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- Question: Married young and am now regretting it.?
- Question: My wife and I have been married for 2 years. Here in the last few months it s been bothering me that I m having to beg for her affection.?
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- Question: What else is there to do?
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- Question: Should I leave my husband? Please Answer.?
- Question: Why does my husband think i hade an affair on him?
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- Question: I kicked my husband out and don t know if it was the right thing to do.?
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- Question: Stay for the sake of my daughter?
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- Question: We plan a trip to go fishing and while out pre checking the place he is calling his friend and inviting him along. Priority or not?
- Question: My husband said it would be weird to have a baby in 4-5 years?
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| Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:37 PM PDT I am 21 years old and married. I was in the army when I met my wife. We were moving pretty fast so fast she got pregnant and at the time I was scared and I decided to marry her but before we got married she had a miscarriage. I felt so bad I married her anyway before I deployed. Now a year later I m out of the army and I see people my age in college or out having fun and I m here struggling to pay bills with my wife. I m not really attracted to her anymore like I love her so much but Idk I have been feeling like this since the beginning of the year. I am currently attending a school out in Texas for a month and before I came out here we had a talk . She was telling me how we are heading in different directions in our life and she doesn t want to hold me back from anything. it s crazy because We both felt the same way like we agreed on everything like how we wanted to be young again and stuff and we even talked about separating . She said when I come back from Texas and I still feel the same way then that s what will happen. But before I left we were back loving each other again (no sex) I m just really not attracted anymore. I mean in a way I want to separate but in another I don t because I don t want to start all over. It s hard finding the right one these days. Even my mom said people go their whole life without finding the right one but anyways I want to hear you guys opinions. Thanks |
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| Question: What are the chances I can have physical/residential custody switched over to me? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 08:57 PM PDT My ex husband and I divorced 7 years ago in Los Angeles County, he was given "physical custody" of our 4 kids (now 13, 12, 10, 9) by the judge because he was living with his parents in California and I had moved to Arizona and secured a job and a house. The judge said he didn t want to uproot the kids lives. Well, 3 years ago, my ex agreed to come let them live with me and my current husband to give him relief of the financial burden, since we agreed in the divorce to waived child support, and so they had more time with me. We normally get along well and they go to him for all vacations and holidays. Well this year my ex wants to keep 2 and let me have 2. I had tried telling him that the kids did a lot better in the 3 years they were out here with me. They didn t miss school (they had gotten in trouble for non attendance there the year before they came to live with me) and have more extracurricular activities they can do here. Plus different school schedules will make visitations difficult. If I were to take my ex back to court, show the proof that they are doing better here, what would be the chances the courts would award me physical custody, even though I live in Arizona? |
| Question: Married young and am now regretting it.? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 08:38 PM PDT Hi! I am a 21 year old male and have been married for almost a year now. My wife is 19, and immature is an understatement. Being young and going to private school all my life, i haven t really experienced all that much, and I m to the point now where there s a churning fire deep down inside that just wants to let loose and party, club, drink, be social, and just have fun. But my wife is so lazy, and so jealous of everyone else, that those dreams and feelings come to a haulting stop everything. I get yelled at and get the silent treatment every time I just LOOK at another girl, let alone talk to one. I loved my wife when we first got together, but she has changed... A lot and I don t think she s ever going to change again. I try to talk with her about all this but she just gets mad and makes excuses and turns it all into a fight. I feel like I might not love her anymore and wanting to have fun and her not letting me makes it a lot easier to want a divorce. Help me please |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2016 08:14 PM PDT I also feel like I have a wife who doesn t want to touch me. I practically have to beg for that as well. She has a ten year old son who she still sleeps in the bed with as well. She has been putting me more and more to the side and our relationship is falling apart. What should I do? |
