I have an odd situation with a friend and I'm not sure what I'm doing. I have this friend that I REALLY like. Shes been chill and super cool to me and I like being with her. Shes super into school and has kept a near perfect GPA up until now and is even graduating a semester early. She doesnt go out much outside of work and school. In june I took her out to a bar to celebrate the end of the term and we got drunk and slept together. She flat out told she didnt want a boyfriend (shes been single for 2 years) and that she just "needs this". So we've kept doing whatever this is and she acts completely different when we're together than not. Like she'll be close to me when we hangout alone and cuddle up next to me, but when with her friends she wont even look at me or speak to me most of the time. I get our deal and that shes commited to school, but should she act so different? Also, I still really like her, but could this become anything after we graduate or could this be it? I know I should ask her but I really can't.

some of these details might not be important but i will say them just in case SO: my period ended about 4 days ago and I had sex for the very first time with my boyfriend 3 days ago. i bled A LOT during sex but that usually happens the first time so i didnt think that much of it. now today for the first time ever since, im experiencing a stinging sensation when I pee and it goes up almost to my belly botton like if i was peeing a needle out or something and now this evening while peeing, a lot of fresh blood came out but my period already ended and i stopped bleeding because of sex like an hour after we finished so idk whats happening, please help

My husband and I just celebrated our 1 year anniversary. However, we're both still virgins. Don't get me wrong, we can't keep out hands off each other. We just have never had sex. We both want this to change but we're both nervous about this. I'm nervous that he wont like it and he's worried that he'll "mess up" everything. Since we're about 20 years apart, we often have those feelings about our relationship. Any advice? It's been quite the dry spell... @CaseLady: I don't know why it matters, but I'm 21 years his junior (he's 44, I'm 23).

im 24 he's 15, we got married a week ago, and he's so immature he wants to play all day, I caught him masturbating the other day, i dont know what to do !!

My wife screwed up on an important telephone message when I was working nights for a week. When I told her this made me frustrated, she got mad and told me that she works very hard at being my wife, so if I am not happy with her, I need to find another wife. Why is she so defensive? I have been working on refinancing my home. I have called and emailed several times to rush them. The title company left me a message Thursday afternoon to arrange for the signing. My wife heard the message but didn't tell me since I was at work. She forgot to tell me on Friday morning when we spent the entire morning together with our kids going to one doctor's appointment to another. On Friday afternoon, the title company called again and offered to send a signer to come to our house over the weekend. My wife told her that she doesn't know my schedule and said I would them back Monday. She forgot to tell me again until she called me at work at 9pm to touch bases before going to bed. By that time, the title company had closed for the weekend. I have a lot of free time over the weekend, but I have plans for Monday evening. I told my wife I need her to leave me voicemails on my cell phone for important phone calls, but she tells me I am too cheap for getting mad at her for a delay in signing that will cost me $10 a day. She works very hard taking care of things, but that does not give her the right to be irresponsible with my messages. Why is she so mad?

I'm married. I work with a woman who is very attractive to me. It's driving me crazy!! My wife has been depressed and we haven't slept together for a while. I go from being mad to sad to mad every time I come to work. The girl I work with is so cute I just am being tortured by a forbidden impulse. :(

The last couple,of months I've felt more attracted to other women . I've even talked to other women ,. But that is as far as I have taken it . I just don't have the love for, my wife snymore . Our relationship has been exhausted on many levels. Such as dreams in life and careers in mind and making sure "family " is taken care of .

My husband really dislikes when I answer his cell phone. I know it's not because he's hiding something. If I see his mom or someone calling sometimes I'll answer if he's outside or something. Is this rude? Does it bother you when your significant other answers your cell phone?

My husband has an ex wife and a daughter. He is his ex wife s emotional support, career advisor and pretty much bank account. She has been married before, divorced and is now with another guy which she has 2 kids with. Every little thing,she comes running to my husband. He has always entertained her every question or issue. He s helps her with everything, knowing that she only does these things to keep his attention. She friggin talks about her sex life with him! For crying out loud! There are no boundaries with her. He refuses to set or keep boundaries. They ve been divorced for 10 years. Anytime she thinks there s a weak link, she pounces, telling him they need to be a family again. That she misses him. And she s sorry they divorced blah blah blah. It drives me up the wall. He tells me that I m too demanding and I don t care about him maintaining a "good " parenting relationship with her. I m sorry, but the only thing they need to discuss is their child.

She's so narcissistic and in denial over being vegan she's trying to make us vegan and I told her her that we are not going to stop eating meat and she tried to hit me the other day because I took my kid to outback and ordered him a steak. If he wants to eat meat it's his discussion not hers!

