I've been babysitting my 11 year old cousin since school ended and she always locks herself in the guest room for the entire day and only comes out to eat. She kind of an introvert so I didn't mind but today I kept hearing like a knocking sound coming from the guest room so I went to check what it was. I unlocked the door and saw her grinding on the edge of the bed while watching porn on her phone. I kind of froze and watched her not knowing what to do. I could hear the moaning from the porn she was watching because the volume was so loud. She didn't see or hear me so I just walked out. I don't know if I should confront her about it because I don't want to embarrass her. I masturbate occasionally so it's not like I'm gonna judge her I just don't know what to say/do???

im 13 years old my uncle is like 45 i think and my uncle and i always been real close and he takes me out for icecream all the time and its kinda embarasing but we do kiss and touch lots lol but my parents dont know about this so i feel guilty and my uncle said hes gonna marry me and take me away someday but idk what if hes lying what do i do

So I'm 20 and I still live at home only because finding a job hasn't been easy. Trust me I've been looking everywhere. But my problem is I have 2 twin sisters that also live at home their 13 going on 18 lol lol they think their grown. Now my other problem is we have chores in the house (dishes, trash, vacuum, etc..) but my mom expects me to do most of them. I get that the twins are in school but when I WAS working I did the chores. All I'm saying is I've been doing the dishes since I was 10 (I'm about to be 21) why can't I just do less and let them take over like my sisters made me do lol I shouldn't still be yelled at for not doing chores when I'm trying to find a job and move out. Now don't get the wrong idea I'm very neat clean up after myself I'm not the sloppy (still at home adult) lol lol so I'm asking do you think it's fair that I still have to do more chores and they barely do anything? Becuz 1. I'm grown and 2. I'm trying to save money and move out

Okay so my birthday was a week ago and all I wanted was a bunny and I didn t get one because my mom wouldn t let me. So I go out of town for a a couple days and I come home today and my older sister had gotten a bunny while I was gone. She said we could "share" and it s "my" birthday present but it s in her room. And she NEVER even wanted one in the first place. This is so annoying. What should I do?

My boyfriend of almost a year has some family issues. His parents are divorced, his mums a drug addict, his dad runs a business so is constantly busy, his sister lives in Australia and they don't talk to each other at all. Whereas my family is quite close. I've started noticing that he calls my parents "mum" and "dad" , he's desperate for a proper family; especially a mum. But although my mum wants to support him and make sure we're happy together she already has three children and she doesn't want my boyfriend to turn into a fourth. How do I tell him this without hurting him and him thinking that they don't like him/ don't want anything to do with him. I know he's getting more and more settled in my family and truly hopes he can be a part of it, I don't want him to keep getting his hopes up when in reality he will never be my parents son, he is my boyfriend so will be part of my family but he isn't ever going to have a proper mum and sadly neither I or my family can give that to him. But how do I tell him?

I 1st told this guy I know that I wanted to hang out (we're not friends) and he said I'm busy with family things for a few days but let's hang out :) talk to you soon. I waited a month, he finally messaged but didn't mention meeting and I didn't either. So days later i said hi :) let me know if u want to meet. He said hi ;p definitely. But I don't get it cause he got my number and he 1st asked me to meet him when we first met, he texts emojis if I use them, he'll often likes my FB pics, replies to my texts quickly, and sometimes texts 1st. So why is he lying to me?

grew up under a lot of stress, with a bipolar mother at home and no father figure around. It was just me, my mom and my half-brother, who is 7 years younger than me. I can't explain exactly why I did it, but through counseling I am much closer to understanding it. The fact is I grew up taking out all of my frustrations on my little brother, and that means I used to hit him a lot. I'd hit him with a belt, hit him in the head, kick him... He was covered with bruises on regular basis. That happened since he was 5 years old until he was around 9. I stopped it because I got into serious trouble at school, and they made me see a therapist, and I can tell you this saved me from ruining my life with poor choices. Still, I feel sick inside knowing I hurt my little brother so much. I came clean to my mother and she kicked me out. I lived with my grandmother for a while before getting a place with some friends. I think the only reason she didn't report me was because I was a minor and she was also afraid they would take my brother away from her, because she didn't notice in time what was going on. He's 12 now, I'm 19. He's also getting some help from a counsellor. I wish I could talk to him, so that I could in some meager, insufficient, way I could apologize. My mother told me she will call the cops on me if I go near him. Is there anything I can do? I want to show him I've changed and want him to be my brother. I'm just really really sorry

