Marriage & Divorce: Question: Women who have sex before marriage are automatically sluts? |
- Question: Women who have sex before marriage are automatically sluts?
- Question: How can I take my mind off my ex girlfriend?
- Question: How do you feel about camerons resignation?
- Question: Is wife turning lesbian?
- Question: My wife has lesbian tendencies. Recently my wife has started watching lesbian porn.?
- Question: PLZ help me know if I owe my husband anything since he left me?
- Question: If a married person gives you gifts?
- Question: My 17 year old son is verbally abusive?
- Question: Why are so many people against cohabiting?
- Question: Do I get family separation pay if I'm stationed in Fort Polk, LA, and my wife is not with me in Louisiana? she is in another state.?
- Question: I need emergency money how i can get im stay at Perak Malaysia?
- Question: Marriage not doing well, is this the end?
- Question: Why can't things be like the 1950s again?
- Question: A couple is having some sex issues. The guy says to the girl, "I'm getting lonely, take that as a warming". How would you interpret that?
- Question: Why do people get upset with me because I don't care about the norms of life? Like prom, kids, marriage, sex, watching porn and call me weir?
- Question: Today I saw a Korean guy holding hands with a White girl who had a Southern accent. Should I have been offended?
- Question: Why don't we ladies like men to treat us well?
- Question: My husband sent me a bouquet of long yellow stem roses. He' overseas. What does this mean ?
- Question: How long do I have to married to my husband before I can take half of his assets?
- Question: Marriage advice, serious advice please?
- Question: The death of my ex-husband has changed my heart, and now I feel my current relationship is going to hell, should I be alone for a while?
- Question: What to do about sex life with husband?
- Question: Husband Does Not Invite Me To Lunch/Happy Hour With Work Colleagues - Why?
- Question: I found out my husband has an emotional affair with another woman. Would giving him the cold shoulder and acting aloof and ignoring him work?
- Question: Ok to cheat?
- Question: Do you think my wife is going to leave me?
- Question: Untill what age can a daugheter in usa,be kidnapped by the father,in what way or through manipulation or /and calumnnies against her mother?
- Question: Broken trust between husband and wife can be healed ?
- Question: My husband is so mean to me?
- Question: Would group therapy be best despite my husband being suspicious?
- Question: Why do we ladies only like for men to treat us like crap?
- Question: My husband walked out on me and our baby. Why??
- Question: Can you help me get out of this nightmare ? My husband never had sex with me .I been waiting almost 3 years . I tried everything ...?
- Question: Is it bad that I stick up for my ex husband?
- Question: Should my ex husband be calling me when my bf is there?
- Question: Should I model naked for a professional art class if my wife is opposed to the idea? Is this wrong?
- Question: My husband has a prob w/ me daily. From the smallest issue. He starts a fight. Is he unhappy? Why does he say he is if hes not?
- Question: Why my husband don't care about my feelings?
- Question: Why can't I get passed my husband's betrayal?
- Question: Why my husband don't care about my feelings?
- Question: Can my husband get arrested if he give my stuff away to his girlfriend?
- Question: How should I handle this?
- Question: What are the marriage-related consequences of having kids in your 20's before you finish college instead of 30's after the high pay career?
- Question: Should I move to Phoenix?
- Question: When time is extremely limited due to life responsibilities, work responsibilities, and college courses; how can I reignite the spark?
- Question: Would you be cool with this?
- Question: My husband of 15 years just revealed he's been cheating the whole time what should I do?
- Question: Are my feelings being invalidated?
- Question: Husband refuses to finish in me?
- Question: How much free time to spend as a couple does the average full time employed married couple and still in college WITH CHILDREN get?
- Question: What are basic things couples do with each other after they get married, have full time careers, and have older children?
- Question: Why do we ladies only like for men to treat us like crap?
- Question: Does sex before marriage work?
- Question: I think I'm being emotionally abused. My husband will put me down everyday, to the point where I am bawling my eyes out. What should I do?
- Question: Why do we ladies only like for men to treat us like crap?
- Question: My husband lied and blame me for him lying. Does that make sense?
- Question: Is it wrong if your wife lies about buying and smoking meth?
