I was hiking in the woods one day and asked myself if I truely belived in God. I never really thought my answer would change, but every time I think about religion I end up with the same answer: I don't believe that there is a God simply because there is no proof. I was born into a Christian family and grew up going to church. To be brutally honest, when we went to church I never listened or even cared what was being preached. It has just recently come to my attention that I may be atheist. But how do I tell my family? Should I even tell them? If so, how should I say it?

Veran mi novio y yo andamos a escondidas en la escuela nadie sabe, y mis papas no me dejan tener novio pero como haco para besarlo en la escuela sin que nadie se entere

Veran mi novio y yo andamos pero a escondidas de todo el salon, mis papas no saben nada porque no me dejan tener novio el caso es que quiero besarlo sin que nadie se entere El vive algo lejos y estaba pensando besarlo en la escuela Pero nose como hacerle para que nadie absolutamente nadie se entere Ayudeme por favor A la mejor respuesta 10 puntos y 5 estrellas

Lately iv been stressed out and been having second thoughts about this relationship . I feel like I am not able to do things I want to because of all the responsibility she has to deal with. I Love her so much and support her in everything but latley iv been feeling like I can't do this anymore , Iv done everything she wants me to do to make her happy but , one main problem I have is getting her to go to my moms house , my mom has always accepted her , I always want her to be closer to my mom and her family but she just squad she is going to try but never does , It really hurts me to leave her and idk what to do please help

this week I started doing my training at a law officeThe owner suggested it would be good to work with his nephew who is a young lawyer and he thought it would be better for me working with someone closer my ageHowever I'm a shy personOn the first day of my training there the owner told me that 2 other young lawyers would mentor me plus his nephew and that we would all 4 have a meal on the last day of my trainingWhen I heard this I began panicking even more as I realized our relationship wouldn't be the kind of teacher-student one but the kind of friends one insteadHow would I do that with my awkward social skills especially when it comes to young guys?(I usually get nervous around guys)They had expected me to be friendly and chatThe guys realized that I didn't talk muchEach guy hinted at it in different ways like one told me are you nervous?I think you are really nervousRelaxDont be nervousThe other guy also saw that I didn't talk much but didnt bother much about it except when he once told meDid your parents pressurize you a lot to come here?So I don't know if that was a hintThen the other guy(the owner's nephew)even if he might have noticed that I didn't talk much he never told me anything and he was always cool with me and didn't make a comment about itThing is I know they've made an impression about meI don't know though how they thought of it usually people can misunderstand shyness for being rude or antisocial and this is really not a nice impressionI want to change it wouldn't it seem awkward and ridiculous for me to go tomorrow with a completely changed behavior being all friendly and social?It wouldnt seem natural for me tochange completely from one day to the next they may think of me worse ifthat happens idkWhat should I do?i am also worried that the guys dont have a good time with me and I'm worried about our meal on the last dayJust so you know Im a person whos really shy around people I don't know but with people I'm comfortable with I'm really social 10 points for best answer Pls don't leave it unanswered it will mean the world to me to have your answers

For punishing kids.

My husband was molested by his mother as a teenager and he still has a relationship with her. He forgive her and wants her to spend time with our 7 year old son whom I do not want around her. He says that she changed and is giving her a second chance I only met his mother once before I knew what she did. Now I don't really know we are on a disagreement my husband has been getting counseling for his traumatic experience. But I don't know what to do what should I do?

Look, please don't get me wrong, I know that there are good people in the world, and much love to all of those people. But this is something that I think of a lot about, how much people lie and cheat and are just overall selfish. It could be just me, I don't know. But people cheating and leaving after they said they never would has literally changed my life. I see people at school, how they talk about having sex with girls and then just dumping them, cheating on their girlfriends like it's a sport, and overall just lying and cheating and feeling no remorse at all... and I'm sorry but it absolutely disgusts me. It disgusts me to know that there are so many people in the world that will lie, cheat, and hurt another person so much, and feel absolutely no remorse because THEY are happy. I live in a state now where because of how the world is and stuff that has happened to me I trust absolutely no one. I don't trust my family, I don't trust my friends, and not even my girlfriend which hurts our relationship. And that sucks. I know this may seem like a rant and I guess that it kind of is, but it just sucks so bad that people have to go through life never knowing if their parent might leave, if their significant other might cheat, or if someone of importance will leave them. What do you guys think?

