Marriage & Divorce: Question: How can I spy on my parents? |
- Question: How can I spy on my parents?
- Question: What to do in my free time?
- Question: Making a sex blinding box with my ltr significant other.?
- Question: What am I doing wrong?
- Question: My husband doesn't want me anymore?
- Question: How do you warm up a harden heart I want to reconcile with my wife?
- Question: A question for married women around 40 who have been married around 10 years or more.?
- Question: Everyone around me is getting married, what's the deal?
- Question: My husband threw things during argument in front of our kid?
- Question: Do men feel?
- Question: How to tell your husband, had falling in love with anothen women?
- Question: I feel like my husband hates me!?
- Question: Married women. How would you react if your husband came out as bisexual to you?
- Question: I have broken up with my wife in five month ,what can it be?
- Question: Would you want to know if your ex wife was with another man if you had hope of reconciliation?
- Question: Why does my husband always saying negative things that i didn't do nothing.?
- Question: How2get your ex soon to be husband back after betrayal him I'm still love him to death but he said never taking u back we have a 1 a 5 child?
- Question: Do men basically have to go to another country to get a wife?
- Question: Will you be a housewife before having kids?
- Question: Me n my soon 2 b husband had relationship problem n was friends with his friends and so I told them n am I wrong?
- Question: My husband is getting on my nerves. He always has to be the one to ""Pitch a move" for sex. Whenever I do it's , "Not now?
- Question: She left her family and is having a baby with someone else?
- Question: Can you get a restraining order against a spouse?
- Question: Why is cheating on your husbond or wife not illegal?
- Question: What does it mean? when someone says "it is what it is"?
- Question: Husbands: When you married your wife, did she become your possession?
- Question: Wife HIDING her EARNINGS from me.. How to solve this problem?
- Question: Can I change my last name to my new married last name?
- Question: Men, what would you do if your wife and mother don't get along?
- Question: Is it okay to NOT to want to work on my marriage any longer?
- Question: Is this a valid argument for custody?
- Question: Do some people really blame the husband for a wife's obesity?
- Question: Please answer me this?
- Question: To my wife, sex is a chore.?
- Question: Is it alright that my husband calls me Salamibox around our parents?
- Question: My husband wants a divorce and Im pregnant?
- Question: Why do wives continually 'hint' to their hisbands instead of directly communicate and then get frustrated when husbands dont ....?
- Question: If a married person buys a house, is it automatically Co-owned by their spouse ?
- Question: I feel like my soon to be wife is using me?
- Question: Why does the wife have to change her last name?
- Question: What do marriage experts recommend in this case?
- Question: When is it ok to cheat?
- Question: Husband has lots of regrets.?
- Question: What does it mean when a married woman no longer wears her wedding ring?
- Question: Can my husband of eight years become a better lover?
- Question: Need relationship advice?
- Question: Hubby is dead set against me using my vacation time, other than travelling to his country alone to meet his family?
- Question: I want to get married at a young age?
- Question: Are you ever too good for a job?
- Question: Why do people think "sex before marriage" is bad? Isn't "marriage" just a piece of paper that you sign?
- Question: How does getting married through court work?
- Question: How do I get the death certificate of my husband in states? I'm filipina and my husband is forienger.?
- Question: Can I ask how do I get I death certificate of my husband in states?
- Question: We are in a custody case of our 4yrs old son, my wife sent our son to me every day now. what do u think she want to do to our case?
- Question: How can I convince my husband to let people change lanes in front of him in traffic?
- Question: How long is the average waiting time before getting married?