- Question: I feel used and mistreated.?
- Question: How often should newly married couples have sex?
- Question: Is my marriage ending?
| Question: Women who have sex before marriage are automatically sluts? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 10:00 PM PDT The men are alright though. Penis protects against the shadows of corruption. |
| Question: How can I take my mind off my ex girlfriend? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 09:48 PM PDT I loved my girlfriend so much, I don't want any other girl, I know I don't. No one loves me and I have no one to talk to. I felt suicidal at first but realized that's not the right answer for anything. I'm trying to think of other things to take my mind off my ex. I have thought of driving all the way across the US, or working 24/7, lifting so hard to the point my bones break, or even starting drugs. I need something that will take my mind off this completely, and quickly. I am impatient and don't want to just wait for things to get better |
| Question: How do you feel about camerons resignation? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 09:24 PM PDT |
| Question: Is wife turning lesbian? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 09:21 PM PDT She has been watching & masturbating to lesbian porn. Even a year ago any porn appalled her but it's different now. I asked her about it & she told me that she would have had sex with a former friend of ours. (A woman) she has never told me any of this in the past. Last week we were at the beach & saw a lesbian couple & she made the remark that that's what she should do. I don't know what brought on her sudden change. She has basically been a prude but now she will do things sexually with me that she hasn't done in our 30 years of marriage. We were married as teenagers & had 2 children by the time she was 18. I'm not sure what to make of all of this & not sure if I'm happy about it. Is she turning into a lesbian? |
| Question: My wife has lesbian tendencies. Recently my wife has started watching lesbian porn.? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 09:16 PM PDT |
| Question: PLZ help me know if I owe my husband anything since he left me? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 09:12 PM PDT husband left do i owe anything? ok so my husband got a student loan and paid 3 months rent right to end of Aug...and i was to pay sept-nov with mine. he moved out last week leaving me here with our 2 children...I still have bills other then rent to pay... now hes says I owe him for July and Aug rent since he moved out....and for anything he bought me prior to leaving with " his" student loan money. he has no income now dropped out of school so can't pay support I have full custody of children. ..so my question is do I owe him for anything...rent or gifts? |
| Question: If a married person gives you gifts? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 09:10 PM PDT I'm becoming closer to a female who is married. I never thought of her in that way because she is married, but she gets me gifts and Hallmark cards. It all started on Valentine's Day when she gave me a card and mentioned going to lunch that day together. What are her intentions? |
| Question: My 17 year old son is verbally abusive? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 08:53 PM PDT My son says I'm an asshole and idiot a lot. I try to help him and he gets mad says I don't need your advice. If I do t do what he wants he calls me asshole again. I told him tonight that he is causing me a lot of unhappiness stress in my life and he answers " like your life is so hard". He always states at me to see a reaction on my face also and laughs. I've tried correcting him for two years. He says stop lecturing me. I wondering if he is sociopathic now. There was no abusive figures in household for him to learn this behaviour. He plays video games and I hear them cussing back and forth on there. I've lost control over him obviously and some people can't understand this I know, don't ridicule me I'm older mom with health problems just seeking positive advice. Thanks |
| Question: Why are so many people against cohabiting? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 08:52 PM PDT Moving in with your partner before marriage. Been with my boyfriend for 4 years almost and we now live together. Yes we have our arguments but every couple does. We're doing fine financially and emotionally-wise other than that. So what's the big deal? Why do people advise against moving in with a partner prior to marriage? |
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| Question: I need emergency money how i can get im stay at Perak Malaysia? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 08:09 PM PDT |
| Question: Marriage not doing well, is this the end? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 08:03 PM PDT My husband and I have split for the second time, but sometimes he spends the night for the sake of our children. He was seeing an ex-lover and he does not want another child. I have a cousin whose baby will be turning one Friday, with a party planned for Saturday. I witnessed his birth, I work a full time job plus, but I still bring him home with me 2-3 times a week. My husband will not be attending the party, even though all of my female family members will bring their husbands and boyfriends. He will not go with us as a family.I have filed for divorce before, and feel it coming again and this time may be the real thing. I don't want to sound silly, but I love this baby and with him not coming, does this have meaning? |