My mom is a cougar. Her dates are men who are in their 30's or even younger and she's 39. A couple of weeks ago, I met a young guy at the gym and we started talking. He is really gorgeous and I developed a crush. The past weekend, my mom and I worked out together and this guy showed up. I was embarrassed to be seen with my mom but that's not all. They kissed in front of me and he mentioned he met me already. I blushed because I flirted with this guy. Anyways, what do I do? He's 28 and I'm 21. He's like the perfect guy for me. I love my mom but I feel like I'm inadequate for having feelings for his man. On top of that, my Dad cheated on him. Should I tell her what I feel about this guy? They've been dating for 3 months.

I have short hair and it hasn't grown as fast as I wanted it to. I dyed my hair in January which fried it. I'm growing it out right now, the hair that isn't dyed looks very healthy and is soft. I also was wondering what types of over the counter pills at the stores helps grow out hair fast or online. My hair before was so horrible and crunchy after dying it never will I do that again. I dyed it brown but now I'm left with brown hair at the bottom and black on-top. Should I just get the brown part cut or wait until my hair is a bit longer.

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over a year now and not until just a few months ago I'd start having a panic attack after sex. I get dizzy and start blacking out . We stopped for awhile and tried again after a few weeks cause i thought I'd be okay but I wasn't. Has anyone gone through this or know what could be wrong?

My ex would get angry someone else and take his frustrations out on me by yelling. I do I get through emotional abuse? We are not together! We are over! Just trying to heal from what he HSS done to me.

I'm just curious ....

I've been talking to this girl for months now and she came over with a couple of her friends and my friend an I smoked weed and one of my friends really tripped out and well long story short the police showed up my girl and her friends had to go home. My parents don't know about this incident but hers do. Her parents have asked her about it but apparently they didn't say to much. But I'm not sure weather or not they will want me to hang out with her or not this is tearing me apart cause I think I actually love her ... please give me some advice I haven't met her parents yet I've spoken to her mum briefly but they haven't had to opportunity to meet me yet they've already heard something bad about me :( btw I haven't done marijuana since that day an I don't intend to ever do it again for that exact reason She hasn't said her parents hate me but she hasn't said they like me she said "they give a vibe that they don't like a person once the meet them" and then I just asked her straight "do your parents hate me" and she said "TBH I don't know :/" please somebody give me some good advice cause ATM I feel like just ******* dying.

http://www.11points.com/Misc/11_Combos_of_Boys_and_Girls_That_Lead_To_the_Happiest_Families I think 3 girls, 1 boy is the absolute worst combo. "Biggest pro: Ever-replenishing supply of built-in, nurturing babysitters." That's not a pro. In fact, I see no pros to this combo. I only see cons. Not sure what they mean by Kardashians being a con (yes, I know it's a 3 girls, 1 boy combo). What I see is a lot of fighting and a lot of abuse. 2 on 1 is not the same thing as 3 on 1. It's just not the same thing. Think about it. Men don't go around fighting with women. That's just human nature. Think about bar fights, it's always 2 men. Think about fights at school, it was probably 2 boys. There's a social stigma against fighting with a girl. 3 brothers aren't going to just up and out start fighting with their sister. The lone sister isn't going to either because she's outnumbered 3 to 1. The 3 brothers would respond in kind. It wouldn't matter in this case about the social stigma, since 3 on 1 would have a much more powerful voice. But 3 sisters on 1? Since the stigma is on men, the 3 sisters will have no problem ganging up on their brother. This likely would make him far more aggressive than a man who fought with his brothers. A lone brother isn't likely to just stay shut when 3 girls are ganging up on him. If a man grew up having problems with his 3 brothers, he can simply find a woman to rely on for comfort and love. Might even find other male friends in replacement of brothers. If on the other hand he had problems with 3 sisters, that can scar him for life. It could if anything make him view women very unfavorably. There is no woman to turn to at this point for emotional support, probably not even a man, since this set-up probably hurts overall social skills.. It's a simple point. Siblings and romantic partners are not the same thing. It requires a different approach. For siblings, you want the same gender. For romantic partners, you want the opposite gender. Siblings of the same gender get along much better. It's that simple. 3 girls and 1 boy, the suggestion of it being a good combo, really undermines a basic understanding of human nature. If there's fighting between any 2 of the 3 sisters, possibly all 3, the lone brother won't do anything to help, to mediate basically. If there's fighting between the brother and 1 sister, the other 2 aren't likely to wanna hear his side. I guess it's some case of gender supremacy.