| Question: What is the easiest way to get this divorce done? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:55 PM PDT I have been separated from my ex husband since Jan 18th after months apart I ve decided to get a divorce. He cheated multiple times. I recently contacted him and his girlfriend and they threatened me with my image is at stake and there going to send gang members after me. I have tried to get the address for three days and they kept saying they ll give it to me but claim there to busy taking care of kids his new girl is expecting with a baby that s not his. I m in San Diego and he s in Oregon moved there a couple months ago. The last thing they said was they ll serve me but I won t like how they do it. What should I do? |
| Question: Is he playing psychological minds game with me? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:44 PM PDT My husband stepped out the marriage and it resulted in a baby. He tells me he wants nothing to do with the woman, but still wants to be apart of the child's life. It's caused alot of arguments. I've gone back and forth on how I feel. One minute I'm okay, the next I'm not, but to make matters worse when I tell him to leave that I'm done, he tells me it's my fault this even happened. If I had been a better wife, but I don't even know what I could do better, I work, pay the bills, clean and maintain the house, cook every meal, I do everything for our child; homework, projects, field trips, friends and cousins coming over, school meetings and on top of that we have sex whenever he wants, sometimes 6 times a day. I know I could have another guy, I'm hit on the second I leave my house, I wouldn't even want another guy. Is he playing minds game or do I have no self worth? I always feel like everything my fault, but I don't know how to do better. |
| Question: Why would a married guy suggest you 'get together next week'....? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:41 PM PDT Then never contact you, then 2 weeks later when you send him an email he ignores you!! Then 6 months later he 'likes' something of yours on LinkedIn out of nowhere with no contact in 6 months. Shouldn't he be happy you're not bothering him anymore? |
| Question: How do I ask my wife to loose weight without pissing her off? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:37 PM PDT We have been married a year and her thighs are just getting big and she is getting a gut. It's just a turn off. What do I say? |
| Question: My husband wants to *** inside of me during sex, and I don t want him to. What do I do? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:32 PM PDT My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 2. We ve always had a pretty fun and frequent sex life. Recently, though, I started using the pill to help with cramps during my period, and now my husband pressures me to let him *** inside of me when we have sex. Neither of us want children. I am happy to use the pull-out method or condoms, but he really wants to do it inside of me. I am just not comfortable with that, and his pressure makes me not want to have sex at all. What do I do? |
| Question: Where can me n my husband get a girl that is down for a 3some in Springfield mo? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:28 PM PDT |
| Question: Which user will get married first and last. In order? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:17 PM PDT |
| Question: What physical attribute do you wish your man would improve on and why? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:06 PM PDT |
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| Question: What else is there to do? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 06:08 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years now. I have 2 kids from a previous marriage. My oldest is mostly good when she doesn t have her sister coaxing her to do stupid stuff my youngest is always getting in trouble doesn t matter what I try she just doesn t listen and it s causing a rift between my husband and I. My husband is to the point where he is about to give up and move out I don t want that. She sneaks food even though she will eat and when ever she wants something to eat I say that s fine as long as its not close to dinner she steals stuff from us as well as the store she has put holes in her bedroom wall I have tried taking her stuff away grounding her putting her in time out nothing is working I just don t know what else to do does anyone have any suggestions please. |
| Question: Am I wrong for not wanting to live with someone unless I am married? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 05:36 PM PDT Or not letting a guy string me along for more than 5 years w/o at least being proposed to? I am currently 27 years old, no kids, and just recently became single (we were together 2 years & did not live together). I feel like a few individuals made me feel weird for my way of thinking (mind you, they have been with their guys for 10+ years, just recently getting married, have already had kids with their partners now husbands, and are 26 years old). |
