I play a lot of different sports, basketball, baseball, football. I never stopped liking them but there is a 4th I play, kickboxing. There is no "seasons," it just goes year round well I have been doing it for a while now and I don't really like it anymore this is the first time this has ever happened. I don't know how to tell her I don't like kickboxing. She has put thousands of dollars into it because it is a hundred dollars a month and I have a bunch of expensive gear. She also thinks I like it so then she would think I've been lying also. I don't know what to do. Please help!

He will take it, usually gladly, but doesn't show interest in a relationship, usually. Some, few hang on and even show more long term interest while most (usually ones who seem arrogant somewhat) begin avoiding the oncoming preference for more spending time together sexual or not. You would think he knew she is sexually interested in him, while he directly treats her like no serious priority. Does he accept sexual interest because it is the ONE thing he feels he Can manage in a relationship? Everything else spills off to the bottom of their priority list? It is kind of a choice to not engage in commitments. I am really just wondering why sex sometimes takes a mainstage and a female is being informed it is "her fault" for tolerating it. If you are going to say things like "because she doesn't respect herself" keep your cheap answers to yourself. You can really drive far on philosphy that has not positive, valuable consistancy and is like brain poison running through. Thank you for the deeply thoughtful, helpful replies. I did not mean to say it is just sex itself that drives a guy away but that there is no obvious priority to develop relationship standards. As well if a guy chases a female for sex, she usually takes a submissive stance. Possibly it is a relationship dynamic I see myself. If a guy keeps contacting you for intimacy, he is Obviously interested and would like to decelop the relationship. *typo

So I'm an Pakistani-American girl married to a white guy. Yes, I'm muslim (not a practicing one though) and well, we love each other so much but the problem is, my parents don't want me to be with him. I'm 25 and I've been telling them that they don't really have a say in who I marry. His family accepted me. His mother treats me like her own daughter and his siblings treat me like their sister so why can't my parents see me happy? They want me to leave him, but I love him way too much for it. I also don't like the fact that my parents are mad at me. What do I do? All I know is that I won't leave him. Rebecca, thanks for the advice but I already tried that but their answer's always,"Because we said so."

She found out where I work & called my job, she will not stop calling me, texting me & leaving me threatening Voicemails. She told me to tell her everything that happened between her husband & I & I told her everything & sent her text messages but now she is still harassing me and is telling me that she is going to come to my job & kill me & I honestly believe her. Should I go to the police? What do I do?

there's this guy (let's call him dylan) and Dylan had threw a basketball at the back of my head during gym with no apologies and I came home with a severe headache . We're freshman btw. I told my sis about it she just said to ignore the kid and so I did . Next following day my sister confronts him saying that wasn't cool and all that, within that same day we had a class together he said nothing to me and I said nothin to him so I thought everything was squashed . Next day in another class I have with him , he choose to call me a liar in front of all his friends embarrassing me terribly , picking an arguement with me resulting me to just walk out the class feeling embarrassed and just disgusted that actually happened. He eventually apologized. (only since the teacher told him to) but it still bothers me as to why it all went down like that, anyone have a clue as to why he wanted to act up like that but the day before he said nothing to me? doesn't make any sense to me at all, and now he just stares at me by the way

My boyfriend of two years is Hispanic. We were picking up his daughter from her place. As his child was getting ready, I guess a verbal conflict ensued. I wasn't aware they were fighting until his mom slapped him so hard I was so shocked I yelled WTF! Then she slaps me, too. By the inhabitants of their household came out and saw the vicious slapping, children, grandpa siblings and all. How do I go back to my boyfriend's house? His mom locked herself in the bedroom after the incident. We left with his child wondering what happened.

We work together and we decided to just hang out. I picked her up, grabbed coffee and talked more. I started flirting with her and she brushed it off. So, I went for the kiss. She fought it off but eventually, she relaxed and one thing led to another and voila. Best orgasm I've ever had. I want to see her again but she told me to never talk to her. I know she didn't mean in because I saw her at work pretending like nothing happened. She gave me the look and I just looked her right in the eye. I know she wants me but how do I get her again?