People say that if i let grow my hair and a beard i will look like him When im older

I have what I thought was just a close friendship with a married man I used to work with a few years ago, mostly based on us making fun of things together with some deep conversation thrown in the mix. Recently, he told me that he "often" masterbates to thoughts of us doing a variety of sexual things(which we haven't) to and with each other. I'll admit that there's chemistry and attraction, but his fantasies are never going to be a reality. His marriage is pretty much sexless and only still in tact because of their young children, he calls it his "business arrangement". I still feel like his actions are inappropriate and I feel kind of violated, I didn't even respond because I still have no idea what to say. Is he testing the waters for an affair by telling me this? Even if not, he's a pretty big slimeball, right?

My cousin said my niece has a party and said they didn't tell me because they didn't think I wanted to go. I don't know if this is the truth or if they didn't really want me to come. Should I ask my niece if she is doing anything on her birthday and just leave it at that? I want t make an attempt to let her know I am interested.

First of all we are both strangers. This is during summer school. And he didn't even look at me. But he sits 2 sits ahead of me the next row next to me. I saw him turned back and look back and he was looking into my eyes. It was like he was making love to my eyes. He was staring deeply. But i don't know him. Why would he stare deeply for 4 sec ? He did this a couple of times and the next. That I literally thought he likes me or feel he does but I know he doesn't. Why do guys do this stuff ? Is it a confident thing or is he a creep? For whatever reason. I'm not that attractive but he does that to me. It is like looking at the wall but not blankly like he was making love to my eyes. But why does he do this and stare deeply ? He literally turn and look. Sometimes I feel shy or get butterflies and who he is as a person I think we go well compare to all the other girls. We really are the same stuff. I'm not thinking of anything but what is he thinking why does he do this what should I do

We slept together several several times, went everywhere met friends of his; just a very open person. was very respectful mature filled with chivalry I'm 22, he is 20 I really like him a lot but I dont want to be weird about it since he is younger than me& still experiencing a lot It's been 7mths since he left back to Chicago we still talk maybe not daily but a few times a wk He always tells me he misses me&sends me random snaps&pictures of him and what he does But often doesn't follow a convo it's more like 3 word short messages or other times long random paragraph texts I'm very confused as you can see He will usually ask me what I'm up to or something similar I wish we had deeper conversations but I can't ask for too much since we only met for 1mth He bought a ticket to come see me (I stay in the northeast) but I denied his visit because im so busy w/work &Feel like gained weight lol but I do look forward to seeing him again Idk if he really likes me or it was the sex lol he told me how I made him feel comfortable at home while he was here visiting and that no girl has been this sweet&nice to him for no reason He likes how Im not a stuck up ***** Again the simple things in life I need help should I keep talking to him? We dont talk much lately&our texts have become less interesting maybe it's bc we jus need to meet up soon or maybe stuff like this fades. but he always says he misses me a lot and I do too! Please help me I need some advice!!

My ex and I share a son, and for the past few years my relative has been taking our son for visitation to his dad. My relative went on vacation, and this week, I had to take him for vistation. When I took our son this time, my ex said he deleted my phone number, and smiled, and I told him, I deleted his phone number too, then he shook his head, and he said, after I said, I deleted his number that, he meant, his phone broke, so that is why he lost my number and all his contacts, not deleted it. I had not seen my ex in many months, he kept staring at me, during this drop off for visitation, when I went back to pick up my son after his visitation, he just sat looking at me, I felt he was checking me out what I was wearing and such, but he tried to show a straight face like he was not doing it, with his posture straight, serious face, and then when I drove off, he just sat straight forward in the parking lot for a while holding on to his steering wheel. Then he called my relative who is on vacation to say, it is a lot to keep a toddler by myself, he has not called this relative as much to ask about our son like he did at first, as if to imply I need his help with our son, but I usually am taking care of him all by myself, and he never offers to help. It is like since my relative is on vacation now, he is now all of a sudden trying to reach out to help me more. The reason I don't take our son to visitation is because my ex was abusive to me, so I just stay to myself.