- Question: My husband doesnt wash his penis, he is not cut and doesnt like to pull it back to wash how can encourage him to wash?
| Question: How can I spy on my parents? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 10:14 PM PDT They just got back together and o don't feel comfortable with them sleeping together how can I spy on them |
| Question: What to do in my free time? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 10:08 PM PDT I did B.E in computer science and worked in IT company for 2 years.then i left my job and got married.now i have a daughter who needs me so i just can't leave her but i want to utilize my time and energy to learn new things related to my field and if possible want to make some money working from home.please give me some useful suggestions. |
| Question: Making a sex blinding box with my ltr significant other.? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 10:02 PM PDT We will each write down things we want, or think we want to try, or even foreplay or date ideas or anything sexual or that could lead to or be included in sex. (To add spice and also as a fun way to show were open and ready to take each others ideas seriously where we could have done better in the past). Then we'll simply take turns pulling from the box on days we want to be sexually active probably the morning of. Question is we each have a few things in there, me a few more than him, what are some great ideas I may not have thought of? Well both read the replies. |
| Question: What am I doing wrong? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 09:26 PM PDT I just got promoted to salary at my 1st job and might become manager at my weekend job. I have bills that I'm chipping away along with buying little things for my 6 month baby girl. My wife was at home cleaning and taking of our baby. She doesn't have a job yet, but I think i got her a job babysitting my bosses son. She claims I'm selfish in not caring for other people's time when I try to get sleep for newly obtained job and not help put our daughter asleep cause we have to do it together for some reason. "If I'm awake you are awake" my wife. She says I do nothing for them after saying that she wishing for my death and hits me constantly. There were times I was sick of the hitting that I either threw her out the car or refused to help her with rides. Last night, I just allowed her to yanked my hair and punch me several times. I;m still selfish and an asshole. My mother even sides with her...she hasn't spoken to me in weks...i'm alone when I thought my wife was my partner in crime. |
| Question: My husband doesn't want me anymore? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 09:05 PM PDT My husband is rude and critiques everything I do. He hates being around me and leaves me home alone w/ our two mos old son. He needs a lot of breaks from me because I'm "irritating him." He talk bad about me to his friends. What's going on?? Married for 5 mos and together for two yrs. |
| Question: How do you warm up a harden heart I want to reconcile with my wife? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 08:33 PM PDT |
| Question: A question for married women around 40 who have been married around 10 years or more.? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 08:32 PM PDT How often, if ever, do you give your husband oral. I'm not talking about as part of a regular sexual encounter. I mean where you go down on him to completion and that's it and you go back to making dinner or washing dishes or whatever. |
| Question: Everyone around me is getting married, what's the deal? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 08:22 PM PDT Everyone I know is getting married from ages 22-24. I have a lot of friends from high school getting married. It even seems like celebrities my age are getting married. I'm going to be turning 24 in a month and I haven't found anyone to marry let alone date. What is the deal? Sometimes I look at myself and honestly think something is wrong with me. |
| Question: My husband threw things during argument in front of our kid? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 07:54 PM PDT We had a small argument yesterday. I was out grocery shopping with my 21 month old daughter and got into a collision with a car that decided to speed up as soon as I was slowly driving into that lane. She clearly didnt want me in that lane AFTER I signaled and my car was halfway in. Luckily noone was hurt and her car had small scratches and my car ended up with a larger scratch. Long story short, unluckily, it ruled our as my fault so we have to fix her scratches and our car. I told my husband and he got so angry and started yelling our insurance is gonna go up and we have to pay to fix our car! You don't do anything right! We have a second child on the way and he kept yelling , we have another kid on the way and you keep causing trouble! And threw my daughters toys in front of her and made a hole in our wall. Then threw books at me which didnt hit me, then toy box. ALL in front of our 21 month old. I mean, did I really cause a big problem? I'm terrified of him now but I don't want to make stupid instand decisions. Should I be looking into divorce? He never used to throw things.. I get that he has to work harder to support the family cause I cant work, but don't all men work hard to support their loved ones? It's not like our kids were unplanned... I really don't know what I should do. |