With her. I am nice to her even though she has treated me cruelly much of my teen to adulthood years. She doesn't seem to want to accept she could be responsible for any of these behaviors. She fails to recognize her immaturity and offensive behavior as cruel and unnacceptable... I have been so alone through portions of my life it was now pretty obvious like she was attempting to throw me off her boat and never really look back. After I have had so too much of the verbal abuse, I have learned to tell her to leave me alone and do not contact me again. She never really seems to understand how apologizing honestly and picking up for her offensive attitude would show she cared. In fact I know she doesn't really care or maybe even know how to or want to, because when I suffer she explains that the problems are my own fault, and that professional psychiatric help is the only way to "get my life in order". I completely understand this isn't it, and depending on paying strangers to solve problems that I am deeply aware of will not help in anyway. It would even waste more time and more money. Even though I have lost a LOT of money because my relationships are so poor with not only her but consequentially most everyone, and I have not been able to keep a well established, mature loving man in my life. I have always been a helper to men or males when the relationship was "serious". No, they haven't taken my all that serious, and have not shown they eanted to "provide" for me Like at all, like a "normal" nice caring male does. I am now dealing with a guy that either lies to me or doesn't appear to want to do much at all now or in the long run. He is attracted to me but doesn't step up and treat me like a man should. He doesn't even do anything physically and starts pushing me away emotionally...doesnt want me near and also calls me "insane" when I know he has problems personal and no he realy probably will not blame me directly for them. People use me up and see how far they can push my boundaries. I am a nice giving person but they are not nice. It is like I feel forced to control every relationship in my life. I have to learn how to face these sometimes emotionally terroristic people. Kindly advise me.. i do not know how to just say "NO" when it becomes that blurred, emotional attacking mixed with simple chatting. *typo I am really also so offended that I apparently can not have a normal, healthy relationship with my mother. I know she has problems too, health wise mainly, and she has had psychatric problems and kept trying to get me to do family counciling with her like I am a safety toy for her now I see it... she is so unhealthy emotionally and physically I do not even see a future in eachother's lives... it's just hard to believe shes never going to change likely, and it isn't even supposed to be my problem...i have been so blamed like a worn out sticker on a child's shirt...this thing is done with. Don't show it...don't care....ready to go....

I don t remember too too much, but I do remember I was at my ex boyfriends wedding it looked like, on the beach (where he s always wanted a wedding) but I couldn t tell who he was marrying, whether it be me or someone else I have noooo idea I m assuming not me. But I went there I remember seeing his sister and his mom dancing and everyone was happy and I starting destroying the food and stuff and Kellie (my best friend who passed away 19 days ago) and my current boyfriend came and took me away, and I went to a hotel and watched my exs wedding from like a mountain where my hotel was and eventually I went back but I woke up when I went back to the wedding. A little background info, I dated my ex boyfriend for 4 years we broke up around June of 2015 me leaving him, previously we were living together in Florida but I left and came back to be with my family. He recently came back to our home place about 5 months ago. My current boyfriend I started dating in August of 2015

I meet this girl online. This girl is Young, cute and like to have fun. She is a bit far away from me. After chatting a while, she want my number so we can chat on text message application. She text me after I give her my number. She usually text fast and curious about me. Is that a good sign she is interested? Any other signs I can notice?

I'm a guy. And it is summer right now. And the degrees are in the 90's sometimes. I never wore a sleeveless shirt in a long time. But I feel too strange and awkward to wear a tank top around my parents. I know this is dumb. My question is How do I get over it.

She's only 5 but he leaves her with a baby sitter so that he can be with me. I myself have kids but they are in vacation. I've met his child and she's really cute! But of course, we need our private time alone. Should we take her out with us?