| Question: I have a Huge Crush on my sister's Girlfriend. Help? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 05:22 PM PDT Well, I'm totally attracted to my sister's girlfriend. She's freaking beautiful. Like unordinarily. But not only is she a lesbian, but she is supposed to be of limits because my sister is with her. I get jealous when they make out around me. Which is alot because my sister stays with me. And honestly, I get serious wood when she is around. I get off on her instagram pics when my sis isn't home. And the thought of them together is a huge turn on. She treats me pretty bad though but she treats most guys like crap. And I see how different she is with my sister. It really turns me on. Should I tell my sister?. That was supposed to say *...but she's supposed to be off limits because my sister is with her. |
| Question: Ladies, what is one thing that your husband could improve on? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 05:01 PM PDT |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2016 04:10 PM PDT She should want positive attention,not negative right? And she should want connection and not dictatorship right? So, how do I convince her to be healthy, not unhealthy? Mind you, I don't want to directly change my wife - I want to change myself so I reward her for good behavior and not reward her for bad behavior BUT I don't know how to do this. Any suggestions? |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2016 03:53 PM PDT Him and I dated while he was in my town on business for months, we recently got married I met everyone in his family except the children. Right now we live in different places (two different states) I m planning to move in with him but it s starting to make me second guess the decision. I found out recently that he hadn t told his children he was married because he didn t want them to feel as though he had abandon them. But this bothers me because when he comes to visit he lives with me and my children. I m starting to get annoyed to the point of ending things but I don t want to over react. |
| Question: Should I leave my husband? Please Answer.? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 03:31 PM PDT I've been married to this guy for going on 3 years and we've been together for 6 years. Lately he's been lashing out at me. He threw a cell phone at my face and broke my tooth. He said he didn't mean to throw it at my face. Then about 2 months later we get on another bad argument where he threw his cellphone again and it hit my knee cap which left a huge bruise on my leg. He also picked me up and squeezed me as hard as he could to where I couldn't breath. That same week he had something in his hand that he slapped me in the leg with that left a huge mark on me and it hurt really bad. He also slapped me in the back of my leg which left a hand print. Why does he keep hitting me in the legs? I threaten to leave and he threatens to kill himself. I don't know what to do anymore. He won't let me have any friends. The one friend I had won't even come back around anymore. She said he treats me like a dog. |
| Question: Why does my husband think i hade an affair on him? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 03:22 PM PDT |
| Question: Why can't she leave us alone? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 03:09 PM PDT I've been married and living to my husband for 4 years. We've dated since high school and I messed around a little but we got back together. He's always at work and I feel alone sometimes. I slept with my ex last month and a couple other guys and I feel really bad. His best friend ever since middle school is this b*tch. Ever since he found out about what I did, I already apologized. He's been hanging out with her A LOT lately! Most times he's on the phone with her and they just talk about rubbish and I'm sitting there waiting for him to put the phone down! I can't talk about it to anyone and it's unfair'cause everyone loves her and says she's lovely but in fact she's a husband thieving b*tch. She makes him act like an idiot/a child. They act like stupid children and for someone of his status, it's embarrassing. He's been refusing sex from me and that can only mean he's been getting it from her. I just wanna cheat again because I'm so frustrated. He avoids long talks with me and makes it so obvious that he's trying to get me jealous by cutting the conversation with a "Lena and I are going to the ____. She's probably waiting, I gotta go." We had an argument in the morning, I told him Lena wasn't his wife and he told me in my face that it would have been easier loving her and he wished he'd seen it earlier. This really hurts me I've been trying to make it work and he just treats me like dirt. It hurts so much. I wish she never existed! Those of you who called me a s l u t don't know what it feels to be neglected by your spouse so keep those hurtful words to yourselves. |
| Question: I kicked my husband out and don t know if it was the right thing to do.? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 02:45 PM PDT I kicked my husband out yesterday. We ve been together for 8 years, married for 6 years and have 3 small kids. Over the course of our relationship he has called me names and put me down. He has said things like "You ll never be good for anything" "You re fu**ing useless" I wish I wasn t married".....etc... He has said these things, and more, to me in front of our kids. He used to call me a ***** so often that our (then) 2 year old said "Mommy, you re a *****". If I get upset about something he tells me I m overreacting and to get over it. He has no sympathy. He seems to have no emotions at all. He will walk by our two older kids and bop them in the head. He is really into martial arts and is always pretending to kick or hit them. But he s just "playing". I tell him I don t like it and he tells me I m overreacting and he s just playing. Or he tells them to shut up when they re in the middle of talking. Idk, I just couldn t watch him do that to them anymore or listen to his put downs anymore after so many years of it. What do you guys think? I have no money, because I had to quit my job so he could do his. So, I'm kind of stuck. |