| Posted: 26 Jul 2016 07:49 PM PDT their orgasm until they have stoppedcumming in squirts, or is it like one quick and intense feeling and then it goes away even while theircock is still squirtingcum ? Just wondering. |
| Question: How to tell your husband, had falling in love with anothen women? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 07:48 PM PDT I know they won't had a affair he claimed they stopped, but ok afraid they haven't since they're still "hanging ou". He's been acting cold, and protective over his phone and won't ever talk to me anymore |
| Question: I feel like my husband hates me!? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 07:42 PM PDT My husband is so rude to me and I recorded him and his friends one night because of his mean and rude behavior. They were watching youtube and he wanted to listen to fu@@ my baby momma and other horrible songs that I know are referring to me. He asked his friend if his girl was coming over to chill with us and we have drinks for her. He takes everyone's side over mine, he saids he always needs a break from me because of my mouth. I have been very mouthy lately because I have a feeling he is cheating. I talk very fast and he makes fun about that. I had a baby two mos ago and next to my pic on his contacts, he names ne bubbles. I cried on that one. He said he meant it because I have a bubbling personality. I have been rude lately and I know what he meant. Every other day he has excuses to leave and hates being around me. He is rude to me infront of his friends. Weve been married for 5 mos and together for two years. We just had a baby two mos ago. Any advice? |
| Question: Married women. How would you react if your husband came out as bisexual to you? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 07:40 PM PDT Say that you were married long term, 10 or 15 years, and that he is a good man and has never cheated and doesn't intend to, and you are happily married, would you want to know or would you prefer that he keep this to himself. |
| Question: I have broken up with my wife in five month ,what can it be? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 07:32 PM PDT |
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| Question: Why does my husband always saying negative things that i didn't do nothing.? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 05:03 PM PDT |
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| Question: Do men basically have to go to another country to get a wife? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 03:51 PM PDT I work, I have an education, I pay my bills, I have a retirement account, I am not ready for a kid but if I had one I unlike the majority of the population could afford to have kids. On top of that I get along with most people. In other places in the world women are all over you if you have that. In the US they don't care they want to get impregnated by the bad boys who are destined for jail, homelessness, drug abuse, or a menial job at Walmart. Will I basically have to go to another country to find a real woman? |
| Question: Will you be a housewife before having kids? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 03:50 PM PDT How would you spend your day?? |
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| Posted: 26 Jul 2016 03:32 PM PDT I this common with most men or is he just a control freak? He isn't very controlling in other parts of our marriage. suggestions from adults and married couples please. |
| Question: She left her family and is having a baby with someone else? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 02:45 PM PDT A friend of the family is heartbroken because his wife abandoned he and their kids to be with a guy she met at work. The guy lives with his mother, doesn't care for his child, and she left the home she bought with her husband for this guy. She became pregnant by this man and then lost the baby. Her husband, Tom told her that if she becomes pregnant by him again, they are finished. She is not several mos along with a baby with him and cancelled the divorce papers she filed on him. If you were our friend Tom, who is having to work to support 3 children, would you take Linda (wife) back after she cheated, left you and the kids, and is having another man's child? we care about our friend and his kids that have a mother who deserted them. we feel bad for them. She no longer works, has no job skills and the boyfriend works at a fast food place |
| Question: Can you get a restraining order against a spouse? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 02:17 PM PDT My sister wants to get a restraining order against her spouse just because he follows her everywhere. They're separated and in the midst of a divorce. If there's no domestic violence at all, can u file one against your husband? |
| Question: Why is cheating on your husbond or wife not illegal? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 02:04 PM PDT If you can't legit answer then **** off |