Be forewarned that I am 8 months pregnant, so my mom instinct and fear factors are at insanely high levels, so feel free to tell me if I'm overthinking this. So, there is a person walking around my neighborhood on a daily basis now; I have never seen him before and since Sunday, I've seen him almost every time I've looked out the window! He is always walking up and down my street. Last time, he had a gun, and this last time I saw him when I got the mail, he had what looked like mace and a knife. He looks to be some 19/20 year old military dude and wears only all black. He just has a terrifying vibe to him, and when I waved, it was like waving at a cat. No real reaction, just kind of a response to my existence :| Is this weird? Should I be worried? Should I stop going on walks myself for a little while? It's just really weird and makes me a little uncomfortable. He doesn't walk around with a phone so I know he isn't playing Pokemon!!! Husband thinks I'm overreacting.

Kind of a silly, funny question. My boyfriend won a ticket to a baseball game at work with money to use at the concessions. He asked me to go with him last minute (last night to be exact). The thing is I could get off work but I m not sure if they track how often we ask off the day of. Granted my pto is free to use as I choose but I don t want it to count against me. So should I or shouldn t I go??

The past year I had this teacher who I really hit it off with. Not in a romantic way but we sort of understood each other and had a chemistry beyond whats normal between a teacher and his student. It's summer vacation and I'm moving to a new city but I do miss him a lot, because I sort of know we could be close. It sounds pathetic but I don't know what to do.. I just can't get over it. Advice?

I would have to be to associate with my family and I just can't play like everything is hunky dory when it never was. I am just not a phony person. How do people do this with each other when there has been so much unresolved mistreatment in the past?

She'll even tell me that her husband told her how beautiful she was last night (like I care or even want to hear this stuff). She'll say she was "hit on" while waiting in line at a fast food restaurant, etc. Sometimes I wonder if she compares herself to me, or I don't really get her motivations. Is she trying to impress me? I'm female and would never say these things to others.

We met 12 yrs ago at a party. 3 years ago It felt like he was trying to get my or someone's attention on Facebook before we started chatting. He had an emergency bowel blockage surgery. We started chatting around then. He appeared interested in me at the party years ago. I never forgot that. I know you're supposed to let go sometimes but guess what he had another emergency hospital visit a few weeks ago, and wether or not it matters I care inside. It should help if I continue to try to communicate with him, while I know I take the pain of rejection. I really think he is lying about him having a girlfriend and getting married but it feel like a blow to my head inside to see that on my text from him. He should not lie to me, but I'd rather see the truth anyways. I have tried to get him to get together with me on my time, which may be too intense for him. I have not seen myself as needy, but maybe it seems that way and I expect way too much. I would like to act respectfully while I want what I want out of a relationship. I could and can not live up to anyone else's expectations. Advise me kindly on how to trust this person, see through his lies and and not feel trampled by him emotionally. Either he's lying to get my reactions and self-time or I absolutely do not know him well and he has lost all interest in me romantically. I seriously would not doubt the lying considering the very disconnected puzzle-like communicative style that has rerun so far. Thanks. By bullys I mean lately we argue, I am sure I have shown frustration and he replys in arrogance. I have wanted a closer committment and he tells me no almost every time and just generally emotionally distant. It pains me. I attract generally poor communicayors.. surely he has picked that up from my pushy attitude. I just haven't seen my behavior as rude. *communicators Sometimes I feel like his health emergencies were somehow due to a reaction of something I did. It is something you definately notice... I did start the chat 1st time on Facebook when I saw his post noting he was in the hospital.things not entirely onbvious I could explain to best of my recollection at this point but it seems like he has feelings for me, yeah, still, but doesn't talk about them. so...really.. *typo It seems like I should care, but if I do I risk serious frustrations. I could be there for him, but he shown he does not want me with him even nearly all the time right now. Btw we did get together once a few months back we sat on his couch chatted very small bit and I layed down on his bed he followed me in there and he caressed me we chatted some and had sex. I fell asleep so did he and I left a few hours later. He thought it was strange I acted distant when I was leaving. The next day I sent him texts to go to the mall and for a snack meal possibly he hadn't replied then I texted later to meet he said he was busy with his daughter then there was a disagreement about priorities... since then we have not gotten together. We chat sometimes but mostly I start the convo and he laughs calls me "seriously insane" .. and begins to act like my ex a real douchebag. It is like he is Trying to harm me emotionally. The last time he got out of the hospital for an emergency I really tried to not read so deeply into it being a completely avoidable situation and I tried to care about him and act respectfully. I noticed he denied to hang out more times and I have been offended by arrogant attitude... i remember my ex doing this, acting real douchey like I mentioned and I will not want a repeat. Thanks for advice on handling the situation. I shojld care like I mentioned... I even remember my dad before he died early. I want to care not have to suffer. *typo