Here is my situation. My mom died and i lived with my dad, my dad was abusive so my aunt took my brother and I in. At that point I was 15, so I've lived with her for 3 years. Now I live at home with them, I don't pay for any of my expenses and I watch my little brother all day. This balances out financially, because if I wasn't there my aunt would need to get a nanny, which is expensive. I go to college, I come home and cook dinner every night and help him with his homework and do my own. Here's why I want to move out. She still won't let me spend time with my friends unless there's a parent around when means I basically never see my friends, she makes up rules like keeping the doors open, I have to be downstairs from 8pm-9pm, I have to only park the car in end spots, and every single day she comes home from work I get yelled at for the kitchen not being sparkling clean or something else. I dread her coming home because of how unpleasant she is to be around. Lastly, I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years and she bans me from seeing her as well. So, I want to move out for my freedom and sanity. But, I feel like I owe her for taking my brother and I in for 3 years, I don't want to abandon my little brother, it would put a strain on my relationship with my entire family, she would have to pay for a nanny, and I'm sure she would feel betrayed and would never speak to me again. All of my friends tell me to just do it and move out, but I need outside opinions. What do I do?

im 17 at the moment turning 18 in a few months i dont know how to drive. i cant get a job. and i live in the middle of no where. what do i do after graduation. i want to move out as soon as i graduate in the next year. because my parents are terrible. but i dont know how to start my life. i have nothing helping me. my grades suck so i cant get a scholarship. i feel stranded because my parents wont help me. ive ask them tons of time to let me drive but i cant until i move out. and i cant get a job until i move out. how am i suposed to start my life if i cant do anything yet? any ideas or thing that may help?

I gave her the "silent treatment" for two weeks I didnt know that is what it is called I honestly was just ignoring her. During the first day she said that I ha dni electronic use until I was ready to talk. O got caught on my ipad and I'm grounded for a month. Can she not just respect that I dont want to talk?

I am so sick of my dads girlfriend, she is always up my dads ***, always in his money, trying to watch how much he makes, how much he spends, or even gives to me. Shes always in me and my fathers buisness, for example if iam trying to ask him something or just have a conversation she will sit right there to listen or even bud in. She puts on the BIGGEST show when we are at, or have family get togethers, she always tries to be the center of attention and tries to make it seem like her and my father are married. Shes extremely dissrespectful to me, when it comes to me cleaning the house, she messes right back up, shes at our house FAITHFULLY, eating all of our food. My mother passed when i was 7, and i have no siblings so i try to keep a good realationship with my father but we cant because something so little as a grocery store visit becomes a group trip. She walks in my house and doesnt speak, its like iam not even there. She thinks she has a higher place than what she has and i have caught her telling people that she is my step mother. She goes through my fathers mail and ive caught her looking through mine, which caused me to have a heated discussion with my father. She has also thrown away a picture of my deceased mother and wont admit to it, and it takes so much out of me to not beat her *** about it. And there is so much more. I cant deal with it, she has to go. What do i do?

My cousins on my Dad's side get together every Sunday night at my grandmothers. My sister and I are the only exceptions as my mother moved away with us after she divorced our Dad. Since they are all so close I worry they will think less of me since they only see me once a year in the summer (sometimes Thanksgiving also). So will they think of me as a 2nd tier relative?

They don't give him money but they give him other things he asks for.

Hello, I am in need of some opinions regarding an issue and what is best going forward in dealing with it. I am a 25 year old male originally from Germany, but lived most of my life in the US. I have a male roommate, who is 22. We have been roommates for a little under six months now and have been living together in a two bedroom apartment, which under most circumstances, has been relatively fine. The only issue I am having, is he is a very promiscuous person and extremely open about his homosexuality. I do not mind that he is interested in the same sex and I accept him for exactly who he is, but the issue is, he is always bringing home different men on a regular basis that he meets off the streets or in clubs and the sexual relations they have, can be heard from my room. I have to get up around two in the morning for work and most nights are spent wide awake hearing my roommate have relations. I know he is an adult who makes his own decisions, but his decisions are affecting not only me, but my concern for him as well. I cannot sleep, he is not being safe, and we always have men in our apartment he barely knows and I don't even know. They are too loud and we have even got complaints from others in the building, who have caught my roommate on several occasions, nearly having sex or being too loud in the hallways. I love my roommate and he is a wonderful person with a great, open personality, but his lifestyle is very difficult to deal with and I need help (without leaving).