My uncle had watched me and babysat me ever since I was born. I m currently 15 and he is 22. He just got out of jail and I was so excited to see him so I chose to stay the night at my grandparents house (where he lives). He s my half uncle because him and my dad share the same mother but not the same father. Anyways, we talked about a lot and caught up. We had to share the mattress because their house is pretty tiny. I didn t mind and have slept next to him before in the past with no problems. I ended up falling asleep and I woke up to find him spooning me. I didn t know if it was intentional or he was asleep and just ended up grabbing me (he used to sleep with his girlfriend every night but they broke up a few months ago??) The thing is, I kind of liked it. I don t know how to approach the situation and not make things awkward.

I'm 14 and people say I look really old for my age. I don't wear makeup, and I don't wear clothes that are too revealing, I'm mostly a tshirt Jean girl type. My great aunt and grandpa thought I was 16 or 18. People are usually shocked when I tell them that I'm 14. One time I was at this new year party this senior guy kept staring at me until my friends told him that I was 14. He was shocked and thought that I was 17 and that I was new in his grade. I would catch guys that would be at least 30 years old staring at me and it's just really uncomfortable. What should I do???!! I'm sorry but I can't help it if I look 18!!

Please explain why because I dont get why hes winning and everyone likes him. When hes so racist and childish. .. Tell me. Thanks

I have summer classes at my campus, and I noticed this girl who sits right besides me was always moving from the corner of my eye as I was working on my assignment. As I look, it turns out that she kept on pulling her pants up, and I pretty much saw most of her butt. I'm not going to lie, but it turned me on. She's not even a pretty girl to me, but I kept on getting hard from her.

I'm dating a guy, he is the father of my brothers EX wife. (I'm 32) They have been divorced for a lil before we changed from friend to dating. He also use to be good friends with my dad before he passed, also good friends with my brother. I barely knew him before my dad passed and before my brother and his daughter divorced. He didn't feel right keeping it from my brother, so he finally told him. My brother flipped out, went on saying how disgusting it is, how we are f*cked up. Now he's just mad, hasn't spoken to either of us. I donno what to do, I have no one to talk to and get another opinion from. I was thinking taking a break maybe a month, and maybe telling him we went back to just being friends (we have been doing that for at least 6 months, just pretending to be friends) but at the same time we are 2 grown adults, and it shouldn't be any of his business. My momma has been good friends with him to, she knew and didn't think anything weird about it. It's just hard to figure out what to do with no other opinions to help and no one to talk to. FYI can't talk to my momma cuz all she said was, "I told you not to tell him" so thanks for any opinions

I would guess to say I am emotionally a pushover. I keep myself available to one guy at any time. I am loyal and I never try to flirt. I come off strongly sometimes. However so does he and I feel blamed and he acts a bunch of different ways. It's like he hides a bunch of intimacy and caring. I can not have that behavior in my life. I also apparently accept it. I need advice how to communicate with this guy in a way that's going to result in me getting what I want and need. Thank you. He also lowrrs my self esteem from knowing old friends and what hes hearf from me. I come from a bad family and financial situation. It is so didturbing he even if he would understand it hes acting like he doesnt. His ego is apparently off the walls umbearable compared to how I knew him when we met. I can't respect him either..but, if I dont communicate with him first off he doesnt contact me...it is so ****** up. *typos