| Question: What does it mean? when someone says "it is what it is"? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 01:40 PM PDT my husband talked about selling one of our cars for the money (maybe $200 at best, its not worth much) I said I would rather not because then one of us is without a car. his response-" well it is what it is".... that was the end of the discussion. I dont get what that means it makes no sense to me |
| Question: Husbands: When you married your wife, did she become your possession? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 01:31 PM PDT What I mean is, you decided to marry your wife. Was it because you wanted to be with her forever? Was it because you loved her and couldn't see yourself with another woman? Or, was it more about taking possession of her, and owning her? Did you marrying her have more to do with possession than your actual attraction to her? Lets keep it to those husbands who CHOSE to marry their wife. Not arranged marriages or cultures which actually view women as possessions. Let's keep it to supposedly marrying for love. |
| Question: Wife HIDING her EARNINGS from me.. How to solve this problem? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 01:22 PM PDT I am 27yr old Indian guy married just 3 months back to my girlfriend of 4 years. I took a home this year due to which i had no funds for the marriage. My wife's parents neither had it too because my father-in-law got his leg operated following an accident. Still they took loan from friends and relatives and let the marriage happen on a greater scale. Main Situation: Post marriage my in-laws are in MONEY CRISIS but aren't showing it. They are finding ways through which my father-in-law requests me to pay his bills and the same my mother-in-law tells my wife. Being very sweet and polite all the time, etc. i took my wife's cellphone to make call and a bank message dropped in mentioning Rs. 12,000 has been successfully transferred to her Mother's account. I didn't react thinking my wife will tell me however 3 weeks passed by and she hasn't shared this with me. I gave her few hints that Transparency, Honesty matters the most in a relationship. I even asked her how much your salary came in to which she gave me an amount with the 12k addition. While she was bathing i checked her messages and found in last month she transferred Rs.8000 to some different account altogether. She never told me about this. i really don't know the details of it. Note that: We give Rs.5000 to her parents each month irrespective of what her elder siblings give or not. I really think i am being taken for granted. I am not feeling good and i need to know what should i do in this situation? |
| Question: Can I change my last name to my new married last name? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 01:16 PM PDT |
| Question: Men, what would you do if your wife and mother don't get along? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 12:56 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it okay to NOT to want to work on my marriage any longer? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 12:24 PM PDT Like most people, my husband has his good days and he has his bad days. Lately (past 6 months or so) it seems it has been mostly bad days for him. During our marriage I have had to deal with alcoholism, infidelity, dishonesty (little white lies all the way up to disappearing and lying about where he was). These past few weeks, I find myself just not caring. I don't care what he does, who he talks to. He refuses to go to counseling. He will promise to do things differently, to try and be better, but it never sticks. I'm at the point where I just don't even want to bother any longer. And I mean, if he suddenly decided he wanted to go to marriage counseling, I feel like I would just shrug and say, "Why bother?". Is that okay? Is it okay to just allow myself to give up, or should I still be trying to fight for my marriage? I know divorce should be the last resort, but.....I....just don't care any longer. I want a marriage that I don't have to fight to keep afloat. Is that asking too much? Is it okay for me to file for divorce and seek someone that is more fitting to my wants/needs? Or, would that be wrong since I have already committed myself to my husband and vowed to be with him forever, no matter what? |
| Question: Is this a valid argument for custody? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 12:16 PM PDT I know unless I talk to a lawyer I won t know for sure, but maybe someone can share from their experience. I want at least physical custody of my child with him/her living with me. I am in the military so I will be mobile. However, the mother will be a Single mother of 3, with 3 different fathers. She makes about 40-45k a year. I will be making 75k, as well as my wife (im not looking for judgment, it s been a rough road and I m still paying my price for it but am not getting a divorce). She was also unemployed up to about a month before the conception for a 7 month period. She was on food stamps before that. The state I am in is a very mother favoring state for custody. Kansas. I don t trust her to raise the child. |