So, my parents are ******* horrible. They sent my sister to live with my aunt (SHE WAS THE NICEST PERSON EVER..) Because she was "cutting wires" when NO my cat was chewing them. Now she's gone so I am afraid my cat will chew things and it will look like I am cutting them to be like her or because I am mad, so I have no idea what to do. If that happens, I know they will take me away from all my friends, they will take my things, hurt me, and blah blah blah.. I love them don't get me wrong, but they are not good people otherwise being my parents and believe the gayest ****. :/ I don't know.. Should I get rid of the cat? If so.. how? My future and life is at stake here..I know this sounds really weird but honestly its true

They have what I look for: tired eyes, dad jeans, constant 5'o clock shadow because they don't have time to shave properly, cologne that you can smell miles away, and I love how their hands are sticky because they constantly have to clean up after their ugly kid. Oh how I love dads. Are there any dads out there?

She is the most toxic person in my life and i feel as if its my fault even though she is the one always starting something.We live under the same roof and i cant deal with her negativity.What to do?Im not 18 yet. We're good now after the argument.

I saved up money for my rent because I am moving out of a very abusive household... my mom and dad do drugs and they always take my stuff. However, the other day, they went in my room, took all of my bank info, and withdrew every last penny I have :( My parents are kicking me out anyway, I can't drive anywhere to get a job because they sold my car (it was under their name since I was not old enough to buy it using my credit), and there is no rent protection I can do :( I need $700 in a few weeks, and I cant really travel anywhere to get it. I tried applying for credit cards (Im getting the money by the time its too late), and I got denied for all of them for various reasons. My anxiety is shooting through the roof, and I need help :( I need any bit of help. Im only an 18 year old girl I cant be on the streets. SOS please help :( thank you.

We're 30 and they still want to do their family traditions. We just had a baby and want to start our own. But it happens to be an issue with the rest of the family to which I don't understand. Happy-2- I don't think you understood the question. My question is "when did you start your family traditions". Stating that they have an issue is not me taking sides. It's a fact. You sound like my mother in law because everything I say to her she takes as a complaint that she has to sh*it on, when in actuality it's just a totally true statement. It must be hard living a cynics dream.

So this morning around 10:45 my dad said lets go get something to eat for lunch. Well I told him I want to eat something for breakfast. He said well that's to bad. That hurt my feelings I just thought that was mean. It's like well it's what ever I want to do and you have no say in it. And before anyone asks why don't you just move in well I have no where to go. And I don't want to get a job while I'm in high school and have to deal with homework and working a job till 11:00 at night trust me my friends have had to work that late on school nights then they couldn't stay awake at school. I just want some opinions on this thank you so much.

Yesterday my parents said I was acting unacceptable and i was being very selfish even though i wasn't, then they took my ipad and iphone off me for two weeks, insist i wash up everyday and go to sleep at 9 oclock. I ask questions and say please and they moan saying I did not say please. I do things and they constantly moan. I feel like every night we have a argument and everynight they say i'm selfish. I have a positive attitude towards school and they even admitted that but apparently I've got a bad attitude towards them.I would not say I had a bad attitude towards them but frequently they annoy and upset me so I get very irritated. They look through my phone and constantly think I'm up too no good. On my birthday a random bruise appeared on my forehead and they thought it was someone at school, i told them no but they insisted saying it was and eventually making me cry threatening to call the school because i was being bullied for a few days and they thought it was them. They do not let me hang out with my friends out of school and only when it's suitable for them, sometimes they cancel sleepovers saying I can't make it. They are very overprotective and I feel like I can't do anything that the other 15 years old do. I can't even wear makeup, i asked for some for my birthday and they said no, Please help! P.S i have better time at school then i do at home