| Question: Why can't things be like the 1950s again? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 07:57 PM PDT Back when people young, women were housewives and men made the money for the household. Jobs were plentiful and paid well. Families were large and typically had between 4-6 children versus 1-3 today. Rates of divorce today are high and marriage rates are falling. Society has become so selfish. |
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| Question: Why don't we ladies like men to treat us well? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 07:36 PM PDT why do we like men to treat us like crap? |
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| Question: How long do I have to married to my husband before I can take half of his assets? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 06:55 PM PDT We are getting married next year so I want to know the lowest commitment so I can make sure I do well. |
| Question: Marriage advice, serious advice please? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 06:35 PM PDT He is a good guy but our sex life is dull, we are the best relationship i've seen in my family. He doesn't give oral (I orgasm through oral sex and clit stimulation) now I find myself reminiscing about the one guy who gave mind blowing head almost everyday. He doesn't last long in bed and he says its because he is tired from work. He has a stressful job and doesn't get home until late so I can't fault him on that but he doesn't do foreplay either and once he cums, sex basically ends. I try to talk to him but he knows its difficult for women to orgasm so he sees it as a lost cause and I have a high sexual drive so now I just sit around reminiscing about my past sex conquest. I feel like a horrible person for thinking so much on my past sex partners but i don think of them when we are having sex. I don't want to leave him because of this, cheating is out of the question. What do I do, I try to talk to him...try to get him to help and find alternatives to pleasing me sexually without oral (though nothing will be a close 2nd) but he just says he just need to build his stamina up once his work schedule gets better. I'm lost and don't know what to do. I feel it's my fault because I never had a committed relationship in my 27 years in life before I met him (lots of fwb and traveling before him), we married in a haste and now I feel im being punished for it.I thought it wouldn't be a big factor but after we got married, it settled in that I would never feel that feeling again. |
| Posted: 13 Jul 2016 06:32 PM PDT So my ex-husband who was my first love in high school had recently passed away and he and I were separated for about 3 years after our marriage. We were married together for a year but it didn't work out, we separated in late 2012. Of course as I moved on I met someone else and he and I have been together for almost 2 years. My ex-husband and I recently got divorced this year in April. Soon after he was in a accident and it just crushed me when I got the news. We may not have worked out but I never hated him I still loved him and still cared even after all the **** he put me through. But now my current relationship I'll admit hasn't been the best this half of the year. I can't let him in my heart like I used too, when my ex passed all I can think about is him and how we used to be and how I realized we should have never gotten a divorce. I wear his shirts as comfort and every song that plays just reminds me of him and how I wish we could have worked things out. I'm still in denial that he's gone and I keep playing scenarios in my head if him walking through the front door and wanting to try again. Now when I look at my partner I can't love him like I used too. He's been trying so hard to win my affection back I just dont know anymore. It feels like I'm still married to my ex. |
| Question: What to do about sex life with husband? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 05:54 PM PDT |
| Question: Husband Does Not Invite Me To Lunch/Happy Hour With Work Colleagues - Why? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 05:08 PM PDT My husband and I are both attorneys and work within blocks of one another. His office is more social. They often do lunch and happy hour. I have expressed a desire on multiple occasions to meet him out and he acknowledges my request but has still never invited me. His coworkers are the ones who get to comfort him when he is having a bad day, not me. I feel very isolated from his work life and jealous of mutual friends who date and socialize with a whole set of fun people. He doesn't mind what I do, or who I am with, but the difference is that I always try and include him. Am I really missing out, or making too big a deal? |
| Posted: 13 Jul 2016 04:31 PM PDT I am so angry at him I am afraid to confront him about it. I don't know how to confront him. I don't want to mishandle the situation and ruin everything |