| Question: Do some people really blame the husband for a wife's obesity? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 12:10 PM PDT I was reading a Y/A question concerning obesity, and I came across some rude answers. Some people told the OP the reason his wife is overweight is because she is unhappy with him. Others say he is probably abusive to her. There is no evidence to suggest the guy is a jerk. I see a lot of people saying she's fat because she is unhappy in the marriage, making the man the bad guy. :P What bothers me is the husbands are quickly labeled as the bad guy. |
| Question: Please answer me this? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 11:56 AM PDT I have been really close with my friend for years. We talked at least once a week but it seemed to become less and less frequent after I got married. Once a week turned into once every six weeks, then once every six months. Out of nowhere yesterday I noticed she deleted me on Facebook. I know it sounds childish and silly but I m so hurt. I emailed her and asked her if I upset her or offended her in any way and she said "no you didn t. But I don t agree with the way you re living your life. You cheated on your husband with his friend while you were dating and you never told him. Then you tout on social media about how much you love him. I can t be friends with someone who is so two faced. Take care" I did NOT cheat on my husband while we were dating. He took me away for a weekend (we were just friends at this point) and I slept with his friend. Why is that HER business? Is that worth ending a friendship over? |
| Question: To my wife, sex is a chore.? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 11:50 AM PDT To my wife, sex is a chore. We have been married 34 years and it s just gotton worse by the year. I started getting pushed away and turned down when we were still on our honeymoon. She seems very happy when we go months without any physical contact. When the rare times we do have sex I make sure she gets off, most of the time twice if I can with manual stimulation. It s emasculating, hurtful and has sucked the life out of me. I m to the point of just waiting to die. She has made me dead inside. Im too old to start over. What should I do??? Putting a bullet in my brain is starting to sound pretty good about now. Last week I got a text "Hey getting in the pool, get off work early and join me" now it s my fault I read that like she might be wanting to get a little freaky outside with me. I got home to find her just as fridgid as always. The thought never crossed her mind. After an hour with her in the pool I just got out and started dinner while she floated in the pool. I even later made a comment to her that I thought she texted me because she was feeling frisky. Her response was no i just thought the pool felt good and you might like to join me I hade a conversation 6 months or more ago how I can t take the pain anymore and I need the sex to feel a connection with her. All I asked was just once a week. Once a week to let me know I m a part of her life. I got it exactly once a week for a month and she got board with it I guess and we are back the way it was |
| Question: Is it alright that my husband calls me Salamibox around our parents? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 10:11 AM PDT |
| Question: My husband wants a divorce and Im pregnant? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 09:44 AM PDT We had a argument, so I took the car with my daughter and got into a minor collision where only scratches were made on both cars, ours was more severe. He said he's gonna want a divorce if our premium goes up from this and he is sick and tired of my clumsiness. It ruled out as my fault and our insurance is responsible for their repair and we will have to pay to get our car repaired. He's gonna want a divorce now. What should I do? |
| Posted: 26 Jul 2016 09:35 AM PDT ...understand or respond to their hints? Why dont they just say what they want or need? |
| Question: If a married person buys a house, is it automatically Co-owned by their spouse ? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 09:33 AM PDT |
| Question: I feel like my soon to be wife is using me? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 09:10 AM PDT I am engaged to a woman who is a lot younger than me. I am 53 and she is 22. We have been together for 2 years and we have no children. I provide complete support for our household while she goes to school. I also give her 130$ spending money every week. She has recently found a job working part time but I will still give her the spending money and pay bills. We have been engaged for a year. She is suppose to start planning the wedding but never does it's always an excuse. She says she loves me and wants to marry me but the time isn't right. I told her that I wanted to be married by January of next year and she keeps saying she doesn't have time to plan a wedding. She is very affectionate and loving and she does wife duties for me such as my laundry and cooking. She has cheated on me in the past but I forgave her. I wonder is she just using me or does she really love me. Even if she is just in it for the money I love her too much to let her go. I need advice I don't know what to do. How can I tell if she really loves me? |
| Question: Why does the wife have to change her last name? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 08:58 AM PDT When did the tradition start? Do other countries besides the U.S. carry out this tradition? Why does the wife have to change her name, but the husband does not? Is there anything wrong with not changing your last name? |