So my dad has two kids, me and my 11 year old brother with autism and my stepbrother is almost and I'm 14. My stepbrother is a huge kid, like 6 feet and 190 pounds so he always thinks he is good at every sport and acts so cocky and it's so annoying and then when my dad isn't home he disrespects my step mom and she does nothing and he messes with my brother and he also is spoiled and gets whatever he wants all the time and does no work for it and it just pisses me off all the time

I notice everyone around me that show love to their parents, sibling and friends differently than I do . If someone is in a bad situation from my siblings I don't know how to comfort them or speak to them. Even my parents, I can never say I love you, or anything like that. I don't know why? I just feel weird about it. Anyone the same way?

Hello, my name is Jonathan and I am a 25 year old male. I live in a three bedroom apartment with my girlfriend (24) and a good friend of mine (male; 23) and his boyfriend (25). My friend is an extremely kind-hearted person, with a personality made of gold, but his boyfriend is a complete A****** to him and I am beginning to become worried about the way he is being treated and the effects it might be having on him. This guy won't allow him to communicate with his family (who were morons anyways, but besides the point). He can't have friends, or cellphones, or use the internet. His boyfriend has to know where he is 24/7 and if he goes anywhere without his boyfriend knowing, the guy gets p***** off. The other night he went to the store to get some medicine and the guy literally yelled in his face, spanked him, and then to follow him around the rest of the night. The guy calls him a sl** and a w****. My friend doesn't like sex, but the guy will force it on his anyways. The police have been called to our apartment because he threatened my friend with a knife and has actually physically carved his name into my friends stomach (he went to jail for it, but my friend went right back to him when he got out) and the guy has these episodes of just complete rage when my friend tries to speak his mind. He refuses to leave the guy, the police can't help because he won't press charges, and he won't listen to my please for him. What can I do to open his mind that this guy is a danger to him?

I 1st told this guy I know that I wanted to hang out (we're not friends) and he said I'm busy with family things for a few days but let's hang out :) talk to you soon. I waited a month, he finally messaged but didn't mention meeting and I didn't either. So days later i said hi :) let me know if u want to meet. He said hi ;p definitely. But I don't get it cause he got my number and he 1st asked me to meet him, he texts emojis if I use them, he'll often likes my FB pics, replies to my texts quickly, and sometimes texts 1st. Is he stringing me along or interested?

I didnt want to get into detail about my life but I guess I have to so I can avoid flame post. Yes I'm 24 female and live with mom, I have a severe personality disorder and could not attend school fully until recently . I do have a job pay bills. Everything I can possibly do to keep the house running. Im planning on going back to school so I can have a better job. What is so harmful and lazy about this

Ok I order some Clark wallabees low beeswax . I got them in men size 9 1/2 but I wear a size 11 in women do you think they will fit right or they gonna be a little extra room and do u think I should get the hi tops one or the cream color ones I'm just lost help please http://www.clarksusa.com/us/originals/originals-shoes/originals-mens/originals-mens-shoes/Wallabee-Beeswax-Leather/p/26103602

Although she is fat she tells her daughter she is fat.She tells her that she wants her to get a divorce with her husband.She calls her a slut although she has never had sex .She asks her not to wear tight clothes at home.The father is mostly outside the house and believes the mother that the daughter is a monster.What to do in this case?Is no contact a clever option?

I met this new girl and like her much, and want it to take it a step further. I recently got out of college and trying to save for an apartment so at home still. She also lives with her parents. We talked awhile back and we want to do it asap but it has been a burden where to do it. I'm in Mass. in the city and there is no where to go. Her parents won't let her stay over anyones house even though she's 23 so a cheap hotel is out of the question and my parents have rules. Even though I pay them rent I have to have my bedroom door open at all times. Even though I bought condoms and what a waste of money so far. I'm never going to loose my virginity or ever get laid. I can't get a good job that pays well and unless I move to far out which don't want to do. We tried doing it in her car but before I could remove one article of clothing a cop from nowhere came up to us and we were parked in empty parking lot so don't want to try it again or get arrested. Her parents said last weekend I guess my gf got mad at them and she wanted to do it last weekend but we can't now if we wanted to because she's on her dumb period. When I was over there they said fine, you can do it here but I want the bedroom door open at all times and they were going to check in to see if I was doing it safely. So my choices are to just wait and move out which will take a year the rate I'm going as my own parents won't help me with anything or go ahead and try it at her parents place. What should I do?