| Question: My husband has address and I have always used his now I would like my own? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:53 PM PDT |
| Question: Does life get boring after you get married? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:26 PM PDT Im just nervous about my life being all settled and not adventurous after marriage because you have to tell your spouse everything you do. I feel like there is no freedom and you cant just hang out whenever with whoever youd like to. And you always have to go together everywhere. Doesnt it get boring? being around the same person for life? Basically im just scared of growing up. Im 19. And I miss having adulthood so far off. |
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| Question: Stay for the sake of my daughter? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:40 PM PDT I ll try to make this complicated issue as simple as possible. My GF and I moved in together about 3 years ago. She had two kids from two prior relationships. She was in a bad place with nowhere safe to live and a family who all have some kind of mental illness or drug addiction. First two year we re great and we decided to have a child of our own. From pregnancy to now she has been a completely different person. Depressed and angry all the time. She is mean to not only me but to the kids. My daughter is now one year old and for the past two years I have been living miserable. My GF left her job and refuses to work or really do anything to help the household. Financially I m struggling trying to support a family of five on a lone income. The only thing I feel that s left for me is my daughter. I worry however that if I ask her to leave the house what will happen to my daughter. Where will she go and who will she be with. My GF has been seeking counceling and been put on a number of medications for a few months now but none seem to help. Every day is horrible for me. I wonder if it s better for me to stay so I can see my daughter every day or leave and be able to support her better financially. But won t be able to see her every day. Of course I would try to get custody but we all know that the courts side towards the mother. |
| Question: Can couples with different political beliefs last? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:38 PM PDT Can a Republican man commit to Democrat woman? |
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| Question: Why did my husband do this? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 11:43 AM PDT I am so depressed. I am so so depressed. My now ex husband has drained me of absolutely everything. I have no car, I cut out all my friends, I barely talk to my family, I gave up my dog and he killed our cat, he messed up so many relationships I had with anyone, he's lied and talked behind my back so much, and yet I still loved him. He wrecked my truck by being an idiot with me in the car. I am 30 weeks pregnant and he literally tore me down as a person even worse when I got pregnant and even said he hated my baby and my pregnancy. I am 18 and he is 19, I know we are young but how can someone this young take so much from me when he is literally only 19. He grew up messed up and anytime I talked to counsellors and such they said to consider how he grew up. I did and I literally kept getting so **** on more. I'm at my moms now and I have her helping me out to take me to work, but my husband is going out to parties and trying to get people to take a picture and send it to me so I'd react and talk to him again. I have helped him get his GED, I helped him get his license I've helped him get two cars I've helped him with so so much. He used me so much and I just let him. And with our baby we are doing open adoption because I know it's what's best but it's so hard. I know I'm not fit to care for my baby and my ex just basically walked out and didn't give a ****. I broke up with him but he wants no absolute involvement with the baby. how do I cope I'm feel like I'm losing myself. I left him because he was physically abusive and we went to counseling and everything and last week he hit me again after 6 months of not touching me and I found out he was cheating from Craigslist so I just told him to leave and then he hit me. Robert how am I screwed up when I literally am just 18 and didn't know any better. It's called being depressed and screwed over not screwed up. |