| Question: What do marriage experts recommend in this case? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 08:50 AM PDT My wife is mentally ill, not so ill that she could be committed or arrested. She has wild spending sprees, goes out to bars 2 to 3 nights a week to flirt with men (although she has no intention on ever sleeping with them). Starts a new major endeouvr every year but always flunks at it (flunked out school 3x, tried sailing but quit, cant hold a job for more than 3 months, tried vounteering but quit also). In short, its either a brain injury she suffered when she was younger or a personality disorder. She waivers in and out of "I'm fine" and "I'm really messed u" depending on her mood. She has been prescribed meds but wont take them. We have 3 young children that are the joy of my life. I dont believe I could prove her unfit in a divorce and get custody. Handing her huge amounts of child support for someone who has always spent to $0 and then maxed credit cards on top of it, and takes money from our oldest child. My wife contributes minimally to the house. She hates anything to do with taking care of kids and housework. If I leave, I know the kids will suffer with her. Not to mention the horrible example she sets for them as future adults. She also refuses to pursue a divorce against me but tells me often she hates me (she cant say why maybe afraid of the custody battle). She often sways back and forth often several times in the same day between loving me and hating me. So what should I do leave, and give her the kids, or stay and be miserable and live dysfunctionally. Thank you for the words of support. |
| Question: When is it ok to cheat? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 08:48 AM PDT If you have been with someone for 15 years and married for 10 and you just wanna try someone new just one time |
| Question: Husband has lots of regrets.? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 08:04 AM PDT My husband keeps confessing to me that he feels very regretful for things that happened in our past and in his past with others. He just can't seem to let go of it even after I told him it's okay. What can I do as a wife to help him deal with this better since telling him it's okay isn't helping? Telling him that I forgive him doesn't help. He just walks around feeling guilty no matter what I do. He went to therapy but they couldn't get through to him. He just has a guilty conscious all the time. Surely I can make it better. Yes, I can't change him, but there has to be something I can do to help. |
| Question: What does it mean when a married woman no longer wears her wedding ring? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 07:50 AM PDT |
| Question: Can my husband of eight years become a better lover? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 07:01 AM PDT He is a kind, loving husband and an intelligent, successful man but not exactly skilled in the sack, and still can't pick up on my nonverbal clues. I actually have to tell him, "stop," "ouch," "keep going," "please kiss my neck," etc. After numerous gentle coaching sessions on my anatomy, he still practices his trademark move, which is to swoop down and take my nipple in his fingers or mouth and then pull up like a robin yanking a worm. It snuffs out my desire immediately and leaves me feeling stretched and sore the next day. Apparently he doesn't get the difference between stroking and yanking. Also, I often wake up to him fingering me, but I prefer a little foreplay before genitalia exploration. (This too I have often told him). How do I train him? I have many times explained what I do and don't like, but he reverts back to how he does things unless I am giving him live play-by-play directions, which also is a desire damper. He is trigger happy, so often attempts on my part to switch things up, like a position, results in his orgasm, and when I start to enjoy myself and begin deep moaning, it causes him to come. On the positive side, he can usually have sex again five minutes later and is a wonderful cuddler. He has a good penis and quite the libido; he's ever turned me down. I know he wants to make me happy, but he just doesn't understand. We make love an average of 7-10 times per week. How do we make this sexual time we spend together as good as the rest? Hmm. The more I see the responses the more I think this is a classic gender-related issue and that our real problem is laziness--mine in the form of not being firm enough in my actions (words obviously don't sink in with men) and him in not making enough effort. He can climax immediately and I can't. The things I like aren't complicated, gross or weird, they just take time. |
| Question: Need relationship advice? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 06:25 AM PDT First time I was pregnant my husband was very distant. He use to look in attention from other women. Things got better though he still wanted attention from other women before we got married last summer. I am pregnant again, and things seem to be going great except he has a friend (girl) and they are really close and he doesn t even tell me when they talk. I know he has said she is sexy and pretty and I wouldn t know what else. I m trying my best to think of the best but with hidden picture albums and secret conversations my anxiety is through the roof. I trust he will never cheat on me. But what about things i dont know about. |