So obviously I was mooested. It was at the age of 6. I'm now 17 about to be 18. My parents don't know. I've talked to my friends about it. I've never gone to a therapist about it. I don't know what it feels like to love someone, due to what happened. Will I ever know what it feels like? I have a boyfriend and he completely understands. Things will become complicated if I were to tell my parents what happened. I completely understand why I act the way I act and do the things I do. I knew what happened and what it was freshman year I just now understand it more, understand that it is affecting my life in so many ways and it sucks. I haven't gone to a therapist about it and don't want to. Will I get over it without one?

que tal chicos lo que pasa es que tengo un problema con la chica que me gusta la conosco desde hace 11 meses y pues yo le gusto a ella pero dice que esta confundida que solo podemos ser amigos pero que la siga tratando igual solo no ser tan cursi como antes que me aconsejan para ayudarla a que se decida de una vez por que siendo sincero no pierdo la esperanza de volver con ella le dije ps que ya no hablemos pero me dice que no la deje sola que hago ayudenme porfavor ella tambien me conto como estamos saliendo a escondidas que se siente mal por sus papas ella es muy seria y reservada que me aconsejan hacer :/

She is very hot and outgoing and also has lots of friends, it just did not happened yet because she had a nasty experience with a guy and she kind of gave up dating for a few years. What should I do? I do not know if I should find it weird or special. Her first hand holding was with me. I would have never guessed a girl like that exists. I have only been around experienced(very experienced) and non virgin girl. I would have never expected this. I am 24 I am myself very experienced. I never went past date two if no sexual stuff occured. Now I am in shock

I spent months watching this Youtuber that is amazing and compassionate in their videos. They are inspiring to me, but lately there have been comments on their videos talking about their possible plastic surgery and forums in sites that are meant to target "snowflakes" have been prodding at this issue as well - even if they aren't the most delicate in debates. I'm sore because I was so sure that this person was great, and I really don't have a problem with plastic surgery, but the forums act like it's a big deal if the Youtuber don't respond to people talking about it. I needed this Youtuber because they helped me get through anxiety, but now I'm so lost. I feel like they wouldn't talk about plastic surgery because maybe they don't think it's that big of a deal, but what should I think? Is there something else the Youtuber could be quiet about? Why not talk about it initially? I would never hate them, they are my idol. But what's the fuss? no one is putting anyone on pedestals, I was asking you guys for my situation specifically. How about you read next time?

I dont know if im getting sick or something but my house is alwaays hot... I do have ac but still.... Right now im feeling hot and cold....

I lost a close instructor of mine recently, lately I got in contact with his sister and we've talked a lot and have grieved together. We've bonded through the loss of him. I want to send her a jar of 101 notes, each holds a hand written quote I specially picked out. The quotes are filled of positive words, she can pick 1 or 2 daily incase her day isn't well. Do you think she'll like it? Or how would you feel receiving it?

Honestly, I am always hard on myself because of my past. People always say forget about the past and move on but I don't see any point of living. Back then I did since I was passionate about school but now I am nothing but miserable. I feel like I don't even know who I am due to the experiences I had while noone helped me. I am scared of being in relationships, meeting new people, actually liking someone, and lastly I am scared of going back to school. Sometimes I feel like why god put me on earth if I was nothing but a quitter? And it's not like I want to quit trying, I am just tired of trying and nothing is happening.