| Question: Will we win in custody court? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 10:30 AM PDT My fiance and I are taking my ex wife to Court for full custody of my almost 6 year old twins. She has full custody and I get visitation. She wants my fiance who loves the children to go to her house at 530 am Monday thru Thursday to get the children up, fed, dressed and to school. She also wants her to pick the kids up at 330 and keep them till 430 when she can pick them up. My fiance got a job that will go along with this. She also wants my fiance to watch the kids Friday since they don t have school friday but that means shed have to take that day off from work. I would help When I can but I m the manager of a farm. When my fiance starts school 4 weeks of that schooling she could take the kids to school but wouldn t be able to pick them up. My ex wife doesn t like to tell us who is watching the children when she isnt even though she s supposed to. Before I met her I rarely saw the kids cause my ex wouldn t let me. I have people who can support me in that statement.She clames we can take my ex to Court after her 4 busy weeks. The kids need stability and we can give that to them. They already had issues when my fiance would drop them off at preschool and their mom would pick them up they fight her and cry and say they wants me and my fiancee. I also have statements that can back that up. My ex has had the kids for 3 years now not sharing them for holidays or birthdays or anything. Shed get them every other weekends for,visitation since she wouldn t have to work. |
| Question: Wife gained 5 pounds should I divorce her? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:59 AM PDT |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:47 AM PDT We are currently having quite a few issues in our marriage, and one of the major ones I feel is being low on the priority list. My husband was gone for a week when he returns the next night he goes out with a friend fishing. We plan a trip to go fishing and while out pre checking the place he is calling his friend and inviting him along. He goes out with him at least three times a week sometimes more. I am so upset and I cancel out of the trip. It turns into name calling and such. I try to explain my feelings and still the name calling. Yes, I felt that I wasn't a priority. |
| Question: My husband said it would be weird to have a baby in 4-5 years? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:36 AM PDT I'm 20years old and my husband is 22 and we been together for 3 years and married for a week now. we was in the car just talking and I was like do u wanna have a baby in 4-5 years? he said yeah it would be weird but yeah.what do he mean by that? I don't see how it would be stranged to have a family in a few years |
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| Question: Do husbands who don't hit their wife exists? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:13 AM PDT |
| Question: Question for a lot of you, and I know this is going on....? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:02 AM PDT Why do you have kids, some of you mothers works 40 hours a week, as with your husband, to carry on your husbands last name, he cheats on you, wont' pay child support, giving your child HIS last name, you do all the work, what rewards are in that, just to raise a kid? You start having kids....you open up a whole new level of vulnerability for you and your child. If you have not done research on this, why not, you believe NOT MY HUSBAND, he would never cheat on me, he loves me and the kids....most is b.s.....do the search, why do you get pregnant just to have his kids....a LOT of men cheat, no I am not gay, I GUESS my husband has never cheated on me, I have NEVER cheated on him, more men cheat than women, they are just sneakier about it. You have his kids, you get older, out of shape (not all of you) then he wants a younger woman....drops you like a hot rock, THEN takes up with the younder woman and her kids, he needs the money to support them of course, leaving you to fight for money to carry on HIS last name. i am reading more and more of this on line, you do the search if you don't believe me....I honestly believe most guys gets married to have a built in maid, you get pregnant, MOST men will dump the chores on you, they know this, they get more out of a marriage than a women does, in MOST cases....he, he can just up and leave...the state does nothing to track them down, making them pay for their responsibilities to their own kids, they need their money for the new woman! |
| Question: Should a woman go to school and take care of her family? Husband wont allow me to work? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:33 AM PDT I have a college degree (2 of them) which have never gotten me a job. My goal in life is to become a nurse like my mom. I am set to start an intro class to try to get into an LVN program locally. My husband's mom never worked and took care of he and his 2 bros. She still does the teen bros laundry and packs their clothes for trips. My husband told me that when I married him and had kids, I gave up my right to a career and education for nursing. I told him there are women with kids and spouses who are nurses (my mom was a single parent who adopted me and worked 2-3 jobs). He said doing such is selfish and a detriment on the kids and household. Should I cancel the class like he said and forget about being a nurse? My 1st husband also wouldn't allow me to get my nursing education, either. his mother has as HS diploma and dropped out of college her 1st year because she got pregnant with him. She says she was selfless and did the right thing in not going back to school because she wanted to be with her children and didnt trust others to watch them. she had a husband with a high salary supporting her No company in this city (major city) would hire me that is why! Before you judge others, realize that you have to be bilingual or certified in something for most jobs where I live and they do not hire many people that are not, not even for office jobs. YES- I plan on doing RN- BUT- I am going on an extended vacation in 2017 and will not be there for a full time job. I am only taking the basic course needed and studying for the HESI. Such judgmental people. |
