongings were thrown out on the curb. I'm from Michigan and the only close relative I have there is my mother who has no money to send for me or help me. I don't know where to go or what to do? I've been calling around for shelters but they're telling me that they don't have any beds avail. I know the obvious thing would be to get a bus or train ticket back home but I have zero dollars. I come from a hard life and I've been taking care of myself for a long time now and I'm the process I've done some questionable and compromising things in order to survive, (use your imagination). But I don't want to do those type of things anymore, especially for a bus ticket home. But what else can I do? As a woman, I feel like a sitting duck. I know how low lives can spot a woman who's alone in a bad situation and try to take advantage. I know yahoo answers is probably the last place I should be but I need advice. Thanks.

He always wanted to see me at the last minute. Hardly ever planned a head. He showed me the building he lived in but in 4 months he never invited me into his apartment. Then I found out from a mutual friend that he was seeing another woman that only lived a few blocks from me. He denied it, even after I saw pics of them on fb and I caught him leaving leaving her place. I spent whole days with him and saw she would call him repeatedly so while he was in the shower I went through his phone. Whenever she would see us together she'd start a fight by throwing a drink at him and hitting him in the face. She cut up his cloths and now he's claiming he is choosing to not see me because he can't trust me because I've gone through his phone. Really?? Did I Ignore The Red Flags here and how dare he say he can't trust me?

My parents always moan at everything I do, they always find fault in what I do. I thought it was just a teenage phase, but now that I'm in my 20's they still moan at me. I'm not a lazy person, and I always try my best, but it's never good enough for them.

So I'm 14 and it's my first year in high school, and my parents insisted of me to go to the school my brother is a teacher in, So my brother teaches me which I prayed to god for him not to, but he is! He's teaching me history. No don't get me wrong I love my brother but all my friends know it's my brother, and a lot of my friends think my brother is hot, and that is just annoying me! I mean my friends have seen my brother is swimming trunks(on my birthday party😂) ! Me and him are pretty really close although we have an age gap he's 26 and I'm 14. But it's so awkward for me to be sitting there and listening to him, plus he wants me to say Sir, like he's my brother! But when we're home he always says:" relationships in school are different, in school it's Sir, and I don't care if you like it or not" I hate all this! I don't like him being my teacher!

The boyfriend and I just moved into our very first apt. Now we have a cousin who is breaking up with her bf and is asking to stay with us. Help Im extremely frustrated we have only been at our new place for 2 1/2 weeks Also she has no car or license and that would mean we would have to drop her off and pick her up everyday to and from work and we really don't want to deal with it because we also have to go to work and we just want to tell her no. We also stay in a small 1 bed apt. She is getting kicked out from her bfs place because she cheated on him