So my boyfriend broke up with me the other day and it hurts like ******* hell because he was my first love and everything and I can't stop myself from having these borderline obsessive thoughts and from imagining us getting back together and I don't know how the **** i'm supposed to get over him but I have to because if I keep loving him it'll hurt me even more. Anyways, everyone keeps telling me he was an asshole and he doesn't deserve me. And I don't know if that's true or not. But I am very infatuated with him and I put him up on a pedestal and underestimate his bad qualities so I will give you a list of the good things and bad things he does and let you guys decide. Bad things: -Pressured me to send him nudes and persisted a little bit even though I said no -Stood me up TWICE -Did not text me back for five days after he stood me up and then when he finally texted me back was when he broke up with me -Told his friends that i was willing to let him eat me out even though I told him "if you're gonna eat me out we have to do it in private and NOBODY CAN KNOW" -Treats other people like **** Good things he did -Told me i'm beautiful every day -was nice to me -told me he loved me i just need reassurance that hes an asshole because that might help me get over him faster. I feel like being mad will cause me less pain than being hurt. So if you guys remind me what an asshole he is then It'll help me stay mad at him rather than being nostalgic about our relationship.

Hoy en la mañana me le vante de malas, es raro normalmente soy muy positivo y al rededor de las 10:30am mi novia me manda un mnsj diciéndome sus motivos por los que me deja, no me dio en verdad los suficientes, me siento extraño, en realidad fui atento con ella, la escuchaba, me preocuba por su salud, cuándo estaba en sus días le daba mucho amor y le compraba pastel o chocolates, en verdad la queria mucho, tengo ganas de llorar pero no puedo, tengo intenciones de recuperarla, pero hay algo que no mea deja en paz, me siento muy mal... :(

So, A is a male friend of mine, B is A's girlfriend, and C is A's sister. C went into surgery for lymph node cancer about 2 years ago, which left a scar on her upper leg, near her genitals. After she came out of surgery, C showed A & B the scar, on her leg, again, near her genitals, but C did NOT show her genitals. Now, B is being bothered by this event (2 years later) and for the past month, B has been freaking out over this event, which B never brought up until now, 2 years later. B now claims that A & C has sexual relations and she thinks that A & C both have had sex growing up (which is incest) and both of those statements are obviously NOT true. B is threatening A with breaking up because of this one event, 2 years ago, and claims that A should get together with C and get with a sexual relationship (incest). B also says that A gets stimulated by C, which is absolutely ridiculous and that's not true. What are your thoughts? Is B correct with her thoughts, or is B being ridiculous?

My family and I are from Pakistan (a Muslim country) and we practice arranged marriage. I am in love with an American woman and I cannot tell my parents because they will disown me and won't talk to me again. Family is very important to me, I love them more than anything and I follow my culture and religion, but I think my girlfriend may be pregnant. (please don't judge).

was walking with my friend to class & I saw the girl I like there & I was looking her but then I just looked away. But then later we pass by again at the hallway & i turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. Then later when she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me looking so I just looked away. Then when she went over to talk to her teacher & I was looking at her but she was looking straight ahead & then I stopped looking. Then later when i turn around I saw her at the back of the class & she was looking at me but then later she left class early?

Indeed, this life is a test. It is a test of many things - of our convictions and priorities, our faith and our faithfulness, our patience and our resilience, and in the end, our ultimate desires

I'm a full time student. I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm bored most of the time. Any ideas of fun things to do ?

Is it true that most girls do this thing? Any way to make girls less bored? Why do girls like less caring guys? Can they change and appreciate caring guys more?

My boyfriend of a month is extremely controlling of me. I love him very much, but its really taking a toll on my emotional health and well being. He and I are very alike, and are extremely close. I honestly think he is my soulmate, we never ever fight about anything unless it involves twitter. He has been pressuring me to delete my twitter for a while. Not for any reason other then that it "gives him anxiety". He made me deactivate my main twitter account, and i went on another small one just to talk to my friends. He got upset over that, too and is now making me delete it for the sake of our relationship. I ve never done anything untrustworthy to him, but he is just paranoid that I am going to. I try to negotiate, say i ll be on less, but it never works. He just gets angry and says that I am obsessed with twitter, and that I need to get my priorities straight. I don t know what to do, twitter is something I enjoy and love so much, but I also enjoy and love my relationship. I almost feel wrong for even asking this question, social media should never be above someone you love. But I don t understand why I cannot have both.