now they want to choose my husband too

He's the only person I have ever had sex with. Before him I was waiting until marriage to have sex. Once I met him, We had sex, but we weren't married. We broke up about 6 months ago. I decided I would not have sex until I am married because it was something I was uncomfortable doing not married. We were supposed to be working on a relationship but after telling him, he is upset and says I am not compromising with him for not even giving oral. Am I wrong?

And exchanged phone numbers?

Why?

Together we make to much on the house hold income guidelines but I wasn t sure how that works since we are not married

If the man is not satisfied with their sex life before the wedding can he expect theire to be an increase in the amount of sex in the period immediately after the wedding? When will it return to what is normal and will it further decrease? Helpful opinions please!

Mom sees her 4 times a month and has been orders to pay child support. Has not seen my step daughter in 2 months.

Update: but I don't love the kid. She won't give in to adoption and my parents will disown me for even thinking about such an option but I really can't take being a parent anymore. I want to go out and party all night and forget everything. What should I do?

I have a long distance relationship with a girl that ive been with for a little over a year now, and she has recently moved. Her mom took her phone so I won t be able to speak to her for over a year and a half. I recently told another girl that i liked her and had immediate regret ever since. but that doesn t make it any less true. I m torn, I don t know, what should i do?

You really love her a lot but she's not into giving oral much at all. Would you marry her? She also has a child with another man.

I'm a guy and I love big breasts. Some people don't like big breasts and prefer small breasts.

When I met my ex wife .. she was a single mother and her son was not living with her , he was living in another states. 5 months after we get together , we had a baby and 8 months after her son joined us ... Since then the relationship has never been the same and has start to crumbled until we split recenlly ... I was 32 when we met and now I'm 37 ... I would love to start dating again but due to my age and the fact that a kid now , I'm losing my confidence on finding someone and also since I was traumatised in the blended family settings who didn't work .. I'm afraid of going for a woman who has a kid anymore , because I want to have a durable and solid family ... I'm looking now for a single girl in her mid 30s but I wonder if it will ever work or I might end up being alone and not have a chance to have the family that I wanted for the rest of my family ... That relationship was a mistake ...and I'm wondering if you think finding a single woman in my condition might be possible ? and the relationship failed mainly because of her son and the mother not taking her responsibility ..

My husband and I recently had our first child. We don't want a second for about 2-3 years. I am on 3 different medications 1.) Lamictal - I have seizures 2.) Vyvanse - I have a very mild case of ADHD (10mg) 3.) brintelex - I've had some bouts of post partum lately I am currently using the Nuva ring as birth control. I've asked my doctors and pharmacist if any of these medications interact the Nuva Ring. I'm told "it depends on the person." My ob isn't of much help. Am I better off getting a non hormonal IUD? Has anyone had experiences with these meds and any type of hormonal contraceptives?

I started taking BC to fix my irregular/ prolonged periods. I had no period on my active pills like expected and when I got to my placebo/sugar pills I didn t have anything the first 3 days. Then on the 4th day I had spotting which is normal, but on the 5th day I got my period but it was very heavy and I also got bad cramps. I know you re supposed to get your period during this week but I thought it was supposed to be lighter with no cramps. I did contact my doctor and she told me to just start my next pack will that stop the heavy bleeding? Is this normal?

Recently, I was put on a slightly higher dosage of birth control. I've had somewhat tender breasts, strange bursts of anxiety, changing emotions, bloating, lack of appetite, nausea, and my breasts have become slightly larger. Is this just the birth control at work, or is it something I need to look into? Thanks!

I got my tongue pierced two saturdays ago. It isn't sore or bothering me unless i flex it or press it against the roof of my mouth. I got it switched to a slightly shorter bar with an acrylic ball on top. It is still a teeny bit swollen around the actual piercing hole. Is that okay? It doesn't throb or anything. But I'm worried.