I'm 15. I think there's some kind of notion surrounding parents that everything they do is right, but really...? She gets mad over the SMALLEST things. A lot of the time, I genuinely feel as though she wants to fight/argue. A sock on the floor? She goes berserk. She literally screamed at me ''everything I do for you, and you treat me like a maid!?'' It took like 0.5 seconds for me to pick up the sock. Then, I got her a birthday present (pair of earrings) and when she looked at them she said ''I can't believe you wasted money on these. They look so fake.'' I was absolutely humiliated. I guess I'd expected her to be slightly appreciative that I'd gotten her a gift. When she got into an argument with my sister (and honestly? I can tell who's in the wrong, and my mom was) I said ''maybe you should listen to what she says a little more.'' She looked straight at me and said ''sometimes I wonder if i made the right decision having you.'' That really hurt. Somehow, even if I'm not involved in the argument, I'm somehow still the one that gets the blame. Most of the time, I go downstairs with a book to cool down. I feel like that's a better alternative to worsening an argument. But I can't even do that? She literally comes downstairs and calls me childish (apparently she thinks I'm holding a grudge against her, when in reality I'm just trying to avoid another argument). I'm at a loss. Now, I love my mother very much. I hope she loves me too. But I can't handle this?

Fathers act like all teenage boys are bad and that the only thing they care about is sex and that they're going to get their daughters drunk and pregnant. Why don't they just trust their daughters and their boyfriends? When it comes to their sons, they're PROUD when they have a girlfriend. But when it's the other way around they go crazy and overprotective. And don't say, "Because their daughters have a risk of getting pregnant and their sons can't." That isn't an excuse. The fact that their daughters could get pregnant isn't a factor in this. Not ALL guys care about sex. Some guys just want to go on dates and have fun. That doesn't deserve threats from angry fathers like, "Don't mess around with my little girl or else." I know it is good to have someone worried and looking out for you, but this is unneeded. "They know what guys are thinking." Like I said, not ALL guys care about sex.

Me and my boyfriend (the father of my son) broke up recently, now i'm a single mother and I don't have a job, I can't get a job because I do not have a babysitter. My family is all too busy, and his family can't even take care of themselves so they are not an option. I have zero income. I am now living with my mothers ex boyfriend because it was the only place I could go. I use to live with him and my mother so ive lived here before. Anyway, he can't help me much either because he is always working. I cant stay here for a very long time. I have no idea what to do. My son is 7 months old. Does anyone know what I should do in my case? And he is letting my drive his old truck, but it is not mine. So I temporarily have a vehicle. But when I move out I won't have a vehicle.

Sorry for the Sound of Music reference. But I really need somebody strict telling me what to do all the time. I don't know what to do most of the time and I end up not being responsible when I'm left alone. I have summer homework and I haven't started on that. I haven't played my oboe in a few days, on and on and on. Last year, I spent my summer at my uncle's, and I was treated the same way my cousins were treated. What I found was that while I did test the boundaries from time to time and I hated bedtime and all that, I respond very well to strict, authoritarian discipline. I respond well to orders and I end up doing a lot more with my life than when I'm left to do whatever I want to do. This year I'm staying home by myself with my older brother who frankly doesn't care about what I do--he just makes me food and plays video games and hangs out with friends. He's not strict at all. I can't control myself and get work done if there's no one scary making me do work. Going to my uncle's this summer is not an option and my brother is hardly an adult figure in my life... so... ://

I'm always telling lies, white lies but still lies that my parents and siblings do not appreciate. I swear a lot on instinct, I can't seem to stop myself. I always do my work unsatisfactorily and my parents are not impressed. I don't want to be so... naughty. I hate it when people call me that word but I know it's true. I want to be well behaved like my older brother and younger sister. I don't want to be reprimanded almost every week for something bad I did. What can I do to make myself behave? I just can't seem to...