| Posted: 13 Jul 2016 04:31 PM PDT So let's say someone's husband works 6 days a week to give his kids a comfortable life. This husband in the process forgets to give his wife any attention minus kisses and flowers. The wife knows he is exhausted but what the hell. It makes the wife think her husband is broken sexually. Anyway, said wife is invited to dinner by her boss. There will most likely be sex. Justified? |
| Question: Do you think my wife is going to leave me? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 04:29 PM PDT My wife is always stressed out for starters, we have a four month old son....she's trying to get her GED, she moved out of my house and calls me a little boy because I never saved up for a vehicle when she was pregnant or a house so we lived with my parents and had no vehicle.....I was busy paying my parents rent and buying food for her while she was pregnant.....yes, I didn't save when I could of and I was wrong....anyways, my Mother messaged my wife and told her you need to be letting my son see his son more and my wife flipped out and said "that's your son and i's business not yours" so my mom posted status's about my wife on fb and now my wife says she hates my mom and thinks she's an immature woman.....do you think she's looking for reasons to leave me honestly? I feel like she's snapping all the time about stuff she never would of before |
| Posted: 13 Jul 2016 04:02 PM PDT Until the divorce.e.g letting her mom without money,the daugheter kidnapped on this reason by the father,the law doesn t state fpr a husnan to makw the wives accounts,and when it comes to divorce..and it follows to receivw by law,the wife could no longer be alive..starving.. |
| Question: Broken trust between husband and wife can be healed ? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 03:35 PM PDT I broke trust with my wife and was a horrible husband well I did bread alot of promises too I was a horrible man and now I did my best I changed and threw my past away but still she don't trust me ..... I changed but still she don't trust me .... she don't belive me I love her she don't believe me ..... I will die from this what else I can give I don't want to let go of her :( |
| Question: My husband is so mean to me? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 03:30 PM PDT It s ruining our marriage. He doesn t see it though. He thinks I am disrespectful. I don t think I am. He is a stay at home dad, while I work 2 jobs. He is what you call a "trust fund baby". He doesn t help me with anything and I feel so overwhelmed with life and like he isn t pulling his weight at all. We have been married 13 years and have 2 kids, 10 & 11. He s a good dad but husband...I don t know. He used to be so loving and sweet to me. Now all he does is yell at the smallest thing. He s turning into his mean grumpy, cranky father which he said he never would. I m so confused. I don t want a divorce. I am totally against it. But I m not happy. I don t even want to kiss him anymore. |
| Question: Would group therapy be best despite my husband being suspicious? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 03:13 PM PDT The therapist told me that it is important to attend group therapy to regain social skills after my dad and my husband sabotaged them and now my husband is calling everyone I attend the group with ugly and undesirable, especially the males, because they don't dress well like most people in our hometown. This is a group in which I can share problems with since I can't talk to my family and husband and this group is helping me gain self-esteem one by one and be sociable which is hard to do since my family and husband don't trust people where we live. My husband thinks I would leave him for someone ugly and imperfect in the group even though told one guy I was married after he complimented me. Should I continue with this group? My husband always accuses me of liking someone in that group when I don't. |
| Question: Why do we ladies only like for men to treat us like crap? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 03:10 PM PDT |
| Question: My husband walked out on me and our baby. Why?? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 02:25 PM PDT My husband walked out on me and our baby about 6 months ago while I was cooking his dinner. Just came home from work and said "I can't do this anymore." I am devastated. Over the months his answers for why he did this have been all over the map. I can't make sense of any of it. I feel like if I just understood why he did this I could start to move on and get closure. His most recent explanation is that "I am just not a strong willed person and I just let things like fear overcome me." What does this even mean? Other past explanations include: * He needs tenderness and vulnerability from me everyday and wasn't getting it after the baby was born. * We are just not compatible in that I know what I want and he is just wishy-washy. * Our new life with the baby was just full of drudgery and responsibilities and he just wants to go out with friends. * He felt abandoned by me during the pregnancy because I was tired all the time. * I made him feel unloved by cooking foods with ingredients he didn't like. (I was trying to introduce new foods to the baby.) * Doesn't like how organized I am. It reminds him of his dad. * Didn't enjoy having the dogs we adopted. Was too much hassle. * Felt like I thought he didn't care about the family. * Felt unloved by me when I told one of our dogs "We're best friends huh!" after playing fetch with her. I just don't know how to make sense of any of this. |