| Question: I caught my wife masturbating to photos of my male best friend. What to do? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:13 AM PDT Does my wife secretly want my guy friend? I came home one night from work and caught her in her bedroom pleasuring herself to pictures of my best guy friend. I feel depressed because I am overweight, and he is a body builder. Not jerk off, but fingered |
| Question: He left to ge get a lawn mower and hasn t returned. Will he ever return? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:02 AM PDT So me and my husband have been married for 10 years. Been together since was 14. We have always had our ups and downs. He has always had the tendacy to stray. He like to drink party hang with friends and irresponsible with money. He blames me for not being able to afford the tings he wants. I Will admit. I am not an angel. I do have trust issues. For the past 3 weeks he has been distant cold says mean things he has ways said he wants a divorce when we argue then he gets what he wants and apologizes later. I get really upset. I try explain tell hurt he causes and words like that make me wonder if there is someone else. He got just mean with a me and very short tempered with the kids. He ask for space to be with his boys and do mother things. I wish I would have just given in. July 4th he left ssying he was going to get a four wheeler. I haven t seen him since. I begged and begged for him tag come home. He said he needed space. Then I asked one more time if there was someone else and he said yes. He returned while me and the kid s were not him to retrieve all of his belongings. He asked to see the kids and intold.him I would never keep them from him and he never responded. I have sent him sexy pic photos of good times and our family. No answer. He is staying with a single friend who has called me a crazy ***** to move on his boy don t want me. I can t beleive his behavior. I texted again and he said it s over. How can he move on so fast? I m devastated |
| Question: Married Folk/// Is your spouse your best friend? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 05:54 AM PDT It's said that your spouse should be your best friend. Is yours? |
| Question: Marriage in danger. what now? Edit? Posted: 10 Jul 2016 02:31 AM PDT I am a good looking, financially independent woman. married for 5 years. After marriage I came to know my H is impotent. Mistake 1 : I did not talk about this to anyone. Even my H. I only told him that we are not having a good s**ual life. We had fights. After 2 years, elders started pressurizing for baby. I told H, Either go to a doctor ASAP, get the issue resolved or I will LEAVE you. My H went to various docs, therapists. One urologist told me his case is more psychological. My H denied. One of the docs gave him medicines to overcome his impotency. Mistake 2 : Because of the family pressure, I decided to have a baby though our relation was not strong. Viagra/Injection made an effect and I was expecting. Current situation : My H still impotent. I realize my mistake, though late. I have made a compromise. I see 2 options. Leave my H or stay with him. If I leave him and get married to another person. How will he be? How will he behave with my girl baby? This thought freaks me out and I am less inclined towards taking this risk. My H is a good father. So I think I should compromise and stick to him. My H does not like me and I don't like him either. Now, my female hormones do not let me be happy. I want to to be loved. Having an affair, etc. is unethical and I do not want to. I try to keep myself busy to avoid such thoughts but they still poke up. Should I divorce my H and marry someone else when my baby turns may be 16 years. When my baby leaves us for studies? |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2016 02:30 AM PDT I kinda find it awkward for to her to wake me up way early in the morning. As of my wife, she is just 18 and I'm 36 |
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| Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:26 AM PDT I have the nexplenon and it makes me bite off my husband's head. I'm tired of it. Should I get it removed? it works great and I can breastfeed while on it. |
| Question: My husband wants a divorce but won t leave.? Posted: 09 Jul 2016 11:15 PM PDT We have been married 10 years and have one daughter together. April was our anniversary and he seemed happy. Last week he told me he thought our whole relationship has been bad from the start and he never wanted to be a father. He is confusing because he still wanted to be intimate the other night, but then said he was just using me. I don't want a divorce but I don't want to live in limbo either. He does not want counseling and when I try to talk to him he tell me to shut the $%$% up |