My biological grandma is very negative and is a recluse. She will even tell me that she always thinks of the most negative things about a person or situation. I told her that my mother in law, Cindy shows my kids (grandkids) 0 attention and she comes up w/reasons to not visit with me/us. My grandmother said "Cant you get the hint that Cindy doesn't like you? Why do you throw yourselves at those people who are trying to kindly tell you they could care less about you?!" So, I texted Cindy and told her that I am sorry that I have repeatedly tried to have a relationship with her and that my grandma told me that I need to get the hint that she can't stand me and prefers her teen son's girlfriends over me. My mother in law (cindy) kept denying this and saying that my grandma doesn't know her and doesn't know what the heck she is even talking about. She kept saying that because they live over and hour away and she doesn't keep her phone on her 24/7 I feel I am burdening her by texting or calling. My grandma just says that my MIL is trying to be nice but she really can't stand me. My husband claims his mother isn't a liar and she would "tell him" if my grandma was right (his mom dislikes me). Cindy will also come up w/excuses (I feel) to spend time w/her teen boys (one of which can drive) for sports, to pack their overnight bags (they are old enough to do this themselves, etc). She then goes and says my family dislike her and exclude her. Who's right?

I am really close to my brother in law and I see him like a big brother I never had (biological older brother was a jerk my whole life). I really want to have him walk me since my father was a jerk my whole life too. I was never really close to him. My brother in law has been there for me through my depression and anxiety, thick and thin since I was 12. I want to honor him. This is a good honor right? Him and I talked about it vaguely before like he mentioned it but I haven t asked him formally yet. Is it innapropriate? I wanted to slow dance to Save Me Once Again by the Rasmus since he dedicated that song to be before. Thought??

I know it's crazy because I'm 22 years old, and it shouldn't matter. My dad has extreme anger issues. He explodes for anything he's hearing that he doesn't like. I want to go to Disneyland with my boyfriend of 1 year and a half and his sister and her husband. My dad knows who they are, knows they aren't bad people. I only live 4 hours away from Disney so it's not that far and it's only for 2 nights. I'm not supposed to know but my mom has told me that my dad has told her that he doesn't want me to go on a trip with my boyfriend because then I'll realize how much more fun I'll have with him and then I'll want to move out. I can't move out because I don't have the funds yet to move out, but that's a crazy reason to not want someone to go on a trip. I'm technically allowed to do whatever I want, but how do I tell him about this trip without him being so angry at me? I don't even know where to start.

I want an older brother in like their 20s please I'm'm a guy. If you wanna be my brother please email me at dewchebag@gmail.com. thAnka you

She sucks at taking care of her kid she's pregnant again she visits a lot she's disrespectful to our parents she's angry and she doesn't try to calm her kid down she just states athat her phone she's 20 I hate girls cause of her I hate ***** attitudes I never want a girlfriend I turned gay even though I don't like penis

My 18-year-old sister came to live with me after mum left town with our stepdad. She didn't want to move so she came here. She lived her for 5 months before i kicked her out. For the first few months all was quiet, but for last month, she threw a lot of parties, including at nights where people have to go sleep to go to work or school. Last Wednesday night, she threw yet again another party and I kicked all her friends/guests out and made her go to bed. But before she did I said, "If you throw one more party, the next thing that will be thrown is you onto the street." But she didn't listen, she threw a party Saturday night while I was at my best friend's house celebrating her birthday. When I came back, I was furious. I kicked all her friends out and ordered her to bed. The next day she went out with friends and while she was out I packed all her things and when she came back, I threw her belongings at her and threw her out into the street. She begged and pleaded for another chance, but I said she had enough chances. On Monday afternoon, a couple of her friends came up to me. One friend said, "Who do you think you are, kicking your sister out like that?" The other friend said I should be ashamed of myself. This morning, mum phoned me to yell at me for kicking my sister out. She said, "She's sleeping rough on the streets and it's all your fault." She also said that I'm an embarrassment to the family. Is she right to be angry with me? Was I wrong to kick my sister out?