| Posted: 13 Jul 2016 02:14 PM PDT I tried everything you can think of about getting my husband to have sex with me . I dressed sexy and hot over 25 times over the pass 2.8 years ! I'm used to being let down . I'm thin and 130 pounds . I even made my boobs bigger ! Size C. I even made the move for sex over 60 times for sure ! I always make the move . There's no area of his that turn him on that I can touch . He's not cheating and I'm not ether . I get him hard all the time but he won't have it with me :( I'm 25 and he's 27. Please my sexy hubby don't want sexy with his sexy wife . Waiting this long is killing me really bad emotional. |
| Question: Is it bad that I stick up for my ex husband? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 01:47 PM PDT My ex husband and I share kids. He wasn't the best husband or father and has some major issues I won't go into. He sometimes will call at odd times or be at my house still hanging out playing video games when I get off work when he's seeing the kids. My boyfriend says my ex husband is trying to cause problems and doesnt know his boundaries but I don't think this is true and I stick up for my ex husband my boyfriend gets mad at me. Am I wrong for taking up for my ex husband? |
| Question: Should my ex husband be calling me when my bf is there? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 01:10 PM PDT I share kids with my ex husband. He calls to speak to them when he knows when my bf will be there. He says he's just wanting to speak to his kids (even though he doesn't call every day he usually just calls when he knows Ill be with my bf) and he's usually seen the kids the day before. What should I do? |
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| Posted: 13 Jul 2016 12:40 PM PDT I hate to fight after a year of him fussing and hollering. I started 3 years of hell because I started fighting back. We are now seperated. I told him long ago I dont fight bc you'll eventually say something you can't take back. He analyzed our relationship all the time, he questioned every move I made over and over to try to catch me in a lie (he didnt). Well i messed up and gave an old bf (Ive know since I was 16) a place to stay and he started one day and I said I hate him for all the hell hes put me through everyday. Well there we have it the words i cant take back. Should we just call it done? |
| Question: Why my husband don't care about my feelings? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 12:14 PM PDT It's 12 years this year on august 28th that my husband and I got married.My mother in law it's 50 years on august 27th and my sister in law it's 25 years on august 10th.Wow!!!!The problem is that THEY decided to make a little party, on my 12 years anniversary august 28th without celebrate us too!!!!WHY????I dont get it?My husband is OK with it. I'm absolutely NOT!!!! He start screaming at me....IT'S ONLY 12 YEARS!!!SO WHAT!!!!THE PARTY IT'S FOR THEM NOT US!!!!! Is that normal?? |
| Question: Why can't I get passed my husband's betrayal? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 11:51 AM PDT My soon to be ex husband and I have been separated for a month. We are separated because he decided to be with his long ago ex girlfriend and leave me and my son while I am 5 months pregnant. I've gotten through most of the emotional pain of being abandoned and having to take care of my son while receiving no support from him whatsoever. What I can't get passed is that despite everything he has felt no remorse and really feels he is doing what is best for him. He said he knows he is being selfish and he texted me an apology saying "Sorry for basically wasting your life. In the end I wasn't the man I was supposed to be for you". I never made him feel this way and if I did in his eyes he admitted that he never spoke up about things before they got to bad for him to handle. I am finding it difficult to move on in this one area because even though I know we will never be together again I still want him to feel remorse and acknowledge the unjust pain he has inflicted on his entire family. WHILE I AM PREGNANT NO LESS. Surely the pregnancy is amplifying my feelings but I just can't get over the fact that someone can be so heartless and abandon his family to be with someone else. Even worse I am still able to look at his posts and social media. I know I am torturing myself but I just can't help it. I want to be able to see that he is sorry for what he has done but it seems he is only sad about the way things happened rather than this happening at all...Please any advice is helpful. |
| Question: Why my husband don't care about my feelings? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 11:50 AM PDT |
| Question: Can my husband get arrested if he give my stuff away to his girlfriend? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 11:30 AM PDT I caught my husband talking to other women on Facebook,I was mad and grabbed the gun,the gun went off shot the door knob by accident,then my husband called 911 on me.while I'm in jail he brought that girl he was flirting on Facebook to watch my 3 kids and then when I got out I almost don't have nothing to wear because stole all of them..my husband said he file for police report and it has been almost 3 weeks now .i don't see nothing's going on yet. |