| Posted: 26 Jul 2016 06:15 AM PDT Our babysitter's son is coming into town for a visit with his family, so she asked for some time off. Which wasn't a problem, since I have vacation time at my job that's expiring. My plan was to take an extra day off to get the majority of the housework done PRIOR to the babysitter's time off, and then an extra day at the end to unwind and clear my head before returning to work. My husband is dead set against taking any extra time off. We've had the same argument for months on end. I had 3 weeks leftover from last year that my boss graciously extended until this year due to a trip to my husband's country we were planning that never happened. So, as a result I'm rushing to use it before I lose it. My husband wants me to take the kids by myself to his country to meet their grandparents, which is probably why he is so dead set against using any more time than I need. Travelling alone with twin 2 year old's to a foreign country to meet in-laws and other family whom I've only spoken to a few times over the phone? I've checked into flights, and found that I would be on 3 different planes. That's TWO plane changes! In his country, employers can't afford to give vacation time, and employees can't afford to take vacation time. Needless to say, he just doesn't get it. And I don't what more I can say or do, so that he'll understand. Since our babysitter is watching the kids in her place rather than at her daughter's house (which is where she usually watches them--they have a little preschool setup there), I thought about just giving her an extra day off to prepare and rest up for her visit with her son. But my husband threw a fit about it, and insisted that only Thursday and Friday, not Wednesday. The easiest thing to do to avoid arguments would be to proceed as planned. If I do that, then I know I won't be able to get anything done. I'd feel guilty and spend the day watching the clock. It seems no matter which I go, someone will be upset. |
| Question: I want to get married at a young age? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 05:16 AM PDT |
| Question: Are you ever too good for a job? Posted: 26 Jul 2016 05:16 AM PDT Continuing saga: Many of you know I have been in a battle with my wife and her 20 year old son for him to get a job. Back story: A few years ago he flunked out of college in his freshman year because he didn't go to class and began partying. He's back home now and is taking part time classes to get an associates degree in graphic design. Since Jan I've been telling him that he needs a job because all he wants to do is let everyone pay for him. Even his girlfriend is paying for their dates. Since Jan his mom has been saying that "you can't tell someone when to get a job." I told him a few weeks ago that he had till the end of the month to find a job or he'd have to go. Last night I was texting with him asking how the job hunt was going and where he was looking. He told me he was looking at graphic design firms, not fast food, grocery stores, gas stations, etc. He's only focusing on graphic design firms thinking he's going to the the next big thing. He has no experience and no portfolio to show. He hasn't even been on an interview. He thinks he's too good to flip burgers, stock shelves or ring up gas. Again, he's 20 with no experience. He spends just about every afternoon and evening with his girlfriend so he's got no other time in the day to look for work. Are you ever too good for a job? Again, you're 20 years old, have no graphic design experience other than the couple of classes you've taken at the local college in the past 9 or 10 months. He doesn't understand that when you're starting out you have to work your way up. What 20 year old do you know with no experience, no college degree (a bachelor's) can get a job at a graphic design firm helping them design the next big logo? He thinks his associates degree will be enough, once he gets it. With his mindset someone taking a few anatomy classes at the local community college is ready to apply to be an ER doctor. Aim high, right? |
| Posted: 26 Jul 2016 01:23 AM PDT And when you want to **** someone else, you sign another piece of paper. Marriage doesn't mean anything. A marriage is a legal contract with no advantages for the male. I know. I guess I forgot to say that the man has to surrender half his stuff every time he wants a new piece of paper (or if the wife wants a new piece of paper. He doesn't necessarily have a choice.) |
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| Question: How can I convince my husband to let people change lanes in front of him in traffic? Posted: 25 Jul 2016 11:29 PM PDT he hits the gas pedal instead and we get fingers/honks/rude looks. |
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| Posted: 25 Jul 2016 09:27 PM PDT Also he never shaves and im tired of having to shave him, if i dont do it for him he never does. |
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