Sometimes I play games and I stay up (keep in mind it IS Summer, a lot of kids like me stay up) watching movies or something similar. Then she calls me when i get up to use the bathroom and tells me to go to sleep? I tell her I was using the bathroom but she doesn't believe me. I also use her PayPal to receive money and use money THAT I EARNED, and when I do use it she gets extremely mad and tells me to stop using it. Like its my own money I earned? It's like saying you can't use money that you earned from your own job.

At home he always comes to my room lays on my bed and says "hey I have a question", I'm like "yeah?", he just asks a simple question like "what are those Japanese gate things?", "Called Kami Gates", "why are you here?" "I'm here getting a new passport." "what's a cooler animal? tiger or a bear?" "opinionated" "than what's your opinion?" "tigers". One day I tried ignoring him and he starting slamming my table repeatedly, I'm like the "hell is wrong with you", he responds with "YOU DON'T KNOW ME". He treats my mom like crap. My mom told him to eat his vegetables I guess out of habit from when we were children. He screams "mom. Mom. MOM. YOU TOLD ME THAT ALREADY". One day when it was just my mom and my brother at the house, I come in and my moms dialing 911 on my brother. I stop the fight and ask what's going on? Mom says oldest brother beat me, he responds with "WHAT mom don't, it was a joke". Today he walked into my room and asked "Are you like a robot? if I opened you up would there be batteries or circuits inside of you?" I just responded with "Nah". I was thinking "What the hell?" He smiled and said "You're a robot", "Nah get out I'm working", laughs and says "You're definitely a robot". I'm just thinking. He's a 24 year old hair awful smelling obese college student that does nothing but watch anime, play games, and annoys his parents and siblings. He accepts his flaws and embraces them. He thinks it "describes who he is". He might have aspergers or something

So, it all begins when my mom decide us to put us to my grandparents house because no one will take care of us because my mom started to do some real state kinda thing and my dad agrees, so they put us in here, in first, there is no problem.They are cool and good to us, but as time goes by, my grandma usually scold us and my half-sister's son always bully me in my sister. But even I said him to them, they will just defend him, and my half-sister beats me up when she's angry to me even though I was sometimes just blamed and I usually make some little mistakes. And they say things and call us names and they always scold us and now I am emotionally traumatized even my young sister. And my mom started notice it and this is the time where they started to fight, my mom versus the 2 of them, and they always fight and there is the point that they fight each other physically but luckily, the neighbors help to restrain them. And my mom say this to my father who is in another country but he doesn't believe on us. And we need to stay here for like one year because I'm a scholar and I need to pay a really large price to be able to transfer in another school, and my family is saving now. And now, I feel like **** and don't know what to do, because my mom and dad is fighting because of this and my dad and mom is saying that they will go divorce. And my mom said because they do this to us, she will say this to the supreme court because she is working to the goverment here in Philippines and The goverment in here said to here that she can get any land in here and she will say to get my grandma and half-sisters land and after that, they will no home to go and they will be homeless, and she will do this after she goes to Manila (Capital of the Philippines) and I can't understand it because its really complicated but I think she works for the goverment and I think my family is really f*cked. Please help!

The past year my dad has changed a lot. He is alwasy angry about something. Nothing pleases him, every little thing bothers him. He doesnt do anything around the house anymore. He is almost 62 by the way. He has an irrational hate for my moms family. To my knowledge and hers they have never done anything to him but he constanly talks ill of them and curses them to my moms face. He has something negative to say about everyone. According to him he says "i dont care about what anyone has to say or think about me." He is constantly threatning my mom that he is just going to leave, he is always accusing her of cheating and ia always asking her who she is texting. My mom is really close to her family and texts or talks to them frequently and that seems to really bother him more than anything. She never complains about him to her family though. My parents grew up poor and ignorant my dad had a rough childhood. He had to quit school in 5th grade to work and help support his family because my grandpa left. Ilhe never speaks about him and i know he resents him. Heck ive never even met my grandfather. How can i help my fmdad. He is so stubborn too. Hes only content when he is sitting doing nothing and drinking a beer. I also feel bad for my mom gaving to put up with all the lack of respect he has for her. She works a full time job and is a traditional wife, cooks, cleans. Help me please