| Question: How should I handle this? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 11:13 AM PDT I have been seeing this guy that I like let call him (M) but I had started to see this other as well, let call him (H). I recently found out that H's female best friend has started dating M. At M's bday party she came and introduced herself to me. She said you are H's friend right and winked at me. She said, "yeah I've been seeing M and I found out you've been trying to play both of them." She said, "I'm not going to let that happen on my watch." I just looked her like what! She said, "you heard what I said" She turned around and walked away. How should I handle this because I still want to be friends with both of them but she just let me know that they both probably know I've been seeing both of them. How should I handle this? Should I come clean. Neither of them has said anything but I have noticed that they don't make as much time for me anymore. |
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| Question: Should I move to Phoenix? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 09:24 AM PDT I currently live in Des Moines, Iowa. My wife and I are in our Mid 20's with no kids and two dogs. My wife and I love it here, we love the small town feel, mixed elements of the "big city". Our family is close both relationship wise and location, and we both have good jobs. I've been offered a job in an industry that I'm dying to get back into, at a company that will look amazing on a resume. The pay is only $5K to $8K more than what I'm making now. But my wife and I are looking for a new adventure, a chance to live in another climate, build our relationship, gain life experience. We live pretty comfortably in Des Moines, we go out to eat (probably more than we should) we have additional money for concerts, golf, etc. That all would change in AZ. We would be living a much more restricted life. This also provides my wife an opportunity to get a masters degree that she's been really wanting. But we will have to leave our families, we will miss the birth of our next niece, we wont get to see our other niece and nephew grow, we'll miss out on those random weekends my parents visit. There positives and negatives for both, how do we make this kind of decision? |
| Posted: 13 Jul 2016 09:15 AM PDT I'm done trying to "fix my wife" and "fix myself". I'm convinced that I can't do this even with counseling due to the limited amount of time we have. That said, with the little bit of time I do have, what can I do to reignite the spark between my wife and I if I choose to do all the work and not depend on her to reciprocate? What works? What doesn't? |
| Question: Would you be cool with this? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 08:56 AM PDT Would you be cool with your girlfriends ex husband hanging out at her house while you aren't there? (They share kids together and he comes by to see his kids. he sits on her couch plays video games and eats the food in her fridge and waits until she gets home from work so he always runs into her and sometimes they have dinner together) would you be cool with that? |
| Question: My husband of 15 years just revealed he's been cheating the whole time what should I do? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 08:44 AM PDT We've been thru so much and i really love him. But about 3 years ago he started wanting me to do some weird stuff (sleep with black men in front of him, sleep with midgets in the bed next to him, wear a tail, "rim" him nightly for 7 months, and so on for weird fetish stuff but i did it BECAUSE I LOVE HIM). But he broke down one night and told me of several one night stands with his best friend over the years, which hurt. But what hurt more was the fact that he had been sleeping with MY SISTER at work almost daily (they work together thats how we meet). He says he's wiling to get another job and take marriage conseling, should i do it? We never had any kids togehter, he has 2 kids from a previous realtionship but they dont live with us. I;m 31 he's 53 btw |
| Question: Are my feelings being invalidated? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 07:58 AM PDT My fiancé and I just recently had an argument bc my feelings were hurt. He got really mad that I felt that way and told me I shouldn t feel that way. He threatened to leave me and told me he would if I argued with him bc he s doing military training for a couple weeks and needs to stay focused. I tried communicating how I felt, but he completely ignored it and went on like nothing happened. Arguements like this happen occasionally. I feel guilty and emotionally drained. Is it emotional abuse, or am I overreacting? |
| Question: Husband refuses to finish in me? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 07:45 AM PDT We've been married about 2 years now and dated about 8 years before that. We started using condoms but when we got engaged I decided he can just pull out which he did then right before I got married I started taking the pill but he said he's never going to finish in me cause he's nervous if I ever become pregnant. I told him it's fine and it sure as hell is a better bet then not using bc at all. The porn shots are fun and I don't mind the mess and it's hot but I've ever got to experience what his load feels like deep in my vagina. He won't get fixed either because he's scared of surgeries. What can I do aside drug him or get him so drunk he will accidently just forget to pull out? never using condoms. Condoms are not meant for married people and they hurt and suck. He hates them also! |