So my husband wants a divorce... He moved to another state and I suspect adultery.. I need proof to find him at fault for the divorce.. I found he moved into an apartment over 30min away from his work which I found odd. So I suspect he is living with someone else. How do I go about finding out if he is living with someone.. I don't think the apartment complex will tell me if he is living with another person and I don't want the complex to tell him someone was asking to make him suspicious. Any ideas? He is 8 hours away so driving there isn't a option.

There are many ugly married women who cheat (have affairs). Why do people try to make it seem like all ugly women are good while hot women are bad... I was engaged to a guy who ex wife was a slut who ****** all of the guys in the military. She was not cute either. But I thought ugly women was supposed to be a catch. She wasn't a perfect ten and she cheated..

She likes me to watch her have sex with different men and when they are finished she wants me to do her. I don't understand this.

We are newlyweds and we didn't live with each other prior to the wedding.. Anyway since living together he is always around me 24/7 and it bothers me to no end. I am a huge introvert and I NEED my own space, to be alone and unwind w/o him being around me all the time. It's so exhausting that I actually broke down about it the other day! I tried suggesting that he could go hang out with his friends at the bar or something and he said he would only go if I would go... But I don't want to go!!! How can I get my alone time and still be married? Any tips from married introverts?

My son is 2 years old. We have been seperated for a year. I pay child support because she receives food stamps. Other then that she has no job nor plans on getting a job and is not planning on going to school or college. I have called and text, I messaged her on facebook and saw she read my messages but ignored them still. She knew I was planning on taking her to court to get joint custody set up. Right now I am a reservist in the army. But I just want to see my son. She has unfriended me and my family members on facebook and cut all communication for me to know anything about my son. She also just got married to a guy she met on facebook 3 months ago so I don t trust her judgement. Every time I used to get my son he was always dirty, covered in scratches (which he calls boo boos) mosquito bites, and heat rashes. She also feeds him a diet of mcdonalds and sonic. Along with no water but instead Kool aid and soda. She has always been childish and came up with excuses for me to get my son some weekends.We never married so I can t call the police. So basically she has legally kidnapped my son from me. Me and my fiance are not married but have our own house where as they live with her husband s parents. Me and my fiance both work. So is there anyway this can hold up in court for me to get full custody. Also I have been saving every conversation I had with her in my phone. Along with the ignored messages, phone calls, and facebook messages.

There's so many articles, books, magazines, tv shows that focus on relationships and marriage it's nauseating. Why spend 10, 20, 50 years with someone when they can throw it away by cheating in an hour? If you get back with them you are a sucker and wasted so much time on someone that doesn't care, and on the other hand 50 years with one person seems like prison even if they are pleasant.

I'm sick of no intamacy, is it time to crush this marriage?

Is it just culture, personality problem I Live with selfish husband I from Korea. his born in US. Please understand I have bad English. he dont want tell to coworker he married I ask to say that then that day we fight hard He want hangout after work He told me I am not appreciated even though he give me money now i dont have visa. i just trying to apply greencard now I told to him thank you everytime. and said thank you trying for us I never forgot to say that. coz i dont hide my feeling. But he dislike I want him come home early after work. He asked me hangout everyday. I spent july 4th holiday alone He want spend july 4th his family but his family hate me (I don't understand because i am korean) And I also dont wanted go somewhere no one welcomed me.. so i spend time alone I worked at the press after graduated 4 years, I just stopped work coz married But he and his family ignore me He is black I am asian I am not racism. So i try to never saying about racism black , white, asian, hispanic thing But they ignore me because asian I just wondering They also ignored from another rased, but why do that ? And He never cleaning He did cut his nail in floor. never did tissue He surprised when I tried wash rice before cook. because he never wash But he have confidence. He act like boss, treat me as employee because he give me money now... live with this husband.. I feel like my life hell.. so I trying dating web behind him... is that justify? I just asking myself from yesterday I spent four days alone in last weekend (from Saturday to Tuesday) Sometimes When I see his that confidence attitude, I wondering most problem from mine? But I am so lonely in this relationship.. He don't talk to me well. he give me distance always If i trying to talk and fix us problem. then he act like tired. He told me I dont work so i have time to talk. He tired so He should sleep for tomorrow. thats how he treat me I just wish suddenly Someone who come my life Love me and care me so much.

He went to get counseling plenty of times and now we are back together I've told him I've changed and attempted to with Someone else and it worked but with my husband it's different 😔 What can we do ?