Lately, I've really been concerned that my mother is having an affair. We have the "Find my iPhone" feature connected to all of my family members phones, and my mom is always at one of her "friends" houses. Sometimes she shuts off her location services, and claims she doesn't do it manually or herself. Even when her location services are on, she has excuses lined up for why she's at this mans house. She says they are just really good friends, and they love to hang out together. My parents have been planning on getting divorced for a while now, and my parents aren't sleeping in the same bed, and obviously aren't having sex. Every time I ask her why she hangs with this man so much she gets super super defensive, and calls me a "stalker" for always tracking her on the app. And just as a side note that might be completely unrelated or irrelevant, but my mom also has been grooming herself more. She's been shaving her legs for example, which she usually never has time to do, because she's a doctor at a hospital. Do y'all think my mom is having an affair based on the evidence. If yes, how do I confront her and ask her without pissing her off? Then how do I move on? Thanks.

So my mom told me she wasn't going to speak to me for two days on the phone because I wouldn't go with her to work because my hair wasn't done. And I stayed home and she called me to tell me she wasn't going to speak to me I got so upset that I threw my phone against the wall so hard it cracked really badly do I need help????

Let me just say everything I have, my dad bought me. My mom doesn't work because she's sick. She hasn't had a job in about 20 years so she hasn't bought me anything. Okay so whenever my mom gets mad at she'll take my and look through. I always request to her that she can't do that because my social media and my emails are under my name and she doesn't have the right to do that. And she says she can do whatever she wants because she bought the phone. I want to tell her so badly that she didn't buy the phone that my father did but I know when to hold my tongue. What do I do? Yes, I am a minor.

1) I don't always cause problems or get angry and throw a tantrum, but when I do, it's because of my parents (mom and stepdad)! 2) They yell at each other and at their little son (my only sibling) who is about to turn five in a couple mouths. Apparently it's okay for a 40-year-old, loud-toned and hot-tempered 200-lb man to yell at him loudly or even spank him hard, but it's not okay for me to raise my voice or mildly yell at the boy, and I'm only about to be an adult in 1.5 years. 3) When my brother was charging his tablet onto my phone charger (the wire is almost broken) and using it, I told him a couple times not to use the tablet or else it'll die or my wire will break, and then I raised my voice slightly to tell him not to use the tablet; my stepdad got worried, I said, "What?" and he thought I was yelling at him. I told my stepdad that I didn't want my brother to break the wire and then he said that I didn't need to yell at him. I told him that he yells at my brother too and he said he's my brother's dad, and that when I have a house and my own kids, I can discipline them whatever the way I want to do it. I also then got mad and yelled, "This house... is gay!" My stepdad then came into my room and then I threw a pair of socks at him (not to his face despite my intention but on the side of his face, not touching the face). He then told me I don't want to stay here and want to go back to my dad's. I then had a talk about this with my mom and my stepdad. 4) In addition to #3, my mom told me let's start off with a brand new day without getting angry or having our moments, and then my stepdad asked me if I ever threw things at my own dad. I told him I never did, but I did last year throw a stack of chips on the floor when he got mad at me for staying up too late (all of my parents allow me to stay up late now; well, my mom and stepdad do allow me right now since I'm on a summer vacation). Cont. with 4) My stepdad told me a couple minutes later that I should never throw a thing at who I call "Dad." Apparently he loves me but I don't think he does at all. He barely loves my brother and he's much, much more strict on him than on me. 5) I also threw a pillow at him last year and got kicked out of his house. 6) In their culture, it is even acceptable for parents to knock out their children's teeth if the kids use too much slang or show too much attitude in front of them. 7) My dad is also strict, but not this strict. Instead he is caring, easily advisable and strict. He just tells me not to do dangerous things such as walking on the main roads (I even did that when he wasn't home) and going to most parties (I'm allowed to go to family parties which are very safe with no drugs or drinking or illegal activities).

I'm going to ******* end my life rn. I'm hiding in an,olive garden bathroom right now embarrassed as ****. So here's what happened... My girlfriends mom wanted some salad and the bowl of it was on the other side of the table from where she was sitting; near me. So she asked if I can give her some, I said yes and proceeded in doing so. I got the salad scooper, she reached out her plate and I accidentally dropped the load of salad all over her huge breasts. I can't ******* believe what the **** I did. ******* please help im so embarrased oh my god