I got my nose pierced on june 19 and my birthday is on july 22. I want to go to this real small water park by my house. I went there two weeks after i got my nose pierced and i went on Some water slides and it didnt hurt my piercing at all but there is a clif that u can jump off of and i wasnt sure if i could do that after just two weeks because it submerges in the water so should i be able to do everything at the water park after about 5 weeks? Basically is it ok if i put my whole head under water in a chlorinated pool after 5 weeks? Id clean it right after too with non-iodized salt

So I have a problem, I got my nose pierced 4-5 weeks ago, I changed it to early into a hoop and it seemed fine and after I decided to change back to a stud ... So I tried and I couldn t get it in I teared the inside of my nose trying to push as hard as I could until it bled, since now I also have been allergic from the recent stud because the gold plate removed and turned black, now I m using titnium which feels better, I have a constant oozing every 5/10 minutes and it doesn t stop, I ve tried sea salt, tea tree oil, coconut oil, now using TCP? but it also crusts up really bad? What s the best way to look after this? Do I take all the crust off daily or leave it ?

It's like comparing an apple to a birthday cake.... If you took that much energy to move my question, you'd think you'd have the energy to answer my question... If anyone finds this question NOT in Marriage & Divorce, could someone please move it there for me?

Whenever I masterbate, I can only reach climax and full orgasm buy clit stimulation. Keep in mind that I am a virgin, so could that be the problem? But I have friends who are or were virgins and reached orgasm by fingering, so I'm not sure what my problem could be. Even when a guy has fingered me it would sometimes hurt, like a "poke poke poke" sensation, or I just wouldn't get any arose from it. It's actually quite annoying... I want to experience something different instead of just rubbing my clit all the time... Any suggestions or reasons as to why I can't reach orgasm by finger penetration? Thanks for any feedback!

I am 16 days late for my period, I have a sore back, this morning I had a stuffy nose, I have this white discharge coming out of my vagina (Which is also kind of sore?), My boons have gotten bigger to the point I now have stretch marks on them and have gone up a size in bras, I've had this headache for a while, and dizziness that comes and goes, and sometimes I get nausea. But I have taken 6 pregnancy tests and they are all negative, ut still no period and for 2 years I have never been late. boobs* sorry for misspellings

I make $10/hour at my job. I receive 40 hours per week - after taxes I bring home about $330/week ($1,320 per month). I have a car payment, health insurance, phone bills, etc. and my boyfriend (we ve been together for years - don t have the $ to get married) makes a little more than me. How is it that we can t afford to have 2 vehicles and a house? We ve been living with his parents for 2 years and I m so ready to be independent and get married so we can start our life... I just don t understand how other people afford it? I understand they probably make more than I do, but how do I get to where they are?

i am in California

Dont get me wrong, im not a llaze about. I just havnt had a single day off this year that i havnt spent taking care of errands or other life necessities. I just want a day to veg on the couch. Is that too much to ask?

I have been married for over 4 years now, and I do have issues with both insomnia and chronic depression (the insomnia contributes to the depression) meaning that sleep is already a rare and fleeting thing for me yet extremely important for my mental well-being. However over the last year my spouse has had little regard for my need for sleep. It isn't like I sleep the entire day away (though sometimes I wish I could). Regardless of when I go to bed, or how long I've been asleep he will wake me up for various reasons daily. This isn't like he just randomly decides to be sweet and bring me breakfast in bed one day and wakes me up so it doesn't get cold. This is literally every single day for a wide range of excuses regardless of how many times I tell him that I really need to be allowed to sleep. To the point that a few months ago (because it has been happening for a year) I got so fed up with it that I waited until he woke up, told him I really needed sleep and was going to lock the door and not come out until I woke up on my own, and he broke the door lock to wake me up because he, and i quote, "felt incredibly lonely". I love my husband but I really don't know what to do anymore, I NEED sleep and yet I can't seem to get more than 6 hours even on the best days, usually only 4, no matter how many times or ways I try to ask him to let me sleep. TL;DR- husband acts like a puppy with separation anxiety and will not let me sleep more than 4-6 hours a day. inb4- "why not just take sleeping meds?" I do, which honestly only makes the issue worse, yes they allow me to fall asleep when the insomnia would otherwise prevent it, but if you've ever been woken up early while under the effects of sleeping medications you know how incredibly groggy and lethargic it makes you feel. I have attempted to talk to him about it, several times, and I do know why it is he is so heavily attached to me. He is a veteran with PTSD, and I am his rock through everything that did happen so I do understand why he's so attached and yes he is getting treatment for that part. I honestly don't know how well he would handle being entirely alone for a week.