I told someone about how I think my parents are getting divorced cuz they are...and my mom is friends with his parents and if he tells they won't say anything but my mom would probably be mortified and livid if I told her I told....I didn't say why, but i was/am so upset I had to tell someone and the someone I chose wasn't the best....will the boy think I'm crazy? Ugh sorry please help!!!:(

Okay, so I am 17 and work a summer position ( I won't say where ) but it is only for the summer and I wish my boss to prolong it. Here is my letter, Dear, ______ The summer is strolling by extremely quick; therefore I was curious to know if you may consider prolonging the summer position. I have come to realize that parting from this job will be extremely difficult since it has been the highlight of my summer and helped me in more ways than one. I couldn't be more grateful for this opportunity. I understand this idea shouldn't be taken lightly, but if do consider I have some ideas; and if not I will understand. Thank you, ______

The boy I talk to always takes my phone and puts it in his pocket, so I reach for it. He doesn't carry anything else in his pocket

We've only been together 5 months. I have not met his family yet, he hasn't met my kids, or family. He's in the process of moving to his brothers because there's a lot of drama at his dad. Were not ready for a child financially, mentally, or spiritually.

I was being stalked by a girl in the UK, I blocked her from my Facebook about 5 times and she kept making new ones to spy on me and copy everything I do. I finally took action and put every social media account on private like twitter and instagram. So I viewed her profile and she posted something that said " I am me and a I like me, I am some body and I do my need nobody to make me a somebody." I wonder what I did to make her stop stalking me? Because I'm proud. And she also posted something about people not always being there for her, I only talked to her 4 times

He knows my stepbrother is in jail but my family doesnt talk about the reason. The reason is because when he was 22 he raped and beat me up while dunk and high. I was 15. I have been putting off telling him because I am scared he will think I am a freak or weird. He is not from the US, he is Australian so he doesn't know that many people here who know what happened so he has never found out. It is something I see a therapist about. He knows i see a therapist but he doesn't know exactly why. H e knows I have anxiety and depression issues. Does he need to know? Is it something that I must tell him? My friends and family all have different opinions about it. My parents just wont talk about it. Help please..

I have everything i need btw but I just "heard" you have to be 18.

So I want to decide whether to study in my country or moving out to other country. Because I hate being here in my country . Should I get a job here,earn some money, moving out and maybe study abroad later ! or I should study here(free college) with uncomfortable feeling and disgust Im always stressed and anxious about this

I'm 39 and raising my kids to be christians in this terribly changing world. i have had three kids in my life and the oldest was gay when he was 15, so I was so disgusted I had to get rid of him, he's up for adoption now by a child care center. I felt bad at first but then i realized that it was the best for him to find jesus on his own and lose the gay thing how do i PREVENT my boys from getting this gay thing

I have seen a very nice guy come in to my former workplace and have been wanting to speak to him, with no success considering it's a very fast-paced environment and there was never anything more than a "hello" and the usual professional conversation. I knew this guy's first name from his orders from my company-last week was my last week at the company and unfortunately I did not have a chance to speak to him before my last day. I was now stuck with this feeling of regret of not being brave enough to pull him aside and have a normal friendly conversation with him so he'd know I'm interested in him. I told my friend about the situation who them proceeded to push me to see if I could find him on Instagram-I was able to find him in a matter of seconds, looks like we're from same town. For few days I let the idea of messaging marinate in my head because I felt like I wanted to do it just to take my chance and say who I am, give my number and say feel free to do as you wish with it, but I also felt like it would make me feel like an absolute psycho and a desperate dumb girl. After a few dreadful days I finally decided that I had nothing to lose so I sent a lengthy message saying who I was and that I am absolutely not a stalker and I actually have never done this before and I proceeded to give him my number. It looks like he read the message that same day which was a 8 days ago. I have not heard a response nor has he called. Guys, what's your intake on this? Help a girl out please.