| Posted: 13 Jul 2016 07:04 AM PDT Just looking for a reality check. Based on the answers I'm getting, this seems to be the root of my problem. |
| Posted: 13 Jul 2016 06:35 AM PDT Older children but not out of the home children. Like teens or tweens age but still not old enough to be left home alone due to maturity issues. |
| Question: Why do we ladies only like for men to treat us like crap? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 06:29 AM PDT is that why marriage is a myth, and there are no good men? |
| Question: Does sex before marriage work? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 06:25 AM PDT Are there people out there who have saved themselves before marriage or have tried to after loosing virginity? If so do you still find yourselves compatible with each other? Was it the best decision? |
| Posted: 13 Jul 2016 06:02 AM PDT So when he emotionally abuses me, it's usually at random times. For example, today I came home from furniture shopping and we were in the mist of putting everything together and then he takes a look at the house and says why is this place A ******* mess just all the time you don't do **** . And in fact I do do **** like I do the laundry I clean the dishes I fold clothes And I cook for him. he always finds a way to put me down or make me feel like I'm garbage and honestly it makes me very sad because he's my husband. He makes remarks like I don't know why I married you you're such a bumm. Which I am not a bumm because I work Monday through Friday. I just don't know what to do with a guy who always puts me down, more so my husband, I just don't know how to react other than being sad or crying or making fun of him back. I don't know how to make him appreciate me more because I'm doing the best I can do as being a wife, it's my first time being a wife and he makes me feel like I'm doing a horrible job which in turn makes me feel horrible inside . Then he changes his mood really quick once he notices that I'm upset and says to me, baby you know I was just kidding. Then he goes and does it again and again and his excuse is he's just kidding. He always snaps on me angrily, yells at me , Puts me down and I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel myself falling out of love with him. I still love him just it's slowly fading away every time he makes me sad with his harsh words. |
| Question: Why do we ladies only like for men to treat us like crap? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 04:31 AM PDT is that why marriage is a myth, and there are no good men? |
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| Question: I feel used and mistreated.? Posted: 13 Jul 2016 03:54 AM PDT I am currently in a 6 year marriage with a man who has controlling issues, a hoarding problem and seems to enjoy making my life a living hell, all I do is clean, cook, and make sure he has clean laundry with no assistance from him what so ever. I have to transport the laundry bag on my shoulder with two children by my side because they're too young to stay in the apartment by themselves. I am growing very tiresome of doing the same routine and get nothing but dirty underwear thrown in my face and I'm tired of going to the Laundromat washing clothes every week, I tire of taking care of this mans needs and pushing mine aside, I'm so tired of living in a dame 550 Sq Ft one bedroom apartment with this cheap bastard and two children, I am tired of cleaning up and all he does and mess up, he brings some much unnecessary food that just goes to waste because there's no room to put anything boxes of old cereal lying around, old stuffed shells from the year 1995 still in the deep freezer because he doesn't want to grow anything away but yet he wants me to clean up and cook when I can barely stand in front of the stove. I am presently about to force myself and the out of his life because we were already threatened with child services by the super who is growing tired of my husband living life a pig and not caring about the other tenants who are also complaining about a bad smell coming from our apartment. I hate to take the kids from their father, but I have to do what's best. |
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| Question: Is my marriage ending? Posted: 12 Jul 2016 10:09 PM PDT Been together 6 yrs lived together 5 been married for 2 years. And I am feeling really ignored. We haven t celebrated an anniversary in so long. He makes comments about my weight gain (health reasons). Has told me that my health issues are just all in my head that I m not actually sick. That depression and anxiety doesn t really exist. He is hard to talk to anymore. He is always right. And when we have time together away from everyone he would rather stay on his phone. We have no kids together but he continues to tell me he doesn t want anymore kids, or that he doesn t think I can handle a baby, etc. |
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