| Question: Should I go back and try to make things work with my husband or move on? Posted: 09 Jul 2016 10:45 PM PDT Well last year I admitted to my husband that I'm bi, so he encouraged me to go out and find a girlfriend because he wants to see me "explore my sexuality" with other women. I found this one girl online, asked if she was into girls, one thing led to another, and then we had her come stay with us for a bit. She and I would kiss a lot, but not much more. However, it seemed as if she was more into my husband than me, and vice versa. I got really mad and had her leave. But eventually we worked things out and she became my official girlfriend. But things still became really sketchy between her and my husband (they were more into each other than me). Finally it bugged me to the point where I went to stay somewhere else, he even helped me back my stuff. My gf was still there with him. My husband asked me for permission to cuddle with my gf and I said no. But he did it anyway, and he gave her a FULL BODY (boobs and butt included) massage, then they fell asleep cuddling watching movies, in OUR bed. When my husband told me, I asked for a separation and went back to my friend's. My husband told my now ex gf that he loved her and asked her to kiss him, but she said not yet. After she went home, there were texts between them about her coming back to be with him. She wanted to come back and was all "you can talk to me about anything", but in the end he dismissed the idea of being with her because he "doesn't deserve hers or anyone else's love". What do I do now? |
| Posted: 09 Jul 2016 10:35 PM PDT So my friend called me last night and i could tell something was off. She seemed sad. She's married to someone that has expressed desire on more than oe occasion i think but at least once, and things almost ended at that point within the last year. She wasn't ready to give up at the time, but now she's not quite wanting it any more maybe. The guy is verbally abusive but doesnt hit her that i know of. She doesnt seem happy, and she even admitted she has a crush on one of her guy friends from work. I dont know if she is seriously considering her crush enough to act on it, but i am pretty sure she's not the type to cheat if she's still committed to someone. She seems to be in a rut, not sure what to do. They share kids, I forget if they rent or own but obviously they live together. In fact, she said when they last discussed a break up, they considered staying in the same house "for the kids" but not being a couple any more. Each would be free to date, but I'm unclear if they wait to file the divorce or if it would be finalized. I'm not sure she herself is clear how it would work. |
| Question: What is wrong with having EXTREMELY HIGH EXPECTATIONS OF PEOPLE? Posted: 09 Jul 2016 09:09 PM PDT No one is Jesus but shouldn't everyone be just a step below. We are all not perfect but if you expect a great deal out of yourself and people you will attract the right people. When I get married there will be ZERO TOLERANCE!!! If my wife cheats then it's DIVORCE TIME BABY!!! NO NEGOTIATIONS. Also any time of criminal activity and she is out the door. Why is this country so forgiving on evil people. Why can't it be that we punish criminals for even the smallest mistakes. They would never do it again. I get extremely stressed when people can't meet my expectations. Everyone says I am such a nice guy and I totally agree. Meet my expectations or hit the road. I carry a extremely high standard and am very proud of it. |
| Question: I can't get over my husband cheating and having a baby? Posted: 09 Jul 2016 09:06 PM PDT I thought I could forgive, I want to, but I can't. I cry everyday, I destroy things, I say terrible things I thought would never come from me. I go crazy every time he sees it. I making myself miserable, but I'm miserable without him. I want my family but I don't know. Please help. |
| Posted: 09 Jul 2016 07:39 PM PDT I moved 2 states away only for the last 3 months and am moving home in a week. I text my wife good morning every morning but try not to bother her during the day. My wife is a busy woman and I realize that but I still feel as though she should make time and want to talk to me. Today for example; I texted her good morning at 0730 but didn't get a response until 1100. I called at 3pm and she seemed bothered and put out by having to talk saying she was taking a nap. I haven't talked to her since. |
| Question: My wife tried to poison me? Posted: 09 Jul 2016 07:22 PM PDT We were sitting at the table and thats when i saw her slip something into drink i guess she didnt realize that i saw her cause she didnt say anything So i didnt drink it and then i told i had to do something That was 3 hours ago and im still driving what should I do? |
| Question: Was I wrong to do this to my wife? Posted: 09 Jul 2016 06:57 PM PDT My wife blocked the toilet with tissue while she was cleaning and I started screaming at her and she got mad and hit me. I ended up going out without telling her. I refused to baby sit so she could go out with her coworkers. She never goes out. I'm the only one who can go out. I also don't like that she dresses up for work. she's looks like she's modeling. She's also lost too much weight which am I not happy about. Am I wrong? |
| Question: My 17 year old secretary is pregnant......how much trouble am I in? Posted: 09 Jul 2016 06:43 PM PDT My wife's stepfather is a retired cop, but we are drinking buddies Mountain, what are you trying to say? Are you calling her a whore? |
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