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my fiancee and i told my mom about our recent engagement she said congrats but she doesnt want me to tell my stepdad my real dad already gave the blessing and we dont want to have tokeep our engagement a secret we shouldnt have too we are excited to spend the rest of our lives together. should i care what he thinks then? my stepdad finds out second hand wont he be mad. and if he does find out and asks why we didnt tell him i wouldnt want to lie to him but also wouldnt want to throw my mom under the bus. and my mom and step dad are married by the way i am an adult sorry for the writing errors

I have another ring that I have worn since I was 16; it's very special to me, I got it for my "sweet 16" and i have worn it practically everyday since (except for showers lol) It's very simple, it's gold, but I typically choose not to wear other rings or silver jewelery on my wrist since it clashes But i've gotten a beautiful silver ring from FIANCE (THat's :))) WHEN I THINK ABOUT IT) and it kind of looks weird along side my other ring, but I want to wear both what do i do?

Cutting right to the chase. I am getting married next year and the problem is my,fiance has a friend who he s known since middle school.,she s a girl but is gay. I have not one prob. w/ peoples lifestyle I have about 4 to 5 gay friends myself male and female. This girl wants to be in our wedding but wants to stand on the men side in a suit as well. Now,that is what I have a problem,with and she is now telling my fiance if she can t be in his wedding then consider their friendship done after 13 years! I hate that he s losing a friend over something so crazy. That s like me saying my gay guy friend wants to be in wedding on my side in a bridesmaid dress. Unfourtantly him or this friend of his is seeing my point of view and its making me a little frustrated and stressed out that we have been planning for this big nice wedding since September of last year now we have it right and will,be getting married in Feb. Of next year but now this foolishness! I m just confused right now. I never once said she couldn t attend I just don t feel that I want a woman in a suit who doesn t even look like a male in my wedding.

My dad died when I was 6. He and my mom were not together when he died. My mom married my stepfather when I was 7. My stepfather was a nice man, but I never looked at him as my dad. I know most of my family have always been disappointed in me because I didn't see him as a dad or let him in the way they wanted me to. But my dad has always been the only person I consider dad. My stepfather died 3 years ago. I'm getting married this December to my fiancée. My mom and my siblings have been asking about honoring my stepfather at the wedding since we set a date. They want a picture beside my dads and they want his name mentioned during the non-religious ceremony. I want none of this and feel weird about it. My fiancée says she feels I should do what I want and will support my decision. I might have been willing to do it for them, but then they wanted my stepfathers family to be VIP's over my actual paternal family, who I've always been close to. Should I do it anyway? I have been shutting them down. I also walk away when it's brought up now. And the photo of my dad is something that I'll be carrying, not one that will be on display for everyone to see. We had talked about putting one on a chair near my grandparents, but decided against it.

I m having a host family at my wedding. They greet people at the church and make sure things go smoothly, I don t know an appropriate gift for them?

I have couple that are very close friends, and they would love to get married at their local courthouse, and plan a trip to another state and have an officiant marry them during their trip? Is that okay?

Me and my fiance are different religion actually not too different hes catholic I m episcopal but he doesnt want a church wedding. His parents were kind of pissed but left it up to us so we got a civil ceremony. My fiances dad s friend is a county commissioner and he is doing our wedding. I only met the guy one time but my fiance say hes been his dads friend hes kind of a good family friend. Anyway I dont know if we should give him a gift? Like what is etiquette for this? Cos its not a church? Thanks so much if you know.